Falling for an aquarius woman

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So, we're both in tour 20's. I met her two years ago when I was in a relationship and so was her. We became friends and one she broke up, got drunk, told me she was jealous of my gf and tried to kiss me, of course I didn't do anything. After that we distanced, until two weeks ago where we got together because of mutual friends, found out she was still single and so am I now... Automatically I felt this connection with her, we got together two days in a row just to talk all night and then partied together with our friends, it felt like a friendship but I started to get mixed signals. For example, we went to a bar and she told me she has always been in love with me and that she can't believe she has me back in my life, 5 seconds later she made up with some guy and then called me friend. She goes one step forward and two back with the flirting and I don't know if she genuinely like me or she's just messing around with me.

I never thought I was going to fall for her because my two exes are Cancer woman, so she's clearly not like them, but something just feels right when we're together and I don't want to mess this friendship up again.
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So, we're both in tour 20's. I met her two years ago when I was in a relationship and so was her. We became friends and one she broke up, got drunk, told me she was jealous of my gf and tried to kiss me, of course I didn't do anything. After that we distanced, until two weeks ago where we got together because of mutual friends, found out she was still single and so am I now... Automatically I felt this connection with her, we got together two days in a row just to talk all night and then partied together with our friends, it felt like a friendship but I started to get mixed signals. For example, we went to a bar and she told me she has always been in love with me and that she can't believe she has me back in my life, 5 seconds later she made up with some guy and then called me friend. She goes one step forward and two back with the flirting and I don't know if she genuinely like me or she's just messing around with me.

I never thought I was going to fall for her because my two exes are Cancer woman, so she's clearly not like them, but something just feels right when we're together and I don't want to mess this friendship up again.


I think she is still on a rebound from her ex...

her behaviour is a classic example of not being over the ex

her telling you all those things is not typical at all, not only for aquas but for anybody who means serious business

if you like her, wait it out

now you are a rebound in my opinion
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So, we're both in tour 20's. I met her two years ago when I was in a relationship and so was her. We became friends and one she broke up, got drunk, told me she was jealous of my gf and tried to kiss me, of course I didn't do anything. After that we distanced, until two weeks ago where we got together because of mutual friends, found out she was still single and so am I now... Automatically I felt this connection with her, we got together two days in a row just to talk all night and then partied together with our friends, it felt like a friendship but I started to get mixed signals. For example, we went to a bar and she told me she has always been in love with me and that she can't believe she has me back in my life, 5 seconds later she made up with some guy and then called me friend. She goes one step forward and two back with the flirting and I don't know if she genuinely like me or she's just messing around with me.

I never thought I was going to fall for her because my two exes are Cancer woman, so she's clearly not like them, but something just feels right when we're together and I don't want to mess this friendship up again.

I think she is still on a rebound from her ex...

her behaviour is a classic example of not being over the ex

her telling you all those things is not typical at all, not only for aquas but for anybody who means serious business

if you like her, wait it out

now you are a rebound in my opinion
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Damn! You say this and don't even know how long shes been single! 😆 Aquas are forever telling someone to give up, even though they need people to stick it out with them. He's gonna be doomed listening to advice to leave her alone 😆
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You're being too slow for her. She told you she liked/loved you and you didn't make a move so she made out with someone else- Aquas don't care when it comes to this type of stuff. If you like her, keep pursuing her and don't give up and keep up contact and bug the hell out of her. She'll love it. But once you slack off with the contact, it's gonna go to hell, Just to warn you 😄
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So, we're both in tour 20's. I met her two years ago when I was in a relationship and so was her. We became friends and one she broke up, got drunk, told me she was jealous of my gf and tried to kiss me, of course I didn't do anything. After that we distanced, until two weeks ago where we got together because of mutual friends, found out she was still single and so am I now... Automatically I felt this connection with her, we got together two days in a row just to talk all night and then partied together with our friends, it felt like a friendship but I started to get mixed signals. For example, we went to a bar and she told me she has always been in love with me and that she can't believe she has me back in my life, 5 seconds later she made up with some guy and then called me friend. She goes one step forward and two back with the flirting and I don't know if she genuinely like me or she's just messing around with me.

I never thought I was going to fall for her because my two exes are Cancer woman, so she's clearly not like them, but something just feels right when we're together and I don't want to mess this friendship up again.

I think she is still on a rebound from her ex...

her behaviour is a classic example of not being over the ex

her telling you all those things is not typical at all, not only for aquas but for anybody who means serious business

if you like her, wait it out

now you are a rebound in my opinion

Damn! You say this and don't even know how long shes been single! 😆 Aquas are forever telling someone to give up, even though they need people to stick it out with them. He's gonna be doomed listening to advice to leave her alone 😆

You’re right! We do want people to stick it out with us, work extra hard/fight for us, bc that’ll show us you care. Aquas I know also don’t usually initiate, at least until we feel like your gonna stick around.
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Believe me I know! It gets tiring chasing after you guys. Sag give up too easily but then back track when we figure out we really like and miss you (Aqua). By then there is too much work involved in winning you back and we give up again. That’s why it’s best to just keep up communication and keep bugging the hell out of you Aquas. Makes life so much easier lol.

But that is also a double edged sword cause Sag get bored with that too lmao. 💔
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So, we're both in tour 20's. I met her two years ago when I was in a relationship and so was her. We became friends and one she broke up, got drunk, told me she was jealous of my gf and tried to kiss me, of course I didn't do anything. After that we distanced, until two weeks ago where we got together because of mutual friends, found out she was still single and so am I now... Automatically I felt this connection with her, we got together two days in a row just to talk all night and then partied together with our friends, it felt like a friendship but I started to get mixed signals. For example, we went to a bar and she told me she has always been in love with me and that she can't believe she has me back in my life, 5 seconds later she made up with some guy and then called me friend. She goes one step forward and two back with the flirting and I don't know if she genuinely like me or she's just messing around with me.

I never thought I was going to fall for her because my two exes are Cancer woman, so she's clearly not like them, but something just feels right when we're together and I don't want to mess this friendship up again.

I think she is still on a rebound from her ex...

her behaviour is a classic example of not being over the ex

her telling you all those things is not typical at all, not only for aquas but for anybody who means serious business

if you like her, wait it out

now you are a rebound in my opinion

Damn! You say this and don't even know how long shes been single! 😆 Aquas are forever telling someone to give up, even though they need people to stick it out with them. He's gonna be doomed listening to advice to leave her alone 😆

You’re right! We do want people to stick it out with us, work extra hard/fight for us, bc that’ll show us you care. Aquas I know also don’t usually initiate, at least until we feel like your gonna stick around.

Believe me I know! It gets tiring chasing after you guys. Sag give up too easily but then back track when we figure out we really like and miss you (Aqua). By then there is too much work involved in winning you back and we give up again. That’s why it’s best to just keep up communication and keep bugging the hell out of you Aquas. Makes life so much easier lol.

But that is also a double edged sword cause Sag get bored with that too lmao. 💔

It is a lot of work to try to get back in our good graces once you leave, sometimes impossible depending on the person. We are extremely stubborn, even when we know we’re being unreasonably stubborn, we still can’t help it. The good thing about aqua though, is once you get past the headache we are the most loyal, caring people, and solid in a relationship.

Just compare us to a tootsie pop 😂how many licks does it takes to get to the center of tootsie roll pop ( once you’re past the hard shell it’s easy to chew) 😂🤦🏽‍♀️
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Yeah, I know what I'm missing out on! 😭
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So, we're both in tour 20's. I met her two years ago when I was in a relationship and so was her. We became friends and one she broke up, got drunk, told me she was jealous of my gf and tried to kiss me, of course I didn't do anything. After that we distanced, until two weeks ago where we got together because of mutual friends, found out she was still single and so am I now... Automatically I felt this connection with her, we got together two days in a row just to talk all night and then partied together with our friends, it felt like a friendship but I started to get mixed signals. For example, we went to a bar and she told me she has always been in love with me and that she can't believe she has me back in my life, 5 seconds later she made up with some guy and then called me friend. She goes one step forward and two back with the flirting and I don't know if she genuinely like me or she's just messing around with me.

I never thought I was going to fall for her because my two exes are Cancer woman, so she's clearly not like them, but something just feels right when we're together and I don't want to mess this friendship up again.

I think she is still on a rebound from her ex...

her behaviour is a classic example of not being over the ex

her telling you all those things is not typical at all, not only for aquas but for anybody who means serious business

if you like her, wait it out

now you are a rebound in my opinion

Damn! You say this and don't even know how long shes been single! 😆 Aquas are forever telling someone to give up, even though they need people to stick it out with them. He's gonna be doomed listening to advice to leave her alone 😆

You’re right! We do want people to stick it out with us, work extra hard/fight for us, bc that’ll show us you care. Aquas I know also don’t usually initiate, at least until we feel like your gonna stick around.

Believe me I know! It gets tiring chasing after you guys. Sag give up too easily but then back track when we figure out we really like and miss you (Aqua). By then there is too much work involved in winning you back and we give up again. That’s why it’s best to just keep up communication and keep bugging the hell out of you Aquas. Makes life so much easier lol.

But that is also a double edged sword cause Sag get bored with that too lmao. 💔

Sag get bored with constant communication ?
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Yeah, just the texting and talking on the phone. In person, never. We can see you everyday and hangout and talk your ear off but once you're out of sight, we are busy with other stuff. The constant check ins impede on our freedom of will. It becomes like a chore.

The issue with Aquas is you guys get hurt and don't tell Sag whats needed to fix it, because we should know how to fix it, and most times we do, but it's also super easy for a Sag to be like F-it, We can fix it later.

This technique works with everyone else EXCEPT AQUAS. You brats are TERRIBLE!!!! 😛
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So, we're both in tour 20's. I met her two years ago when I was in a relationship and so was her. We became friends and one she broke up, got drunk, told me she was jealous of my gf and tried to kiss me, of course I didn't do anything. After that we distanced, until two weeks ago where we got together because of mutual friends, found out she was still single and so am I now... Automatically I felt this connection with her, we got together two days in a row just to talk all night and then partied together with our friends, it felt like a friendship but I started to get mixed signals. For example, we went to a bar and she told me she has always been in love with me and that she can't believe she has me back in my life, 5 seconds later she made up with some guy and then called me friend. She goes one step forward and two back with the flirting and I don't know if she genuinely like me or she's just messing around with me.

I never thought I was going to fall for her because my two exes are Cancer woman, so she's clearly not like them, but something just feels right when we're together and I don't want to mess this friendship up again.

I think she is still on a rebound from her ex...

her behaviour is a classic example of not being over the ex

her telling you all those things is not typical at all, not only for aquas but for anybody who means serious business

if you like her, wait it out

now you are a rebound in my opinion

Damn! You say this and don't even know how long shes been single! 😆 Aquas are forever telling someone to give up, even though they need people to stick it out with them. He's gonna be doomed listening to advice to leave her alone 😆

Yes he will! Aquas need consistency! Be on my a $ $ , if you want to get somewhere with me. Constant communication is crucial especially at the beginning, court me! I run at any sign of inconsistency, and a guy has to make me believe he likes me or I’ll keep it moving.
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I strongly agree with this. Be on my ass. Constant communication in the beginning will keep you on my mind because with Aquarians the old adage - out of sight, out of mind- rings true.
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So, we're both in tour 20's. I met her two years ago when I was in a relationship and so was her. We became friends and one she broke up, got drunk, told me she was jealous of my gf and tried to kiss me, of course I didn't do anything. After that we distanced, until two weeks ago where we got together because of mutual friends, found out she was still single and so am I now... Automatically I felt this connection with her, we got together two days in a row just to talk all night and then partied together with our friends, it felt like a friendship but I started to get mixed signals. For example, we went to a bar and she told me she has always been in love with me and that she can't believe she has me back in my life, 5 seconds later she made up with some guy and then called me friend. She goes one step forward and two back with the flirting and I don't know if she genuinely like me or she's just messing around with me.

I never thought I was going to fall for her because my two exes are Cancer woman, so she's clearly not like them, but something just feels right when we're together and I don't want to mess this friendship up again.

I think she is still on a rebound from her ex...

her behaviour is a classic example of not being over the ex

her telling you all those things is not typical at all, not only for aquas but for anybody who means serious business

if you like her, wait it out

now you are a rebound in my opinion

Damn! You say this and don't even know how long shes been single! 😆 Aquas are forever telling someone to give up, even though they need people to stick it out with them. He's gonna be doomed listening to advice to leave her alone 😆

You’re right! We do want people to stick it out with us, work extra hard/fight for us, bc that’ll show us you care. Aquas I know also don’t usually initiate, at least until we feel like your gonna stick around.

Believe me I know! It gets tiring chasing after you guys. Sag give up too easily but then back track when we figure out we really like and miss you (Aqua). By then there is too much work involved in winning you back and we give up again. That’s why it’s best to just keep up communication and keep bugging the hell out of you Aquas. Makes life so much easier lol.

But that is also a double edged sword cause Sag get bored with that too lmao. 💔

Sag get bored with constant communication ?

Yeah, just the texting and talking on the phone. In person, never. We can see you everyday and hangout and talk your ear off but once you're out of sight, we are busy with other stuff. The constant check ins impede on our freedom of will. It becomes like a chore.

The issue with Aquas is you guys get hurt and don't tell Sag whats needed to fix it, because we should know how to fix it, and most times we do, but it's also super easy for a Sag to be like F-it, We can fix it later.

This technique works with everyone else EXCEPT AQUAS. You brats are TERRIBLE!!!! 😛

I also prefer f2f, then text, talk (not so much). I know ldr would never work for me 😂

Yes we get hurt very easily and are really sensitive, but bc we appear cold/detached a lot, most people will never know that.

Worst thing you can do with aqua is give us space after you’ve hurt us, we overthink too much, and think of worse case scenarios. That makes us feel like you dont really care for us. I’ve talked myself out of liking people plenty of times, in those cases, and never let them back in.
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Yeah, because you guys don't say anything it's hard. I do understand you guys better now. I know what nees to be done, but the way my devious mind works, I always fall back and mess it up with Aquas. It's too easy since you guys don't ask for much and just accept when you like someone. It pulls at our own insecurities and we start sabotaging, wondering what will happen if...

This is also something that Aquas do that are confusing for us Sag.

We make plans f2f and then for some strange reason, you guys back out. We will just say "ok" We don't really ask why or try to fight to see you. It's SOOOOO Confusing. I've met women and men that do this. I don't get it. It's like we make plans, confirm but if you don't here from us for a few hours, Aquas will send a text saying something like " Hey I just found out I have to do this instead" It sounds like a legit excuse every time, so we just say ok.

I Finally figured out that we just have to be super disappointed and say "NO! I'm coming, I really want to see you." OMG You don't know how much this drives me crazy about Aquas. You guys always want to run lol
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So, we're both in tour 20's. I met her two years ago when I was in a relationship and so was her. We became friends and one she broke up, got drunk, told me she was jealous of my gf and tried to kiss me, of course I didn't do anything. After that we distanced, until two weeks ago where we got together because of mutual friends, found out she was still single and so am I now... Automatically I felt this connection with her, we got together two days in a row just to talk all night and then partied together with our friends, it felt like a friendship but I started to get mixed signals. For example, we went to a bar and she told me she has always been in love with me and that she can't believe she has me back in my life, 5 seconds later she made up with some guy and then called me friend. She goes one step forward and two back with the flirting and I don't know if she genuinely like me or she's just messing around with me.

I never thought I was going to fall for her because my two exes are Cancer woman, so she's clearly not like them, but something just feels right when we're together and I don't want to mess this friendship up again.

I think she is still on a rebound from her ex...

her behaviour is a classic example of not being over the ex

her telling you all those things is not typical at all, not only for aquas but for anybody who means serious business

if you like her, wait it out

now you are a rebound in my opinion

Damn! You say this and don't even know how long shes been single! 😆 Aquas are forever telling someone to give up, even though they need people to stick it out with them. He's gonna be doomed listening to advice to leave her alone 😆
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"Damn! You say this and don't even know how long shes been single! 😆 Aquas are forever telling someone to give up, even though they need people to stick it out with them. He's gonna be doomed listening to advice to leave her alone "

🙂

where did I say to leave her alone and give up? I said if you like her, wait it out 🙂

the extrovert to the point flirting and kissing someone else publicly in a drunken night = not ready, still healing (but just imho, my experience and observation) = not everyone is the same, I admit
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So, we're both in tour 20's. I met her two years ago when I was in a relationship and so was her. We became friends and one she broke up, got drunk, told me she was jealous of my gf and tried to kiss me, of course I didn't do anything. After that we distanced, until two weeks ago where we got together because of mutual friends, found out she was still single and so am I now... Automatically I felt this connection with her, we got together two days in a row just to talk all night and then partied together with our friends, it felt like a friendship but I started to get mixed signals. For example, we went to a bar and she told me she has always been in love with me and that she can't believe she has me back in my life, 5 seconds later she made up with some guy and then called me friend. She goes one step forward and two back with the flirting and I don't know if she genuinely like me or she's just messing around with me.

I never thought I was going to fall for her because my two exes are Cancer woman, so she's clearly not like them, but something just feels right when we're together and I don't want to mess this friendship up again.

I think she is still on a rebound from her ex...

her behaviour is a classic example of not being over the ex

her telling you all those things is not typical at all, not only for aquas but for anybody who means serious business

if you like her, wait it out

now you are a rebound in my opinion

Damn! You say this and don't even know how long shes been single! 😆 Aquas are forever telling someone to give up, even though they need people to stick it out with them. He's gonna be doomed listening to advice to leave her alone 😆

Well, maybe that's because it is the best advice for him now, unless he wants to get his heart broken?
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Lol Sagittarius and heartbreak don’t go together 🤣🤣 We just lose and move on. Plenty of fish in the sea, As you know. 🤪
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So, we're both in tour 20's. I met her two years ago when I was in a relationship and so was her. We became friends and one she broke up, got drunk, told me she was jealous of my gf and tried to kiss me, of course I didn't do anything. After that we distanced, until two weeks ago where we got together because of mutual friends, found out she was still single and so am I now... Automatically I felt this connection with her, we got together two days in a row just to talk all night and then partied together with our friends, it felt like a friendship but I started to get mixed signals. For example, we went to a bar and she told me she has always been in love with me and that she can't believe she has me back in my life, 5 seconds later she made up with some guy and then called me friend. She goes one step forward and two back with the flirting and I don't know if she genuinely like me or she's just messing around with me.

I never thought I was going to fall for her because my two exes are Cancer woman, so she's clearly not like them, but something just feels right when we're together and I don't want to mess this friendship up again.

I think she is still on a rebound from her ex...

her behaviour is a classic example of not being over the ex

her telling you all those things is not typical at all, not only for aquas but for anybody who means serious business

if you like her, wait it out

now you are a rebound in my opinion

Damn! You say this and don't even know how long shes been single! 😆 Aquas are forever telling someone to give up, even though they need people to stick it out with them. He's gonna be doomed listening to advice to leave her alone 😆

Well, maybe that's because it is the best advice for him now, unless he wants to get his heart broken?

Lol Sagittarius and heartbreak don’t go together 🤣🤣 We just lose and move on. Plenty of fish in the sea, As you know. 🤪

This is exactly why Sagittarius and Aqua are not a good match
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With all I’ve written in this thread, I’m aware.

We don’t wear our hearts on our sleeves like Aquas. Well you guys kind of don’t, but do, at the same time. I can always feel it or sense it but since Aquas don’t verbalize it, it’s super easy to ignore.

Sagittarius don’t coddle people well and Aquas need that.
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So, we're both in tour 20's. I met her two years ago when I was in a relationship and so was her. We became friends and one she broke up, got drunk, told me she was jealous of my gf and tried to kiss me, of course I didn't do anything. After that we distanced, until two weeks ago where we got together because of mutual friends, found out she was still single and so am I now... Automatically I felt this connection with her, we got together two days in a row just to talk all night and then partied together with our friends, it felt like a friendship but I started to get mixed signals. For example, we went to a bar and she told me she has always been in love with me and that she can't believe she has me back in my life, 5 seconds later she made up with some guy and then called me friend. She goes one step forward and two back with the flirting and I don't know if she genuinely like me or she's just messing around with me.

I never thought I was going to fall for her because my two exes are Cancer woman, so she's clearly not like them, but something just feels right when we're together and I don't want to mess this friendship up again.

I think she is still on a rebound from her ex...

her behaviour is a classic example of not being over the ex

her telling you all those things is not typical at all, not only for aquas but for anybody who means serious business

if you like her, wait it out

now you are a rebound in my opinion

Damn! You say this and don't even know how long shes been single! 😆 Aquas are forever telling someone to give up, even though they need people to stick it out with them. He's gonna be doomed listening to advice to leave her alone 😆

Yes he will! Aquas need consistency! Be on my a $ $ , if you want to get somewhere with me. Constant communication is crucial especially at the beginning, court me! I run at any sign of inconsistency, and a guy has to make me believe he likes me or I’ll keep it moving.

I strongly agree with this. Be on my ass. Constant communication in the beginning will keep you on my mind because with Aquarians the old adage - out of sight, out of mind- rings true.

Not for me. I hate it if someone bugs me all the time. Especially if I don't like them. Sags can come on way to strong and then be totally clueless about it.
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What you said is true for me as well but only if I don’t like them. If there is sexual attraction and I do like them a lil bit, then it would be best for them to chase me.
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Posted by Sag94

So, we're both in tour 20's. I met her two years ago when I was in a relationship and so was her. We became friends and one she broke up, got drunk, told me she was jealous of my gf and tried to kiss me, of course I didn't do anything. After that we distanced, until two weeks ago where we got together because of mutual friends, found out she was still single and so am I now... Automatically I felt this connection with her, we got together two days in a row just to talk all night and then partied together with our friends, it felt like a friendship but I started to get mixed signals. For example, we went to a bar and she told me she has always been in love with me and that she can't believe she has me back in my life, 5 seconds later she made up with some guy and then called me friend. She goes one step forward and two back with the flirting and I don't know if she genuinely like me or she's just messing around with me.

I never thought I was going to fall for her because my two exes are Cancer woman, so she's clearly not like them, but something just feels right when we're together and I don't want to mess this friendship up again.

I think she is still on a rebound from her ex...

her behaviour is a classic example of not being over the ex

her telling you all those things is not typical at all, not only for aquas but for anybody who means serious business

if you like her, wait it out

now you are a rebound in my opinion

Damn! You say this and don't even know how long shes been single! 😆 Aquas are forever telling someone to give up, even though they need people to stick it out with them. He's gonna be doomed listening to advice to leave her alone 😆

Yes he will! Aquas need consistency! Be on my a $ $ , if you want to get somewhere with me. Constant communication is crucial especially at the beginning, court me! I run at any sign of inconsistency, and a guy has to make me believe he likes me or I’ll keep it moving.

I strongly agree with this. Be on my ass. Constant communication in the beginning will keep you on my mind because with Aquarians the old adage - out of sight, out of mind- rings true.

Not for me. I hate it if someone bugs me all the time. Especially if I don't like them. Sags can come on way to strong and then be totally clueless about it.

What you said is true for me as well but only if I don’t like them. If there is sexual attraction and I do like them a lil bit, then it would be best for them to chase me.

Exactly! OP stated when she was drunk, she told him she was jealous of his gf and tried to kiss him, so she’s clearly interested. I’ve never known an aqua to lead someone on, and I rarely tell a crush I like them, but there’s a greater chance if I’ve had some liquid courage .😂🤦🏽‍♀️

An aqua that doesn’t like someone in that way will be clear so that the other person doesn’t think they have a chance.
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To be honest, I didn’t read the OP. I was responding to your post about needing constant communication. True about Aquas not known for leading people on. I have never led anyone on. Everyone, romantic or not, knows where they stand with me.