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I think my Aqua knows I’m posting things for his attention too lol I have never played these games with a guy before it’s so funny
Just as long as you know how to play your cards right, it’s all good.
Yes babe, I’ve got it under control I don’t post anything attention seeking I just post me and my girls having lunch or having a good time so he can see I am UNBOTHERED about his disappearing acts and that my life still goes on lol


thats great.

yeah this is one reason why i can't do aqua anymore..

too exhausting.

i had to quit it.

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I’m quitting too, I take being ignored personal and he knows it lol. That’s why I blocked him before, I’m going to keep him there and let him watch my life but the games are too many.
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when the aqua used to do something or say something that provoked me to be less independent ,

( remember they r very good at making the most confident girl in the room feel insecure and less independent coz of their detachment ),

they need a very very strong person with their bs sometimes lol

but yes , when that used to happen to me

i will go and do something crazy like

dye a new red hair colour,

new class,

go out,

etc.

so just do that 🙂
Thank you! I don’t necessarily want him now, I just want a chance to IGNORE him back when he comes back 😌 (Scorpio Moon) Lol!!

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I think my Aqua knows I’m posting things for his attention too lol I have never played these games with a guy before it’s so funny
Just as long as you know how to play your cards right, it’s all good.
Yes babe, I’ve got it under control I don’t post anything attention seeking I just post me and my girls having lunch or having a good time so he can see I am UNBOTHERED about his disappearing acts and that my life still goes on lol


thats great.

yeah this is one reason why i can't do aqua anymore..

too exhausting.

i had to quit it.


I’m quitting too, I take being ignored personal and he knows it lol. That’s why I blocked him before, I’m going to keep him there and let him watch my life but the games are too many.
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Yes too many games from you.
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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?
Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol


My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆
Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?
He's a little on the conservative side, (Cap Venus) and I never post pics with cleavage. I will send pics privately but I don't like everyone seeing my goodies lol I'm a little bit of a prude with that type of stuff. I'm actually very straight forward but secretive. I will only give him information when he asks. I volunteer nothing lol

I did post a cute snap last night though 🙂 I'll upload it and tag you. I just make cute/ sexy facial expression to leave him thinking about who it's for 😆 I think he would like to know my whereabouts but I kind of like him asking, It shows interest. I never volunteer any info unless he tells me what he's doing first. Then I know he wants to know what I'm doing. lol

Like today, He asked what I was doing and I told him I was meeting up with a girl friend of mine after work. He said but it's raining. lmao . I told him well I like sitting indoors having a drink and watching the rain. lol Just silly lol
Funny i used the same filter on my picture lol I bet he loved your picture!! yeah I love when they ask but maybe sharing my location will get him obsessed with me. I want him to be madly in love with me. The thing is I don’t usually post cleavage pictures on my stories!! It was just a cute dressy top. Just a little tease. But I totally did it to get his attention. He checks my stories right away. But not my direct snaps. I don’t think he knows I can see who’s viewed my stories. Games!!!!!!
Since I've never post cleavage pics, I can't start now. He'll think I met someone lol He never tells me anything or gives me compliments but he does look at my pics. I just do my usual thing of sending him kiss emojis and he does his usual of sending back the OK hand sign. I think it's HILARIOUS lol

I have no clue what direct vs stories is. I didn't know that was possible either. You sure do know a lot about snapchat!!! 😆



You should do it just to throw a curve ball at him. I bet that would be hilarious too 😂

I decide to share my location with him.....

direct is when you send a picture to specific people. It sends a notification to that person. It also tells me what time they viewed it. A story is posted in a different spot and anyone can view it. It doesn’t notify everyone when u post a story. Honestly I just started using it daily since the beginning of November. All because of an aqua. I only have 7 friends on there
Awww I get it. Lol I never send him direct pictures. I'm too nervous lol. He would just open them and probably not say anything anyways. I need to send him a panty pic and ask if these undies make my ass look fat 😂😂😂

I think he would get upset if I posted a pic with cleavage. He's always talking down about women who post thirst trap pics. My boobs are pretty big lol. He would see right thru me and I'd be ashamed. I don't mind sending him stuff privately but I don't like him thinking I'm sharing it with all the world (my contacts)

I'd do it if I was pissed at him though. 😂😂😂 Then he'd still know what I was doing. Lol
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Hey gurl. Entertain me for a good minute 😁

I’m trying to understand Snapchat myself. Partially because I’m not too familiar with it, but also because I want to know if he’s definitely playing games and I’m not just being a crazy chick. Well I don’t believe I’m too crazy! Hear me out... do you know anything about Snapchat Score?

Snapchat score is the sum total of all snaps you send and receive. Every time you send out a snap, your score is increased by a point. And every time you open a snap, your Snapchat score also increases. Soooo if he’s on 30+ times a day and his snap score isn’t going up, and he checks my all of my stories within 20 minutes or sooner, he’s most likely checking snapchat to see if I’m posting or to see my location 🤔 I turned it on this afternoon. (Stories don’t get points. Only direct snaps do) I’m starting to think he’s as obsessed and clingy as me. Especially with sharing our locations, I feel an odd sense of closeness with him. Are aquas really like this— Or is it something else in his chart?
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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?
Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol


My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆
Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?
He's a little on the conservative side, (Cap Venus) and I never post pics with cleavage. I will send pics privately but I don't like everyone seeing my goodies lol I'm a little bit of a prude with that type of stuff. I'm actually very straight forward but secretive. I will only give him information when he asks. I volunteer nothing lol

I did post a cute snap last night though 🙂 I'll upload it and tag you. I just make cute/ sexy facial expression to leave him thinking about who it's for 😆 I think he would like to know my whereabouts but I kind of like him asking, It shows interest. I never volunteer any info unless he tells me what he's doing first. Then I know he wants to know what I'm doing. lol

Like today, He asked what I was doing and I told him I was meeting up with a girl friend of mine after work. He said but it's raining. lmao . I told him well I like sitting indoors having a drink and watching the rain. lol Just silly lol
Funny i used the same filter on my picture lol I bet he loved your picture!! yeah I love when they ask but maybe sharing my location will get him obsessed with me. I want him to be madly in love with me. The thing is I don’t usually post cleavage pictures on my stories!! It was just a cute dressy top. Just a little tease. But I totally did it to get his attention. He checks my stories right away. But not my direct snaps. I don’t think he knows I can see who’s viewed my stories. Games!!!!!!
Since I've never post cleavage pics, I can't start now. He'll think I met someone lol He never tells me anything or gives me compliments but he does look at my pics. I just do my usual thing of sending him kiss emojis and he does his usual of sending back the OK hand sign. I think it's HILARIOUS lol

I have no clue what direct vs stories is. I didn't know that was possible either. You sure do know a lot about snapchat!!! 😆



You should do it just to throw a curve ball at him. I bet that would be hilarious too 😂

I decide to share my location with him.....

direct is when you send a picture to specific people. It sends a notification to that person. It also tells me what time they viewed it. A story is posted in a different spot and anyone can view it. It doesn’t notify everyone when u post a story. Honestly I just started using it daily since the beginning of November. All because of an aqua. I only have 7 friends on there
Awww I get it. Lol I never send him direct pictures. I'm too nervous lol. He would just open them and probably not say anything anyways. I need to send him a panty pic and ask if these undies make my ass look fat 😂😂😂

I think he would get upset if I posted a pic with cleavage. He's always talking down about women who post thirst trap pics. My boobs are pretty big lol. He would see right thru me and I'd be ashamed. I don't mind sending him stuff privately but I don't like him thinking I'm sharing it with all the world (my contacts)

I'd do it if I was pissed at him though. 😂😂😂 Then he'd still know what I was doing. Lol
Hey gurl. Entertain me for a good minute 😁

I’m trying to understand Snapchat myself. Partially because I’m not too familiar with it, but also because I want to know if he’s definitely playing games and I’m not just being a crazy chick. Well I don’t believe I’m too crazy! Hear me out... do you know anything about Snapchat Score?

Snapchat score is the sum total of all snaps you send and receive. Every time you send out a snap, your score is increased by a point. And every time you open a snap, your Snapchat score also increases. Soooo if he’s on 30+ times a day and his snap score isn’t going up, and he checks my all of my stories within 20 minutes or sooner, he’s most likely checking snapchat to see if I’m posting or to see my location 🤔 I turned it on this afternoon. (Stories don’t get points. Only direct snaps do) I’m starting to think he’s as obsessed and clingy as me. Especially with sharing our locations, I feel an odd sense of closeness with him. Are aquas really like this— Or is it something else in his chart?

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Girl I have no clue lol. 😂😂😂

I notice the point go up when you make any type of video or snap and save or post it. So all those snaps that you save, and never post get a point too. As well as all the snaps you send privately in chat. He can look all he wants. Points shouldn't change.

This is the type of stuff that can drive a person crazy lol. My snaps went up 200 points since Sept. His went up about 500. I have no clue how much he uses the app. I did notice that when I clicked on his name that his location showed. And so I just un- ghosted myself and shared my location with him, thanks to your influence!! 😂😂😂

Guess we'll see how that goes. Just one more thing that will make him wonder if I decide to hide it again 😒🙄
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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?
Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol


My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆
Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?
He's a little on the conservative side, (Cap Venus) and I never post pics with cleavage. I will send pics privately but I don't like everyone seeing my goodies lol I'm a little bit of a prude with that type of stuff. I'm actually very straight forward but secretive. I will only give him information when he asks. I volunteer nothing lol

I did post a cute snap last night though 🙂 I'll upload it and tag you. I just make cute/ sexy facial expression to leave him thinking about who it's for 😆 I think he would like to know my whereabouts but I kind of like him asking, It shows interest. I never volunteer any info unless he tells me what he's doing first. Then I know he wants to know what I'm doing. lol

Like today, He asked what I was doing and I told him I was meeting up with a girl friend of mine after work. He said but it's raining. lmao . I told him well I like sitting indoors having a drink and watching the rain. lol Just silly lol
Funny i used the same filter on my picture lol I bet he loved your picture!! yeah I love when they ask but maybe sharing my location will get him obsessed with me. I want him to be madly in love with me. The thing is I don’t usually post cleavage pictures on my stories!! It was just a cute dressy top. Just a little tease. But I totally did it to get his attention. He checks my stories right away. But not my direct snaps. I don’t think he knows I can see who’s viewed my stories. Games!!!!!!
Since I've never post cleavage pics, I can't start now. He'll think I met someone lol He never tells me anything or gives me compliments but he does look at my pics. I just do my usual thing of sending him kiss emojis and he does his usual of sending back the OK hand sign. I think it's HILARIOUS lol

I have no clue what direct vs stories is. I didn't know that was possible either. You sure do know a lot about snapchat!!! 😆



You should do it just to throw a curve ball at him. I bet that would be hilarious too 😂

I decide to share my location with him.....

direct is when you send a picture to specific people. It sends a notification to that person. It also tells me what time they viewed it. A story is posted in a different spot and anyone can view it. It doesn’t notify everyone when u post a story. Honestly I just started using it daily since the beginning of November. All because of an aqua. I only have 7 friends on there
Awww I get it. Lol I never send him direct pictures. I'm too nervous lol. He would just open them and probably not say anything anyways. I need to send him a panty pic and ask if these undies make my ass look fat 😂😂😂

I think he would get upset if I posted a pic with cleavage. He's always talking down about women who post thirst trap pics. My boobs are pretty big lol. He would see right thru me and I'd be ashamed. I don't mind sending him stuff privately but I don't like him thinking I'm sharing it with all the world (my contacts)

I'd do it if I was pissed at him though. 😂😂😂 Then he'd still know what I was doing. Lol
Hey gurl. Entertain me for a good minute 😁

I’m trying to understand Snapchat myself. Partially because I’m not too familiar with it, but also because I want to know if he’s definitely playing games and I’m not just being a crazy chick. Well I don’t believe I’m too crazy! Hear me out... do you know anything about Snapchat Score?

Snapchat score is the sum total of all snaps you send and receive. Every time you send out a snap, your score is increased by a point. And every time you open a snap, your Snapchat score also increases. Soooo if he’s on 30+ times a day and his snap score isn’t going up, and he checks my all of my stories within 20 minutes or sooner, he’s most likely checking snapchat to see if I’m posting or to see my location 🤔 I turned it on this afternoon. (Stories don’t get points. Only direct snaps do) I’m starting to think he’s as obsessed and clingy as me. Especially with sharing our locations, I feel an odd sense of closeness with him. Are aquas really like this— Or is it something else in his chart?

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Wow this is creepy , are you a Pisces like me lol? I’ve been checking his snap score too but his snap score goes up daily I have trust issues though I don’t really trust men so I’ve been assuming he’s sending snaps to other girls or friends but his goes up daily. I even googled it , your snap score goes up when you send a snap to someone by 1 point or post on your story by 10 points .. so recently he hasn’t been posting on snap to get my attention like he used to but his score has gone up. Wow. It’s so crazy how you are just like me I think we need to talk off this post because you literally are doing things and experiencing things I do lol.

And as for the whole “is he obsessed with me as much as I am with him?” I thought the same with my Aqua, I thought he must really like me as much as I do since he’s playing all these games and only posting on snapchat for my attention and being the first to watch all of my snaps, but when I would speak to him he would either ignore me or have conversation then just stop replying out of the blue and it confused me , other times he would be very engaging in conversation and one day we had such a nice conversation he posted on his Snapchat that he was in a really good mood Lol obviously because we was getting to know each other . But his actions are just confusing from what he does when we are speaking so I don’t know
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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?
Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol


My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆
Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?
I really have to private message you, Lol. I made a post like this when me and Aqua first started speaking he would always be the first to watch my videos on snapchat and instagram, he would post similar stories to mine to get my attention I.e if I posted I wanted to go on holiday he would post he needs a holiday lol, he would copy my snaps or wouldn’t post all day if I didn’t that’s how the pattern was, he doesn’t do it so much now so it makes me think he’s not that interested anymore especially as he has ignored my message— but before he would play those games on snap and then if I had messaged him because I knew he wanted my attention he would ignore me. It’s so confusing! I give up now after he ignored me today I feel so stupid but I definitely know what you’re talking about because I made a post about it months back


I’m so glad I’m not the only one!!! It’s similar to what I’m going through except my aqua doesn’t send any snaps or post anything ever. What do you think that all means— Since he’s ignored you, have you tried to get attention other ways such as playing these games?
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Omg you are so patient!!! If a guy ignores me like that I will be so gone 😄
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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?
Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.
are you with the aqua too ?

i also didn't know snap chat has this thing.
Nope not with him at all lol. Just friends. I did cut him off though and since then his attitude has adjusted and he's seen me twice in one week. Lol.
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sounds about right.

i'm in the same boat exactly lol

recently cut him off too , n now he's being very sweet and supportive.

goodness 😛
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And as for the whole “is he obsessed with me as much as I am with him?” I thought the same with my Aqua, I thought he must really like me as much as I do since he’s playing all these games and only posting on snapchat for my attention and being the first to watch all of my snaps, but when I would speak to him he would either ignore me or have conversation then just stop replying out of the blue and it confused me , other times he would be very engaging in conversation and one day we had such a nice conversation he posted on his Snapchat that he was in a really good mood Lol obviously because we was getting to know each other . But his actions are just confusing from what he does when we are speaking so I don’t know



oh my god, they have score cards—

lol --- snap chat is the best i love it.

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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?
Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol


My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆
Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?
I really have to private message you, Lol. I made a post like this when me and Aqua first started speaking he would always be the first to watch my videos on snapchat and instagram, he would post similar stories to mine to get my attention I.e if I posted I wanted to go on holiday he would post he needs a holiday lol, he would copy my snaps or wouldn’t post all day if I didn’t that’s how the pattern was, he doesn’t do it so much now so it makes me think he’s not that interested anymore especially as he has ignored my message— but before he would play those games on snap and then if I had messaged him because I knew he wanted my attention he would ignore me. It’s so confusing! I give up now after he ignored me today I feel so stupid but I definitely know what you’re talking about because I made a post about it months back


I’m so glad I’m not the only one!!! It’s similar to what I’m going through except my aqua doesn’t send any snaps or post anything ever. What do you think that all means— Since he’s ignored you, have you tried to get attention other ways such as playing these games?
Omg you are so patient!!! If a guy ignores me like that I will be so gone 😄

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Yeah same which is why I completely blocked him off everything lol!!! Then he came back 4 weeks later like nothing happened 🤔 my mum is a Libra and my dad was an Aquarius and he was the same with her she said she would just always ignore him lol she never paid him any attention
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So now the availability of mobile data and Wi-Fi and the extensive use of the phone for social media is called stalking... hmmm... As you, girls, are forgetting that Aquas are prone to be glued to their phones, since they love technology so much. And also, forgetting that are so many other girls that they are "stalking" too 🙂)
Yes my dad was a technology freak lol! And I know this guy is the same too, he’s very nerd-like haha I find Aquarius people nerdy lmao
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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?
Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol


My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆
Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?
I really have to private message you, Lol. I made a post like this when me and Aqua first started speaking he would always be the first to watch my videos on snapchat and instagram, he would post similar stories to mine to get my attention I.e if I posted I wanted to go on holiday he would post he needs a holiday lol, he would copy my snaps or wouldn’t post all day if I didn’t that’s how the pattern was, he doesn’t do it so much now so it makes me think he’s not that interested anymore especially as he has ignored my message— but before he would play those games on snap and then if I had messaged him because I knew he wanted my attention he would ignore me. It’s so confusing! I give up now after he ignored me today I feel so stupid but I definitely know what you’re talking about because I made a post about it months back


I’m so glad I’m not the only one!!! It’s similar to what I’m going through except my aqua doesn’t send any snaps or post anything ever. What do you think that all means— Since he’s ignored you, have you tried to get attention other ways such as playing these games?
Omg you are so patient!!! If a guy ignores me like that I will be so gone 😄


Yeah same which is why I completely blocked him off everything lol!!! Then he came back 4 weeks later like nothing happened 🤔 my mum is a Libra and my dad was an Aquarius and he was the same with her she said she would just always ignore him lol she never paid him any attention

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Maybe libra and aqua are not meant to be together? Maybe you enjoy games like this? My mom was a Pisces and my dad Aqua and they were very happy. No games. He was always there for her. Loved her to bits
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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?
Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol


My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆
Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?
I really have to private message you, Lol. I made a post like this when me and Aqua first started speaking he would always be the first to watch my videos on snapchat and instagram, he would post similar stories to mine to get my attention I.e if I posted I wanted to go on holiday he would post he needs a holiday lol, he would copy my snaps or wouldn’t post all day if I didn’t that’s how the pattern was, he doesn’t do it so much now so it makes me think he’s not that interested anymore especially as he has ignored my message— but before he would play those games on snap and then if I had messaged him because I knew he wanted my attention he would ignore me. It’s so confusing! I give up now after he ignored me today I feel so stupid but I definitely know what you’re talking about because I made a post about it months back


I’m so glad I’m not the only one!!! It’s similar to what I’m going through except my aqua doesn’t send any snaps or post anything ever. What do you think that all means— Since he’s ignored you, have you tried to get attention other ways such as playing these games?
Omg you are so patient!!! If a guy ignores me like that I will be so gone 😄


Yeah same which is why I completely blocked him off everything lol!!! Then he came back 4 weeks later like nothing happened 🤔 my mum is a Libra and my dad was an Aquarius and he was the same with her she said she would just always ignore him lol she never paid him any attention


Maybe libra and aqua are not meant to be together? Maybe you enjoy games like this? My mom was a Pisces and my dad Aqua and they were very happy. No games. He was always there for her. Loved her to bits
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It’s true but what i read online about aquas are always different to what I see on here, I heard they’re good with earth signs and not water signs. My dad also married a Pisces after he and my mum divorced so I don’t know. Me personally couldn’t handle it lol. I do like games also but not these type where I get ignored 😂
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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?
Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol


My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆
Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?
I really have to private message you, Lol. I made a post like this when me and Aqua first started speaking he would always be the first to watch my videos on snapchat and instagram, he would post similar stories to mine to get my attention I.e if I posted I wanted to go on holiday he would post he needs a holiday lol, he would copy my snaps or wouldn’t post all day if I didn’t that’s how the pattern was, he doesn’t do it so much now so it makes me think he’s not that interested anymore especially as he has ignored my message— but before he would play those games on snap and then if I had messaged him because I knew he wanted my attention he would ignore me. It’s so confusing! I give up now after he ignored me today I feel so stupid but I definitely know what you’re talking about because I made a post about it months back


I’m so glad I’m not the only one!!! It’s similar to what I’m going through except my aqua doesn’t send any snaps or post anything ever. What do you think that all means— Since he’s ignored you, have you tried to get attention other ways such as playing these games?
Omg you are so patient!!! If a guy ignores me like that I will be so gone 😄


Yeah same which is why I completely blocked him off everything lol!!! Then he came back 4 weeks later like nothing happened 🤔 my mum is a Libra and my dad was an Aquarius and he was the same with her she said she would just always ignore him lol she never paid him any attention


Maybe libra and aqua are not meant to be together? Maybe you enjoy games like this? My mom was a Pisces and my dad Aqua and they were very happy. No games. He was always there for her. Loved her to bits
It’s true but what i read online about aquas are always different to what I see on here, I heard they’re good with earth signs and not water signs. My dad also married a Pisces after he and my mum divorced so I don’t know. Me personally couldn’t handle it lol. I do like games also but not these type where I get ignored 😂

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I always think that aqua is the best fit for me. Easy. No games. We really understand each other. 😉 Funny your father married a Pisces after. 😄 Yes, no point to be with someone that doesn’t make you happy
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So now the availability of mobile data and Wi-Fi and the extensive use of the phone for social media is called stalking... hmmm... As you, girls, are forgetting that Aquas are prone to be glued to their phones, since they love technology so much. And also, forgetting that are so many other girls that they are "stalking" too 🙂)
I think we know these . but do you?
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So now the availability of mobile data and Wi-Fi and the extensive use of the phone for social media is called stalking... hmmm... As you, girls, are forgetting that Aquas are prone to be glued to their phones, since they love technology so much. And also, forgetting that are so many other girls that they are "stalking" too 🙂)
Yes my dad was a technology freak lol! And I know this guy is the same too, he’s very nerd-like haha I find Aquarius people nerdy lmao

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Yeb Aqua is glued to their phone. To keep up with their many acquatancee and new people to talk to etc. new topics. New apps. LoL... so much going on in those mind.. creating connection everywhere. lol
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That because the OP sees them as games when they are not. As I said, with today's technology is very easy to get notifications when friends are posting something. I know lots of Aquas that post constantly on social media, without trying to get anyone's attention. My Aqua likes many pictures or posts of various online friends. This does not mean he is playing any kind of games. But the female friends tend to think so...

Aquas are a lot simpler than that. If they are interested, they simply approach you, chat with you, meet with you, call you.

And the OP is not a Libra, but a Pisces. Creating stories where they may not be. I am a Libra. But I never had to "play games" with the Aqua. We are in constant contact, online or not, without having any need to ask for "gaming" attention. The only thing I did in the beginning was to be myself and mind my own interests regarding the online media, as I did before meeting him and as I continue to do. Yes, he is regularly checking my posts and we even discuss some of the topics when we meet. That's the kind of "game" he likes.
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That because the OP sees them as games when they are not. As I said, with today's technology is very easy to get notifications when friends are posting something. I know lots of Aquas that post constantly on social media, without trying to get anyone's attention. My Aqua likes many pictures or posts of various online friends. This does not mean he is playing any kind of games. But the female friends tend to think so...

Aquas are a lot simpler than that. If they are interested, they simply approach you, chat with you, meet with you, call you.

And the OP is not a Libra, but a Pisces. Creating stories where they may not be. I am a Libra. But I never had to "play games" with the Aqua. We are in constant contact, online or not, without having any need to ask for "gaming" attention. The only thing I did in the beginning was to be myself and mind my own interests regarding the online media, as I did before meeting him and as I continue to do. Yes, he is regularly checking my posts and we even discuss some of the topics when we meet. That's the kind of "game" he likes.

I do agree with this. I don't think Aqua play games with online stuff. I don't think they care much or have the time lol. Esp the men.. I talked to the Aqua tooo about this . He says he's not good with messaging and prefer it face to face or phone calls. but he never dissapear ever on me n it's been year. Prob those Pisces energy helps. but yes, I think Aqua only dissapear if something bothered them, n they need time to truly think. Or just very busy wit work. I don't see the reason of games if they r toghee either. Doesn't make sense to me . I noe this Aqua want me to tell him exactly what's wrong. or exactly what I want or don't want. he says men is simple. If I tell him not to worry about it if I had a bad day when he asked then he assumed ok well then and then he moved on. lol .
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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?
Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol


My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆
Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?
I really have to private message you, Lol. I made a post like this when me and Aqua first started speaking he would always be the first to watch my videos on snapchat and instagram, he would post similar stories to mine to get my attention I.e if I posted I wanted to go on holiday he would post he needs a holiday lol, he would copy my snaps or wouldn’t post all day if I didn’t that’s how the pattern was, he doesn’t do it so much now so it makes me think he’s not that interested anymore especially as he has ignored my message— but before he would play those games on snap and then if I had messaged him because I knew he wanted my attention he would ignore me. It’s so confusing! I give up now after he ignored me today I feel so stupid but I definitely know what you’re talking about because I made a post about it months back


I’m so glad I’m not the only one!!! It’s similar to what I’m going through except my aqua doesn’t send any snaps or post anything ever. What do you think that all means— Since he’s ignored you, have you tried to get attention other ways such as playing these games?
Omg you are so patient!!! If a guy ignores me like that I will be so gone 😄

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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?
Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol


My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆
Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?
He's a little on the conservative side, (Cap Venus) and I never post pics with cleavage. I will send pics privately but I don't like everyone seeing my goodies lol I'm a little bit of a prude with that type of stuff. I'm actually very straight forward but secretive. I will only give him information when he asks. I volunteer nothing lol

I did post a cute snap last night though 🙂 I'll upload it and tag you. I just make cute/ sexy facial expression to leave him thinking about who it's for 😆 I think he would like to know my whereabouts but I kind of like him asking, It shows interest. I never volunteer any info unless he tells me what he's doing first. Then I know he wants to know what I'm doing. lol

Like today, He asked what I was doing and I told him I was meeting up with a girl friend of mine after work. He said but it's raining. lmao . I told him well I like sitting indoors having a drink and watching the rain. lol Just silly lol
Funny i used the same filter on my picture lol I bet he loved your picture!! yeah I love when they ask but maybe sharing my location will get him obsessed with me. I want him to be madly in love with me. The thing is I don’t usually post cleavage pictures on my stories!! It was just a cute dressy top. Just a little tease. But I totally did it to get his attention. He checks my stories right away. But not my direct snaps. I don’t think he knows I can see who’s viewed my stories. Games!!!!!!
Since I've never post cleavage pics, I can't start now. He'll think I met someone lol He never tells me anything or gives me compliments but he does look at my pics. I just do my usual thing of sending him kiss emojis and he does his usual of sending back the OK hand sign. I think it's HILARIOUS lol

I have no clue what direct vs stories is. I didn't know that was possible either. You sure do know a lot about snapchat!!! 😆



You should do it just to throw a curve ball at him. I bet that would be hilarious too 😂

I decide to share my location with him.....

direct is when you send a picture to specific people. It sends a notification to that person. It also tells me what time they viewed it. A story is posted in a different spot and anyone can view it. It doesn’t notify everyone when u post a story. Honestly I just started using it daily since the beginning of November. All because of an aqua. I only have 7 friends on there
Awww I get it. Lol I never send him direct pictures. I'm too nervous lol. He would just open them and probably not say anything anyways. I need to send him a panty pic and ask if these undies make my ass look fat 😂😂😂

I think he would get upset if I posted a pic with cleavage. He's always talking down about women who post thirst trap pics. My boobs are pretty big lol. He would see right thru me and I'd be ashamed. I don't mind sending him stuff privately but I don't like him thinking I'm sharing it with all the world (my contacts)

I'd do it if I was pissed at him though. 😂😂😂 Then he'd still know what I was doing. Lol
Hey gurl. Entertain me for a good minute 😁

I’m trying to understand Snapchat myself. Partially because I’m not too familiar with it, but also because I want to know if he’s definitely playing games and I’m not just being a crazy chick. Well I don’t believe I’m too crazy! Hear me out... do you know anything about Snapchat Score?

Snapchat score is the sum total of all snaps you send and receive. Every time you send out a snap, your score is increased by a point. And every time you open a snap, your Snapchat score also increases. Soooo if he’s on 30+ times a day and his snap score isn’t going up, and he checks my all of my stories within 20 minutes or sooner, he’s most likely checking snapchat to see if I’m posting or to see my location 🤔 I turned it on this afternoon. (Stories don’t get points. Only direct snaps do) I’m starting to think he’s as obsessed and clingy as me. Especially with sharing our locations, I feel an odd sense of closeness with him. Are aquas really like this— Or is it something else in his chart?


Girl I have no clue lol. 😂😂😂

I notice the point go up when you make any type of video or snap and save or post it. So all those snaps that you save, and never post get a point too. As well as all the snaps you send privately in chat. He can look all he wants. Points shouldn't change.

This is the type of stuff that can drive a person crazy lol. My snaps went up 200 points since Sept. His went up about 500. I have no clue how much he uses the app. I did notice that when I clicked on his name that his location showed. And so I just un- ghosted myself and shared my location with him, thanks to your influence!! 😂😂😂

Guess we'll see how that goes. Just one more thing that will make him wonder if I decide to hide it again 😒🙄

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Lol! YES! You have to keep me updated!! Now your location only updates when you log on. And it tells him, location updated ___ minutes ago. Have fun!!! I hope he turns his on 😁
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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?
Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol


My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆
Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?
I really have to private message you, Lol. I made a post like this when me and Aqua first started speaking he would always be the first to watch my videos on snapchat and instagram, he would post similar stories to mine to get my attention I.e if I posted I wanted to go on holiday he would post he needs a holiday lol, he would copy my snaps or wouldn’t post all day if I didn’t that’s how the pattern was, he doesn’t do it so much now so it makes me think he’s not that interested anymore especially as he has ignored my message— but before he would play those games on snap and then if I had messaged him because I knew he wanted my attention he would ignore me. It’s so confusing! I give up now after he ignored me today I feel so stupid but I definitely know what you’re talking about because I made a post about it months back


I’m so glad I’m not the only one!!! It’s similar to what I’m going through except my aqua doesn’t send any snaps or post anything ever. What do you think that all means— Since he’s ignored you, have you tried to get attention other ways such as playing these games?
Omg you are so patient!!! If a guy ignores me like that I will be so gone 😄


I’ve never had a guy stalk me that I’ve known about and really liked. It’s definitely got me interested!!! Actually feels good
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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?
Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol


My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆
Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?
He's a little on the conservative side, (Cap Venus) and I never post pics with cleavage. I will send pics privately but I don't like everyone seeing my goodies lol I'm a little bit of a prude with that type of stuff. I'm actually very straight forward but secretive. I will only give him information when he asks. I volunteer nothing lol

I did post a cute snap last night though 🙂 I'll upload it and tag you. I just make cute/ sexy facial expression to leave him thinking about who it's for 😆 I think he would like to know my whereabouts but I kind of like him asking, It shows interest. I never volunteer any info unless he tells me what he's doing first. Then I know he wants to know what I'm doing. lol

Like today, He asked what I was doing and I told him I was meeting up with a girl friend of mine after work. He said but it's raining. lmao . I told him well I like sitting indoors having a drink and watching the rain. lol Just silly lol
Funny i used the same filter on my picture lol I bet he loved your picture!! yeah I love when they ask but maybe sharing my location will get him obsessed with me. I want him to be madly in love with me. The thing is I don’t usually post cleavage pictures on my stories!! It was just a cute dressy top. Just a little tease. But I totally did it to get his attention. He checks my stories right away. But not my direct snaps. I don’t think he knows I can see who’s viewed my stories. Games!!!!!!
Since I've never post cleavage pics, I can't start now. He'll think I met someone lol He never tells me anything or gives me compliments but he does look at my pics. I just do my usual thing of sending him kiss emojis and he does his usual of sending back the OK hand sign. I think it's HILARIOUS lol

I have no clue what direct vs stories is. I didn't know that was possible either. You sure do know a lot about snapchat!!! 😆


Hey gurl. Entertain me for a good minute 😁

I’m trying to understand Snapchat myself. Partially because I’m not too familiar with it, but also because I want to know if he’s definitely playing games and I’m not just being a crazy chick. Well I don’t believe I’m too crazy! Hear me out... do you know anything about Snapchat Score?

Snapchat score is the sum total of all snaps you send and receive. Every time you send out a snap, your score is increased by a point. And every time you open a snap, your Snapchat score also increases. Soooo if he’s on 30+ times a day and his snap score isn’t going up, and he checks my all of my stories within 20 minutes or sooner, he’s most likely checking snapchat to see if I’m posting or to see my location 🤔 I turned it on this afternoon. (Stories don’t get points. Only direct snaps do) I’m starting to think he’s as obsessed and clingy as me. Especially with sharing our locations, I feel an odd sense of closeness with him. Are aquas really like this— Or is it something else in his chart?


Wow this is creepy , are you a Pisces like me lol? I’ve been checking his snap score too but his snap score goes up daily I have trust issues though I don’t really trust men so I’ve been assuming he’s sending snaps to other girls or friends but his goes up daily. I even googled it , your snap score goes up when you send a snap to someone by 1 point or post on your story by 10 points .. so recently he hasn’t been posting on snap to get my attention like he used to but his score has gone up. Wow. It’s so crazy how you are just like me I think we need to talk off this post because you literally are doing things and experiencing things I do lol.

And as for the whole “is he obsessed with me as much as I am with him?” I thought the same with my Aqua, I thought he must really like me as much as I do since he’s playing all these games and only posting on snapchat for my attention and being the first to watch all of my snaps, but when I would speak to him he would either ignore me or have conversation then just stop replying out of the blue and it confused me , other times he would be very engaging in conversation and one day we had such a nice conversation he posted on his Snapchat that he was in a really good mood Lol obviously because we was getting to know each other . But his actions are just confusing from what he does when we are speaking so I don’t know

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It sounds the exact same!!! Yea we should. Lol I never played with Snapchat so much. We’ve been dating since September and the games just began the last few weeks. How long have you known your aqua man? Are you exclusive? See we are in a committed relationship and I trust him. He works every day of the week so I really don’t think he’s on Snapchat for any other girls. He never has posted anything. Not even once since I’ve known him. He does have some friends on there though. But with the location I can see the last time he logs on, which is often. Just like me 😋 it’s actually a bad habit though. I try to stay off! And without realizing it, I’ve logged back on. Crap. I’m addicted to this app!
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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?
Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol


My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆
Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?
I really have to private message you, Lol. I made a post like this when me and Aqua first started speaking he would always be the first to watch my videos on snapchat and instagram, he would post similar stories to mine to get my attention I.e if I posted I wanted to go on holiday he would post he needs a holiday lol, he would copy my snaps or wouldn’t post all day if I didn’t that’s how the pattern was, he doesn’t do it so much now so it makes me think he’s not that interested anymore especially as he has ignored my message— but before he would play those games on snap and then if I had messaged him because I knew he wanted my attention he would ignore me. It’s so confusing! I give up now after he ignored me today I feel so stupid but I definitely know what you’re talking about because I made a post about it months back


I’m so glad I’m not the only one!!! It’s similar to what I’m going through except my aqua doesn’t send any snaps or post anything ever. What do you think that all means— Since he’s ignored you, have you tried to get attention other ways such as playing these games?
Omg you are so patient!!! If a guy ignores me like that I will be so gone 😄


I’ve never had a guy stalk me that I’ve known about and really liked. It’s definitely got me interested!!! Actually feels good
Idk To me it’s weird that he is not communicating one to one. Aqua need to feel like you are there for them and they need attention but lots of freedom
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1. My bf can’t focus on owning two businesses and me at the same time. He’s extremely busy lately.

2. He can’t handle my pms days. Neither can I!! Thank goodness I start a no-pms birth control pill soon!

3. He didn’t share his location for me for no reason. I think it’s because he wants me to trust him. And maybe it’s a test to see if I can handle his freedom. And maybe it’s just easier for him if I check his location rather than him having to check in? And maybe he just wants tabs on me too!
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That because the OP sees them as games when they are not. As I said, with today's technology is very easy to get notifications when friends are posting something. I know lots of Aquas that post constantly on social media, without trying to get anyone's attention. My Aqua likes many pictures or posts of various online friends. This does not mean he is playing any kind of games. But the female friends tend to think so...

Aquas are a lot simpler than that. If they are interested, they simply approach you, chat with you, meet with you, call you.

And the OP is not a Libra, but a Pisces. Creating stories where they may not be. I am a Libra. But I never had to "play games" with the Aqua. We are in constant contact, online or not, without having any need to ask for "gaming" attention. The only thing I did in the beginning was to be myself and mind my own interests regarding the online media, as I did before meeting him and as I continue to do. Yes, he is regularly checking my posts and we even discuss some of the topics when we meet. That's the kind of "game" he likes.
That’s what your experience is and what you think but I know 100000% he was playing games trying to get my attention. He was posting the SAME thing as me or something he know would make me laugh and the days I wouldn’t post because I was busy he ironically wouldn’t post either. Then when I would post, again he would post too! How ironic is that? You could say coincidence but I call it mind games, especially as he is quite shy as well he wanted me to approach him first which I used to do lol. And when we first met he had to ask his friend to ask me for directions in his own town that I wasn’t from Lol, then his friend admitted that he asked me for directions because his friend (Aqua) wanted my number.🤷🏽‍♀️ I’m not saying I’m great and a guy would do all this for me but I do observe and I am very in tune with my intuition and I know when someone is being funny with me and I know when someone is trying to get my attention— at the moment he’s being funny with me lol😌
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And as for the whole “is he obsessed with me as much as I am with him?” I thought the same with my Aqua, I thought he must really like me as much as I do since he’s playing all these games and only posting on snapchat for my attention and being the first to watch all of my snaps, but when I would speak to him he would either ignore me or have conversation then just stop replying out of the blue and it confused me , other times he would be very engaging in conversation and one day we had such a nice conversation he posted on his Snapchat that he was in a really good mood Lol obviously because we was getting to know each other . But his actions are just confusing from what he does when we are speaking so I don’t know


oh my god, they have score cards—

lol --- snap chat is the best i love it.





Were You emotional with him or anything right before he ignored you. My bf usually ignores me when I’m emotional, usually only takes him a few days to talk again.
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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?
Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol


My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆
Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?
I really have to private message you, Lol. I made a post like this when me and Aqua first started speaking he would always be the first to watch my videos on snapchat and instagram, he would post similar stories to mine to get my attention I.e if I posted I wanted to go on holiday he would post he needs a holiday lol, he would copy my snaps or wouldn’t post all day if I didn’t that’s how the pattern was, he doesn’t do it so much now so it makes me think he’s not that interested anymore especially as he has ignored my message— but before he would play those games on snap and then if I had messaged him because I knew he wanted my attention he would ignore me. It’s so confusing! I give up now after he ignored me today I feel so stupid but I definitely know what you’re talking about because I made a post about it months back


I’m so glad I’m not the only one!!! It’s similar to what I’m going through except my aqua doesn’t send any snaps or post anything ever. What do you think that all means— Since he’s ignored you, have you tried to get attention other ways such as playing these games?
Omg you are so patient!!! If a guy ignores me like that I will be so gone 😄


I’ve never had a guy stalk me that I’ve known about and really liked. It’s definitely got me interested!!! Actually feels good
Idk To me it’s weird that he is not communicating one to one. Aqua need to feel like you are there for them and they need attention but lots of freedom
1. My bf can’t focus on owning two businesses and me at the same time. He’s extremely busy lately.

2. He can’t handle my pms days. Neither can I!! Thank goodness I start a no-pms birth control pill soon!

3. He didn’t share his location for me for no reason. I think it’s because he wants me to trust him. And maybe it’s a test to see if I can handle his freedom. And maybe it’s just easier for him if I check his location rather than him having to check in? And maybe he just wants tabs on me too!
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But you don’t talk a bit each day? I found that very strange... how long have you been together?
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It sounds the exact same!!! Yea we should. Lol I never played with Snapchat so much. We’ve been dating since September and the games just began the last few weeks. How long have you known your aqua man? Are you exclusive? See we are in a committed relationship and I trust him. He works every day of the week so I really don’t think he’s on Snapchat for any other girls. He never has posted anything. Not even once since I’ve known him. He does have some friends on there though. But with the location I can see the last time he logs on, which is often. Just like me 😋 it’s actually a bad habit though. I try to stay off! And without realizing it, I’ve logged back on. Crap. I’m addicted to this app!
Awww so you two are a proper couple, that’s cute! We aren’t together we are just getting to know each other or was shall I say Lol. We’ve only been speaking for two months, he’s stopped doing things for my attention now though and we don’t speak as much so I think it’s going to fizz out now. I would love to see how you two get on though and how was he when you was both in the talking stage, I find this Aqua very slow everything has to be on his time and pace
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And as for the whole “is he obsessed with me as much as I am with him?” I thought the same with my Aqua, I thought he must really like me as much as I do since he’s playing all these games and only posting on snapchat for my attention and being the first to watch all of my snaps, but when I would speak to him he would either ignore me or have conversation then just stop replying out of the blue and it confused me , other times he would be very engaging in conversation and one day we had such a nice conversation he posted on his Snapchat that he was in a really good mood Lol obviously because we was getting to know each other . But his actions are just confusing from what he does when we are speaking so I don’t know


oh my god, they have score cards—

lol --- snap chat is the best i love it.


Were You emotional with him or anything right before he ignored you. My bf usually ignores me when I’m emotional, usually only takes him a few days to talk again.
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Is true they don’t like drama. So they will give YOU some space to get better 😄
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Were You emotional with him or anything right before he ignored you. My bf usually ignores me when I’m emotional, usually only takes him a few days to talk again.
Is true they don’t like drama. So they will give YOU some space to get better 😄

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Yes, which turned him off lol! But I was just basically telling him why I blocked him so he shouldn’t have asked😂 he said that he didn’t know that I felt that way especially because we’ve not been speaking long he probably felt it was too much. But I never confessed my love for him or anything overwhelming I simply told him why I blocked him and I didn’t like the games he was playing 🤷🏽‍♀️ So let’s see if he comes back this time 😅 probably not. I honestly think I suit better with fire signs my Aries Venus is too much otherwise
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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?
Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol


My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆
Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?
I really have to private message you, Lol. I made a post like this when me and Aqua first started speaking he would always be the first to watch my videos on snapchat and instagram, he would post similar stories to mine to get my attention I.e if I posted I wanted to go on holiday he would post he needs a holiday lol, he would copy my snaps or wouldn’t post all day if I didn’t that’s how the pattern was, he doesn’t do it so much now so it makes me think he’s not that interested anymore especially as he has ignored my message— but before he would play those games on snap and then if I had messaged him because I knew he wanted my attention he would ignore me. It’s so confusing! I give up now after he ignored me today I feel so stupid but I definitely know what you’re talking about because I made a post about it months back


I’m so glad I’m not the only one!!! It’s similar to what I’m going through except my aqua doesn’t send any snaps or post anything ever. What do you think that all means— Since he’s ignored you, have you tried to get attention other ways such as playing these games?
Omg you are so patient!!! If a guy ignores me like that I will be so gone 😄


I’ve never had a guy stalk me that I’ve known about and really liked. It’s definitely got me interested!!! Actually feels good
Idk To me it’s weird that he is not communicating one to one. Aqua need to feel like you are there for them and they need attention but lots of freedom
1. My bf can’t focus on owning two businesses and me at the same time. He’s extremely busy lately.

2. He can’t handle my pms days. Neither can I!! Thank goodness I start a no-pms birth control pill soon!

3. He didn’t share his location for me for no reason. I think it’s because he wants me to trust him. And maybe it’s a test to see if I can handle his freedom. And maybe it’s just easier for him if I check his location rather than him having to check in? And maybe he just wants tabs on me too!
But you don’t talk a bit each day? I found that very strange... how long have you been together?

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We last spoke Saturday. Expecting to hear from him today.

For the most part we talk a little everyday but I honestly think he’s stressed. He’s been working every day all day for 1.5 months and I know I shouldn’t add to his stress by getting emotional the way I have been lately. I think my problem is that he doesn’t want to talk things out. He will always say sorry that he’s been insanely busy lately. And not address the thing I was talking about before. Then go on as if everything is normal. We’ve only been together 2.5 months.
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Were You emotional with him or anything right before he ignored you. My bf usually ignores me when I’m emotional, usually only takes him a few days to talk again.
Is true they don’t like drama. So they will give YOU some space to get better 😄


Yes, which turned him off lol! But I was just basically telling him why I blocked him so he shouldn’t have asked😂 he said that he didn’t know that I felt that way especially because we’ve not been speaking long he probably felt it was too much. But I never confessed my love for him or anything overwhelming I simply told him why I blocked him and I didn’t like the games he was playing 🤷🏽‍♀️ So let’s see if he comes back this time 😅 probably not. I honestly think I suit better with fire signs my Aries Venus is too much otherwise
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I think he just needs some time to figure things out. Don’t play games. Be honest and nice but don’t pressure him
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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?
Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol


My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆
Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?
I really have to private message you, Lol. I made a post like this when me and Aqua first started speaking he would always be the first to watch my videos on snapchat and instagram, he would post similar stories to mine to get my attention I.e if I posted I wanted to go on holiday he would post he needs a holiday lol, he would copy my snaps or wouldn’t post all day if I didn’t that’s how the pattern was, he doesn’t do it so much now so it makes me think he’s not that interested anymore especially as he has ignored my message— but before he would play those games on snap and then if I had messaged him because I knew he wanted my attention he would ignore me. It’s so confusing! I give up now after he ignored me today I feel so stupid but I definitely know what you’re talking about because I made a post about it months back


I’m so glad I’m not the only one!!! It’s similar to what I’m going through except my aqua doesn’t send any snaps or post anything ever. What do you think that all means— Since he’s ignored you, have you tried to get attention other ways such as playing these games?
Omg you are so patient!!! If a guy ignores me like that I will be so gone 😄


I’ve never had a guy stalk me that I’ve known about and really liked. It’s definitely got me interested!!! Actually feels good
Idk To me it’s weird that he is not communicating one to one. Aqua need to feel like you are there for them and they need attention but lots of freedom
1. My bf can’t focus on owning two businesses and me at the same time. He’s extremely busy lately.

2. He can’t handle my pms days. Neither can I!! Thank goodness I start a no-pms birth control pill soon!

3. He didn’t share his location for me for no reason. I think it’s because he wants me to trust him. And maybe it’s a test to see if I can handle his freedom. And maybe it’s just easier for him if I check his location rather than him having to check in? And maybe he just wants tabs on me too!
But you don’t talk a bit each day? I found that very strange... how long have you been together?



We last spoke Saturday. Expecting to hear from him today.

For the most part we talk a little everyday but I honestly think he’s stressed. He’s been working every day all day for 1.5 months and I know I shouldn’t add to his stress by getting emotional the way I have been lately. I think my problem is that he doesn’t want to talk things out. He will always say sorry that he’s been insanely busy lately. And not address the thing I was talking about before. Then go on as if everything is normal. We’ve only been together 2.5 months.
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I think you are right. It is very early days and if he is busy and you are difficult because of pm it will be too much for him. Just be super nice when you talk with him. Talk to your friends about your pm not him. Relax. Don’t put pressure on him, he has obviously enough.
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It sounds the exact same!!! Yea we should. Lol I never played with Snapchat so much. We’ve been dating since September and the games just began the last few weeks. How long have you known your aqua man? Are you exclusive? See we are in a committed relationship and I trust him. He works every day of the week so I really don’t think he’s on Snapchat for any other girls. He never has posted anything. Not even once since I’ve known him. He does have some friends on there though. But with the location I can see the last time he logs on, which is often. Just like me 😋 it’s actually a bad habit though. I try to stay off! And without realizing it, I’ve logged back on. Crap. I’m addicted to this app!
Awww so you two are a proper couple, that’s cute! We aren’t together we are just getting to know each other or was shall I say Lol. We’ve only been speaking for two months, he’s stopped doing things for my attention now though and we don’t speak as much so I think it’s going to fizz out now. I would love to see how you two get on though and how was he when you was both in the talking stage, I find this Aqua very slow everything has to be on his time and pace

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Aww you’re giving up? Send him a sexy photo!! In the talking stage, he’s wonderful. Texts throughout the day. Actually makes an effort. But I do feel like I’ve always been at his pace. He wanted to be exclusive and official in the first week of dating. He wanted to hang out every day. I thought this was going to be the norm until he started a second business. And he also focuses on his other business more in the colder months because he loves his summers off. Its not an easy adjustment because I miss him a lot. But I also know what he’s doing is important so I should be more understanding. I’m just hoping it’s not going to fizz out too!
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Aww you’re giving up? Send him a sexy photo!! In the talking stage, he’s wonderful. Texts throughout the day. Actually makes an effort. But I do feel like I’ve always been at his pace. He wanted to be exclusive and official in the first week of dating. He wanted to hang out every day. I thought this was going to be the norm until he started a second business. And he also focuses on his other business more in the colder months because he loves his summers off. Its not an easy adjustment because I miss him a lot. But I also know what he’s doing is important so I should be more understanding. I’m just hoping it’s not going to fizz out too!


He sounds a lot nicer than the Aquarius guy I’m speaking to in the talking stage lol, but yeah Aquarius are very busy and they love independent women which is why my crush likes me because I work hard and have nice designer clothes and my own car and my own place he admires it lol😂 I think you should just carry on doing what your doing and support him it’s very hard for a female to be in a relationship with someone who is busy with work but you will see the reward at the end 😌💕
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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?
Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol


My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆
Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?
He's a little on the conservative side, (Cap Venus) and I never post pics with cleavage. I will send pics privately but I don't like everyone seeing my goodies lol I'm a little bit of a prude with that type of stuff. I'm actually very straight forward but secretive. I will only give him information when he asks. I volunteer nothing lol

I did post a cute snap last night though 🙂 I'll upload it and tag you. I just make cute/ sexy facial expression to leave him thinking about who it's for 😆 I think he would like to know my whereabouts but I kind of like him asking, It shows interest. I never volunteer any info unless he tells me what he's doing first. Then I know he wants to know what I'm doing. lol

Like today, He asked what I was doing and I told him I was meeting up with a girl friend of mine after work. He said but it's raining. lmao . I told him well I like sitting indoors having a drink and watching the rain. lol Just silly lol
Funny i used the same filter on my picture lol I bet he loved your picture!! yeah I love when they ask but maybe sharing my location will get him obsessed with me. I want him to be madly in love with me. The thing is I don’t usually post cleavage pictures on my stories!! It was just a cute dressy top. Just a little tease. But I totally did it to get his attention. He checks my stories right away. But not my direct snaps. I don’t think he knows I can see who’s viewed my stories. Games!!!!!!
Since I've never post cleavage pics, I can't start now. He'll think I met someone lol He never tells me anything or gives me compliments but he does look at my pics. I just do my usual thing of sending him kiss emojis and he does his usual of sending back the OK hand sign. I think it's HILARIOUS lol

I have no clue what direct vs stories is. I didn't know that was possible either. You sure do know a lot about snapchat!!! 😆



You should do it just to throw a curve ball at him. I bet that would be hilarious too 😂

I decide to share my location with him.....

direct is when you send a picture to specific people. It sends a notification to that person. It also tells me what time they viewed it. A story is posted in a different spot and anyone can view it. It doesn’t notify everyone when u post a story. Honestly I just started using it daily since the beginning of November. All because of an aqua. I only have 7 friends on there
Awww I get it. Lol I never send him direct pictures. I'm too nervous lol. He would just open them and probably not say anything anyways. I need to send him a panty pic and ask if these undies make my ass look fat 😂😂😂

I think he would get upset if I posted a pic with cleavage. He's always talking down about women who post thirst trap pics. My boobs are pretty big lol. He would see right thru me and I'd be ashamed. I don't mind sending him stuff privately but I don't like him thinking I'm sharing it with all the world (my contacts)

I'd do it if I was pissed at him though. 😂😂😂 Then he'd still know what I was doing. Lol
Hey gurl. Entertain me for a good minute 😁

I’m trying to understand Snapchat myself. Partially because I’m not too familiar with it, but also because I want to know if he’s definitely playing games and I’m not just being a crazy chick. Well I don’t believe I’m too crazy! Hear me out... do you know anything about Snapchat Score?

Snapchat score is the sum total of all snaps you send and receive. Every time you send out a snap, your score is increased by a point. And every time you open a snap, your Snapchat score also increases. Soooo if he’s on 30+ times a day and his snap score isn’t going up, and he checks my all of my stories within 20 minutes or sooner, he’s most likely checking snapchat to see if I’m posting or to see my location 🤔 I turned it on this afternoon. (Stories don’t get points. Only direct snaps do) I’m starting to think he’s as obsessed and clingy as me. Especially with sharing our locations, I feel an odd sense of closeness with him. Are aquas really like this— Or is it something else in his chart?


Girl I have no clue lol. 😂😂😂

I notice the point go up when you make any type of video or snap and save or post it. So all those snaps that you save, and never post get a point too. As well as all the snaps you send privately in chat. He can look all he wants. Points shouldn't change.

This is the type of stuff that can drive a person crazy lol. My snaps went up 200 points since Sept. His went up about 500. I have no clue how much he uses the app. I did notice that when I clicked on his name that his location showed. And so I just un- ghosted myself and shared my location with him, thanks to your influence!! 😂😂😂

Guess we'll see how that goes. Just one more thing that will make him wonder if I decide to hide it again 😒🙄


Lol! YES! You have to keep me updated!! Now your location only updates when you log on. And it tells him, location updated ___ minutes ago. Have fun!!! I hope he turns his on 😁
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His was already on. It's the only reason why I turned mine on. Now I'm just gonna have to be more aware of when I open the app.

Sometimes I'm in places I'm not supposed to be and I don't want to be tracked lol. 😆

As far as stalking goes, I use it as a term of endearment. I like that he checks up on me. He's just nosey in general so I'm sure he's like that with everyone. But I do like the attention.

I ended up sending him a direct snap last night and he sent a message back saying looking good. So I guess I will do that more often now. 😉

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Aww it’s so sweet. I love it! I love it because I think they have a hard time expressing themselves especially when too many emotions get involved. So they do what they can. Plus I really believe they love playing games. They love to see how much you love them. I was looking at Snapchat and you can choose which friends can see your location. He could have chosen to not share with me, but my guess he’s only sharing it with me. I wonder if I should do the same. See i only notice him playing games when hes ghosting. Never any other time. Do you notice the same or the opposite? What’s your gut say about him?
Do you have your location turned on for him to check? I didn't even know this was on the app. Now I'm actually wondering if I should let him see. I just saw that I'm on invisible. But I know he likes knowing where I am. I'm always getting messages asking me where I am now.

I’m invisible too. Yet I can see him. He shares his location with me. You can choose who you share it with. But the thing is, it only shows your location if you sign onto the app. If he doesn’t sign in, then I don’t know where he is. If you do this on iPhone, you can see the location 24/7. He does this with his guy friends. And I’ve seen him use it a bunch of times. I’m wondering if it’s like another step forward in the relationship? To build more trust? I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location. Mystery is nice. Or maybe I should so he can trust me?

I don’t know if you should do it. Do you want him to stalk you? Lol


My Aqua friend already stalks me as much as he can get away with lol. I was upset a couple weeks ago at him and ended up blocking him and deleting him off all social media and he was butthurt. He asked why a person would do something like that. I had to tell him I did it cause I wasn't thinking and ended up adding him back on everything lol. I told him it wouldn't happen again. 🙂

I don't want him seeing my location either, I was just wondering if you shared it. He already wants to know everything I'm doing, I actually like that he asks, or that he lets me know he's on his way to the gym, then going to the mall, then doing this. He tells me all this without asking and I feel obligated to do the same, but sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. My life is pretty boring working 80 hours a week. I kindof don't want him knowing just how boring it is 😆
Well that’s the thing. My life is really boring and I don’t want him to see that! I’m definitely wondering if he shared his location with me so I would trust him or if he’s doing it so I would share my location with him too. I think both! Because last night i posted a cute cleavage picture on Snapchat and he looked within a minute. So maybe he wants to know what I’m up to. Ohhhh the games. I’ve never played so many with a guy who’s supposedly my bf. Does your aqua friend play lots of games like this too?
I really have to private message you, Lol. I made a post like this when me and Aqua first started speaking he would always be the first to watch my videos on snapchat and instagram, he would post similar stories to mine to get my attention I.e if I posted I wanted to go on holiday he would post he needs a holiday lol, he would copy my snaps or wouldn’t post all day if I didn’t that’s how the pattern was, he doesn’t do it so much now so it makes me think he’s not that interested anymore especially as he has ignored my message— but before he would play those games on snap and then if I had messaged him because I knew he wanted my attention he would ignore me. It’s so confusing! I give up now after he ignored me today I feel so stupid but I definitely know what you’re talking about because I made a post about it months back


I’m so glad I’m not the only one!!! It’s similar to what I’m going through except my aqua doesn’t send any snaps or post anything ever. What do you think that all means— Since he’s ignored you, have you tried to get attention other ways such as playing these games?
Omg you are so patient!!! If a guy ignores me like that I will be so gone 😄

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I'm the same way. I haven't been ignored by my friend. But if I send a text and he doesn't have time to answer, I just wait and won't send another until he does. He's pick up on how I do things now, so he will reach out if he fell asleep or was busy.

I wouldn't reach out again if he ignored some texts. He'd get all the space he needs cause I'd be done. Lol
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You don’t think he’s ready for a serious relationship because he only wants friendship right now. You want more. Let him think about this. Give him the opportunity to disappear for a week or 2. Took my aqua a week. He ghosted for a week. I thought it was over and now he’s back to normal. I guess let him miss you. And I really believe that snapchatting a really good photo helped me 😋
Oh yay that is an amazing tool. Men r natrual visual people esp Aqua I know. A great photo, fun activities. Amazing photos of ur ahchievements n just show that u r having lots of fun. Make sure u r really having fun though . They can spot fakness very easily. ps @ pink bird im glad ur man is back
Lol thanks! But I don’t know how long this will last. I’m still having lots of doubts. I don’t feel confident!! And I’m seeking some important answers to important questions right now soooo we will see!
why are you having doubts?

you might need to be a stable and the secure one in the relationship,

otherwise who's going to keep that aqua on the steady road path?



I have doubts because it’s been 5 weeks since I’ve seen him and I know he said he’s insanely busy and I do believe him but i guess trust is an issue for me right now. Especially since he disappeared on me last week. I also get insecure thinking that he can make time for his friends but not me. That’s not necessarily true. He only did that once weeks ago that I know of, but I just don’t feel confident about our relationship so I got emotional tonight! Gosh I hate myself. And of course he hasn’t answered me.

But I think he tries to put my mind at ease through other means than communication. For example, once he changed his Facebook cover photo to an empty picture of his apt on a Friday night to show me he’s home alone. Now tonight, I noticed he turned on his location on Snapchat so I could see that he’s home. I really think he did that for me. Because he shares his location on iPhone with all his close friends. They love it. There’s no need for him to do it on Snapchat. And he didn’t have it on until tonight.

Do aquas do things like this? Non verbal ways to show they care? Because my aqua sucks at communicating lately

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Haven’t seen him in over a month and he disappeared on you? Why are you settling for this?
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I’m the same way. I haven't been ignored by my friend. But if I send a text and he doesn't have time to answer, I just wait and won't send another until he does. He's pick up on how I do things now, so he will reach out if he fell asleep or was busy.

I wouldn't reach out again if he ignored some texts. He'd get all the space he needs cause I'd be done. Lol


Yep! Me too. He asks me why I never reach out, well erm... because you have replying issues?
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It sounds the exact same!!! Yea we should. Lol I never played with Snapchat so much. We’ve been dating since September and the games just began the last few weeks. How long have you known your aqua man? Are you exclusive? See we are in a committed relationship and I trust him. He works every day of the week so I really don’t think he’s on Snapchat for any other girls. He never has posted anything. Not even once since I’ve known him. He does have some friends on there though. But with the location I can see the last time he logs on, which is often. Just like me 😋 it’s actually a bad habit though. I try to stay off! And without realizing it, I’ve logged back on. Crap. I’m addicted to this app!
Awww so you two are a proper couple, that’s cute! We aren’t together we are just getting to know each other or was shall I say Lol. We’ve only been speaking for two months, he’s stopped doing things for my attention now though and we don’t speak as much so I think it’s going to fizz out now. I would love to see how you two get on though and how was he when you was both in the talking stage, I find this Aqua very slow everything has to be on his time and pace



Aww you’re giving up? Send him a sexy photo!! In the talking stage, he’s wonderful. Texts throughout the day. Actually makes an effort. But I do feel like I’ve always been at his pace. He wanted to be exclusive and official in the first week of dating. He wanted to hang out every day. I thought this was going to be the norm until he started a second business. And he also focuses on his other business more in the colder months because he loves his summers off. Its not an easy adjustment because I miss him a lot. But I also know what he’s doing is important so I should be more understanding. I’m just hoping it’s not going to fizz out too!

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You’re not his wife you’re his gf and even then you shouldn’t accept this. He’s neglecting you and the relationship, no good.
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I’m the same way. I haven't been ignored by my friend. But if I send a text and he doesn't have time to answer, I just wait and won't send another until he does. He's pick up on how I do things now, so he will reach out if he fell asleep or was busy.

I wouldn't reach out again if he ignored some texts. He'd get all the space he needs cause I'd be done. Lol


Yep! Me too. He asks me why I never reach out, well erm... because you have replying issues?

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I do reach out and when he replies I just respond back how I usually do. He usually responds very quickly to my texts so I always respond quickly to his. Even if I have to wait a few hours to get a response cause he was doing something, I will still respond back right away. I never do the tit for tat thing, so he's not too worried about me being petty with texting. I save being petty for the other things that can come as a surprise to him 😆
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It sounds the exact same!!! Yea we should. Lol I never played with Snapchat so much. We’ve been dating since September and the games just began the last few weeks. How long have you known your aqua man? Are you exclusive? See we are in a committed relationship and I trust him. He works every day of the week so I really don’t think he’s on Snapchat for any other girls. He never has posted anything. Not even once since I’ve known him. He does have some friends on there though. But with the location I can see the last time he logs on, which is often. Just like me 😋 it’s actually a bad habit though. I try to stay off! And without realizing it, I’ve logged back on. Crap. I’m addicted to this app!
Awww so you two are a proper couple, that’s cute! We aren’t together we are just getting to know each other or was shall I say Lol. We’ve only been speaking for two months, he’s stopped doing things for my attention now though and we don’t speak as much so I think it’s going to fizz out now. I would love to see how you two get on though and how was he when you was both in the talking stage, I find this Aqua very slow everything has to be on his time and pace



Aww you’re giving up? Send him a sexy photo!! In the talking stage, he’s wonderful. Texts throughout the day. Actually makes an effort. But I do feel like I’ve always been at his pace. He wanted to be exclusive and official in the first week of dating. He wanted to hang out every day. I thought this was going to be the norm until he started a second business. And he also focuses on his other business more in the colder months because he loves his summers off. Its not an easy adjustment because I miss him a lot. But I also know what he’s doing is important so I should be more understanding. I’m just hoping it’s not going to fizz out too!


You’re not his wife you’re his gf and even then you shouldn’t accept this. He’s neglecting you and the relationship, no good.
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He hasn’t totally disappeared and he still shows he cares. I heard from him today. He loves money and he’s a hard worker. Owning 1 business is hard enough. Now it’s 2. It’s not some small businesses either. He’s even told me he still wants me in his life. I told him I’d be patient. Sometimes I get emotional tho. I hate being a cancer
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Direct snap is the best. They do like attention too n it makes them feel special without much pressure from their side.
Well mine likes attention but when I give it him he will ignore me lol I know he’s always busy but I just feel he gets a little too excited sometimes and I know he isn’t looking for a relationship either but it’s annoying

I get so confused by him, I just literally have to wait for him to talk to me first if we are ever going to speak 🤷🏽‍♀️ At first I had to speak to him first because he was shy and now it’s like I have to wait on him to make the effort and then he will contradict himself by saying I don’t make effort with him 🤔
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Direct snap is the best. They do like attention too n it makes them feel special without much pressure from their side.
Well mine likes attention but when I give it him he will ignore me lol I know he’s always busy but I just feel he gets a little too excited sometimes and I know he isn’t looking for a relationship either but it’s annoying

I get so confused by him, I just literally have to wait for him to talk to me first if we are ever going to speak 🤷🏽‍♀️ At first I had to speak to him first because he was shy and now it’s like I have to wait on him to make the effort and then he will contradict himself by saying I don’t make effort with him 🤔
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lol Have u guys actually hung out in person! ? Or phone calls? They r not that great with texts. Well mine said so.( not mine) but u noe what I mean. but if u reach out n he ignores u when u ask something then totally ditch him.