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I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking shit? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
Y do you let your nieces talk to you like that? You’re supposed to be their elder!!
I forgot to mention my mother too she has a stellium in the 2th house gemini ascendant and gemini mercury cancer sun cancer moon cancer venus cancer mars all in the 2th house plus her mercury also in the 2th house
Posted by nikkistarMy aunt was spreading rumors my niece told her to the whole family to make me look bad even to my own mom she said it in a laughing way that i have gotten fat etc this and that as an adult of 51 years old you don't do that
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking shit? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
Pisces mooners ik are gold diggers, I think depending on their placements, they can also be crafty about it
Maybe Pisces aspects and Mercury and Earth based aspects?
Maybe Pisces aspects and Mercury and Earth based aspects?
Posted by dewiklaessen26Gotcha.Posted by nikkistar
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking shit? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
My aunt was spreading rumors my niece told her to the whole family to make me look bad even to my own mom she said it in a laughing way that i have gotten fat etc this and that as an adult of 51 years old you don't do that click to expandclick to expand
Posted by nikkistarMy grandma even said to my niece that if she doesn't like me she should not even come to me just to get gossip because that's what she did 4 years ago and i forgave her for that but i told my niece that i was not feeling very good when she wanted to come over that i have had a lot of things going on which she knew.
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking shit? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
I opened up about my emotions and feelings because i thought maybe after 4 years she would finally grow up
Posted by dewiklaessen26Honestly, I have a very limited interaction with my own family, besides my mom and stepdad. I do so, because it is healthier for me. There is criticism, and then their is tearing someone down because of your own insecurities. Sounds like your family members are intimidated by you, and instead of working on themselves, actively try and bring everyone down to their level.Posted by nikkistar
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking shit? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
My grandma even said to my niece that if she doesn't like me she should not even come to me just to get gossip because that's what she did 4 years ago and i forgave her for that but i told my niece that i was not feeling very good when she wanted to come over that i have had a lot of things going on which she knew.
I opened up about my emotions and feelings because i thought maybe after 4 years she would finally grow up click to expandclick to expand
You can forgive, and its better for you to, but never forget.
Posted by WhorpioNo i was very straight with her about it but as long as she lives at home she will never know the struggle she gets everything paid for her she doesn't have to lift a finger and no i am not jealous i am rather sad about it because i wanted to have a great time and have a new fresh start
Y do you let your nieces talk to you like that? You’re supposed to be their elder!!
Posted by nikkistarThe thing is i have always been happy but also very straight forward my niece on the other hand says things behind my back and in my face she pretends to care about me.Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistar
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking shit? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
My grandma even said to my niece that if she doesn't like me she should not even come to me just to get gossip because that's what she did 4 years ago and i forgave her for that but i told my niece that i was not feeling very good when she wanted to come over that i have had a lot of things going on which she knew.
I opened up about my emotions and feelings because i thought maybe after 4 years she would finally grow up click to expand
Honestly, I have a very limited interaction with my own family, besides my mom and stepdad. I do so, because it is healthier for me. There is criticism, and then their is tearing someone down because of your own insecurities. Sounds like your family members are intimidated by you, and instead of working on themselves, actively try and bring everyone down to their level.
You can forgive, and its better for you to, but never forget. click to expandclick to expand
I have been by myself since i was 17 where as she is still living at home at age 25 depending on her rich boyfriend which just left her a month ago.
My scorpio niece has a stellium in the 1st house and het saturn in the 1st house
I have a chiron in the 8th house
Posted by EtherealTravelerI know an aquarius who has a pisces moon she is all about money what about venus ?
Pisces mooners ik are gold diggers, I think depending on their placements, they can also be crafty about it
Maybe Pisces aspects and Mercury and Earth based aspects?
Posted by tiziani
an infinity pool would be nice
lol
Posted by dewiklaessen26The thing is, why do you care what they say about you? Do they help you pay your bills? Do they add anything to your life that is helpful? Are they there to give you emotional support? If the answer is no to any of those, then why care what they say?Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistar
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking shit? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
My grandma even said to my niece that if she doesn't like me she should not even come to me just to get gossip because that's what she did 4 years ago and i forgave her for that but i told my niece that i was not feeling very good when she wanted to come over that i have had a lot of things going on which she knew.
I opened up about my emotions and feelings because i thought maybe after 4 years she would finally grow up click to expand
Honestly, I have a very limited interaction with my own family, besides my mom and stepdad. I do so, because it is healthier for me. There is criticism, and then their is tearing someone down because of your own insecurities. Sounds like your family members are intimidated by you, and instead of working on themselves, actively try and bring everyone down to their level.
You can forgive, and its better for you to, but never forget. click to expand
The thing is i have always been happy but also very straight forward my niece on the other hand says things behind my back and in my face she pretends to care about me.
I have been by myself since i was 17 where as she is still living at home at age 25 depending on her rich boyfriend which just left her a month ago.
My scorpio niece has a stellium in the 1st house and het saturn in the 1st house
I have a chiron in the 8th house click to expandclick to expand
I stopped caring about anyone's opinion that doesn't add benefit to my life along time ago.
Posted by nikkistarThey never supported me in fact i have been the black sheep for many years and i was the one breaking contact with the family because i needed some rest and i didn't want any drama in my life.Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistar
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking shit? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
My grandma even said to my niece that if she doesn't like me she should not even come to me just to get gossip because that's what she did 4 years ago and i forgave her for that but i told my niece that i was not feeling very good when she wanted to come over that i have had a lot of things going on which she knew.
I opened up about my emotions and feelings because i thought maybe after 4 years she would finally grow up click to expand
Honestly, I have a very limited interaction with my own family, besides my mom and stepdad. I do so, because it is healthier for me. There is criticism, and then their is tearing someone down because of your own insecurities. Sounds like your family members are intimidated by you, and instead of working on themselves, actively try and bring everyone down to their level.
You can forgive, and its better for you to, but never forget. click to expand
The thing is i have always been happy but also very straight forward my niece on the other hand says things behind my back and in my face she pretends to care about me.
I have been by myself since i was 17 where as she is still living at home at age 25 depending on her rich boyfriend which just left her a month ago.
My scorpio niece has a stellium in the 1st house and het saturn in the 1st house
I have a chiron in the 8th house click to expand
The thing is, why do you care what they say about you? Do they help you pay your bills? Do they add anything to your life that is helpful? Are they there to give you emotional support? If the answer is no to any of those, then why care what they say?
I stopped caring about anyone's opinion that doesn't add benefit to my life along time ago. click to expandclick to expand
Because of that i used to be very hard and cold. Why i care so much is because i hate it when people are fake in my face that's mainly the thing when people are like that i wanna fight them. Since i know myself that i am not perfect and things aren't going well in my life i don't need others to make a fool of me even more i am already hard enough on myself.
Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistar
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking butter? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
My grandma even said to my niece that if she doesn't like me she should not even come to me just to get gossip because that's what she did 4 years ago and i forgave her for that but i told my niece that i was not feeling very good when she wanted to come over that i have had a lot of things going on which she knew.
I opened up about my emotions and feelings because i thought maybe after 4 years she would finally grow up click to expand
Honestly, I have a very limited interaction with my own family, besides my mom and stepdad. I do so, because it is healthier for me. There is criticism, and then their is tearing someone down because of your own insecurities. Sounds like your family members are intimidated by you, and instead of working on themselves, actively try and bring everyone down to their level.
You can forgive, and its better for you to, but never forget. click to expand
The thing is i have always been happy but also very straight forward my niece on the other hand says things behind my back and in my face she pretends to care about me.
I have been by myself since i was 17 where as she is still living at home at age 25 depending on her rich boyfriend which just left her a month ago.
My scorpio niece has a stellium in the 1st house and het saturn in the 1st house
I have a chiron in the 8th house click to expand
The thing is, why do you care what they say about you? Do they help you pay your bills? Do they add anything to your life that is helpful? Are they there to give you emotional support? If the answer is no to any of those, then why care what they say?
I stopped caring about anyone's opinion that doesn't add benefit to my life along time ago. click to expand
They never supported me in fact i have been the black sheep for many years and i was the one breaking contact with the family because i needed some rest and i didn't want any drama in my life.
Because of that i used to be very hard and cold. Why i care so much is because i hate it when people are fake in my face that's mainly the thing when people are like that i wanna fight them. Since i know myself that i am not perfect and things aren't going well in my life i don't need others to make a fool of me even more i am already hard enough on myself. click to expandclick to expand
Stay away from the negativity.
Posted by dewiklaessen26Ok so, remove them from your life.Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistar
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking shit? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
My grandma even said to my niece that if she doesn't like me she should not even come to me just to get gossip because that's what she did 4 years ago and i forgave her for that but i told my niece that i was not feeling very good when she wanted to come over that i have had a lot of things going on which she knew.
I opened up about my emotions and feelings because i thought maybe after 4 years she would finally grow up click to expand
Honestly, I have a very limited interaction with my own family, besides my mom and stepdad. I do so, because it is healthier for me. There is criticism, and then their is tearing someone down because of your own insecurities. Sounds like your family members are intimidated by you, and instead of working on themselves, actively try and bring everyone down to their level.
You can forgive, and its better for you to, but never forget. click to expand
The thing is i have always been happy but also very straight forward my niece on the other hand says things behind my back and in my face she pretends to care about me.
I have been by myself since i was 17 where as she is still living at home at age 25 depending on her rich boyfriend which just left her a month ago.
My scorpio niece has a stellium in the 1st house and het saturn in the 1st house
I have a chiron in the 8th house click to expand
The thing is, why do you care what they say about you? Do they help you pay your bills? Do they add anything to your life that is helpful? Are they there to give you emotional support? If the answer is no to any of those, then why care what they say?
I stopped caring about anyone's opinion that doesn't add benefit to my life along time ago. click to expand
They never supported me in fact i have been the black sheep for many years and i was the one breaking contact with the family because i needed some rest and i didn't want any drama in my life.
Because of that i used to be very hard and cold. Why i care so much is because i hate it when people are fake in my face that's mainly the thing when people are like that i wanna fight them. Since i know myself that i am not perfect and things aren't going well in my life i don't need others to make a fool of me even more i am already hard enough on myself. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by dewiklaessen26Idk about that... maybe fire venuses? But I doubt that contributes to it, that or 12th housersPosted by EtherealTraveler
Pisces mooners ik are gold diggers, I think depending on their placements, they can also be crafty about it
Maybe Pisces aspects and Mercury and Earth based aspects?
I know an aquarius who has a pisces moon she is all about money what about venus ? click to expandclick to expand
Posted by NostalgicCappyyI hate negativity specially my sagg moon i have cut contactPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistar
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking butter? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
My grandma even said to my niece that if she doesn't like me she should not even come to me just to get gossip because that's what she did 4 years ago and i forgave her for that but i told my niece that i was not feeling very good when she wanted to come over that i have had a lot of things going on which she knew.
I opened up about my emotions and feelings because i thought maybe after 4 years she would finally grow up click to expand
Honestly, I have a very limited interaction with my own family, besides my mom and stepdad. I do so, because it is healthier for me. There is criticism, and then their is tearing someone down because of your own insecurities. Sounds like your family members are intimidated by you, and instead of working on themselves, actively try and bring everyone down to their level.
You can forgive, and its better for you to, but never forget. click to expand
The thing is i have always been happy but also very straight forward my niece on the other hand says things behind my back and in my face she pretends to care about me.
I have been by myself since i was 17 where as she is still living at home at age 25 depending on her rich boyfriend which just left her a month ago.
My scorpio niece has a stellium in the 1st house and het saturn in the 1st house
I have a chiron in the 8th house click to expand
The thing is, why do you care what they say about you? Do they help you pay your bills? Do they add anything to your life that is helpful? Are they there to give you emotional support? If the answer is no to any of those, then why care what they say?
I stopped caring about anyone's opinion that doesn't add benefit to my life along time ago. click to expand
They never supported me in fact i have been the black sheep for many years and i was the one breaking contact with the family because i needed some rest and i didn't want any drama in my life.
Because of that i used to be very hard and cold. Why i care so much is because i hate it when people are fake in my face that's mainly the thing when people are like that i wanna fight them. Since i know myself that i am not perfect and things aren't going well in my life i don't need others to make a fool of me even more i am already hard enough on myself. click to expand
Stay away from the negativity. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by nikkistarI hate myself sometime i remove people from my life but they always tend to come back in my life somehow like they want second chances i am done giving second chances i just broke contact today as long as they don't approach me i will be fine with itPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistar
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking shit? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
My grandma even said to my niece that if she doesn't like me she should not even come to me just to get gossip because that's what she did 4 years ago and i forgave her for that but i told my niece that i was not feeling very good when she wanted to come over that i have had a lot of things going on which she knew.
I opened up about my emotions and feelings because i thought maybe after 4 years she would finally grow up click to expand
Honestly, I have a very limited interaction with my own family, besides my mom and stepdad. I do so, because it is healthier for me. There is criticism, and then their is tearing someone down because of your own insecurities. Sounds like your family members are intimidated by you, and instead of working on themselves, actively try and bring everyone down to their level.
You can forgive, and its better for you to, but never forget. click to expand
The thing is i have always been happy but also very straight forward my niece on the other hand says things behind my back and in my face she pretends to care about me.
I have been by myself since i was 17 where as she is still living at home at age 25 depending on her rich boyfriend which just left her a month ago.
My scorpio niece has a stellium in the 1st house and het saturn in the 1st house
I have a chiron in the 8th house click to expand
The thing is, why do you care what they say about you? Do they help you pay your bills? Do they add anything to your life that is helpful? Are they there to give you emotional support? If the answer is no to any of those, then why care what they say?
I stopped caring about anyone's opinion that doesn't add benefit to my life along time ago. click to expand
They never supported me in fact i have been the black sheep for many years and i was the one breaking contact with the family because i needed some rest and i didn't want any drama in my life.
Because of that i used to be very hard and cold. Why i care so much is because i hate it when people are fake in my face that's mainly the thing when people are like that i wanna fight them. Since i know myself that i am not perfect and things aren't going well in my life i don't need others to make a fool of me even more i am already hard enough on myself. click to expand
Ok so, remove them from your life. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistar
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking shit? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
My grandma even said to my niece that if she doesn't like me she should not even come to me just to get gossip because that's what she did 4 years ago and i forgave her for that but i told my niece that i was not feeling very good when she wanted to come over that i have had a lot of things going on which she knew.
I opened up about my emotions and feelings because i thought maybe after 4 years she would finally grow up click to expand
Honestly, I have a very limited interaction with my own family, besides my mom and stepdad. I do so, because it is healthier for me. There is criticism, and then their is tearing someone down because of your own insecurities. Sounds like your family members are intimidated by you, and instead of working on themselves, actively try and bring everyone down to their level.
You can forgive, and its better for you to, but never forget. click to expand
The thing is i have always been happy but also very straight forward my niece on the other hand says things behind my back and in my face she pretends to care about me.
I have been by myself since i was 17 where as she is still living at home at age 25 depending on her rich boyfriend which just left her a month ago.
My scorpio niece has a stellium in the 1st house and het saturn in the 1st house
I have a chiron in the 8th house click to expand
The thing is, why do you care what they say about you? Do they help you pay your bills? Do they add anything to your life that is helpful? Are they there to give you emotional support? If the answer is no to any of those, then why care what they say?
I stopped caring about anyone's opinion that doesn't add benefit to my life along time ago. click to expand
They never supported me in fact i have been the black sheep for many years and i was the one breaking contact with the family because i needed some rest and i didn't want any drama in my life.
Because of that i used to be very hard and cold. Why i care so much is because i hate it when people are fake in my face that's mainly the thing when people are like that i wanna fight them. Since i know myself that i am not perfect and things aren't going well in my life i don't need others to make a fool of me even more i am already hard enough on myself. click to expand
Ok so, remove them from your life. click to expand
I hate myself sometime i remove people from my life but they always tend to come back in my life somehow like they want second chances i am done giving second chances i just broke contact today as long as they don't approach me i will be fine with it click to expandclick to expand
Even if they approach you, you can make the choice to ignore it. I do.
Posted by nikkistarThank you for your honesty i appreciate it 😄 the only thing i hate about myself if i completely ignore i can become ruthless hard and cold not in a bitter way more like fuck you but i am ignoring them now and i will keep doing it for my own good my family is too toxic and negativePosted by dewiklaessen26Even if they approach you, you can make the choice to ignore it. I do. click to expandPosted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistar
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking shit? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
My grandma even said to my niece that if she doesn't like me she should not even come to me just to get gossip because that's what she did 4 years ago and i forgave her for that but i told my niece that i was not feeling very good when she wanted to come over that i have had a lot of things going on which she knew.
I opened up about my emotions and feelings because i thought maybe after 4 years she would finally grow up click to expand
Honestly, I have a very limited interaction with my own family, besides my mom and stepdad. I do so, because it is healthier for me. There is criticism, and then their is tearing someone down because of your own insecurities. Sounds like your family members are intimidated by you, and instead of working on themselves, actively try and bring everyone down to their level.
You can forgive, and its better for you to, but never forget. click to expand
The thing is i have always been happy but also very straight forward my niece on the other hand says things behind my back and in my face she pretends to care about me.
I have been by myself since i was 17 where as she is still living at home at age 25 depending on her rich boyfriend which just left her a month ago.
My scorpio niece has a stellium in the 1st house and het saturn in the 1st house
I have a chiron in the 8th house click to expand
The thing is, why do you care what they say about you? Do they help you pay your bills? Do they add anything to your life that is helpful? Are they there to give you emotional support? If the answer is no to any of those, then why care what they say?
I stopped caring about anyone's opinion that doesn't add benefit to my life along time ago. click to expand
They never supported me in fact i have been the black sheep for many years and i was the one breaking contact with the family because i needed some rest and i didn't want any drama in my life.
Because of that i used to be very hard and cold. Why i care so much is because i hate it when people are fake in my face that's mainly the thing when people are like that i wanna fight them. Since i know myself that i am not perfect and things aren't going well in my life i don't need others to make a fool of me even more i am already hard enough on myself. click to expand
Ok so, remove them from your life. click to expand
I hate myself sometime i remove people from my life but they always tend to come back in my life somehow like they want second chances i am done giving second chances i just broke contact today as long as they don't approach me i will be fine with it click to expandclick to expand
Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistar
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking butter? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
My grandma even said to my niece that if she doesn't like me she should not even come to me just to get gossip because that's what she did 4 years ago and i forgave her for that but i told my niece that i was not feeling very good when she wanted to come over that i have had a lot of things going on which she knew.
I opened up about my emotions and feelings because i thought maybe after 4 years she would finally grow up click to expand
Honestly, I have a very limited interaction with my own family, besides my mom and stepdad. I do so, because it is healthier for me. There is criticism, and then their is tearing someone down because of your own insecurities. Sounds like your family members are intimidated by you, and instead of working on themselves, actively try and bring everyone down to their level.
You can forgive, and its better for you to, but never forget. click to expand
The thing is i have always been happy but also very straight forward my niece on the other hand says things behind my back and in my face she pretends to care about me.
I have been by myself since i was 17 where as she is still living at home at age 25 depending on her rich boyfriend which just left her a month ago.
My scorpio niece has a stellium in the 1st house and het saturn in the 1st house
I have a chiron in the 8th house click to expand
The thing is, why do you care what they say about you? Do they help you pay your bills? Do they add anything to your life that is helpful? Are they there to give you emotional support? If the answer is no to any of those, then why care what they say?
I stopped caring about anyone's opinion that doesn't add benefit to my life along time ago. click to expand
They never supported me in fact i have been the black sheep for many years and i was the one breaking contact with the family because i needed some rest and i didn't want any drama in my life.
Because of that i used to be very hard and cold. Why i care so much is because i hate it when people are fake in my face that's mainly the thing when people are like that i wanna fight them. Since i know myself that i am not perfect and things aren't going well in my life i don't need others to make a fool of me even more i am already hard enough on myself. click to expand
Stay away from the negativity. click to expand
I hate negativity specially my sagg moon i have cut contact click to expandclick to expand
Good girl- You don't need that shit, it's just going to drag you down. Who has time for that? Be positive and focus on attracting good things into your life. Cutting out the negativity, will be the first weight lifted, in order to help you do that.
Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistar
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking butter? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
My grandma even said to my niece that if she doesn't like me she should not even come to me just to get gossip because that's what she did 4 years ago and i forgave her for that but i told my niece that i was not feeling very good when she wanted to come over that i have had a lot of things going on which she knew.
I opened up about my emotions and feelings because i thought maybe after 4 years she would finally grow up click to expand
Honestly, I have a very limited interaction with my own family, besides my mom and stepdad. I do so, because it is healthier for me. There is criticism, and then their is tearing someone down because of your own insecurities. Sounds like your family members are intimidated by you, and instead of working on themselves, actively try and bring everyone down to their level.
You can forgive, and its better for you to, but never forget. click to expand
The thing is i have always been happy but also very straight forward my niece on the other hand says things behind my back and in my face she pretends to care about me.
I have been by myself since i was 17 where as she is still living at home at age 25 depending on her rich boyfriend which just left her a month ago.
My scorpio niece has a stellium in the 1st house and het saturn in the 1st house
I have a chiron in the 8th house click to expand
The thing is, why do you care what they say about you? Do they help you pay your bills? Do they add anything to your life that is helpful? Are they there to give you emotional support? If the answer is no to any of those, then why care what they say?
I stopped caring about anyone's opinion that doesn't add benefit to my life along time ago. click to expand
They never supported me in fact i have been the black sheep for many years and i was the one breaking contact with the family because i needed some rest and i didn't want any drama in my life.
Because of that i used to be very hard and cold. Why i care so much is because i hate it when people are fake in my face that's mainly the thing when people are like that i wanna fight them. Since i know myself that i am not perfect and things aren't going well in my life i don't need others to make a fool of me even more i am already hard enough on myself. click to expand
Stay away from the negativity. click to expand
I hate negativity specially my sagg moon i have cut contact click to expand
Good girl- You don't need that butter, it's just going to drag you down. Who has time for that? Be positive and focus on attracting good things into your life. Cutting out the negativity, will be the first weight lifted, in order to help you do that.
Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistar
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking butter? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
My grandma even said to my niece that if she doesn't like me she should not even come to me just to get gossip because that's what she did 4 years ago and i forgave her for that but i told my niece that i was not feeling very good when she wanted to come over that i have had a lot of things going on which she knew.
I opened up about my emotions and feelings because i thought maybe after 4 years she would finally grow up click to expand
Honestly, I have a very limited interaction with my own family, besides my mom and stepdad. I do so, because it is healthier for me. There is criticism, and then their is tearing someone down because of your own insecurities. Sounds like your family members are intimidated by you, and instead of working on themselves, actively try and bring everyone down to their level.
You can forgive, and its better for you to, but never forget. click to expand
The thing is i have always been happy but also very straight forward my niece on the other hand says things behind my back and in my face she pretends to care about me.
I have been by myself since i was 17 where as she is still living at home at age 25 depending on her rich boyfriend which just left her a month ago.
My scorpio niece has a stellium in the 1st house and het saturn in the 1st house
I have a chiron in the 8th house click to expand
The thing is, why do you care what they say about you? Do they help you pay your bills? Do they add anything to your life that is helpful? Are they there to give you emotional support? If the answer is no to any of those, then why care what they say?
I stopped caring about anyone's opinion that doesn't add benefit to my life along time ago. click to expand
They never supported me in fact i have been the black sheep for many years and i was the one breaking contact with the family because i needed some rest and i didn't want any drama in my life.
Because of that i used to be very hard and cold. Why i care so much is because i hate it when people are fake in my face that's mainly the thing when people are like that i wanna fight them. Since i know myself that i am not perfect and things aren't going well in my life i don't need others to make a fool of me even more i am already hard enough on myself. click to expand
Stay away from the negativity. click to expand
I hate negativity specially my sagg moon i have cut contact click to expandclick to expandclick to expand
Good girl- You don't need that butter, it's just going to drag you down. Who has time for that?
Be positive and focus on attracting good things into your life. Cutting out the negativity, will be the first weight lifted, in order to help you do that.
Posted by NostalgicCappyyI'm a Virgo with Sagittarius moon Sagittarius ascendant Venus Leo Mars in Libra but i am a 1st and 9th house dominant i am very straight and caring at the same time but people do not always appreciate that they have to take me for granted i genuinely feel i am better off alone sometimes not that i'm a loner but so many people are fakePosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistar
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking butter? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
My grandma even said to my niece that if she doesn't like me she should not even come to me just to get gossip because that's what she did 4 years ago and i forgave her for that but i told my niece that i was not feeling very good when she wanted to come over that i have had a lot of things going on which she knew.
I opened up about my emotions and feelings because i thought maybe after 4 years she would finally grow up click to expand
Honestly, I have a very limited interaction with my own family, besides my mom and stepdad. I do so, because it is healthier for me. There is criticism, and then their is tearing someone down because of your own insecurities. Sounds like your family members are intimidated by you, and instead of working on themselves, actively try and bring everyone down to their level.
You can forgive, and its better for you to, but never forget. click to expand
The thing is i have always been happy but also very straight forward my niece on the other hand says things behind my back and in my face she pretends to care about me.
I have been by myself since i was 17 where as she is still living at home at age 25 depending on her rich boyfriend which just left her a month ago.
My scorpio niece has a stellium in the 1st house and het saturn in the 1st house
I have a chiron in the 8th house click to expand
The thing is, why do you care what they say about you? Do they help you pay your bills? Do they add anything to your life that is helpful? Are they there to give you emotional support? If the answer is no to any of those, then why care what they say?
I stopped caring about anyone's opinion that doesn't add benefit to my life along time ago. click to expand
They never supported me in fact i have been the black sheep for many years and i was the one breaking contact with the family because i needed some rest and i didn't want any drama in my life.
Because of that i used to be very hard and cold. Why i care so much is because i hate it when people are fake in my face that's mainly the thing when people are like that i wanna fight them. Since i know myself that i am not perfect and things aren't going well in my life i don't need others to make a fool of me even more i am already hard enough on myself. click to expand
Stay away from the negativity. click to expand
I hate negativity specially my sagg moon i have cut contact click to expand
Good girl- You don't need that shit, it's just going to drag you down. Who has time for that? Be positive and focus on attracting good things into your life. Cutting out the negativity, will be the first weight lifted, in order to help you do that. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by LethalFantasiaThey always make everything a competition i am the oldest in the family and the only one living by myself
Wow man, it's scary that family can be that bad. You 3 should be like sisters.
I say just ignore them. They seem immature. Maybe in a few years they will change and you guys will become amazing friends.
Posted by LethalFantasiaThey are both younger scorpio niece is from my moms family she is 25 my other niece from my dad's side is 22
Wow man, it's scary that family can be that bad. You 3 should be like sisters.
I say just ignore them. They seem immature. Maybe in a few years they will change and you guys will become amazing friends.
My other nieces and nephews are all following if i ask one to come and visit me they can never come alone always have to come together and even when together i always feel like the 3th wheel
Posted by LethalFantasiaThank you ! i hate the word jealousy do you know that haha but yes i think they are jealous mainly because i am very spontaneous and i express my emotions freely i do not have to pretend i am spontaneous by nature often had people being jealous because of thatPosted by dewiklaessen26Well you look like a beautiful girl. Maybe they are jealous of you? Some people can be catty! click to expandPosted by LethalFantasia
Wow man, it's scary that family can be that bad. You 3 should be like sisters.
I say just ignore them. They seem immature. Maybe in a few years they will change and you guys will become amazing friends.
They always make everything a competition i am the oldest in the family and the only one living by myself click to expandclick to expand
Posted by greengemini_I read that didn't know she's a capricorn :O damn
This cap woman stalked a rich man she met on one of those meet billionaires looking to date site's.... lux
Couldn't let him go. Sent him 65,000 text messages.
https://www.google.com/amp/amp.fox10phoenix.com/news/arizona-news/woman-accused-of-stalking-paradise-valley-man-speaks-out
Posted by LethalFantasiaI did they just put the blame on me try to reverse and mirror things not gonna work hahaPosted by dewiklaessen26Wow, very crazy for family to make one another feel like that. Or maybe it's not uncommon. I don't have a lot of fam-bamz but I'm thankful for the ones I do have because we are not crazy like this lol! And the 25 and 22 are way too old to be acting like that to be honest. Maybe you should just straight up ask them why they treat you like shit. click to expandPosted by LethalFantasia
Wow man, it's scary that family can be that bad. You 3 should be like sisters.
I say just ignore them. They seem immature. Maybe in a few years they will change and you guys will become amazing friends.
They are both younger scorpio niece is from my moms family she is 25 my other niece from my dad's side is 22
My other nieces and nephews are all following if i ask one to come and visit me they can never come alone always have to come together and even when together i always feel like the 3th wheel click to expandclick to expand
Posted by LethalFantasiaWhat sign are you and what is your moonsign btw ? curiosity 😛Posted by dewiklaessen26Damn. Well I say be close with your friends and the people who truly do love you in your life and keep negative people at an arm's length. If they treat you like trash they're not worth the stress imo. click to expandPosted by LethalFantasiaPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by LethalFantasia
Wow man, it's scary that family can be that bad. You 3 should be like sisters.
I say just ignore them. They seem immature. Maybe in a few years they will change and you guys will become amazing friends.
They are both younger scorpio niece is from my moms family she is 25 my other niece from my dad's side is 22
My other nieces and nephews are all following if i ask one to come and visit me they can never come alone always have to come together and even when together i always feel like the 3th wheel click to expand
Wow, very crazy for family to make one another feel like that. Or maybe it's not uncommon. I don't have a lot of fam-bamz but I'm thankful for the ones I do have because we are not crazy like this lol! And the 25 and 22 are way too old to be acting like that to be honest. Maybe you should just straight up ask them why they treat you like butter. click to expand
I did they just put the blame on me try to reverse and mirror things not gonna work haha click to expandclick to expand
Posted by TotiWell i am mars in libra and i do not care about money 😛 i have my mars in the 9th house i am very spiritual and philosophical always searching for the truth knowledge and experiment in life as much as i can
Mars in Libra🙈🙈🙈
Venus in Libra 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈
Libra Moon 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈
Posted by LethalFantasiaHaha is it that bad? how does it feel to have a sagg moon with your gemini sunPosted by dewiklaessen26Gemini Sun (I know, DXP suicide being a Gemini on here lol!) and Sag Moon. click to expandPosted by LethalFantasiaPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by LethalFantasiaPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by LethalFantasia
Wow man, it's scary that family can be that bad. You 3 should be like sisters.
I say just ignore them. They seem immature. Maybe in a few years they will change and you guys will become amazing friends.
They are both younger scorpio niece is from my moms family she is 25 my other niece from my dad's side is 22
My other nieces and nephews are all following if i ask one to come and visit me they can never come alone always have to come together and even when together i always feel like the 3th wheel click to expand
Wow, very crazy for family to make one another feel like that. Or maybe it's not uncommon. I don't have a lot of fam-bamz but I'm thankful for the ones I do have because we are not crazy like this lol! And the 25 and 22 are way too old to be acting like that to be honest. Maybe you should just straight up ask them why they treat you like butter. click to expand
I did they just put the blame on me try to reverse and mirror things not gonna work haha click to expand
Damn. Well I say be close with your friends and the people who truly do love you in your life and keep negative people at an arm's length. If they treat you like trash they're not worth the stress imo. click to expand
What sign are you and what is your moonsign btw ? curiosity click to expandclick to expand
Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistar
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking butter? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
My grandma even said to my niece that if she doesn't like me she should not even come to me just to get gossip because that's what she did 4 years ago and i forgave her for that but i told my niece that i was not feeling very good when she wanted to come over that i have had a lot of things going on which she knew.
I opened up about my emotions and feelings because i thought maybe after 4 years she would finally grow up click to expand
Honestly, I have a very limited interaction with my own family, besides my mom and stepdad. I do so, because it is healthier for me. There is criticism, and then their is tearing someone down because of your own insecurities. Sounds like your family members are intimidated by you, and instead of working on themselves, actively try and bring everyone down to their level.
You can forgive, and its better for you to, but never forget. click to expand
The thing is i have always been happy but also very straight forward my niece on the other hand says things behind my back and in my face she pretends to care about me.
I have been by myself since i was 17 where as she is still living at home at age 25 depending on her rich boyfriend which just left her a month ago.
My scorpio niece has a stellium in the 1st house and het saturn in the 1st house
I have a chiron in the 8th house click to expand
The thing is, why do you care what they say about you? Do they help you pay your bills? Do they add anything to your life that is helpful? Are they there to give you emotional support? If the answer is no to any of those, then why care what they say?
I stopped caring about anyone's opinion that doesn't add benefit to my life along time ago. click to expand
They never supported me in fact i have been the black sheep for many years and i was the one breaking contact with the family because i needed some rest and i didn't want any drama in my life.
Because of that i used to be very hard and cold. Why i care so much is because i hate it when people are fake in my face that's mainly the thing when people are like that i wanna fight them. Since i know myself that i am not perfect and things aren't going well in my life i don't need others to make a fool of me even more i am already hard enough on myself. click to expand
Stay away from the negativity. click to expand
I hate negativity specially my sagg moon i have cut contact click to expand
Good girl- You don't need that butter, it's just going to drag you down. Who has time for that? Be positive and focus on attracting good things into your life. Cutting out the negativity, will be the first weight lifted, in order to help you do that. click to expand
I'm a Virgo with Sagittarius moon Sagittarius ascendant Venus Leo Mars in Libra but i am a 1st and 9th house dominant i am very straight and caring at the same time but people do not always appreciate that they have to take me for granted i genuinely feel i am better off alone sometimes not that i'm a loner but so many people are fake click to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expand
You sound like you're a sweet girl, and you need to stay that way. The people that take advantage of you, are not worthy of you or a minute of your precious time. A little swipe of the hand towards them to avoid their negative energy and walk away- done.
I'm the same way in feeling like I'm better off alone too sometimes, and that's true for recharging moments, reflecting, and just enjoying the alone time and space. But, you're also good with being around people of like mind- same or similar vibration levels, and positive energy.
It's finding the balance.
It sounds like you are off to a good start.
Fake people and users, can kick rocks!
Posted by TotiIt does suffer in a sense that i can be very patient and try to keep my cool i am very straight but and i am very honest and if people test me i often stay cool but not when they play with me then i wanna knock their lights out. My pain tolerance is high this doesn't mean i am passive agressive in fact i am straight but still that is not enough for people to know that they should stop. I don't do things unless i really have no choice anymore as in when people really reach my limit i am very ruthless but the only thing about my mars in libra is i do not wanna get to that point where i have to hurt people so even when i fight or argue with someone and i say what i need to say i try to not let things get out of handPosted by dewiklaessen26Mars in libra always get pushed over. Always a punching bag for others. They tolerate a lot trying to escape conflicts.When they explode can be very violent. Mars suffers in libra. click to expandPosted by Toti
Mars in Libra🙈🙈🙈
Venus in Libra 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈
Libra Moon 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈
Well i am mars in libra and i do not care about money i have my mars in the 9th house i am very spiritual and philosophical always searching for the truth knowledge and experiment in life as much as i can click to expandclick to expand
Posted by NostalgicCappyyI have Chiron in my 8th house i often had to deal with betrayal in my life, it's not that i am naive i just give people another chance because i believe that staying angry and becoming bitter is not the solution.Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistar
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking butter? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
My grandma even said to my niece that if she doesn't like me she should not even come to me just to get gossip because that's what she did 4 years ago and i forgave her for that but i told my niece that i was not feeling very good when she wanted to come over that i have had a lot of things going on which she knew.
I opened up about my emotions and feelings because i thought maybe after 4 years she would finally grow up click to expand
Honestly, I have a very limited interaction with my own family, besides my mom and stepdad. I do so, because it is healthier for me. There is criticism, and then their is tearing someone down because of your own insecurities. Sounds like your family members are intimidated by you, and instead of working on themselves, actively try and bring everyone down to their level.
You can forgive, and its better for you to, but never forget. click to expand
The thing is i have always been happy but also very straight forward my niece on the other hand says things behind my back and in my face she pretends to care about me.
I have been by myself since i was 17 where as she is still living at home at age 25 depending on her rich boyfriend which just left her a month ago.
My scorpio niece has a stellium in the 1st house and het saturn in the 1st house
I have a chiron in the 8th house click to expand
The thing is, why do you care what they say about you? Do they help you pay your bills? Do they add anything to your life that is helpful? Are they there to give you emotional support? If the answer is no to any of those, then why care what they say?
I stopped caring about anyone's opinion that doesn't add benefit to my life along time ago. click to expand
They never supported me in fact i have been the black sheep for many years and i was the one breaking contact with the family because i needed some rest and i didn't want any drama in my life.
Because of that i used to be very hard and cold. Why i care so much is because i hate it when people are fake in my face that's mainly the thing when people are like that i wanna fight them. Since i know myself that i am not perfect and things aren't going well in my life i don't need others to make a fool of me even more i am already hard enough on myself. click to expand
Stay away from the negativity. click to expand
I hate negativity specially my sagg moon i have cut contact click to expand
Good girl- You don't need that butter, it's just going to drag you down. Who has time for that? Be positive and focus on attracting good things into your life. Cutting out the negativity, will be the first weight lifted, in order to help you do that. click to expand
I'm a Virgo with Sagittarius moon Sagittarius ascendant Venus Leo Mars in Libra but i am a 1st and 9th house dominant i am very straight and caring at the same time but people do not always appreciate that they have to take me for granted i genuinely feel i am better off alone sometimes not that i'm a loner but so many people are fake click to expandclick to expandclick to expand
You sound like you're a sweet girl, and you need to stay that way. The people that take advantage of you, are not worthy of you or a minute of your precious time. A little swipe of the hand towards them to avoid their negative energy and walk away- done.
I'm the same way in feeling like I'm better off alone too sometimes, and that's true for recharging moments, reflecting, and just enjoying the alone time and space. But, you're also good with being around people of like mind- same or similar vibration levels, and positive energy.
It's finding the balance.
It sounds like you are off to a good start.
Fake people and users, can kick rocks!
click to expandclick to expand
I let my bitterness and anger out once in a while and it does help to get rid of everything but i feel like if i do it too much i become this cold and hard person that won't let people in anymore.
I am someone that needs time and space to think for myself to recharge to stay true to myself or else i completely lose myself in the process of helping others and in the end i don't get anything back for it but getting back stabbed. I do not expect anything in return as in when i do something i do it because i care for someone same as forgiving someone is my own choice and yes that can be stupid.
I had time where i completely turned into a btch and didn't care about anyone or anybody but that was when i was 17 and my stepdad threw me out of the house because he couldn't accept my mom had left him the year before he already threw my mom out. I take friendships very serious it needs to feel like a cohesive unit a deep bonding where i can express myself without feeling judged but my family always made me feel like i was less.
I also have Aquarius/Leo intercepted in my chart so i never got the chance truly shine
Posted by LethalFantasiaOh please tell me!! i have my moon in the 1st house too with neptune ,uranus i am very rebellious haha and a bunch of other planets i got my sun,mercury,mars in my 9th house and my venus and jupiter in the 8th housePosted by dewiklaessen26It's very hectic.Posted by LethalFantasiaPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by LethalFantasiaPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by LethalFantasiaPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by LethalFantasia
Wow man, it's scary that family can be that bad. You 3 should be like sisters.
I say just ignore them. They seem immature. Maybe in a few years they will change and you guys will become amazing friends.
They are both younger scorpio niece is from my moms family she is 25 my other niece from my dad's side is 22
My other nieces and nephews are all following if i ask one to come and visit me they can never come alone always have to come together and even when together i always feel like the 3th wheel click to expand
Wow, very crazy for family to make one another feel like that. Or maybe it's not uncommon. I don't have a lot of fam-bamz but I'm thankful for the ones I do have because we are not crazy like this lol! And the 25 and 22 are way too old to be acting like that to be honest. Maybe you should just straight up ask them why they treat you like butter. click to expand
I did they just put the blame on me try to reverse and mirror things not gonna work haha click to expand
Damn. Well I say be close with your friends and the people who truly do love you in your life and keep negative people at an arm's length. If they treat you like trash they're not worth the stress imo. click to expand
What sign are you and what is your moonsign btw ? curiosity click to expand
Gemini Sun (I know, DXP suicide being a Gemini on here lol!) and Sag Moon. click to expand
Haha is it that bad? how does it feel to have a sagg moon with your gemini sun
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Also my Moon is in the 1st House.
And my Sun is in the 8th.
So emotional, unstable and crazy. But I've kind of learned how to balance a bit. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by LethalFantasiaI got highs and lows extreme very often i feel off people too good if they are fake or real i can feel other people their emotions and because of that i can get carried awayPosted by dewiklaessen26It's very hectic.Posted by LethalFantasiaPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by LethalFantasiaPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by LethalFantasiaPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by LethalFantasia
Wow man, it's scary that family can be that bad. You 3 should be like sisters.
I say just ignore them. They seem immature. Maybe in a few years they will change and you guys will become amazing friends.
They are both younger scorpio niece is from my moms family she is 25 my other niece from my dad's side is 22
My other nieces and nephews are all following if i ask one to come and visit me they can never come alone always have to come together and even when together i always feel like the 3th wheel click to expand
Wow, very crazy for family to make one another feel like that. Or maybe it's not uncommon. I don't have a lot of fam-bamz but I'm thankful for the ones I do have because we are not crazy like this lol! And the 25 and 22 are way too old to be acting like that to be honest. Maybe you should just straight up ask them why they treat you like butter. click to expand
I did they just put the blame on me try to reverse and mirror things not gonna work haha click to expand
Damn. Well I say be close with your friends and the people who truly do love you in your life and keep negative people at an arm's length. If they treat you like trash they're not worth the stress imo. click to expand
What sign are you and what is your moonsign btw ? curiosity click to expand
Gemini Sun (I know, DXP suicide being a Gemini on here lol!) and Sag Moon. click to expand
Haha is it that bad? how does it feel to have a sagg moon with your gemini sun
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Also my Moon is in the 1st House.
And my Sun is in the 8th.
So emotional, unstable and crazy. But I've kind of learned how to balance a bit. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistar
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking butter? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
My grandma even said to my niece that if she doesn't like me she should not even come to me just to get gossip because that's what she did 4 years ago and i forgave her for that but i told my niece that i was not feeling very good when she wanted to come over that i have had a lot of things going on which she knew.
I opened up about my emotions and feelings because i thought maybe after 4 years she would finally grow up click to expand
Honestly, I have a very limited interaction with my own family, besides my mom and stepdad. I do so, because it is healthier for me. There is criticism, and then their is tearing someone down because of your own insecurities. Sounds like your family members are intimidated by you, and instead of working on themselves, actively try and bring everyone down to their level.
You can forgive, and its better for you to, but never forget. click to expand
The thing is i have always been happy but also very straight forward my niece on the other hand says things behind my back and in my face she pretends to care about me.
I have been by myself since i was 17 where as she is still living at home at age 25 depending on her rich boyfriend which just left her a month ago.
My scorpio niece has a stellium in the 1st house and het saturn in the 1st house
I have a chiron in the 8th house click to expand
The thing is, why do you care what they say about you? Do they help you pay your bills? Do they add anything to your life that is helpful? Are they there to give you emotional support? If the answer is no to any of those, then why care what they say?
I stopped caring about anyone's opinion that doesn't add benefit to my life along time ago. click to expand
They never supported me in fact i have been the black sheep for many years and i was the one breaking contact with the family because i needed some rest and i didn't want any drama in my life.
Because of that i used to be very hard and cold. Why i care so much is because i hate it when people are fake in my face that's mainly the thing when people are like that i wanna fight them. Since i know myself that i am not perfect and things aren't going well in my life i don't need others to make a fool of me even more i am already hard enough on myself. click to expand
Stay away from the negativity. click to expand
I hate negativity specially my sagg moon i have cut contact click to expand
Good girl- You don't need that butter, it's just going to drag you down. Who has time for that? Be positive and focus on attracting good things into your life. Cutting out the negativity, will be the first weight lifted, in order to help you do that. click to expand
I'm a Virgo with Sagittarius moon Sagittarius ascendant Venus Leo Mars in Libra but i am a 1st and 9th house dominant i am very straight and caring at the same time but people do not always appreciate that they have to take me for granted i genuinely feel i am better off alone sometimes not that i'm a loner but so many people are fake click to expandclick to expandclick to expand
You sound like you're a sweet girl, and you need to stay that way. The people that take advantage of you, are not worthy of you or a minute of your precious time. A little swipe of the hand towards them to avoid their negative energy and walk away- done.
I'm the same way in feeling like I'm better off alone too sometimes, and that's true for recharging moments, reflecting, and just enjoying the alone time and space. But, you're also good with being around people of like mind- same or similar vibration levels, and positive energy.
It's finding the balance.
It sounds like you are off to a good start.
Fake people and users, can kick rocks!
click to expand
I have Chiron in my 8th house i often had to deal with betrayal in my life, it's not that i am naive i just give people another chance because i believe that staying angry and becoming bitter is not the solution.
I let my bitterness and anger out once in a while and it does help to get rid of everything but i feel like if i do it too much i become this cold and hard person that won't let people in anymore.
I am someone that needs time and space to think for myself to recharge to stay true to myself or else i completely lose myself in the process of helping others and in the end i don't get anything back for it but getting back stabbed. I do not expect anything in return as in when i do something i do it because i care for someone same as forgiving someone is my own choice and yes that can be stupid.
I had time where i completely turned into a btch and didn't care about anyone or anybody but that was when i was 17 and my stepdad threw me out of the house because he couldn't accept my mom had left him the year before he already threw my mom out. I take friendships very serious it needs to feel like a cohesive unit a deep bonding where i can express myself without feeling judged but my family always made me feel like i was less.
I also have Aquarius/Leo intercepted in my chart so i never got the chance truly shine click to expandclick to expandclick to expand
You do need to truly shine, you're genuinely beautiful on the inside, as well as the outside.
I have this bookmarked- I need to do some work, but I will be responding more later. I'd like to give it my full attention, and respond from my heart.
I will talk to you soon, but for now- Smile, and have an amazing day. Xo
Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistarPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by nikkistar
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking butter? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
My grandma even said to my niece that if she doesn't like me she should not even come to me just to get gossip because that's what she did 4 years ago and i forgave her for that but i told my niece that i was not feeling very good when she wanted to come over that i have had a lot of things going on which she knew.
I opened up about my emotions and feelings because i thought maybe after 4 years she would finally grow up click to expand
Honestly, I have a very limited interaction with my own family, besides my mom and stepdad. I do so, because it is healthier for me. There is criticism, and then their is tearing someone down because of your own insecurities. Sounds like your family members are intimidated by you, and instead of working on themselves, actively try and bring everyone down to their level.
You can forgive, and its better for you to, but never forget. click to expand
The thing is i have always been happy but also very straight forward my niece on the other hand says things behind my back and in my face she pretends to care about me.
I have been by myself since i was 17 where as she is still living at home at age 25 depending on her rich boyfriend which just left her a month ago.
My scorpio niece has a stellium in the 1st house and het saturn in the 1st house
I have a chiron in the 8th house click to expand
The thing is, why do you care what they say about you? Do they help you pay your bills? Do they add anything to your life that is helpful? Are they there to give you emotional support? If the answer is no to any of those, then why care what they say?
I stopped caring about anyone's opinion that doesn't add benefit to my life along time ago. click to expand
They never supported me in fact i have been the black sheep for many years and i was the one breaking contact with the family because i needed some rest and i didn't want any drama in my life.
Because of that i used to be very hard and cold. Why i care so much is because i hate it when people are fake in my face that's mainly the thing when people are like that i wanna fight them. Since i know myself that i am not perfect and things aren't going well in my life i don't need others to make a fool of me even more i am already hard enough on myself. click to expand
Stay away from the negativity. click to expand
I hate negativity specially my sagg moon i have cut contact click to expand
Good girl- You don't need that butter, it's just going to drag you down. Who has time for that? Be positive and focus on attracting good things into your life. Cutting out the negativity, will be the first weight lifted, in order to help you do that. click to expand
I'm a Virgo with Sagittarius moon Sagittarius ascendant Venus Leo Mars in Libra but i am a 1st and 9th house dominant i am very straight and caring at the same time but people do not always appreciate that they have to take me for granted i genuinely feel i am better off alone sometimes not that i'm a loner but so many people are fake click to expandclick to expandclick to expand
You sound like you're a sweet girl, and you need to stay that way. The people that take advantage of you, are not worthy of you or a minute of your precious time. A little swipe of the hand towards them to avoid their negative energy and walk away- done.
I'm the same way in feeling like I'm better off alone too sometimes, and that's true for recharging moments, reflecting, and just enjoying the alone time and space. But, you're also good with being around people of like mind- same or similar vibration levels, and positive energy.
It's finding the balance.
It sounds like you are off to a good start.
Fake people and users, can kick rocks!
click to expand
I have Chiron in my 8th house i often had to deal with betrayal in my life, it's not that i am naive i just give people another chance because i believe that staying angry and becoming bitter is not the solution.
I let my bitterness and anger out once in a while and it does help to get rid of everything but i feel like if i do it too much i become this cold and hard person that won't let people in anymore.
I am someone that needs time and space to think for myself to recharge to stay true to myself or else i completely lose myself in the process of helping others and in the end i don't get anything back for it but getting back stabbed. I do not expect anything in return as in when i do something i do it because i care for someone same as forgiving someone is my own choice and yes that can be stupid.
I had time where i completely turned into a btch and didn't care about anyone or anybody but that was when i was 17 and my stepdad threw me out of the house because he couldn't accept my mom had left him the year before he already threw my mom out. I take friendships very serious it needs to feel like a cohesive unit a deep bonding where i can express myself without feeling judged but my family always made me feel like i was less.
I also have Aquarius/Leo intercepted in my chart so i never got the chance truly shine click to expandclick to expandclick to expand
You do need to truly shine, you're genuinely beautiful on the inside, as well as the outside.
I have this bookmarked- I need to do some work, but I will be responding more later. I'd like to give it my full attention, and respond from my heart.
I will talk to you soon, but for now- Smile, and have an amazing day. Xo click to expand
@dewiklaessen
“I have Chiron in my 8th house i often had to deal with betrayal in my life, it's not that i am naive i just give people another chance because i believe that staying angry and becoming bitter is not the solution.
I let my bitterness and anger out once in a while and it does help to get rid of everything but i feel like if i do it too much i become this cold and hard person that won't let people in anymore.”
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I used to be that way too, just way too forgiving and giving too many chances. I’m the type of person that hates repeating themselves, and if I get to the point where I have to say something 3 times, you can be sure that you will know I’m done messing around, I mean business and that’s it. I’m like that as far as chances too, even less than that sometimes depending on the circumstances. I believe that once you have made it known what bothers you, or what you’re needing from someone, if things don’t change after that, they’re pretty much telling you they don’t care and they’re disrespecting you. That’s a big NO. I’m gone after that, and they don’t exist. Once you keep giving those chances, you are telling yourself that you don’t deserve respect, and that they have the right to treat you that way. They don’t, but you DO have the choice of making that very clear to them. Silence is the loudest proclamation.
"staying angry and becoming bitter is not the solution”-
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And that’s the thing- it’s when we continue to let others knock us down, that we start to believe what they’re saying about us. It’s difficult not to be bitter after so many times of letting the wrong people in and letting them affect us.
“I am someone that needs time and space to think for myself to recharge to stay true to myself or else i completely lose myself in the process of helping others and in the end i don't get anything back for it but getting back stabbed. I do not expect anything in return as in when i do something i do it because i care for someone same as forgiving someone is my own choice and yes that can be stupid.”
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Some people are not capable of appreciating your generosity and kindness, those are the ones that you don’t want in your life, it will wear you down. It’s sad too, because some of them really can’t even help it. But, that’s not your problem and they will do better with their own kind. You’re above that
“I had time where i completely turned into a btch and didn't care about anyone or anybody but that was when i was 17 and my stepdad threw me out of the house because he couldn't accept my mom had left him the year before he already threw my mom out. I take friendships very serious it needs to feel like a cohesive unit a deep bonding where i can express myself without feeling judged but my family always made me feel like i was less.”
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I can only imagine how painful that was for you, to have your own stepdad turn his back on you like that. I’m so sorry you had to go through that, and I’m pretty much shocked that you are as sweet as you are, and still have such a good heart. Not everyone can say that they’ve been through abandonment like that, and as a result still managed to grow up basically raising themselves and being the only one there for themselves, without turning to something negative that helps you escape that pain.
Dewiklaessen- Please pay attention- You should be proud of yourself, you are an example of the type of person and gentle soul that we need more of in this world. YOU have done it ALL on YOUR OWN, Own that, and please do not let those toxic energies back into your life. At least, not unless they have opened their eyes and THEY make the changes, and start respecting you and treating you the way you deserve. They don’t deserve to have you and your light in their presence. Love Yourself, and know that all of their choices and behaviors, have nothing to do with you, nothing was your fault, especially what your stepdad did to you when he made you leave, when you were basically a child. It infuriates me to even think of that.
You are a beautiful girl, as I’ve said before and you have so much going for you. Find your life purpose, and run wit that. Also, be there now for that little girl (YOU) that didn’t have anyone there for her growing up. Giver her that Unconditional Love she was looking for and needed.
“I have Chiron in my 8th house i often had to deal with betrayal in my life, it's not that i am naive i just give people another chance because i believe that staying angry and becoming bitter is not the solution.
I let my bitterness and anger out once in a while and it does help to get rid of everything but i feel like if i do it too much i become this cold and hard person that won't let people in anymore.”
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I used to be that way too, just way too forgiving and giving too many chances. I’m the type of person that hates repeating themselves, and if I get to the point where I have to say something 3 times, you can be sure that you will know I’m done messing around, I mean business and that’s it. I’m like that as far as chances too, even less than that sometimes depending on the circumstances. I believe that once you have made it known what bothers you, or what you’re needing from someone, if things don’t change after that, they’re pretty much telling you they don’t care and they’re disrespecting you. That’s a big NO. I’m gone after that, and they don’t exist. Once you keep giving those chances, you are telling yourself that you don’t deserve respect, and that they have the right to treat you that way. They don’t, but you DO have the choice of making that very clear to them. Silence is the loudest proclamation.
"staying angry and becoming bitter is not the solution”-
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And that’s the thing- it’s when we continue to let others knock us down, that we start to believe what they’re saying about us. It’s difficult not to be bitter after so many times of letting the wrong people in and letting them affect us.
“I am someone that needs time and space to think for myself to recharge to stay true to myself or else i completely lose myself in the process of helping others and in the end i don't get anything back for it but getting back stabbed. I do not expect anything in return as in when i do something i do it because i care for someone same as forgiving someone is my own choice and yes that can be stupid.”
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Some people are not capable of appreciating your generosity and kindness, those are the ones that you don’t want in your life, it will wear you down. It’s sad too, because some of them really can’t even help it. But, that’s not your problem and they will do better with their own kind. You’re above that
“I had time where i completely turned into a btch and didn't care about anyone or anybody but that was when i was 17 and my stepdad threw me out of the house because he couldn't accept my mom had left him the year before he already threw my mom out. I take friendships very serious it needs to feel like a cohesive unit a deep bonding where i can express myself without feeling judged but my family always made me feel like i was less.”
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I can only imagine how painful that was for you, to have your own stepdad turn his back on you like that. I’m so sorry you had to go through that, and I’m pretty much shocked that you are as sweet as you are, and still have such a good heart. Not everyone can say that they’ve been through abandonment like that, and as a result still managed to grow up basically raising themselves and being the only one there for themselves, without turning to something negative that helps you escape that pain.
Dewiklaessen- Please pay attention- You should be proud of yourself, you are an example of the type of person and gentle soul that we need more of in this world. YOU have done it ALL on YOUR OWN, Own that, and please do not let those toxic energies back into your life. At least, not unless they have opened their eyes and THEY make the changes, and start respecting you and treating you the way you deserve. They don’t deserve to have you and your light in their presence. Love Yourself, and know that all of their choices and behaviors, have nothing to do with you, nothing was your fault, especially what your stepdad did to you when he made you leave, when you were basically a child. It infuriates me to even think of that.
You are a beautiful girl, as I’ve said before and you have so much going for you. Find your life purpose, and run wit that. Also, be there now for that little girl (YOU) that didn’t have anyone there for her growing up. Giver her that Unconditional Love she was looking for and needed.
@NostalgicCappyy
thank you for your time and thank you for reading into my long messages haha I sometimes write whole paragraphs sorry for that. I just have a lot to tell and a lot to ask and not everybody is willing to answer or talk to me I have to be honest I've lost myself for a while now since Saturn has entered my 1st house for about 2 years now also uranus has been in my 4th house for 7/8 years now which is too damn long to handle, my home life and family life has been chaotic didn't get a single moment of rest. I know I'm complaining a lot but my life hasn't been very positive even though I try to be positive. Do you mind if you private message you and tell you a bit more about myself? Xo
thank you for your time and thank you for reading into my long messages haha I sometimes write whole paragraphs sorry for that. I just have a lot to tell and a lot to ask and not everybody is willing to answer or talk to me I have to be honest I've lost myself for a while now since Saturn has entered my 1st house for about 2 years now also uranus has been in my 4th house for 7/8 years now which is too damn long to handle, my home life and family life has been chaotic didn't get a single moment of rest. I know I'm complaining a lot but my life hasn't been very positive even though I try to be positive. Do you mind if you private message you and tell you a bit more about myself? Xo
Posted by NostalgicCappyyI sometimes feel like I'm asking too much from people I'm so afraid to ask for help. All I hear constantly is that everybody is going through things in their life that it's normal. But I never get to truly express my pain and need for love I never feel like it's a safe place for me to open up and be fully vulnerable. I try to do my best to be me but on my way I've lost myself for the second time now and I have a hard time finding myself back. I've been dealing with a burn out since 2 years ago and things are getting better but because of all that happened I have a hard time thinking about myself. In fact I forget myself I put others first as in result I do not move the way I would want to. I'm 26 and I feel old already like time had passed me by like I need to hurry. I am restless and constantly thinking how to improve my life and myself.
@dewiklaessen
“I have Chiron in my 8th house i often had to deal with betrayal in my life, it's not that i am naive i just give people another chance because i believe that staying angry and becoming bitter is not the solution.
I let my bitterness and anger out once in a while and it does help to get rid of everything but i feel like if i do it too much i become this cold and hard person that won't let people in anymore.”
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I used to be that way too, just way too forgiving and giving too many chances. I’m the type of person that hates repeating themselves, and if I get to the point where I have to say something 3 times, you can be sure that you will know I’m done messing around, I mean business and that’s it. I’m like that as far as chances too, even less than that sometimes depending on the circumstances. I believe that once you have made it known what bothers you, or what you’re needing from someone, if things don’t change after that, they’re pretty much telling you they don’t care and they’re disrespecting you. That’s a big NO. I’m gone after that, and they don’t exist. Once you keep giving those chances, you are telling yourself that you don’t deserve respect, and that they have the right to treat you that way. They don’t, but you DO have the choice of making that very clear to them. Silence is the loudest proclamation.
"staying angry and becoming bitter is not the solution”-
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And that’s the thing- it’s when we continue to let others knock us down, that we start to believe what they’re saying about us. It’s difficult not to be bitter after so many times of letting the wrong people in and letting them affect us.
“I am someone that needs time and space to think for myself to recharge to stay true to myself or else i completely lose myself in the process of helping others and in the end i don't get anything back for it but getting back stabbed. I do not expect anything in return as in when i do something i do it because i care for someone same as forgiving someone is my own choice and yes that can be stupid.”
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Some people are not capable of appreciating your generosity and kindness, those are the ones that you don’t want in your life, it will wear you down. It’s sad too, because some of them really can’t even help it. But, that’s not your problem and they will do better with their own kind. You’re above that
“I had time where i completely turned into a btch and didn't care about anyone or anybody but that was when i was 17 and my stepdad threw me out of the house because he couldn't accept my mom had left him the year before he already threw my mom out. I take friendships very serious it needs to feel like a cohesive unit a deep bonding where i can express myself without feeling judged but my family always made me feel like i was less.”
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I can only imagine how painful that was for you, to have your own stepdad turn his back on you like that. I’m so sorry you had to go through that, and I’m pretty much shocked that you are as sweet as you are, and still have such a good heart. Not everyone can say that they’ve been through abandonment like that, and as a result still managed to grow up basically raising themselves and being the only one there for themselves, without turning to something negative that helps you escape that pain.
Dewiklaessen- Please pay attention- You should be proud of yourself, you are an example of the type of person and gentle soul that we need more of in this world. YOU have done it ALL on YOUR OWN, Own that, and please do not let those toxic energies back into your life. At least, not unless they have opened their eyes and THEY make the changes, and start respecting you and treating you the way you deserve. They don’t deserve to have you and your light in their presence. Love Yourself, and know that all of their choices and behaviors, have nothing to do with you, nothing was your fault, especially what your stepdad did to you when he made you leave, when you were basically a child. It infuriates me to even think of that.
You are a beautiful girl, as I’ve said before and you have so much going for you. Find your life purpose, and run wit that. Also, be there now for that little girl (YOU) that didn’t have anyone there for her growing up. Giver her that Unconditional Love she was looking for and needed.
Posted by dewiklaessen26Posted by NostalgicCappyy
@dewiklaessen
“I have Chiron in my 8th house i often had to deal with betrayal in my life, it's not that i am naive i just give people another chance because i believe that staying angry and becoming bitter is not the solution.
I let my bitterness and anger out once in a while and it does help to get rid of everything but i feel like if i do it too much i become this cold and hard person that won't let people in anymore.”
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I used to be that way too, just way too forgiving and giving too many chances. I’m the type of person that hates repeating themselves, and if I get to the point where I have to say something 3 times, you can be sure that you will know I’m done messing around, I mean business and that’s it. I’m like that as far as chances too, even less than that sometimes depending on the circumstances. I believe that once you have made it known what bothers you, or what you’re needing from someone, if things don’t change after that, they’re pretty much telling you they don’t care and they’re disrespecting you. That’s a big NO. I’m gone after that, and they don’t exist. Once you keep giving those chances, you are telling yourself that you don’t deserve respect, and that they have the right to treat you that way. They don’t, but you DO have the choice of making that very clear to them. Silence is the loudest proclamation.
"staying angry and becoming bitter is not the solution”-
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And that’s the thing- it’s when we continue to let others knock us down, that we start to believe what they’re saying about us. It’s difficult not to be bitter after so many times of letting the wrong people in and letting them affect us.
“I am someone that needs time and space to think for myself to recharge to stay true to myself or else i completely lose myself in the process of helping others and in the end i don't get anything back for it but getting back stabbed. I do not expect anything in return as in when i do something i do it because i care for someone same as forgiving someone is my own choice and yes that can be stupid.”
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Some people are not capable of appreciating your generosity and kindness, those are the ones that you don’t want in your life, it will wear you down. It’s sad too, because some of them really can’t even help it. But, that’s not your problem and they will do better with their own kind. You’re above that
“I had time where i completely turned into a btch and didn't care about anyone or anybody but that was when i was 17 and my stepdad threw me out of the house because he couldn't accept my mom had left him the year before he already threw my mom out. I take friendships very serious it needs to feel like a cohesive unit a deep bonding where i can express myself without feeling judged but my family always made me feel like i was less.”
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I can only imagine how painful that was for you, to have your own stepdad turn his back on you like that. I’m so sorry you had to go through that, and I’m pretty much shocked that you are as sweet as you are, and still have such a good heart. Not everyone can say that they’ve been through abandonment like that, and as a result still managed to grow up basically raising themselves and being the only one there for themselves, without turning to something negative that helps you escape that pain.
Dewiklaessen- Please pay attention- You should be proud of yourself, you are an example of the type of person and gentle soul that we need more of in this world. YOU have done it ALL on YOUR OWN, Own that, and please do not let those toxic energies back into your life. At least, not unless they have opened their eyes and THEY make the changes, and start respecting you and treating you the way you deserve. They don’t deserve to have you and your light in their presence. Love Yourself, and know that all of their choices and behaviors, have nothing to do with you, nothing was your fault, especially what your stepdad did to you when he made you leave, when you were basically a child. It infuriates me to even think of that.
You are a beautiful girl, as I’ve said before and you have so much going for you. Find your life purpose, and run wit that. Also, be there now for that little girl (YOU) that didn’t have anyone there for her growing up. Giver her that Unconditional Love she was looking for and needed.
I sometimes feel like I'm asking too much from people I'm so afraid to ask for help. All I hear constantly is that everybody is going through things in their life that it's normal. But I never get to truly express my pain and need for love I never feel like it's a safe place for me to open up and be fully vulnerable. I try to do my best to be me but on my way I've lost myself for the second time now and I have a hard time finding myself back. I've been dealing with a burn out since 2 years ago and things are getting better but because of all that happened I have a hard time thinking about myself. In fact I forget myself I put others first as in result I do not move the way I would want to. I'm 26 and I feel old already like time had passed me by like I need to hurry. I am restless and constantly thinking how to improve my life and myself. click to expandclick to expandclick to expand
Can I PM you?
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an infinity pool would be nice
Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by NostalgicCappyy
@dewiklaessen
“I have Chiron in my 8th house i often had to deal with betrayal in my life, it's not that i am naive i just give people another chance because i believe that staying angry and becoming bitter is not the solution.
I let my bitterness and anger out once in a while and it does help to get rid of everything but i feel like if i do it too much i become this cold and hard person that won't let people in anymore.”
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I used to be that way too, just way too forgiving and giving too many chances. I’m the type of person that hates repeating themselves, and if I get to the point where I have to say something 3 times, you can be sure that you will know I’m done messing around, I mean business and that’s it. I’m like that as far as chances too, even less than that sometimes depending on the circumstances. I believe that once you have made it known what bothers you, or what you’re needing from someone, if things don’t change after that, they’re pretty much telling you they don’t care and they’re disrespecting you. That’s a big NO. I’m gone after that, and they don’t exist. Once you keep giving those chances, you are telling yourself that you don’t deserve respect, and that they have the right to treat you that way. They don’t, but you DO have the choice of making that very clear to them. Silence is the loudest proclamation.
"staying angry and becoming bitter is not the solution”-
------
---
And that’s the thing- it’s when we continue to let others knock us down, that we start to believe what they’re saying about us. It’s difficult not to be bitter after so many times of letting the wrong people in and letting them affect us.
“I am someone that needs time and space to think for myself to recharge to stay true to myself or else i completely lose myself in the process of helping others and in the end i don't get anything back for it but getting back stabbed. I do not expect anything in return as in when i do something i do it because i care for someone same as forgiving someone is my own choice and yes that can be stupid.”
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Some people are not capable of appreciating your generosity and kindness, those are the ones that you don’t want in your life, it will wear you down. It’s sad too, because some of them really can’t even help it. But, that’s not your problem and they will do better with their own kind. You’re above that
“I had time where i completely turned into a btch and didn't care about anyone or anybody but that was when i was 17 and my stepdad threw me out of the house because he couldn't accept my mom had left him the year before he already threw my mom out. I take friendships very serious it needs to feel like a cohesive unit a deep bonding where i can express myself without feeling judged but my family always made me feel like i was less.”
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I can only imagine how painful that was for you, to have your own stepdad turn his back on you like that. I’m so sorry you had to go through that, and I’m pretty much shocked that you are as sweet as you are, and still have such a good heart. Not everyone can say that they’ve been through abandonment like that, and as a result still managed to grow up basically raising themselves and being the only one there for themselves, without turning to something negative that helps you escape that pain.
Dewiklaessen- Please pay attention- You should be proud of yourself, you are an example of the type of person and gentle soul that we need more of in this world. YOU have done it ALL on YOUR OWN, Own that, and please do not let those toxic energies back into your life. At least, not unless they have opened their eyes and THEY make the changes, and start respecting you and treating you the way you deserve. They don’t deserve to have you and your light in their presence. Love Yourself, and know that all of their choices and behaviors, have nothing to do with you, nothing was your fault, especially what your stepdad did to you when he made you leave, when you were basically a child. It infuriates me to even think of that.
You are a beautiful girl, as I’ve said before and you have so much going for you. Find your life purpose, and run wit that. Also, be there now for that little girl (YOU) that didn’t have anyone there for her growing up. Giver her that Unconditional Love she was looking for and needed.
I sometimes feel like I'm asking too much from people I'm so afraid to ask for help. All I hear constantly is that everybody is going through things in their life that it's normal. But I never get to truly express my pain and need for love I never feel like it's a safe place for me to open up and be fully vulnerable. I try to do my best to be me but on my way I've lost myself for the second time now and I have a hard time finding myself back. I've been dealing with a burn out since 2 years ago and things are getting better but because of all that happened I have a hard time thinking about myself. In fact I forget myself I put others first as in result I do not move the way I would want to. I'm 26 and I feel old already like time had passed me by like I need to hurry. I am restless and constantly thinking how to improve my life and myself. click to expandclick to expand
Can I PM you? click to expandclick to expand
ofcourse
Posted by dewiklaessen26Using a man for it or getting herself?Posted by EtherealTraveler
Pisces mooners ik are gold diggers, I think depending on their placements, they can also be crafty about it
Maybe Pisces aspects and Mercury and Earth based aspects?
I know an aquarius who has a pisces moon she is all about money what about venus ? click to expandclick to expand
Posted by STILLusingPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by EtherealTraveler
Pisces mooners ik are gold diggers, I think depending on their placements, they can also be crafty about it
Maybe Pisces aspects and Mercury and Earth based aspects?
I know an aquarius who has a pisces moon she is all about money what about venus ? click to expand
Using a man for it or getting herself? click to expandclick to expand
Posted by dewiklaessen26😲Posted by STILLPosted by dewiklaessen26Posted by EtherealTraveler
Pisces mooners ik are gold diggers, I think depending on their placements, they can also be crafty about it
Maybe Pisces aspects and Mercury and Earth based aspects?
I know an aquarius who has a pisces moon she is all about money what about venus ? click to expand
Using a man for it or getting herself? click to expand
using click to expandclick to expand
Posted by OrGasMePosted by nikkistar
I'm confused, you talk about two of your nieces, but then follow up about an aunt having a stroke. How does the aunt have anything to do with your nieces talking butter? Is that their mom, making you their great aunt? If so, is she as bad as they are, or learned that type of behavior from her?
Just trying to get clarification here. From what I know, 10th house is the place of reputation. Don't quote me on that, but how the world views them materialistically is of the upmost importance. They sound like the types that would have very expensive cars, shoes, clothing, but driving around on 1/4th tank of gas all the time with their utilities perpetually 30 days late.
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lol
that's Donald trump's dominant houses. 😛 😆
he's a billionaire though.. maybe he got someone to help make his utilities ..
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Post your fav po boy or sandwich images I guess.
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Today I performed my first comedy standup show.
I've been up to ALOT creatively lately. Ppl say standup is hard but I found it rather fluid and enjoyable.
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@Squishy_Marshmallow
I tried to dm you but I don't think it worked but anyway, I think you're a sweet, beautiful, and genuine person and I was wondering if you can take a look at my charts on my page? What can you tell about me based on my chart and its
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8.
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♡ Venus in Aries
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look at the roles below ....do you relate to them ...how does it relate to your chart ...if you were picking a role ...do you feel like you would do it based on sun, moon, mars?
*Good
leo (“the crusader” - lawful good)
A lawful good character ac
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