
You are with the wrong girl. Sorry.


Posted by raad182I am sorry but I really don't think you have it in you...Posted by pisceswoman123Thanks for your inputs btw but you didn't say how do you expect a man to dominate you, clarify pleasePosted by AerialViewWhat can I say? I give up. LolPosted by raad182i hear ya lolPosted by AerialViewGrowing up sucks!Posted by raad182ahaha i'm sorry raad. you know me can't be too serious.Posted by AerialViewLOL, Always waiting for my threads to throw a joke but never a truly opinion
lessons learnt. do not watch 300 again with her.
my opinion is you should man up. maybe she wanted you to be mad or at least scold her every time she do all those things you said. put her back in her place. you're the man lol.click to expand

Posted by pisceswoman123are you a mermaid?Posted by raad182Maybe that is why I am very feminine. I am a Pisces after all with a Taurus moon.Posted by pisceswoman123Good for him, thats not my definition of femininity...Taurus/Câncer/Pisces energy is feminine IMO just to illustratePosted by raad182I am super feminine. More than any of my girls friends. So that has nothing to do with it.Posted by pisceswoman123Agreed...I want my GF to be feminine not a tomboyPosted by raad182I think you are right. You are not man enough for her.Posted by pisceswoman123Well, so I dont see this relationship going well. I really dislike the fact that my GF like to be around males even with my mates, I wouldn't like to think that she is walking around talking, meeting and having fun with men that deep down just want an excuse to have sex with her...thats not for me, maybe im not " man " enough to deal with itPosted by raad182Because you can not control her or tell her what to do.Posted by pisceswoman123How could I do this? As a Venus in Aries please tell me
“I was born with an enormous need for affection and a terrible need to give it.”- Audrey Hepburn, Venus in Aries
I think she may want you to be the man! She is trying to dominate you but she wants you to win. She wants the challenge. She wants the fight.
A bit more passion. She is trying to make trouble so you step up and dominate her.
I've tried but she Always say that im trying to take out her freedom
I think you need to be more sexually aggressive. It seems like she is trying to challenge you.
Another thing is we like to be one of the boys. We like male energy. Nothing better for me to be with my man and his mates. That is fun. But at the same time we are super feminine and we want to be treated as a woman. Don't get jealous about her having male friends. We wouldn't understand it. You are her man. Nothing to be jealous about.
You are both young and want to control.
I need my man to be completely secure of what we have so he wouldn't feel intimidated about me having male friends.
I am happy with male energy. More dinamic? I found conversation much more fun?
But my man feels proud of me because of it, not intimidated.
I am a woman, woman. I know what I want and I need a stong man that doesn't control me.
What can I say... I think you want some one different. I don't think she will make you happy.
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Posted by AerialViewLol. Definitely not.Posted by pisceswoman123are you a mermaid?Posted by raad182Maybe that is why I am very feminine. I am a Pisces after all with a Taurus moon.Posted by pisceswoman123Good for him, thats not my definition of femininity...Taurus/Câncer/Pisces energy is feminine IMO just to illustratePosted by raad182I am super feminine. More than any of my girls friends. So that has nothing to do with it.Posted by pisceswoman123Agreed...I want my GF to be feminine not a tomboyPosted by raad182I think you are right. You are not man enough for her.Posted by pisceswoman123Well, so I dont see this relationship going well. I really dislike the fact that my GF like to be around males even with my mates, I wouldn't like to think that she is walking around talking, meeting and having fun with men that deep down just want an excuse to have sex with her...thats not for me, maybe im not " man " enough to deal with itPosted by raad182Because you can not control her or tell her what to do.Posted by pisceswoman123How could I do this? As a Venus in Aries please tell me
“I was born with an enormous need for affection and a terrible need to give it.”- Audrey Hepburn, Venus in Aries
I think she may want you to be the man! She is trying to dominate you but she wants you to win. She wants the challenge. She wants the fight.
A bit more passion. She is trying to make trouble so you step up and dominate her.
I've tried but she Always say that im trying to take out her freedom
I think you need to be more sexually aggressive. It seems like she is trying to challenge you.
Another thing is we like to be one of the boys. We like male energy. Nothing better for me to be with my man and his mates. That is fun. But at the same time we are super feminine and we want to be treated as a woman. Don't get jealous about her having male friends. We wouldn't understand it. You are her man. Nothing to be jealous about.
You are both young and want to control.
I need my man to be completely secure of what we have so he wouldn't feel intimidated about me having male friends.
I am happy with male energy. More dinamic? I found conversation much more fun?
But my man feels proud of me because of it, not intimidated.
I am a woman, woman. I know what I want and I need a stong man that doesn't control me.
What can I say... I think you want some one different. I don't think she will make you happy.
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Posted by DonumDeiI know exactly what you mean. 😊Posted by pisceswoman123I find the bolded part to be very accurate and it’s kind of funny in a sense that many years before I ‘discovered’ astrology, I remarked to my then long term partner (Sun in Leo) how much I appreciated his endorsement of my intermittent bouts of effection.
“I was born with an enormous need for affection and a terrible need to give it.”- Audrey Hepburn, Venus in Aries
He would soak it all up like parched soil and in turn I was elated that in doing so, he made me feel at ease!
Aqua Sun with Venus in Aries was right up there in terms of understanding and reciprocating.click to expand

Posted by raad182Immature. She has alot to learn 🙂 hopefully she doesn't lose a good man in the process. She's ruled by her ego.Posted by LibraLovesHimYeah, she has these bad traits not so young (22) 4 years younger than mePosted by raad182She sounds selfish, unbending, uncompromising. All of which are bad traits to even begin and try to embrace a happy relationship. Is she young?Posted by KoniuchaaYeah and she is very passive about it, once she said to me I will never ask for a man to stay, if you him want to leave just leave. She has Neptune and Uranus in the 1st house so she is quite unreliable and " accept " the life changes passively
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Posted by LibraLovesHimThanks!Posted by raad182Immature. She has alot to learn 🙂 hopefully she doesn't lose a good man in the process. She's ruled by her ego.Posted by LibraLovesHimYeah, she has these bad traits not so young (22) 4 years younger than mePosted by raad182She sounds selfish, unbending, uncompromising. All of which are bad traits to even begin and try to embrace a happy relationship. Is she young?Posted by KoniuchaaYeah and she is very passive about it, once she said to me I will never ask for a man to stay, if you him want to leave just leave. She has Neptune and Uranus in the 1st house so she is quite unreliable and " accept " the life changes passively
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Posted by edgelordMales want to fuck her...thats my point
what difference does it make it her friends are male or female? it's not like she's fucking anybody but you. you insecure pussy! jeez. 😛
Posted by greylaternYeah, She is Always looking for the spotlight and when she got someone's attention, she seems very happy.
You have aries sun. You should understand the parts of her in aries. She feels misunderstood and you understand her. She chases you down didn't she?
Does she seem proud and fishes for compliments alot?
Posted by ItsMeRomanjeez, what is your sun and mars? Sorry but you sounds like a hoe to me
Sorry OP but as an Aries Venus woman myself. You sound like you have a passive vagina for a brain and penis.
I don't think I could date a man that cries and complaints about every little thing. It's annoying to see grown men like you not be able to handle anyone with an opinion or their own backbone.
If she seems disinterested in sex it's probably because she's not turned on by something you do.
A cap ex I dated had a breathing issue that was so annoying to hear. It was as if he had a deviated septum from doing too much Coke and was a seriously heavy breather. If repulsed me to no end. The sex drive quickly went downhill the more he'd made sounds and get into it. 😩
Aries Venus people tend to get a rap for being horny people that are down to fuck like animals anytime any day and that's not the case. Aries Venus opens up sexually when trust is built and they feel secure and loved/adored.
Sounds like you two need to break up so you can let her free and she can find better dicks/love.

Posted by raad182You shouldn't cheat and you shouldn't be anything else other than yourself. Make the adjustments you have to do as you are growing up but don't be someone you aren't. And I suggest you stop blaming your placements for whatever behaviour is happening. Yes it's nice to have an interest in astrology and see patterns repeating. But at the end of the day and when the heat is up you are the one there. Not chiron or venus. Face the problems from the front. You can resolve them or not but don't go around in circles.Posted by ItsMeRomanjeez, what is your sun and mars? Sorry but you sounds like a hoe to me
Sorry OP but as an Aries Venus woman myself. You sound like you have a passive vagina for a brain and penis.
I don't think I could date a man that cries and complaints about every little thing. It's annoying to see grown men like you not be able to handle anyone with an opinion or their own backbone.
If she seems disinterested in sex it's probably because she's not turned on by something you do.
A cap ex I dated had a breathing issue that was so annoying to hear. It was as if he had a deviated septum from doing too much Coke and was a seriously heavy breather. If repulsed me to no end. The sex drive quickly went downhill the more he'd made sounds and get into it. 😩
Aries Venus people tend to get a rap for being horny people that are down to fuck like animals anytime any day and that's not the case. Aries Venus opens up sexually when trust is built and they feel secure and loved/adored.
Sounds like you two need to break up so you can let her free and she can find better dicks/love.
She isn't like that, don't forget that she has a taurus sun. She is quite selective about her partners but I have to agree that she dislike when I complain like a little bitch and when I look back I feel shame of my acts but I think this is more related to my Chiron in Câncer 2nd house. She likes fighters and I really look like a fighter but my weak spot is that Im too emo sometimes but this is what makes me loyal to her too...If I would act like an Aries man as she wants, I would cheat on her but she would be more happy...
Should I cheat on her and live on my Aries instinct? I have it in the 11th house so quite detached, wouldnt be a problem for me if I wasnt too emo (that she hates).click to expand
Posted by carrazedaI wasnt trying to offend her, she just sounded like a hoe IMO and I know that life isnt just astrology but here is an Astrology forum so I try to relate everything to it to make sense to the users here.Posted by raad182You shouldn't cheat and you shouldn't be anything else other than yourself. Make the adjustments you have to do as you are growing up but don't be someone you aren't. And I suggest you stop blaming your placements for whatever behaviour is happening. Yes it's nice to have an interest in astrology and see patterns repeating. But at the end of the day and when the heat is up you are the one there. Not chiron or venus. Face the problems from the front. You can resolve them or not but don't go around in circles.Posted by ItsMeRomanjeez, what is your sun and mars? Sorry but you sounds like a hoe to me
Sorry OP but as an Aries Venus woman myself. You sound like you have a passive vagina for a brain and penis.
I don't think I could date a man that cries and complaints about every little thing. It's annoying to see grown men like you not be able to handle anyone with an opinion or their own backbone.
If she seems disinterested in sex it's probably because she's not turned on by something you do.
A cap ex I dated had a breathing issue that was so annoying to hear. It was as if he had a deviated septum from doing too much Coke and was a seriously heavy breather. If repulsed me to no end. The sex drive quickly went downhill the more he'd made sounds and get into it. 😩
Aries Venus people tend to get a rap for being horny people that are down to fuck like animals anytime any day and that's not the case. Aries Venus opens up sexually when trust is built and they feel secure and loved/adored.
Sounds like you two need to break up so you can let her free and she can find better dicks/love.
She isn't like that, don't forget that she has a taurus sun. She is quite selective about her partners but I have to agree that she dislike when I complain like a little bitch and when I look back I feel shame of my acts but I think this is more related to my Chiron in Câncer 2nd house. She likes fighters and I really look like a fighter but my weak spot is that Im too emo sometimes but this is what makes me loyal to her too...If I would act like an Aries man as she wants, I would cheat on her but she would be more happy...
Should I cheat on her and live on my Aries instinct? I have it in the 11th house so quite detached, wouldnt be a problem for me if I wasnt too emo (that she hates).
And @ItsMeRoman was just trying to help you. She doesn't sound like a hoe. She sounds like someone who took a couple of minutes to give you some advice. Tough advice? Yes, but it was meant to help you.click to expand
Posted by edgelordI wouldn't mind if she had fun with other girl or has a side chick, totally ok for me but D only mine.Posted by raad182the point is not that they want to. i'm sure she has female friends that want to as well. bisexuality is very common now. the issue is your insecurity assuming people want to fuck her. which is not her fault. it's you being a little pussy.Posted by edgelordMales want to fuck her...thats my point
what difference does it make it her friends are male or female? it's not like she's fucking anybody but you. you insecure pussy! jeez. 😛click to expand
Posted by edgelordlol, im seriousPosted by raad182*headdesk* 😐Posted by edgelordI wouldn't mind if she had fun with other girl or has a side chick, totally ok for me but D only mine.Posted by raad182the point is not that they want to. i'm sure she has female friends that want to as well. bisexuality is very common now. the issue is your insecurity assuming people want to fuck her. which is not her fault. it's you being a little pussy.Posted by edgelordMales want to fuck her...thats my point
what difference does it make it her friends are male or female? it's not like she's fucking anybody but you. you insecure pussy! jeez. 😛
I've talked to her like a true Aries...I think that she got the message now
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Posted by Koniuchaai know and im totally okay with that
You are ridiculous, by the way
Posted by FragranceWanting to be treated like a royalty or being attracted to the douchebag type is totally Leo Mars. I would relate to Aries Venus the need to see me angry, to have little fights or to flirt and act like a horny dog.
What are her venus aspects? I can't possibly assimilate the idea of anything aries desiring to be treated like a royalty. This placement doesn't need to be flattered, only respected. Date logistics and conditions don't bear much importance as long as there's a sense of romance. Furthermore, venus in aries wanting to be "put on her place"? That's rather her leo mars. They may be charmed by the conceited douchebag type
Why would you flirt with other girls if you really like her?
She sounds like a thrill-seeker, a more assertive, independent lady. As Koni said, it's not okay if you want to change her...
Your scorp moon has already started with the plotting... calculative approach to relationships...

Posted by raad182Dude stop.Posted by Koniuchaai know and im totally okay with that
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Posted by raad182A committed person won't act like a horny dog... aries venus is capable of commitment just like any other venus placement. I have aries venus in the 5th house and I hate seeing my bf angry because it hurts me. I agree about the little fights though, I think it's because we want to resolve issues as quickly as possible and because of the impulsive urge to express/release emotion/passion. Taurus venus, on the other hand, doesn't want to discuss and prefers to brood for days.Posted by FragranceWanting to be treated like a royalty or being attracted to the douchebag type is totally Leo Mars. I would relate to Aries Venus the need to see me angry, to have little fights or to flirt and act like a horny dog.
What are her venus aspects? I can't possibly assimilate the idea of anything aries desiring to be treated like a royalty. This placement doesn't need to be flattered, only respected. Date logistics and conditions don't bear much importance as long as there's a sense of romance. Furthermore, venus in aries wanting to be "put on her place"? That's rather her leo mars. They may be charmed by the conceited douchebag type
Why would you flirt with other girls if you really like her?
She sounds like a thrill-seeker, a more assertive, independent lady. As Koni said, it's not okay if you want to change her...
Your scorp moon has already started with the plotting... calculative approach to relationships...
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Posted by Ravishingyup. George clooney aries venus 1st house, leo mars.Posted by raad182Posted by Ravishing3rd close to the IC
What house is her Venus in?
Yikes. That doesn't help calm down that Aries Venus energy at all.
Mars in Leo/Aries Venus combination is very fiery and I don't think there's anything you can do to combat that. If you're not getting what you want out of the relationship and it really, really bothers you then you may have to move on.click to expand
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