Cancer men are beasts in bed?

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They are like totally different people in bed. Why is that?
I got worst cramp ever after it, felt like I was giving birth to a child...
Because they finally get to fully express all their emotions in a physical manner. It's a water sign thing... IMO.
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I see. I've dated a Pisces before, another water sign. He was emotional, but gentle, never this intense.
So I thought it must be a cancer thing?
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They are like totally different people in bed. Why is that?
I got worst cramp ever after it, felt like I was giving birth to a child...
Because they finally get to fully express all their emotions in a physical manner. It's a water sign thing... IMO.
I see. I've dated a Pisces before, another water sign. He was emotional, but gentle, never this intense.
So I thought it must be a cancer thing?
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It depends on the moon sign as well. If the Cancer sun is matched with certain moon signs, it can result in intensity.

And also the Mars, that plays a very big role. A Mars in Scorpio is going to be intense, a Mars in Gemini likes it dirty, so on and so forth.
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Definitely. Cancers are bed hogs, that's why I always recommend a king sized when napping with such creatures.

I always have a king size bed, whether I am in a relationship or not.

Nothing like doing it on a king size bed!
I just upgraded from a full to a king. Loves it. 😉
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I am telling you, nothing like a king size bed. and when you get it on there, it's an epic roll in the hay!
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They are like totally different people in bed. Why is that?
I got worst cramp ever after it, felt like I was giving birth to a child...
Because they finally get to fully express all their emotions in a physical manner. It's a water sign thing... IMO.
I see. I've dated a Pisces before, another water sign. He was emotional, but gentle, never this intense.
So I thought it must be a cancer thing?
I've also dated Pisces. Trust me, it's a water sign thing. It changes based on the emotions of the moment too or what is needed to be expressed.
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Somehow the thought of a Scorpio dating a Pisces is scary, did you eat that person alive?
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They are like totally different people in bed. Why is that?
I got worst cramp ever after it, felt like I was giving birth to a child...
Because they finally get to fully express all their emotions in a physical manner. It's a water sign thing... IMO.
I see. I've dated a Pisces before, another water sign. He was emotional, but gentle, never this intense.
So I thought it must be a cancer thing?
It depends on the moon sign as well. If the Cancer sun is matched with certain moon signs, it can result in intensity.

And also the Mars, that plays a very big role. A Mars in Scorpio is going to be intense, a Mars in Gemini likes it dirty, so on and so forth.
My husband has Mars in Gemini ...
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So do I.

You don't even have to tell me.,.....lol.....
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They are like totally different people in bed. Why is that?
I got worst cramp ever after it, felt like I was giving birth to a child...
Because they finally get to fully express all their emotions in a physical manner. It's a water sign thing... IMO.
I see. I've dated a Pisces before, another water sign. He was emotional, but gentle, never this intense.
So I thought it must be a cancer thing?
It depends on the moon sign as well. If the Cancer sun is matched with certain moon signs, it can result in intensity.

And also the Mars, that plays a very big role. A Mars in Scorpio is going to be intense, a Mars in Gemini likes it dirty, so on and so forth.
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Oh god.. He has both Moon and Mars in Leo
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They are like totally different people in bed. Why is that?
I got worst cramp ever after it, felt like I was giving birth to a child...
Because they finally get to fully express all their emotions in a physical manner. It's a water sign thing... IMO.
I see. I've dated a Pisces before, another water sign. He was emotional, but gentle, never this intense.
So I thought it must be a cancer thing?
I've also dated Pisces. Trust me, it's a water sign thing. It changes based on the emotions of the moment too or what is needed to be expressed.
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I hope he was trying to show me something nice at that moment 😉
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They are like totally different people in bed. Why is that?
I got worst cramp ever after it, felt like I was giving birth to a child...
Because they finally get to fully express all their emotions in a physical manner. It's a water sign thing... IMO.
I see. I've dated a Pisces before, another water sign. He was emotional, but gentle, never this intense.
So I thought it must be a cancer thing?
I've also dated Pisces. Trust me, it's a water sign thing. It changes based on the emotions of the moment too or what is needed to be expressed.
Somehow the thought of a Scorpio dating a Pisces is scary, did you eat that person alive?
Lol... Silly 😛

I get along really well with Pisces. As a teenager, yes I did eat him alive. But others were super smooth sailing and very deep. The one I had deepest connections to were both March Fishies... 13th & 18th).
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The cat and the canary comes to mind.
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Hmm, maybe it´s just me, but based off only one cancer guy, he could have gone ten times harder than he did😄 Could have been way more brutal and creepy.

Buuuuuut I was sorta detached a little, ´cause you know, I wasn´t his girlfriend, so I didn´t give it my all, so he held back too I think.

But yeah, thanks for making this topic. I totally needed to be reminded of having sex. Not.
ROFL.....
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Where are these guys?.. I was not the least bit impressed with the one I was with.
Cappy, you got to play your position too. If you are your usual cold self and do nothing and expect him to get you there, it's impossible.
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Naw thats not it, he was just...bleh

I cam see why her cancer was good though, that Leo mars 😉
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Where are these guys?.. I was not the least bit impressed with the one I was with.
Cappy, you got to play your position too. If you are your usual cold self and do nothing and expect him to get you there, it's impossible.
Naw thats not it, he was just...bleh

I cam see why her cancer was good though, that Leo mars 😉
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Yup, the type of Mars makes a big difference.
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Hmm, maybe it´s just me, but based off only one cancer guy, he could have gone ten times harder than he did😄 Could have been way more brutal and creepy.

Buuuuuut I was sorta detached a little, ´cause you know, I wasn´t his girlfriend, so I didn´t give it my all, so he held back too I think.

But yeah, thanks for making this topic. I totally needed to be reminded of having sex. Not.
ROFL.....
What? Why you laughing?! 🙂

I´m serious!! But I know, he has it in him. The last time we had proper sex, he did some new stuff, and that def. made an impression on me. Day after we were on the way to our 3 year long demise. But not due to the sex😄
Ah man, good times though. Honk hooooooonk!
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I forgot your sign, what was it again?

I was laughing at the way you summed up your thoughts, it was hilarious.
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Ha, okay🙂 I thought you were laughing at me, because I wanted more creepy and more hard!

I´m a scorpio/sag cusper. Scorp venus.

But I didn´t give him my all. I never told him this stuff, even though he really wanted to talk about it and explore and everything. But I´m not gonna give away all the gold to someone, who´s not even sure he wants me for a girlfriend. In the words of Jessica Day: I´m stingy with my gold! 😉
Venus in Scorpio.......that's really some Venus....

I knew a woman with that placement, I literally wanted to fuck her to death.....lol....she made me feel like an animal.

There is something strange about women with that placement.

But to be honest, I would be uncertain about a relationship with that Venus, it's scary.
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Posted by thinktoomuch Ha ha, wow!!! That´s intense!!! I knew cancer guy was very turned on/attracted to me (back then) too. Like he would get a little annoyed with himself for not being able to just lie together and watch a movie or something. He´d get up for a while and do something else till he calmed himself down. Then come back over. Repeat. 😄
It is a scary venus though. To have also. I have had the weirdest things happen to me. Things that I´m not wishing for. I remember being 12 years old and have my school girlfriend tell me, that a boy from our class wanted to squeeze/hug me till I died, because he liked me so much.

What is it? What is it that is so strange about us? What kind of vibe do we give out? If you kill us through sex or love, I mean: then we´re gone. Do you hate us? 😢

And who would be up for the task?
I could def. see a cancer being up for it- Sexually at least.
Do you have that piercing, impudent stare that I have seen with this placement before? Almost daring a guy to do something......

We don't hate you, there is just something intensely attractive which we (or atleast I) cannot resist. I know what you mean by he couldn't just watch TV or whatever.....you can't.

We neither hate you nor want you gone, it's like doing cocaine...you just can't stop yourself.

My fear of this placement is that this Venus can make a man do anything. I would even go so far to say that the love of a woman with this placement can bring down an empire. You lose sight of who you are, you want her at any cost. It's a tough placement to deal with.
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Ha, okay🙂 I thought you were laughing at me, because I wanted more creepy and more hard!

I´m a scorpio/sag cusper. Scorp venus.

But I didn´t give him my all. I never told him this stuff, even though he really wanted to talk about it and explore and everything. But I´m not gonna give away all the gold to someone, who´s not even sure he wants me for a girlfriend. In the words of Jessica Day: I´m stingy with my gold! 😉
Cancer (scorpio, too) will pick up on how into it the partner is and match them. If you don't give passion we won't, either, unless we're trying really hard to get something more out of the partner.
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Ha, okay🙂 I thought you were laughing at me, because I wanted more creepy and more hard!

I´m a scorpio/sag cusper. Scorp venus.

But I didn´t give him my all. I never told him this stuff, even though he really wanted to talk about it and explore and everything. But I´m not gonna give away all the gold to someone, who´s not even sure he wants me for a girlfriend. In the words of Jessica Day: I´m stingy with my gold! 😉
Venus in Scorpio.......that's really some Venus....

I knew a woman with that placement, I literally wanted to fuck her to death.....lol....she made me feel like an animal.

There is something strange about women with that placement.

But to be honest, I would be uncertain about a relationship with that Venus, it's scary.
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No, it's not scary, it's yummy!
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Cancer (scorpio, too) will pick up on how into it the partner is and match them. If you don't give passion we won't, either, unless we're trying really hard to get something more out of the partner.
This is for the most part true, but I've acted more into it than I've been, for the benefit of my partner.
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So have I, but I'm leo venus. I take pride in my work. lol
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Cancer (scorpio, too) will pick up on how into it the partner is and match them. If you don't give passion we won't, either, unless we're trying really hard to get something more out of the partner.
This is for the most part true, but I've acted more into it than I've been, for the benefit of my partner.
So have I, but I'm leo venus. I take pride in my work. lol
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How about venus in Taurus?
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Cancer (scorpio, too) will pick up on how into it the partner is and match them. If you don't give passion we won't, either, unless we're trying really hard to get something more out of the partner.
This is for the most part true, but I've acted more into it than I've been, for the benefit of my partner.
So have I, but I'm leo venus. I take pride in my work. lol
How about venus in Taurus?
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Much more practical and steady, avoids rash decisions in love/partners.
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Cancer (scorpio, too) will pick up on how into it the partner is and match them. If you don't give passion we won't, either, unless we're trying really hard to get something more out of the partner.
This is for the most part true, but I've acted more into it than I've been, for the benefit of my partner.
So have I, but I'm leo venus. I take pride in my work. lol
How about venus in Taurus?
Much more practical and steady, avoids rash decisions in love/partners.
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Very true. He's very slow and steady most of the time.
That's why I'm surprised how different he is in bed
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Ha, okay🙂 I thought you were laughing at me, because I wanted more creepy and more hard!

I´m a scorpio/sag cusper. Scorp venus.

But I didn´t give him my all. I never told him this stuff, even though he really wanted to talk about it and explore and everything. But I´m not gonna give away all the gold to someone, who´s not even sure he wants me for a girlfriend. In the words of Jessica Day: I´m stingy with my gold! 😉
Cancer (scorpio, too) will pick up on how into it the partner is and match them. If you don't give passion we won't, either, unless we're trying really hard to get something more out of the partner.
Exactly.
It was aweful in some ways. Not the sex in itself. But I remember an inciddent, where me and the cancer was chilling all day with two of his friends. When we got back to my place, it was on! But I had had such a great day, and I just didn´t understand, why he didn´t want me to be his girlfriend yet, so I was - again - detached. He stopped after a little while and was like "am I the only one who´s totally into this?!?!?". Bad.

If only!!!
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Having a fuck buddy that one person wants more usually seems to end not so well. Sad, but true.
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Ha, okay🙂 I thought you were laughing at me, because I wanted more creepy and more hard!

I´m a scorpio/sag cusper. Scorp venus.

But I didn´t give him my all. I never told him this stuff, even though he really wanted to talk about it and explore and everything. But I´m not gonna give away all the gold to someone, who´s not even sure he wants me for a girlfriend. In the words of Jessica Day: I´m stingy with my gold! 😉
Venus in Scorpio.......that's really some Venus....

I knew a woman with that placement, I literally wanted to fuck her to death.....lol....she made me feel like an animal.

There is something strange about women with that placement.

But to be honest, I would be uncertain about a relationship with that Venus, it's scary.
No, it's not scary, it's yummy!

I think it works wayyyyyyyyy better if it´s a guy, that has this placement. Women want this intensity more, and also the odds that a women is looking for a relationship, are way higher.
And if not, a guy could benefit way more from all the sexual attention, than I personally would. Sometimes guys can be so much more creepy than girls, sorry to say.
Thanks for the supoprt though 😄
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I agree, and it also has to do with how other aspects in both people's chart plays out together.
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Do you have that piercing, impudent stare that I have seen with this placement before? Almost daring a guy to do something......

We don't hate you, there is just something intensely attractive which we (or atleast I) cannot resist. I know what you mean by he couldn't just watch TV or whatever.....you can't.

We neither hate you nor want you gone, it's like doing cocaine...you just can't stop yourself.

My fear of this placement is that this Venus can make a man do anything. I would even go so far to say that the love of a woman with this placement can bring down an empire. You lose sight of who you are, you want her at any cost. It's a tough placement to deal with.
That sounds intense!!! I don´t think, I have that piercing stare. Nobody has ever told me. Maybe they are afraid to.. 😄
"I just can´t stop myself" - the story of my life. "Almost daring a guy to do something..." also. Not many guys, that are just chill, come up to me. They are almost always sorta out there and very interested in sex. It´s always the sexual aspect that attracts guys, as far as I know. It gets really depressing.
This venus can not do everything: it can´t make anyone love you. It can just attract a lot of weirdos. Maybe guys that I have not been involved with, that have just thought about us being toegether, have felt this way, but the few guys I did invest in emotionally were mostly interested in sex. I couldn´t imagine anyone having that sort of love for me like you describe.
Tough placement to deal with, tough placement to have... Thanks for answering this though. It really hit home with some things that have always occured in my life, and I´ve really been looking for answers.
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One of the greatest risks with that Venus position is to become a sex addict, read up on Venus in Scorpio it's very interesting.

Ideally you have to find love through the sex appeal and then stick with the guy, a water sign will work best because we relate strongly through the physical side. Cancer and Scorpio men should be a great match, Pisces men may not work out with this type of intensity, they tend to be more easy going dudes.
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One of the greatest risks with that Venus position is to become a sex addict, read up on Venus in Scorpio it's very interesting.

Ideally you have to find love through the sex appeal and then stick with the guy, a water sign will work best because we relate strongly through the physical side. Cancer and Scorpio men should be a great match, Pisces men may not work out with this type of intensity, they tend to be more easy going dudes.
How ironic - I have been with both a cancer and a scorpio. The scorpio was fucking everybody else in town, and totally was playing up the "I just can´t control myself"-bullshit, trying to appeal to my passionate side.
With both these guys though, there was an instant attraction. VERY strange the way I felt. Scorpio was so bad for me, so when I met cancer and my body/mind had the same reaction to him, and when he said many similar things and lived the same type of life as the scorpio, I really needed a lot from the cancer to feel safe. And I didn´t give him enough to make him want to give me enough or vise verca.
I don´t think, that this venus fitts me as a person. I don´t know how to work it anyway.. But I´ll read up on it. If I can ever detach enough from that cancer to feel like, I actually want to experience things with another guy, it will be interesting to find out his sign. Perhaps there is a secret match that nobody knows about!!!

But just look at your own story: you didn´t want to be with that woman with venus in scorpio either, and you´re a cancer!!!!!! 😄
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I didn't want to end up with her for a whole bunch of different reasons, we almost hated eachother at the end. We still wanted to have hate sex...lol.
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They are like totally different people in bed. Why is that?
I got worst cramp ever after it, felt like I was giving birth to a child...
Because they finally get to fully express all their emotions in a physical manner. It's a water sign thing... IMO.
I see. I've dated a Pisces before, another water sign. He was emotional, but gentle, never this intense.
So I thought it must be a cancer thing?
It depends on the moon sign as well. If the Cancer sun is matched with certain moon signs, it can result in intensity.

And also the Mars, that plays a very big role. A Mars in Scorpio is going to be intense, a Mars in Gemini likes it dirty, so on and so forth.
My husband has Mars in Gemini ...
So do I.

You don't even have to tell me.,.....lol.....
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I'm curious what does "dirty sex" mean? My guy friend as Gem Mars(as do I) and was telling me he liked that kind of sex but didn't explain??Is it just a type of kinkiness?
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I like my cancer guy. But yeah even for this scorpio child he's SO intense sometimes...I'm not complaining.
Hmm I'm gonna get some weed and see how it is. Never fucked him high.

He tells me during the day about things he wants to do to me sometimes. Very animalistic stuff.
Sometimes we can get a bit rough, we need to be told to slowdown and be gentle.