just got a rude awakening that people are more than fake and can use you for their own gain. It's really painful! I still can't believe it!
ever felt like you were alone around a lot of people?
just got a rude awakening that people are more than fake and can use you for their own gain. It's really painful! I still can't believe it! My f
Posted by Alieness
So very often
how did you come out of it?
Youi know it just feels like everyone around me has a hidden agenda over me. Why do people do this ? Why ? I never do this to people!
Posted by AlienessPosted by AquasticI din't say I want to come out of it. It is who I am.Posted by Alieness
So very often
how did you come out of it?click to expand
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I think we are not on the same page here?
I understand what you're talking about. I constantly have the same problem and question the same things! I constantly get fucked over (I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt)
Posted by AquasticWhat happened?
just got a rude awakening that people are more than fake and can use you for their own gain. It's really painful! I still can't believe it!
Synchronicity at its finest! There's definitely something in the air that aquas are feeling this way. For the last one week till now, I'm internally fuming over the fact that people are absolutely disgusting and use others as a means to an end that benefits them.
All around me I see people using others and I feel so alone because I never do that! It actually annoys me to no end when I see people using others to kill time. For example, they jump into a relationship with some new person to get over their ex. The sooner the ex reaches out to them, the sooner the other person is left thinking "wtf did I do?" Or you see people just jumping in with someone who they aren't entirely into to bide time, and the sooner a "better candidate" shows up, they leave the other person.
All around me I see people using others and I feel so alone because I never do that! It actually annoys me to no end when I see people using others to kill time. For example, they jump into a relationship with some new person to get over their ex. The sooner the ex reaches out to them, the sooner the other person is left thinking "wtf did I do?" Or you see people just jumping in with someone who they aren't entirely into to bide time, and the sooner a "better candidate" shows up, they leave the other person.
Posted by aquarius09That's pretty much what happened to me. And more, even my family have been acting strange m starting to get confused and really lonely because of it.
Synchronicity at its finest! There's definitely something in the air that aquas are feeling this way. For the last one week till now, I'm internally fuming over the fact that people are absolutely disgusting and use others as a means to an end that benefits them.
All around me I see people using others and I feel so alone because I never do that! It actually annoys me to no end when I see people using others to kill time. For example, they jump into a relationship with some new person to get over their ex. The sooner the ex reaches out to them, the sooner the other person is left thinking "wtf did I do?" Or you see people just jumping in with someone who they aren't entirely into to bide time, and the sooner a "better candidate" shows up, they leave the other person.
I pray that this phase passes cause it is really eating away my confidence in every person I come across!
I haave found myself having to explain my every word and I hate talking.
Posted by MohiniMy friend have been laughing at me behind my back!Posted by AquasticWhat happened?
just got a rude awakening that people are more than fake and can use you for their own gain. It's really painful! I still can't believe it!click to expand
Posted by AquaviperI have never felt so alone.
I understand what you're talking about. I constantly have the same problem and question the same things! I constantly get fucked over (I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt)
Everybody uses everybody in some way shape or form....it's apart of life.
Now people lacking integrity that claim to be your friends talking negatively about you behind your back is a totally different story.
Now people lacking integrity that claim to be your friends talking negatively about you behind your back is a totally different story.
Posted by starwarsThe friend she was laughing with warned me that I be careful of her cause she said really nusty stuff about me and laughed about serious problems that I told her.and mind u, she seemed to be showing sympathy when I was telling her about my relationship problems little did I know she wud go around laughing about it.Posted by Aquastichow did you know?Posted by MohiniMy friend have been laughing at me behind my back!Posted by AquasticWhat happened?
just got a rude awakening that people are more than fake and can use you for their own gain. It's really painful! I still can't believe it!
id advice you to tell them straight up whats up and get clear answers (dont worry about it being lies, bc u can always spot that once confronted) thats always easier than living in your head and making endless assumption!click to expand
I admit, I use people, but the people I "use" and I are cool and i actually like the person. its just that sometimes, i just feel like i can be alone. like im content being by myself. but sometimes, i need people to look "socially acceptable" so i would group up with the people im "associates" (from my point of view....a friend is someone who i will stay with for the rest of my life til the grave) with when i need to.
I'm sure everyone has had to feel this way at least once.
Anytime I am in a new place, I always feel super shy. It is natural.
Now coming to the point of people, well, move away from such people as fast as you can. Endless baggage of trash will follow otherwise.
Now coming to the point of people, well, move away from such people as fast as you can. Endless baggage of trash will follow otherwise.
Posted by starwarsM not friends with the person she was laughing with , the person could not believe what was said about me since people thought me and the friend in question were really close.Posted by Aquasticare you sure about the in-between friend? tbh, as naive as this might sound, i dont believe what i hear about people whom i trust, i like to make sure first then act upon that.Posted by starwarsThe friend she was laughing with warned me that I be careful of her cause she said really nusty stuff about me and laughed about serious problems that I told her.and mind u, she seemed to be showing sympathy when I was telling her about my relationship problems little did I know she wud go around laughing about it.Posted by Aquastichow did you know?Posted by MohiniMy friend have been laughing at me behind my back!Posted by AquasticWhat happened?
just got a rude awakening that people are more than fake and can use you for their own gain. It's really painful! I still can't believe it!
id advice you to tell them straight up whats up and get clear answers (dont worry about it being lies, bc u can always spot that once confronted) thats always easier than living in your head and making endless assumption!
try to confront her before making assumption and building hatred.
if she turn out innocent, cool.
if not, she will regret it for the rest of her life and you def not the one losing in this situationclick to expand
Posted by starwarsPosted by Aquasticare you sure about the in-between friend? tbh, as naive as this might sound, i dont believe what i hear about people whom i trust, i like to make sure first then act upon that.Posted by starwarsThe friend she was laughing with warned me that I be careful of her cause she said really nusty stuff about me and laughed about serious problems that I told her.and mind u, she seemed to be showing sympathy when I was telling her about my relationship problems little did I know she wud go around laughing about it.Posted by Aquastichow did you know?Posted by MohiniMy friend have been laughing at me behind my back!Posted by AquasticWhat happened?
just got a rude awakening that people are more than fake and can use you for their own gain. It's really painful! I still can't believe it!
id advice you to tell them straight up whats up and get clear answers (dont worry about it being lies, bc u can always spot that once confronted) thats always easier than living in your head and making endless assumption!
try to confront her before making assumption and building hatred.
if she turn out innocent, cool.
if not, she will regret it for the rest of her life and you def not the one losing in this situationclick to expand
Posted by febaqua
Anytime I am in a new place, I always feel super shy. It is natural.
Now coming to the point of people, well, move away from such people as fast as you can. Endless baggage of trash will follow otherwise.
Posted by starwarsShe 's not a stranger she is a colleague who is now friends with my friend. And my friend has been acting very strange around me like she's feeling guilty about something n that's what made me believe the bad news said about me.to confirm the news the person told me really personal things that I would've never discussed with anyone else but the friend in question.
why would you believe a stranger that said something about your friend?
Posted by starwarsI confronting people about here-say situations. I don't have the energy to confront her I was really good and loyal to her and I just can't stand her anymore.I know she is capable of hating on someone while smiling at them pretending to be still friends with you , for I don't know why. I would'nt be the first person she did this to, she does not have a lot of people left in her cycle. She fight with everyone even her family members.
i remember telling someone my friend' personal issue only because i felt as bad as my friend and couldnt think of any solution and wanted to help her, things were almost done between us until she confronted me.
Posted by Aquastic:/ If it's any consolation...I know so many just like us. It's a struggle. All I can say is that when you come to realize you are better than all of the fuck-faces out there, the loneliness will turn into pride for who you are as a great person! If you ever want to talk feel free to message me, I'd be glad to talk 🙂Posted by AquaviperI have never felt so alone.
I understand what you're talking about. I constantly have the same problem and question the same things! I constantly get fucked over (I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt)click to expand
Yes but it just makes it mean a lot more when you make a friend.
Posted by AquaviperThanks hey! Will mos def message u.Posted by Aquastic:/ If it's any consolation...I know so many just like us. It's a struggle. All I can say is that when you come to realize you are better than all of the fuck-faces out there, the loneliness will turn into pride for who you are as a great person! If you ever want to talk feel free to message me, I'd be glad to talk 🙂Posted by AquaviperI have never felt so alone.
I understand what you're talking about. I constantly have the same problem and question the same things! I constantly get fucked over (I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt)click to expand
Posted by starwarsI hear youPosted by Aquastici think you shouldnt jump to the conclusion like that, but at the end its your choice. i wish you a good luck regardlessPosted by starwarsI confronting people about here-say situations. I don't have the energy to confront her I was really good and loyal to her and I just can't stand her anymore.I know she is capable of hating on someone while smiling at them pretending to be still friends with you , for I don't know why. I would'nt be the first person she did this to, she does not have a lot of people left in her cycle. She fight with everyone even her family members.
i remember telling someone my friend' personal issue only because i felt as bad as my friend and couldnt think of any solution and wanted to help her, things were almost done between us until she confronted me.click to expand
Posted by AquasticYes! Have you ever heard Jack's Mannequin - Dark Blue ?
just got a rude awakening that people are more than fake and can use you for their own gain. It's really painful! I still can't believe it! My f
Were you born yesterday? This world has been nastyy like that from the day it was made. Look at how Adam threw Eve under the bus to Cain and Abel to present.
Posted by blessyouAre you a misogynist? Way to fully absolve Adam of any responsibility of that act. God told both of them to not eat it and so both of them are equally guilty. Adam is just being a douche when he said the woman told me to do it. If I was a feminist, I would say that either men are incredibly impressionable and stupid that they do whatever they are told or Adam is a straight insidious loser for ratting Eve out.Posted by aquarius09I know you're a woman but come on now.. Adam threw Eve under the bus? That's the perfect example of a woman's ego being mankind's downfall. She was told not to eat the apples off the tree and the stupid bitch didn't listen. This is also a perfect example of how women thinking they know everything when they need to do more listening but curiosiity kills the cat and now the world is technically the way it is because of Eve but hey.. She defied god and that also ties into Lilith being god's first daughter and she also defied god.. you bitches don't never learn or should I say y'all never listen.. A bitch can literally have God stare at her in her face and tell her don't do this and she'll look at him with the screwed up mouth and tell him, "Who do you think you are?! You don't own me!" and do it and fuck shit up for herself smh
Were you born yesterday? This world has been nastyy like that from the day it was made. Look at how Adam threw Eve under the bus to Cain and Abel to present.click to expand
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