I only attract crazy men some who literally just “watch me” or

One time I went to a donut shop and this guy sitting was looking at me. I went two days in a row after that and he was there doing the same thing. He came into my job like a week later. He came up to me trying to talk to me. Like how would he know where I work?

There is this guy when I was about 17 years old who went to my gym. He was a lot older than me so nothing happened. I started seeing him again. He comes into my job all the time. He legit never buys anything. He comes into my job just walking around. Sometimes he comes with this 6 year old girl. He legit has only brought something twice. I know he watches me. I can feel it

I also have random men calling me from blocked or texting me through email (lol) harassing me about some shit

Do you have venus pluto?

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Were you sexually assaualted at a young age?

Women who were sodomised at a young age can and often do attract stalkers in their older age.

I’d Pm you this but this Shit happens so often it’s lost it’s political incorrectness tf!

Peace

lol wtf? ;p

i was never sodomized or raped when i was young or ever by strangers...(my mother made sure i was SAFEwith people around or who she gave me care...so i was always with grandparents or aunts/uncles who are trusted). but i was attracked, just walking down the street with my girlfriend.... the creep picked me and grabbed me in private places and ran down the alley like a bat out of hell....i was disgusted. that was a long time ago but still it's so gross. Like they can't have any control of any sort.... (my abusive ex i would say....yes ) but i attract all types.



i think if your parents made sure very very sure you are SAFE with people they can TRUST and they are the parental /figures that will also be trusted you are safe from harm it may happen LESS...

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Were you sexually assaualted at a young age?

Women who were sodomised at a young age can and often do attract stalkers in their older age.

I’d Pm you this but this Shit happens so often it’s lost it’s political incorrectness tf!

Peace

lol wtf? ;p

i was never sodomized or raped when i was young or ever by strangers...(my mother made sure i was SAFEwith people around or who she gave me care...so i was always with grandparents or aunts/uncles who are trusted). but i was attracked, just walking down the street with my girlfriend.... the creep picked me and grabbed me in private places and ran down the alley like a bat out of hell....i was disgusted. that was a long time ago but still it's so gross. Like they can't have any control of any sort.... (my abusive ex i would say....yes ) but i attract all types.



i think if your parents made sure very very sure you are SAFE with people they can TRUST and they are the parental /figures that will also be trusted you are safe from harm it may happen LESS...

What the fuk is your point?

That children who weren’t cared for right deserved to be sodomised?

What crack are you smoking you wack job.

Foh do not come at me again.

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it can happen to anyone is what i mean.

the OP mentioned all the things i also went through...in alot of ways.

so it kind of made me think...naw not always.

and yes it does happen to anyone.

excuse me for coming in and interjecting. It wasn't meant to be mean, just to offer another insight... jesus christ.

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Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Were you sexually assaualted at a young age?

Women who were sodomised at a young age can and often do attract stalkers in their older age.

I’d Pm you this but this Shit happens so often it’s lost it’s political incorrectness tf!

Peace

Are you saying severe childhood sexual abuse is related to receiving extreme unwanted sexual advances from men?

There’s a link in child sexual assault and women attracting stalkers. Not victim blaming at all. Trauma definitely follows a certain pattern especially unresolved trauma.

Women tend sympathisise with their aggressor/stalker (let him down lightly) appease..

all the beautiful qualities most people admire but the kind you’d never employ with a chronic space invader.

Not every case but there is a strong pattern.

I’ve worked with many victims of childhood

Sexual assault and majority have had phases where they couldn’t shake a stalker or had at least 2 lurking.

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well thanks for that ..it makes alot of sense.

yeah i can see that.

they (these women, even men too) need to take extreme measurements and call the police, and take action.

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Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Were you sexually assaualted at a young age?

Women who were sodomised at a young age can and often do attract stalkers in their older age.

I’d Pm you this but this Shit happens so often it’s lost it’s political incorrectness tf!

Peace

Are you saying severe childhood sexual abuse is related to receiving extreme unwanted sexual advances from men?

There’s a link in child sexual assault and women attracting stalkers. Not victim blaming at all. Trauma definitely follows a certain pattern especially unresolved trauma.

Women tend sympathisise with their aggressor/stalker (let him down lightly) appease..

all the beautiful qualities most people admire but the kind you’d never employ with a chronic space invader.

Not every case but there is a strong pattern.

I’ve worked with many victims of childhood

Sexual assault and majority have had phases where they couldn’t shake a stalker or had at least 2 lurking.

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I've a few friends who were sexually abused

It seems to carry on in their rships with men...sadly

One of them is with a horrible overly possessive crazy Scorpio guy, mentally abusive but she still claims he is "the only person who ever loved me"......go figure that

All the women are water signs.....

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Were you sexually assaualted at a young age?

Women who were sodomised at a young age can and often do attract stalkers in their older age.

I’d Pm you this but this Shit happens so often it’s lost it’s political incorrectness tf!

Peace

Are you saying severe childhood sexual abuse is related to receiving extreme unwanted sexual advances from men?

There’s a link in child sexual assault and women attracting stalkers. Not victim blaming at all. Trauma definitely follows a certain pattern especially unresolved trauma.

Women tend sympathisise with their aggressor/stalker (let him down lightly) appease..

all the beautiful qualities most people admire but the kind you’d never employ with a chronic space invader.

Not every case but there is a strong pattern.

I’ve worked with many victims of childhood

Sexual assault and majority have had phases where they couldn’t shake a stalker or had at least 2 lurking.

well thanks for that ..it makes alot of sense.

yeah i can see that.

they (these women, even men too) need to take extreme measurements and call the police, and take action.

I took you the wrong way

Peace

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its cool ;p i understand.

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Were you sexually assaualted at a young age?

Women who were sodomised at a young age can and often do attract stalkers in their older age.

I’d Pm you this but this Shit happens so often it’s lost it’s political incorrectness tf!

Peace

Are you saying severe childhood sexual abuse is related to receiving extreme unwanted sexual advances from men?

There’s a link in child sexual assault and women attracting stalkers. Not victim blaming at all. Trauma definitely follows a certain pattern especially unresolved trauma.

Women tend sympathisise with their aggressor/stalker (let him down lightly) appease..

all the beautiful qualities most people admire but the kind you’d never employ with a chronic space invader.

Not every case but there is a strong pattern.

I’ve worked with many victims of childhood

Sexual assault and majority have had phases where they couldn’t shake a stalker or had at least 2 lurking.

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Does 24 count as young?

Posted by Bk201

Do you have venus pluto?

Nope mars square Pluto

And Saturn square Pluto

I also attract a lot of verbally abusive men who are strangers

I ignore it all the time though

Posted by Ariqua

Do you have venus in Aries? If so the libra Pluto generation could be creeps to you.

It happens to me too. Obsessive stalkers and sometimes they turn mean.

I have venus in Pisces

I also attract men who show a lot of hate for me

Calling me a slut, whore, ugly etc

I don’t even know these men

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Were you sexually assaualted at a young age?

Women who were sodomised at a young age can and often do attract stalkers in their older age.

I’d Pm you this but this Shit happens so often it’s lost it’s political incorrectness tf!

Peace

Are you saying severe childhood sexual abuse is related to receiving extreme unwanted sexual advances from men?

There’s a link in child sexual assault and women attracting stalkers. Not victim blaming at all. Trauma definitely follows a certain pattern especially unresolved trauma.

Women tend sympathisise with their aggressor/stalker (let him down lightly) appease..

all the beautiful qualities most people admire but the kind you’d never employ with a chronic space invader.

Not every case but there is a strong pattern.

I’ve worked with many victims of childhood

Sexual assault and majority have had phases where they couldn’t shake a stalker or had at least 2 lurking.

I doubt there is any type of solution or a means to resolve sexual abuse trauma once things have gone to the abusive stage. Maybe there is but idk.

I'm not sure. If the stalkerish mentality were to come from someone they know or trust? Or are you talking about complete strangers also?

And why do you think this attraction from people with stalkerish behavior happens to these girls who have been abused in their childhood?



Without sounding patronising but survivors of trauma are true empaths so they pique the attention off all kinds of men,

Diresired or not they definitely garner admiration and adoration.

It’s a vibe thing I’ve noticed

Scientifically it’s a limits and boundary setting issue.

Usually it’s stymied by fear of hurting a persons feelings.

Not all cases. Some victims can come from very sheltered lives where the familiar was safe secure relational patterns.

It’s normally the former that is sadly the case.

So you would say they attract even the most undesirable energy because others feel they can be vulnerable around them?

I got what you mean. But I am looking for that particular word from the guys desire to connect with the girl.

Do they feel safe around this girl? They see her as weak?

Not so much weak but definitely vulnerable. Self effacing

Accepting

Open

Okay.

No abuse but I do get stalkers. Some are creepy but most are more on and off. And some have been around for years. So I'm curious.

And I would like to know how to break the cycle. I get the addictive behavior types. Obsessed ones. Guys who know nothing about me. Even strangers which doesn't make sense. I used to think it is the chase or because they see me as difficult to get. But after few years they are suppose to let go. Some pretty much flaunt it. Maybe to scare me? But idk I don't get scared nowadays.

Having said that they do give me my space if and when I have sat down and talked to them. Not all. Very few. Strange.

I will hide this post.

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I can relate, I also attract a lot of hate from men

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Were you sexually assaualted at a young age?

Women who were sodomised at a young age can and often do attract stalkers in their older age.

I’d Pm you this but this Shit happens so often it’s lost it’s political incorrectness tf!

Peace

Are you saying severe childhood sexual abuse is related to receiving extreme unwanted sexual advances from men?

There’s a link in child sexual assault and women attracting stalkers. Not victim blaming at all. Trauma definitely follows a certain pattern especially unresolved trauma.

Women tend sympathisise with their aggressor/stalker (let him down lightly) appease..

all the beautiful qualities most people admire but the kind you’d never employ with a chronic space invader.

Not every case but there is a strong pattern.

I’ve worked with many victims of childhood

Sexual assault and majority have had phases where they couldn’t shake a stalker or had at least 2 lurking.

I've a few friends who were sexually abused

It seems to carry on in their rships with men...sadly

One of them is with a horrible overly possessive crazy Scorpio guy, mentally abusive but she still claims he is "the only person who ever loved me"......go figure that

All the women are water signs.....

Why do you think these women carry it to their relationships? Is it because they are accustomed to something akin to Stockholms syndrome? I mean do they see abuse as love?

Would you say these women are in what you would call abusive relationship?

If yes, do you think these relationships got to an abusive stage because the women "sorta push" the guy beyond his limits as in a way to see if he loves her? Lets say she pushes someone to act out their animal instincts?

I'm in no way blaming anyone. I'm asking for your opinion on thwir relationship if you are privy to their private life.

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It's learned behaviour and for some an inability to break the patterns....

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Were you sexually assaualted at a young age?

Women who were sodomised at a young age can and often do attract stalkers in their older age.

I’d Pm you this but this Shit happens so often it’s lost it’s political incorrectness tf!

Peace

Are you saying severe childhood sexual abuse is related to receiving extreme unwanted sexual advances from men?

There’s a link in child sexual assault and women attracting stalkers. Not victim blaming at all. Trauma definitely follows a certain pattern especially unresolved trauma.

Women tend sympathisise with their aggressor/stalker (let him down lightly) appease..

all the beautiful qualities most people admire but the kind you’d never employ with a chronic space invader.

Not every case but there is a strong pattern.

I’ve worked with many victims of childhood

Sexual assault and majority have had phases where they couldn’t shake a stalker or had at least 2 lurking.

I've a few friends who were sexually abused

It seems to carry on in their rships with men...sadly

One of them is with a horrible overly possessive crazy Scorpio guy, mentally abusive but she still claims he is "the only person who ever loved me"......go figure that

All the women are water signs.....

So sad and water signs tend to internalise the trauma more. They can’t really disconnect from the emotion of it.

It’s like a fusion that can’t be separated which makes processing very difficult.

The cognitive dissonance is very prevalent in water signs

I know I have my mars and Venus in Pisces... my air placents are life lines though

I disconnect

Not necessarily reject men who are abusive but I shut off so at least I get some kind of reprieve.

Water signs can’t shut off.

I hope your friend can heal soon. Dealing with a Scorp ain’t easy. My scorp is adorable but intense af and if not for my huge walls he would definitely have me feeding him grapes.

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Thanks, I sense she won't somehow? 😥

Self involvement

My ex Aries guy was this way

🙄

Girl, please.

Everyone with a vagina has stories about dudes creepin. This is the world we live in.

Pro tip: don’t give your number out to randoms online and you’ll need to screen calls less. Yw.

Also you list 2 incidents here. That’s hardly the ALWAYS senerio your making it out to be. I also call bs on people’s theories that you must’ve suffered abuse in order to attract these nutjobs. That’s not the case. Men are men and some of them have zero boundaries because they don’t gaf what you think of them.

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Posted by Queenaries2

One time I went to a donut shop and this guy sitting was looking at me. I went two days in a row after that and he was there doing the same thing. He came into my job like a week later. He came up to me trying to talk to me. Like how would he know where I work?

There is this guy when I was about 17 years old who went to my gym. He was a lot older than me so nothing happened. I started seeing him again. He comes into my job all the time. He legit never buys anything. He comes into my job just walking around. Sometimes he comes with this 6 year old girl. He legit has only brought something twice. I know he watches me. I can feel it

I also have random men calling me from blocked or texting me through email (lol) harassing me about some shit

for the most part - based on your incessant vain posts - imo this is projection on your behalf ....you have a pattern of humble bragging trying to coax some validation on how beautiful you are no man dares to approach you in a normal fashion.

you're a transparent little braggart.

i am not a fan of scaling people ...but dare ask me, please.

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Imo, your analysis might be a projection as well

I don't think her questioning her experiences necessarily means looking for validation "on how beautiful she is". She never even implied it and she has always been very honest about people's opinion of her, be it positive or negative as well as the context.

@Queenaries2 I think you're kind of naive, but extremely honest, which is an extraordinary quality.

What if you're meant to be with a "crazy" one? Maybe they're not as crazy as they seem. Otherwise, just ignore and walk away, don't sweat it

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by Queenaries2

One time I went to a donut shop and this guy sitting was looking at me. I went two days in a row after that and he was there doing the same thing. He came into my job like a week later. He came up to me trying to talk to me. Like how would he know where I work?

There is this guy when I was about 17 years old who went to my gym. He was a lot older than me so nothing happened. I started seeing him again. He comes into my job all the time. He legit never buys anything. He comes into my job just walking around. Sometimes he comes with this 6 year old girl. He legit has only brought something twice. I know he watches me. I can feel it

I also have random men calling me from blocked or texting me through email (lol) harassing me about some shit

for the most part - based on your incessant vain posts - imo this is projection on your behalf ....you have a pattern of humble bragging trying to coax some validation on how beautiful you are no man dares to approach you in a normal fashion.

you're a transparent little braggart.

i am not a fan of scaling people ...but dare ask me, please.

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Nah men show me a lot of hate too

I have venus in the 8th house together with jupiter i know all about it plus pluto in the 11th house (house of friends etc) but i have venus square pluto since i have my venus in leo and pluto in scorpio

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Posted by Ariqua

Do you have venus in Aries? If so the libra Pluto generation could be creeps to you.

It happens to me too. Obsessive stalkers and sometimes they turn mean.

I have venus in Pisces

I also attract men who show a lot of hate for me

Calling me a slut, whore, ugly etc

I don’t even know these men

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i dont attract hate from men(if they dont know me of course..why?), i usually attract more hate from women but i also can have alot of good friends/few female friends. and the few good female friends are deep friendships. they have to "get" me and i get them. at least that's what it was always in the past and now.

the men who hate me usually love me too much..... it's all of sudden they fall for me so much they begin to hate it...and they hate me for their own feelings of them loving me. if that makes sense??

like they can't control themselves for loving me, but because of that they hate me for it.



edit --- wow weirdly that has happened to me in the past with my ex's... it has been true to form.

how they love me so much they hate me so much.

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Posted by NemDeux

Posted by Queenaries2

One time I went to a donut shop and this guy sitting was looking at me. I went two days in a row after that and he was there doing the same thing. He came into my job like a week later. He came up to me trying to talk to me. Like how would he know where I work?

There is this guy when I was about 17 years old who went to my gym. He was a lot older than me so nothing happened. I started seeing him again. He comes into my job all the time. He legit never buys anything. He comes into my job just walking around. Sometimes he comes with this 6 year old girl. He legit has only brought something twice. I know he watches me. I can feel it

I also have random men calling me from blocked or texting me through email (lol) harassing me about some shit

for the most part - based on your incessant vain posts - imo this is projection on your behalf ....you have a pattern of humble bragging trying to coax some validation on how beautiful you are no man dares to approach you in a normal fashion.

you're a transparent little braggart.

i am not a fan of scaling people ...but dare ask me, please.

Nah men show me a lot of hate too

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how do they hate you??



i have gone through this in REAL life...and i have mentioned my abuse in the past in the hands of men.

they love me too much but it's complete hate too.

how do these men hate you? and how do they show it?



edit - i will tell you truthfully, which i have also menionted here years ago...

one of my ex's have said to me, "you only make me feel this way, i have never hit any woman"

i'm like bulshit.... i dont make yuo do anythng. i dont make you do shit. we are just simply incompatible.

(yeh i got a backhand for that too)

true story. just telling you how itis..

Posted by LadyNeptune

Girl, please.

Everyone with a vagina has stories about dudes creepin. This is the world we live in.

Pro tip: don’t give your number out to randoms online and you’ll need to screen calls less. Yw.

yes dont trust anyone.

even giving emails.

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Were you sexually assaualted at a young age?

Women who were sodomised at a young age can and often do attract stalkers in their older age.

I’d Pm you this but this Shit happens so often it’s lost it’s political incorrectness tf!

Peace

Are you saying severe childhood sexual abuse is related to receiving extreme unwanted sexual advances from men?

There’s a link in child sexual assault and women attracting stalkers. Not victim blaming at all. Trauma definitely follows a certain pattern especially unresolved trauma.

Women tend sympathisise with their aggressor/stalker (let him down lightly) appease..

all the beautiful qualities most people admire but the kind you’d never employ with a chronic space invader.

Not every case but there is a strong pattern.

I’ve worked with many victims of childhood

Sexual assault and majority have had phases where they couldn’t shake a stalker or had at least 2 lurking.

I've a few friends who were sexually abused

It seems to carry on in their rships with men...sadly

One of them is with a horrible overly possessive crazy Scorpio guy, mentally abusive but she still claims he is "the only person who ever loved me"......go figure that

All the women are water signs.....

Why do you think these women carry it to their relationships? Is it because they are accustomed to something akin to Stockholms syndrome? I mean do they see abuse as love?

Would you say these women are in what you would call abusive relationship?

If yes, do you think these relationships got to an abusive stage because the women "sorta push" the guy beyond his limits as in a way to see if he loves her? Lets say she pushes someone to act out their animal instincts?

I'm in no way blaming anyone. I'm asking for your opinion on thwir relationship if you are privy to their private life.

It's learned behaviour and for some an inability to break the patterns....

That's unfortunate.

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Shitty parents can have a lot to answer for

👎🏻😐

someone mentioned stockholm syndrome...

http://time.com/4030514/patty-hearst-40-years/

paty hearst was poster child for that.



and omg...after i remembered very clearly what i said to my ex..

even after all these years, it reminds me of what Oskana Griegori went throgh with Mel Gibson...when she told him, "I dont make you do anything... and this is not love this is not how you love.."



and his answer was, yes you do make me do these things. Jesus christ...so familiar.

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Were you sexually assaualted at a young age?

Women who were sodomised at a young age can and often do attract stalkers in their older age.

I’d Pm you this but this Shit happens so often it’s lost it’s political incorrectness tf!

Peace

Are you saying severe childhood sexual abuse is related to receiving extreme unwanted sexual advances from men?

There’s a link in child sexual assault and women attracting stalkers. Not victim blaming at all. Trauma definitely follows a certain pattern especially unresolved trauma.

Women tend sympathisise with their aggressor/stalker (let him down lightly) appease..

all the beautiful qualities most people admire but the kind you’d never employ with a chronic space invader.

Not every case but there is a strong pattern.

I’ve worked with many victims of childhood

Sexual assault and majority have had phases where they couldn’t shake a stalker or had at least 2 lurking.

I've a few friends who were sexually abused

It seems to carry on in their rships with men...sadly

One of them is with a horrible overly possessive crazy Scorpio guy, mentally abusive but she still claims he is "the only person who ever loved me"......go figure that

All the women are water signs.....

Why do you think these women carry it to their relationships? Is it because they are accustomed to something akin to Stockholms syndrome? I mean do they see abuse as love?

Would you say these women are in what you would call abusive relationship?

If yes, do you think these relationships got to an abusive stage because the women "sorta push" the guy beyond his limits as in a way to see if he loves her? Lets say she pushes someone to act out their animal instincts?

I'm in no way blaming anyone. I'm asking for your opinion on thwir relationship if you are privy to their private life.

It's learned behaviour and for some an inability to break the patterns....

That's unfortunate.

Shitty parents can have a lot to answer for

👎🏻😐

I guess. And there are cases where parents don't know what's happening because they trust those that are around them. Not so surprisingly most abuse comes from the trusted circle. And there is also the chance when the kids reaches out to one of the parents, the parent doesn't believe the kid. Or they might think something like that isn't possible. Parents can be naive too.

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You can't afford to be naive when you're a parent, all your senses need to be on alert

Any parent that doesn't believe their kid, is disgusting ... women and children have been disregarded for so so long and in some cultures they are treated like second class citizens

So ignorant and archaic

🙄

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Were you sexually assaualted at a young age?

Women who were sodomised at a young age can and often do attract stalkers in their older age.

I’d Pm you this but this Shit happens so often it’s lost it’s political incorrectness tf!

Peace

Are you saying severe childhood sexual abuse is related to receiving extreme unwanted sexual advances from men?

There’s a link in child sexual assault and women attracting stalkers. Not victim blaming at all. Trauma definitely follows a certain pattern especially unresolved trauma.

Women tend sympathisise with their aggressor/stalker (let him down lightly) appease..

all the beautiful qualities most people admire but the kind you’d never employ with a chronic space invader.

Not every case but there is a strong pattern.

I’ve worked with many victims of childhood

Sexual assault and majority have had phases where they couldn’t shake a stalker or had at least 2 lurking.

I've a few friends who were sexually abused

It seems to carry on in their rships with men...sadly

One of them is with a horrible overly possessive crazy Scorpio guy, mentally abusive but she still claims he is "the only person who ever loved me"......go figure that

All the women are water signs.....

Why do you think these women carry it to their relationships? Is it because they are accustomed to something akin to Stockholms syndrome? I mean do they see abuse as love?

Would you say these women are in what you would call abusive relationship?

If yes, do you think these relationships got to an abusive stage because the women "sorta push" the guy beyond his limits as in a way to see if he loves her? Lets say she pushes someone to act out their animal instincts?

I'm in no way blaming anyone. I'm asking for your opinion on thwir relationship if you are privy to their private life.

It's learned behaviour and for some an inability to break the patterns....

That's unfortunate.

Shitty parents can have a lot to answer for

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I guess. And there are cases where parents don't know what's happening because they trust those that are around them. Not so surprisingly most abuse comes from the trusted circle. And there is also the chance when the kids reaches out to one of the parents, the parent doesn't believe the kid. Or they might think something like that isn't possible. Parents can be naive too.

You can't afford to be naive when you're a parent, all your senses need to be on alert

Any parent that doesn't believe their kid is disgusting ... women and children have been disregarded for so so long and in some cultures they are treated like second class citizens

So ignorant and archaic

🙄

I agree. A mother must be strong and at least give the benfit of the doubt and keep an eye.

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Yes and if they don't, they don't deserve to be a mother

I would always speak out if i saw a child being mistreated ..

Posted by LadyNeptune

Also you list 2 incidents here. That’s hardly the ALWAYS senerio your making it out to be. I also call bs on people’s theories that you must’ve suffered abuse in order to attract these nutjobs. That’s not the case. Men are men and some of them have zero boundaries because they don’t gaf what you think of them.

But men can also sense when women's boundaries are loose too. I've been told when I go out alone, that I'm intimidating....one young guy told me he fancied me for a long time but was intimidated by my confidence and didn't dare approach me, so that theory can play out

If women give out mixed messages, men pick up on that too....does she, doesn't she..i see it a lot.

i read alot of HATE towards you from females already, OP

did you know...true story, that the young woman who was locked up in a dungeon for many many years...

was an Aries woman with Scorpio moon, Pisces venus, Aries mars.

her dungeon keeper and rapist who abused her and molested her from a young age...(and he had other daughters he ignored .....)

he wanted THIS daughter and kept her imprisoned nearly for life...

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/joseffritzl/5013752/Josef-Fritzl-trial-how-much-did-his-wife-know.html



and talk about mothers and daughters..... the mother turned a blind eye...



makes me wonder....

did she HATE her daughter too??

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Posted by Queenaries2

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by Queenaries2

One time I went to a donut shop and this guy sitting was looking at me. I went two days in a row after that and he was there doing the same thing. He came into my job like a week later. He came up to me trying to talk to me. Like how would he know where I work?

There is this guy when I was about 17 years old who went to my gym. He was a lot older than me so nothing happened. I started seeing him again. He comes into my job all the time. He legit never buys anything. He comes into my job just walking around. Sometimes he comes with this 6 year old girl. He legit has only brought something twice. I know he watches me. I can feel it

I also have random men calling me from blocked or texting me through email (lol) harassing me about some shit

for the most part - based on your incessant vain posts - imo this is projection on your behalf ....you have a pattern of humble bragging trying to coax some validation on how beautiful you are no man dares to approach you in a normal fashion.

you're a transparent little braggart.

i am not a fan of scaling people ...but dare ask me, please.

Nah men show me a lot of hate too

how do they hate you??



i have gone through this in REAL life...and i have mentioned my abuse in the past in the hands of men.

they love me too much but it's complete hate too.

how do these men hate you? and how do they show it?



edit - i will tell you truthfully, which i have also menionted here years ago...

one of my ex's have said to me, "you only make me feel this way, i have never hit any woman"

i'm like bulshit.... i dont make yuo do anythng. i dont make you do shit. we are just simply incompatible.

(yeh i got a backhand for that too)

true story. just telling you how itis..

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I get hate on social media and real life

Just like I stated above

Men will either stalk me or men will call me names and I don’t even know them! Some men will talk to me like I’m dumb etc

Another example: i will comment on a status and almost all the others are saying the same thing and one guy will get only st me and start cursing me out or dissing me

Example: a guy put a post saying do women ever stop and listen to their men

I said why would I listen? Which most of the other females said

This random guy writes you’re more of a man than your man. 1) he doesn’t know what my man looks like 2) who is he?

I just said thanks. It’s the reaction they want

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Posted by Ariqua

Do you have venus in Aries? If so the libra Pluto generation could be creeps to you.

It happens to me too. Obsessive stalkers and sometimes they turn mean.

I have venus in Pisces

I also attract men who show a lot of hate for me

Calling me a slut, whore, ugly etc

I don’t even know these men

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This is very sad, and weird

Why they calling you that when they don’t even know you!!??

This thread make me feel very sad, about women, And how many horrible things that happened to them.



For me I attract men with daddy issues.

Men who are very obsessed with me (the very jealous type)

Also men who are (always) the first kid in the family.

Private men who have alots of secrets.

I know there is meaning behind this, but I don’t care anymore

Posted by Haruuka

Posted by Queenaries2

Posted by Ariqua

Do you have venus in Aries? If so the libra Pluto generation could be creeps to you.

It happens to me too. Obsessive stalkers and sometimes they turn mean.

I have venus in Pisces

I also attract men who show a lot of hate for me

Calling me a slut, whore, ugly etc

I don’t even know these men

This is very sad, and weird

Why they calling you that when they don’t even know you!!??

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Thanks. Idk sometimes random men will call me names on the street or just be aggressive toward me. A guy posted this meme on fb saying do women ever stop and listen to their man. I said I don’t listen to my man. Other girls were saying it to me. This random guy replied dissing my looks and only to me lol it’s interesting

Posted by Juliiette

well your story is weird. random men you never talked to?

Yes. Random men on the street or social media

Men will add me on fb and sometimes if I say something they don’t like they will call me disgusting, ugly etc

If they thought I was ugly why did they add me?

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by LadyNeptune

Also you list 2 incidents here. That’s hardly the ALWAYS senerio your making it out to be. I also call bs on people’s theories that you must’ve suffered abuse in order to attract these nutjobs. That’s not the case. Men are men and some of them have zero boundaries because they don’t gaf what you think of them.

But men can also sense when women's boundaries are loose too. I've been told when I go out alone, that I'm intimidating....one young guy told me he fancied me for a long time but was intimidated by my confidence and didn't dare approach me, so that theory can play out

If women give out mixed messages, men pick up on that too....does she, doesn't she..i see it a lot.

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I don’t see that being the case here.

Both of her examples are of strangers, not people she’s entertained/dated. And I don’t really see either of her stories as ‘stalkers’.

Saying a dude is stalking you cause you keep seeing him at the gym is a bit of a stretch. People have memberships and routines. It’s not that big of a deal 🤷‍♀️

So you noticed someone glancing at you at the coffee shop you both frequent. So what.

And he shows up at your place of work. Still coincidence.

Stalker is when they camp out in front of your place of residence or follow you in the car. And even tho you try and lose them you finally have to drive to the police station to lose them. Speaking from experience 😂

Posted by LethalFantasia

You attract stalkers girl. Some girls I know are like that too. Attracting creepy men. Wow, aren't you scared when they come to your work? Wtf? Ignore them. Or talk to them and see their reaction.

Yes I get scared a little so I try and watch my back. But I also attract men who despise me and have a lot of hate. That just screams a manag kill me

Posted by Queenaries2

Posted by Juliiette

well your story is weird. random men you never talked to?

Yes. Random men on the street or social media

Men will add me on fb and sometimes if I say something they don’t like they will call me disgusting, ugly etc

If they thought I was ugly why did they add me?

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Trolls look for a reaction. Why don’t you put your fb on private like a normal sane person. Problem solved.

Posted by Berzerker

@Haruuka I think this would be mommy issues lol

So you do have mommy issues?

Posted by Arielle83

Saying a man can love someone so much they hate them, is just some fantastical teenage bs to be in denial that a sociopath is claiming u as a love object.

It feeds your ego that someone could feel out of control for u.

When in reality you’re getting wet over the attention of an unstable person.

How can “hate” make anyone “wet” ?

Posted by Haruuka

Posted by Arielle83

Saying a man can love someone so much they hate them, is just some fantastical teenage bs to be in denial that a sociopath is claiming u as a love object.

It feeds your ego that someone could feel out of control for u.

When in reality you’re getting wet over the attention of an unstable person.

How can “hate” make anyone “wet” ?

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It's not literal and it's all based on perception. E.g. how some people love it when they get the attention of their haters. They love it so much the thought of their haters giving them so much attention gives them an orgasm.

People like that usually have control and trust issues.

Posted by Nevamore

Posted by Arielle83

Saying a man can love someone so much they hate them, is just some fantastical teenage bs to be in denial that a sociopath is claiming u as a love object.

It feeds your ego that someone could feel out of control for u.

When in reality you’re getting wet over the attention of an unstable person.

This truth right there. 👆☝️

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well for me i dont go through that anymore thank god.



but there IS a fine line between LOVE and HATE.



if you dont feel that much love for someone, it is BLAH...

so if you are rejeced and hurt, the line to HATE is extreme..



it's very very simple.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/scientists-prove-it-really-is-a-thin-line-between-love-and-hate-976901.html



even scientists study it LOL



Love and hate are intimately linked within the human brain, according to a study that has discovered the biological basis for the two most intense emotions.

Scientists studying the physical nature of hate have found that some of the nervous circuits in the brain responsible for it are the same as those that are used during the feeling of romantic love – although love and hate appear to be polar opposites.

A study using a brain scanner to investigate the neural circuits that become active when people look at a photograph of someone they say they hate has found that the "hate circuit" shares something in common with the love circuit.

The findings could explain why both hate and romantic love can result in similar acts of extreme behaviour – both heroic and evil – said Professor Semir Zeki of University College London, who led the study published in the on-line journal PloS ONE.

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by Queenaries2

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Queenaries2

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by Queenaries2

One time I went to a donut shop and this guy sitting was looking at me. I went two days in a row after that and he was there doing the same thing. He came into my job like a week later. He came up to me trying to talk to me. Like how would he know where I work?

There is this guy when I was about 17 years old who went to my gym. He was a lot older than me so nothing happened. I started seeing him again. He comes into my job all the time. He legit never buys anything. He comes into my job just walking around. Sometimes he comes with this 6 year old girl. He legit has only brought something twice. I know he watches me. I can feel it

I also have random men calling me from blocked or texting me through email (lol) harassing me about some shit

for the most part - based on your incessant vain posts - imo this is projection on your behalf ....you have a pattern of humble bragging trying to coax some validation on how beautiful you are no man dares to approach you in a normal fashion.

you're a transparent little braggart.

i am not a fan of scaling people ...but dare ask me, please.

Nah men show me a lot of hate too

how do they hate you??



i have gone through this in REAL life...and i have mentioned my abuse in the past in the hands of men.

they love me too much but it's complete hate too.

how do these men hate you? and how do they show it?



edit - i will tell you truthfully, which i have also menionted here years ago...

one of my ex's have said to me, "you only make me feel this way, i have never hit any woman"

i'm like bulshit.... i dont make yuo do anythng. i dont make you do shit. we are just simply incompatible.

(yeh i got a backhand for that too)

true story. just telling you how itis..

I get hate on social media and real life

Just like I stated above

Men will either stalk me or men will call me names and I don’t even know them! Some men will talk to me like I’m dumb etc

Another example: i will comment on a status and almost all the others are saying the same thing and one guy will get only st me and start cursing me out or dissing me

Example: a guy put a post saying do women ever stop and listen to their men

I said why would I listen? Which most of the other females said

This random guy writes you’re more of a man than your man. 1) he doesn’t know what my man looks like 2) who is he?

I just said thanks. It’s the reaction they want

Well you gave him a snarky response.

You made him feel inferior.

As if he isn’t important enough to be heard.

What kind of respect to expect from ppl when you do that?

No matter what gender, that person will go off at your dismissive attitude.

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The guy who wrote that wasn’t even his post

So idk why he’s mad

Why didn’t he get at anyone else

Posted by Berzerker

@Haruuka only your men lol

They all have daddy issues, not mommy

Posted by Haruuka

Posted by Berzerker

@Haruuka only your men lol

They all have daddy issues, not mommy

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hmmm lol

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Haruuka

Posted by Berzerker

@Haruuka only your men lol

They all have daddy issues, not mommy

hmmm lol

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😔