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Direct snap is the best. They do like attention too n it makes them feel special without much pressure from their side.
I'm gonna have to work on doing this. I hardly ever take selfies unless I'm laying in bed about to go to sleep and using a cute snap filter. I mostly take then when I'm bored. Lol
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hehe yeah do it !!

the last snap i sent him was this amazing coffee and restauraut and i said to him that he shud totally try!!

then he replied

babe, i don't drink coffee



hahaha

anyway, my bad i forgot about it but u can send anything really.

i dun send many selfies at all only the ones i find very hot n sexy šŸ˜› n even those i mainly post them on my storiesšŸ˜›

there was one i sent to him of me doing some clothes shopping which i thought i looked nice and he replied

thats nice babe, but i hope u r handing ur resumes while you are there.

lol

funny being these people.

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Direct snap is the best. They do like attention too n it makes them feel special without much pressure from their side.
I'm gonna have to work on doing this. I hardly ever take selfies unless I'm laying in bed about to go to sleep and using a cute snap filter. I mostly take then when I'm bored. Lol
hehe yeah do it !!

the last snap i sent him was this amazing coffee and restauraut and i said to him that he shud totally try!!

then he replied

babe, i don't drink coffee



hahaha

anyway, my bad i forgot about it but u can send anything really.

i dun send many selfies at all only the ones i find very hot n sexy šŸ˜› n even those i mainly post them on my storiesšŸ˜›

there was one i sent to him of me doing some clothes shopping which i thought i looked nice and he replied

thats nice babe, but i hope u r handing ur resumes while you are there.

lol

funny being these people.

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I agree he prefers to send me direct snaps, and we only ever met once and have been speaking through texts and calls ever since I want to meet up with him but he was acting shy about it I think he wanted to get to know me first
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Direct snap is the best. They do like attention too n it makes them feel special without much pressure from their side.
I'm gonna have to work on doing this. I hardly ever take selfies unless I'm laying in bed about to go to sleep and using a cute snap filter. I mostly take then when I'm bored. Lol
hehe yeah do it !!

the last snap i sent him was this amazing coffee and restauraut and i said to him that he shud totally try!!

then he replied

babe, i don't drink coffee



hahaha

anyway, my bad i forgot about it but u can send anything really.

i dun send many selfies at all only the ones i find very hot n sexy šŸ˜› n even those i mainly post them on my storiesšŸ˜›

there was one i sent to him of me doing some clothes shopping which i thought i looked nice and he replied

thats nice babe, but i hope u r handing ur resumes while you are there.

lol

funny being these people.

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I just realized this morning that he's hid his location, so now I think I'm gonna go out later tonight and have a couple of drinks and not forget to snap lol. He hid it so he can log on whenever and take a look without me knowing lol

So I will keep my location turned on until after this weekend since its my birthday and if his isn't up again by Monday, I will go back into hiding. šŸ˜†
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Direct snap is the best. They do like attention too n it makes them feel special without much pressure from their side.
I'm gonna have to work on doing this. I hardly ever take selfies unless I'm laying in bed about to go to sleep and using a cute snap filter. I mostly take then when I'm bored. Lol
hehe yeah do it !!

the last snap i sent him was this amazing coffee and restauraut and i said to him that he shud totally try!!

then he replied

babe, i don't drink coffee



hahaha

anyway, my bad i forgot about it but u can send anything really.

i dun send many selfies at all only the ones i find very hot n sexy šŸ˜› n even those i mainly post them on my storiesšŸ˜›

there was one i sent to him of me doing some clothes shopping which i thought i looked nice and he replied

thats nice babe, but i hope u r handing ur resumes while you are there.

lol

funny being these people.


I just realized this morning that he's hid his location, so now I think I'm gonna go out later tonight and have a couple of drinks and not forget to snap lol. He hid it so he can log on whenever and take a look without me knowing lol

So I will keep my location turned on until after this weekend since its my birthday and if his isn't up again by Monday, I will go back into hiding. šŸ˜†

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šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚why do they play these games

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Direct snap is the best. They do like attention too n it makes them feel special without much pressure from their side.
I'm gonna have to work on doing this. I hardly ever take selfies unless I'm laying in bed about to go to sleep and using a cute snap filter. I mostly take then when I'm bored. Lol
hehe yeah do it !!

the last snap i sent him was this amazing coffee and restauraut and i said to him that he shud totally try!!

then he replied

babe, i don't drink coffee



hahaha

anyway, my bad i forgot about it but u can send anything really.

i dun send many selfies at all only the ones i find very hot n sexy šŸ˜› n even those i mainly post them on my storiesšŸ˜›

there was one i sent to him of me doing some clothes shopping which i thought i looked nice and he replied

thats nice babe, but i hope u r handing ur resumes while you are there.

lol

funny being these people.


I just realized this morning that he's hid his location, so now I think I'm gonna go out later tonight and have a couple of drinks and not forget to snap lol. He hid it so he can log on whenever and take a look without me knowing lol

So I will keep my location turned on until after this weekend since its my birthday and if his isn't up again by Monday, I will go back into hiding. šŸ˜†



šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚why do they play these games

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Because we can't tell what they're doing šŸ˜›
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Direct snap is the best. They do like attention too n it makes them feel special without much pressure from their side.
Well mine likes attention but when I give it him he will ignore me lol I know he’s always busy but I just feel he gets a little too excited sometimes and I know he isn’t looking for a relationship either but it’s annoying

I get so confused by him, I just literally have to wait for him to talk to me first if we are ever going to speak šŸ¤·šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø At first I had to speak to him first because he was shy and now it’s like I have to wait on him to make the effort and then he will contradict himself by saying I don’t make effort with him šŸ¤”
Look, my brother is an Aquarius and when he met his cancer girlfriend, they were always together and now have a child and are planning to buy house.

Don’t make excuses for somebody just because they are an Aquarius. If a person is into you, they will show it. Disappearing for weeks is not showing you are interested. Stop accepting that behavior.
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Lol so true, I know mine isn’t interested anymore
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Posted by saggurl88
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Direct snap is the best. They do like attention too n it makes them feel special without much pressure from their side.
I'm gonna have to work on doing this. I hardly ever take selfies unless I'm laying in bed about to go to sleep and using a cute snap filter. I mostly take then when I'm bored. Lol
hehe yeah do it !!

the last snap i sent him was this amazing coffee and restauraut and i said to him that he shud totally try!!

then he replied

babe, i don't drink coffee



hahaha

anyway, my bad i forgot about it but u can send anything really.

i dun send many selfies at all only the ones i find very hot n sexy šŸ˜› n even those i mainly post them on my storiesšŸ˜›

there was one i sent to him of me doing some clothes shopping which i thought i looked nice and he replied

thats nice babe, but i hope u r handing ur resumes while you are there.

lol

funny being these people.


I just realized this morning that he's hid his location, so now I think I'm gonna go out later tonight and have a couple of drinks and not forget to snap lol. He hid it so he can log on whenever and take a look without me knowing lol

So I will keep my location turned on until after this weekend since its my birthday and if his isn't up again by Monday, I will go back into hiding. šŸ˜†

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lol looks like we should create a new name of this thread,

snap chats fancy lol

--- atlas u get some snaps sent from him.

this aqua i noe never ever post or take any snap . he only stalks

i think he was born stalking people



its annoying actually n pretty unfair but whatever lol

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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by saweetz1988
Direct snap is the best. They do like attention too n it makes them feel special without much pressure from their side.
I'm gonna have to work on doing this. I hardly ever take selfies unless I'm laying in bed about to go to sleep and using a cute snap filter. I mostly take then when I'm bored. Lol
hehe yeah do it !!

the last snap i sent him was this amazing coffee and restauraut and i said to him that he shud totally try!!

then he replied

babe, i don't drink coffee



hahaha

anyway, my bad i forgot about it but u can send anything really.

i dun send many selfies at all only the ones i find very hot n sexy šŸ˜› n even those i mainly post them on my storiesšŸ˜›

there was one i sent to him of me doing some clothes shopping which i thought i looked nice and he replied

thats nice babe, but i hope u r handing ur resumes while you are there.

lol

funny being these people.


I just realized this morning that he's hid his location, so now I think I'm gonna go out later tonight and have a couple of drinks and not forget to snap lol. He hid it so he can log on whenever and take a look without me knowing lol

So I will keep my location turned on until after this weekend since its my birthday and if his isn't up again by Monday, I will go back into hiding. šŸ˜†


lol looks like we should create a new name of this thread,

snap chats fancy lol

--- atlas u get some snaps sent from him.

this aqua i noe never ever post or take any snap . he only stalks

i think he was born stalking people



its annoying actually n pretty unfair but whatever lol

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Haha I made a post about it before when first speaking to Aqua but ironically someone mentioned it on this post and I couldn’t believe someone could relate lolšŸ˜‚

My Aqua never used to snap he would stalk then he started to snap to get my attention and now he has stopped and has gone back to just stalking

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Direct snap is the best. They do like attention too n it makes them feel special without much pressure from their side.
I'm gonna have to work on doing this. I hardly ever take selfies unless I'm laying in bed about to go to sleep and using a cute snap filter. I mostly take then when I'm bored. Lol
hehe yeah do it !!

the last snap i sent him was this amazing coffee and restauraut and i said to him that he shud totally try!!

then he replied

babe, i don't drink coffee



hahaha

anyway, my bad i forgot about it but u can send anything really.

i dun send many selfies at all only the ones i find very hot n sexy šŸ˜› n even those i mainly post them on my storiesšŸ˜›

there was one i sent to him of me doing some clothes shopping which i thought i looked nice and he replied

thats nice babe, but i hope u r handing ur resumes while you are there.

lol

funny being these people.


I just realized this morning that he's hid his location, so now I think I'm gonna go out later tonight and have a couple of drinks and not forget to snap lol. He hid it so he can log on whenever and take a look without me knowing lol

So I will keep my location turned on until after this weekend since its my birthday and if his isn't up again by Monday, I will go back into hiding. šŸ˜†


lol looks like we should create a new name of this thread,

snap chats fancy lol

--- atlas u get some snaps sent from him.

this aqua i noe never ever post or take any snap . he only stalks

i think he was born stalking people



its annoying actually n pretty unfair but whatever lol


Haha I made a post about it before when first speaking to Aqua but ironically someone mentioned it on this post and I couldn’t believe someone could relate lolšŸ˜‚

My Aqua never used to snap he would stalk then he started to snap to get my attention and now he has stopped and has gone back to just stalking

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yeah i think thats normal.

since having snap this aqua never ever post anything on snap. or Facebook or social media.

but hey, i must have done something right coz the other day , he shown me his conversation with this girl and i was holding his phone for a good 5 mins. he was doing his password infront of me without feeling like he was reluctant to do so.

so yay, i think the key is to keep mentioning to them that they can tell u anything and anything and they u will always b their friends and stuff. so they can relax and feel safe with u . to reveal some not so pretty side of them.
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Posted by saweetz1988
Direct snap is the best. They do like attention too n it makes them feel special without much pressure from their side.
I'm gonna have to work on doing this. I hardly ever take selfies unless I'm laying in bed about to go to sleep and using a cute snap filter. I mostly take then when I'm bored. Lol
hehe yeah do it !!

the last snap i sent him was this amazing coffee and restauraut and i said to him that he shud totally try!!

then he replied

babe, i don't drink coffee



hahaha

anyway, my bad i forgot about it but u can send anything really.

i dun send many selfies at all only the ones i find very hot n sexy šŸ˜› n even those i mainly post them on my storiesšŸ˜›

there was one i sent to him of me doing some clothes shopping which i thought i looked nice and he replied

thats nice babe, but i hope u r handing ur resumes while you are there.

lol

funny being these people.


I just realized this morning that he's hid his location, so now I think I'm gonna go out later tonight and have a couple of drinks and not forget to snap lol. He hid it so he can log on whenever and take a look without me knowing lol

So I will keep my location turned on until after this weekend since its my birthday and if his isn't up again by Monday, I will go back into hiding. šŸ˜†



šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚why do they play these games



Because we can't tell what they're doing šŸ˜›



they don't wanna reveal too much about themselves,

they only wanna know everything about others



but if u get to a stage, and show enough consistency and build the trust, u will get them to reveal lots more than they hide...but they need 2 know u can accept everything they tell u and u won't disappear and still feel for them the same...



mine said, he's never told anyone(except for his sister) about his life ,his information, his past,

as much as he does to me or did.

and for that i am special .

but

meh ,

lol...not feeling it,

they r best kept as a friend to b honest.

for a relationship, they are too inconsistent, unpredictable, a bit selfish and just pure annoying šŸ˜›





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He was not not into you.
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Direct snap is the best. They do like attention too n it makes them feel special without much pressure from their side.
I'm gonna have to work on doing this. I hardly ever take selfies unless I'm laying in bed about to go to sleep and using a cute snap filter. I mostly take then when I'm bored. Lol
hehe yeah do it !!

the last snap i sent him was this amazing coffee and restauraut and i said to him that he shud totally try!!

then he replied

babe, i don't drink coffee



hahaha

anyway, my bad i forgot about it but u can send anything really.

i dun send many selfies at all only the ones i find very hot n sexy šŸ˜› n even those i mainly post them on my storiesšŸ˜›

there was one i sent to him of me doing some clothes shopping which i thought i looked nice and he replied

thats nice babe, but i hope u r handing ur resumes while you are there.

lol

funny being these people.


I just realized this morning that he's hid his location, so now I think I'm gonna go out later tonight and have a couple of drinks and not forget to snap lol. He hid it so he can log on whenever and take a look without me knowing lol

So I will keep my location turned on until after this weekend since its my birthday and if his isn't up again by Monday, I will go back into hiding. šŸ˜†



šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚why do they play these games



Because we can't tell what they're doing šŸ˜›



they don't wanna reveal too much about themselves,

they only wanna know everything about others



but if u get to a stage, and show enough consistency and build the trust, u will get them to reveal lots more than they hide...but they need 2 know u can accept everything they tell u and u won't disappear and still feel for them the same...



mine said, he's never told anyone(except for his sister) about his life ,his information, his past,

as much as he does to me or did.

and for that i am special .

but

meh ,

lol...not feeling it,

they r best kept as a friend to b honest.

for a relationship, they are too inconsistent, unpredictable, a bit selfish and just pure annoying šŸ˜›






He was not not into you.
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thanks compy,

just stay in your closet

we got it cover here.

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Direct snap is the best. They do like attention too n it makes them feel special without much pressure from their side.
I'm gonna have to work on doing this. I hardly ever take selfies unless I'm laying in bed about to go to sleep and using a cute snap filter. I mostly take then when I'm bored. Lol
hehe yeah do it !!

the last snap i sent him was this amazing coffee and restauraut and i said to him that he shud totally try!!

then he replied

babe, i don't drink coffee



hahaha

anyway, my bad i forgot about it but u can send anything really.

i dun send many selfies at all only the ones i find very hot n sexy šŸ˜› n even those i mainly post them on my storiesšŸ˜›

there was one i sent to him of me doing some clothes shopping which i thought i looked nice and he replied

thats nice babe, but i hope u r handing ur resumes while you are there.

lol

funny being these people.


I just realized this morning that he's hid his location, so now I think I'm gonna go out later tonight and have a couple of drinks and not forget to snap lol. He hid it so he can log on whenever and take a look without me knowing lol

So I will keep my location turned on until after this weekend since its my birthday and if his isn't up again by Monday, I will go back into hiding. šŸ˜†



šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚why do they play these games



Because we can't tell what they're doing šŸ˜›



they don't wanna reveal too much about themselves,

they only wanna know everything about others



but if u get to a stage, and show enough consistency and build the trust, u will get them to reveal lots more than they hide...but they need 2 know u can accept everything they tell u and u won't disappear and still feel for them the same...



mine said, he's never told anyone(except for his sister) about his life ,his information, his past,

as much as he does to me or did.

and for that i am special .

but

meh ,

lol...not feeling it,

they r best kept as a friend to b honest.

for a relationship, they are too inconsistent, unpredictable, a bit selfish and just pure annoying šŸ˜›






He was not not into you.
thanks compy,

just stay in your closet

we got it cover here.

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Oh Jesus, woman!
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Hey op, how’s everything going? Any updates?
Nothing at all, he’s just watching my snaps. I’ve lost a bit of interest now, I’ve decided to not watch whatever he posts so he knows I’m not interested lol...it’s just funny to keep this thread going because I’m still in disbelief that these Aquas are all the same with the Snapchat thingšŸ˜‚šŸ¤¦šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø
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Posted by GeminiGirl052388
If an aqua is into you, he wont disappear for long periods of time. He will make an effort to speak with you or get your attention. He wont keep you guessing coz he will show you his interest level based on how much he talks to you. If you disappear on him he will find a way to reach out to you. If hes not doing those then clearly, he isnt into you as much as you are into him.

To get his attention, be a normal human being. Dont do things to get his attention because it will be classified as desperate (like saweetz). Be the normal you and if he likes it he will come to you and if he doesnt, he wont. Live and let live is the way to go with aquas. Creating situations to make him chase you (this is what saweetz did too. Ridiculous) or forcing things to happen wont work. Aquas are smart and any manipulation tactic wont do it.

Trust me, I attract aquas like butterflies (due to my leo moon) and my ex for 4 years was an aqua and my current bf is an aqua (current bf flew all the way from australia to another continent to see me.). They are amazing men for sure but let him be the man and do his thing when it comes to chasing or making the move. I have always done it that way and it works.
The thing is what you’ve just described is how this Aqua guy was with me Lol, but now he’s not because I scared him away with things I said in the pastšŸ¤·šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø I think I’m too emotional for an Aqua which is why he has stopped speaking to me
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Hey op, how’s everything going? Any updates?
Nothing at all, he’s just watching my snaps. I’ve lost a bit of interest now, I’ve decided to not watch whatever he posts so he knows I’m not interested lol...it’s just funny to keep this thread going because I’m still in disbelief that these Aquas are all the same with the Snapchat thingšŸ˜‚šŸ¤¦šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø
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Lol I know. It’s funny how many girls said the same thing about their aqua man!! Yea it’s probably good to give him space to have him wondering about you. I haven’t posted anything to him the last few days. I’m giving him some space to miss me. But he’s being extra funny with the location thing. He’s having too much fun!! I’m excited for tomorrow night when I’m in an unusual location. Can’t wait to make him wonder what I’m up too and who I’m with on a random weeknight! Lol
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I definitely know that Aqua was very interested at first but we just aren’t compatible, I leave him alone, I don’t ever chase, beg or reach out to him first but because I told him some shit that was a bit overwhelming and emotional for him he disappeared and now he’s just watching my videos but he won’t speak to me, I did message him to say that his niece and nephew were cute when he had posted them and he ignored that, so as a Pisces I’m not stupid we have a great intuition and I can tell he’s just not in to me at the minute and I’m going off him too it’s just a shame but I am not losing sleep over it loll the only man who ever could break my heart was a TAURUS😪
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Hey op, how’s everything going? Any updates?
Nothing at all, he’s just watching my snaps. I’ve lost a bit of interest now, I’ve decided to not watch whatever he posts so he knows I’m not interested lol...it’s just funny to keep this thread going because I’m still in disbelief that these Aquas are all the same with the Snapchat thingšŸ˜‚šŸ¤¦šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø

Lol I know. It’s funny how many girls said the same thing about their aqua man!! Yea it’s probably good to give him space to have him wondering about you. I haven’t posted anything to him the last few days. I’m giving him some space to miss me. But he’s being extra funny with the location thing. He’s having too much fun!! I’m excited for tomorrow night when I’m in an unusual location. Can’t wait to make him wonder what I’m up too and who I’m with on a random weeknight! Lol

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Have you not posted anything on snap either? I’ve been posting as usual on snapchat and he’s been watching, I think I’m going to hide my stories from him lol

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If an aqua is into you, he wont disappear for long periods of time. He will make an effort to speak with you or get your attention. He wont keep you guessing coz he will show you his interest level based on how much he talks to you. If you disappear on him he will find a way to reach out to you. If hes not doing those then clearly, he isnt into you as much as you are into him.

To get his attention, be a normal human being. Dont do things to get his attention because it will be classified as desperate (like saweetz). Be the normal you and if he likes it he will come to you and if he doesnt, he wont. Live and let live is the way to go with aquas. Creating situations to make him chase you (this is what saweetz did too. Ridiculous) or forcing things to happen wont work. Aquas are smart and any manipulation tactic wont do it.

Trust me, I attract aquas like butterflies (due to my leo moon) and my ex for 4 years was an aqua and my current bf is an aqua (current bf flew all the way from australia to another continent to see me.). They are amazing men for sure but let him be the man and do his thing when it comes to chasing or making the move. I have always done it that way and it works.
The thing is what you’ve just described is how this Aqua guy was with me Lol, but now he’s not because I scared him away with things I said in the pastšŸ¤·šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø I think I’m too emotional for an Aqua which is why he has stopped speaking to me


Think of it this way, you wont scare anyone who is sure about being with you. Dont blame yourself and think its because you did something. Normally, its not about you. Its about them and how they feel. If they feel uncertain then they wont invest. Dont think its because you did something wrong.

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Thank you for that 😌
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Hey op, how’s everything going? Any updates?
Nothing at all, he’s just watching my snaps. I’ve lost a bit of interest now, I’ve decided to not watch whatever he posts so he knows I’m not interested lol...it’s just funny to keep this thread going because I’m still in disbelief that these Aquas are all the same with the Snapchat thingšŸ˜‚šŸ¤¦šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø

Lol I know. It’s funny how many girls said the same thing about their aqua man!! Yea it’s probably good to give him space to have him wondering about you. I haven’t posted anything to him the last few days. I’m giving him some space to miss me. But he’s being extra funny with the location thing. He’s having too much fun!! I’m excited for tomorrow night when I’m in an unusual location. Can’t wait to make him wonder what I’m up too and who I’m with on a random weeknight! Lol


Have you not posted anything on snap either? I’ve been posting as usual on snapchat and he’s been watching, I think I’m going to hide my stories from him lol

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You want to disappear on him completely? Do you think that will help? I found it didn’t help me. My aqua seems to like me in his life even when we don’t talk. That’s why I think he likes sharing locations. Because he knows I still care and I haven’t gone anywhere. I’m not posting any stories because my life isn’t tooo exciting lol and I could do a random cute selfie, but I haven’t for whatever reason. Besides I think me checking his location is enough attention to make him happy.. it’s all part of my plan to make him addicted to me. Give a little but not too much! Lol
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You want to disappear on him completely? Do you think that will help? I found it didn’t help me. My aqua seems to like me in his life even when we don’t talk. That’s why I think he likes sharing locations. Because he knows I still care and I haven’t gone anywhere. I’m not posting any stories because my life isn’t tooo exciting lol and I could do a random cute selfie, but I haven’t for whatever reason. Besides I think me checking his location is enough attention to make him happy.. it’s all part of my plan to make him addicted to me. Give a little but not too much! Lol
Yeah I have a feeling he’s just not that in to me right now, the way things were before are different compared to now and even tho he still watches me it’s because he wants to see what I’m up to but I have a feeling he isn’t into me as much and I think they get bored easily something tells me he’s bored of me already lol. I post on snapchat quite often so I have a feeling that gives him a reason not to miss me whereas before he would miss me because I haven’t been active and quiet but I’m not about to stop that just to please him! Lol. When I first met him I wasn’t even interested but I started to like his personality and now he’s backed off a bit .. I’m gonna keep in touch with u and let u know if he comes back lol

I pretty much doubt it though.. I have a feeling there’s someone else who has his attention nowšŸ¤¦šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø I’m not feeling sorry for myself either, i genuinely am dissapointed and gutted to say the least but it’s not the end of the world either and I’ve been through a terrible heartbreak before so I’m glad that it’s stopped here before it could get any deeper 😌
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You want to disappear on him completely? Do you think that will help? I found it didn’t help me. My aqua seems to like me in his life even when we don’t talk. That’s why I think he likes sharing locations. Because he knows I still care and I haven’t gone anywhere. I’m not posting any stories because my life isn’t tooo exciting lol and I could do a random cute selfie, but I haven’t for whatever reason. Besides I think me checking his location is enough attention to make him happy.. it’s all part of my plan to make him addicted to me. Give a little but not too much! Lol
Yeah I have a feeling he’s just not that in to me right now, the way things were before are different compared to now and even tho he still watches me it’s because he wants to see what I’m up to but I have a feeling he isn’t into me as much and I think they get bored easily something tells me he’s bored of me already lol. I post on snapchat quite often so I have a feeling that gives him a reason not to miss me whereas before he would miss me because I haven’t been active and quiet but I’m not about to stop that just to please him! Lol. When I first met him I wasn’t even interested but I started to like his personality and now he’s backed off a bit .. I’m gonna keep in touch with u and let u know if he comes back lol

I pretty much doubt it though.. I have a feeling there’s someone else who has his attention nowšŸ¤¦šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø I’m not feeling sorry for myself either, i genuinely am dissapointed and gutted to say the least but it’s not the end of the world either and I’ve been through a terrible heartbreak before so I’m glad that it’s stopped here before it could get any deeper 😌
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Yea 😢 I completely understand though. I’ve been single for 7 years and dated a lot of guys and it just didn’t work out. Just keep searching! Maybe the next guy will be the one!
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Our last conversation wasn’t bad we never ended it on bad terms and I know I could message him first and he would probably reply but my Pisces intuition just tells me he’s being funny with me at the minute because on our last conversation he brought up the reason I had removed him from my life, and I told him how I had felt which equals a big āŒāŒāŒāŒāŒāŒāŒāŒāŒ

And it’s not that he doesn’t like me it’s that I feel he isn’t ready for a relationship but he was just happy to have me there as a friend, which isn’t fine by me especially when I have feelings for someone lol..

So now it’s the ghosting part, he’s disappeared again and I’m too stubborn to message him first after expressing my feelings I feel like an idiot now lol. Why are you guys so difficult šŸ˜”it’s made me feel so insecure and so stupid, how can I correct this situation now?
You did the right thing by being clear about your romantic intent. So many people are afraid to do this which leads to confusion and hurt feelings down the line. You shouldn't have to compromise your needs because someone is emotonally unavailable. The best thing you can do is state your truth and find someone whose mindset matches your own.
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Direct snap is the best. They do like attention too n it makes them feel special without much pressure from their side.
I'm gonna have to work on doing this. I hardly ever take selfies unless I'm laying in bed about to go to sleep and using a cute snap filter. I mostly take then when I'm bored. Lol
hehe yeah do it !!

the last snap i sent him was this amazing coffee and restauraut and i said to him that he shud totally try!!

then he replied

babe, i don't drink coffee



hahaha

anyway, my bad i forgot about it but u can send anything really.

i dun send many selfies at all only the ones i find very hot n sexy šŸ˜› n even those i mainly post them on my storiesšŸ˜›

there was one i sent to him of me doing some clothes shopping which i thought i looked nice and he replied

thats nice babe, but i hope u r handing ur resumes while you are there.

lol

funny being these people.


I just realized this morning that he's hid his location, so now I think I'm gonna go out later tonight and have a couple of drinks and not forget to snap lol. He hid it so he can log on whenever and take a look without me knowing lol

So I will keep my location turned on until after this weekend since its my birthday and if his isn't up again by Monday, I will go back into hiding. šŸ˜†


lol looks like we should create a new name of this thread,

snap chats fancy lol

--- atlas u get some snaps sent from him.

this aqua i noe never ever post or take any snap . he only stalks

i think he was born stalking people



its annoying actually n pretty unfair but whatever lol


Haha I made a post about it before when first speaking to Aqua but ironically someone mentioned it on this post and I couldn’t believe someone could relate lolšŸ˜‚

My Aqua never used to snap he would stalk then he started to snap to get my attention and now he has stopped and has gone back to just stalking



yeah i think thats normal.

since having snap this aqua never ever post anything on snap. or Facebook or social media.

but hey, i must have done something right coz the other day , he shown me his conversation with this girl and i was holding his phone for a good 5 mins. he was doing his password infront of me without feeling like he was reluctant to do so.

so yay, i think the key is to keep mentioning to them that they can tell u anything and anything and they u will always b their friends and stuff. so they can relax and feel safe with u . to reveal some not so pretty side of them.
You are such a doormat. You are happy he let you hold his phone for 5 minutes and thinks its a blessing. Wtf. Hahahahahahahhahahahahaahahahhahahahhahahah

You didnt do anything right. He just doesnt care about what you think.

Mentioning to the man that he is safe with you is a crappy advise. Words dont do shit. Its the actions. Stupid. Guy reveals not so pretty side with you coz he knows youre a doormat. No woman should take that as a compliment. God. Where do you get your brains from?

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Why do you have to be so mean to saweetz1988 ? She's still a human being. And she has a lot of guts to keep coming back in the Aqua board and posting. You can tell she's just looking for info just like the rest of us.

I just don't understand why you have so much hatred for her and she's done nothing to you.

I have nothing against you or her but you say really mean things that seem a little unnecessary. I just don't understand it.

She loves him and is trying. What more can anyone do. She's also a fixed sign in love. It's hard to let go sometimes.

I understand about the advice but she really is trying and he still comes around, even if he's just being a friend.
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Direct snap is the best. They do like attention too n it makes them feel special without much pressure from their side.
I'm gonna have to work on doing this. I hardly ever take selfies unless I'm laying in bed about to go to sleep and using a cute snap filter. I mostly take then when I'm bored. Lol
hehe yeah do it !!

the last snap i sent him was this amazing coffee and restauraut and i said to him that he shud totally try!!

then he replied

babe, i don't drink coffee



hahaha

anyway, my bad i forgot about it but u can send anything really.

i dun send many selfies at all only the ones i find very hot n sexy šŸ˜› n even those i mainly post them on my storiesšŸ˜›

there was one i sent to him of me doing some clothes shopping which i thought i looked nice and he replied

thats nice babe, but i hope u r handing ur resumes while you are there.

lol

funny being these people.


I just realized this morning that he's hid his location, so now I think I'm gonna go out later tonight and have a couple of drinks and not forget to snap lol. He hid it so he can log on whenever and take a look without me knowing lol

So I will keep my location turned on until after this weekend since its my birthday and if his isn't up again by Monday, I will go back into hiding. šŸ˜†


lol looks like we should create a new name of this thread,

snap chats fancy lol

--- atlas u get some snaps sent from him.

this aqua i noe never ever post or take any snap . he only stalks

i think he was born stalking people



its annoying actually n pretty unfair but whatever lol


Haha I made a post about it before when first speaking to Aqua but ironically someone mentioned it on this post and I couldn’t believe someone could relate lolšŸ˜‚

My Aqua never used to snap he would stalk then he started to snap to get my attention and now he has stopped and has gone back to just stalking



yeah i think thats normal.

since having snap this aqua never ever post anything on snap. or Facebook or social media.

but hey, i must have done something right coz the other day , he shown me his conversation with this girl and i was holding his phone for a good 5 mins. he was doing his password infront of me without feeling like he was reluctant to do so.

so yay, i think the key is to keep mentioning to them that they can tell u anything and anything and they u will always b their friends and stuff. so they can relax and feel safe with u . to reveal some not so pretty side of them.
You are such a doormat. You are happy he let you hold his phone for 5 minutes and thinks its a blessing. Wtf. Hahahahahahahhahahahahaahahahhahahahhahahah

You didnt do anything right. He just doesnt care about what you think.

Mentioning to the man that he is safe with you is a crappy advise. Words dont do shit. Its the actions. Stupid. Guy reveals not so pretty side with you coz he knows youre a doormat. No woman should take that as a compliment. God. Where do you get your brains from?


Why do you have to be so mean to saweetz1988 ? She's still a human being. And she has a lot of guts to keep coming back in the Aqua board and posting. You can tell she's just looking for info just like the rest of us.

I just don't understand why you have so much hatred for her and she's done nothing to you.

I have nothing against you or her but you say really mean things that seem a little unnecessary. I just don't understand it.

She loves him and is trying. What more can anyone do. She's also a fixed sign in love. It's hard to let go sometimes.

I understand about the advice but she really is trying and he still comes around, even if he's just being a friend.
Uhm. Do you think i would hate her for no reason? Ask her what shes done. Then you will know why. I have nothing against women posting over and over again about men here. Saweetz and I have a past you wouldnt want to dig into or get involved in. i am not normally nasty to people but she did something that made me this way towards her. To make it short, shes a backstabber. Shes a liar. She drags personal issues on here. Including my ex who was going through depression. So one thing is for sure, i dont regret being nasty to her. She deserves every bit of it.

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Oh I guess there's a lot of behind the scenes stuff we didn't know about. I didn't realize you actually knew her. I just see you bash her so hard. Lol.

I was just wondering. Now I know, so back to my own business 😊
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Our last conversation wasn’t bad we never ended it on bad terms and I know I could message him first and he would probably reply but my Pisces intuition just tells me he’s being funny with me at the minute because on our last conversation he brought up the reason I had removed him from my life, and I told him how I had felt which equals a big āŒāŒāŒāŒāŒāŒāŒāŒāŒ

And it’s not that he doesn’t like me it’s that I feel he isn’t ready for a relationship but he was just happy to have me there as a friend, which isn’t fine by me especially when I have feelings for someone lol..

So now it’s the ghosting part, he’s disappeared again and I’m too stubborn to message him first after expressing my feelings I feel like an idiot now lol. Why are you guys so difficult šŸ˜”it’s made me feel so insecure and so stupid, how can I correct this situation now?
You did the right thing by being clear about your romantic intent. So many people are afraid to do this which leads to confusion and hurt feelings down the line. You shouldn't have to compromise your needs because someone is emotonally unavailable. The best thing you can do is state your truth and find someone whose mindset matches your own.
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THANK YOU. Like I’ve been dead ass beating myself up about it thinking maybe I shouldn’t have said it, but you know what I’m glad I did. I got my heart broken from my soul mate (Taurus) mental illness messed our relationship up otherwise we would have been fine, we have two small children together and one thing this Aqua guy done was distract me from him and helped me to forgive him but now we are very much best friends and the love is still there but I wasn’t looking to get in a relationship with anyone especially Aqua until I started to soften to his personality and charm, so me being straight up and honest with him was just me saving myself from any future heartbreak and mess... and I will do it one hundred times over again with the next future potential partner just to guard myself and not jump in to anything that is potentially going to end badly! I did block him before but this time I won’t block him, not to wait to see if he speaks to me but just because there’s no point really
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If an aqua is into you, he wont disappear for long periods of time. He will make an effort to speak with you or get your attention. He wont keep you guessing coz he will show you his interest level based on how much he talks to you. If you disappear on him he will find a way to reach out to you. If hes not doing those then clearly, he isnt into you as much as you are into him.

To get his attention, be a normal human being. Dont do things to get his attention because it will be classified as desperate (like saweetz). Be the normal you and if he likes it he will come to you and if he doesnt, he wont. Live and let live is the way to go with aquas. Creating situations to make him chase you (this is what saweetz did too. Ridiculous) or forcing things to happen wont work. Aquas are smart and any manipulation tactic wont do it.

Trust me, I attract aquas like butterflies (due to my leo moon) and my ex for 4 years was an aqua and my current bf is an aqua (current bf flew all the way from australia to another continent to see me.). They are amazing men for sure but let him be the man and do his thing when it comes to chasing or making the move. I have always done it that way and it works.
The thing is what you’ve just described is how this Aqua guy was with me Lol, but now he’s not because I scared him away with things I said in the pastšŸ¤·šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø I think I’m too emotional for an Aqua which is why he has stopped speaking to me


Think of it this way, you wont scare anyone who is sure about being with you. Dont blame yourself and think its because you did something. Normally, its not about you. Its about them and how they feel. If they feel uncertain then they wont invest. Dont think its because you did something wrong.


Thank you for that 😌


Its a rule i learned from my sag friend. I used to think things didnt workout because i didnt give enough or i didnt do something right. Turns out, men will bend over backwards for the girl they are sure they wanna be with. You can also read it from the book ā€œWhy Men Marry Bitchesā€ . We sometimes see the imperfect girl being with a guy we deem to be perfect. What we dunno is she is probably perfect for the guy just the way she is. So for you, if not this man, there is someone out there who will think you are the best one for him. Stop stressing over someone who goes missing and all. In the long run, you wouldnt want a man who makes you feel so unsure.
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It’s so true. I’ve seen men be dirty players and one day just change for that one girl who you wouldn’t think is anything special
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I used to be married to an Aqua for a decade. I am currently raising 2 Aquas too. I have 2 Aqua ex and some other experiences dealing with these Aliens.

Anyone wanna ask me some questions? Lol

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IMO, if a man of any signs pays no attention to you, it means you just have to walk away. I just don't understand why do people have to keeps on giving excuses for that kind of behaviour. It's pathetic. Geez.
Yeah, I agree. I know that regardless of his sign if he’s acting this way he isn’t interested.. I did state that eventually, but it’s amazing how much people could relate to the snapchat thing as bizarre as it may sound to others, in the beginning of the friendship when he was interested he would always watch my posts and whenever I would post he would post too. He did that because he was shy at first to talk to me so I would talk to him and then he would all of a sudden stop posting, or even days when I didn’t post he wouldn’t either, it was just a game at first because he was shy to approach me then he stopped as he got comfortable and now he’s lost interest in me, I’m totally fine about it I don’t think I would want to date an Aqua anyways, I’m very much better off with fire or Earth LolšŸ¤¦šŸ½ā€ā™€ļøšŸ¤¦šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø
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Our last conversation wasn’t bad we never ended it on bad terms and I know I could message him first and he would probably reply but my Pisces intuition just tells me he’s being funny with me at the minute because on our last conversation he brought up the reason I had removed him from my life, and I told him how I had felt which equals a big āŒāŒāŒāŒāŒāŒāŒāŒāŒ

And it’s not that he doesn’t like me it’s that I feel he isn’t ready for a relationship but he was just happy to have me there as a friend, which isn’t fine by me especially when I have feelings for someone lol..

So now it’s the ghosting part, he’s disappeared again and I’m too stubborn to message him first after expressing my feelings I feel like an idiot now lol. Why are you guys so difficult šŸ˜”it’s made me feel so insecure and so stupid, how can I correct this situation now?
You did the right thing by being clear about your romantic intent. So many people are afraid to do this which leads to confusion and hurt feelings down the line. You shouldn't have to compromise your needs because someone is emotonally unavailable. The best thing you can do is state your truth and find someone whose mindset matches your own.
THANK YOU. Like I’ve been dead ass beating myself up about it thinking maybe I shouldn’t have said it, but you know what I’m glad I did. I got my heart broken from my soul mate (Taurus) mental illness messed our relationship up otherwise we would have been fine, we have two small children together and one thing this Aqua guy done was distract me from him and helped me to forgive him but now we are very much best friends and the love is still there but I wasn’t looking to get in a relationship with anyone especially Aqua until I started to soften to his personality and charm, so me being straight up and honest with him was just me saving myself from any future heartbreak and mess... and I will do it one hundred times over again with the next future potential partner just to guard myself and not jump in to anything that is potentially going to end badly! I did block him before but this time I won’t block him, not to wait to see if he speaks to me but just because there’s no point really
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Right. Remember that most (99% ) of relationships are designed to end. You can't be in a longterm relationship with everyone after all. Treat each relationship as a learning experience and find the silver lining.

As you've said, the Aqua's purpose may have simply been to provide you with a way to get over your Taurus ex. He served his purpose, but he was probably never meant to be in your life romantically long term. I know it's cliche, but everything does happen for a reason.

I always advise people to be direct in their purpose and intention. If you desire someone romantically, do not feel ashamed to express that. Agreeing to be "friends" when that's not what you want can be far worse than just accepting the rejection and moving forward.

I agree blocking him may be overly dramatic, unless you truly need to do so in order to get over him. I believe that people make mistakes in judgement. So unless he truly did something terrible, there's nothing wrong with keeping the door open in case he changes his mind. However I also agree to not wait for him. Definitely find someone new who wants to be with you.
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Right. Remember that most (99% ) of relationships are designed to end. You can't be in a longterm relationship with everyone after all. Treat each relationship as a learning experience and find the silver lining.
After my ex I truly believe this, I don’t think relationships last forever these days, I completely agree with you.. wow you have so much wisdom lol

As you've said, the Aqua's purpose may have simply been to provide you with a way to get over your Taurus ex. He served his purpose, but he was probably never meant to be in your life romantically long term. I know it's cliche, but everything does happen for a reason.

I have also had this mindset, I believe he was only meant to help me get over my ex and he has 😌

I always advise people to be direct in their purpose and intention. If you desire someone romantically, do not feel ashamed to express that. Agreeing to be "friends" when that's not what you want can be far worse than just accepting the rejection and moving forward.

I agree blocking him may be overly dramatic, unless you truly need to do so in order to get over him. I believe that people make mistakes in judgement. So unless he truly did something terrible, there's nothing wrong with keeping the door open in case he changes his mind. However I also agree to not wait for him. Definitely find someone new who wants to be with you.
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Thank you very much for your answer, I’m using this situation as a lesson as well, I do like to jump in to my feelings very early on in a situation like this so this has been a lesson learnt! With no regrets either, thank you šŸ˜ŠšŸ™šŸ½
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Aquarius don’t play games. Y’all trippin’
I found out some good stuff about Snapchat! I didn't even know about lol.

I'm doing the same as always just opened my map to him so he can see where I am. But I'm gonna end up closing it soon. It actually gives me a little bit of anxiety lol
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Lol aww really— Do you think he’s been looking at your location? Do you only share it with him or other people too??
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Aquarius don’t play games. Y’all trippin’
Been telling them that.

The guy likes her but not her games.

That's two different things.
You know my aqua is loving the games...

Or he just loves stalking me lol
I know lol as lonv as is not block unblock games.
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Well u know what’s funny. I deactivated Facebook. The aqua was my only friend because he wanted me to be when we first started dating. But all I did was stalk his profile and I thought it was best for the relationship if I didn’t do that anymore. I also wanted to give him the freedom and independence I hear aquas need. And now, 1 week later- he shares his location with me šŸ™ˆ
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Aquarius don’t play games. Y’all trippin’
I found out some good stuff about Snapchat! I didn't even know about lol.

I'm doing the same as always just opened my map to him so he can see where I am. But I'm gonna end up closing it soon. It actually gives me a little bit of anxiety lol

Lol aww really— Do you think he’s been looking at your location? Do you only share it with him or other people too??

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Yeah I only shared it with him. It practically shows your address so I didn't share with everyone. Lol

I don't know if he's been looking, he closed his once he saw mine was showing. I'm sure he has. I didn't mention anything to him about it and I won't cause I'm gonna end up turning it off after my birthday weekend 😊 He knows where I'm going anyways so it's not a big deal.

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Aquarius don’t play games. Y’all trippin’
I found out some good stuff about Snapchat! I didn't even know about lol.

I'm doing the same as always just opened my map to him so he can see where I am. But I'm gonna end up closing it soon. It actually gives me a little bit of anxiety lol

Lol aww really— Do you think he’s been looking at your location? Do you only share it with him or other people too??


Yeah I only shared it with him. It practically shows your address so I didn't share with everyone. Lol

I don't know if he's been looking, he closed his once he saw mine was showing. I'm sure he has. I didn't mention anything to him about it and I won't cause I'm gonna end up turning it off after my birthday weekend 😊 He knows where I'm going anyways so it's not a big deal.



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He shut his off after you turned yours on šŸ¤”

What’s that about?

Yea it’s amazing how accurate the app is! See my aqua is always logging on. Even when he’s driving. It’s like he wants me to follow him...

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It sounds the exact same!!! Yea we should. Lol I never played with Snapchat so much. We’ve been dating since September and the games just began the last few weeks. How long have you known your aqua man? Are you exclusive? See we are in a committed relationship and I trust him. He works every day of the week so I really don’t think he’s on Snapchat for any other girls. He never has posted anything. Not even once since I’ve known him. He does have some friends on there though. But with the location I can see the last time he logs on, which is often. Just like me šŸ˜‹ it’s actually a bad habit though. I try to stay off! And without realizing it, I’ve logged back on. Crap. I’m addicted to this app!
Awww so you two are a proper couple, that’s cute! We aren’t together we are just getting to know each other or was shall I say Lol. We’ve only been speaking for two months, he’s stopped doing things for my attention now though and we don’t speak as much so I think it’s going to fizz out now. I would love to see how you two get on though and how was he when you was both in the talking stage, I find this Aqua very slow everything has to be on his time and pace



Aww you’re giving up? Send him a sexy photo!! In the talking stage, he’s wonderful. Texts throughout the day. Actually makes an effort. But I do feel like I’ve always been at his pace. He wanted to be exclusive and official in the first week of dating. He wanted to hang out every day. I thought this was going to be the norm until he started a second business. And he also focuses on his other business more in the colder months because he loves his summers off. Its not an easy adjustment because I miss him a lot. But I also know what he’s doing is important so I should be more understanding. I’m just hoping it’s not going to fizz out too!


You’re not his wife you’re his gf and even then you shouldn’t accept this. He’s neglecting you and the relationship, no good.

He hasn’t totally disappeared and he still shows he cares. I heard from him today. He loves money and he’s a hard worker. Owning 1 business is hard enough. Now it’s 2. It’s not some small businesses either. He’s even told me he still wants me in his life. I told him I’d be patient. Sometimes I get emotional tho. I hate being a cancer

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Ok that makes sense somewhat. Is he generous tho?
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It sounds the exact same!!! Yea we should. Lol I never played with Snapchat so much. We’ve been dating since September and the games just began the last few weeks. How long have you known your aqua man? Are you exclusive? See we are in a committed relationship and I trust him. He works every day of the week so I really don’t think he’s on Snapchat for any other girls. He never has posted anything. Not even once since I’ve known him. He does have some friends on there though. But with the location I can see the last time he logs on, which is often. Just like me šŸ˜‹ it’s actually a bad habit though. I try to stay off! And without realizing it, I’ve logged back on. Crap. I’m addicted to this app!
Awww so you two are a proper couple, that’s cute! We aren’t together we are just getting to know each other or was shall I say Lol. We’ve only been speaking for two months, he’s stopped doing things for my attention now though and we don’t speak as much so I think it’s going to fizz out now. I would love to see how you two get on though and how was he when you was both in the talking stage, I find this Aqua very slow everything has to be on his time and pace



Aww you’re giving up? Send him a sexy photo!! In the talking stage, he’s wonderful. Texts throughout the day. Actually makes an effort. But I do feel like I’ve always been at his pace. He wanted to be exclusive and official in the first week of dating. He wanted to hang out every day. I thought this was going to be the norm until he started a second business. And he also focuses on his other business more in the colder months because he loves his summers off. Its not an easy adjustment because I miss him a lot. But I also know what he’s doing is important so I should be more understanding. I’m just hoping it’s not going to fizz out too!


You’re not his wife you’re his gf and even then you shouldn’t accept this. He’s neglecting you and the relationship, no good.

He hasn’t totally disappeared and he still shows he cares. I heard from him today. He loves money and he’s a hard worker. Owning 1 business is hard enough. Now it’s 2. It’s not some small businesses either. He’s even told me he still wants me in his life. I told him I’d be patient. Sometimes I get emotional tho. I hate being a cancer


Ok that makes sense somewhat. Is he generous tho?
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Yes, definitely
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Aquarius don’t play games. Y’all trippin’
Been telling them that.

The guy likes her but not her games.

That's two different things.
I didn’t read all pages, too much. All I know is that all these tests/games is a sure way of losing an Aqua. We will ignore you until you get your shat together, if we like you, or ice you all together once we’ve had enough of you.

Also, I’ve also checked on past interests SM and it was done more so out of curiosity. But I never reached out because in my mind I had made my decision that I wasn’t going to pursue anything.

Just my 2 cents
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You should read my story about my aqua location stalking. To me, that’s a game. And he’s loving it 😁
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Aquarius don’t play games. Y’all trippin’
I found out some good stuff about Snapchat! I didn't even know about lol.

I'm doing the same as always just opened my map to him so he can see where I am. But I'm gonna end up closing it soon. It actually gives me a little bit of anxiety lol

Lol aww really— Do you think he’s been looking at your location? Do you only share it with him or other people too??


Yeah I only shared it with him. It practically shows your address so I didn't share with everyone. Lol

I don't know if he's been looking, he closed his once he saw mine was showing. I'm sure he has. I didn't mention anything to him about it and I won't cause I'm gonna end up turning it off after my birthday weekend 😊 He knows where I'm going anyways so it's not a big deal.





He shut his off after you turned yours on šŸ¤”

What’s that about?

Yea it’s amazing how accurate the app is! See my aqua is always logging on. Even when he’s driving. It’s like he wants me to follow him...

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I don't know lol but I didn't want to turn my off right away. Once I saw it lol

I didn't even know about the map thing before so my location was always hidden. I actually should have done a little stalking before I turned mine on. šŸ˜„
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by bittercupcake
Aquarius don’t play games. Y’all trippin’
I found out some good stuff about Snapchat! I didn't even know about lol.

I'm doing the same as always just opened my map to him so he can see where I am. But I'm gonna end up closing it soon. It actually gives me a little bit of anxiety lol

Lol aww really— Do you think he’s been looking at your location? Do you only share it with him or other people too??


Yeah I only shared it with him. It practically shows your address so I didn't share with everyone. Lol

I don't know if he's been looking, he closed his once he saw mine was showing. I'm sure he has. I didn't mention anything to him about it and I won't cause I'm gonna end up turning it off after my birthday weekend 😊 He knows where I'm going anyways so it's not a big deal.





He shut his off after you turned yours on šŸ¤”

What’s that about?

Yea it’s amazing how accurate the app is! See my aqua is always logging on. Even when he’s driving. It’s like he wants me to follow him...


I don't know lol but I didn't want to turn my off right away. Once I saw it lol

I didn't even know about the map thing before so my location was always hidden. I actually should have done a little stalking before I turned mine on. šŸ˜„

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lol true! I didn’t either. My aqua is too funny. Now we are even checking in when we are driving. He’s such a copycat šŸ˜‚ I wish your aqua would play more too!!
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Aquarius don’t play games. Y’all trippin’
Been telling them that.

The guy likes her but not her games.

That's two different things.
I didn’t read all pages, too much. All I know is that all these tests/games is a sure way of losing an Aqua. We will ignore you until you get your shat together, if we like you, or ice you all together once we’ve had enough of you.

Also, I’ve also checked on past interests SM and it was done more so out of curiosity. But I never reached out because in my mind I had made my decision that I wasn’t going to pursue anything.

Just my 2 cents
You should read my story about my aqua location stalking. To me, that’s a game. And he’s loving it 😁
Yes but you two are together and I don't think it's a game. I think what is happening is that he's just checking up on you but too lazy or not in the mood to reach out. It means he needs time to wind down or needs space. If he does this all the time and doesn't reach out, that's not a good sign. I always reach out to my significant other and will only go a few hours without talking to him.

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I feel like it’s a game. The times he logs in. The places he logs in. Sometimes he mirrors what I do. Actually he did something funny. I think he’s trying to make a point lol. I’m going to share it with you just because I have no one else to right now. So we just started sharing locations on Sunday. The last 3 days I have not signed on at work. I don’t really want him to know where I work. I have my reason. He’s noticed this for sure. He knows approximately though because we drove near there once. So Monday i checked in about a mile away after I left work. He saw. Then today I checked in as I was driving to work. Only because I wanted to see if he turned off his map because it didn’t show when I was still at home. Well it showed when I looked on the road. Sooo just now he did the exact same. I’ve been to his work place. Plus hes checked in there before too. He was on the road very close to his work. And it also said 5hours ago, which is the longest he’s been away during the day. Lol just like me. Thanks for listening 😁
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I honest don't think Aqua has that much time on their hand to play too much game esp if u two r a couple. Just no... lol.. if they want u they will chase u. They will make it clear. and talk like a normal person. he cud be testing u, but the inconsistency is becoming a little too much now. Perhaps something else is going on that u don't know about n he doesn't wanna trouble u with it? but, have u done much for him since he's been busy? Maybe like deliver him some food is a nice way to show him that u care without pressuring him. ? I only say this becoz u r a couple now . n the Aqua used to love that about me when I did that when he was very busy with uni and full time work back in the days .
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I don’t know I think in @pinkbird03 they’re still a new couple, and he’s always busy so that’s his way of communicating and keeping an eye on her when he can’t. My Aqua was the same he was very busy and most times he would do things for my attention and sometimes he would ask why I don’t reach out to him. It’s like a cry for attention.
He wanted to share locations after i posted two dressed up selfies on different days. Soo yea. I think he wants to keep tabs on me!! I went out tonight for drinks. And he checked my location a lot. Funny boy. He could just ask me what I’m up to and who I’m with! I have nothing to hide!
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I honest don't think Aqua has that much time on their hand to play too much game esp if u two r a couple. Just no... lol.. if they want u they will chase u. They will make it clear. and talk like a normal person. he cud be testing u, but the inconsistency is becoming a little too much now. Perhaps something else is going on that u don't know about n he doesn't wanna trouble u with it? but, have u done much for him since he's been busy? Maybe like deliver him some food is a nice way to show him that u care without pressuring him. ? I only say this becoz u r a couple now . n the Aqua used to love that about me when I did that when he was very busy with uni and full time work back in the days .

I don’t think he’s hiding anything. He wouldn’t share his location with me if he was. Plus it takes no effort to look at your phone to see what I’m up to. And I know he likes location sharing because he does it with his guy friends. I’ve done one thing that was really nice and he seemed to appreciate it very much. But I’m not bringing him food because he doesn’t like to stop working. He’d prefer to get things done so he can eventually leave work and then grab food at one of his usual spots. I told him he has to tell me if he doesn’t want me in his life anymore and he said he would. Sooo i know he does. But I think he needs to focus on what he’s doing so it’s successful. He works 7 days a week so I should be more understanding. I think this experience is making us a stronger closer couple. But only time will tell.
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These guys and Snapchat are intense. They damn near need a planet in their chart called Snapchat with a zodiac sign placement.

Mine tried to ghost me & immediately turned back into Romeo when I hopped on posting a dozen full body shot pics.

We agreed to part ways & be friends, recently because I’m too much drama (I have a drinking problem). Luckily I lurk here on dxp so I then began sharing location via my iPhone & wouldnt ya know whose talkative today. He even noticed I blocked him on Snapchat...he was gonna send a body part pic (his way of letting me know it isn’t over yet) is how he noticed so he says.