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Madame you don't want me to learn to drive something more... I will run you over for all the shit you put me through —

LMAO...it's all your fault! I am not your friggin shoffer nor I am your Uber!

I can offer you a scooter. Or roller skates.

I am just that kind. Tonight!
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But not sure if I am ready for any Criticism ... haha how open minded are you guys truly Aqua? 😉
You making it more painful for yiurself...
lol why so?
Because you want to tell!!!

I dooooo but I wanna hear other experiences first lol... so I know I'm not that wild .. :p


Too late! Everybody shared already!

Maybe you'll teach people something new!

Common! Plus our own resident sex professional @Whorpio will provide you with free tips and guidance!

Common...

I have not heard any sex stories on here lol!!!!!! I wanna hear yours! I can't wait to hear what whorpio has to share !🙂


What? You haven't heard sex stories here?

And @Whorpio doesn't 'tell' stories.

She might consult you but everything else isn't free! Surprise!!!

lol not yet ! Not as wild yet.. stop

Changing the topics! you go first lol

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Bitch come on get over it
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lol ok..

well i promised my aqua to take him out to a swinger party..

well it was actually my idea ..

:p

anyway, we had a foursome before with my libra friend and her aqua

half of that experience he cud't get it up...

now...

when we went to that swinger party as a couple to a new experience.. it was indeed interesting ...:p

but again, 5-6 couples sexing next to us..and my man is fully cloths up...

...meanwhile..

we both like the couple further away with a hot nice boobs and we both wanted her but she had 2 men already..

so i pretty much dragged him there and pretty much just pushed myself to * their party..* i enjoyed myself

my aqua was on me..playing..still clothed up..HAHAHAH

n i was like

babe come on !!! do it

and he's like .. i can't babe i'm not hard....

ok that was the whole experience lol

it became boring like..none of us really get turn on at all...

we walked around seeing sex couples like its nothing...

then ofcoz we came home to crazy wild sex..just us

so i told him, he's more intimate and need real connection that what he lets on ( all pisces placements on him) and he kept saying sorry coz he cud't perform... ( as expected)

then we came home n he's all sweet though again ended the convo that he's still not looking for a girlfriend...

story of my life...

so i'm like u noe what...this is it ..HAHAHA

a man can not contradict his words and actions enough...

oh lets not forget the piggy back ride on the way back and him driving me home and all...

This man is the most sensitive and romantic man alive...yet running away from real intimacy...

so i am at a place where i'm confused as....like, where do i go from here :p

oh...we were amazing together as a couple there... we do connect emotionally, physically and mentally..

this whole not looking for a girlfriend stuff is getting old n I'm sick of it...i expressed my needs...but i think i am going to move on now..

there is my story...

the end

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I can see this thread is gonna get boring real quick lol. You're the one that brought up sharing and now your backing out. ??

Spill the beans women!
hahaha...mmm.... you go first😛


I don't know if you got the update but my Aqua cancelled on me last night so no freaky stories coming from me lol. He's pretty conservative anyways with his Cap venus.

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awww i was going to ask you

that sucks



😢 u noe

just rock up at his door and throw eggs on his window!!! i'm frustrated for you

i also think i am taking the exist sign

BYEBYE aqua

lol



i haven't had any other dick yet.. just him for 6-7 months now but i'm over it
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Well he's definitely in it for the good time! Lol. Do you know why he can't get it up? Usually when men are interested in something it's no problem. I'm sure he's curious and wants to check out the scene but are you sure he's comfortable with all your doing with other people.

Lol maybe he's not comfortable after all. I think he needs real connect and intimacy ... cud it b because it's a different environment.... I'm only there for the girls really....lol ... n glad I came home dick free .
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Well he's definitely in it for the good time! Lol. Do you know why he can't get it up? Usually when men are interested in something it's no problem. I'm sure he's curious and wants to check out the scene but are you sure he's comfortable with all your doing with other people.

Lol maybe he's not comfortable after all. I think he needs real connect and intimacy ... cud it b because it's a different environment.... I'm only there for the girls really....lol ... n glad I came home dick free .
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I think this needs to be a sit down discussion. Maybe he would be more comfortable with you bringing a girl into a private party with just you 3. Like renting a hotel room or something.

There's too many distractions and him have to try and keep an eye on what your doing. He may enjoy it better in private instead of a public forum style . Ask him.

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Aquas are actually more personally conservative than they let on. No judgement about what other people do but for them it's pretty traditional.

Mine wouldn't have anything to do with swinging or an orgy or anything like that.

My guess was that he's curious, but not turned on, and is probably thinking that you're a bit too open for him to feel comfortable committing to.
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I think it's funny that besides aerial... none of the other aquas give a fck to know lol
Lol ok then. I more wanna know why he can't get it up. Any idea?
Because he was forced into a experience he wasn't comfortable with.. its all about boundaries and respect even in a relationship. You were obviously trying to make him do something he wasn't down for which shows your Taurus aspects, being somewhat controlling and pushy.

Aquas like their FREEDOM, we do not not like being told what to do, when to do it, and with whom. Let him spread his wings.
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Oh my. I had to stop my car to reply to this!!!! I did not control him at all IMAo. It was my idea I suggested and he loved it and was extremely excited about the whole thing. We both r onto trying new things and new experiences. !!!!! And the whole night he let me lead n make decisions which is odd. So plz lol, no I never control man ... why wud I do such thing. He lovedddddddd the idea and was super excited but yes was scared he wudnt b able to perform which is what happened. The Pisces in him backed off
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Aquas are actually more personally conservative than they let on. No judgement about what other people do but for them it's pretty traditional.

Mine wouldn't have anything to do with swinging or an orgy or anything like that.

My guess was that he's curious, but not turned on, and is probably thinking that you're a bit too open for him to feel comfortable committing to.
Yes totally understand that. So why so excited and loved the idea when asked? it's not really my thing either now.We both had our first experience... I rather just do it with him and if there's a girl then great if not. Being with him is enough.... so meh...
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Aquas are actually more personally conservative than they let on. No judgement about what other people do but for them it's pretty traditional.

Mine wouldn't have anything to do with swinging or an orgy or anything like that.

My guess was that he's curious, but not turned on, and is probably thinking that you're a bit too open for him to feel comfortable committing to.
Personally if I was an aqua man, I would drop her for a woman who's a lot more laid back.

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Mmm how am I not laid back? lol.. don't u think me being open minded is more laid back? We didn't fight at all and the whole night we went in there as a team. It was a good experience for us

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I think it's funny that besides aerial... none of the other aquas give a fck to know lol
Lol ok then. I more wanna know why he can't get it up. Any idea?
Because he was forced into a experience he wasn't comfortable with.. its all about boundaries and respect even in a relationship. You were obviously trying to make him do something he wasn't down for which shows your Taurus aspects, being somewhat controlling and pushy.

Aquas like their FREEDOM, we do not not like being told what to do, when to do it, and with whom. Let him spread his wings.

Oh my. I had to stop my car to reply to this!!!! I did not control him at all IMAo. It was my idea I suggested and he loved it and was extremely excited about the whole thing. We both r onto trying new things and new experiences. !!!!! And the whole night he let me lead n make decisions which is odd. So plz lol, no I never control man ... why wud I do such thing. He lovedddddddd the idea and was super excited but yes was scared he wudnt b able to perform which is what happened. The Pisces in him backed off


He LOVED the idea but not the actual action. If he really did, he would have gotten hard immediately. Aquas are ran by inquisitive ideas on a daily but it doesn't mean we're quick to jump into it.

You know how many times I would love to go zip lining but haven't actually done it? A ton.

When it comes observation, don't go by what someone says but more of what they do, their actions speak louder than words.
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Rightttttttt so, he's actually very conservative ? God I wish I knew this.... coz it confuses me n we both tried to figure out why... n I said.. * babe it's ok it's not ur thing, we just won't do r again, I'm not that into it either .. n he's like .. no babe it's not like it's not my thing maybe I need to come more to be comfortable with it... * lol... so now I don't know ... the swingers r ok anyway.. I rather make love at home with him hehe n maybe invite a girl to play with us but again maybe he won't be hard then.. we might need to try that... if he's not hard even with that experience then I know he's truly a Pisces IMAo
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I think it's funny that besides aerial... none of the other aquas give a fck to know lol
Lol ok then. I more wanna know why he can't get it up. Any idea?
Because he was forced into a experience he wasn't comfortable with.. its all about boundaries and respect even in a relationship. You were obviously trying to make him do something he wasn't down for which shows your Taurus aspects, being somewhat controlling and pushy.

Aquas like their FREEDOM, we do not not like being told what to do, when to do it, and with whom. Let him spread his wings.

Oh my. I had to stop my car to reply to this!!!! I did not control him at all IMAo. It was my idea I suggested and he loved it and was extremely excited about the whole thing. We both r onto trying new things and new experiences. !!!!! And the whole night he let me lead n make decisions which is odd. So plz lol, no I never control man ... why wud I do such thing. He lovedddddddd the idea and was super excited but yes was scared he wudnt b able to perform which is what happened. The Pisces in him backed off


He LOVED the idea but not the actual action. If he really did, he would have gotten hard immediately. Aquas are ran by inquisitive ideas on a daily but it doesn't mean we're quick to jump into it.

You know how many times I would love to go zip lining but haven't actually done it? A ton.

When it comes observation, don't go by what someone says but more of what they do, their actions speak louder than words.
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What is zip lining? lol
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Well he's definitely in it for the good time! Lol. Do you know why he can't get it up? Usually when men are interested in something it's no problem. I'm sure he's curious and wants to check out the scene but are you sure he's comfortable with all your doing with other people.

Lol maybe he's not comfortable after all. I think he needs real connect and intimacy ... cud it b because it's a different environment.... I'm only there for the girls really....lol ... n glad I came home dick free .
I think this needs to be a sit down discussion. Maybe he would be more comfortable with you bringing a girl into a private party with just you 3. Like renting a hotel room or something.

There's too many distractions and him have to try and keep an eye on what your doing. He may enjoy it better in private instead of a public forum style . Ask him.

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Yes we both talked about this n he thinks that might be better.🙂 what's the excuse this time for ur Aqua?
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I think it's funny that besides aerial... none of the other aquas give a fck to know lol
Lol ok then. I more wanna know why he can't get it up. Any idea?
Because he was forced into a experience he wasn't comfortable with.. its all about boundaries and respect even in a relationship. You were obviously trying to make him do something he wasn't down for which shows your Taurus aspects, being somewhat controlling and pushy.

Aquas like their FREEDOM, we do not not like being told what to do, when to do it, and with whom. Let him spread his wings.

Oh my. I had to stop my car to reply to this!!!! I did not control him at all IMAo. It was my idea I suggested and he loved it and was extremely excited about the whole thing. We both r onto trying new things and new experiences. !!!!! And the whole night he let me lead n make decisions which is odd. So plz lol, no I never control man ... why wud I do such thing. He lovedddddddd the idea and was super excited but yes was scared he wudnt b able to perform which is what happened. The Pisces in him backed off


He LOVED the idea but not the actual action. If he really did, he would have gotten hard immediately. Aquas are ran by inquisitive ideas on a daily but it doesn't mean we're quick to jump into it.

You know how many times I would love to go zip lining but haven't actually done it? A ton.

When it comes observation, don't go by what someone says but more of what they do, their actions speak louder than words.

What is zip lining? lol


I swear I thought you and Flo were the same person until this thread. Both aqua ladies with similar pictures.

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lol I'm not Aqua !
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Oh ya let me commit to the slut who is open to letting other men tap
lol . Sure. Whatever u see fits. Just for information I wasn't up for the men fucking me infront of him. I am more into girls. if u can't say something nice just don't bother commenting lol
Just calling it how i see it

So what men. Women. Same sheet

Not girlfriend material

You need to date a guy who is into that crap
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Refer to above. Married couples do it . Couples do it. I'm not that into it. It was an experience. I wasn't even turn on by it.
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I think he said that just to please you.

If I were you, I would just count it as an experience and not bring the topic up again unless he does first.

You both tried it and it wasn't your thing. No shame in that.
seriously? U know I'm starting to wonder if that is the case. He's def a pleaserrrrrr and each time he figures out what I like n don't like and he adjusts to his behaviour everytime to plessss men more .. n I think he didn't get turn on or even hard coz he didn't like me getting turned on by other men.... or women....!!!! like he wanted to b the one that turns me on all the time.... I start to think he doesn't like me watching porn! Hah! God I start to understand this man.. he says one things act another.::: thank you so much n yes I don't think I wud do it again with him.. unless he wants too.. also, my libra friend who's with Aqua man they go to thee places all the time...: so I thought mine was into it.. obviously that's not the casezzz
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Oh ya let me commit to the slut who is open to letting other men tap
lol . Sure. Whatever u see fits. Just for information I wasn't up for the men fucking me infront of him. I am more into girls. if u can't say something nice just don't bother commenting lol
Just calling it how i see it

So what men. Women. Same sheet

Not girlfriend material

You need to date a guy who is into that crap

Refer to above. Married couples do it . Couples do it. I'm not that into it. It was an experience. I wasn't even turn on by it.

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Then why are you bragging about it? I told you before, Aquas don't share. Do you remember the topic about your ex? He did it to please you. I was not expecting him to enjoy it. You tread on eggshells. He will not tell you, but he resents it, deep inside. No wonder he doesn't want to commit to you.
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Oh ya let me commit to the slut who is open to letting other men tap
lol . Sure. Whatever u see fits. Just for information I wasn't up for the men fucking me infront of him. I am more into girls. if u can't say something nice just don't bother commenting lol
Just calling it how i see it

So what men. Women. Same sheet

Not girlfriend material

You need to date a guy who is into that crap

Refer to above. Married couples do it . Couples do it. I'm not that into it. It was an experience. I wasn't even turn on by it.


Then why are you bragging about it? I told you before, Aquas don't share. Do you remember the topic about your ex? He did it to please you. I was not expecting him to enjoy it. You tread on eggshells. He will not tell you, but he resents it, deep inside. No wonder he doesn't want to commit to you.
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If he takes this against me then that's fine. I only went by his words. At the end he promised me that from this experience he will not see me differently. oh well. Whatever lol... commit or not I don't really care anymore...>
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Oh ya let me commit to the slut who is open to letting other men tap
lol . Sure. Whatever u see fits. Just for information I wasn't up for the men fucking me infront of him. I am more into girls. if u can't say something nice just don't bother commenting lol
Just calling it how i see it

So what men. Women. Same sheet

Not girlfriend material

You need to date a guy who is into that crap

Refer to above. Married couples do it . Couples do it. I'm not that into it. It was an experience. I wasn't even turn on by it.


Then why are you bragging about it? I told you before, Aquas don't share. Do you remember the topic about your ex? He did it to please you. I was not expecting him to enjoy it. You tread on eggshells. He will not tell you, but he resents it, deep inside. No wonder he doesn't want to commit to you.
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If he takes this against me then that's fine. I only went by his words. At the end he promised me that from this experience he will not see me differently. oh well. Whatever lol... commit or not I don't really care anymore...>
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Actually I agree with CC to some extent..

After this watch his actions, he may seem chill for a while, but it will build up inside of him and he will show it when you least expect it like a ticking bomb.

If you're the type of girl who does too much and does extra all the time, that's not laid back. You don't go with the flow. You got in the back of his car to sneak on him, you make a several threads just about him, you ask a million questions about your man because you do not take the time to know him, instead you try to control the situation, now your doing all this swinger stuff?

Now is the time to step back, self reflect and ask yourself why he hasn't truly committed to you
Go with the flow! Thats how me and my Aqua ex got in a relationship after 3 mos of just being fwb. Lol

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Did you go with the flow or his flow?
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"he hates always having to fight to take the lead as the man. She's controlling and doesn't even know it."
Can you elaborate on fight to take the lead as a man. I never understood what that means. I'm very independent and don't know what it means to let men lead. Do you have examples off the top of your head so I can try and relate? @Flo

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The battle fire women and masculine females out there.

I stand by my decision to only be involved with mutable men. The true ebb and flow. Not the my way or highway with fixed and cardinal signs.
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"he hates always having to fight to take the lead as the man. She's controlling and doesn't even know it."
Can you elaborate on fight to take the lead as a man. I never understood what that means. I'm very independent and don't know what it means to let men lead. Do you have examples off the top of your head so I can try and relate? @Flo


The battle fire women and masculine females out there.

I stand by my decision to only be involved with mutable men. The true ebb and flow. Not the my way or highway with fixed and cardinal signs.
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I'm very independent and let them be independent as well, somehow we always end up meeting somewhere in the middle.
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Actually I agree with CC to some extent..

After this watch his actions, he may seem chill for a while, but it will build up inside of him and he will show it when you least expect it like a ticking bomb.

If you're the type of girl who does too much and does extra all the time, that's not laid back. You don't go with the flow. You got in the back of his car to sneak on him, you make a several threads just about him, you ask a million questions about your man because you do not take the time to know him, instead you try to control the situation, now your doing all this swinger stuff?

Now is the time to step back, self reflect and ask yourself why he hasn't truly committed to you
Go with the flow! Thats how me and my Aqua ex got in a relationship after 3 mos of just being fwb. Lol


Did you go with the flow or his flow?
I'm a very chill person in general. I went with the flow on everything. No rush in getting in a relationship, no rush in knowing everything about him. More like living in the moment. We had so much fun hanging out we only talked about the now. Until one day, we realized that we just want to be together and not see other people.

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So his flow i gather from this convoluted response.

Technically there is no such thing as going with the flow. Someone is leading, someone is following.

Nothing wrong with following someone else's lead if youre indeed comfortable.

Friction occurs when you aren't comfortable with the dynamics.
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He wouldn't force you on anything anyway. He observes you. If no such plans surface, they don't exist at all.
He's observing her to see if she's gf material or even long term at that but, I think he's starting to notice how much she wants to manage everything.

Aquas are fixed Air but we are still pretty laid back, we like to be in control of our own lives not someone else's. Like I notice my Taurus gf likes to control her whole environment including people in it and she plans out everything in her life.

Saweetz is trying to make him seem completely Pisces but he's not.. he is an aqua man WITH Pisces placements. It doesn't change the fact that he is fixed.
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At first I didn't even wanna go... I really think you have to ditch the idea that I like to control if u meet me in person u will notice how fully laid back I am... and how free I am lol... that night I didn't even allow him to allow me to lead... seriously.. and that was his idea..too.. he fully really wanted to go
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"he hates always having to fight to take the lead as the man. She's controlling and doesn't even know it."
Can you elaborate on fight to take the lead as a man. I never understood what that means. I'm very independent and don't know what it means to let men lead. Do you have examples off the top of your head so I can try and relate? @Flo

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Lol Jesus... you guys seriously don't know me. I love letting him lead and that night it was annoying me that he was asking me to make decisions coz normally he makes decisions and lead me.. I'm the most feminine woman around.
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Actually I agree with CC to some extent..

After this watch his actions, he may seem chill for a while, but it will build up inside of him and he will show it when you least expect it like a ticking bomb.

If you're the type of girl who does too much and does extra all the time, that's not laid back. You don't go with the flow. You got in the back of his car to sneak on him, you make a several threads just about him, you ask a million questions about your man because you do not take the time to know him, instead you try to control the situation, now your doing all this swinger stuff?

Now is the time to step back, self reflect and ask yourself why he hasn't truly committed to you
Thanks. It's all done now that whole sneaking on stuff. And yes doing self reflect.. I still don't think that whole experience is about me wanting contro.. what?!!!
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Actually I agree with CC to some extent..

After this watch his actions, he may seem chill for a while, but it will build up inside of him and he will show it when you least expect it like a ticking bomb.

If you're the type of girl who does too much and does extra all the time, that's not laid back. You don't go with the flow. You got in the back of his car to sneak on him, you make a several threads just about him, you ask a million questions about your man because you do not take the time to know him, instead you try to control the situation, now your doing all this swinger stuff?

Now is the time to step back, self reflect and ask yourself why he hasn't truly committed to you
Go with the flow! Thats how me and my Aqua ex got in a relationship after 3 mos of just being fwb. Lol


I understand the feeling of liking a guy and wanting to do all this crazy stuff with him but.. if his actions don't mix with his words.. stop, sit back, and let the feelings do their thing.

They're experiencing a fixed power struggle, he with her because he loves the intensity but he's not committed to her because he hates always having to fight to take the lead as the man. She's controlling and doesn't even know it.
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mmmmmm this is interesting to some extents.... how do u explain him asking me to hop on his back and do a piggy back ride then lol. That's me totally losing control... I let him drive my car straight away... like that's bloody something... n he was going crazy at it to test me..::: maybe he's not the man for me after all...oh well only time will tell
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@saweetz1988

Actually I agree with CC to some extent..

After this watch his actions, he may seem chill for a while, but it will build up inside of him and he will show it when you least expect it like a ticking bomb.

If you're the type of girl who does too much and does extra all the time, that's not laid back. You don't go with the flow. You got in the back of his car to sneak on him, you make a several threads just about him, you ask a million questions about your man because you do not take the time to know him, instead you try to control the situation, now your doing all this swinger stuff?

Now is the time to step back, self reflect and ask yourself why he hasn't truly committed to you
Go with the flow! Thats how me and my Aqua ex got in a relationship after 3 mos of just being fwb. Lol


Did you go with the flow or his flow?
I'm a very chill person in general. I went with the flow on everything. No rush in getting in a relationship, no rush in knowing everything about him. More like living in the moment. We had so much fun hanging out we only talked about the now. Until one day, we realized that we just want to be together and not see other people.


So his flow i gather from this convoluted response.

Technically there is no such thing as going with the flow. Someone is leading, someone is following.

Nothing wrong with following someone else's lead if youre indeed comfortable.

Friction occurs when you aren't comfortable with the dynamics.

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I love him leading me I even mentioned it on the night of what happened coz he was asking me to make decisions !!! It was wired ass..... there r some things that I will say n point out if I feel like I should but we never fight and all that power struggle bullcrap..
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"he hates always having to fight to take the lead as the man. She's controlling and doesn't even know it."
Can you elaborate on fight to take the lead as a man. I never understood what that means. I'm very independent and don't know what it means to let men lead. Do you have examples off the top of your head so I can try and relate? @Flo


I have an example for you. Driving. My Aqua ex likes to be the driver of the car. He takes the lead on that. I never ever ask to drive. Driving makes him feel like he is in control. I give it to him. But I lead when it comes to deciding where we go. He drives, i take care of the direction. He feels like a man in control of the wheels and i lead in identifying where our adventure is because i choose the location. Balance.

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Exactly that !!!! Straight away I let him drive my car... that's really something to me lol....the lead and follow we have no problem but yes wanting commitment is me wanting control. I do admit that part
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He wouldn't force you on anything anyway. He observes you. If no such plans surface, they don't exist at all.
He's observing her to see if she's gf material or even long term at that but, I think he's starting to notice how much she wants to manage everything.

Aquas are fixed Air but we are still pretty laid back, we like to be in control of our own lives not someone else's. Like I notice my Taurus gf likes to control her whole environment including people in it and she plans out everything in her life.

Saweetz is trying to make him seem completely Pisces but he's not.. he is an aqua man WITH Pisces placements. It doesn't change the fact that he is fixed.
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at least he has mutability. to mould and adapt to his environment.



however, i still find it strange that Robbie Williams who is a Quadruple 4 x Fixed, Sun, moon rising, and Mars. (Aqua sun, leo rising, Scorpio moon and Taurus mars) is with a Double fixed woman (taurus sun/aquarius moon wife) how the hell did that happen—

who is adapting to who?? 😕

i'm still kind of shocked....



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He wouldn't force you on anything anyway. He observes you. If no such plans surface, they don't exist at all.
He's observing her to see if she's gf material or even long term at that but, I think he's starting to notice how much she wants to manage everything.

Aquas are fixed Air but we are still pretty laid back, we like to be in control of our own lives not someone else's. Like I notice my Taurus gf likes to control her whole environment including people in it and she plans out everything in her life.

Saweetz is trying to make him seem completely Pisces but he's not.. he is an aqua man WITH Pisces placements. It doesn't change the fact that he is fixed.


at least he has mutability. to mould and adapt to his environment.



however, i still find it strange that Robbie Williams who is a Quadruple 4 x Fixed, Sun, moon rising, and Mars. (Aqua sun, leo rising, Scorpio moon and Taurus mars) is with a Double fixed woman (taurus sun/aquarius moon wife) how the hell did that happen—

who is adapting to who?? 😕

i'm still kind of shocked....



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Pretty full on .. lol I wouldn't date the man hahahahah
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He wouldn't force you on anything anyway. He observes you. If no such plans surface, they don't exist at all.
He's observing her to see if she's gf material or even long term at that but, I think he's starting to notice how much she wants to manage everything.

Aquas are fixed Air but we are still pretty laid back, we like to be in control of our own lives not someone else's. Like I notice my Taurus gf likes to control her whole environment including people in it and she plans out everything in her life.

Saweetz is trying to make him seem completely Pisces but he's not.. he is an aqua man WITH Pisces placements. It doesn't change the fact that he is fixed.


at least he has mutability. to mould and adapt to his environment.



however, i still find it strange that Robbie Williams who is a Quadruple 4 x Fixed, Sun, moon rising, and Mars. (Aqua sun, leo rising, Scorpio moon and Taurus mars) is with a Double fixed woman (taurus sun/aquarius moon wife) how the hell did that happen—

who is adapting to who?? 😕

i'm still kind of shocked....




Pretty full on .. lol I wouldn't date the man hahahahah
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i wouldnt either...'i would be too scared...she's one BRAVE woman.

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He wouldn't force you on anything anyway. He observes you. If no such plans surface, they don't exist at all.
He's observing her to see if she's gf material or even long term at that but, I think he's starting to notice how much she wants to manage everything.

Aquas are fixed Air but we are still pretty laid back, we like to be in control of our own lives not someone else's. Like I notice my Taurus gf likes to control her whole environment including people in it and she plans out everything in her life.

Saweetz is trying to make him seem completely Pisces but he's not.. he is an aqua man WITH Pisces placements. It doesn't change the fact that he is fixed.


at least he has mutability. to mould and adapt to his environment.



however, i still find it strange that Robbie Williams who is a Quadruple 4 x Fixed, Sun, moon rising, and Mars. (Aqua sun, leo rising, Scorpio moon and Taurus mars) is with a Double fixed woman (taurus sun/aquarius moon wife) how the hell did that happen—

who is adapting to who?? 😕

i'm still kind of shocked....




Pretty full on .. lol I wouldn't date the man hahahahah


i wouldnt either...'i would be too scared...she's one BRAVE woman.

😆



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i can imagine our house breaking down...

i'm dealing with taurus sun and leo moon and he can be very.....fixed too....

but it kind of work a little coz atlas fixed and fixed understand each other a little bit more...

but the fights wudb pretty intense
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Actually I agree with CC to some extent..

After this watch his actions, he may seem chill for a while, but it will build up inside of him and he will show it when you least expect it like a ticking bomb.

If you're the type of girl who does too much and does extra all the time, that's not laid back. You don't go with the flow. You got in the back of his car to sneak on him, you make a several threads just about him, you ask a million questions about your man because you do not take the time to know him, instead you try to control the situation, now your doing all this swinger stuff?

Now is the time to step back, self reflect and ask yourself why he hasn't truly committed to you
Thanks. It's all done now that whole sneaking on stuff. And yes doing self reflect.. I still don't think that whole experience is about me wanting contro.. what?!!!
No, you're not laid back, give it some time and you will soon create another post wondering about your aqua man.
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haha...yes most likely..

surely you r not laid back with ur venus in scorpio placement?

by the way he's not my man....i am going to date other people now coz he says he's not going to stop flirting around so....

this is where we r at.. lol