What if a man had both Aqua Moon and Mercury together? What would they be like?
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Mute, lol.
Posted by AmaraPYep. Aqua is the most aloof of the signs, so having that as one's moon would make them emotionally closed off, and mercury deals with communication so it's a double whammy.Posted by sultrykittyFor real?
Mute, lol.
The guy hardly contacts.click to expand
Posted by sultrykittyWow. That explains alot.Posted by AmaraPYep. Aqua is the most aloof of the signs, so having that as one's moon would make them emotionally closed off, and mercury deals with communication so it's a double whammy.Posted by sultrykittyFor real?
Mute, lol.
The guy hardly contacts.click to expand
That fits him perfectly. He just doesnt deal with communication, conflict anyting well at all, he just closes off.
Well just recognize that he DOES have feelings. He just can't express them well. Be gentle. :-)
Whats his sun and mars?
Whats his sun and mars?
Posted by sultrykittyPisces and Pisces
Well just recognize that he DOES have feelings. He just can't express them well. Be gentle. :-)
Whats his sun and mars?
Wow. A very sensitive guy. I think those placements would be difficult to deal with. But I'll bet he's sweet.
Posted by sultrykittyActually no. As I get to know him, I am thinking of leaving it. He really is quite selfish.
Wow. A very sensitive guy. I think those placements would be difficult to deal with. But I'll bet he's sweet.
Posted by starloverThis too. He can be sweet but what he giveth with one hand he taketh away with the other.
Aloof and detached
It is all about him alot of the time.
Posted by AmaraPYou haven't gotten to the sweet part yet. The selfishness is aqua through and through but you have to get past it to see the sweetness. That is, if you want.Posted by sultrykittyActually no. As I get to know him, I am thinking of leaving it. He really is quite selfish.
Wow. A very sensitive guy. I think those placements would be difficult to deal with. But I'll bet he's sweet.click to expand
If you do leave, don't feel bad about it, he probably won't.
^^^I didn't mean that in a mean way, it's just that aquas are good at moving on. It's not that they don't care, they jist don't really fight to keep people around. And Pisces are pretty passive so combined, I would think that even if they care for you, they're not really invested unless you've been together for a long time.
Posted by sultrykittyIs that generally what he'll be like? Just let things go, passive, wont fight to keep you near them.
^^^I didn't mean that in a mean way, it's just that aquas are good at moving on. It's not that they don't care, they jist don't really fight to keep people around. And Pisces are pretty passive so combined, I would think that even if they care for you, they're not really invested unless you've been together for a long time.
I tend to think so. Neither sign is particularly aggressive in relationships. But if he realizes that you mean a lot to him, he'll get in touch.
Posted by sultrykittyAnd problem soving....type to not want to talk about stuff.
I tend to think so. Neither sign is particularly aggressive in relationships. But if he realizes that you mean a lot to him, he'll get in touch.
True. Aqua sun/venus and I do talk about stuff but it's not easy. He has cap mercury. My dad has aqua moon and doesn't discuss feelings...at all. Not even with my mom.
Posted by sultrykittyWow. So the bottom line is with these guys is let them alone and dont expect anything getting involved with them.
True. Aqua sun/venus and I do talk about stuff but it's not easy. He has cap mercury. My dad has aqua moon and doesn't discuss feelings...at all. Not even with my mom.
Prettty much. You might find that you get more than expected, but if you need more than that in a relationship then it's probably best to walk away. :-)
Posted by sultrykittyGreat. No wonder his relationship history seems a bit tempestuous. I've heard foul moods mentions alot.
Prettty much. You might find that you get more than expected, but if you need more than that in a relationship then it's probably best to walk away. :-)
He probably will jeed someone with an equally detached moon to understand his detachment, or to just blow off his temer tantrums. A pisces sun and/or Libra venus could work as a guess. Or someone with a lot of capricorn.
Posted by sultrykittyI have a lot of Libra....ascendant and cant remember the rest.
He probably will jeed someone with an equally detached moon to understand his detachment, or to just blow off his temer tantrums. A pisces sun and/or Libra venus could work as a guess. Or someone with a lot of capricorn.
Im not heavy or pushy in relationships. IDK though.
Temper tantrms....really? Wow.
Well, I have a cap moon and Virgo mercury, so a foul mood equals temper tantrum for me. 😄
Posted by sultrykittyAnd I guess they dont like drama from women
Well, I have a cap moon and Virgo mercury, so a foul mood equals temper tantrum for me. 😄
Aqua sun with cap merc have temper tantrums? 😛
Posted by justagirlDoozies, lol.
Aqua sun with cap merc have temper tantrums? 😛
And Aries mars...doh!
Posted by sultrykitty😛Posted by justagirlDoozies, lol.
Aqua sun with cap merc have temper tantrums? 😛click to expand
No we don't.
*stomps feet*
Posted by AmaraPAqua HATES drama. Unless it's the happy kind.Posted by sultrykittyAnd I guess they dont like drama from women
Well, I have a cap moon and Virgo mercury, so a foul mood equals temper tantrum for me. 😄click to expand
Posted by justagirlAs a kid, Mr Aqua used to hold his breath until he turned blue and passed out.Posted by sultrykitty😛Posted by justagirlDoozies, lol.
Aqua sun with cap merc have temper tantrums? 😛
No we don't.
*stomps feet*
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Yeah, I got me a challenge, lol.
Posted by justagirlAs a kid when he got mad, Mr. Aqua used to hold his breath until he turned blue and passed out.Posted by sultrykitty😛Posted by justagirlDoozies, lol.
Aqua sun with cap merc have temper tantrums? 😛
No we don't.
*stomps feet*
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Yeah, got me a challenging one, lol.
Posted by sultrykittyokay i don't go to that extreme lolololPosted by justagirlAs a kid when he got mad, Mr. Aqua used to hold his breath until he turned blue and passed out.Posted by sultrykitty😛Posted by justagirlDoozies, lol.
Aqua sun with cap merc have temper tantrums? 😛
No we don't.
*stomps feet*
Yeah, got me a challenging one, lol.click to expand
Posted by YellowSubmarineWhat if the contact is on and off?Posted by sultrykitty
Well just recognize that he DOES have feelings. He just can't express them well. Be gentle. :-)
Posted by sultrykitty
^^^I didn't mean that in a mean way, it's just that aquas are good at moving on. It's not that they don't care, they jist don't really fight to keep people around. And Pisces are pretty passive so combined, I would think that even if they care for you, they're not really invested unless you've been together for a long time.Posted by sultrykittyTrue, true, and true.
I tend to think so. Neither sign is particularly aggressive in relationships. But if he realizes that you mean a lot to him, he'll get in touch.
As an Aqua moon, all of this is bang on. Time means a lot – it’s a measure of loyalty, which is huge with Aqua. That’s how you know they care, not via grand, emotional declarations.click to expand
Such as they will be in touch for long periods of time and then not?
Posted by YellowSubmarineHe is as passive as fuck.
Adding his Mars in Pisces to the mix.. this guy will be passive as fuck.
He just doesn't do conflict at all. When you try and iron something out and are being constructive about something and want to get to the bottom of it, he wont deal, he just backs off and says I cant deal with this now I'm in a mood. He wont answer just says I dont know.
Posted by YellowSubmarinelol
Adding his Mars in Pisces to the mix.. this guy will be passive as fuck.
mars in 12th too, or at the very least the most passive.
Posted by YellowSubmarineGet this. He's moon and mercury in Aqua, and sun and mars in Pisces.Posted by AmaraP"I don't know" is like the Pisces motto.. esp Moon and Mars in Pisces is hard to deal with, from what I've experienced.Posted by YellowSubmarineHe is as passive as fuck.
Adding his Mars in Pisces to the mix.. this guy will be passive as fuck.
He just doesn't do conflict at all. When you try and iron something out and are being constructive about something and want to get to the bottom of it, he wont deal, he just backs off and says I cant deal with this now I'm in a mood. He wont answer just says I dont know.
Anyway, how long does he disappear for?click to expand
This guy would have problems with just about any girl, unless she was a guy, lol.
Posted by YellowSubmarineAqua moon I wouldn't say passive but certainly not very communicative where deep feelings or personal issues are concerned. At least that has been my experience. Most woman die for that kind of stuff in relationships.Posted by sultrykittyIt's the Pisces part that's the problem, imo - Moon Aqua doesn't feel like a source of passiveness to me, but it may seem that way if I'm bored.Posted by YellowSubmarineGet this. He's moon and mercury in Aqua, and sun and mars in Pisces.Posted by AmaraP"I don't know" is like the Pisces motto.. esp Moon and Mars in Pisces is hard to deal with, from what I've experienced.Posted by YellowSubmarineHe is as passive as fuck.
Adding his Mars in Pisces to the mix.. this guy will be passive as fuck.
He just doesn't do conflict at all. When you try and iron something out and are being constructive about something and want to get to the bottom of it, he wont deal, he just backs off and says I cant deal with this now I'm in a mood. He wont answer just says I dont know.
Anyway, how long does he disappear for?
This guy would have problems with just about any girl, unless she was a guy, lol.
I don't know much about Mercury in Aqua but I assume they'd prefer to talk about a lot of different ideas, not sort of get stuck in routine communication - and either over communicate or under communicate. Some shit would never be shared, I assume.click to expand
Paired with the Pisces, god.
Posted by YellowSubmarineHaving cap moon is quite similar. I grew up with a Virgo/aqua dad, and we clicked well. Most men don't get me either unless they have some prominent Virgo.
@sultrykitty
Fair enough, that's completely true.
Believe me, it is so much worse having this moon as a woman - I don't think I make much sense to any of the men I've dated. I mean I love communicating, and I've gotten so much better at including my feelings as part of that communication... but you just need a break from it sometimes is all.
Moon in Aqua just takes time to grow emotionally, I think.
Posted by YellowSubmarineI'm not much for Virgo suns as they're way too nitpicky for me, but my Aqua/Taurus guy is Virgo rising, and my brothers whom I get along with well are both Virgos. One is still a bit too anal for my tastes but rhe other is a Virgo/Libra cusper and we're super tight. Workplace obsession dude (no longer coworkers) was a Scorpio sum Virgo moon, and his moon is pretty evident. Ironically, ex boss is Virgo sun and an egotistical ass. Part of the reason I quit. Well, most of it, lol. We got along fine outside of work.Posted by sultrykitty😆 me too.. sorry, I just always talk about how Virgos get me - probably their patiencePosted by YellowSubmarineHaving cap moon is quite similar. I grew up with a Virgo/aqua dad, and we clicked well. Most men don't get me either unless they have some prominent Virgo.
@sultrykitty
Fair enough, that's completely true.
Believe me, it is so much worse having this moon as a woman - I don't think I make much sense to any of the men I've dated. I mean I love communicating, and I've gotten so much better at including my feelings as part of that communication... but you just need a break from it sometimes is all.
Moon in Aqua just takes time to grow emotionally, I think.
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Virgo is my 2nd dominant sign behind Libra.
Posted by sultrykittyGod meant in a negative light I assume.....that it isnt a good thing?Posted by YellowSubmarineAqua moon I wouldn't say passive but certainly not very communicative where deep feelings or personal issues are concerned. At least that has been my experience. Most woman die for that kind of stuff in relationships.Posted by sultrykittyIt's the Pisces part that's the problem, imo - Moon Aqua doesn't feel like a source of passiveness to me, but it may seem that way if I'm bored.Posted by YellowSubmarineGet this. He's moon and mercury in Aqua, and sun and mars in Pisces.Posted by AmaraP"I don't know" is like the Pisces motto.. esp Moon and Mars in Pisces is hard to deal with, from what I've experienced.Posted by YellowSubmarineHe is as passive as fuck.
Adding his Mars in Pisces to the mix.. this guy will be passive as fuck.
He just doesn't do conflict at all. When you try and iron something out and are being constructive about something and want to get to the bottom of it, he wont deal, he just backs off and says I cant deal with this now I'm in a mood. He wont answer just says I dont know.
Anyway, how long does he disappear for?
This guy would have problems with just about any girl, unless she was a guy, lol.
I don't know much about Mercury in Aqua but I assume they'd prefer to talk about a lot of different ideas, not sort of get stuck in routine communication - and either over communicate or under communicate. Some shit would never be shared, I assume.
Paired with the Pisces, god.click to expand
I just think it would be difficult for anyone in a relationship with him. Would take a very strong and secure person to be ablr to deal with all that.
http://astrology.about.com/od/astrologyandrelationships/qt/MarsPisces.htm
With Mars in Pisces, you flounder and feel lost when you try to conform to the wishes of others.
You find your confidence -- and physical vitality -- when you act on a sense of being led by signs, dreams and intuition.
What Moves You?
Mars shows what motivates us, and what activates that surge of physical vitality that sets goals in motion. And Pisces is a water sign that feels everything, to the point of being empathic and often psychic.
They act on dreams, emotional states and spiritual longings.
Since Mars Pisces is so open and often without boundaries, many instinctively protect themselves by staying in the background. This allows them to observe the full dimensions of what's happening, and act when the time is right.
Not everyone will understand the Mars Pisces person, and may judge them passive, and losers for not jumping on opportunities. But the secret gift here is the ability to give over to a bigger wave, and ride it to an outcome that's sensed at the soul level.
Mars Pisces Speaks
For real-life insight, I asked my friend Angel Lopez for some realizations he's had.
His Sun is Aries, and he's got Mars Pisces. He's in the movie business, as well as being a writer and an astrologer.
With Mars in Pisces, you flounder and feel lost when you try to conform to the wishes of others.
You find your confidence -- and physical vitality -- when you act on a sense of being led by signs, dreams and intuition.
What Moves You?
Mars shows what motivates us, and what activates that surge of physical vitality that sets goals in motion. And Pisces is a water sign that feels everything, to the point of being empathic and often psychic.
They act on dreams, emotional states and spiritual longings.
Since Mars Pisces is so open and often without boundaries, many instinctively protect themselves by staying in the background. This allows them to observe the full dimensions of what's happening, and act when the time is right.
Not everyone will understand the Mars Pisces person, and may judge them passive, and losers for not jumping on opportunities. But the secret gift here is the ability to give over to a bigger wave, and ride it to an outcome that's sensed at the soul level.
Mars Pisces Speaks
For real-life insight, I asked my friend Angel Lopez for some realizations he's had.
His Sun is Aries, and he's got Mars Pisces. He's in the movie business, as well as being a writer and an astrologer.
his moon and venus will determine his attraction factor, his mars is how he goes about it.
what's his venus,OP?
his moon is aquarius? he'll be attracted to very intelligent types of women. I dont know... my sister's Taurus baby is an aquarius moon and everyone says he is whiplash smart and super brilllliant brainy already. *smh* but then it's trine his gemini personal planets. He's got alot of easy aspects, except for the moon square sun.
what's his venus,OP?
his moon is aquarius? he'll be attracted to very intelligent types of women. I dont know... my sister's Taurus baby is an aquarius moon and everyone says he is whiplash smart and super brilllliant brainy already. *smh* but then it's trine his gemini personal planets. He's got alot of easy aspects, except for the moon square sun.
i've noticed, and not to brag, but it's fucked up... next to virgo, aquarius, and maybe aquarius comes in 2nd, and ESPECIALLY if they have taurus and virgo in their charts like our baby nephew....
omg. aquarius placements, are sooo fucked up smart. Like my mother in law, who is capricorn. Ok even capricorn too. holy shit. astrologers aren't kidding. I just got the stupid end of the stick but i love me a very smart man.Not the teacher philosopher type though. but he's got to be very brainy and nerdy genius even if i'm not.
so thank your Lucky stars, OP, if he's consdiring you for a partner, he thinks you're a brainy lady. Also extra Lucky because he's watery. Deep emotional love in a relationship is perfffeeecttt.
omg. aquarius placements, are sooo fucked up smart. Like my mother in law, who is capricorn. Ok even capricorn too. holy shit. astrologers aren't kidding. I just got the stupid end of the stick but i love me a very smart man.Not the teacher philosopher type though. but he's got to be very brainy and nerdy genius even if i'm not.
so thank your Lucky stars, OP, if he's consdiring you for a partner, he thinks you're a brainy lady. Also extra Lucky because he's watery. Deep emotional love in a relationship is perfffeeecttt.
Posted by lisabethur8His Venus is in Pisces
his moon and venus will determine his attraction factor, his mars is how he goes about it.
what's his venus,OP?
his moon is aquarius? he'll be attracted to very intelligent types of women. I dont know... my sister's Taurus baby is an aquarius moon and everyone says he is whiplash smart and super brilllliant brainy already. *smh* but then it's trine his gemini personal planets. He's got alot of easy aspects, except for the moon square sun.
Posted by sultrykittyHis relationship history would suggest that.
I just think it would be difficult for anyone in a relationship with him. Would take a very strong and secure person to be ablr to deal with all that.
Is against marriage, on/off relationships, messing with exes.
He can be very sweet but it is a front. There is no substance to it. He can be extremely selfish once you go deeper. It's all him.
Posted by YellowSubmarineSee that is about right. We both have wicked senses of humor. Particularly the shocking and stirring others up.
Here:
Mercury in Aquarius
Unconventional in self-expression, Mercury in Aquarius natives enjoy breaking the rules. They are not necessarily loud or flamboyant people, but they often have a quiet way of stirring others up. These natives delight in exposing what they deem biases in others' way of thinking.
Very quick to contradict others, and to offer a different perspective, these natives enjoy intellectual debates. They're very quick and alert, and their powers of observation are particularly strong. They usually "win" debates. In fact, they're very interested in scoring intellectual points, which can be maddening to others at times!
Aquarius is an air sign, which is detached and intellectual by nature. It is also a fixed sign, so people born under Mercury in Aquarius often have an intellectual "agenda". They are even given to forcing their ideas on others. This apparent intellectual superiority complex can intimidate others at times.
On the other hand, Mercury in Aquarius people can make for delightful company. They usually have something interesting to say, and their perspective on issues can be delightfully unusual, quirky, and surprisingly insightful.
These individuals have unusual study habits. They generally are resistant to following schedules, even if they have a Capricorn Sun--and perhaps particularly so with a Pisces Sun sign. Although they are often surprisingly organized, their sense of order may not be entirely understandable to others.
These natives are often attracted to scientific and/or metaphysical pursuits. Anything that promises progress and advancement for mankind has special appeal. Their sense of humor is often well-developed and unique. Practical jokes and anything that shocks and stirs up others are especially appreciated by Mercury in Aquarius people.
Posted by AmaraPif he's not into commitment/relationships, i don't see how you can change his mind?Posted by sultrykittyHis relationship history would suggest that.
I just think it would be difficult for anyone in a relationship with him. Would take a very strong and secure person to be ablr to deal with all that.
Is against marriage, on/off relationships, messing with exes.
He can be very sweet but it is a front. There is no substance to it. He can be extremely selfish once you go deeper. It's all him.click to expand
do you want a relationship with him??
if he's not making any moves on you, it's not going to happen anytime soon. Even pisces mars guys will get you one way or another...
Posted by lisabethur8We've been involved twice. Keeps pushing the reset button.Posted by AmaraPif he's not into commitment/relationships, i don't see how you can change his mind?Posted by sultrykittyHis relationship history would suggest that.
I just think it would be difficult for anyone in a relationship with him. Would take a very strong and secure person to be ablr to deal with all that.
Is against marriage, on/off relationships, messing with exes.
He can be very sweet but it is a front. There is no substance to it. He can be extremely selfish once you go deeper. It's all him.
do you want a relationship with him??
if he's not making any moves on you, it's not going to happen anytime soon. Even pisces mars guys will get you one way or another...click to expand
Posted by AmaraPI'm an aqua moon and merc and I am an excellent direct communicator. I'm not trying to toot my horn but every single person that I meet notices and admires my direct communication style right away. I don't talk in riddles or take people in circles. I directly say what I want but in a tactful way. I'm a go getter at best and make conversation with everyone and anyone. Honestly, I don't know where people are getting that merc in aqua is hindered or debliatated. No way! Far from that.Posted by sultrykittyPisces and Pisces
Well just recognize that he DOES have feelings. He just can't express them well. Be gentle. :-)
Whats his sun and mars?click to expand
Somebody mentioned here that he's probably closed off in communication and the OP agreed, but that's his pisces placements coming in play. Pisces are closed off and scared of communicating directly.
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