Aries man; Scorpio woman

My experience so far (over the course of a few months)...

He is absolutely the most masculine man I've ever been with, totally unafraid of anything or anyone, very chivalrous, almost to the extreme (old-fashioned, almost)...extremely talented at anything he likes doing, incredibly sexual (not even a scorpio I was with could match my drive or truly satisfy me like my aries!) - in fact I would say the sex is a kind of sex I've always wanted and never thought possible...it's unbelievable....anyway, he's very intelligent, always keeps things interesting, and many other wonderful things. The only slight trouble we've come across would be jealousy (his and mine, but mainly mine)...we've only had one big fight since we began dating, and we always work things out super fast, so that's good. But it's definitely hard, each one preferring to control the other (lol) and whatnot. It takes a lot of maturity from each of us to keep a handle on that. I have noticed that also he'll say or do things "in the heat of the moment" (and I don't just mean sexually, sometimes if we're drunk, or after sex, or what have you) that he later analyzes and feels the need to modify, which slightly annoys me...Im like, just say what you mean and leave it the way you said it, I liked it the first time. lol. He has recently hinted that he thinks I'm "the one", and then always follows it up with, "so I'm ready. But I'm also scared". Interesting...it's the one area of life he will actually admit being scared about.

I wonder what that really means...he did once tell me that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. He hasn't said it since, but, can those words be trusted, do you think?

Does anyone have any insight into this astrological pairing? It's wonderful, in so many ways, but so on fire it could easily combust, I definitely am aware of that. But, god, is it firey!!!

Hi Phoenix!

Well....looks like you and Mr. Aries finally made it together! 🙂 Awesome! (I sorta knew ya would 😉)

As you know, I am an Aries woman and I suppose my thinking is a bit different. If you desire for anything...you can make it work. Yes, if an Aries man says you are "the one" he means it. We do NOT say words unless we mean them and I think deep in your heart, you know that to be true. However, if you are doubting him...hmmm....perhaps there is a reason for it?

Control issues - I think this is common between the two signs ....nothing that cannot be worked out by communicating. You guys are a "work in progress" enjoy the journey - grow, learn, laugh, grow some more, change, be, do it ALL 😉 If both people in the relationship are willing to grow and work together, and make it FUN - then how much more exciting can ya get? I give this relationship a 10 out of a 10 (I'm in a passionate mood!)

Try not to compare your relationship with others....no two are the same - you are "unique"

I was just thinking....I have a girlfriend who is a Scorp..yeah, I know it is in her nature to want to be in control...she has learned to compromise with me - now with her husband? (Libra)let's just say, she rules that roost!

My parents are Aries and Scorp, male and female respectively. They have these tales of a great start but in later years are quite incompatible. My father is a genius. He went to college at 14. Like all Aries had an ability to rise in roles, but lacked a certain quality to achieve goals requiring more than hard work. I think the failure to live up to their own legend and mutual stubborn qualities led to further stress. My parents did create good minded/intelligent children w/good values (sometimes "by reverse example"). They stayed together for us and because in the end they only had each other. Advice. If you want it to work you'll have to communicate. Learn to shrug and say that's okay when things are much less than perfect. Always play on the same team. Strive for mutual benefit and betterment. Lastly, accept one another. Personal experience says give yourselves time to go through the bad stuff now and learn the lessons. You won't repeat your mistakes and it won't be a stain on 'the deeper relationship.'

I am a Scorpio female with Aries male..have been talking for 4 months, dating for a month...Its brilliant so far..he's everything I want in a man and he gives that kind of feeling where you glow from the inside..that warm fuzzy feeling. Its been a while since anyone made me feel that way..(I am cringing as i write this cos its soooo not like me) but I know he's defo the one for me..and he's said those words too "I could see myself spending the rest of my life with you"..etc etc...I don't think he would say that unless he meant it..come to think of it, he doesn't say anything he doesn't mean..waaaaay too blunt, direct, straightforward for that..what you see is DEFO what you get.

He has 0 tolerance levels for stupidity (same as me), quick to lose his temper (same as me), quick to forgive (similar..I tend to hold grudges for a a minute longer)...if I feel anything he says is wrong, I would tell him and we discuss the issue and its pretty much dealt with...if he gets annoyed at something, I just laugh it off, lifes too short to take it seriously...He loves my chilled out, laid back attitude towards things..Has never really given me a reason to be jealous, I trust him (which is very rare for me so early on)..so its looking pretty damn good..

Roxi knows another Scorp/Aries couple that have been together for a long time and she herself was with an Aries for 20 years..

So all I can say to the astrologers if BIG FU!
If you are both mature, thick-skinned, ambitious, fun, communicative, its the next big thing to heaven..

is*

It's always good to have a bit of humour on the Aries board - thanks for stopping by Branh😉

You Virgo's just have this off the wall sense of humour that is so darn attractive!

thumbs up to you "B" 🙂

Update.

We are over. He has totally destroyed me and broken my heart. If I recover someday I will post more about it.

😢 It's awful.

Update.

We are over. He has totally destroyed me and broken my heart. If I recover someday I will post more about it.

😢 It's awful.

Oh dear..Sorry to hear that

Thanks you guys.

Yeah it's been the week from hell...honestly I am too upset and heartbroken and furious and crazy right now to even post about it, it's just going to put me in a darker place than I already am and the less thought I give to him right now the better. But I will absolutely post about this soon, because it's the most shocking, painful end I've ever experienced...and he didn't even cheat on me, he just decided...he didn't really love me.

😢

You will emerge from it stronger...you win some you lose him....just don't lose your self worth over it..nobody is worth that...

Thank you! I will, I will, I will emerge stronger...another inspiring mantra I will rely on every day to make it through this.

Now now...hun..I hate those mantras as well..but you just do get over it..well I do anyway..not sure about anyone else..most scorpios I know weep for years, I just don't understand that..why waste so much energy over someone..

my one (aries) has gone to join the US military..we'd only been together 4 months..was in a perfect career as well..lawyer..how do you think i feel?...but have to keep going...I miss him like crazy but the selfish bastard has to do that, so be it..can't do anything about it..

so if i act like a selfish bastard.........women will miss me?? 🙂

it will be fine phoenix....do u have any idea how many people there are in the world....hes just one jackass out of the millions of them out there....

maybe thats not so comforting .....sorry 😢

LOL!...No being selfish is not nice...but I am a fine one to talk..I just look at it like this...If I really wanted to do something and someone tried to stop me..I would resent them....so i try not doing the same..I resent him for starving me of affection and the phycial closeness...so I guess I am being selfish too...lol..oh well I am sure he'll be back..

Sorry to hear about your heart being broken, PR ..

Aw. 🙂 Thanks, really, all of you. Yeah, still can't really talk about it much without getting all weepy, and that doesn't help me with the "moving on" thing...in about a week, I'll be able to write about it.

cj no worries, I know you meant to be comforting.

Oh and MM...

I totally didn't mean to come off as sarcastic with the mantra thing...in case I did...I actually meant the opposite, I really am using mantras every day. lol. In case there was any confusion.

Its ok...I tend to be the same when someone points out the obvious to me..LOL..

I am still waiting for my first heartfelt letter to arrive from my Aries...aww..bless him..hope he's all safe out there..My great big bear..

Good luck to u..

I am terrible at communication...I am coming to realise I can't actually express my emotions to the man..not the way other women can..openly declaring their undying love..I just wish they knew how much I loved them..

Sobs

Devil...oh dear..I am sorry to hear that

LOL....Aries shud lead an out-of-body existence throughout. That way nobody would complain and life will eventually come to end without even a second wasted. And how would that be made possible ? Well, I guess a non human specific "cause" would be just about fine.

LOL..Bless

She's an interesting breed our Rox 😉

😛

Oh indeed babe...

LOL!..oooh goody...more and more aries man scorpio chick pairings!..

Don't get too carried away with it....hang tough, go with caution...but totally fuckin enjoy it!...

Rock on

Its defo a primitive thing...thoe godamn urges...

I was just thinking today, planning my trip to the airport to go pick him up..he'll be lucky if he makes it to the car in one piece...cos me gonna ravish him!!!

Rrrraaarrrr

Hey MM...just an idea - most likely you won't need one...anywho - pack a picnic basket filled with wine, cheese, crackers and "other things" to take with you to the airport. When you get him in the car....have a picnic - enjoying your time to get reaquainted as you know.....the traffic does need to die down some. And then,.............do it in the car! *Oh yeah....maybe wear only a trench coat with heels.

Us Aries.....LOVE SURPRISES - the more unique, the better! 😉

boy would i like to be a bug on your windshield - hehe

My goodness Roxi! that man was thinking of football over sex especially with a beautiful woman in nothing but a trenchcoat in his midst?

Too bad you didn't have a football in the car with you....he sure could have been playing football in 10 min. (you would have thrown him your bestest spiral Rox!) 😉

*use your imagination as to where it would have landed 🙂

Cool pic btw Roxi!

LOL!

I'm sure it was fun back then Rox - the good thing with time and age is wisdom - and thank goodness for that! 😉

PRICELESS.

LOL @ everyone..

Liking your idea Freebird about the picnic and yes have thought about the trench coat thing often...all these mad ideas I am planning..Fortunately for me, there are some lovely stopovers on the way to my house..hehe...Arrrrrrrrrrrrrrgh!...let me not think about it otherwise theres a danger I might just rape the next man that goes past!...

Yes yes..going through the horns right now!..lol..

::sobs::

I will begin the countdown in October. So watch this space...

Hey,
I found this site by accident and happen to come across this post. I am currently in a relationship with an Ares male. Being a scorpio myself, i know what its like to be with one. Him and I were on and off for a while and now were together for almost a month. Prior to the relationship I dated another scorpio. He had the exact birthday as me, only was a few years older. Anyway, The ares i am with is an amazing lover, and surpising as it may seem we have only had 2 maijor arguements... Im so sorry you lost you lover, but as you know, the scorpio is represented by a phoenix, rising from the ashes. If anyone can pick themselves up, its a scorpio.

My chart:
Sun - Scorpio
Moon - Cancer (in house 8 which is Scorpio house)
Mercury - Scorpio
Venus - Sagitarius
Mars - Scorpio
Rising - scorpio

Him

Sun - Aries
Moon - Capricorn
Mercury - Pisces
Venus - Pisces
Mars - Cancer
Rising - Aries

lol thanks Gfox..yes i've had one of those composite chart thingies done...its a very good match...lots of positives..he's just very sensitive..and at times you can feel on edge not to say something that hurts his feelings..that kinda freaks me out because most of the time I sound sarcastic and condescending...I actually don't mean to come across that way..just do..oh the burden of knowing too much

::sigh::

😛

Now now roxi...lets be nice about this...

lol

Yeh....us Aries do have "feelings" 😉 imagine that! lol

Most people perceive us as very strong individuals and "think" that we do not have feelings or rather do not show the feelings that we do have - we are human ya know - lol. The truth is, we show our feelings to those we trust and who mean a lot to us and who we mean a lot to as well.

Honestly, I feel that most people feel this way.

I know with me personally, that not a lot really bothers me - so others may take this as me not expressing my feelings. What is there to get upset about? I'd rather be happy and express those Freebirdy happy feelings 🙂

lol..yeah when one is pretty unshockable it can come across as cold and aloof...I am guilty of that..

Freebirrrrrrrd!..

You say that as though having no feelings is more beneficial? Is that the case?

MissMorals!!!!!!!! How ya doin' over yonder there gurl? Not too long before you meet up with a one HOT, INCREDIBLE, SEXY Arian huh?

Gonna be good...😉

"You say that as though having no feelings is more beneficial? Is that the case?"

I was wondering the same thing myself - didn't quite get what he meant.

Clarification required - please 🙂

Maybe...he is implying that us Aries have feelings, we deal with them in the moment and then we are off onto the next moment where as we don't "hold" onto those feelings for a long time - we simply "let go" and this IS a GOOD thing especially healthwise.

Just my guess...

"or just completely forget."

LOL...nah, we don't forget - we just let go and move on. In remembering...this is what helps us to "let go" and move onward and upward.

Time to blaze another trail - go where no man has gone before!

Next!

Or not let go in Roxi's case..lol..
If something is a dead deal then moving on without any feelings is a great thing..but yes I am in agreement we scorps don't also forget..

Hey there you roaming freebirrrrd..lol (Nelly Furtado came to mind..dunno why)
I am diddling just fine over ze other side of ze pond..lol..Yes anticipating the arrival of Monsieur Aries!..not long to go now..

Thanks Gfox....

😉

I LIKE THE ARIES MAN, I THINK THEY ARE REAL DRIVEN, AND SOMETIMES IT HARD BECAUSE IT SEEMS LIKE THEY FOCUS ON THEMSELVES A BIT MUCH BUT AT THE SAME TIME IF THEY INCLUDE YOU IN THEIR LIFE THEN THEY HAVE GOOD INTENTIONS TO BE WITH YOU.
IM JUST ADD AT A STANDSTILL BECAUSE I JUST GOT OUT OF A RELATIONSHIP THAT HAD MANY TRUST AND SELF ESTEEM NEGATIVE ISSUES. I THINK THIS MAN IS A FAITHFUL KEEPER I JUST GOT TO LET GO OF MY PAST AND SEE IF I CAN TRUST AGAIN FULLY.

I'm with an Aries man as a Scorp girl myself, its amazing...The chemistry is great, he's soooo giving and generous, and straightforward that I am ashamed at how skeptical and untrusting I can be🙂

The only "problem" is that he is sooo easily provoked--not with me, but in the outer world out there with interactions with others. His temper/anger worries me a bit sometimes. He really is a warrior, out there to teach the jerks their lesson! Whereas I'm more passive and easy-going. That's our main difference as well, but so far its been complementary.

He's a great man and I love feeling like a woman (I'm ruled by Mars too and have felt like the man way too many times), and he's sooo masculine!

Hello ladies. I'm Hot. I'm an Aries and new here. My homeboy pointed me here. He calls this site the magic book because it has all the answers.
A co-worker has my interest. She's a Scorpio. She keeps teasing me. Can someone give me guidance on approaching her?