@Onimusha01
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If you cant have kids and you just have 3 options which one you would choose?
Best Options if You Cannot Have Kids
Choosing among adoption, carrying a donor’s baby, or remaining childless depends on personal values and circumstances. Adoption offers a way to become a parent without biological connection. Carrying a donor’s baby provides genetic ties but involves complex decisions. Staying childless is an option if parenthood is not a priority. Consider your emotional and practical needs before deciding.
adopt or carry a donors baby
I'm shooting for immorality lol
Will I be getting paid to carry a donors baby? Also If I'm carrying a donors baby, then I can have kids. I'm confused.
Foster or adopt or at least work with children
Life would be so dull without them
Childless and miserable.
You don't even want kids, so I would think it would be great for you lol Will you be faking the misery of being childless? 🙂
Option #4
Pay a surrogate to carry my frozen egg to term
Childless and miserable.
You don't even want kids, so I would think it would be great for you lol Will you be faking the misery of being childless? 🙂
Nah.
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lol
I actually looked into donating my eggs for money when I was younger
Will I be getting paid to carry a donors baby? Also If I'm carrying a donors baby, then I can have kids. I'm confused.
In case you have no more eggs left, you need donors..... you have the uterus, so you can carry a baby.
Will I be getting paid to carry a donors baby? Also If I'm carrying a donors baby, then I can have kids. I'm confused.
In case you have no more eggs left, you need donors..... you have the uterus, so you can carry a baby.
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Lol thats not how it works.
But you gave it your all.
Will I be getting paid to carry a donors baby? Also If I'm carrying a donors baby, then I can have kids. I'm confused.
In case you have no more eggs left, you need donors..... you have the uterus, so you can carry a baby.
Lol thats not how it works.
But you gave it your all.
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U talking to me? or to saggurl88?
You can be childless and still have a full and fullfilling life.
Will I be getting paid to carry a donors baby? Also If I'm carrying a donors baby, then I can have kids. I'm confused.
In case you have no more eggs left, you need donors..... you have the uterus, so you can carry a baby.
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Oh, I see! I want money to carry. If there's no money then I will be miserable and childless and live my days roaming the beaches of the Caribbean, drinking rum and sailing ships!
Those are really bad options, but if i wanted children that bad i'd find a way to get a brat or two.
Also i'd gravitate more towards the option that allows my genes to be used ie. adopting would be the last choice.
I actually looked into donating my eggs for money when I was younger
That's some good money!
Will I be getting paid to carry a donors baby? Also If I'm carrying a donors baby, then I can have kids. I'm confused.
In case you have no more eggs left, you need donors..... you have the uterus, so you can carry a baby.
Lol thats not how it works.
But you gave it your all.
U talking to me? or to saggurl88?
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You
Will I be getting paid to carry a donors baby? Also If I'm carrying a donors baby, then I can have kids. I'm confused.
In case you have no more eggs left, you need donors..... you have the uterus, so you can carry a baby.
Lol thats not how it works.
But you gave it your all.
U talking to me? or to saggurl88?
You
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So how do you think it works?
You can be childless and still have a full and fullfilling life.
As a person who loves kids, I cant see myself childless.... I dont figure out how my life would be
Adopt
Carry a Donors Baby
Stay Childless and miserable
Also, would you stop dating or would you continue dating during this process?
Adopt or look for someone who has kids. It's the same thing. Surigate is also a options. Were there is a will there is a way. Definitely be open with that during serious dating though.
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i dont need a surrogate, I have a useful uterus able to carry a baby to full term... Its just that I do not have more follicles available, thats why the donors.
Will I be getting paid to carry a donors baby? Also If I'm carrying a donors baby, then I can have kids. I'm confused.
In case you have no more eggs left, you need donors..... you have the uterus, so you can carry a baby.
Lol thats not how it works.
But you gave it your all.
U talking to me? or to saggurl88?
You
So how do you think it works?
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When you run out of eggs you go through something called menopause.
Menopause means no more periods aka no more prep of uterus to carry a fertilized egg to term.
You can’t have one without the other. Which is why you don’t hear about 60/70 year old women giving birth despite them having a uterus.
Will I be getting paid to carry a donors baby? Also If I'm carrying a donors baby, then I can have kids. I'm confused.
In case you have no more eggs left, you need donors..... you have the uterus, so you can carry a baby.
Lol thats not how it works.
But you gave it your all.
U talking to me? or to saggurl88?
You
So how do you think it works?
When you run out of eggs you go through something called menopause.
Menopause means no more periods aka no more prep of uterus to carry a fertilized egg to term.
You can’t have one without the other. Which is why you don’t hear about 60/70 year old women giving birth despite them having a uterus.
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You are right to certain extend.... no more periods, but your uterus is still there... they use the donor egg and semen fertilized the egg and then is implanted in your uterus for the baby to grow inside. Of course as my body is already on menopause and its not working how it should they prepare my uterus to receive the fecundated egg
women 60/70 cant have kids of their own bc they're eggs are done, this is where the donors come into play.... she can have babies with someone elses eggs.
Doctors are already awaiting for my desicion...... This is not an easy situation.
Adopt
Carry a Donors Baby
Stay Childless and miserable
Also, would you stop dating or would you continue dating during this process?
Adopt or look for someone who has kids. It's the same thing. Surigate is also a options. Were there is a will there is a way. Definitely be open with that during serious dating though.
i dont need a surrogate, I have a useful uterus able to carry a baby to full term... Its just that I do not have more follicles available, thats why the donors.
I'm confused. Is it the experience of carrying a child and pregnancy or a baby/child in general?
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I would like to have the experience, adopting I feel is like taking care of one of my nephews. lol
Will I be getting paid to carry a donors baby? Also If I'm carrying a donors baby, then I can have kids. I'm confused.
In case you have no more eggs left, you need donors..... you have the uterus, so you can carry a baby.
Lol thats not how it works.
But you gave it your all.
U talking to me? or to saggurl88?
You
So how do you think it works?
When you run out of eggs you go through something called menopause.
Menopause means no more periods aka no more prep of uterus to carry a fertilized egg to term.
You can’t have one without the other. Which is why you don’t hear about 60/70 year old women giving birth despite them having a uterus.
You are right to certain extend.... no more periods, but your uterus is still there... they use the donor egg and semen fertilized the egg and then is implanted in your uterus for the baby to grow inside. Of course as my body is already on menopause and its not working how it should they prepare my uterus to receive the fecundated egg
women 60/70 cant have kids of their own bc they're eggs are done, this is where the donors come into play.... she can have babies with someone elses eggs.
Doctors are already awaiting for my desicion..... This is not an easy situation.
How much does it cost?
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USA $ 20k up .. In the Dominican Republic 8-10k + flights (i dont know how many)
Stay childless. I’d rather support another mother than steal their child.
I dont see how am i stealing their child, lol
Adopt
Carry a Donors Baby
Stay Childless and miserable
Also, would you stop dating or would you continue dating during this process?
4. Stay childless and NOT be miserable, and yes, still date. Because the need to outgrow the plague, measles, and polio by compensating with global childbirths in obscene quantities is an obsolete societal need in modern age.
Some are perfectly ok without wanting to pass on genes. Though most peole who fucking shouldn’t, do so instead. And up to double digits at that..
I am one of those women who cannot have children. To be honest, I'm not miserable at all. I come from a big family so i was surrounded by children always. I didn't desire children. I wanted to live how I wanted. I like keeping my money. I like to come and go as I please. I love that I could enjoy my husband naturally without pregnancy scares. I'm selfish yes but I'm free. My husband didn't want children either so it worked out fine for us. I'm aunty and godmother. That's good enough for me.
Will I be getting paid to carry a donors baby? Also If I'm carrying a donors baby, then I can have kids. I'm confused.
In case you have no more eggs left, you need donors..... you have the uterus, so you can carry a baby.
Lol thats not how it works.
But you gave it your all.
U talking to me? or to saggurl88?
You
So how do you think it works?
When you run out of eggs you go through something called menopause.
Menopause means no more periods aka no more prep of uterus to carry a fertilized egg to term.
You can’t have one without the other. Which is why you don’t hear about 60/70 year old women giving birth despite them having a uterus.
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I remember reading about this a few years back.
I am one of those women who cannot have children. To be honest, I'm not miserable at all. I come from a big family so i was surrounded by children always. I didn't desire children. I wanted to live how I wanted. I like keeping my money. I like to come and go as I please. I love that I could enjoy my husband naturally without pregnancy scares. I'm selfish yes but I'm free. My husband didn't want children either so it worked out fine for us. I'm aunty and godmother. That's good enough for me.
I wish i could be like that, but I cant, I have always love kids, why i didnt have them younger, well, i knew i wasnt ready, nor mentally or financially..... i have also a big family and thats kind of my issue, they all have kids, i would be the only one who doesnt and its starting to make me feel uncomfortable, besides i dont like to go back home just to b there by myself with noone to wait for me or noone that really needs me or is happy to see me... when im w my sisters and my cousins i see how their kids are always kissing and hugging and looking up for them... when they play and do stuff... i want that for myself.... they do it with me, but i know is not the same. at some point they go back to mami. I dont see the point of having $ if i dont have someone to spend it with.
If I can’t be allowed to breed my own children, I’d rather have none at all
Yeah i feel you, but life happens.
Will I be getting paid to carry a donors baby? Also If I'm carrying a donors baby, then I can have kids. I'm confused.
In case you have no more eggs left, you need donors..... you have the uterus, so you can carry a baby.
Lol thats not how it works.
But you gave it your all.
U talking to me? or to saggurl88?
You
So how do you think it works?
When you run out of eggs you go through something called menopause.
Menopause means no more periods aka no more prep of uterus to carry a fertilized egg to term.
You can’t have one without the other. Which is why you don’t hear about 60/70 year old women giving birth despite them having a uterus.
I remember reading about this a few years back.
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Uff and this is 2 guys looking to have a baby.... and im here still thinking about it... lol
I want four kids.. but if I'm not blessed with any then I'll stay childless and focus on giving back to charity's aimed at helping children.
Edit: and adopt a lot of dogs 😌
I am one of those women who cannot have children. To be honest, I'm not miserable at all. I come from a big family so i was surrounded by children always. I didn't desire children. I wanted to live how I wanted. I like keeping my money. I like to come and go as I please. I love that I could enjoy my husband naturally without pregnancy scares. I'm selfish yes but I'm free. My husband didn't want children either so it worked out fine for us. I'm aunty and godmother. That's good enough for me.
I wish i could be like that, but I cant, I have always love kids, why i didnt have them younger, well, i knew i wasnt ready, nor mentally or financially..... i have also a big family and thats kind of my issue, they all have kids, i would be the only one who doesnt and its starting to make me feel uncomfortable, besides i dont like to go back home just to b there by myself with noone to wait for me or noone that really needs me or is happy to see me... when im w my sisters and my cousins i see how their kids are always kissing and hugging and looking up for them... when they play and do stuff... i want that for myself.... they do it with me, but i know is not the same. at some point they go back to mami. I dont see the point of having $ if i dont have someone to spend it with.
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When we visit, my siblings' kids flock and hug and kiss me too. They clobber me lol. I am not missing anything. The only difference between their parents and me is I can give the kids back to them when I'm done. They can't. I have love waiting for me when I get home. The thing is a parent's job never stops. They work hard and still have to handle kids when they get home. I get to relax. I feel like I have the best of both worlds without responsibility.
I am one of those women who cannot have children. To be honest, I'm not miserable at all. I come from a big family so i was surrounded by children always. I didn't desire children. I wanted to live how I wanted. I like keeping my money. I like to come and go as I please. I love that I could enjoy my husband naturally without pregnancy scares. I'm selfish yes but I'm free. My husband didn't want children either so it worked out fine for us. I'm aunty and godmother. That's good enough for me.
I wish i could be like that, but I cant, I have always love kids, why i didnt have them younger, well, i knew i wasnt ready, nor mentally or financially..... i have also a big family and thats kind of my issue, they all have kids, i would be the only one who doesnt and its starting to make me feel uncomfortable, besides i dont like to go back home just to b there by myself with noone to wait for me or noone that really needs me or is happy to see me... when im w my sisters and my cousins i see how their kids are always kissing and hugging and looking up for them... when they play and do stuff... i want that for myself.... they do it with me, but i know is not the same. at some point they go back to mami. I dont see the point of having $ if i dont have someone to spend it with.
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My husband and I spend together. My friends and I do too. You talk as if there is no other alternative in life but having kids. I'd rather spend my time with adults doing adult things rather than being around kids constantly. Kids eat up money with all of their costs and expenses. How many parents have to forego what they want to do in order to care for a child? Like I said I am selfish. I want to enjoy what I earn. I want to travel and go at the drop of a dime. I don't like the restraints in life that kids bring. Each to its own though.
I am one of those women who cannot have children. To be honest, I'm not miserable at all. I come from a big family so i was surrounded by children always. I didn't desire children. I wanted to live how I wanted. I like keeping my money. I like to come and go as I please. I love that I could enjoy my husband naturally without pregnancy scares. I'm selfish yes but I'm free. My husband didn't want children either so it worked out fine for us. I'm aunty and godmother. That's good enough for me.
I wish i could be like that, but I cant, I have always love kids, why i didnt have them younger, well, i knew i wasnt ready, nor mentally or financially..... i have also a big family and thats kind of my issue, they all have kids, i would be the only one who doesnt and its starting to make me feel uncomfortable, besides i dont like to go back home just to b there by myself with noone to wait for me or noone that really needs me or is happy to see me... when im w my sisters and my cousins i see how their kids are always kissing and hugging and looking up for them... when they play and do stuff... i want that for myself.... they do it with me, but i know is not the same. at some point they go back to mami. I dont see the point of having $ if i dont have someone to spend it with.
When we visit, my siblings' kids flock and hug and kiss me too. They clobber me lol. I am not missing anything. The only difference between their parents and me is I can give the kids back to them when I'm done. They can't. I have love waiting for me when I get home. The thing is a parent's job never stops. They work hard and still have to handle kids when they get home. I get to relax. I feel like I have the best of both worlds without responsibility.
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Yeah, I hear you on that, is a complete different feeling, I dont have anyone waiting for me at home, Im kinda tired of dating and it started to feel overwhelming for me, I do like being home, but I come from a Spanish family where there always noise and caos in the house since early in the morning lol... my nephews and nieces ive been w them since the frst moment they were born and I have even hold the baby for my sister to feed him during midnight when she is falling asleep...seeing a baby smile while sleeping before going to work i find is the most beautiful feeling Ive ever had. Unfortunately I was hit with menopause before time. And now Im dealing w this situation.
I actually looked into donating my eggs for money when I was younger
Sell me yours so I could have some cute mixed babies
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I said for money 💰 How much you gonna pay? 😜
Childless and happy
Continue dating till I get married
I actually looked into donating my eggs for money when I was younger
Sell me yours so I could have some cute mixed babies
I said for money 💰 How much you gonna pay? 😜
Technically you said donate so you can’t sell it and I’ve been doing research and I found that if I put human eggs in a Wal-Mart bag and splooge in it, I just have to keep it under a heating lamp for 9 months and I’ll be a daddy. YouTube is your friend
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😩😩😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don’t know what type of alien baby you’re trying to have! Hahahahaha.
I actually looked into donating my eggs for money when I was younger
Sell me yours so I could have some cute mixed babies
🙄🙄🙄🙄
What 😛
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😂😂😂 You didn’t even ask to try and have a baby the old fashioned way!
I actually looked into donating my eggs for money when I was younger
Sell me yours so I could have some cute mixed babies
I said for money 💰 How much you gonna pay? 😜
Technically you said donate so you can’t sell it and I’ve been doing research and I found that if I put human eggs in a Wal-Mart bag and splooge in it, I just have to keep it under a heating lamp for 9 months and I’ll be a daddy. YouTube is your friend
😩😩😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don’t know what type of alien baby you’re trying to have! Hahahahaha.
So like is that a yes or a no🤔
I’m thinking yes 🙃
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It would’ve been a yes if was a Target 🎯 bag but unfortunately, your ghetto ass lost me at Walmart 😩😩😂😂🤣🤣
I actually looked into donating my eggs for money when I was younger
Sell me yours so I could have some cute mixed babies
I said for money 💰 How much you gonna pay? 😜
Technically you said donate so you can’t sell it and I’ve been doing research and I found that if I put human eggs in a Wal-Mart bag and splooge in it, I just have to keep it under a heating lamp for 9 months and I’ll be a daddy. YouTube is your friend
😩😩😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don’t know what type of alien baby you’re trying to have! Hahahahaha.
So like is that a yes or a no🤔
I’m thinking yes 🙃
It would’ve been a yes if was a Target 🎯 bag but unfortunately, your ghetto ass lost me at Walmart 😩😩😂😂🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He eats snails too
Poor baby
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Escargot 🐌 is good lol. Garlicky and buttery goodness.
I actually looked into donating my eggs for money when I was younger
Sell me yours so I could have some cute mixed babies
🙄🙄🙄🙄
What 😛
😂😂😂 You didn’t even ask to try and have a baby the old fashioned way!
Inserting penis’ into baginas is so 2004. Everyone is making babies the new trendy and hip way now. Level up 😛
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🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Like a big girl should.
I actually looked into donating my eggs for money when I was younger
Sell me yours so I could have some cute mixed babies
I said for money 💰 How much you gonna pay? 😜
Technically you said donate so you can’t sell it and I’ve been doing research and I found that if I put human eggs in a Wal-Mart bag and splooge in it, I just have to keep it under a heating lamp for 9 months and I’ll be a daddy. YouTube is your friend
😩😩😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don’t know what type of alien baby you’re trying to have! Hahahahaha.
So like is that a yes or a no🤔
I’m thinking yes 🙃
It would’ve been a yes if was a Target 🎯 bag but unfortunately, your ghetto ass lost me at Walmart 😩😩😂😂🤣🤣
You can take me out of the hood but you can’t take the hood out of me 😛
How about Dollar General bags😁 They match our skin tones 😂😂
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Cheap ass fishy!! Lol NO. But I want some dollar store candy now!! 😁
I actually looked into donating my eggs for money when I was younger
Sell me yours so I could have some cute mixed babies
I said for money 💰 How much you gonna pay? 😜
Technically you said donate so you can’t sell it and I’ve been doing research and I found that if I put human eggs in a Wal-Mart bag and splooge in it, I just have to keep it under a heating lamp for 9 months and I’ll be a daddy. YouTube is your friend
😩😩😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don’t know what type of alien baby you’re trying to have! Hahahahaha.
So like is that a yes or a no🤔
I’m thinking yes 🙃
It would’ve been a yes if was a Target 🎯 bag but unfortunately, your ghetto ass lost me at Walmart 😩😩😂😂🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He eats snails too
Poor baby
Escargot 🐌 is good lol. Garlicky and buttery goodness.
Go die!
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Lol don’t be upset that the Bay Area has a more sophisticated palette then your rainy state! 😜
You guys do healthy green grass shots well!
I actually looked into donating my eggs for money when I was younger
Sell me yours so I could have some cute mixed babies
🙄🙄🙄🙄
What 😛
😂😂😂 You didn’t even ask to try and have a baby the old fashioned way!
Inserting penis’ into baginas is so 2004. Everyone is making babies the new trendy and hip way now. Level up 😛
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Like a big girl should.
My stroke game is like this. Awkward, terrible timing, and delusional 😂
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Well I’ve already told you no........... SO 😁
Adopt
Carry a Donors Baby
Stay Childless and miserable
Also, would you stop dating or would you continue dating during this process?
Why do you associate being childless as something to be miserable about?
I actually looked into donating my eggs for money when I was younger
Sell me yours so I could have some cute mixed babies
I said for money 💰 How much you gonna pay? 😜
Technically you said donate so you can’t sell it and I’ve been doing research and I found that if I put human eggs in a Wal-Mart bag and splooge in it, I just have to keep it under a heating lamp for 9 months and I’ll be a daddy. YouTube is your friend
😩😩😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don’t know what type of alien baby you’re trying to have! Hahahahaha.
So like is that a yes or a no🤔
I’m thinking yes 🙃
It would’ve been a yes if was a Target 🎯 bag but unfortunately, your ghetto ass lost me at Walmart 😩😩😂😂🤣🤣
You can take me out of the hood but you can’t take the hood out of me 😛
How about Dollar General bags😁 They match our skin tones 😂😂
Cheap ass fishy!! Lol NO. But I want some dollar store candy now!! 😁
We can have a picnic with that weird candy with the fake Asian strawberry wrappers, some pocky sticks, and wash it down with some Dr. Thunder sodas 🤤
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Dr.Thunder 😩😩😩😩 the 3 liter?
I want cheeze puffs, hot dogs and generic pork and beans, if we are having a picnic!
Im not sure being childless is miserable lolololol
But Im open to adoption and even foster parenting!!
Hell I didnt know I even wanted kids til my 30s!!! Now Id love to be a parent but if it doesnt happen, Im not going to be depressed. I think life is fun either way. Kids are expensiiiiiivvvve.
Idk why anyone would want to bring kids into this fucked up world tbh. Then you have everybody always complaining about how shitty everything is but yet they keep on bringing more people into it.
It's time to let the human race die off.... we've had plenty of time to get it things even semi right and it seems we are just going backwards...we don't deserve it anymore. 🤷
/End rant (ignore me...I'm in a mood...still speaking truth but in a mood lol)
I actually looked into donating my eggs for money when I was younger
Sell me yours so I could have some cute mixed babies
I said for money 💰 How much you gonna pay? 😜
Technically you said donate so you can’t sell it and I’ve been doing research and I found that if I put human eggs in a Wal-Mart bag and splooge in it, I just have to keep it under a heating lamp for 9 months and I’ll be a daddy. YouTube is your friend
😩😩😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don’t know what type of alien baby you’re trying to have! Hahahahaha.
So like is that a yes or a no🤔
I’m thinking yes 🙃
It would’ve been a yes if was a Target 🎯 bag but unfortunately, your ghetto ass lost me at Walmart 😩😩😂😂🤣🤣
You can take me out of the hood but you can’t take the hood out of me 😛
How about Dollar General bags😁 They match our skin tones 😂😂
Cheap ass fishy!! Lol NO. But I want some dollar store candy now!! 😁
We can have a picnic with that weird candy with the fake Asian strawberry wrappers, some pocky sticks, and wash it down with some Dr. Thunder sodas 🤤
Dr.Thunder 😩😩😩😩 the 3 liter?
I want cheeze puffs, hot dogs and generic pork and beans, if we are having a picnic!
We have to budget though because of my ratchet ass wages so we gotta get the no names cheese balls, Best Yet Hot Dogs, and organic beans made with 100% soy
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🤡🤡🤡🤡 OMG!!! You always crack me up lol.
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Adopt
Carry a Donors Baby
Stay Childless and miserable
Also, would you stop dating or would you continue dating during this process?