The Basis of a Relationship

I ask two questions, one for single individuals, and another for partnered.

Partnered people:

What is the basis of the relationship with your lover?

Single people:

What is your ideal basis of an intimate relationship?

When you post in this topic, do so following these guidelines:

1. State whether you are partnered by typing " p' " or single by typing " s' " above your answer.

2. State your Sun, Moon, Mars, Mercury, and Venus

3. If you are heavily influenced by Pluto, say so.

4. Go deep if you want. Use this topic to explore yourself and allow other Dxpnet members to learn from your perception.

Posted by TheLibraMudra
My aqua moon can't handle your fucking rules. Can I just answer how the fuck I want? Lol jk

I'm glad you answered like this. The way I present topics have ulterior motives 😉

...no.

This post is the equivalent of Ikea furniture directions.

Posted by Shaun1994
I ask two questions, one for single individuals, and another for partnered.

Single people:

What is your ideal basis of an intimate relationship?

When you post in this topic, do so following these guidelines:

1. State whether you are partnered by typing " p' " or single by typing " s' " above your answer.

2. State your Sun, Moon, Mars, Mercury, and Venus

3. If you are heavily influenced by Pluto, say so.

4. Go deep if you want. Use this topic to explore yourself and allow other Dxpnet members to learn from your perception.

Single

1. I value trust, loyalty, compatibility. I also cant fight all the time and I dont find it invigorating

2. Sun Cancer, Moon Pisces, Mercury Cancer, Venus Leo

3. NOT heavily influenced by Pluto

4. Please only ask for faster or slower, not deeper, thx

P

Aqua sun, cap moon/venus/mercury, sag mars.

Simple to answer. Our basis is our deep seated desire for a lifelong commitment build on trust, respect and love. We both helped eachother to heal old wounds and open up again.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
...no.

This post is the equivalent of Ikea furniture directions.

Is your natal Uranus squaring your personal planets, by any chance? Or is your sun represented by an animal with horns?

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No idea. But yes to the latter.

Trust and Respect.

S

I value companionship, mutuality, and conversation, with heavy doses of tenderness, romance and stability. I'd love someone who's patient with my flaws and helps me to become the best I can be while I do the same for him, ie. a true partner in every sense of the word.

Sun - Tau. Moon - Aries. Mer. Tau. Venus Pisces. No aspects to Pluto.

P

Leo sun, cap moon, leo mars, virgo merc, libra venus

Mutual respect and acceptance, throw in a good dose of sexual attraction

Not heavy pluto, but it's well aspected.

Singular-

No expectations.

Boring encounters and sharing a bookshelf is prerequisite.

Must like coffee and naps.

Otherwise do you and call me occasionally for adventures or gap fill.

Leo sun, Cancer moonbeam, Saggy mars, Virgin venus...

Status :no fucks to give.

Posted by Shaun1994
I ask two questions, one for single individuals, and another for partnered.

Partnered people:

What is the basis of the relationship with your lover?

Single people:

What is your ideal basis of an intimate relationship?

When you post in this topic, do so following these guidelines:

1. State whether you are partnered by typing " p' " or single by typing " s' " above your answer.

2. State your Sun, Moon, Mars, Mercury, and Venus

3. If you are heavily influenced by Pluto, say so.

4. Go deep if you want. Use this topic to explore yourself and allow other Dxpnet members to learn from your perception.

1. S

2. on my Avi

3. I don't know

4. go deep ? would love to if I had a partner

1. Single

2. Cap sun, Aries moon, cap merc +venus, Scorpio mars, Leo rising

3. No idea

I think the basis for a relationship would be to love and respect each other. Mutual agreements. Just be ok with how each one lives their life. The utmost ideal relationship? Someone who brings out the best in you and lets you be yourself at all times. They inspire you or you inspire them. You're only willing and more than happy to work with them because you really want to be around them. You could fall in love and not hurt yourself doing so.

Partnered.

Cancer sun, leo moon, cancer venus, taurus mars, leo mercury

The basis of our relationship is respect and love. We hate arguing to the point where some conversations aren't had because we don't want to argue. Sometimes not a good thing! We're there for eachother emotionally and lots of cuddles are had.

Thank you so much, everyone. All your responses are very much appreciated and still being thought about. I'll post my basis once I feel ready.

Posted by fallbaby
1. S

2. Scorpio sun, Aries moon, Scorpio mars, Scorpio mercury, Libra venus

3. Pluto is also in Scorpio, and in total I think I have 5 planets in Scorpio?...so I might be heavily influenced by it.

4. Trust and respect are the basis of any relationship, be it between family members, friends or lovers. You can never genuinely love someone if there isn't a mutual exchange of both.

Trusting and respecting one another allows for freedom of expression, which follows a sense of safety and security... All of those things can't exist without those two basic elements of a relationship first, though.

YES