Ask a Cancer Male Part Deux (Page 4)

Posted by J9
so.. a cancer who loves Vietnamese food inspires a Virgo to love Aries cause an Aries also loves Vietnamese food.


It's either this place is more random than I remember or crabs just don't get love anymore.

Stop sulking. Ever since I found out you have a Sag Moon I luffed you too. Gotta love my fellow fire moons.

Posted by silentkiller
Do you have many friends and girl-friends (you know what I mean)? Are you very close with them? And do you often fight with them/end friendships?

(I believe my first no-relationship question!!! I'm almoust proud of myself😄!)

I have a lot of acquaintances and a smaller circle of people who truly fit the friend category.
Those who are my friends I am very close with. A select few in that group know me (a bit too) well. And as an aside they're frigging Virgos, lol.

Don't have too many fights with them (friends in general). They know where I'm coming from as I know where they're coming from. That's not to say we don't have spirited debates at times.

I can recall having a falling out with two where life just had us moving apart and adopting completely different life views.

Posted by CancerOnTheCusp

Posted by silentkiller
Do you have many friends and girl-friends (you know what I mean)? Are you very close with them? And do you often fight with them/end friendships?

(I believe my first no-relationship question!!! I'm almoust proud of myself😄!)

I have a lot of acquaintances and a smaller circle of people who truly fit the friend category.
Those who are my friends I am very close with. A select few in that group know me (a bit too) well. And as an aside they're frigging Virgos, lol.

Don't have too many fights with them (friends in general). They know where I'm coming from as I know where they're coming from. That's not to say we don't have spirited debates at times.

I can recall having a falling out with two where life just had us moving apart and adopting completely different life views.

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The girl-friends thing I assume is "just friends". Yes, I have some of those as well.
I value them because they can be a good sounding board when I have relationship issues.

I think the common trait among all of them (friends) is that they don't tell me what I want to hear, but what I need to hear.

ok...i do have a question today.

if ill [some sort of recurrent pain], do you usually retreat in your shell and stay there for a while just because you don't want the others to see you in a bad condition—

Posted by mz
ok...i do have a question today.

if ill [some sort of recurrent pain], do you usually retreat in your shell and stay there for a while just because you don't want the others to see you in a bad condition—

It goes two ways.
One Cancer guy will do as you mention, wanting to babied at home.
The other goes on with daily business, even if the pain is excruciating, up until the point someone tells him to go home and recover.

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Posted by Impulsv
As our discussion in Taurus board
Do cancer men like cookiemonsters because they seem like a catch.
Suffer from the need to chased n places more value on a bitch who treat them bad but is giving them the chase?

No.
Fuck No.

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🍹 COTC and MoonMan





.....*add to bucket list*

Posted by silentkiller
Thanks COTC.

I find the way cancer interacts kinda interesting from what I have seen and experienced - I'm not sure why. Just a way, some cancers have I guess🙂

Another question:

I assume everybody goes around and haves small crushes at random times. Sometimes we make a move or take a chance on someone. What is it, that makes a male crabbe take a chance? How do you need to feel with yourself, before diving into the pool?

And in addition to this: would a cancer man date one, he knw wasn't right for him? If so: what would cause him to do so? (I know this is kinda relationshippy questions, but I am not s much interested in the relationship, moreso in what goes through a cancers mind when interacting and dating)

Can only speak for myself, you might want to get input from some of the others here.
I would take a chance (assuming just jumping into something rather than letting it develop) if the person has a serious "wow" factor.
Doesn't need to be a 10, but more of a connection at some level that normally doesn't happen.

In general, how I'd have to feel inside is some certainty there is a chemistry and that the woman isn't off her rocker.

I typically wouldn't date someone who I didn't think was right for me.
Maybe a small number of cases where we both knew it wasn't going to be any more than a temporary fling.

Posted by aquavita
I knew my question would nt be answered. Thanks anyway for reading. I only say lobsters can have blue eyes because I saw them in the aquarium once. this big one was blue eyed and as beautiful as the rest. I have grey eyes so I like dark eyes like the rest of losbters had but this blue eyed had the whole universe inside looking into me

Yes, I eat lobsters.

Posted by J9

Posted by PhoenixRising
🍹 COTC and MoonMan





.....*add to bucket list*

ahem..



Unless your bucket list is about some sadistic scorpio killing spree shit, then thanks for excluding me.

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I was wondering about that bucket list....

Posted by J9

Posted by PhoenixRising
🍹 COTC and MoonMan





.....*add to bucket list*

ahem..



Unless your bucket list is about some sadistic scorpio killing spree shit, then thanks for excluding me.

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Why do I bother?....

Posted by CancerOnTheCusp


I was wondering about that bucket list....

To clarify, the bucket list was in reference to my question and that only. Thanks for answering the post.

Handymans of the zodiac! How do I change my avatar. I done some many different things from uploading on profile site, to uploading on tinypic, and I even browsed previous threads about this issue. I've been trying to post a pic for a long time now... I did it before but can not, for the life of me, figured out how I did it. Help me pwease 🙂

Haha *done some many different things* oye vey I can not engrish -_-... excuse me for my brain is fried, worked 50 hours this weekend 🙂

Tank q J9!!

I'm going with J9's answer. I do admit I'm a huge flirt, though. It doesn't mean I'm going to fuck that person or even that I want to. Most of the time I flirt and I'm not even TRYING to do it.

@jynja

hello babes! How's it goin??

Posted by Impulsv
Crabs my only experience with a male crab was a family Freind. While married he flirted tons with women including me, i ignored. Wife cheated claimed he flirted lol. Crabs are u big flirts!!!!!!!

Aha! Flirting is good for health...like yoga! 😉

And one of my tests to find out if a girl is fun or not is to use some subtle flirting...if she responds....I ll engage more!

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Posted by MoonArtist
I'm going with J9's answer. I do admit I'm a huge flirt, though. It doesn't mean I'm going to fuck that person or even that I want to. Most of the time I flirt and I'm not even TRYING to do it.

But dude, you're a chick.

Look MoonArtist, it's simple, go to your profile and check the box which says 'Display your gender'.

I'm not gonna keep bailing you out!

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hehehe, what, I think it's a little funny when people keep thinking I'm a guy. I can whip out my "hey, 'sup, Dude" and hang wit yous. 😉

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Posted by MoonArtist
I'm going with J9's answer. I do admit I'm a huge flirt, though. It doesn't mean I'm going to fuck that person or even that I want to. Most of the time I flirt and I'm not even TRYING to do it.

But dude, you're a chick.

Look MoonArtist, it's simple, go to your profile and check the box which says 'Display your gender'.

I'm not gonna keep bailing you out!

hehehe, what, I think it's a little funny when people keep thinking I'm a guy. I can whip out my "hey, 'sup, Dude" and hang wit yous. 😉

Cute! Your funny 🙂

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lol Thank you ~bows~

Posted by Impulsv
For those who have date Scorpio. What is it like. I keep hearing it's great but like I said never met a single one let alone date.

You already know my opinion on Scorpios. I'll restate it: Cancer and Scorpio go great together, both on a friendship level and as more. Not saying every single one meshes perfectly, but the vast majority in my life have been great experiences.

I bet you one of those are Scruffy's bottom... my guess is C

I like B. The tail on C is a bit of a turn off...

Well, can that tail do anything but sit there?

Posted by MadameDeScruffsalot
Yeah, it like moves and stuff.

Just don't step on it in the dark on your way to the bathroom. You will regret it.

I was thinking more along the lines of prehensile or something...

Posted by mz
@blackindian, i am sorry to tell you that you do need some growing up.

you may impress some women on here, but if you analyse it a little, you'll see that most of them are either hurt by privious partners or bear some deep rooted frustrations...with this kind of behaviour you'll never impress[attract] a well-balanced woman.

you don't have to turn yourself into a jerk, but, sincerely, you are the type of guy who gets rejected or left, punched or cornered just because he isn't strong...

1. candies are sweet, but if you eat candies for too long you get sick...
2. boys do get upset, take their toys and leave the playground...men don't...

do you get what i mean?

sh??t! F@uaking aquarian , go home arrogante! Bytch

Posted by mz
@blackindian, i am sorry to tell you that you do need some growing up.

you may impress some women on here, but if you analyse it a little, you'll see that most of them are either hurt by privious partners or bear some deep rooted frustrations...with this kind of behaviour you'll never impress[attract] a well-balanced woman.

you don't have to turn yourself into a jerk, but, sincerely, you are the type of guy who gets rejected or left, punched or cornered just because he isn't strong...

1. candies are sweet, but if you eat candies for too long you get sick...
2. boys do get upset, take their toys and leave the playground...men don't...

do you get what i mean?

sh??t! F@uaking aquarian , go home arrogante! Bytch

Posted by xtina
What do you do?

i handle it with care lol!

cancerians arent boring , people around us maybe

Posted by mz
cc, blackindian...are you even listening to yourselves—

thanks god my crab is educated.....[of course now you'll feel attacked again...but won't notice the rudeness in your posts...]

because you started it monster

Posted by mz
if you don't need others' opinions, it means you won't progress in life.

ok...we don't have to live thinking of others' opinions continuously...but when sb comes up and tells us sth , we'd better take a break and think for a sec of what they said instead of snapping out and losing control...

and it would be really nice if you left the "f" words out...this is not the vocabulary of a nice, sweet, collected person, right? or you are a nice man, after all...am i wrong?

okay why we dont need opinion? ACtualy if we need opinion , we ask for it. If u give opinion with no reason ,all we sense is jealousy from you.. if we're not askin for opinions we kn0w ourselves and we are already certain who we are.. And all you gotta do is take it or kill it. N0 more blah blah chatterbox

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Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by mz
cc, blackindian...are you even listening to yourselves—

thanks god my crab is educated.....[of course now you'll feel attacked again...but won't notice the rudeness in your posts...]

You're dating a Crab, i feel sorry that he has to live with such a miserable cold witch.

😄 he got over this phase...he knows there's no miserable cold bitch, but a very well grounded, supportive woman...

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i believe he's being treated like a crap thats why she's always here in cancer board trying to heap her frustration to any cancer man and black is the victim lol and n0 you're not well grounded with that attitude that ur sayings the same in real life, your cancer man will leave you 4 SURE

Can we make it so other signs have to read this before posting relationship questions?
Just asking...

Posted by kim30
Can we make it so other signs have to read this before posting relationship questions?
Just asking...

Even if you could, do you honestly think it would stop?

Not sure I can answer questions posed here anymore now that I was granted asylum elsewhere...

Bump

Posted by Cheeseburger
Question: How can almost all women, if not all women, just don't get us at all ?

Do women understand themselves?

how many chicks have you ever fucked?

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Posted by aquaglass
how many chicks have you ever fucked?

17 trillion.

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ho

Posted by Cheeseburger
, I lie,

The 2 cancer males in my life were also the biggest pathological type liars. Is there a cancer male connection here?
Why do you do that?

I have a theory but it isn't nice so I'll just wait to see if you guys have some explanation.

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Posted by CancerLeoDynamite

Posted by Cheeseburger
, I lie,

The 2 cancer males in my life were also the biggest pathological type liars. Is there a cancer male connection here?
Why do you do that?

I have a theory but it isn't nice so I'll just wait to see if you guys have some explanation.

tbh, insecurity from my part + I want to be your ideal man + I "think" i know what do you want to hear = lies.

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Well thank you for your candor.

That makes a lot of sense, I can see that being their reason but tbh I'd rather have got the truth from them.

Posted by Iwill
:-o

What??d they lie about—??

Everyyyyyything.
From really dumb stuff that didnt matter like telling a funny story that never happened, to some passive aggressive nonsense "No I don't know where your cup is" Meanwhile he actually broke it, cause he didn't like it lol wtf.
in the end, much much more serious stuff - drama-llama.

Every guy I have been with lies to some extent but I did notice the cancers did it more frequently, and brazenly. Personally I am very honest.

Bump
Because I love

Posted by CluelessCancer

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Posted by bloodflood
i have a crush on one of you guys, but unfortunately it's a little impossible. nonetheless to keep it on topic... how do you want to be approached by women?! (not sure if that's considered a relationship question)....

just smile/laugh a lot and maintain the occasional eye contact. We would start obsessing about you and something would eventually happen.

Lol yeah a subtle approach please. Nothing head on. You ll scare him away.

oh shush you boys aren't that coy 🙂 this particular cancer went up to me, shook my hand and introduced himself. i was a little taken aback but now i want him! 😢

If you can't handle a pisces you can't handle a crab.

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Wait what!? Exsqueez me — What is that supposed to mean? Just curious!!!