What does it really take for an Aqua to settle ?

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Really... I've been thinking this over and over. I know my standards and they could be pretty high because other wise I'd rather be alone and keep waiting. (You meet so many people in the process).

When someone catches our eyes, we still don't want to give in completely, we can trust the person as for loyalty but if we find that they cheated, we just leave them and get over it.

Can you relate to this?

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Posted by Aerazo
Really... I've been thinking this over and over. I know my standards and they could be pretty high because other wise I'd rather be alone and keep waiting. (You meet so many people in the process).

When someone catches our eyes, we still don't want to give in completely, we can trust the person as for loyalty but if we find that they cheated, we just leave them and get over it.

Can you relate to this?


Do you mean settle and stay with someone that cheated?
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Really... I've been thinking this over and over. I know my standards and they could be pretty high because other wise I'd rather be alone and keep waiting. (You meet so many people in the process).

When someone catches our eyes, we still don't want to give in completely, we can trust the person as for loyalty but if we find that they cheated, we just leave them and get over it.

Can you relate to this?


Do you mean settle and stay with someone that cheated?
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No, I mean settle with someone who truly makes us feel whole. (I've felt this way with very few people)

I don't think I will stay with someone that cheats.
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Really... I've been thinking this over and over. I know my standards and they could be pretty high because other wise I'd rather be alone and keep waiting. (You meet so many people in the process).

When someone catches our eyes, we still don't want to give in completely, we can trust the person as for loyalty but if we find that they cheated, we just leave them and get over it.

Can you relate to this?


Do you mean settle and stay with someone that cheated?
No, I mean settle with someone who truly makes us feel whole. (I've felt this way with very few people)

I don't think I will stay with someone that cheats.
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Ohh okay, I got confussed when you mentioned the cheating, hence why I asked 🙂

It's hard for me to really connect with others. Only person that I was truly ready to settle down with and I opened my heart to completely - cheated.

If it happens again, the connection that is.. I hope I'm not blind to it and am ready to open myself for it. I feel as if I am, but won't know until it happens.
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Really... I've been thinking this over and over. I know my standards and they could be pretty high because other wise I'd rather be alone and keep waiting. (You meet so many people in the process).

When someone catches our eyes, we still don't want to give in completely, we can trust the person as for loyalty but if we find that they cheated, we just leave them and get over it.

Can you relate to this?


Do you mean settle and stay with someone that cheated?
No, I mean settle with someone who truly makes us feel whole. (I've felt this way with very few people)

I don't think I will stay with someone that cheats.
Ohh okay, I got confussed when you mentioned the cheating, hence why I asked 🙂

It's hard for me to really connect with others. Only person that I was truly ready to settle down with and I opened my heart to completely - cheated.

If it happens again, the connection that is.. I hope I'm not blind to it and am ready to open myself for it. I feel as if I am, but won't know until it happens.
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That's the biggest problem to trust people.

After I got separated I trusted a Libra guy, and when we broke it off, a week later he was seeing someone which I think he had already been seeing. ugh. I broke it off because he was being too jealous and clingy. Double Standards.

Yes is hard to open to someone again if you find that connection. I have so far found 1, and 1 who tries hard to understand me. I'm sure there is someone out there. Whats the sign you have the most compatibility with?
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If you get prego by someone you love then you will settle. for example, don john's case (hig wife is Aqua I believe). also, an aqua friend of mine accidentally got prego by a Virgo guy after they met for a month. They got married after she gave birth. happily married for 2 years now.
Been there, done that. 2 kids and After 12 years we ended the relationship. He still loved me or so he thought but he wanted to keep me away from the world.
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Really... I've been thinking this over and over. I know my standards and they could be pretty high because other wise I'd rather be alone and keep waiting. (You meet so many people in the process).

When someone catches our eyes, we still don't want to give in completely, we can trust the person as for loyalty but if we find that they cheated, we just leave them and get over it.

Can you relate to this?


Do you mean settle and stay with someone that cheated?
No, I mean settle with someone who truly makes us feel whole. (I've felt this way with very few people)

I don't think I will stay with someone that cheats.
Ohh okay, I got confussed when you mentioned the cheating, hence why I asked 🙂

It's hard for me to really connect with others. Only person that I was truly ready to settle down with and I opened my heart to completely - cheated.

If it happens again, the connection that is.. I hope I'm not blind to it and am ready to open myself for it. I feel as if I am, but won't know until it happens.
That's the biggest problem to trust people.

After I got separated I trusted a Libra guy, and when we broke it off, a week later he was seeing someone which I think he had already been seeing. ugh. I broke it off because he was being too jealous and clingy. Double Standards.

Yes is hard to open to someone again if you find that connection. I have so far found 1, and 1 who tries hard to understand me. I'm sure there is someone out there. Whats the sign you have the most compatibility with?
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It has been an issue. I don't trust easily and that made it worse.

I feel the most compatible with cancers, from my dating experience. I'm crazy drawn to them. They get me and bring out the softer side, which I love (and hate lol). My first serious bf was a gem Sun but something was missing hence why that ended. Last year I noticed a pattern when I got curious about why I was attracted to certain guys, so I ran the charts of my more serious relationships. They all had gem and Taurus placements in personal planets.

But ultimately if I like someone, I try to get to know them before even looking at charts. I feel that can hinder in ways, since being into astrology, I know a bit and it can lead to thinking I know stuff about others when I don't.
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Posted by AdmiralCrabbyPatterson
It's easy. Make sure they know you'll leave the name of the relationship between you two up to them. You shouldn''t judge them otherwise. That freedom and trust is the best thing to them. Just like a good friendship. I'm not saying to let them take advantage of you but you can only know you can trust someone by trusting them. They're queer. Original meaning. Not the euphemism.
I'm gonna put this as a disclaimer for the guys who want to date me lol if i like them enough lol
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Really... I've been thinking this over and over. I know my standards and they could be pretty high because other wise I'd rather be alone and keep waiting. (You meet so many people in the process).

When someone catches our eyes, we still don't want to give in completely, we can trust the person as for loyalty but if we find that they cheated, we just leave them and get over it.

Can you relate to this?


Do you mean settle and stay with someone that cheated?
No, I mean settle with someone who truly makes us feel whole. (I've felt this way with very few people)

I don't think I will stay with someone that cheats.
Ohh okay, I got confussed when you mentioned the cheating, hence why I asked 🙂

It's hard for me to really connect with others. Only person that I was truly ready to settle down with and I opened my heart to completely - cheated.

If it happens again, the connection that is.. I hope I'm not blind to it and am ready to open myself for it. I feel as if I am, but won't know until it happens.
That's the biggest problem to trust people.

After I got separated I trusted a Libra guy, and when we broke it off, a week later he was seeing someone which I think he had already been seeing. ugh. I broke it off because he was being too jealous and clingy. Double Standards.

Yes is hard to open to someone again if you find that connection. I have so far found 1, and 1 who tries hard to understand me. I'm sure there is someone out there. Whats the sign you have the most compatibility with?
It has been an issue. I don't trust easily and that made it worse.

I feel the most compatible with cancers, from my dating experience. I'm crazy drawn to them. They get me and bring out the softer side, which I love (and hate lol). My first serious bf was a gem Sun but something was missing hence why that ended. Last year I noticed a pattern when I got curious about why I was attracted to certain guys, so I ran the charts of my more serious relationships. They all had gem and Taurus placements in personal planets.

But ultimately if I like someone, I try to get to know them before even looking at charts. I feel that can hinder in ways, since being into astrology, I know a bit and it can lead to thinking I know stuff about others when I don't.
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I was very attracted to a Cancer guy a while ago but we were strictly Fwb. and I knew him well, he was very sweet but we had a weird age difference so it was just a platonic thing.

Yes I know what you mean, now I'm more into astrology than I did before and it was because I've basically been surrounded by caps and I'm so into them lol that I had to know why.

Yes I also realized why the other signs and I aren't very compatible same with my ex Libra.

Yes is hard to not use astrology when you meet someone. This cap I'm seeing told me the first night we met he said "You must be an aquarious" it ended up being that he has dated 2 aquas before lol. He's my 3rd cap and I have another one close to me.
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Really... I've been thinking this over and over. I know my standards and they could be pretty high because other wise I'd rather be alone and keep waiting. (You meet so many people in the process).

When someone catches our eyes, we still don't want to give in completely, we can trust the person as for loyalty but if we find that they cheated, we just leave them and get over it.

Can you relate to this?


Do you mean settle and stay with someone that cheated?
No, I mean settle with someone who truly makes us feel whole. (I've felt this way with very few people)

I don't think I will stay with someone that cheats.
Ohh okay, I got confussed when you mentioned the cheating, hence why I asked 🙂

It's hard for me to really connect with others. Only person that I was truly ready to settle down with and I opened my heart to completely - cheated.

If it happens again, the connection that is.. I hope I'm not blind to it and am ready to open myself for it. I feel as if I am, but won't know until it happens.
That's the biggest problem to trust people.

After I got separated I trusted a Libra guy, and when we broke it off, a week later he was seeing someone which I think he had already been seeing. ugh. I broke it off because he was being too jealous and clingy. Double Standards.

Yes is hard to open to someone again if you find that connection. I have so far found 1, and 1 who tries hard to understand me. I'm sure there is someone out there. Whats the sign you have the most compatibility with?
It has been an issue. I don't trust easily and that made it worse.

I feel the most compatible with cancers, from my dating experience. I'm crazy drawn to them. They get me and bring out the softer side, which I love (and hate lol). My first serious bf was a gem Sun but something was missing hence why that ended. Last year I noticed a pattern when I got curious about why I was attracted to certain guys, so I ran the charts of my more serious relationships. They all had gem and Taurus placements in personal planets.

But ultimately if I like someone, I try to get to know them before even looking at charts. I feel that can hinder in ways, since being into astrology, I know a bit and it can lead to thinking I know stuff about others when I don't.
I was very attracted to a Cancer guy a while ago but we were strictly Fwb. and I knew him well, he was very sweet but we had a weird age difference so it was just a platonic thing.

Yes I know what you mean, now I'm more into astrology than I did before and it was because I've basically been surrounded by caps and I'm so into them lol that I had to know why.

Yes I also realized why the other signs and I aren't very compatible same with my ex Libra.

Yes is hard to not use astrology when you meet someone. This cap I'm seeing told me the first night we met he said "You must be an aquarious" it ended up being that he has dated 2 aquas before lol. He's my 3rd cap and I have another one close to me.
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eh we like what we like. it's obvious astrology plays a role in some way.
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I can't say for sure because I just let go and go with the flow. But I noticed a pattern in how I tend to be attracted to certain individuals.

If we have a mental connection that easily transitions into a friendship, I begin to ask questions. If I like what I hear and see then I take it a step further; It's my filtering process. Eventually that mental connection becomes more and I begin to feel attraction. Once I begin to feel attraction I fantasize scenarios and if it ruffles my waters then my attraction grows into (possibly) something more.

If it does get to this point, before I completely fall in love and there is no turning back, I try and look for faults, red flags, or see if it's potential for long term. It's not difficult for me to settle down, I actually think it's quite easy to pin me down if I feel an attraction towards you. The problem lies with men who I'm not attracted to at all. But to get me to commit as in lifetime of blissfulness, then that can take time. I don't wish to make the same mistakes that I did with my previous relationships.
We go through the same filtering process and you do this before even start dating.

It takes me over 6 months to know and that's not even seeing the person that much because I know some people leave their other friends and things to invest into someone, Id rather still have time for my other things.
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Posted by AquariusJan25
Trust..

Also someone brought up red flags..That is major, especially that filter process. If I start noticing things and I see it being detrimental to a relationship I'll just stop trying and be on my way.

I hate cheaters also..

but yea, once you get us and we see nothing but positivity that will go into the long run, you will not regret it.
Agree!!!

Trust and Loyalty. 🙂

Because we can provide those to the right person and we expect the same in return.
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Really... I've been thinking this over and over. I know my standards and they could be pretty high because other wise I'd rather be alone and keep waiting. (You meet so many people in the process).

When someone catches our eyes, we still don't want to give in completely, we can trust the person as for loyalty but if we find that they cheated, we just leave them and get over it.

Can you relate to this?


Do you mean settle and stay with someone that cheated?
No, I mean settle with someone who truly makes us feel whole. (I've felt this way with very few people)

I don't think I will stay with someone that cheats.
Ohh okay, I got confussed when you mentioned the cheating, hence why I asked 🙂

It's hard for me to really connect with others. Only person that I was truly ready to settle down with and I opened my heart to completely - cheated.

If it happens again, the connection that is.. I hope I'm not blind to it and am ready to open myself for it. I feel as if I am, but won't know until it happens.
That's the biggest problem to trust people.

After I got separated I trusted a Libra guy, and when we broke it off, a week later he was seeing someone which I think he had already been seeing. ugh. I broke it off because he was being too jealous and clingy. Double Standards.

Yes is hard to open to someone again if you find that connection. I have so far found 1, and 1 who tries hard to understand me. I'm sure there is someone out there. Whats the sign you have the most compatibility with?
...WAIT!

WHAT THE FUCKERY FUCK DID I JUST FUCKING READ ?!

Y'all Aquarius are fucking garbage piece of shit seriously. True alien weirdos.

Lets analyse this shit..

First of all:

you talk about trust..

This Libra man loves you and starts being comfortable around you = jealous and clingy for you.

So he trusts you. But YOU broke it off..

( you brake someone's trust... )

He gets mad let me guess and decides to move on...

Then you THINK he started talking with his new girl while he was with you. You just think that...

Just FUCKING THINK.

Then you fucking go on the Internet on a website called dxpnet and talk about DOUBLE STANDARDS!

Tabarnak de Callis

LOL. The irony!!!

You are fucking stupid.

God fucking damn. Delusional..

You need a reality check.

Aquarius women are fucking FUCC BOIS / girls. Oh my God. .. ....

Majority are like this actually, I hope not all...






...WAIT!

WHAT THE FUCKERY FUCK DID I JUST FUCKING READ ?!

Y'all Aquarius are fucking garbage piece of shit seriously. True alien weirdos.

Lets analyse this shit..

First of all:

you talk about trust..

This Libra man loves you and starts being comfortable around you = jealous and clingy for you.

-SERIOUSLY, WHO LOVES SOMEONE IN 3 MONTHS?? WE SPENT 2 MONTHS TOGETHER THEN HE MOVED.

So he trusts you. But YOU broke it off..

( you brake someone's trust... )

He gets mad let me guess and decides to move on...

Then you THINK he started talking with his new girl while he was with you. You just think that...

Just FUCKING THINK.

(You are just assuming based on what I said. but it was and LDR, he wanted me to move there (14hrs away) and he wouldn't move here. He would call me ALL DAY. VIDEO CHAT, PHONE CALL, MESSAGE. if I didn't answer (work or anything related to my kids) he would text me and ask why I wasn't answering. and he would keep calling. It was like that EVERY FUCKING DAY. IS THAT TRUST?

literally a week after we ended things bc I honestly got tired of his shit. this girl posts pictures with him on social media saying that she has been having great moments together and that he is the best that has happened to her. that she's hoping it lasts forever. < How does that happen in a week?



Then you fucking go on the Internet on a website called dxpnet and talk about DOUBLE STANDARDS!

Yes again. because he was being clingy with me and talking to this other girl since a bit over a month, I realized it because when I saw her Facebook acct on Facebook I noticed she had posted comments before (which were deleted by him)

blah blah blah I just laughed at the situation, but him off and moved on with my life.



Tabarnak de Callis

LOL. The irony!!!

You are fucking stupid.

God fucking damn. Delusional..

You need a reality check.

-YOU NEED TO ASK QUESTIONS BEFORE YOU TALK, THAT'S WHAT MAKES PEOPLE STUPID... JUDGING WITHOUT KNOWING. AND JUDGING IN GENERAL



Aquarius women are fucking FUCC BOIS / girls. Oh my God. .. ....

-DON'T BE SO DRAMATIC

Majority are like this actually, I hope not all...

(True, with people who don't deserve it, if you show that you DESERVE IT then we take a 360° turn)

I answered so you can see how stupid you look now ?

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Posted by aquarius_beauty
I can't say for sure because I just let go and go with the flow. But I noticed a pattern in how I tend to be attracted to certain individuals.

If we have a mental connection that easily transitions into a friendship, I begin to ask questions. If I like what I hear and see then I take it a step further; It's my filtering process. Eventually that mental connection becomes more and I begin to feel attraction. Once I begin to feel attraction I fantasize scenarios and if it ruffles my waters then my attraction grows into (possibly) something more.

If it does get to this point, before I completely fall in love and there is no turning back, I try and look for faults, red flags, or see if it's potential for long term. It's not difficult for me to settle down, I actually think it's quite easy to pin me down if I feel an attraction towards you. The problem lies with men who I'm not attracted to at all. But to get me to commit as in lifetime of blissfulness, then that can take time. I don't wish to make the same mistakes that I did with my previous relationships.


You Just Described Aqua Venus, As Well.
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My houses say that i fall inlove easily guess its wrong coz i dont,im only attracted to one person at a time and it takes a responsible kind of person for me to even look at you that way yes responsible and stable but can be fun and can also talk with me about almost everything,if your shy at first im the one who is going to initiate a conversation i can get to a lot of topic until i got what interest you,then im going to go look for red flags,i get turned off quite fast to be honest so the first stage is important.