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My almost sexless relationship. How can I get the spark back? (Page 2)
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People in my circle with 3 or more Virgo placement like yours are prudes and find sex/cuddling and taking a shower (since you guys are obsessed with taking a shower) after sex a chore. You guys’ sexual libidos are not aligned.
+1
She needs a Scorpio to release the kink
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Shameless advertisement of your placements.
LOL. I don’t think that’ll do. These folks have a prob with something as simple as cuddling. Passionate Scorpio is going to feel unloved and leave.
I’m reading this thread backwards and I find him wanting to have sex while a person is asleep disturbing. Reminds me of people who have sex with dead people. LOL. In all seriousness tho, it’s that Taurus mars wholesome strong sex drive.
omfg who fingers a person who is not in the mood for whatever reasons?
Harvey Weinstein
The court documents say he only ate pussy. His dick was probably broken from so much coke he couldn't rape a woman as much as he probably wanted to
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....and from old age?
People in my circle with 3 or more Virgo placement like yours are prudes and find sex/cuddling and taking a shower (since you guys are obsessed with taking a shower) after sex a chore. You guys’ sexual libidos are not aligned.
+1
She needs a Scorpio to release the kink
Shameless advertisement of your placements.
LOL. I don’t think that’ll do. These folks have a prob with something as simple as cuddling. Passionate Scorpio is going to feel unloved and leave.
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🤣🤣🤣🤣
A mars in Scorpio did help this lil ol mars in Virgo get rid of her prude till he no longer was my Master.
Then I became a prude again.
People in my circle with 3 or more Virgo placement like yours are prudes and find sex/cuddling and taking a shower (since you guys are obsessed with taking a shower) after sex a chore. You guys’ sexual libidos are not aligned.
+1
She needs a Scorpio to release the kink
Shameless advertisement of your placements.
LOL. I don’t think that’ll do. These folks have a prob with something as simple as cuddling. Passionate Scorpio is going to feel unloved and leave.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
A mars in Scorpio did help this lil ol mars in Virgo get rid of her prude till he no longer was my Master.
Then I became a prude again.
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Was it just Scorp mars at play here? Were his other placements compatible with yours?
omfg who fingers a person who is not in the mood for whatever reasons?
Harvey Weinstein
The court documents say he only ate pussy. His dick was probably broken from so much coke he couldn't rape a woman as much as he probably wanted to
....and from old age?
Hugh Hefner had no issues. There was reports that Weinstein might have been born hermaphrodite.
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Interesting
Some older men can’t get it up though
omfg who fingers a person who is not in the mood for whatever reasons?
Harvey Weinstein
The court documents say he only ate pussy. His dick was probably broken from so much coke he couldn't rape a woman as much as he probably wanted to
....and from old age?
Hugh Hefner had no issues. There was reports that Weinstein might have been born hermaphrodite.
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Eh no issues is debatable. Dude could only get it hard for teens/early 20 year olds and dogs (allegedly).
omfg who fingers a person who is not in the mood for whatever reasons?
Harvey Weinstein
The court documents say he only ate pussy. His dick was probably broken from so much coke he couldn't rape a woman as much as he probably wanted to
....and from old age?
Hugh Hefner had no issues. There was reports that Weinstein might have been born hermaphrodite.
Interesting
Some older men can’t get it up though
Some women like old softies.
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😂
Not this woman
😆
People in my circle with 3 or more Virgo placement like yours are prudes and find sex/cuddling and taking a shower (since you guys are obsessed with taking a shower) after sex a chore. You guys’ sexual libidos are not aligned.
+1
She needs a Scorpio to release the kink
Shameless advertisement of your placements.
LOL. I don’t think that’ll do. These folks have a prob with something as simple as cuddling. Passionate Scorpio is going to feel unloved and leave.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
A mars in Scorpio did help this lil ol mars in Virgo get rid of her prude till he no longer was my Master.
Then I became a prude again.
Was it just Scorp mars at play here? Were his other placements compatible with yours?
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Moon/Mars double whammy
He turns you down in the morning when you try—?
Not much else you can do. If he is gonna have a fit about WHEN then its other issues he needs to workout within himself. Sounds like he doesnt like rejection. You call alseep, after working and going to school all week. Yet you try and have sex the next morning just for him to reject you. I dont think youre the issue.
Morning sex is for rabbits.
And what's wrong with being a rabbit? A rabbit can go just as long as anyone, it just takes multiple rounds to notice
... Or until the batteries run out.
Or you are fire bunny 🤣
Me personally I'm just an Aries Venus so I can emphasize with bunny problems
Im Cap venus rx. My domena is to secretly masturbate and keep my partner horny, but insted I'm initiating sex all the time. Looks like I'm doing something wrong 🤔😂
But seriously. You were here when there was this legendary user Firebunny? I guess you didn't have that plesure Lol since you don't recognize username
Lol I recognize the username but didn't know that that's what you were referencing
I'm a water rooster so I may just as well be a fire rabbit 😹🐭🐰🐔🐔🐔
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I’m a metal rooster!!!
Which of the Chinese do you like and which ones do you attract?
Poor guy is getting called all kinds of names.
Ugh. Sexual incompatibility with the wrong person could get you into a world of trouble.
Taurus and Aqua in his chart makes for a freaky man. Hedonistic Alien.
He probably has so many fantasies and his stupid Venus in Capricorn hasn’t given him the permission to move on from you. He feels duty over his own needs.
With the right ho, she woulda had a secret camera rolling to record the whole jab and honest reactions.
I dated a sun in Taurus and if an unsolicited finger up your pusssssy scares you, whew Chile.
I’m guessing you’ve never woken him up with a blowjob.
Not you feeling "sorry" for a rapist. Don't you have any shame ?
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Slow your roll Karen.
Posted by virgal_perfectionist
My bf and I have been dating almost a year (April 17) and he is the best man I've ever dated. I love him deeply and I could really see my future with him. He's very attentive, patient and loving. He spoils me from expensive dates & gifts to trips out the country. I often ask myself how did I get so lucky.
About a few months ago, after his birthday he mentioned that I wasn't attracted to him anymore because we haven't had sex in a couple of weeks. Then he cut communication from me and barely responded to my messages for 5 days. When we finally saw each other we talked about everything and worked things out - he even told me that he wouldn't 'ghost' me anymore.
Fast forward to this past weekend, I stayed the night at his place on Friday. I fell asleep early after watching a movie and woke up about 3AM to him fingering me abruptly which scared the living c**p out me. I never felt so violated and of course it started an small argument to the point he slept on the couch. I got up and left that morning and he's barely reached out to me since. I don't want to think the worse but I do think he's planning to break up with me because of this - the lack of sex in our relationship.
I do like having sex with my bf but lately I've gone back into the office for work and I am in school. We don't live together so I only see him Thursday - Sunday. However, when I do see him, I can admit, I do fall asleep early which leaves him frustrated. I wake up in the mornings to try to have sex with him and he turns me down because he is still in his feelings from the previous night.
I keep blaming myself and think I'm a horrible gf now because he doesn't seem happy anymore ...Idk what to do... How can I get the spark back?
So you admit you don’t have the spark anymore
Poor guy is getting called all kinds of names.
Ugh. Sexual incompatibility with the wrong person could get you into a world of trouble.
Taurus and Aqua in his chart makes for a freaky man. Hedonistic Alien.
He probably has so many fantasies and his stupid Venus in Capricorn hasn’t given him the permission to move on from you. He feels duty over his own needs.
With the right ho, she woulda had a secret camera rolling to record the whole jab and honest reactions.
I dated a sun in Taurus and if an unsolicited finger up your pusssssy scares you, whew Chile.
I’m guessing you’ve never woken him up with a blowjob.
I’ve almost never felt as bad as when I tried to wake my Pisces bf with what I thought was thoughtful intimacy and got accused of basically rape. I know now we were just sexually incompatible. While I love being woken up by my significant other with sexual intimacy, but not everyone does. Nothing wrong with either preference but I still think that verbalizing feelings and discomfort is extremely important between partners.
Poor guy is getting called all kinds of names.
Ugh. Sexual incompatibility with the wrong person could get you into a world of trouble.
Taurus and Aqua in his chart makes for a freaky man. Hedonistic Alien.
He probably has so many fantasies and his stupid Venus in Capricorn hasn’t given him the permission to move on from you. He feels duty over his own needs.
With the right ho, she woulda had a secret camera rolling to record the whole jab and honest reactions.
I dated a sun in Taurus and if an unsolicited finger up your pusssssy scares you, whew Chile.
I’m guessing you’ve never woken him up with a blowjob.
Agreed.
I’m also a Mars in Taurus with Aqua placements and that kind of awakening would have been exciting and sexy to me. Different strokes for different folks. 🤷♀️
Edit: if I’m in a relationship with you, I kind of feel like you’re mine and I’m yours… if me touching your d*** in the middle of the night to get you aroused and have sex is considered rape, that seems kind of crazy to me. It’s one thing if I don’t know you or don’t have a relationship with you and you do something like that, but to be with you for almost a year and that kind of touching bothers you to the point where you’re claiming I’m raping you, that’s wild to me.
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I’m of the same breed here.
Some of yall acting like you never spent the night at your man's house
Idk if I’ve ever pressed the like button so hard 🤣
Poor guy is getting called all kinds of names.
Ugh. Sexual incompatibility with the wrong person could get you into a world of trouble.
Taurus and Aqua in his chart makes for a freaky man. Hedonistic Alien.
He probably has so many fantasies and his stupid Venus in Capricorn hasn’t given him the permission to move on from you. He feels duty over his own needs.
With the right ho, she woulda had a secret camera rolling to record the whole jab and honest reactions.
I dated a sun in Taurus and if an unsolicited finger up your pusssssy scares you, whew Chile.
I’m guessing you’ve never woken him up with a blowjob.
Waking a bloke up with a blow job isn’t comparable with being woken up by having fingers jabbed inside you..
She obviously didn’t like it as she said it scared her
It’s immaterial whether you, I or anyone else would like it....
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It’s absolutely comparable.
Poor guy is getting called all kinds of names.
Ugh. Sexual incompatibility with the wrong person could get you into a world of trouble.
Taurus and Aqua in his chart makes for a freaky man. Hedonistic Alien.
He probably has so many fantasies and his stupid Venus in Capricorn hasn’t given him the permission to move on from you. He feels duty over his own needs.
With the right ho, she woulda had a secret camera rolling to record the whole jab and honest reactions.
I dated a sun in Taurus and if an unsolicited finger up your pusssssy scares you, whew Chile.
I’m guessing you’ve never woken him up with a blowjob.
Waking a bloke up with a blow job isn’t comparable with being woken up by having fingers jabbed inside you..
She obviously didn’t like it as she said it scared her
It’s immaterial whether you, I or anyone else would like it....
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It’s absolutely comparable.
He turns you down in the morning when you try—?
Not much else you can do. If he is gonna have a fit about WHEN then its other issues he needs to workout within himself. Sounds like he doesnt like rejection. You call alseep, after working and going to school all week. Yet you try and have sex the next morning just for him to reject you. I dont think youre the issue.
Morning sex is for rabbits.
And what's wrong with being a rabbit? A rabbit can go just as long as anyone, it just takes multiple rounds to notice
... Or until the batteries run out.
Or you are fire bunny 🤣
Me personally I'm just an Aries Venus so I can emphasize with bunny problems
Im Cap venus rx. My domena is to secretly masturbate and keep my partner horny, but insted I'm initiating sex all the time. Looks like I'm doing something wrong 🤔😂
But seriously. You were here when there was this legendary user Firebunny? I guess you didn't have that plesure Lol since you don't recognize username
Lol I recognize the username but didn't know that that's what you were referencing
I'm a water rooster so I may just as well be a fire rabbit 😹🐭🐰🐔🐔🐔
I’m a metal rooster!!!
Which of the Chinese do you like and which ones do you attract?
Ayyy I'm a water rooster too. Love metal. Love dogs. Also like snakes '89 for some reason.
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I’ve only met 1 snake in my entire life and he ghosted me.
I meet dragons, horses, goats
Longest “ship” was with a tiger
I want to meet an Ox.
Poor guy is getting called all kinds of names.
Ugh. Sexual incompatibility with the wrong person could get you into a world of trouble.
Taurus and Aqua in his chart makes for a freaky man. Hedonistic Alien.
He probably has so many fantasies and his stupid Venus in Capricorn hasn’t given him the permission to move on from you. He feels duty over his own needs.
With the right ho, she woulda had a secret camera rolling to record the whole jab and honest reactions.
I dated a sun in Taurus and if an unsolicited finger up your pusssssy scares you, whew Chile.
I’m guessing you’ve never woken him up with a blowjob.
Waking a bloke up with a blow job isn’t comparable with being woken up by having fingers jabbed inside you..
She obviously didn’t like it as she said it scared her
It’s immaterial whether you, I or anyone else would like it....
It’s absolutely comparable.
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Yes, if I the op grabbed his dick and squeezed it hard or jabbed her fingers up his arse, then it would be....
I’m not sure she’d do that?
Poor guy is getting called all kinds of names.
Ugh. Sexual incompatibility with the wrong person could get you into a world of trouble.
Taurus and Aqua in his chart makes for a freaky man. Hedonistic Alien.
He probably has so many fantasies and his stupid Venus in Capricorn hasn’t given him the permission to move on from you. He feels duty over his own needs.
With the right ho, she woulda had a secret camera rolling to record the whole jab and honest reactions.
I dated a sun in Taurus and if an unsolicited finger up your pusssssy scares you, whew Chile.
I’m guessing you’ve never woken him up with a blowjob.
I’ve almost never felt as bad as when I tried to wake my Pisces bf with what I thought was thoughtful intimacy and got accused of basically rape. I know now we were just sexually incompatible. While I love being woken up by my significant other with sexual intimacy, but not everyone does. Nothing wrong with either preference but I still think that verbalizing feelings and discomfort is extremely important between partners.
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Girl, sexual incompatibility can get you arrested these days.
Mmm Pisces men have 3rd legs…
People in my circle with 3 or more Virgo placement like yours are prudes and find sex/cuddling and taking a shower (since you guys are obsessed with taking a shower) after sex a chore. You guys’ sexual libidos are not aligned.
+1
She needs a Scorpio to release the kink
Shameless advertisement of your placements.
LOL. I don’t think that’ll do. These folks have a prob with something as simple as cuddling. Passionate Scorpio is going to feel unloved and leave.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
A mars in Scorpio did help this lil ol mars in Virgo get rid of her prude till he no longer was my Master.
Then I became a prude again.
Was it just Scorp mars at play here? Were his other placements compatible with yours?
2 Sagittarius
Moon/Mars double whammy
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Well, there you have it! It wasn’t just the Scorp mars at play. Synastry goes a long way than just a single mars placement.
Poor guy is getting called all kinds of names.
Ugh. Sexual incompatibility with the wrong person could get you into a world of trouble.
Taurus and Aqua in his chart makes for a freaky man. Hedonistic Alien.
He probably has so many fantasies and his stupid Venus in Capricorn hasn’t given him the permission to move on from you. He feels duty over his own needs.
With the right ho, she woulda had a secret camera rolling to record the whole jab and honest reactions.
I dated a sun in Taurus and if an unsolicited finger up your pusssssy scares you, whew Chile.
I’m guessing you’ve never woken him up with a blowjob.
Agreed.
I’m also a Mars in Taurus with Aqua placements and that kind of awakening would have been exciting and sexy to me. Different strokes for different folks. 🤷♀️
Edit: if I’m in a relationship with you, I kind of feel like you’re mine and I’m yours… if me touching your d*** in the middle of the night to get you aroused and have sex is considered rape, that seems kind of crazy to me. It’s one thing if I don’t know you or don’t have a relationship with you and you do something like that, but to be with you for almost a year and that kind of touching bothers you to the point where you’re claiming I’m raping you, that’s wild to me.
I’m of the same breed here.
Same. Aqua sun, Taurus Mars. Must be something in the stars lol
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People in my circle with 3 or more Virgo placement like yours are prudes and find sex/cuddling and taking a shower (since you guys are obsessed with taking a shower) after sex a chore. You guys’ sexual libidos are not aligned.
+1
She needs a Scorpio to release the kink
Shameless advertisement of your placements.
LOL. I don’t think that’ll do. These folks have a prob with something as simple as cuddling. Passionate Scorpio is going to feel unloved and leave.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
A mars in Scorpio did help this lil ol mars in Virgo get rid of her prude till he no longer was my Master.
Then I became a prude again.
Was it just Scorp mars at play here? Were his other placements compatible with yours?
2 Sagittarius
Moon/Mars double whammy
Well, there you have it! It wasn’t just the Scorp mars at play. Synastry goes a long way than just a single mars placement.
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No doubt.
His mars in Scorpio is his only Scorpio placement and tbh he didn’t need another Scorpio placement.
The desire of a Mars in Scorpio is UNMATCHED.
People in my circle with 3 or more Virgo placement like yours are prudes and find sex/cuddling and taking a shower (since you guys are obsessed with taking a shower) after sex a chore. You guys’ sexual libidos are not aligned.
+1
She needs a Scorpio to release the kink
Shameless advertisement of your placements.
LOL. I don’t think that’ll do. These folks have a prob with something as simple as cuddling. Passionate Scorpio is going to feel unloved and leave.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
A mars in Scorpio did help this lil ol mars in Virgo get rid of her prude till he no longer was my Master.
Then I became a prude again.
Was it just Scorp mars at play here? Were his other placements compatible with yours?
2 Sagittarius
Moon/Mars double whammy
Well, there you have it! It wasn’t just the Scorp mars at play. Synastry goes a long way than just a single mars placement.
No doubt.
His mars in Scorpio is his only Scorpio placement and tbh he didn’t need another Scorpio placement.
The desire of a Mars in Scorpio is UNMATCHED.
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I hear quite a bit about Scorp stelliums 😏
The man touched you without your consent. You have every right to feel violated and if you guys don't talk it out, it's over.
Going by the definition: he raped you.
Get around that issue first and then decide whether you even want to talk to him about it or not at all. 🤷🏻♂️
👏👏👏
Poor guy is getting called all kinds of names.
Ugh. Sexual incompatibility with the wrong person could get you into a world of trouble.
Taurus and Aqua in his chart makes for a freaky man. Hedonistic Alien.
He probably has so many fantasies and his stupid Venus in Capricorn hasn’t given him the permission to move on from you. He feels duty over his own needs.
With the right ho, she woulda had a secret camera rolling to record the whole jab and honest reactions.
I dated a sun in Taurus and if an unsolicited finger up your pusssssy scares you, whew Chile.
I’m guessing you’ve never woken him up with a blowjob.
I’ve almost never felt as bad as when I tried to wake my Pisces bf with what I thought was thoughtful intimacy and got accused of basically rape. I know now we were just sexually incompatible. While I love being woken up by my significant other with sexual intimacy, but not everyone does. Nothing wrong with either preference but I still think that verbalizing feelings and discomfort is extremely important between partners.
Girl, sexual incompatibility can get you arrested these days.
Mmm Pisces men have 3rd legs…
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He didn’t. But he had a quick hand! Shut all that shit down. The drugs weren’t even enough to keep me with that POS. There’s so much drama around that relationship it’s crazy. Legit the most dramatic relationship I’ve ever been in and I’ll NEVER entertain anything close to that again. Probably bc I’ve outgrown that shit now, but yeah… it was bad. I have a theory that he couldn’t produce his own feelings so he manipulated feelings out of others to feel.
I don't mind waking up with a dick inside me but fingers, absolutely not.
Poor guy is getting called all kinds of names.
Ugh. Sexual incompatibility with the wrong person could get you into a world of trouble.
Taurus and Aqua in his chart makes for a freaky man. Hedonistic Alien.
He probably has so many fantasies and his stupid Venus in Capricorn hasn’t given him the permission to move on from you. He feels duty over his own needs.
With the right ho, she woulda had a secret camera rolling to record the whole jab and honest reactions.
I dated a sun in Taurus and if an unsolicited finger up your pusssssy scares you, whew Chile.
I’m guessing you’ve never woken him up with a blowjob.
I’ve almost never felt as bad as when I tried to wake my Pisces bf with what I thought was thoughtful intimacy and got accused of basically rape. I know now we were just sexually incompatible. While I love being woken up by my significant other with sexual intimacy, but not everyone does. Nothing wrong with either preference but I still think that verbalizing feelings and discomfort is extremely important between partners.
Girl, sexual incompatibility can get you arrested these days.
Mmm Pisces men have 3rd legs…
He didn’t. But he had a quick hand! Shut all that shit down. The drugs weren’t even enough to keep me with that POS. There’s so much drama around that relationship it’s crazy. Legit the most dramatic relationship I’ve ever been in and I’ll NEVER entertain anything close to that again. Probably bc I’ve outgrown that shit now, but yeah… it was bad. I have a theory that he couldn’t produce his own feelings so he manipulated feelings out of others to feel.
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Very interesting last line
I don't mind waking up with a dick inside me but fingers, absolutely not.
I’ve heard this before
Poor guy is getting called all kinds of names.
Ugh. Sexual incompatibility with the wrong person could get you into a world of trouble.
Taurus and Aqua in his chart makes for a freaky man. Hedonistic Alien.
He probably has so many fantasies and his stupid Venus in Capricorn hasn’t given him the permission to move on from you. He feels duty over his own needs.
With the right ho, she woulda had a secret camera rolling to record the whole jab and honest reactions.
I dated a sun in Taurus and if an unsolicited finger up your pusssssy scares you, whew Chile.
I’m guessing you’ve never woken him up with a blowjob.
I’ve almost never felt as bad as when I tried to wake my Pisces bf with what I thought was thoughtful intimacy and got accused of basically rape. I know now we were just sexually incompatible. While I love being woken up by my significant other with sexual intimacy, but not everyone does. Nothing wrong with either preference but I still think that verbalizing feelings and discomfort is extremely important between partners.
Girl, sexual incompatibility can get you arrested these days.
Mmm Pisces men have 3rd legs…
He didn’t. But he had a quick hand! Shut all that shit down. The drugs weren’t even enough to keep me with that POS. There’s so much drama around that relationship it’s crazy. Legit the most dramatic relationship I’ve ever been in and I’ll NEVER entertain anything close to that again. Probably bc I’ve outgrown that shit now, but yeah… it was bad. I have a theory that he couldn’t produce his own feelings so he manipulated feelings out of others to feel.
Very interesting last line
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I watch and observe people over time, not just listen to their words.
After reading this thread in full, and mulling it over in my mind a little bit, some of you have some serious judgey judgey issues.
Just sayin. 🤭
I'm not sure if I would call him
(or a woman in his shoes) a rapist* in this situation.
That's a bit much. Because if she enjoyed it, then would that still be rape after realizing what he's done?
If he kept going when she didn't want it,
That's rape..
This is a sexual* relationship that is going through
a dryspell at the moment and both parties should
see eye to eye and meet halfway. That's it.
@virgal_perfectionist // that being said //
You are meeting him halfway,doing everything you can and he should be grateful you're even still trying in the morning even after what all you have to do. And I commend you for even posting this here on this site. I know it's not easy.
I'm not sure if I would call him
(or a woman in his shoes) a rapist* in this situation.
That's a bit much. Because if she enjoyed it, then would that still be rape after realizing what he's done?
If he kept going when she didn't want it,
That's rape..
This is a sexual* relationship that is going through
a dryspell at the moment and both parties should
see eye to eye and meet halfway. That's it.
@virgal_perfectionist // that being said //
You are meeting him halfway,doing everything you can and he should be grateful you're even still trying in the morning even after what all you have to do. And I commend you for even posting this here on this site. I know it's not easy.
💜
I'm not sure if I would call him
(or a woman in his shoes) a rapist* in this situation.
That's a bit much. Because if she enjoyed it, then would that still be rape after realizing what he's done?
If he kept going when she didn't want it,
That's rape..
This is a sexual* relationship that is going through
a dryspell at the moment and both parties should
see eye to eye and meet halfway. That's it.
@virgal_perfectionist // that being said //
You are meeting him halfway,doing everything you can and he should be grateful you're even still trying in the morning even after what all you have to do. And I commend you for even posting this here on this site. I know it's not easy.
If she enjoyed it?
She said “fingering me abruptly which scared the living c**p out me”
DXP Karens: You R a sick person if you try to initiate seggs with your partner in bed!
Abby:
🤣 😂 🤣 😂 idk if I’ve ever laughed harder at a dxp post!!! Lol thank you for this lol
After reading this thread in full, and mulling it over in my mind a little bit, some of you have some serious judgey judgey issues.
Just sayin. 🤭
I know you're trying to be cute, but this speaks volumes of how you see yourself inside of both an unhealthy and healthy relationship.
And they're really sad thing is apparently, you're not alone in this thinking. 🤦🏻♂️
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Okay. Have fun with your train of thought. To be clear, I don’t agree. So agree to disagree then. Moving on.
I'm not sure if I would call him
(or a woman in his shoes) a rapist* in this situation.
That's a bit much. Because if she enjoyed it, then would that still be rape after realizing what he's done?
If he kept going when she didn't want it,
That's rape..
This is a sexual* relationship that is going through
a dryspell at the moment and both parties should
see eye to eye and meet halfway. That's it.
@virgal_perfectionist // that being said //
You are meeting him halfway,doing everything you can and he should be grateful you're even still trying in the morning even after what all you have to do. And I commend you for even posting this here on this site. I know it's not easy.
If she enjoyed it?
She said “fingering me abruptly which scared the living c**p out me”
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In a sexual relationship where a partner wakes the other wanting sex, it is normal to be shocked and surprised. What isn't normal is when or if the partner says no and the act continues*
I'm not sure if I would call him
(or a woman in his shoes) a rapist* in this situation.
That's a bit much. Because if she enjoyed it, then would that still be rape after realizing what he's done?
If he kept going when she didn't want it,
That's rape..
This is a sexual* relationship that is going through
a dryspell at the moment and both parties should
see eye to eye and meet halfway. That's it.
@virgal_perfectionist // that being said //
You are meeting him halfway,doing everything you can and he should be grateful you're even still trying in the morning even after what all you have to do. And I commend you for even posting this here on this site. I know it's not easy.
If she enjoyed it?
She said “fingering me abruptly which scared the living c**p out me”
In a sexual relationship where a partner wakes the other wanting sex, it is normal to be shocked and surprised. What isn't normal is when or if the partner says no and the act continues*
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Pleasantly surprised if it’s enjoyable.. yes
Shocked because fingers are being rammed into you....no that’s not normal ....
I'm not sure if I would call him
(or a woman in his shoes) a rapist* in this situation.
That's a bit much. Because if she enjoyed it, then would that still be rape after realizing what he's done?
If he kept going when she didn't want it,
That's rape..
This is a sexual* relationship that is going through
a dryspell at the moment and both parties should
see eye to eye and meet halfway. That's it.
@virgal_perfectionist // that being said //
You are meeting him halfway,doing everything you can and he should be grateful you're even still trying in the morning even after what all you have to do. And I commend you for even posting this here on this site. I know it's not easy.
If she enjoyed it?
She said “fingering me abruptly which scared the living c**p out me”
In a sexual relationship where a partner wakes the other wanting sex, it is normal to be shocked and surprised. What isn't normal is when or if the partner says no and the act continues*
Pleasantly surprised if it’s enjoyable.. yes
Shocked because fingers are being rammed into you....no that’s not normal ....
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Im just curious, no judgement honestly. But why do you see this as different from a man awaking to his penis in an oriface he didn’t leave it in when he went to sleep? It just sounds equal to me.
I'm not sure if I would call him
(or a woman in his shoes) a rapist* in this situation.
That's a bit much. Because if she enjoyed it, then would that still be rape after realizing what he's done?
If he kept going when she didn't want it,
That's rape..
This is a sexual* relationship that is going through
a dryspell at the moment and both parties should
see eye to eye and meet halfway. That's it.
@virgal_perfectionist // that being said //
You are meeting him halfway,doing everything you can and he should be grateful you're even still trying in the morning even after what all you have to do. And I commend you for even posting this here on this site. I know it's not easy.
If she enjoyed it?
She said “fingering me abruptly which scared the living c**p out me”
In a sexual relationship where a partner wakes the other wanting sex, it is normal to be shocked and surprised. What isn't normal is when or if the partner says no and the act continues*
Pleasantly surprised if it’s enjoyable.. yes
Shocked because fingers are being rammed into you....no that’s not normal ....
Im just curious, no judgement honestly. But why do you see this as different from a man awaking to his penis in an oriface he didn’t leave it in when he went to sleep? It just sounds equal to me.
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As i said before it was hurting her....if the woman was inflicting pain then that’s the same thing
But she wasn’t ....she wasn’t ramming him with her fingers
I'm not sure if I would call him
(or a woman in his shoes) a rapist* in this situation.
That's a bit much. Because if she enjoyed it, then would that still be rape after realizing what he's done?
If he kept going when she didn't want it,
That's rape..
This is a sexual* relationship that is going through
a dryspell at the moment and both parties should
see eye to eye and meet halfway. That's it.
@virgal_perfectionist // that being said //
You are meeting him halfway,doing everything you can and he should be grateful you're even still trying in the morning even after what all you have to do. And I commend you for even posting this here on this site. I know it's not easy.
Ajuuuuuuu💕💕💕💕🤗
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It's a war zone in here . Lol
ARNOLDS VOICE: "Get down!!!!"
Not to downplay what OP felt but I remember the time my woman tried to stick her pinky in my bum.
I was kind of bummed. Ignore the pun.
I told her sternly that I didn't like that and she just kept smiling, if it were someone I wasn't comfortable with I wouldve probably felt bad but I just laughed it off.
So point is, you probably have deep resentment over the fact you're with this guy who you're not fully comfortable with
Haha finger bum led to enlightenment
I don't think she has resentment. He is the one ghosting her and she is chasing after him trying to comfort his ego and asking internet strangers what she can do to get the spark back aka make sure he doesn't break up with her.
My condolences for your bum. I also don't like digits up there.
I'm not sure if I would call him
(or a woman in his shoes) a rapist* in this situation.
That's a bit much. Because if she enjoyed it, then would that still be rape after realizing what he's done?
If he kept going when she didn't want it,
That's rape..
This is a sexual* relationship that is going through
a dryspell at the moment and both parties should
see eye to eye and meet halfway. That's it.
@virgal_perfectionist // that being said //
You are meeting him halfway,doing everything you can and he should be grateful you're even still trying in the morning even after what all you have to do. And I commend you for even posting this here on this site. I know it's not easy.
If she enjoyed it?
She said “fingering me abruptly which scared the living c**p out me”
In a sexual relationship where a partner wakes the other wanting sex, it is normal to be shocked and surprised. What isn't normal is when or if the partner says no and the act continues*
Pleasantly surprised if it’s enjoyable.. yes
Shocked because fingers are being rammed into you....no that’s not normal ....
Im just curious, no judgement honestly. But why do you see this as different from a man awaking to his penis in an oriface he didn’t leave it in when he went to sleep? It just sounds equal to me.
As i said before it was hurting her....if the woman was inflicting pain then that’s the same thing
But she wasn’t ....she wasn’t ramming him with her fingers
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I guess I didn’t see where she stated that it hurt. My mistake then.
This is the DXP I love
I also don't understand how you have so much virgo and no desire to be of service. Like I only have the sun and them enjoying what I'm doing will turn me on. I know this because one time I dated this guy who wanted to do everything I did with my ex, not because he enjoyed it, but because he thought I would or something weird but that really turned me off. I cringed about it for months. I'm still cringing actually.
Virgos are only of service to the right Master and he ain’t it.
Not to downplay what OP felt but I remember the time my woman tried to stick her pinky in my bum.
I was kind of bummed. Ignore the pun.
I told her sternly that I didn't like that and she just kept smiling, if it were someone I wasn't comfortable with I wouldve probably felt bad but I just laughed it off.
So point is, you probably have deep resentment over the fact you're with this guy who you're not fully comfortable with
Haha finger bum led to enlightenment
I don't think she has resentment. He is the one ghosting her and she is chasing after him trying to comfort his ego and asking internet strangers what she can do to get the spark back aka make sure he doesn't break up with her.
My condolences for your bum. I also don't like digits up there.
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Must be a trip to Paris that she don’t wanna lose.
It surely ain’t the penis.
I wonder if this is a truly reciprocal relationship.
As a Venus in Capricorn, this would weigh heavily on me.
He’s the typical goat Venus. Leading with money, gifts, and support meanwhile not getting the return he really wants.
If he is the nerdy geek in IT, this may be his first time at the rodeo and he may have to learn not to lead with his wallet.
man i miss starwars, i miss uvd even that cringe ass black mamba,
Black mamba was abusive at best.
I also don't understand how you have so much virgo and no desire to be of service. Like I only have the sun and them enjoying what I'm doing will turn me on. I know this because one time I dated this guy who wanted to do everything I did with my ex, not because he enjoyed it, but because he thought I would or something weird but that really turned me off. I cringed about it for months. I'm still cringing actually.
Virgos are only of service to the right Master and he ain’t it.
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i won't even disagree
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She needs a Scorpio to release the kink