Scared Aquarius off again (Page 2)

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He ghosted you cause now he knows how you feel and he will process it and return if he likes you. Just wait it out and don't contact him. He feels safe, like your not going anywhere. When/If he comes back just act normal and don't be upset with him. Just act friendly and like nothing happened. He needs to know that you can give him space when he needs it.

It will be a good thing if he returns, he'll know what you want and if he comes back he'll know what it eventually is gonna lead to. Unfortunately you're gonna have to go at his pace, and depending on his Venus, that can be fast or slow.

Get used to this type of disappearing whenever something heavy gets dropped on him. Eventually he'll get used to you and won't disappear anymore.

Which venuses are fast and which are slow?? I definitely feel like I’m going at his pace, but it changes.

Fire venuses are fast, Earth are slow and cautious. Not sure about water or air. (Both of these signs seem to be a little wishy washy until they figure out what they want, me included lol)

He’s a Pisces Venus. Definitely wishy washy.

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YEB. Dream land most of the the time. lol I think with Pisces venus, sometimes they r so in love with the idea of the person so they r extremely super romantic and sweet esp in the beginning. Prince Charming. After a while, that will change pretty quickly. ustill feel the warmth but it won't be that intense or romantic as it used to be. Earthy venus is a lot better. I hate my gem air venus so much . lol.

Um... what about your internet mistress @Saggurl88 —

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by pinkbird03
You don’t think he’s ready for a serious relationship because he only wants friendship right now. You want more. Let him think about this. Give him the opportunity to disappear for a week or 2. Took my aqua a week. He ghosted for a week. I thought it was over and now he’s back to normal. I guess let him miss you. And I really believe that snapchatting a really good photo helped me 😋

Oh yay that is an amazing tool. Men r natrual visual people esp Aqua I know. A great photo, fun activities. Amazing photos of ur ahchievements n just show that u r having lots of fun. Make sure u r really having fun though . They can spot fakness very easily. ps @ pink bird im glad ur man is back

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Lol thanks! But I don’t know how long this will last. I’m still having lots of doubts. I don’t feel confident!! And I’m seeking some important answers to important questions right now soooo we will see!

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Um... what about your internet mistress @Saggurl88 —

Who is that??

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Ok you two. Time to get a room 😅 It’s getting a bit too warm in here... Enjoy it 😉

my inbox is full wih dm's from smewman i cant take the sag in there. we have to keep it in public, no where else to go, pretty sure her inbox is heavy with dms from hellosaggy or who else? tell me @saggurl88 u can tell lme

You damn right @Aquarius_Man .... @saggurl88 's busy keeping me and my abs entertained... so while I can appreciate your little chat because I'm secure and not worried about her going anywhere... she needs to get back to work!

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Lol. Heyyyy BFF. It's been a while!!!! 😆

Posted by saweetz1988

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Give him his time. He'll get back at you.

Aquarius timeframe not a Pisces time frame 😛

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The best timeframe 😛

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by AerialView
Give him his time. He'll get back at you.

Aquarius timeframe not a Pisces time frame 😛

The best timeframe 😛

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this got me thinking,

Wud u say that aqua then move SLOWER than earth signs even.

for them to process info mentally.



thats why this dude willl prob come back in 1 year time n be like,

-----

hey, did u say u had feelings for me?.....?

well after 1 year i finally decided that at one point, i may have felt the same,

but lets see how we go....

2 years later, hey i ** think ** i felt something..

but lets just...explore each other a bit more coz its only been two years... you know, too short to decide

---

LOL

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by pinkbird03
You don’t think he’s ready for a serious relationship because he only wants friendship right now. You want more. Let him think about this. Give him the opportunity to disappear for a week or 2. Took my aqua a week. He ghosted for a week. I thought it was over and now he’s back to normal. I guess let him miss you. And I really believe that snapchatting a really good photo helped me 😋

Oh yay that is an amazing tool. Men r natrual visual people esp Aqua I know. A great photo, fun activities. Amazing photos of ur ahchievements n just show that u r having lots of fun. Make sure u r really having fun though . They can spot fakness very easily. ps @ pink bird im glad ur man is back

Lol thanks! But I don’t know how long this will last. I’m still having lots of doubts. I don’t feel confident!! And I’m seeking some important answers to important questions right now soooo we will see!

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why are you having doubts?

you might need to be a stable and the secure one in the relationship,

otherwise who's going to keep that aqua on the steady road path?

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by AerialView

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by AerialView
Give him his time. He'll get back at you.

Aquarius timeframe not a Pisces time frame 😛

The best timeframe 😛

this got me thinking,

Wud u say that aqua then move SLOWER than earth signs even.

for them to process info mentally.



thats why this dude willl prob come back in 1 year time n be like,

-----

hey, did u say u had feelings for me?.....?

well after 1 year i finally decided that at one point, i may have felt the same,

but lets see how we go....

2 years later, hey i ** think ** i felt something..

but lets just...explore each other a bit more coz its only been two years... you know, too short to decide

---

LOL

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No we're not slow. I'm not.

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by pinkbird03
You don’t think he’s ready for a serious relationship because he only wants friendship right now. You want more. Let him think about this. Give him the opportunity to disappear for a week or 2. Took my aqua a week. He ghosted for a week. I thought it was over and now he’s back to normal. I guess let him miss you. And I really believe that snapchatting a really good photo helped me 😋

Oh yay that is an amazing tool. Men r natrual visual people esp Aqua I know. A great photo, fun activities. Amazing photos of ur ahchievements n just show that u r having lots of fun. Make sure u r really having fun though . They can spot fakness very easily. ps @ pink bird im glad ur man is back

Lol thanks! But I don’t know how long this will last. I’m still having lots of doubts. I don’t feel confident!! And I’m seeking some important answers to important questions right now soooo we will see!

why are you having doubts?

you might need to be a stable and the secure one in the relationship,

otherwise who's going to keep that aqua on the steady road path?

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I have doubts because it’s been 5 weeks since I’ve seen him and I know he said he’s insanely busy and I do believe him but i guess trust is an issue for me right now. Especially since he disappeared on me last week. I also get insecure thinking that he can make time for his friends but not me. That’s not necessarily true. He only did that once weeks ago that I know of, but I just don’t feel confident about our relationship so I got emotional tonight! Gosh I hate myself. And of course he hasn’t answered me.

But I think he tries to put my mind at ease through other means than communication. For example, once he changed his Facebook cover photo to an empty picture of his apt on a Friday night to show me he’s home alone. Now tonight, I noticed he turned on his location on Snapchat so I could see that he’s home. I really think he did that for me. Because he shares his location on iPhone with all his close friends. They love it. There’s no need for him to do it on Snapchat. And he didn’t have it on until tonight.

Do aquas do things like this? Non verbal ways to show they care? Because my aqua sucks at communicating lately

Posted by saweetz1988

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Give him his time. He'll get back at you.

Aquarius timeframe not a Pisces time frame 😛

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Lol, last time was 4 weeks let’s see how long this time. That’s IF he decides to message me, he might be sick of always messaging me first and not the other way round.

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by pinkbird03
You don’t think he’s ready for a serious relationship because he only wants friendship right now. You want more. Let him think about this. Give him the opportunity to disappear for a week or 2. Took my aqua a week. He ghosted for a week. I thought it was over and now he’s back to normal. I guess let him miss you. And I really believe that snapchatting a really good photo helped me 😋

Oh yay that is an amazing tool. Men r natrual visual people esp Aqua I know. A great photo, fun activities. Amazing photos of ur ahchievements n just show that u r having lots of fun. Make sure u r really having fun though . They can spot fakness very easily. ps @ pink bird im glad ur man is back

Lol thanks! But I don’t know how long this will last. I’m still having lots of doubts. I don’t feel confident!! And I’m seeking some important answers to important questions right now soooo we will see!

why are you having doubts?

you might need to be a stable and the secure one in the relationship,

otherwise who's going to keep that aqua on the steady road path?

I have doubts because it’s been 5 weeks since I’ve seen him and I know he said he’s insanely busy and I do believe him but i guess trust is an issue for me right now. Especially since he disappeared on me last week. I also get insecure thinking that he can make time for his friends but not me. That’s not necessarily true. He only did that once weeks ago that I know of, but I just don’t feel confident about our relationship so I got emotional tonight! Gosh I hate myself. And of course he hasn’t answered me.

But I think he tries to put my mind at ease through other means than communication. For example, once he changed his Facebook cover photo to an empty picture of his apt on a Friday night to show me he’s home alone. Now tonight, I noticed he turned on his location on Snapchat so I could see that he’s home. I really think he did that for me. Because he shares his location on iPhone with all his close friends. They love it. There’s no need for him to do it on Snapchat. And he didn’t have it on until tonight.

Do aquas do things like this? Non verbal ways to show they care? Because my aqua sucks at communicating lately

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Omg yes!!! This aqua does things on social media to get my attention too! For instance if I post something usually an hour later he will post something to get my attention for us to talk, or he will Post something that he knows will get my attention and I will find it funny lol .. recently he hasn’t been doing it as often though which is a little worrying. But I definitely know what you’re saying

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by AerialView

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by AerialView
Give him his time. He'll get back at you.

Aquarius timeframe not a Pisces time frame 😛

The best timeframe 😛

this got me thinking,

Wud u say that aqua then move SLOWER than earth signs even.

for them to process info mentally.



thats why this dude willl prob come back in 1 year time n be like,

-----

hey, did u say u had feelings for me?.....?

well after 1 year i finally decided that at one point, i may have felt the same,

but lets see how we go....

2 years later, hey i ** think ** i felt something..

but lets just...explore each other a bit more coz its only been two years... you know, too short to decide

---

LOL

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This sounds like my Aqua, longest time frame he’s got back to me is 4 whole weeks. It’s like hello? I’m a Pisces I will not be waiting around that long lol by the time he comes back I would be married and settled down lol

So I messaged him today, and I am panicking lol. We’ve not even spoken since that conversation and he’s been funny with me, but he posted some kids and I just messaged him saying they were cute I want to die right now ffs

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by AerialView

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by AerialView
Give him his time. He'll get back at you.

Aquarius timeframe not a Pisces time frame 😛

The best timeframe 😛

this got me thinking,

Wud u say that aqua then move SLOWER than earth signs even.

for them to process info mentally.



thats why this dude willl prob come back in 1 year time n be like,

-----

hey, did u say u had feelings for me?.....?

well after 1 year i finally decided that at one point, i may have felt the same,

but lets see how we go....

2 years later, hey i ** think ** i felt something..

but lets just...explore each other a bit more coz its only been two years... you know, too short to decide

---

LOL

This sounds like my Aqua, longest time frame he’s got back to me is 4 whole weeks. It’s like hello? I’m a Pisces I will not be waiting around that long lol by the time he comes back I would be married and settled down lol

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I feel you girl I feel you.

whats his moon?

Posted by Klh1203
So I messaged him today, and I am panicking lol. We’ve not even spoken since that conversation and he’s been funny with me, but he posted some kids and I just messaged him saying they were cute I want to die right now ffs

mmmm

i'm not sure.

i think thats coming on a bit strong

kids.. his kids or just non sense kids?

if i were him i wud think mentioning kids mean u want to get married one day and love kids etc.

that might make him run !

anyway, hope not! good luck

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Posted by pinkbird03
You don’t think he’s ready for a serious relationship because he only wants friendship right now. You want more. Let him think about this. Give him the opportunity to disappear for a week or 2. Took my aqua a week. He ghosted for a week. I thought it was over and now he’s back to normal. I guess let him miss you. And I really believe that snapchatting a really good photo helped me 😋

Oh yay that is an amazing tool. Men r natrual visual people esp Aqua I know. A great photo, fun activities. Amazing photos of ur ahchievements n just show that u r having lots of fun. Make sure u r really having fun though . They can spot fakness very easily. ps @ pink bird im glad ur man is back

Lol thanks! But I don’t know how long this will last. I’m still having lots of doubts. I don’t feel confident!! And I’m seeking some important answers to important questions right now soooo we will see!

why are you having doubts?

you might need to be a stable and the secure one in the relationship,

otherwise who's going to keep that aqua on the steady road path?

I have doubts because it’s been 5 weeks since I’ve seen him and I know he said he’s insanely busy and I do believe him but i guess trust is an issue for me right now. Especially since he disappeared on me last week. I also get insecure thinking that he can make time for his friends but not me. That’s not necessarily true. He only did that once weeks ago that I know of, but I just don’t feel confident about our relationship so I got emotional tonight! Gosh I hate myself. And of course he hasn’t answered me.

But I think he tries to put my mind at ease through other means than communication. For example, once he changed his Facebook cover photo to an empty picture of his apt on a Friday night to show me he’s home alone. Now tonight, I noticed he turned on his location on Snapchat so I could see that he’s home. I really think he did that for me. Because he shares his location on iPhone with all his close friends. They love it. There’s no need for him to do it on Snapchat. And he didn’t have it on until tonight.

Do aquas do things like this? Non verbal ways to show they care? Because my aqua sucks at communicating lately

Omg yes!!! This aqua does things on social media to get my attention too! For instance if I post something usually an hour later he will post something to get my attention for us to talk, or he will Post something that he knows will get my attention and I will find it funny lol .. recently he hasn’t been doing it as often though which is a little worrying. But I definitely know what you’re saying

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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?

Posted by pinkbird03
Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?

Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by pinkbird03
Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?

Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

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I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol

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Posted by pinkbird03
Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?

Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol

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My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆

Don't talk feelings over texts. Mistake #1

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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?

Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol

My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆

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Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?

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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?

Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol

My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆

Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?

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He's a little on the conservative side, (Cap Venus) and I never post pics with cleavage. I will send pics privately but I don't like everyone seeing my goodies lol I'm a little bit of a prude with that type of stuff. I'm actually very straight forward but secretive. I will only give him information when he asks. I volunteer nothing lol

I did post a cute snap last night though 🙂 I'll upload it and tag you. I just make cute/ sexy facial expression to leave him thinking about who it's for 😆 I think he would like to know my whereabouts but I kind of like him asking, It shows interest. I never volunteer any info unless he tells me what he's doing first. Then I know he wants to know what I'm doing. lol

Like today, He asked what I was doing and I told him I was meeting up with a girl friend of mine after work. He said but it's raining. lmao . I told him well I like sitting indoors having a drink and watching the rain. lol Just silly lol

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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?

Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol

My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆

Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?

He's a little on the conservative side, (Cap Venus) and I never post pics with cleavage. I will send pics privately but I don't like everyone seeing my goodies lol I'm a little bit of a prude with that type of stuff. I'm actually very straight forward but secretive. I will only give him information when he asks. I volunteer nothing lol

I did post a cute snap last night though 🙂 I'll upload it and tag you. I just make cute/ sexy facial expression to leave him thinking about who it's for 😆 I think he would like to know my whereabouts but I kind of like him asking, It shows interest. I never volunteer any info unless he tells me what he's doing first. Then I know he wants to know what I'm doing. lol

Like today, He asked what I was doing and I told him I was meeting up with a girl friend of mine after work. He said but it's raining. lmao . I told him well I like sitting indoors having a drink and watching the rain. lol Just silly lol

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Funny i used the same filter on my picture lol I bet he loved your picture!! yeah I love when they ask but maybe sharing my location will get him obsessed with me. I want him to be madly in love with me. The thing is I don’t usually post cleavage pictures on my stories!! It was just a cute dressy top. Just a little tease. But I totally did it to get his attention. He checks my stories right away. But not my direct snaps. I don’t think he knows I can see who’s viewed my stories. Games!!!!!!

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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?

Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol

My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆

Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?

He's a little on the conservative side, (Cap Venus) and I never post pics with cleavage. I will send pics privately but I don't like everyone seeing my goodies lol I'm a little bit of a prude with that type of stuff. I'm actually very straight forward but secretive. I will only give him information when he asks. I volunteer nothing lol

I did post a cute snap last night though 🙂 I'll upload it and tag you. I just make cute/ sexy facial expression to leave him thinking about who it's for 😆 I think he would like to know my whereabouts but I kind of like him asking, It shows interest. I never volunteer any info unless he tells me what he's doing first. Then I know he wants to know what I'm doing. lol

Like today, He asked what I was doing and I told him I was meeting up with a girl friend of mine after work. He said but it's raining. lmao . I told him well I like sitting indoors having a drink and watching the rain. lol Just silly lol

Funny i used the same filter on my picture lol I bet he loved your picture!! yeah I love when they ask but maybe sharing my location will get him obsessed with me. I want him to be madly in love with me. The thing is I don’t usually post cleavage pictures on my stories!! It was just a cute dressy top. Just a little tease. But I totally did it to get his attention. He checks my stories right away. But not my direct snaps. I don’t think he knows I can see who’s viewed my stories. Games!!!!!!

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Since I've never post cleavage pics, I can't start now. He'll think I met someone lol He never tells me anything or gives me compliments but he does look at my pics. I just do my usual thing of sending him kiss emojis and he does his usual of sending back the OK hand sign. I think it's HILARIOUS lol

I have no clue what direct vs stories is. I didn't know that was possible either. You sure do know a lot about snapchat!!! 😆

Ok, so I messaged him after he tried to get my attention and he ignored me🙃

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So I messaged him today, and I am panicking lol. We’ve not even spoken since that conversation and he’s been funny with me, but he posted some kids and I just messaged him saying they were cute I want to die right now ffs

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i'm not sure.

i think thats coming on a bit strong

kids.. his kids or just non sense kids?

if i were him i wud think mentioning kids mean u want to get married one day and love kids etc.

that might make him run !

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I hope it wasn’t too strong, I already have kids and I had posted mine earlier then he had posted his so all I said was “they’re so cute” lol

don't even feel bad. thats an Aquarius for ya. You just have to let them come and go, and be sassy and intelligent always. they love that shit

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You don’t think he’s ready for a serious relationship because he only wants friendship right now. You want more. Let him think about this. Give him the opportunity to disappear for a week or 2. Took my aqua a week. He ghosted for a week. I thought it was over and now he’s back to normal. I guess let him miss you. And I really believe that snapchatting a really good photo helped me 😋

Oh yay that is an amazing tool. Men r natrual visual people esp Aqua I know. A great photo, fun activities. Amazing photos of ur ahchievements n just show that u r having lots of fun. Make sure u r really having fun though . They can spot fakness very easily. ps @ pink bird im glad ur man is back

Lol thanks! But I don’t know how long this will last. I’m still having lots of doubts. I don’t feel confident!! And I’m seeking some important answers to important questions right now soooo we will see!

why are you having doubts?

you might need to be a stable and the secure one in the relationship,

otherwise who's going to keep that aqua on the steady road path?

I have doubts because it’s been 5 weeks since I’ve seen him and I know he said he’s insanely busy and I do believe him but i guess trust is an issue for me right now. Especially since he disappeared on me last week. I also get insecure thinking that he can make time for his friends but not me. That’s not necessarily true. He only did that once weeks ago that I know of, but I just don’t feel confident about our relationship so I got emotional tonight! Gosh I hate myself. And of course he hasn’t answered me.

But I think he tries to put my mind at ease through other means than communication. For example, once he changed his Facebook cover photo to an empty picture of his apt on a Friday night to show me he’s home alone. Now tonight, I noticed he turned on his location on Snapchat so I could see that he’s home. I really think he did that for me. Because he shares his location on iPhone with all his close friends. They love it. There’s no need for him to do it on Snapchat. And he didn’t have it on until tonight.

Do aquas do things like this? Non verbal ways to show they care? Because my aqua sucks at communicating lately

Omg yes!!! This aqua does things on social media to get my attention too! For instance if I post something usually an hour later he will post something to get my attention for us to talk, or he will Post something that he knows will get my attention and I will find it funny lol .. recently he hasn’t been doing it as often though which is a little worrying. But I definitely know what you’re saying

Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?

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Mine used to try and get my attention he doesn’t do it as often now lol

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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?

Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol

My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆

Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?

He's a little on the conservative side, (Cap Venus) and I never post pics with cleavage. I will send pics privately but I don't like everyone seeing my goodies lol I'm a little bit of a prude with that type of stuff. I'm actually very straight forward but secretive. I will only give him information when he asks. I volunteer nothing lol

I did post a cute snap last night though 🙂 I'll upload it and tag you. I just make cute/ sexy facial expression to leave him thinking about who it's for 😆 I think he would like to know my whereabouts but I kind of like him asking, It shows interest. I never volunteer any info unless he tells me what he's doing first. Then I know he wants to know what I'm doing. lol

Like today, He asked what I was doing and I told him I was meeting up with a girl friend of mine after work. He said but it's raining. lmao . I told him well I like sitting indoors having a drink and watching the rain. lol Just silly lol

Funny i used the same filter on my picture lol I bet he loved your picture!! yeah I love when they ask but maybe sharing my location will get him obsessed with me. I want him to be madly in love with me. The thing is I don’t usually post cleavage pictures on my stories!! It was just a cute dressy top. Just a little tease. But I totally did it to get his attention. He checks my stories right away. But not my direct snaps. I don’t think he knows I can see who’s viewed my stories. Games!!!!!!

Since I've never post cleavage pics, I can't start now. He'll think I met someone lol He never tells me anything or gives me compliments but he does look at my pics. I just do my usual thing of sending him kiss emojis and he does his usual of sending back the OK hand sign. I think it's HILARIOUS lol

I have no clue what direct vs stories is. I didn't know that was possible either. You sure do know a lot about snapchat!!! 😆

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You should do it just to throw a curve ball at him. I bet that would be hilarious too 😂

I decide to share my location with him.....

direct is when you send a picture to specific people. It sends a notification to that person. It also tells me what time they viewed it. A story is posted in a different spot and anyone can view it. It doesn’t notify everyone when u post a story. Honestly I just started using it daily since the beginning of November. All because of an aqua. I only have 7 friends on there

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You don’t think he’s ready for a serious relationship because he only wants friendship right now. You want more. Let him think about this. Give him the opportunity to disappear for a week or 2. Took my aqua a week. He ghosted for a week. I thought it was over and now he’s back to normal. I guess let him miss you. And I really believe that snapchatting a really good photo helped me 😋

Oh yay that is an amazing tool. Men r natrual visual people esp Aqua I know. A great photo, fun activities. Amazing photos of ur ahchievements n just show that u r having lots of fun. Make sure u r really having fun though . They can spot fakness very easily. ps @ pink bird im glad ur man is back

Lol thanks! But I don’t know how long this will last. I’m still having lots of doubts. I don’t feel confident!! And I’m seeking some important answers to important questions right now soooo we will see!

why are you having doubts?

you might need to be a stable and the secure one in the relationship,

otherwise who's going to keep that aqua on the steady road path?

I have doubts because it’s been 5 weeks since I’ve seen him and I know he said he’s insanely busy and I do believe him but i guess trust is an issue for me right now. Especially since he disappeared on me last week. I also get insecure thinking that he can make time for his friends but not me. That’s not necessarily true. He only did that once weeks ago that I know of, but I just don’t feel confident about our relationship so I got emotional tonight! Gosh I hate myself. And of course he hasn’t answered me.

But I think he tries to put my mind at ease through other means than communication. For example, once he changed his Facebook cover photo to an empty picture of his apt on a Friday night to show me he’s home alone. Now tonight, I noticed he turned on his location on Snapchat so I could see that he’s home. I really think he did that for me. Because he shares his location on iPhone with all his close friends. They love it. There’s no need for him to do it on Snapchat. And he didn’t have it on until tonight.

Do aquas do things like this? Non verbal ways to show they care? Because my aqua sucks at communicating lately

Omg yes!!! This aqua does things on social media to get my attention too! For instance if I post something usually an hour later he will post something to get my attention for us to talk, or he will Post something that he knows will get my attention and I will find it funny lol .. recently he hasn’t been doing it as often though which is a little worrying. But I definitely know what you’re saying

Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?

Mine used to try and get my attention he doesn’t do it as often now lol

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Lol tell us what he does

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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?

Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol

My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆

Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?

He's a little on the conservative side, (Cap Venus) and I never post pics with cleavage. I will send pics privately but I don't like everyone seeing my goodies lol I'm a little bit of a prude with that type of stuff. I'm actually very straight forward but secretive. I will only give him information when he asks. I volunteer nothing lol

I did post a cute snap last night though 🙂 I'll upload it and tag you. I just make cute/ sexy facial expression to leave him thinking about who it's for 😆 I think he would like to know my whereabouts but I kind of like him asking, It shows interest. I never volunteer any info unless he tells me what he's doing first. Then I know he wants to know what I'm doing. lol

Like today, He asked what I was doing and I told him I was meeting up with a girl friend of mine after work. He said but it's raining. lmao . I told him well I like sitting indoors having a drink and watching the rain. lol Just silly lol

Funny i used the same filter on my picture lol I bet he loved your picture!! yeah I love when they ask but maybe sharing my location will get him obsessed with me. I want him to be madly in love with me. The thing is I don’t usually post cleavage pictures on my stories!! It was just a cute dressy top. Just a little tease. But I totally did it to get his attention. He checks my stories right away. But not my direct snaps. I don’t think he knows I can see who’s viewed my stories. Games!!!!!!

Since I've never post cleavage pics, I can't start now. He'll think I met someone lol He never tells me anything or gives me compliments but he does look at my pics. I just do my usual thing of sending him kiss emojis and he does his usual of sending back the OK hand sign. I think it's HILARIOUS lol

I have no clue what direct vs stories is. I didn't know that was possible either. You sure do know a lot about snapchat!!! 😆

You should do it just to throw a curve ball at him. I bet that would be hilarious too 😂

I decide to share my location with him.....

direct is when you send a picture to specific people. It sends a notification to that person. It also tells me what time they viewed it. A story is posted in a different spot and anyone can view it. It doesn’t notify everyone when u post a story. Honestly I just started using it daily since the beginning of November. All because of an aqua. I only have 7 friends on there

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Awww I get it. Lol I never send him direct pictures. I'm too nervous lol. He would just open them and probably not say anything anyways. I need to send him a panty pic and ask if these undies make my ass look fat 😂😂😂

I think he would get upset if I posted a pic with cleavage. He's always talking down about women who post thirst trap pics. My boobs are pretty big lol. He would see right thru me and I'd be ashamed. I don't mind sending him stuff privately but I don't like him thinking I'm sharing it with all the world (my contacts)

I'd do it if I was pissed at him though. 😂😂😂 Then he'd still know what I was doing. Lol

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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?

Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol

My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆

Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?

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I really have to private message you, Lol. I made a post like this when me and Aqua first started speaking he would always be the first to watch my videos on snapchat and instagram, he would post similar stories to mine to get my attention I.e if I posted I wanted to go on holiday he would post he needs a holiday lol, he would copy my snaps or wouldn’t post all day if I didn’t that’s how the pattern was, he doesn’t do it so much now so it makes me think he’s not that interested anymore especially as he has ignored my message— but before he would play those games on snap and then if I had messaged him because I knew he wanted my attention he would ignore me. It’s so confusing! I give up now after he ignored me today I feel so stupid but I definitely know what you’re talking about because I made a post about it months back

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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?

Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol

My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆

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I did the same with my Aqua and blocked him on everything he asked me the same question and when I told him about my feelings he said he never knew I felt that way then disappeared😅 now he’s completely vanished again I think I want to block him again lol

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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?

Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol

My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆

Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?

He's a little on the conservative side, (Cap Venus) and I never post pics with cleavage. I will send pics privately but I don't like everyone seeing my goodies lol I'm a little bit of a prude with that type of stuff. I'm actually very straight forward but secretive. I will only give him information when he asks. I volunteer nothing lol

I did post a cute snap last night though 🙂 I'll upload it and tag you. I just make cute/ sexy facial expression to leave him thinking about who it's for 😆 I think he would like to know my whereabouts but I kind of like him asking, It shows interest. I never volunteer any info unless he tells me what he's doing first. Then I know he wants to know what I'm doing. lol

Like today, He asked what I was doing and I told him I was meeting up with a girl friend of mine after work. He said but it's raining. lmao . I told him well I like sitting indoors having a drink and watching the rain. lol Just silly lol

Funny i used the same filter on my picture lol I bet he loved your picture!! yeah I love when they ask but maybe sharing my location will get him obsessed with me. I want him to be madly in love with me. The thing is I don’t usually post cleavage pictures on my stories!! It was just a cute dressy top. Just a little tease. But I totally did it to get his attention. He checks my stories right away. But not my direct snaps. I don’t think he knows I can see who’s viewed my stories. Games!!!!!!

Since I've never post cleavage pics, I can't start now. He'll think I met someone lol He never tells me anything or gives me compliments but he does look at my pics. I just do my usual thing of sending him kiss emojis and he does his usual of sending back the OK hand sign. I think it's HILARIOUS lol

I have no clue what direct vs stories is. I didn't know that was possible either. You sure do know a lot about snapchat!!! 😆

You should do it just to throw a curve ball at him. I bet that would be hilarious too 😂

I decide to share my location with him.....

direct is when you send a picture to specific people. It sends a notification to that person. It also tells me what time they viewed it. A story is posted in a different spot and anyone can view it. It doesn’t notify everyone when u post a story. Honestly I just started using it daily since the beginning of November. All because of an aqua. I only have 7 friends on there

Awww I get it. Lol I never send him direct pictures. I'm too nervous lol. He would just open them and probably not say anything anyways. I need to send him a panty pic and ask if these undies make my ass look fat 😂😂😂

I think he would get upset if I posted a pic with cleavage. He's always talking down about women who post thirst trap pics. My boobs are pretty big lol. He would see right thru me and I'd be ashamed. I don't mind sending him stuff privately but I don't like him thinking I'm sharing it with all the world (my contacts)

I'd do it if I was pissed at him though. 😂😂😂 Then he'd still know what I was doing. Lol

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Lol oh my aqua definitely knows I’m doing it for his attention. But maybe he’s worried about who else is seeing my stuff. I honestly wouldn’t do it if I had a lot of friends on there. But only my besties and they also know I’m doing it because of him. Games. Is this fun—? Maybe it kind of is!!! There’s something about the public being involved that makes it a little more exciting

Ok @pinkbird03 this is the type of games he plays, if we haven’t spoken for a week he will post on snapchat things to get my attention, he will be watching my videos etc then as soon as I give him attention he will IGNORE me then stop watching my videos and stop posting. Today he’s doing just that. I don’t think your Aqua is as weird as mine lol

I think my Aqua knows I’m posting things for his attention too lol I have never played these games with a guy before it’s so funny

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I think my Aqua knows I’m posting things for his attention too lol I have never played these games with a guy before it’s so funny

Just as long as you know how to play your cards right, it’s all good.

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Yes babe, I’ve got it under control I don’t post anything attention seeking I just post me and my girls having lunch or having a good time so he can see I am UNBOTHERED about his disappearing acts and that my life still goes on lol

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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?

Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol

My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆

Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?

I really have to private message you, Lol. I made a post like this when me and Aqua first started speaking he would always be the first to watch my videos on snapchat and instagram, he would post similar stories to mine to get my attention I.e if I posted I wanted to go on holiday he would post he needs a holiday lol, he would copy my snaps or wouldn’t post all day if I didn’t that’s how the pattern was, he doesn’t do it so much now so it makes me think he’s not that interested anymore especially as he has ignored my message— but before he would play those games on snap and then if I had messaged him because I knew he wanted my attention he would ignore me. It’s so confusing! I give up now after he ignored me today I feel so stupid but I definitely know what you’re talking about because I made a post about it months back

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I’m so glad I’m not the only one!!! It’s similar to what I’m going through except my aqua doesn’t send any snaps or post anything ever. What do you think that all means— Since he’s ignored you, have you tried to get attention other ways such as playing these games?

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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?

Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol

My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆

Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?

I really have to private message you, Lol. I made a post like this when me and Aqua first started speaking he would always be the first to watch my videos on snapchat and instagram, he would post similar stories to mine to get my attention I.e if I posted I wanted to go on holiday he would post he needs a holiday lol, he would copy my snaps or wouldn’t post all day if I didn’t that’s how the pattern was, he doesn’t do it so much now so it makes me think he’s not that interested anymore especially as he has ignored my message— but before he would play those games on snap and then if I had messaged him because I knew he wanted my attention he would ignore me. It’s so confusing! I give up now after he ignored me today I feel so stupid but I definitely know what you’re talking about because I made a post about it months back

I’m so glad I’m not the only one!!! It’s similar to what I’m going through except my aqua doesn’t send any snaps or post anything ever. What do you think that all means— Since he’s ignored you, have you tried to get attention other ways such as playing these games?

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My Aqua never used to post either until he started getting in to me but now he’s started to go back to not posting as much now, he barely posts infact. I don’t know what it means but I honestly think they play games and aren’t very good with communication like you would think 🤔 no, since he’s ignored me I posted up me and my girls having dinner at a nice restaurant and he hasn’t watched any of them Lol, he will by tomorrow . I’m not playing anymore games after this I just done this to prove I was unbothered but of course I’m gutted a little lol

My Aries Venus got the better of me and put him off me

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You don’t think he’s ready for a serious relationship because he only wants friendship right now. You want more. Let him think about this. Give him the opportunity to disappear for a week or 2. Took my aqua a week. He ghosted for a week. I thought it was over and now he’s back to normal. I guess let him miss you. And I really believe that snapchatting a really good photo helped me 😋

Oh yay that is an amazing tool. Men r natrual visual people esp Aqua I know. A great photo, fun activities. Amazing photos of ur ahchievements n just show that u r having lots of fun. Make sure u r really having fun though . They can spot fakness very easily. ps @ pink bird im glad ur man is back

Lol thanks! But I don’t know how long this will last. I’m still having lots of doubts. I don’t feel confident!! And I’m seeking some important answers to important questions right now soooo we will see!

why are you having doubts?

you might need to be a stable and the secure one in the relationship,

otherwise who's going to keep that aqua on the steady road path?

I have doubts because it’s been 5 weeks since I’ve seen him and I know he said he’s insanely busy and I do believe him but i guess trust is an issue for me right now. Especially since he disappeared on me last week. I also get insecure thinking that he can make time for his friends but not me. That’s not necessarily true. He only did that once weeks ago that I know of, but I just don’t feel confident about our relationship so I got emotional tonight! Gosh I hate myself. And of course he hasn’t answered me.

But I think he tries to put my mind at ease through other means than communication. For example, once he changed his Facebook cover photo to an empty picture of his apt on a Friday night to show me he’s home alone. Now tonight, I noticed he turned on his location on Snapchat so I could see that he’s home. I really think he did that for me. Because he shares his location on iPhone with all his close friends. They love it. There’s no need for him to do it on Snapchat. And he didn’t have it on until tonight.

Do aquas do things like this? Non verbal ways to show they care? Because my aqua sucks at communicating lately

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omg girl,

what i have learnt with the aqua is over thinking will just drive you insane honestly.

and sometimes, they actually don't have the time to over think or purposely do things like turning on notification to show you where he is etc so you feel rest assure.they got too many other things on their mind .

if he truly cares he will let you know.

etc

he's prob testing your independence right now.

you might need to shift all your focus and all your energy onto something else completely.

a new course, a new job, a new look, a new hobby, whatever it is.

thats when he will return .

growth is very important.



you are a cancer right?

this is going to be a very tough experience.



😢

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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?

Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

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are you with the aqua too ?

i also didn't know snap chat has this thing.

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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?

Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol

My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆

Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?

I really have to private message you, Lol. I made a post like this when me and Aqua first started speaking he would always be the first to watch my videos on snapchat and instagram, he would post similar stories to mine to get my attention I.e if I posted I wanted to go on holiday he would post he needs a holiday lol, he would copy my snaps or wouldn’t post all day if I didn’t that’s how the pattern was, he doesn’t do it so much now so it makes me think he’s not that interested anymore especially as he has ignored my message— but before he would play those games on snap and then if I had messaged him because I knew he wanted my attention he would ignore me. It’s so confusing! I give up now after he ignored me today I feel so stupid but I definitely know what you’re talking about because I made a post about it months back

I’m so glad I’m not the only one!!! It’s similar to what I’m going through except my aqua doesn’t send any snaps or post anything ever. What do you think that all means— Since he’s ignored you, have you tried to get attention other ways such as playing these games?

My Aqua never used to post either until he started getting in to me but now he’s started to go back to not posting as much now, he barely posts infact. I don’t know what it means but I honestly think they play games and aren’t very good with communication like you would think 🤔 no, since he’s ignored me I posted up me and my girls having dinner at a nice restaurant and he hasn’t watched any of them Lol, he will by tomorrow . I’m not playing anymore games after this I just done this to prove I was unbothered but of course I’m gutted a little lol

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Yea! I hear ya. It does suck when they ignore you. Actually it drives me up the wall!!! But he’s so curious to check in on me through social media. Whatever. I’m going to beat him at his own game. You should too!

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You don’t think he’s ready for a serious relationship because he only wants friendship right now. You want more. Let him think about this. Give him the opportunity to disappear for a week or 2. Took my aqua a week. He ghosted for a week. I thought it was over and now he’s back to normal. I guess let him miss you. And I really believe that snapchatting a really good photo helped me 😋

Oh yay that is an amazing tool. Men r natrual visual people esp Aqua I know. A great photo, fun activities. Amazing photos of ur ahchievements n just show that u r having lots of fun. Make sure u r really having fun though . They can spot fakness very easily. ps @ pink bird im glad ur man is back

Lol thanks! But I don’t know how long this will last. I’m still having lots of doubts. I don’t feel confident!! And I’m seeking some important answers to important questions right now soooo we will see!

why are you having doubts?

you might need to be a stable and the secure one in the relationship,

otherwise who's going to keep that aqua on the steady road path?

I have doubts because it’s been 5 weeks since I’ve seen him and I know he said he’s insanely busy and I do believe him but i guess trust is an issue for me right now. Especially since he disappeared on me last week. I also get insecure thinking that he can make time for his friends but not me. That’s not necessarily true. He only did that once weeks ago that I know of, but I just don’t feel confident about our relationship so I got emotional tonight! Gosh I hate myself. And of course he hasn’t answered me.

But I think he tries to put my mind at ease through other means than communication. For example, once he changed his Facebook cover photo to an empty picture of his apt on a Friday night to show me he’s home alone. Now tonight, I noticed he turned on his location on Snapchat so I could see that he’s home. I really think he did that for me. Because he shares his location on iPhone with all his close friends. They love it. There’s no need for him to do it on Snapchat. And he didn’t have it on until tonight.

Do aquas do things like this? Non verbal ways to show they care? Because my aqua sucks at communicating lately

omg girl,

what i have learnt with the aqua is over thinking will just drive you insane honestly.

and sometimes, they actually don't have the time to over think or purposely do things like turning on notification to show you where he is etc so you feel rest assure.they got too many other things on their mind .

if he truly cares he will let you know.

etc

he's prob testing your independence right now.

you might need to shift all your focus and all your energy onto something else completely.

a new course, a new job, a new look, a new hobby, whatever it is.

thats when he will return .

growth is very important.



you are a cancer right?

this is going to be a very tough experience.



😢

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You know I was thinking the same thing! That he’s testing me right now to see if I can handle him and his independence because right now he’s at the mall. Maybe shopping. Maybe out to dinner. I don’t know but I bet he’s testing me to see if I say something about it. I won’t. I don’t care what he does. All i want is to spend time with him. He’s sooo frustrating. This experience is already tough. Why is he so stubborn— Definitely need to focus on other things!!! Girl time!

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You don’t think he’s ready for a serious relationship because he only wants friendship right now. You want more. Let him think about this. Give him the opportunity to disappear for a week or 2. Took my aqua a week. He ghosted for a week. I thought it was over and now he’s back to normal. I guess let him miss you. And I really believe that snapchatting a really good photo helped me 😋

Oh yay that is an amazing tool. Men r natrual visual people esp Aqua I know. A great photo, fun activities. Amazing photos of ur ahchievements n just show that u r having lots of fun. Make sure u r really having fun though . They can spot fakness very easily. ps @ pink bird im glad ur man is back

Lol thanks! But I don’t know how long this will last. I’m still having lots of doubts. I don’t feel confident!! And I’m seeking some important answers to important questions right now soooo we will see!

why are you having doubts?

you might need to be a stable and the secure one in the relationship,

otherwise who's going to keep that aqua on the steady road path?

I have doubts because it’s been 5 weeks since I’ve seen him and I know he said he’s insanely busy and I do believe him but i guess trust is an issue for me right now. Especially since he disappeared on me last week. I also get insecure thinking that he can make time for his friends but not me. That’s not necessarily true. He only did that once weeks ago that I know of, but I just don’t feel confident about our relationship so I got emotional tonight! Gosh I hate myself. And of course he hasn’t answered me.

But I think he tries to put my mind at ease through other means than communication. For example, once he changed his Facebook cover photo to an empty picture of his apt on a Friday night to show me he’s home alone. Now tonight, I noticed he turned on his location on Snapchat so I could see that he’s home. I really think he did that for me. Because he shares his location on iPhone with all his close friends. They love it. There’s no need for him to do it on Snapchat. And he didn’t have it on until tonight.

Do aquas do things like this? Non verbal ways to show they care? Because my aqua sucks at communicating lately

omg girl,

what i have learnt with the aqua is over thinking will just drive you insane honestly.

and sometimes, they actually don't have the time to over think or purposely do things like turning on notification to show you where he is etc so you feel rest assure.they got too many other things on their mind .

if he truly cares he will let you know.

etc

he's prob testing your independence right now.

you might need to shift all your focus and all your energy onto something else completely.

a new course, a new job, a new look, a new hobby, whatever it is.

thats when he will return .

growth is very important.



you are a cancer right?

this is going to be a very tough experience.



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You know I was thinking the same thing! That he’s testing me right now to see if I can handle him and his independence because right now he’s at the mall. Maybe shopping. Maybe out to dinner. I don’t know but I bet he’s testing me to see if I say something about it. I won’t. I don’t care what he does. All i want is to spend time with him. He’s sooo frustrating. This experience is already tough. Why is he so stubborn— Definitely need to focus on other things!!! Girl time!

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hahahahaha i feel you.

yes focus on you completely. GIRL TIME. HAVE FUN. GO OUT. 🙂

i do truly thank this aqua, he honestly taught me to be the most independent person i have ever been.

tough year, but i am so grateful for every part of it

but, it has truly come to an end for me

i can't do it anymore.

when the aqua used to do something or say something that provoked me to be less independent ,

( remember they r very good at making the most confident girl in the room feel insecure and less independent coz of their detachment ),

they need a very very strong person with their bs sometimes lol

but yes , when that used to happen to me

i will go and do something crazy like

dye a new red hair colour,

new class,

go out,

etc.

so just do that 🙂

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You don’t think he’s ready for a serious relationship because he only wants friendship right now. You want more. Let him think about this. Give him the opportunity to disappear for a week or 2. Took my aqua a week. He ghosted for a week. I thought it was over and now he’s back to normal. I guess let him miss you. And I really believe that snapchatting a really good photo helped me 😋

Oh yay that is an amazing tool. Men r natrual visual people esp Aqua I know. A great photo, fun activities. Amazing photos of ur ahchievements n just show that u r having lots of fun. Make sure u r really having fun though . They can spot fakness very easily. ps @ pink bird im glad ur man is back

Lol thanks! But I don’t know how long this will last. I’m still having lots of doubts. I don’t feel confident!! And I’m seeking some important answers to important questions right now soooo we will see!

why are you having doubts?

you might need to be a stable and the secure one in the relationship,

otherwise who's going to keep that aqua on the steady road path?

I have doubts because it’s been 5 weeks since I’ve seen him and I know he said he’s insanely busy and I do believe him but i guess trust is an issue for me right now. Especially since he disappeared on me last week. I also get insecure thinking that he can make time for his friends but not me. That’s not necessarily true. He only did that once weeks ago that I know of, but I just don’t feel confident about our relationship so I got emotional tonight! Gosh I hate myself. And of course he hasn’t answered me.

But I think he tries to put my mind at ease through other means than communication. For example, once he changed his Facebook cover photo to an empty picture of his apt on a Friday night to show me he’s home alone. Now tonight, I noticed he turned on his location on Snapchat so I could see that he’s home. I really think he did that for me. Because he shares his location on iPhone with all his close friends. They love it. There’s no need for him to do it on Snapchat. And he didn’t have it on until tonight.

Do aquas do things like this? Non verbal ways to show they care? Because my aqua sucks at communicating lately

omg girl,

what i have learnt with the aqua is over thinking will just drive you insane honestly.

and sometimes, they actually don't have the time to over think or purposely do things like turning on notification to show you where he is etc so you feel rest assure.they got too many other things on their mind .

if he truly cares he will let you know.

etc

he's prob testing your independence right now.

you might need to shift all your focus and all your energy onto something else completely.

a new course, a new job, a new look, a new hobby, whatever it is.

thats when he will return .

growth is very important.



you are a cancer right?

this is going to be a very tough experience.



😢

You know I was thinking the same thing! That he’s testing me right now to see if I can handle him and his independence because right now he’s at the mall. Maybe shopping. Maybe out to dinner. I don’t know but I bet he’s testing me to see if I say something about it. I won’t. I don’t care what he does. All i want is to spend time with him. He’s sooo frustrating. This experience is already tough. Why is he so stubborn— Definitely need to focus on other things!!! Girl time!

hahahahaha i feel you.

yes focus on you completely. GIRL TIME. HAVE FUN. GO OUT. 🙂

i do truly thank this aqua, he honestly taught me to be the most independent person i have ever been.

tough year, but i am so grateful for every part of it

but, it has truly come to an end for me

i can't do it anymore.

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Well now he keeps checking Snapchat every few minutes. I’m staying off for now. I want to drive him crazy too.

What happened with the aqua that is telling you to stop trying?

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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?

Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

are you with the aqua too ?

i also didn't know snap chat has this thing.

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Nope not with him at all lol. Just friends. I did cut him off though and since then his attitude has adjusted and he's seen me twice in one week. Lol.

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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?

Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol

My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆

Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?

He's a little on the conservative side, (Cap Venus) and I never post pics with cleavage. I will send pics privately but I don't like everyone seeing my goodies lol I'm a little bit of a prude with that type of stuff. I'm actually very straight forward but secretive. I will only give him information when he asks. I volunteer nothing lol

I did post a cute snap last night though 🙂 I'll upload it and tag you. I just make cute/ sexy facial expression to leave him thinking about who it's for 😆 I think he would like to know my whereabouts but I kind of like him asking, It shows interest. I never volunteer any info unless he tells me what he's doing first. Then I know he wants to know what I'm doing. lol

Like today, He asked what I was doing and I told him I was meeting up with a girl friend of mine after work. He said but it's raining. lmao . I told him well I like sitting indoors having a drink and watching the rain. lol Just silly lol

don't go over board with selfie posting photos esp not the sexy ones.

aqua is actually very conservative and that provoke their inner deep posesive and protective nature.

you don't want to lose his trust.

post something that suggest you are growing and learning etc.

like a new fitness class u attended ( a video) , that you went out, new nice dress

that got my attention all the time...

well used to, i decided to cut it lose with him.

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Girl, I'm just gonna be me. Be knows me by now and knows the type of person I am. I do what I want but I don't play games or rock the boat too much. I stay pretty consistent lol