lomysin
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Aries Men/Women Keeping Ex's Around
*sigh*
I'm so sorry to hear about your pain. You already know that Aries men always need some challenge and excitment, but in your case it seems as he wanted to spend all this time with you.
What are his other placements? Moon, Venus and Mars?
From my experience with them, they are players but only in the first stages of a relationship, till they realize they are truly in love and you are the one for them.
I'm sure he'll want to resume the relationship if it won't work out with his ex. She is an ex for a reason after all. But you will need to dissapear from his life and make him work hard for you. But do you need this? Unfortunatly you have to move on...
What are his other placements? Moon, Venus and Mars?
From my experience with them, they are players but only in the first stages of a relationship, till they realize they are truly in love and you are the one for them.
I'm sure he'll want to resume the relationship if it won't work out with his ex. She is an ex for a reason after all. But you will need to dissapear from his life and make him work hard for you. But do you need this? Unfortunatly you have to move on...
stay friends if u can handle it. Yes he will use u again but only if u allow it... I'm still friends with some of my exes, never saw a harm in that as long as they don't interfere with current relationships-they never do
Yeah, guilty. But in my defense, I'm plainly blunt and let a person know if there'd any chance at sex or relationship. I don't force them to stay around if I say no to their needs.
I think it is karma for what you have done to that taurus dude. Go Aries!
nd everyone...Posted by lomysin
I mistakenly entered a six month relationship with a taurus because well....they are just so sweet, reliable and caring. He had great family values, I really saw a long term with him. Sex was incredible. Only issue was he is too in love with me. He would let me walk all over him, manipulate him...horrible. I'm the type of person where if you give me an inch, I take a mile. Maybe thats a scorp thing?
Anyways, i got bored and tried to end it multiple times, I told him i'm seeing a cap man who I have intense feelings for. Told him i'm sleeping with other men. Told him I dont think I see a future with us anymore. I spoke harshly and bluntly about how I can't be with someone as immature as himself (hes the youngest guy ive ever dated). Told him that hes even a bit boring. BUT STILL. He tries to call me every night, sends me flowers. He just wont let me go.
WHAT DO I DO? ITS BEEN TWO MONTHS OF TRYING TO END THINGS.
If I ignore him, he will show up at my front door. Or message my friends on facebook asking what to do.Posted by lomysin
I'm a Scorp female, here are my favorite pairings.
1. Aries: the most intense relationship i've ever had. Short, but I will always look back on it with a heavy heart. Though I felt so much in this one, I am unsure of whether my aries man did. They are physical signs and don't confuse sex with love like a scorp so often does.
2. Leo: my longest most stable relationship. Love the fire and loyalty of these signs. My best friend is also a leo.
3. Capricorn: I chase caps but after a while, their inability to give me the intensity a fire sign provides, leads me to cheat.
4. Taurus: shout out to Tauraus's for being the best boyfriends ever. I don't know if anyone can say anything negative about a Taurus ex, other then they were boring. Try breaking up with one though...i'm still in the process of it. They don't accept no for an answer.click to expand
not the first aries male/ scorp female burn story I hear. exact same thing happened this case he found someone and slept with her. denied the truth to both the whole time until the latter called it off and the scorp decided to forgive and stay. crappy story right! shit happens.
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ugh. solesan, don't be immature.
anyway, he used you for sure... he told you he didn't have strong feelings for you and he meant it. he didn't just use you for sex though he used you emotionally too, to fill a gap.
if it's any consolation, he didn't do it on purpose and he probably wasn't even aware of it.
aries are... accidently selfish lol
harmless really, just make mistakes... a lot of mistakes... and i've noticed we don't tend to learn from them either lol
I don't think it is immature to not feel sorry for this but more of a sense of justice.
Posted by SmidgePosted by Solesanthat's fine. but you don't need to quote stuff she's said in other threads. *shrugs*Posted by SmidgeImmature?
ugh. solesan, don't be immature.
anyway, he used you for sure... he told you he didn't have strong feelings for you and he meant it. he didn't just use you for sex though he used you emotionally too, to fill a gap.
if it's any consolation, he didn't do it on purpose and he probably wasn't even aware of it.
aries are... accidently selfish lol
harmless really, just make mistakes... a lot of mistakes... and i've noticed we don't tend to learn from them either lol
I don't think it is immature to not feel sorry for this but more of a sense of justice.
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Sure I do, Idiots are quite forgetful.
Posted by SmidgeI will.Posted by Solesanmeh. i don't got time!Posted by SmidgePosted by Solesanthat's fine. but you don't need to quote stuff she's said in other threads. *shrugs*Posted by SmidgeImmature?
ugh. solesan, don't be immature.
anyway, he used you for sure... he told you he didn't have strong feelings for you and he meant it. he didn't just use you for sex though he used you emotionally too, to fill a gap.
if it's any consolation, he didn't do it on purpose and he probably wasn't even aware of it.
aries are... accidently selfish lol
harmless really, just make mistakes... a lot of mistakes... and i've noticed we don't tend to learn from them either lol
I don't think it is immature to not feel sorry for this but more of a sense of justice.
Sure I do, Idiots are quite forgetful.
enjoy your drama.
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Posted by Solesanwow...just wow
Just to remind everyone...Posted by lomysin
I mistakenly entered a six month relationship with a taurus because well....they are just so sweet, reliable and caring. He had great family values, I really saw a long term with him. Sex was incredible. Only issue was he is too in love with me. He would let me walk all over him, manipulate him...horrible. I'm the type of person where if you give me an inch, I take a mile. Maybe thats a scorp thing?
Anyways, i got bored and tried to end it multiple times, I told him i'm seeing a cap man who I have intense feelings for. Told him i'm sleeping with other men. Told him I dont think I see a future with us anymore. I spoke harshly and bluntly about how I can't be with someone as immature as himself (hes the youngest guy ive ever dated). Told him that hes even a bit boring. BUT STILL. He tries to call me every night, sends me flowers. He just wont let me go.
WHAT DO I DO? ITS BEEN TWO MONTHS OF TRYING TO END THINGS.
If I ignore him, he will show up at my front door. Or message my friends on facebook asking what to do.Posted by lomysin
I'm a Scorp female, here are my favorite pairings.
1. Aries: the most intense relationship i've ever had. Short, but I will always look back on it with a heavy heart. Though I felt so much in this one, I am unsure of whether my aries man did. They are physical signs and don't confuse sex with love like a scorp so often does.
2. Leo: my longest most stable relationship. Love the fire and loyalty of these signs. My best friend is also a leo.
3. Capricorn: I chase caps but after a while, their inability to give me the intensity a fire sign provides, leads me to cheat.
4. Taurus: shout out to Tauraus's for being the best boyfriends ever. I don't know if anyone can say anything negative about a Taurus ex, other then they were boring. Try breaking up with one though...i'm still in the process of it. They don't accept no for an answer.
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Posted by Smidge
ugh. solesan, don't be immature.
anyway, he used you for sure... he told you he didn't have strong feelings for you and he meant it. he didn't just use you for sex though he used you emotionally too, to fill a gap.
if it's any consolation, he didn't do it on purpose and he probably wasn't even aware of it.
aries are... accidently selfish lol
harmless really, just make mistakes... a lot of mistakes... and i've noticed we don't tend to learn from them either lol
Holding the mirror up for someone to reflect on is immature? He is only highlighting her bad behavior, maybe she can learn from it. She doesn't need coddling. Nobody does.
Posted by SmidgeI think he does. Are you the quote police?Posted by Solesanthat's fine. but you don't need to quote stuff she's said in other threads. *shrugs*Posted by SmidgeImmature?
ugh. solesan, don't be immature.
anyway, he used you for sure... he told you he didn't have strong feelings for you and he meant it. he didn't just use you for sex though he used you emotionally too, to fill a gap.
if it's any consolation, he didn't do it on purpose and he probably wasn't even aware of it.
aries are... accidently selfish lol
harmless really, just make mistakes... a lot of mistakes... and i've noticed we don't tend to learn from them either lol
I don't think it is immature to not feel sorry for this but more of a sense of justice.
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Hey Lomysin,
I cant surely represent all the aries, but I avoid contact with exes. I will be polite but distant.
However, sometimes I see myself getting in touch with men I know are or were interested in me in the past. Not truly exes. I think I do it when I feel like I need attention, sort of a ego thing. I might even agree to meet.
But if they ask me if I have feelings for them or if I see it developing, I answer honestly: nop.
When Im into someone, thats it. No games, no other men gets my attention. But if Im just after attention I can be vague, unless directly confronted.
I would be very careful there. It could be just a momentarily need for attention and you are an easy target.
I cant surely represent all the aries, but I avoid contact with exes. I will be polite but distant.
However, sometimes I see myself getting in touch with men I know are or were interested in me in the past. Not truly exes. I think I do it when I feel like I need attention, sort of a ego thing. I might even agree to meet.
But if they ask me if I have feelings for them or if I see it developing, I answer honestly: nop.
When Im into someone, thats it. No games, no other men gets my attention. But if Im just after attention I can be vague, unless directly confronted.
I would be very careful there. It could be just a momentarily need for attention and you are an easy target.
Posted by SmidgeI don't think there is any drama to reminding someone of their past mistakes. She mistreated men, playing games with them, breaking their hearts like it is fun to her. I and other people find it funny when it happens to her. First the recap and then the results. If someone messes with a bee nest and get stung, it's only natural to laugh at the person for doing that in the first place.Posted by sakuraflowersit's not like that though is it, it's just somebody wanting some drama. which is fine, i guess, i just thought it was unnecessary.Posted by SmidgeWhy not? It's more convenient for everyone to see if it's all in one place. No?Posted by Solesanthat's fine. but you don't need to quote stuff she's said in other threads. *shrugs*Posted by SmidgeImmature?
ugh. solesan, don't be immature.
anyway, he used you for sure... he told you he didn't have strong feelings for you and he meant it. he didn't just use you for sex though he used you emotionally too, to fill a gap.
if it's any consolation, he didn't do it on purpose and he probably wasn't even aware of it.
aries are... accidently selfish lol
harmless really, just make mistakes... a lot of mistakes... and i've noticed we don't tend to learn from them either lol
I don't think it is immature to not feel sorry for this but more of a sense of justice.
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However I do find it dramatic when someone complains about it. I mean someone else other then her that complains about it. Get stung by a bee after messing with their nest and complain about it hours later.
Posted by SmidgeInstead of feeling happy or glad that justice is served, you're telling me I should feel nothing at all? Are you the police to how I should feel about it? Because the way I see it, I should express myself however to whom I see fit. If I think they deserved to be laughed at, then I'll laugh at them.Posted by Solesan" I and other people find it funny when it happens to her "Posted by SmidgeI don't think there is any drama to reminding someone of their past mistakes. She mistreated men, playing games with them, breaking their hearts like it is fun to her. I and other people find it funny when it happens to her. First the recap and then the results. If someone messes with a bee nest and get stung, it's only natural to laugh at the person for doing that in the first place.Posted by sakuraflowersit's not like that though is it, it's just somebody wanting some drama. which is fine, i guess, i just thought it was unnecessary.Posted by SmidgeWhy not? It's more convenient for everyone to see if it's all in one place. No?Posted by Solesanthat's fine. but you don't need to quote stuff she's said in other threads. *shrugs*Posted by SmidgeImmature?
ugh. solesan, don't be immature.
anyway, he used you for sure... he told you he didn't have strong feelings for you and he meant it. he didn't just use you for sex though he used you emotionally too, to fill a gap.
if it's any consolation, he didn't do it on purpose and he probably wasn't even aware of it.
aries are... accidently selfish lol
harmless really, just make mistakes... a lot of mistakes... and i've noticed we don't tend to learn from them either lol
I don't think it is immature to not feel sorry for this but more of a sense of justice.
However I do find it dramatic when someone complains about it. I mean someone else other then her that complains about it. Get stung by a bee after messing with their nest and complain about it hours later.
^ you're not doing it to help her, you're doing it to humiliate her... think about your reasons.
if somebody messes with a bee nest and gets stung, they learn their lesson from the sting, the people laughing are just getting amusement out of somebody else's pain.
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Posted by SmidgeBut what about the paIn she caused other people? She isn't a victim here. And judging by her post she found humor in their pain and arrogantly came to dxp to brag about it. Instead of correcting the person who posted it, why not her? If she didn't brag about using people there wouldPosted by Solesan" I and other people find it funny when it happens to her "Posted by SmidgeI don't think there is any drama to reminding someone of their past mistakes. She mistreated men, playing games with them, breaking their hearts like it is fun to her. I and other people find it funny when it happens to her. First the recap and then the results. If someone messes with a bee nest and get stung, it's only natural to laugh at the person for doing that in the first place.Posted by sakuraflowersit's not like that though is it, it's just somebody wanting some drama. which is fine, i guess, i just thought it was unnecessary.Posted by SmidgeWhy not? It's more convenient for everyone to see if it's all in one place. No?Posted by Solesanthat's fine. but you don't need to quote stuff she's said in other threads. *shrugs*Posted by SmidgeImmature?
ugh. solesan, don't be immature.
anyway, he used you for sure... he told you he didn't have strong feelings for you and he meant it. he didn't just use you for sex though he used you emotionally too, to fill a gap.
if it's any consolation, he didn't do it on purpose and he probably wasn't even aware of it.
aries are... accidently selfish lol
harmless really, just make mistakes... a lot of mistakes... and i've noticed we don't tend to learn from them either lol
I don't think it is immature to not feel sorry for this but more of a sense of justice.
However I do find it dramatic when someone complains about it. I mean someone else other then her that complains about it. Get stung by a bee after messing with their nest and complain about it hours later.
^ you're not doing it to help her, you're doing it to humiliate her... think about your reasons.
if somebody messes with a bee nest and gets stung, they learn their lesson from the sting, the people laughing are just getting amusement out of somebody else's pain.
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Be nothing to quote.
Posted by SmidgeThat was the point the whole time. Some of us remember what she posted in the past and think it is awesome that karma bit her in the ass. She may learn from it or she may not. Idgaf. If you want to coddle her with your moral code then by all means.Posted by Solesanyou can feel what you like, you can do what you like too, just sometimes you gotta think about what you're doing and for what reason. *shrugs*Posted by SmidgeInstead of feeling happy or glad that justice is served, you're telling me I should feel nothing at all? Are you the police to how I should feel about it? Because the way I see it, I should express myself however to whom I see fit. If I think they deserved to be laughed at, then I'll laugh at them.Posted by Solesan" I and other people find it funny when it happens to her "Posted by SmidgeI don't think there is any drama to reminding someone of their past mistakes. She mistreated men, playing games with them, breaking their hearts like it is fun to her. I and other people find it funny when it happens to her. First the recap and then the results. If someone messes with a bee nest and get stung, it's only natural to laugh at the person for doing that in the first place.Posted by sakuraflowersit's not like that though is it, it's just somebody wanting some drama. which is fine, i guess, i just thought it was unnecessary.Posted by SmidgeWhy not? It's more convenient for everyone to see if it's all in one place. No?Posted by Solesanthat's fine. but you don't need to quote stuff she's said in other threads. *shrugs*Posted by SmidgeImmature?
ugh. solesan, don't be immature.
anyway, he used you for sure... he told you he didn't have strong feelings for you and he meant it. he didn't just use you for sex though he used you emotionally too, to fill a gap.
if it's any consolation, he didn't do it on purpose and he probably wasn't even aware of it.
aries are... accidently selfish lol
harmless really, just make mistakes... a lot of mistakes... and i've noticed we don't tend to learn from them either lol
I don't think it is immature to not feel sorry for this but more of a sense of justice.
However I do find it dramatic when someone complains about it. I mean someone else other then her that complains about it. Get stung by a bee after messing with their nest and complain about it hours later.
^ you're not doing it to help her, you're doing it to humiliate her... think about your reasons.
if somebody messes with a bee nest and gets stung, they learn their lesson from the sting, the people laughing are just getting amusement out of somebody else's pain.
if you wanna humiliate and laugh at somebody because you feel they deserve it, then fine, but don't make out you're doing it for their benefit.
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