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If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
Now i'm even more nervous. Seriously!

Btw this is his chart

Sun 17°44' Aries

Ascendant Cancer

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo


What are his Saturn, Pluto, Jupiter and Neptune ?



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Here you are 🙂

Sun. 17°44' Aries

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo

Jupiter 0°48' Я Virgo

Saturn 21°49' Я Virgo

Uranus 24°57' Я Scorpio

Neptune 22°37' Я Sagittarius

Pluto 20°28' Я Libra

AS 18°12' Cancer
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If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
But it’s very difficult to take it seriously when you all come strong early on.

It’s just like what op says. It looks too good to be true and is scary.

I have definitely been there and didn’t believe it and regret it 😄


Well, i guess...lol

But this guy...7 months...and the thing's he is telling her...ohh..he is really into her and thinking about her..alot lol ^^

The thing with Aries Men...it's time...you have to give time to understand if all that *rush* is just that...or maybe even more...there is no other way with Aries tbh.

And this guy...humm...so far very good ! Since the start ! hehe

But if she want's to give it more time...i think she is in a safe spot to do that also ^^
Oh, he seems totally serious to me.

You are so right there. Time tell. If you care you are consistent. Anyway it’s always pretty clear.

Even if we tend to get confused. 😄

But this guy, it serious.

As long as she knows he is not kidding. My mistake was not talking it seriously, I think.
Indeed, that time togheter thing he is allways asking her...humm...that's a big tell there 🙂

Yep, and he is being consistent with her and patient...wich is also another big thell when it comes to Aries.

I guess she just need to let thing's flow...and when she feels like she is ready...if he is still there...well..that's all she want's to know tbh hehe ^^
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

This part ☝️

Omg, there’s not doubt that he is crazy about her.
Yup, he is hitting all the check's on the "Is this Aries interested in something serious with me ?" hehe xD

But i feel like she needs\wants some more time to see things through, wich is also ok tbh 🙂

And i feel like he is not going anywhere else hehe

As long as she doesn't pull a 180º on him now...i think it's perfectly fine to take her time tbh ^^
And they say that Aries men don’t have patience 😄

When you know what you want, you are not going anywhere.

I mean 7 months? Lots of guys would have given up by now.

I still think it’s about time that she says yes to him. She is obviously getting really excited about it and ready for it.


I'm excited and still scared at the same time haha

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Understandable 😄 I think you will be just fine. Have fun!!!
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Guys! For real, i'm having goosebumps reading all of your replies!

I'm so scared yet so excited i don't know why.

And we're texting now i even get more nervous.

He just wished me happy birthday, and after reading this thread i don't even know what to reply to him! Gosh!

This is silly that it got me this funny lol


You are in love 😍😍❤️😍😍

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I don't know haha, it's scary
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How to tell if aries man wants serious relationship or only sex?
Okey, but just calm down with your expectations

7 months chasing? why you didnt hear him out? too scared is a bs, you know yourself.... you are hung up on somebody else, evidently... or he is a player, and you know it... either of this

or if not, why 7 months? not going out with him? no, you want somebody else, thats it...

how you know he didnt chase anybody else in those 7 months? an Aries? give me a break 🙂 you didnt pay attention, because you didnt want him, you wanted somebody else, and now you think your dreams are about to come true..

but be aware of the context of those 7 months and your emotional state as well

just my opinion 🙂

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It was my work schedule, my traveling routines, but mostly me being scared and overwhelmed.

I had been kind of on dating bowl and talking to some men, and he was one of them. But the list narrowed down. It got filtered, now it's him that i've been really talking to.

So the mix of those i mentioned above got us to this 7 months.

Yes there are chances of him talking to other ladies, but I don't really sweat on it. He has every right to choose and talk to whoever he likes to, we're not officially together anyway.

And i'm that person who needs some time to really decide to be with someone. Even when i know i like that person, i'd really want to be sure that it's "safe" for me to jump in. You're an aqua too, i think you know what i'm saying 😋
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If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
But it’s very difficult to take it seriously when you all come strong early on.

It’s just like what op says. It looks too good to be true and is scary.

I have definitely been there and didn’t believe it and regret it 😄


Well, i guess...lol

But this guy...7 months...and the thing's he is telling her...ohh..he is really into her and thinking about her..alot lol ^^

The thing with Aries Men...it's time...you have to give time to understand if all that *rush* is just that...or maybe even more...there is no other way with Aries tbh.

And this guy...humm...so far very good ! Since the start ! hehe

But if she want's to give it more time...i think she is in a safe spot to do that also ^^
Oh, he seems totally serious to me.

You are so right there. Time tell. If you care you are consistent. Anyway it’s always pretty clear.

Even if we tend to get confused. 😄

But this guy, it serious.

As long as she knows he is not kidding. My mistake was not talking it seriously, I think.
Indeed, that time togheter thing he is allways asking her...humm...that's a big tell there 🙂

Yep, and he is being consistent with her and patient...wich is also another big thell when it comes to Aries.

I guess she just need to let thing's flow...and when she feels like she is ready...if he is still there...well..that's all she want's to know tbh hehe ^^
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

This part ☝️

Omg, there’s not doubt that he is crazy about her.
Yup, he is hitting all the check's on the "Is this Aries interested in something serious with me ?" hehe xD

But i feel like she needs\wants some more time to see things through, wich is also ok tbh 🙂

And i feel like he is not going anywhere else hehe

As long as she doesn't pull a 180º on him now...i think it's perfectly fine to take her time tbh ^^
And they say that Aries men don’t have patience 😄

When you know what you want, you are not going anywhere.

I mean 7 months? Lots of guys would have given up by now.

I still think it’s about time that she says yes to him. She is obviously getting really excited about it and ready for it.


Well...we actually don't have any patience...i mean...zero..lool

I also speak for myself on this one eheh xD

Thing is...if he is giving her patience...oh boy oh boy... ^^

And that's why i really think that he really likes her...he is doing thing's Aries are *not suposed to*...he is going out of his way for...her 🙂

As you see..Aries...Easy ! ^^


He came off very strong and impatient at the beginning. And i'm a slow texter sometimes, and he bombarded my phone.

I usually busy on weekdays, and when i'm busy i will take hours to reply, didn't pick up his calls and sent short lines.

One day he told me that how i respond to him just seems like isn't really enthusiastic, he hopes to hear from me more often otherwise he would think that i'm not interested in him. But well my bad, i kept being me.

Then, idk if he might be used to me being that way or what. He told me that my disappearance is sexy.

He went slower after that.

He told me that it'd be hard to get to know more like this (without talking in person directly).

He wanted me to make a promise to meet him more often on 2018.

We both busy but he said that we have to make time and make it happens. And i always be that person who was too busy and too far away (i travel frequently)

So, now here are things that make me wondering if he is really serious:

- He only texting me on Wed / Thurs & Weekends for meet up plans now

- No calls

- He is from abroad and will only be here for 2 years

- As someone who said that he wants to get to know me more, he doesn't ask much about me when we're texting. But he asked about things and so talkative in person

I could be overthink things sometimes, so i'd like to hear some insight about it

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"He wanted me to make a promise to meet him more often on 2018. "

how more often? more often than what? how many times you two met or were in personal (psysical) contact? can you please comment on my previous post and clarify, as to why you avoided meeting (but in real terms)? what does it mean in reality he chased you for 7 months?

what does it mean in reality, that he chased you for 7 months? what were the signs of chasing?

PS. I can tolerate that some Gems and Sags doing this - exceptions honored! (edit: like delusional or deliberate? posts of: he has been chasing me for months -years, he wants to marry me, we are an item, we are engaged, we are boyfriend-girlfriend, we are getting married - easy to cheer, easy to comment congrats - no reality, just online instant ), I just feel more protective of my fellow Aqua-sister

honey, whats really going on?

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If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
But it’s very difficult to take it seriously when you all come strong early on.

It’s just like what op says. It looks too good to be true and is scary.

I have definitely been there and didn’t believe it and regret it 😄


Well, i guess...lol

But this guy...7 months...and the thing's he is telling her...ohh..he is really into her and thinking about her..alot lol ^^

The thing with Aries Men...it's time...you have to give time to understand if all that *rush* is just that...or maybe even more...there is no other way with Aries tbh.

And this guy...humm...so far very good ! Since the start ! hehe

But if she want's to give it more time...i think she is in a safe spot to do that also ^^
Oh, he seems totally serious to me.

You are so right there. Time tell. If you care you are consistent. Anyway it’s always pretty clear.

Even if we tend to get confused. 😄

But this guy, it serious.

As long as she knows he is not kidding. My mistake was not talking it seriously, I think.
Indeed, that time togheter thing he is allways asking her...humm...that's a big tell there 🙂

Yep, and he is being consistent with her and patient...wich is also another big thell when it comes to Aries.

I guess she just need to let thing's flow...and when she feels like she is ready...if he is still there...well..that's all she want's to know tbh hehe ^^
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

This part ☝️

Omg, there’s not doubt that he is crazy about her.
Yup, he is hitting all the check's on the "Is this Aries interested in something serious with me ?" hehe xD

But i feel like she needs\wants some more time to see things through, wich is also ok tbh 🙂

And i feel like he is not going anywhere else hehe

As long as she doesn't pull a 180º on him now...i think it's perfectly fine to take her time tbh ^^
And they say that Aries men don’t have patience 😄

When you know what you want, you are not going anywhere.

I mean 7 months? Lots of guys would have given up by now.

I still think it’s about time that she says yes to him. She is obviously getting really excited about it and ready for it.


Well...we actually don't have any patience...i mean...zero..lool

I also speak for myself on this one eheh xD

Thing is...if he is giving her patience...oh boy oh boy... ^^

And that's why i really think that he really likes her...he is doing thing's Aries are *not suposed to*...he is going out of his way for...her 🙂

As you see..Aries...Easy ! ^^


He came off very strong and impatient at the beginning. And i'm a slow texter sometimes, and he bombarded my phone.

I usually busy on weekdays, and when i'm busy i will take hours to reply, didn't pick up his calls and sent short lines.

One day he told me that how i respond to him just seems like isn't really enthusiastic, he hopes to hear from me more often otherwise he would think that i'm not interested in him. But well my bad, i kept being me.

Then, idk if he might be used to me being that way or what. He told me that my disappearance is sexy.

He went slower after that.

He told me that it'd be hard to get to know more like this (without talking in person directly).

He wanted me to make a promise to meet him more often on 2018.

We both busy but he said that we have to make time and make it happens. And i always be that person who was too busy and too far away (i travel frequently)

So, now here are things that make me wondering if he is really serious:

- He only texting me on Wed / Thurs & Weekends for meet up plans now

- No calls

- He is from abroad and will only be here for 2 years

- As someone who said that he wants to get to know me more, he doesn't ask much about me when we're texting. But he asked about things and so talkative in person

I could be overthink things sometimes, so i'd like to hear some insight about it

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I see 🙂

Well, i guess he was trying alot to get to know you at the start and texting you all of the time...your *lack of interest* kinda toned him down, and i know you were busy...but try to see this from his side...he is trying and you are not giving him that much attention ^^

So maybe his texting on those days and no calls, it's kinda of his way to...do his own thing also when it comes to you 2 ^^ Remember that he is also a person just like you..with feelings and such you know ? hehe ^^

And it actually doesn't matter if he isn't asking much about you on the phone, because when you 2 are togheter in person..he actually does.

Maybe he thinks you don't like to do the texting thing...maybe he thinks you don't like to talk about yourself...who knows, remember that you were very guarded at start ^^

As for him being from abroad...well that's a risk you will have to take...i can't say anymore then this tbh 🙂

Maybe he is just trying to understand *how to deal with you* in the way that you were showing him earlier *how you behaved* to certain things (like the texting, the being busy, the not wating a rship, etc.)...maybe he is really that interested...who knows...from what you told me so far, i think he is really interested ^^

I guess that in the end if you want to see it, you will have to see it for yourself...and take that *risk*...and make no mistake, every rship is a *risk* that you take.

Either way...you are the one that knows him the best...from all of this...what do you think that he want's with you ?...think about that...and follow your instinct...that's the first step when taking a risk !...Having the guts to do it ! hehe ^^

Just give him some more chances here and there and see how he reacts, if you still feel like you need more time...but like i said before, try not to overthink to much ^^ Sometimes things are just what they are and nothing more ^^
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If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
But it’s very difficult to take it seriously when you all come strong early on.

It’s just like what op says. It looks too good to be true and is scary.

I have definitely been there and didn’t believe it and regret it 😄


Well, i guess...lol

But this guy...7 months...and the thing's he is telling her...ohh..he is really into her and thinking about her..alot lol ^^

The thing with Aries Men...it's time...you have to give time to understand if all that *rush* is just that...or maybe even more...there is no other way with Aries tbh.

And this guy...humm...so far very good ! Since the start ! hehe

But if she want's to give it more time...i think she is in a safe spot to do that also ^^
Oh, he seems totally serious to me.

You are so right there. Time tell. If you care you are consistent. Anyway it’s always pretty clear.

Even if we tend to get confused. 😄

But this guy, it serious.

As long as she knows he is not kidding. My mistake was not talking it seriously, I think.
Indeed, that time togheter thing he is allways asking her...humm...that's a big tell there 🙂

Yep, and he is being consistent with her and patient...wich is also another big thell when it comes to Aries.

I guess she just need to let thing's flow...and when she feels like she is ready...if he is still there...well..that's all she want's to know tbh hehe ^^
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

This part ☝️

Omg, there’s not doubt that he is crazy about her.
Yup, he is hitting all the check's on the "Is this Aries interested in something serious with me ?" hehe xD

But i feel like she needs\wants some more time to see things through, wich is also ok tbh 🙂

And i feel like he is not going anywhere else hehe

As long as she doesn't pull a 180º on him now...i think it's perfectly fine to take her time tbh ^^
And they say that Aries men don’t have patience 😄

When you know what you want, you are not going anywhere.

I mean 7 months? Lots of guys would have given up by now.

I still think it’s about time that she says yes to him. She is obviously getting really excited about it and ready for it.


Well...we actually don't have any patience...i mean...zero..lool

I also speak for myself on this one eheh xD

Thing is...if he is giving her patience...oh boy oh boy... ^^

And that's why i really think that he really likes her...he is doing thing's Aries are *not suposed to*...he is going out of his way for...her 🙂

As you see..Aries...Easy ! ^^


He came off very strong and impatient at the beginning. And i'm a slow texter sometimes, and he bombarded my phone.

I usually busy on weekdays, and when i'm busy i will take hours to reply, didn't pick up his calls and sent short lines.

One day he told me that how i respond to him just seems like isn't really enthusiastic, he hopes to hear from me more often otherwise he would think that i'm not interested in him. But well my bad, i kept being me.

Then, idk if he might be used to me being that way or what. He told me that my disappearance is sexy.

He went slower after that.

He told me that it'd be hard to get to know more like this (without talking in person directly).

He wanted me to make a promise to meet him more often on 2018.

We both busy but he said that we have to make time and make it happens. And i always be that person who was too busy and too far away (i travel frequently)

So, now here are things that make me wondering if he is really serious:

- He only texting me on Wed / Thurs & Weekends for meet up plans now

- No calls

- He is from abroad and will only be here for 2 years

- As someone who said that he wants to get to know me more, he doesn't ask much about me when we're texting. But he asked about things and so talkative in person

I could be overthink things sometimes, so i'd like to hear some insight about it


"He wanted me to make a promise to meet him more often on 2018. "

how more often? more often than what? how many times you two met or were in personal (psysical) contact? can you please comment on my previous post and clarify, as to why you avoided meeting (but in real terms)? what does it mean in reality he chased you for 7 months?

PS. I can tolerate that some Gems and Sags doing this (exceptions honored), I just feel more protective of my fellow Aqua-sister

honey, whats really going on?

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We only met twice all this time. As i said it is that i'm scared really. The whole dating thing is scary to me. The last one i had was terrible so i've been very protective of myself here.

When i met the aries i was still pretty close to a Leo, but me and Leo were just hung out. I talked to leo for over a year, met only 3 times, had sex once but then the rest of the time was full of him talking about sex. Funny thing is, Leo was very gentleman and not all about sex at first, all sweet and polite. But then ended up makes me feel like he just using me for sex.

So that's it, a background story of maybe why.

The first 1-2 months of my conversation with aries, i wasn't really put much of attention. It was like a friendly convo from my part, but Aries came off strong even from the very beginning.

I was all busy with work, so my mind was all over the places. Plus i got more scared of men's intention towards me.

I eventually cut things off with Leo and some other men. Aries still there contacting me constantly, we're still talking now.
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If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
But it’s very difficult to take it seriously when you all come strong early on.

It’s just like what op says. It looks too good to be true and is scary.

I have definitely been there and didn’t believe it and regret it 😄


Well, i guess...lol

But this guy...7 months...and the thing's he is telling her...ohh..he is really into her and thinking about her..alot lol ^^

The thing with Aries Men...it's time...you have to give time to understand if all that *rush* is just that...or maybe even more...there is no other way with Aries tbh.

And this guy...humm...so far very good ! Since the start ! hehe

But if she want's to give it more time...i think she is in a safe spot to do that also ^^
Oh, he seems totally serious to me.

You are so right there. Time tell. If you care you are consistent. Anyway it’s always pretty clear.

Even if we tend to get confused. 😄

But this guy, it serious.

As long as she knows he is not kidding. My mistake was not talking it seriously, I think.
Indeed, that time togheter thing he is allways asking her...humm...that's a big tell there 🙂

Yep, and he is being consistent with her and patient...wich is also another big thell when it comes to Aries.

I guess she just need to let thing's flow...and when she feels like she is ready...if he is still there...well..that's all she want's to know tbh hehe ^^
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

This part ☝️

Omg, there’s not doubt that he is crazy about her.
Yup, he is hitting all the check's on the "Is this Aries interested in something serious with me ?" hehe xD

But i feel like she needs\wants some more time to see things through, wich is also ok tbh 🙂

And i feel like he is not going anywhere else hehe

As long as she doesn't pull a 180º on him now...i think it's perfectly fine to take her time tbh ^^
And they say that Aries men don’t have patience 😄

When you know what you want, you are not going anywhere.

I mean 7 months? Lots of guys would have given up by now.

I still think it’s about time that she says yes to him. She is obviously getting really excited about it and ready for it.


Well...we actually don't have any patience...i mean...zero..lool

I also speak for myself on this one eheh xD

Thing is...if he is giving her patience...oh boy oh boy... ^^

And that's why i really think that he really likes her...he is doing thing's Aries are *not suposed to*...he is going out of his way for...her 🙂

As you see..Aries...Easy ! ^^


He came off very strong and impatient at the beginning. And i'm a slow texter sometimes, and he bombarded my phone.

I usually busy on weekdays, and when i'm busy i will take hours to reply, didn't pick up his calls and sent short lines.

One day he told me that how i respond to him just seems like isn't really enthusiastic, he hopes to hear from me more often otherwise he would think that i'm not interested in him. But well my bad, i kept being me.

Then, idk if he might be used to me being that way or what. He told me that my disappearance is sexy.

He went slower after that.

He told me that it'd be hard to get to know more like this (without talking in person directly).

He wanted me to make a promise to meet him more often on 2018.

We both busy but he said that we have to make time and make it happens. And i always be that person who was too busy and too far away (i travel frequently)

So, now here are things that make me wondering if he is really serious:

- He only texting me on Wed / Thurs & Weekends for meet up plans now

- No calls

- He is from abroad and will only be here for 2 years

- As someone who said that he wants to get to know me more, he doesn't ask much about me when we're texting. But he asked about things and so talkative in person

I could be overthink things sometimes, so i'd like to hear some insight about it


I see 🙂

Well, i guess he was trying alot to get to know you at the start and texting you all of the time...your *lack of interest* kinda toned him down, and i know you were busy...but try to see this from his side...he is trying and you are not giving him that much attention ^^

So maybe his texting on those days and no calls, it's kinda of his way to...do his own thing also when it comes to you 2 ^^ Remember that he is also a person just like you..with feelings and such you know ? hehe ^^

And it actually doesn't matter if he isn't asking much about you on the phone, because when you 2 are togheter in person..he actually does.

Maybe he thinks you don't like to do the texting thing...maybe he thinks you don't like to talk about yourself...who knows, remember that you were very guarded at start ^^

As for him being from abroad...well that's a risk you will have to take...i can't say anymore then this tbh 🙂

Maybe he is just trying to understand *how to deal with you* in the way that you were showing him earlier *how you behaved* to certain things (like the texting, the being busy, the not wating a rship, etc.)...maybe he is really that interested...who knows...from what you told me so far, i think he is really interested ^^

I guess that in the end if you want to see it, you will have to see it for yourself...and take that *risk*...and make no mistake, every rship is a *risk* that you take.

Either way...you are the one that knows him the best...from all of this...what do you think that he want's with you ?...think about that...and follow your instinct...that's the first step when taking a risk !...Having the guts to do it ! hehe ^^

Just give him some more chances here and there and see how he reacts, if you still feel like you need more time...but like i said before, try not to overthink to much ^^ Sometimes things are just what they are and nothing more ^^
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Ahh make senses.

That's exactly what he said, take the risk.

Part of me really want to get mysled closer to him. But the other part of me just still scared as heck.

I think yes, i'll take some more time (just to get myself more at ease) but from now on i'd try to not loose myself more. Right?

Thank you so much Ram for your generous insight 🙂
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If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
Now i'm even more nervous. Seriously!

Btw this is his chart

Sun 17°44' Aries

Ascendant Cancer

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo


What are his Saturn, Pluto, Jupiter and Neptune ?




Here you are 🙂

Sun. 17°44' Aries

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo

Jupiter 0°48' Я Virgo

Saturn 21°49' Я Virgo

Uranus 24°57' Я Scorpio

Neptune 22°37' Я Sagittarius

Pluto 20°28' Я Libra

AS 18°12' Cancer
Hmmmm interesting my ex is a Aries sun Cap moon too!! Leo mars that explains the not giving up I think lol.
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Really? How long did it last?
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If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
Now i'm even more nervous. Seriously!

Btw this is his chart

Sun 17°44' Aries

Ascendant Cancer

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo


What are his Saturn, Pluto, Jupiter and Neptune ?




Here you are 🙂

Sun. 17°44' Aries

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo

Jupiter 0°48' Я Virgo

Saturn 21°49' Я Virgo

Uranus 24°57' Я Scorpio

Neptune 22°37' Я Sagittarius

Pluto 20°28' Я Libra

AS 18°12' Cancer
Hmmmm interesting my ex is a Aries sun Cap moon too!! Leo mars that explains the not giving up I think lol.
Really? How long did it last?
20 years. We were married for 17.
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Do you still have feelings or attraction for that guy, Roo ?
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If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
Now i'm even more nervous. Seriously!

Btw this is his chart

Sun 17°44' Aries

Ascendant Cancer

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo


What are his Saturn, Pluto, Jupiter and Neptune ?




Here you are 🙂

Sun. 17°44' Aries

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo

Jupiter 0°48' Я Virgo

Saturn 21°49' Я Virgo

Uranus 24°57' Я Scorpio

Neptune 22°37' Я Sagittarius

Pluto 20°28' Я Libra

AS 18°12' Cancer
Hmmmm interesting my ex is a Aries sun Cap moon too!! Leo mars that explains the not giving up I think lol.
Really? How long did it last?
20 years. We were married for 17.
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Wow 20 years. I'm sorry 😢

What happened? If you don't want to tell, that's ok 🙂
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If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
Now i'm even more nervous. Seriously!

Btw this is his chart

Sun 17°44' Aries

Ascendant Cancer

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo


What are his Saturn, Pluto, Jupiter and Neptune ?




Here you are 🙂

Sun. 17°44' Aries

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo

Jupiter 0°48' Я Virgo

Saturn 21°49' Я Virgo

Uranus 24°57' Я Scorpio

Neptune 22°37' Я Sagittarius

Pluto 20°28' Я Libra

AS 18°12' Cancer
Hmmmm interesting my ex is a Aries sun Cap moon too!! Leo mars that explains the not giving up I think lol.
Really? How long did it last?
20 years. We were married for 17.
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dont forget to mention the downfalls.... otherwise the other posters will think it was a walk in a park

its hard to avoid the aqua-aries connection or sag-aries connection

but... you know 🙂

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The two Aries I was and am talking to the last few months all say they want a relationship but don’t stop talking about sex. I don’t believe them. Next!
.....lol.....plenty of men of every sign do this



Do they really think women fall for it ?

Lol
If they talk about sex, that’s what they want. It’s pretty simple actually...
As far as i remember he never really talked about sex. He did told me that i'm sexy twice. Once when he saw one of my pic and other time when i disappear here and there.

Just earlier he told me about how i should be at home waiting for him with sexy dress and great food.

Those are the only time i heard the word "sex" from him.

He told me that it would be great if i was next to him on his day off, i could stay at his on weekends, he would protect me with his hugs, and he wish i was in his arms.

So that's all the most intimate stuff he said.

To be honest sometimes those words only could make me think if this man only wants sex? Are those lines some kind of sexual approach?

I'm dumb at interpretting this kind of stuff, give me math and computer programming code instead! 😢


No that is not talking about sex. I think it’s confusing when they talk about wanting to spend the weekend, but he was saying he wanted to hug not have sex with you. Some guys ask if you like sex, what you do, positions etc because they want to make sure about the sex. Mostly when they say they want to be around you, that is what they want, hugging is actual intimate as in caring for you. Now some guys are manipulators and can want you to just get close to you for sexual reasons but this guy is talking like an Aries that is smitten. I actually didn’t have sex with my ex for a month after he asked me to go steady. It was because I needed to get on the pill.. but I slept in his bed & spent all my weekends plus days after work there too. He just wanted to see me, spend time with me, and he respected me til I was ready. Because see they just act different when they are serious. A guy who truly wants you for the right reasons will not worry about sex so much. He will know that he will get there eventually. 🙂 and it will be worth the wait.
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Now this calms me down. So it's only my overthinking head then lol
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If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
Now i'm even more nervous. Seriously!

Btw this is his chart

Sun 17°44' Aries

Ascendant Cancer

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo


What are his Saturn, Pluto, Jupiter and Neptune ?




Here you are 🙂

Sun. 17°44' Aries

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo

Jupiter 0°48' Я Virgo

Saturn 21°49' Я Virgo

Uranus 24°57' Я Scorpio

Neptune 22°37' Я Sagittarius

Pluto 20°28' Я Libra

AS 18°12' Cancer
Hmmmm interesting my ex is a Aries sun Cap moon too!! Leo mars that explains the not giving up I think lol.
Really? How long did it last?
20 years. We were married for 17.
dont forget to mention the downfalls.... otherwise the other posters will think it was a walk in a park

its hard to avoid the aqua-aries connection or sag-aries connection

but... you know 🙂



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I married a sag before. And the intensity was pretty similar. The sag didn't stop pursuing, but he kept things in fun and friendly way so i didn't that freaked out. Then he proposed on 2nd date, speaking about the strong move of fire sign stuff anyway.

But this Aries just even stronger and overwhelming. Oh boy.
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If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
But it’s very difficult to take it seriously when you all come strong early on.

It’s just like what op says. It looks too good to be true and is scary.

I have definitely been there and didn’t believe it and regret it 😄


Well, i guess...lol

But this guy...7 months...and the thing's he is telling her...ohh..he is really into her and thinking about her..alot lol ^^

The thing with Aries Men...it's time...you have to give time to understand if all that *rush* is just that...or maybe even more...there is no other way with Aries tbh.

And this guy...humm...so far very good ! Since the start ! hehe

But if she want's to give it more time...i think she is in a safe spot to do that also ^^
Oh, he seems totally serious to me.

You are so right there. Time tell. If you care you are consistent. Anyway it’s always pretty clear.

Even if we tend to get confused. 😄

But this guy, it serious.

As long as she knows he is not kidding. My mistake was not talking it seriously, I think.
Indeed, that time togheter thing he is allways asking her...humm...that's a big tell there 🙂

Yep, and he is being consistent with her and patient...wich is also another big thell when it comes to Aries.

I guess she just need to let thing's flow...and when she feels like she is ready...if he is still there...well..that's all she want's to know tbh hehe ^^
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

This part ☝️

Omg, there’s not doubt that he is crazy about her.
Yup, he is hitting all the check's on the "Is this Aries interested in something serious with me ?" hehe xD

But i feel like she needs\wants some more time to see things through, wich is also ok tbh 🙂

And i feel like he is not going anywhere else hehe

As long as she doesn't pull a 180º on him now...i think it's perfectly fine to take her time tbh ^^
And they say that Aries men don’t have patience 😄

When you know what you want, you are not going anywhere.

I mean 7 months? Lots of guys would have given up by now.

I still think it’s about time that she says yes to him. She is obviously getting really excited about it and ready for it.


Well...we actually don't have any patience...i mean...zero..lool

I also speak for myself on this one eheh xD

Thing is...if he is giving her patience...oh boy oh boy... ^^

And that's why i really think that he really likes her...he is doing thing's Aries are *not suposed to*...he is going out of his way for...her 🙂

As you see..Aries...Easy ! ^^


He came off very strong and impatient at the beginning. And i'm a slow texter sometimes, and he bombarded my phone.

I usually busy on weekdays, and when i'm busy i will take hours to reply, didn't pick up his calls and sent short lines.

One day he told me that how i respond to him just seems like isn't really enthusiastic, he hopes to hear from me more often otherwise he would think that i'm not interested in him. But well my bad, i kept being me.

Then, idk if he might be used to me being that way or what. He told me that my disappearance is sexy.

He went slower after that.

He told me that it'd be hard to get to know more like this (without talking in person directly).

He wanted me to make a promise to meet him more often on 2018.

We both busy but he said that we have to make time and make it happens. And i always be that person who was too busy and too far away (i travel frequently)

So, now here are things that make me wondering if he is really serious:

- He only texting me on Wed / Thurs & Weekends for meet up plans now

- No calls

- He is from abroad and will only be here for 2 years

- As someone who said that he wants to get to know me more, he doesn't ask much about me when we're texting. But he asked about things and so talkative in person

I could be overthink things sometimes, so i'd like to hear some insight about it


I see 🙂

Well, i guess he was trying alot to get to know you at the start and texting you all of the time...your *lack of interest* kinda toned him down, and i know you were busy...but try to see this from his side...he is trying and you are not giving him that much attention ^^

So maybe his texting on those days and no calls, it's kinda of his way to...do his own thing also when it comes to you 2 ^^ Remember that he is also a person just like you..with feelings and such you know ? hehe ^^

And it actually doesn't matter if he isn't asking much about you on the phone, because when you 2 are togheter in person..he actually does.

Maybe he thinks you don't like to do the texting thing...maybe he thinks you don't like to talk about yourself...who knows, remember that you were very guarded at start ^^

As for him being from abroad...well that's a risk you will have to take...i can't say anymore then this tbh 🙂

Maybe he is just trying to understand *how to deal with you* in the way that you were showing him earlier *how you behaved* to certain things (like the texting, the being busy, the not wating a rship, etc.)...maybe he is really that interested...who knows...from what you told me so far, i think he is really interested ^^

I guess that in the end if you want to see it, you will have to see it for yourself...and take that *risk*...and make no mistake, every rship is a *risk* that you take.

Either way...you are the one that knows him the best...from all of this...what do you think that he want's with you ?...think about that...and follow your instinct...that's the first step when taking a risk !...Having the guts to do it ! hehe ^^

Just give him some more chances here and there and see how he reacts, if you still feel like you need more time...but like i said before, try not to overthink to much ^^ Sometimes things are just what they are and nothing more ^^
Ahh make senses.

That's exactly what he said, take the risk.

Part of me really want to get mysled closer to him. But the other part of me just still scared as heck.

I think yes, i'll take some more time (just to get myself more at ease) but from now on i'd try to not loose myself more. Right?

Thank you so much Ram for your generous insight 🙂
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I understand 🙂

Just do the things as you feel like you have to....Follow your guts ^^

And he has been very understanding with you since the start, wich is a very good thing ! So just a bit more of understanding won't hurt him at all hehe remember if he likes you, he will understand you ^^

Just keep the communications going between you 2 and you are good to go for now !

I wish you 2 good luck and that everything turns out for the best 🙂

Take Care ^^
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If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
Now i'm even more nervous. Seriously!

Btw this is his chart

Sun 17°44' Aries

Ascendant Cancer

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo


What are his Saturn, Pluto, Jupiter and Neptune ?




Here you are 🙂

Sun. 17°44' Aries

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo

Jupiter 0°48' Я Virgo

Saturn 21°49' Я Virgo

Uranus 24°57' Я Scorpio

Neptune 22°37' Я Sagittarius

Pluto 20°28' Я Libra

AS 18°12' Cancer
Hmmmm interesting my ex is a Aries sun Cap moon too!! Leo mars that explains the not giving up I think lol.
Really? How long did it last?
20 years. We were married for 17.
dont forget to mention the downfalls.... otherwise the other posters will think it was a walk in a park

its hard to avoid the aqua-aries connection or sag-aries connection

but... you know 🙂




I married a sag before. And the intensity was pretty similar. The sag didn't stop pursuing, but he kept things in fun and friendly way so i didn't that freaked out. Then he proposed on 2nd date, speaking about the strong move of fire sign stuff anyway.

But this Aries just even stronger and overwhelming. Oh boy.

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Sometimes life sends us two or three of the same flavour to learn the same lesson ?

I was a slow learner

Lol
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If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
Now i'm even more nervous. Seriously!

Btw this is his chart

Sun 17°44' Aries

Ascendant Cancer

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo


What are his Saturn, Pluto, Jupiter and Neptune ?




Here you are 🙂

Sun. 17°44' Aries

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo

Jupiter 0°48' Я Virgo

Saturn 21°49' Я Virgo

Uranus 24°57' Я Scorpio

Neptune 22°37' Я Sagittarius

Pluto 20°28' Я Libra

AS 18°12' Cancer
Hmmmm interesting my ex is a Aries sun Cap moon too!! Leo mars that explains the not giving up I think lol.
Really? How long did it last?
20 years. We were married for 17.
Do you still have feelings or attraction for that guy, Roo ?
I will always love him but I am not in love with him anymore or attracted to him. He killed that in me.
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Yes I get that, Roo
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The two Aries I was and am talking to the last few months all say they want a relationship but don’t stop talking about sex. I don’t believe them. Next!
In direct ways?
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Oh yes. They’ve both asked for pictures and videos... always asking to meet. One guy even offered to get a nice room at a nearby casino when I’ve never met him. The other guy I have a flirting history with since high school. But we’ve never done anything beyond flirting. Yet he still thinks it’s ok to do what he’s doing. I just ignore it and only respond to his texts that are non sexual. It’s somewhat flattering he hasn’t given up. But I don’t think I’m interested in him. I don’t know though. I’ve always had a crush on him.
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Posted by aquaglass
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If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
Now i'm even more nervous. Seriously!

Btw this is his chart

Sun 17°44' Aries

Ascendant Cancer

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo


What are his Saturn, Pluto, Jupiter and Neptune ?




Here you are 🙂

Sun. 17°44' Aries

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo

Jupiter 0°48' Я Virgo

Saturn 21°49' Я Virgo

Uranus 24°57' Я Scorpio

Neptune 22°37' Я Sagittarius

Pluto 20°28' Я Libra

AS 18°12' Cancer
Hmmmm interesting my ex is a Aries sun Cap moon too!! Leo mars that explains the not giving up I think lol.
Really? How long did it last?
20 years. We were married for 17.
dont forget to mention the downfalls.... otherwise the other posters will think it was a walk in a park

its hard to avoid the aqua-aries connection or sag-aries connection

but... you know 🙂




I married a sag before. And the intensity was pretty similar. The sag didn't stop pursuing, but he kept things in fun and friendly way so i didn't that freaked out. Then he proposed on 2nd date, speaking about the strong move of fire sign stuff anyway.

But this Aries just even stronger and overwhelming. Oh boy.

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"I married a sag before. And the intensity was pretty similar. The sag didn't stop pursuing, but he kept things in fun and friendly way so i didn't that freaked out. Then he proposed on 2nd date, speaking about the strong move of fire sign stuff anyway.

But this Aries just even stronger and overwhelming. Oh boy."

all the reasons you dont get into another marriage, where you are proposed or courted, and say yes... but I can see the intensity, what draws you towards him... just evaluete and be reasonable... not towards him, but to the whole thing... be nice to him, but cut your expectations

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The two Aries I was and am talking to the last few months all say they want a relationship but don’t stop talking about sex. I don’t believe them. Next!
In direct ways?
Oh yes. They’ve both asked for pictures and videos... always asking to meet. One guy even offered to get a nice room at a nearby casino when I’ve never met him. The other guy I have a flirting history with since high school. But we’ve never done anything beyond flirting. Yet he still thinks it’s ok to do what he’s doing. I just ignore it and only respond to his texts that are non sexual. It’s somewhat flattering he hasn’t given up. But I don’t think I’m interested in him. I don’t know though. I’ve always had a crush on him.
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Arrange to meet them both

Wear a baggy pullover and when they start doing the sex thing, ask them "would you like me to give you a flash"?... lift it up to reveal a tshirt with

‼️‼️*B O R I N G* ‼️‼️

Written on it

Lol

😄
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Posted by aquaglass
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Posted by aquaglass
Posted by pisceswoman123
If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
Now i'm even more nervous. Seriously!

Btw this is his chart

Sun 17°44' Aries

Ascendant Cancer

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo


What are his Saturn, Pluto, Jupiter and Neptune ?




Here you are 🙂

Sun. 17°44' Aries

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo

Jupiter 0°48' Я Virgo

Saturn 21°49' Я Virgo

Uranus 24°57' Я Scorpio

Neptune 22°37' Я Sagittarius

Pluto 20°28' Я Libra

AS 18°12' Cancer
Hmmmm interesting my ex is a Aries sun Cap moon too!! Leo mars that explains the not giving up I think lol.
Really? How long did it last?
20 years. We were married for 17.
Do you still have feelings or attraction for that guy, Roo ?
I will always love him but I am not in love with him anymore or attracted to him. He killed that in me.
click to expand

"I will always love him but I am not in love with him anymore or attracted to him. He killed that in me. "

I see... many times (only in my observation), sag and aries are good together, if they can maintain the "friend" status, like doing things together and be crazy together....how they were before children or commitment (not to each other, but to the whole thing - mainly children)

after it, when its not everything rosy and somebody has to take care of the children, like on daily basis, the fun disappears

its exhausting with signs, who want constant action 🙂 but sag and aries are good in this, I think, they can move fast, but if the feeling are settled?

being best friends or being a romantic interest can be different

PS. Sorry for off topic

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Posted by aquaglass
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Posted by aquaglass
Posted by pisceswoman123
If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
Now i'm even more nervous. Seriously!

Btw this is his chart

Sun 17°44' Aries

Ascendant Cancer

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo


What are his Saturn, Pluto, Jupiter and Neptune ?




Here you are 🙂

Sun. 17°44' Aries

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo

Jupiter 0°48' Я Virgo

Saturn 21°49' Я Virgo

Uranus 24°57' Я Scorpio

Neptune 22°37' Я Sagittarius

Pluto 20°28' Я Libra

AS 18°12' Cancer
Hmmmm interesting my ex is a Aries sun Cap moon too!! Leo mars that explains the not giving up I think lol.
Really? How long did it last?
20 years. We were married for 17.
Do you still have feelings or attraction for that guy, Roo ?
I will always love him but I am not in love with him anymore or attracted to him. He killed that in me.
"I will always love him but I am not in love with him anymore or attracted to him. He killed that in me. "

I see... many times (only in my observation), sag and aries are good together, if they can maintain the "friend" status, like doing things together and be crazy together....how they were before children or commitment (not to each other, but to the whole thing - mainly children)

after it, when its not everything rosy and somebody has to take care of the children, like on daily basis, the fun disappears

its exhausting with signs, who want constant action 🙂 but sag and aries are good in this, I think, they can move fast, but if the feeling are settled?

being best friends or being a romantic interest can be different

PS. Sorry for off topic


Ah well it was like a rollercoaster. The passion always came back. Real life, kids and bills are tough and things get rough sometimes for sure. We always connected on fun lol & we were always friends. But, the real problem was the Cap moon I think. Refusing to listen regarding emotions. Eventually he stopped caring what I wanted. Then it was over. This happened when I had a midlife crisis & worked on getting healthy. Loving myself & he tried to stop that where he should have supported me. If he had, I would’ve never left..
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I see... dont you ever question his love for you or your love for him, which is/was genuine... there is a reason, why you married him and he married you, dont forget.... Cap moon and finances... hm... not easy...but the lack of "fun" killed it

be sure, he will never get to know somebody like you, adventurous and financially stable, like you...and you feel the same, flaunting with your new boyfriend to show him, you are the same cool chick, doing all the things you were doing together in the past

I think he still loves you, like you love him... just the transformation from best friends to "married with kids" was not as easy route... for neither of you

PS. sorry for off topic





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Posted by pinkbird03
The two Aries I was and am talking to the last few months all say they want a relationship but don’t stop talking about sex. I don’t believe them. Next!
In direct ways?
Oh yes. They’ve both asked for pictures and videos... always asking to meet. One guy even offered to get a nice room at a nearby casino when I’ve never met him. The other guy I have a flirting history with since high school. But we’ve never done anything beyond flirting. Yet he still thinks it’s ok to do what he’s doing. I just ignore it and only respond to his texts that are non sexual. It’s somewhat flattering he hasn’t given up. But I don’t think I’m interested in him. I don’t know though. I’ve always had a crush on him.
Arrange to meet them both

Wear a baggy pullover and when they start doing the sex thing, ask them "would you like me to give you a flash"?... lift it up to reveal a tshirt with

‼️‼️*B O R I N G* ‼️‼️

Written on it

Lol

😄
😆 ah it’s not even worth it. I’d stop talking to them. They get the ✋. STOP already!!!
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Haha

I would do the flashing thing

Lol

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Posted by aquaglass
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by aquaglass
Posted by IamTheRam
Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by aquaglass
Posted by pisceswoman123
If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
Now i'm even more nervous. Seriously!

Btw this is his chart

Sun 17°44' Aries

Ascendant Cancer

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo


What are his Saturn, Pluto, Jupiter and Neptune ?




Here you are 🙂

Sun. 17°44' Aries

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo

Jupiter 0°48' Я Virgo

Saturn 21°49' Я Virgo

Uranus 24°57' Я Scorpio

Neptune 22°37' Я Sagittarius

Pluto 20°28' Я Libra

AS 18°12' Cancer
Hmmmm interesting my ex is a Aries sun Cap moon too!! Leo mars that explains the not giving up I think lol.
Really? How long did it last?
20 years. We were married for 17.
Do you still have feelings or attraction for that guy, Roo ?
I will always love him but I am not in love with him anymore or attracted to him. He killed that in me.
"I will always love him but I am not in love with him anymore or attracted to him. He killed that in me. "

I see... many times (only in my observation), sag and aries are good together, if they can maintain the "friend" status, like doing things together and be crazy together....how they were before children or commitment (not to each other, but to the whole thing - mainly children)

after it, when its not everything rosy and somebody has to take care of the children, like on daily basis, the fun disappears

its exhausting with signs, who want constant action 🙂 but sag and aries are good in this, I think, they can move fast, but if the feeling are settled?

being best friends or being a romantic interest can be different

PS. Sorry for off topic


Ah well it was like a rollercoaster. The passion always came back. Real life, kids and bills are tough and things get rough sometimes for sure. We always connected on fun lol & we were always friends. But, the real problem was the Cap moon I think. Refusing to listen regarding emotions. Eventually he stopped caring what I wanted. Then it was over. This happened when I had a midlife crisis & worked on getting healthy. Loving myself & he tried to stop that where he should have supported me. If he had, I would’ve never left..
click to expand

That made me feel sad 😞
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Posted by aquaglass
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Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by aquaglass
Posted by pisceswoman123
If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
Now i'm even more nervous. Seriously!

Btw this is his chart

Sun 17°44' Aries

Ascendant Cancer

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo


What are his Saturn, Pluto, Jupiter and Neptune ?




Here you are 🙂

Sun. 17°44' Aries

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo

Jupiter 0°48' Я Virgo

Saturn 21°49' Я Virgo

Uranus 24°57' Я Scorpio

Neptune 22°37' Я Sagittarius

Pluto 20°28' Я Libra

AS 18°12' Cancer
Hmmmm interesting my ex is a Aries sun Cap moon too!! Leo mars that explains the not giving up I think lol.
Really? How long did it last?
20 years. We were married for 17.
Do you still have feelings or attraction for that guy, Roo ?
I will always love him but I am not in love with him anymore or attracted to him. He killed that in me.
"I will always love him but I am not in love with him anymore or attracted to him. He killed that in me. "

I see... many times (only in my observation), sag and aries are good together, if they can maintain the "friend" status, like doing things together and be crazy together....how they were before children or commitment (not to each other, but to the whole thing - mainly children)

after it, when its not everything rosy and somebody has to take care of the children, like on daily basis, the fun disappears

its exhausting with signs, who want constant action 🙂 but sag and aries are good in this, I think, they can move fast, but if the feeling are settled?

being best friends or being a romantic interest can be different

PS. Sorry for off topic


Ah well it was like a rollercoaster. The passion always came back. Real life, kids and bills are tough and things get rough sometimes for sure. We always connected on fun lol & we were always friends. But, the real problem was the Cap moon I think. Refusing to listen regarding emotions. Eventually he stopped caring what I wanted. Then it was over. This happened when I had a midlife crisis & worked on getting healthy. Loving myself & he tried to stop that where he should have supported me. If he had, I would’ve never left..
That made me feel sad 😞
Damn it! Made me cry... I so hate crying
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Maybe you need to lady 😥
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Posted by aquaglass
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Posted by aquaglass
Posted by pisceswoman123
If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
Now i'm even more nervous. Seriously!

Btw this is his chart

Sun 17°44' Aries

Ascendant Cancer

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo


What are his Saturn, Pluto, Jupiter and Neptune ?




Here you are 🙂

Sun. 17°44' Aries

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo

Jupiter 0°48' Я Virgo

Saturn 21°49' Я Virgo

Uranus 24°57' Я Scorpio

Neptune 22°37' Я Sagittarius

Pluto 20°28' Я Libra

AS 18°12' Cancer
Hmmmm interesting my ex is a Aries sun Cap moon too!! Leo mars that explains the not giving up I think lol.
Really? How long did it last?
20 years. We were married for 17.
Do you still have feelings or attraction for that guy, Roo ?
I will always love him but I am not in love with him anymore or attracted to him. He killed that in me.
"I will always love him but I am not in love with him anymore or attracted to him. He killed that in me. "

I see... many times (only in my observation), sag and aries are good together, if they can maintain the "friend" status, like doing things together and be crazy together....how they were before children or commitment (not to each other, but to the whole thing - mainly children)

after it, when its not everything rosy and somebody has to take care of the children, like on daily basis, the fun disappears

its exhausting with signs, who want constant action 🙂 but sag and aries are good in this, I think, they can move fast, but if the feeling are settled?

being best friends or being a romantic interest can be different

PS. Sorry for off topic


Ah well it was like a rollercoaster. The passion always came back. Real life, kids and bills are tough and things get rough sometimes for sure. We always connected on fun lol & we were always friends. But, the real problem was the Cap moon I think. Refusing to listen regarding emotions. Eventually he stopped caring what I wanted. Then it was over. This happened when I had a midlife crisis & worked on getting healthy. Loving myself & he tried to stop that where he should have supported me. If he had, I would’ve never left..
That made me feel sad 😞
Damn it! Made me cry... I so hate crying
Maybe you need to lady 😥
Probably. Just need to remember about Love I guess, now that I have a new love? Sometimes I get so scared... oh it’s not easy but when you find another that fits, you figure it out 🙂
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Did you do the cutting of the ties ritual with your ex, Roo?
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If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
Now i'm even more nervous. Seriously!

Btw this is his chart

Sun 17°44' Aries

Ascendant Cancer

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo


What are his Saturn, Pluto, Jupiter and Neptune ?




Here you are 🙂

Sun. 17°44' Aries

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo

Jupiter 0°48' Я Virgo

Saturn 21°49' Я Virgo

Uranus 24°57' Я Scorpio

Neptune 22°37' Я Sagittarius

Pluto 20°28' Я Libra

AS 18°12' Cancer
Hmmmm interesting my ex is a Aries sun Cap moon too!! Leo mars that explains the not giving up I think lol.
Really? How long did it last?
20 years. We were married for 17.
Do you still have feelings or attraction for that guy, Roo ?
I will always love him but I am not in love with him anymore or attracted to him. He killed that in me.
"I will always love him but I am not in love with him anymore or attracted to him. He killed that in me. "

I see... many times (only in my observation), sag and aries are good together, if they can maintain the "friend" status, like doing things together and be crazy together....how they were before children or commitment (not to each other, but to the whole thing - mainly children)

after it, when its not everything rosy and somebody has to take care of the children, like on daily basis, the fun disappears

its exhausting with signs, who want constant action 🙂 but sag and aries are good in this, I think, they can move fast, but if the feeling are settled?

being best friends or being a romantic interest can be different

PS. Sorry for off topic


Ah well it was like a rollercoaster. The passion always came back. Real life, kids and bills are tough and things get rough sometimes for sure. We always connected on fun lol & we were always friends. But, the real problem was the Cap moon I think. Refusing to listen regarding emotions. Eventually he stopped caring what I wanted. Then it was over. This happened when I had a midlife crisis & worked on getting healthy. Loving myself & he tried to stop that where he should have supported me. If he had, I would’ve never left..
I see... dont you ever question his love for you or your love for him, which is/was genuine... there is a reason, why you married him and he married you, dont forget.... Cap moon and finances... hm... not easy...but the lack of "fun" killed it

be sure, he will never get to know somebody like you, adventurous and financially stable, like you...and you feel the same, flaunting with your new boyfriend to show him, you are the same cool chick, doing all the things you were doing together in the past

I think he still loves you, like you love him... just the transformation from best friends to "married with kids" was not as easy route... for neither of you

PS. sorry for off topic






Thanks 🙂 yeah I know you’re right. He’s had a gf for close to 4 years, a Leo but it’s just not like it was with me. Like he settled to have a companion. Oh they don’t live together, and he doesn’t share his hobbies with her. After 4 years?It took 2nd date for me lol.they do take short trips together & have fun. It seems that’s what’s important to him now. I see no chemistry, if I’m around & so is she he’s confused who to talk to. I don’t know why she puts up with that.. but he still will not listen to me regarding the kids.. and certainly nothing else. I’m happier though with myself. I’ve heard him say better a happy exwife than an unhappy wife.. oh well it doesn’t matter anymore. But somehow it’s nice to know you didn’t waste 20 years of your life.
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you definitely didnt waste 20 years of your life, that new girl is not even close.

Okey, now, what is it you think he felt drawned to her? she is a Leo, so everyday drama is on, be assured

I hate to say, but can it be the "carefree" relationship from the beginning of your relationship, can it be the reason? you know, the best friends, but lack of "drama" or action?

4 years are a long time, but he seems to stick to his decisions, which is a bad or good thing.... it means he doesnt change his feelings quickly....

PS. sorry for off topic

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If they tell you that this is just sex they mean it. Aries men are honest.
Aries man told me from the beginning that he wants to get to know me more, then after a while he told me that he's looking for serious relationship.

And now has been telling me about what he feels. He feels that we can connect in so many ways. Body, mind and soul.

And he wants to spend more time together with me.

It's just a while ago he told me that i should be home waiting for him to get back from work with sexy dress and great food.

Some other times he told me that i could stay with him at his place for the weekend, which i always refused. But he still contacting me anyway.

I actually kind of afraid that he just chasing me for sex. I know i maybe just paranoid or something.

He is crazy about you.

He wouldn’t say any of that if he wanted just sex.

Feelings? He is in big time.


This here !

Feelings big time indeed !
Now i'm even more nervous. Seriously!

Btw this is his chart

Sun 17°44' Aries

Ascendant Cancer

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo


What are his Saturn, Pluto, Jupiter and Neptune ?




Here you are 🙂

Sun. 17°44' Aries

Moon 4°28' Capricorn

Mercury 20°29' Pisces

Venus 3°31' Gemini

Mars 25°53' Leo

Jupiter 0°48' Я Virgo

Saturn 21°49' Я Virgo

Uranus 24°57' Я Scorpio

Neptune 22°37' Я Sagittarius

Pluto 20°28' Я Libra

AS 18°12' Cancer
Hmmmm interesting my ex is a Aries sun Cap moon too!! Leo mars that explains the not giving up I think lol.
Really? How long did it last?
20 years. We were married for 17.
Do you still have feelings or attraction for that guy, Roo ?
I will always love him but I am not in love with him anymore or attracted to him. He killed that in me.
"I will always love him but I am not in love with him anymore or attracted to him. He killed that in me. "

I see... many times (only in my observation), sag and aries are good together, if they can maintain the "friend" status, like doing things together and be crazy together....how they were before children or commitment (not to each other, but to the whole thing - mainly children)

after it, when its not everything rosy and somebody has to take care of the children, like on daily basis, the fun disappears

its exhausting with signs, who want constant action 🙂 but sag and aries are good in this, I think, they can move fast, but if the feeling are settled?

being best friends or being a romantic interest can be different

PS. Sorry for off topic


Ah well it was like a rollercoaster. The passion always came back. Real life, kids and bills are tough and things get rough sometimes for sure. We always connected on fun lol & we were always friends. But, the real problem was the Cap moon I think. Refusing to listen regarding emotions. Eventually he stopped caring what I wanted. Then it was over. This happened when I had a midlife crisis & worked on getting healthy. Loving myself & he tried to stop that where he should have supported me. If he had, I would’ve never left..
That made me feel sad 😞
Damn it! Made me cry... I so hate crying
Maybe you need to lady 😥
Probably. Just need to remember about Love I guess, now that I have a new love? Sometimes I get so scared... oh it’s not easy but when you find another that fits, you figure it out 🙂
🙂

Did you do the cutting of the ties ritual with your ex, Roo?
Not sure what that is. But I have cut ties in a lot of ways.
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I have done this with a few clients with good results and for myself

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Guys,

So my cousin is on a dating site where me and the Aries man met. I have deactivated it for months. Earlier today my cousin told me that she found his profile on the site.

Apparently he is still active there cause his online status always been recently updated and he just appeared online sometimes.

He sent me a text few days ago, said that he just thought about me but i didn't reply till tonight.

He just replied once to my text. But then i saw him there online on the site.

This scared me even more again now 😢