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I've heard a story like this...

So if it is similar then this is what will happen... you and him will get together.. you'll

be in "love" and he'll seem like it too because you know.. "chemistry."

But the whole time he's screwing other women behind your back and telling his best friend alllll about it...or you know, someone he can trust.

While you are planning the wedding. ??

I mean..where do you want it to go? You said you're both the types to cheat. I say let them be together people. Let him leave his gf so she can find someone better and let OP keep this loser...
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Why won't girls fall for me like they fall for Cancer guys on Dxp. My life is super boring. ?
From what I noticed, most women either want what they can't have, or have this unhealthy thought process of wanting to "fix" someone.

An example, when I first met my guy, he told me he's never hurt anyone. That in highschool, he told the girls he slept with the deal, that this was just for a night and that's it. I laughed at him. Then told him I bet 50% of those idiots thought they would be the one to "change" him.

I find that the majority of most girls, are illogical. lol
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Lol I'm immune to stings I'm a ? I mean a ? Lol


I like Evo. He's like that derpy homie, I like to tease.

I like Nikki she's like the sister I never had ?
And you're like the brother I never wanted. lol

Lol that stings lol

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Suck it up. At least I said you are like a brother. lol
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It's not like I really care that much. I just wanted some admiration because I'm not in relationship mode right now. It's been a couple months since I've talked to a girl. Fucking poverty. But whatever. Hopefully I can get a visa so I can gtfo of here. Like life everywhere else but on a smaller scale and different parties.
I can pseudo-fawn over you if you want. lol
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It's not like I really care that much. I just wanted some admiration because I'm not in relationship mode right now. It's been a couple months since I've talked to a girl. Fucking poverty. But whatever. Hopefully I can get a visa so I can gtfo of here. Like life everywhere else but on a smaller scale and different parties.
I can pseudo-fawn over you if you want. lol
Nah. It would lose meaning. ?

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Hey, I tried. lol
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First thing you need to do is block that chick that commented above me
Snowflake.
You even know what that means?
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So, how am I a snowflake then? Looks like you're the hypersensitive one.
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So, let me see if I'm getting this straight.

1. I tell someone they should block you

2. You got offended even though I said nothing derogatory to or about you

3. You try to counter punch by slinging an insult that doesn't apply to me

4. You're still posting for absolutely no reason

5. I'm gonna call YOU a snowflake. It definitely pertains to you.

Bruh just shut your retarded mouth. You're a self proclaimed idiot, but just the fact that you sided with the cheating cunt told us the same story anyways.
Bruh.......why don't you go deepthroat a billy goat. Learn how to fucking read. I didn't side with anyone you idiot. Smh. Now you look like the retarded Capt Saveahoe

Uh, you told the OP to not listen to the proper criticism anyone with a right mind would agree with. How isn't that siding with the OP and encouraging them? Wut?

Also you are the one that calls yourself Superman. Superman is the biggest Captain Saveawoman there is.

As if treating women with respect and like equals is retarded. Oh wait no, being a playa fuckboy is. Herpderp.

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First off, did the reply contain RESPECT? No, it fucking didn't so you can take your hypocrisy somewhere else fucktard. 2nd, that's why I said she should block her retarded ass (she should block you too). 3. I didn't tell her anything besides to block her.

Now, get the fuck off these nuts
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First thing you need to do is block that chick that commented above me
Snowflake.
You even know what that means?
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So, how am I a snowflake then? Looks like you're the hypersensitive one.
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So, let me see if I'm getting this straight.

1. I tell someone they should block you

2. You got offended even though I said nothing derogatory to or about you

3. You try to counter punch by slinging an insult that doesn't apply to me

4. You're still posting for absolutely no reason

5. I'm gonna call YOU a snowflake. It definitely pertains to you.

Bruh just shut your retarded mouth. You're a self proclaimed idiot, but just the fact that you sided with the cheating cunt told us the same story anyways.
Bruh.......why don't you go deepthroat a billy goat. Learn how to fucking read. I didn't side with anyone you idiot. Smh. Now you look like the retarded Capt Saveahoe

Uh, you told the OP to not listen to the proper criticism anyone with a right mind would agree with. How isn't that siding with the OP and encouraging them? Wut?

Also you are the one that calls yourself Superman. Superman is the biggest Captain Saveawoman there is.

As if treating women with respect and like equals is retarded. Oh wait no, being a playa fuckboy is. Herpderp.


First off, did the reply contain RESPECT? No, it fucking didn't so you can take your hypocrisy somewhere else fucktard. 2nd, that's why I said she should block her retarded ass (she should block you too). 3. I didn't tell her anything besides to block her.

Now, get the fuck off these nuts

Um. Dude. Someone who cheats is a monster. Not even human, they are subhuman.

Also 2nd person was a woman speaking to a woman.

Also 2nd person was the one with a righteous, acceptable, and exceptional post. OP is the only one in the wrong and you're saying. Reward the cunt and punish the saint. Herpderp.

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Again, since you can't fucking read you giraffe looking asshat with the 2ft long neck having ass.

I NEVER CONDONED ANYTHING

You mentioned respect. I'm glad you did that. You act like you're a damn saint. Op shared a story. Lots of people do.

PEOPLE WHO TALK TO OTHERS LIKE THAT ARE NO BETTER THAN THE CHEATER THEY ARE BLASTING. And you are defending a bully, a shamer and a downright ugly individual.

Choke on that dose of reality
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Again, since you can't fucking read you giraffe looking asshat with the 2ft long neck having ass.

I NEVER CONDONED ANYTHING

You mentioned respect. I'm glad you did that. You act like you're a damn saint. Op shared a story. Lots of people do.

PEOPLE WHO TALK TO OTHERS LIKE THAT ARE NO BETTER THAN THE CHEATER THEY ARE BLASTING. And you are defending a bully, a shamer and a downright ugly individual.

Choke on that dose of reality
LOL @ taking shots at someone's looks.

Please change your avatar to this

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First thing you need to do is block that chick that commented above me
Snowflake.
You even know what that means?
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So, how am I a snowflake then? Looks like you're the hypersensitive one.
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So, let me see if I'm getting this straight.

1. I tell someone they should block you

2. You got offended even though I said nothing derogatory to or about you

3. You try to counter punch by slinging an insult that doesn't apply to me

4. You're still posting for absolutely no reason

5. I'm gonna call YOU a snowflake. It definitely pertains to you.

Bruh just shut your retarded mouth. You're a self proclaimed idiot, but just the fact that you sided with the cheating cunt told us the same story anyways.
Bruh.......why don't you go deepthroat a billy goat. Learn how to fucking read. I didn't side with anyone you idiot. Smh. Now you look like the retarded Capt Saveahoe

Uh, you told the OP to not listen to the proper criticism anyone with a right mind would agree with. How isn't that siding with the OP and encouraging them? Wut?

Also you are the one that calls yourself Superman. Superman is the biggest Captain Saveawoman there is.

As if treating women with respect and like equals is retarded. Oh wait no, being a playa fuckboy is. Herpderp.


First off, did the reply contain RESPECT? No, it fucking didn't so you can take your hypocrisy somewhere else fucktard. 2nd, that's why I said she should block her retarded ass (she should block you too). 3. I didn't tell her anything besides to block her.

Now, get the fuck off these nuts

Um. Dude. Someone who cheats is a monster. Not even human, they are subhuman.

Also 2nd person was a woman speaking to a woman.

Also 2nd person was the one with a righteous, acceptable, and exceptional post. OP is the only one in the wrong and you're saying. Reward the cunt and punish the saint. Herpderp.




this opinion is pretty dramatic, though you're young. eventually you'll get older and go through more of life and see things in a different way. cheating is never okay. but they're not subhuman. it's their humanity that makes them cheat. no one is perfect. some people cheat for different reasons than other people. it's just flaws.

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Agree...

Reasoning(?) with a 23 year old

*Your prefrontal cortex, the part that controls emotional responses, is at its height of formation — making us crazy with feelings. The rest of your brain, however, is retaining the information it thinks it'll use in the future and clearing out the rest. No wonder 23 feels like one big mental mindf*ck*

Fortunately for the person and those around them, the over reactionary phase passes as maturiy sets in ...

Arguing is probably a waste of time, as is with teenagers

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The real issue here is that my neck isn't even 1ft. Maybe half of one.

He must have a warped perspective, because everything I've ever read on normal human proportion says my neck is pretty spot on.

Tbh tho, the fact that he had to make something up. Little alone something that has nothing to do with my face. Says my face must be pretty flawless.

He shoulda attacked the birthmark probably.
Here's the thing, in my opinion, anyone whom has to resort to talking about someone's appearance, usually doesn't have the wit to actually come up with anything clever as a retort.
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Lol immature girl with no respect. You deserve to stay in his guest house and get treated like a slut.

Says the cunt that doesn't actually care about the men she dates cause she's just in it for his money/success.

You're just as bad LMAO
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For your information, I have been single (no serious relationships) in many years. If I was in it for the money, I wouldn't have ended things with the cardiologist after 2 months. I'm looking for love, chemistry, and trust. So believe whatever you want. I'm true to myself and your opinions of me don't bother me one bit.
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i just creeped both your profiles and you're both attractive.

it's easy to troll someones looks. it's much harder to come up with something of substance to say that shows you've outwitted them or something.

the hottest people on the board i've seen trolled for their looks because the other person couldn't attack their ideas. so stupid.
Pfft, you offended me. I got a face only a mother could love. lol
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Lol immature girl with no respect. You deserve to stay in his guest house and get treated like a slut.

Says the cunt that doesn't actually care about the men she dates cause she's just in it for his money/success.

You're just as bad LMAO
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How is having specific requirements in ones dating pool even on the same tier as fucking a taken man??

You tripping.
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Attacking someone's looks is very low level

And very immature
I know. but I did bust out laughing when I first stumbled upon Sssupes post. yeah I know its immature but the way he talked about the looks thing was funny. kinda like the way how I insult people when people piss me off in real life.

on here I try not to insult nobody's looks especially when I have no pics of me nowhere on this site. I just throw out my attractive looks on those that's on my tail so they can leave me alone. sometimes I post message about my looks on threads that calls for it.

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All of you STFU before I post MY fugly face.
DO IT
I've done it before.

I'm sure it's around somewhere.


Someone find his picture for me.
he'll probably just post his nipple again. he likes doing that.

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He retired it, but brought it out for a special viewing a few weeks ago. lol
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I really don't think it works like that. It is not like you can't simultaneously insult them wittily while also insulting their looks on another note.

Remember Scorp, it is not black and white.


But I am a Scorpio, so it is black and white for me...
i'm scorpio dominant so everything is black or white for me as well. i know how that goes.
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@nikkistar - you two are freaks ... ok, so I'm a freak too - include me in on that black and white thing which I've said all my life - I abhor a vacuum - the gray areas to me ... it's one way or the other ... where the F does that come from in my then - my Capricorn ? or what ? cause I have very little Scorpio in my chart ...
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I really don't think it works like that. It is not like you can't simultaneously insult them wittily while also insulting their looks on another note.

Remember Scorp, it is not black and white.


But I am a Scorpio, so it is black and white for me...
i'm scorpio dominant so everything is black or white for me as well. i know how that goes.
@nikkistar - you two are freaks ... ok, so I'm a freak too - include me in on that black and white thing which I've said all my life - I abhor a vacuum - the gray areas to me ... it's one way or the other ... where the F does that come from in my then - my Capricorn ? or what ? cause I have very little Scorpio in my chart ...
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I'm pretty sure most of mine comes from my Mercury in Libra. lol
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I really don't think it works like that. It is not like you can't simultaneously insult them wittily while also insulting their looks on another note.

Remember Scorp, it is not black and white.


But I am a Scorpio, so it is black and white for me...
i'm scorpio dominant so everything is black or white for me as well. i know how that goes.
@nikkistar - you two are freaks ... ok, so I'm a freak too - include me in on that black and white thing which I've said all my life - I abhor a vacuum - the gray areas to me ... it's one way or the other ... where the F does that come from in my then - my Capricorn ? or what ? cause I have very little Scorpio in my chart ...
I'm pretty sure most of mine comes from my Mercury in Libra. lol
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I have very little libra as well ... one day I will learn more about my chart stuff ... I am outta here until Monday! Caoi~ Enjoy!
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Lol immature girl with no respect. You deserve to stay in his guest house and get treated like a slut.

Says the cunt that doesn't actually care about the men she dates cause she's just in it for his money/success.

You're just as bad LMAO
For your information, I have been single (no serious relationships) in many years. If I was in it for the money, I wouldn't have ended things with the cardiologist after 2 months. I'm looking for love, chemistry, and trust. So believe whatever you want. I'm true to myself and your opinions of me don't bother me one bit.

Why do you keep skipping over the part where I said SUCCESS?

Go ahead. Explain why you didn't love him. Bet it was self-fulfilling and you didn't love him because you don't know what love is. Derp.

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No, I didn't love him anymore and I was too young to know what true love was at that time in my life. This decision was completely about me. We went to the same college and I wanted to explore the world around me, like traveling to Canada and Vermont, making new friends, doing internships, setting new goals for myself etc. He only wanted to play video games and smoke weed. He never had a job and he was 20 when I left. 18 when I met him. I had to beg him just to go out to dinner and I would always pay for both of us. So yep I broke up with him because I wasn't happy and definitely bored. That's not love. I don't believe I did anything wrong.
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you're absolutely wrong. this is not the case at all. I'm just saying that instead of insulting her, it would be useful to see it from her point of view and give advice.
You captain-save-a-hoe types are so obnoxious.

"Let me hold your hand and walk you through this oh-so tough predicament you self created. There, there, snookums, here's my shoulder for you to cry on. And let me just shoo off all the big blunt meanie heads that are attacking you, cause they just are mean mean people whom can't relate. Okay, you good now? Great, lemme just slide right on in your dms."

So since your panties are all twisted and stained from your menstrual cycle, let me follow what you want me to do.

@OP - Gosh, I am sorry to hear that you hooked up with a co-worker you knew is currently cohabiting with his girlfriend. And now you have found yourself is the most awkward of circumstances, which is staying in the guest bedroom of his house, while the girlfriend, you knew about that is a fellow cohabitant, is now in your close proximity. How can I be of service to you and help you?

Nah, fuck that. How bout you go to a hotel, since you have absolutely zero respect for the girlfriend that has no idea that her boyfriend's penis was in all your orifices recently.
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First thing you need to do is block that chick that commented above me
Snowflake.
You even know what that means?
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So, how am I a snowflake then? Looks like you're the hypersensitive one.
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So, let me see if I'm getting this straight.

1. I tell someone they should block you

2. You got offended even though I said nothing derogatory to or about you

3. You try to counter punch by slinging an insult that doesn't apply to me

4. You're still posting for absolutely no reason

5. I'm gonna call YOU a snowflake. It definitely pertains to you.

Bruh just shut your retarded mouth. You're a self proclaimed idiot, but just the fact that you sided with the cheating cunt told us the same story anyways.
Bruh.......why don't you go deepthroat a billy goat. Learn how to fucking read. I didn't side with anyone you idiot. Smh. Now you look like the retarded Capt Saveahoe

Uh, you told the OP to not listen to the proper criticism anyone with a right mind would agree with. How isn't that siding with the OP and encouraging them? Wut?

Also you are the one that calls yourself Superman. Superman is the biggest Captain Saveawoman there is.

As if treating women with respect and like equals is retarded. Oh wait no, being a playa fuckboy is. Herpderp.


First off, did the reply contain RESPECT? No, it fucking didn't so you can take your hypocrisy somewhere else fucktard. 2nd, that's why I said she should block her retarded ass (she should block you too). 3. I didn't tell her anything besides to block her.

Now, get the fuck off these nuts

Um. Dude. Someone who cheats is a monster. Not even human, they are subhuman.

Also 2nd person was a woman speaking to a woman.

Also 2nd person was the one with a righteous, acceptable, and exceptional post. OP is the only one in the wrong and you're saying. Reward the cunt and punish the saint. Herpderp.


Again, since you can't fucking read you giraffe looking asshat with the 2ft long neck having ass.

I NEVER CONDONED ANYTHING

You mentioned respect. I'm glad you did that. You act like you're a damn saint. Op shared a story. Lots of people do.

PEOPLE WHO TALK TO OTHERS LIKE THAT ARE NO BETTER THAN THE CHEATER THEY ARE BLASTING. And you are defending a bully, a shamer and a downright ugly individual.

Choke on that dose of reality

Wrong dipshit. The bully of a bully is called a Hero. The defender of bullies is called a busta ass weasel that needs to get shot.

It isn't evil to punish the wicked. It is the exact opposite. You know. 100% Good n shit. Meanwhile cheating is 9999999999999% horribly inhuman.

Where is the equal in that? Herpderp.
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So, I'm a hero........got it
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Again, since you can't fucking read you giraffe looking asshat with the 2ft long neck having ass.

I NEVER CONDONED ANYTHING

You mentioned respect. I'm glad you did that. You act like you're a damn saint. Op shared a story. Lots of people do.

PEOPLE WHO TALK TO OTHERS LIKE THAT ARE NO BETTER THAN THE CHEATER THEY ARE BLASTING. And you are defending a bully, a shamer and a downright ugly individual.

Choke on that dose of reality
LOL @ taking shots at someone's looks.

Please change your avatar to this

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Awwwwwww. A shot is a shot. He fired first.

Both of you are narcissistic
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Lol immature girl with no respect. You deserve to stay in his guest house and get treated like a slut.

Says the cunt that doesn't actually care about the men she dates cause she's just in it for his money/success.

You're just as bad LMAO

How is having specific requirements in ones dating pool even on the same tier as fucking a taken man??

You tripping.

I like how "fucking a taken man" reveals your true perception of what is wrong about it. Basically your empathy only really stems from the fact that you're a woman. So this chick's story reflects upon your own relationships and the prospect of a woman stealing your own man away.

Narcissism at it's finest. You in actuality could care less about when the shoe is on the other foot.

If you did. You would care about abandoning a man who loves you just as much. THAT is why having subjective standards that will make you abandon someone is just as bad as a man abandoning his wife to sleep with another woman.

It is the same thing. You just think it isn't because of the bullshit contrived rules humans have constructed about relationships. What difference is there REALLY between a married man fucking another woman besides his wife. And removing the fact that she is his wife FIRST before he fucks another woman?

The only difference is formality. Superficial appearance. Functionally precisely the same thing however.
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WTF?? Naw don't even try to make this about me and what you ASSUME are my past experiences.

Your implying that requiring certain attributes from a person your dating is the same sin as cheating. Married, gf, the tittle isn't the thing that matters here. It's morally wrong to be part of an act that at its core is betraying the trust of another person.

Eliminating a guy because he doesn't make $ $ , or is too short, or isn't career driven is not a sin. It's a preference. Just like a dude who won't date a girl whose brunette, or with a flat ass...etc. It's a personal preference. No one is 'abandoning a man who loves you so much'. This is dating, not marriage. Your getting to know the person and if you discover they are not a good fit it is a greater kindness to move on and be true to yourself.

Again, your trippin.
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I like how "fucking a taken man" reveals your true perception of what is wrong about it. Basically your empathy only really stems from the fact that you're a woman. So this chick's story reflects upon your own relationships and the prospect of a woman stealing your own man away.

Narcissism at it's finest. You in actuality could care less about when the shoe is on the other foot.
Is he not taken? Did I describe his relationship status incorrectly? If he wasn't taken then she'd just be fucking a single coworker...nothing wrong about that.

You can't "steal" another person away. People choose to stay, they choose to go. They choose to break their promises of fidelity.

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I really don't think it works like that. It is not like you can't simultaneously insult them wittily while also insulting their looks on another note.

Remember Scorp, it is not black and white.


But I am a Scorpio, so it is black and white for me...

So that just means YOU cannot insult looks without sacrificing wit or vice versa.

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No, that means everyone can't 🙂
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I like how "fucking a taken man" reveals your true perception of what is wrong about it. Basically your empathy only really stems from the fact that you're a woman. So this chick's story reflects upon your own relationships and the prospect of a woman stealing your own man away.

Narcissism at it's finest. You in actuality could care less about when the shoe is on the other foot.
Is he not taken? Did I describe his relationship status incorrectly? If he wasn't taken then she'd just be fucking a single coworker...nothing wrong about that.

You can't "steal" another person away. People choose to stay, they choose to go. They choose to break their promises of fidelity.



Depends. Did they reach single status by abandoning someone for any other reason than them being abusive/in the wrong?

Then nah. It is still wrong in my book. But I know society will not agree.

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Who is single here? The man in question lives with his gf. Jesus christ your comprehension level is severely lacking.
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I really don't think it works like that. It is not like you can't simultaneously insult them wittily while also insulting their looks on another note.

Remember Scorp, it is not black and white.


But I am a Scorpio, so it is black and white for me...

So that just means YOU cannot insult looks without sacrificing wit or vice versa.


No, that means everyone can't 🙂

Your own limitations do not reflect everyone else's. People are not equally capable on an individual basis.

I'd prove it to you but uh, I don't want to insult your looks when you're so beautiful .-.

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I was joking -_-
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I really don't think it works like that. It is not like you can't simultaneously insult them wittily while also insulting their looks on another note.

Remember Scorp, it is not black and white.


But I am a Scorpio, so it is black and white for me...

So that just means YOU cannot insult looks without sacrificing wit or vice versa.


No, that means everyone can't 🙂

Your own limitations do not reflect everyone else's. People are not equally capable on an individual basis.

I'd prove it to you but uh, I don't want to insult your looks when you're so beautiful .-.


she seems to prefer if you insult her looks. lmao.

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BINGO!!!!

I need to get you cookies, and lots of them.
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I like how "fucking a taken man" reveals your true perception of what is wrong about it. Basically your empathy only really stems from the fact that you're a woman. So this chick's story reflects upon your own relationships and the prospect of a woman stealing your own man away.

Narcissism at it's finest. You in actuality could care less about when the shoe is on the other foot.
Is he not taken? Did I describe his relationship status incorrectly? If he wasn't taken then she'd just be fucking a single coworker...nothing wrong about that.

You can't "steal" another person away. People choose to stay, they choose to go. They choose to break their promises of fidelity.



Depends. Did they reach single status by abandoning someone for any other reason than them being abusive/in the wrong?

Then nah. It is still wrong in my book. But I know society will not agree.


Who is single here? The man in question lives with his gf. Jesus christ your comprehension level is severely lacking.

I was challenging your assertion where you said and I quote:

"If he wasn't taken then she'd just be fucking a single coworker...nothing wrong about that."

The whole point to this argument was that I said abandoning someone who loves you for someone else is just as wrong as cheating because THEY ARE THE SAME THING.

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Naw you jumped on pinkbird calling her a cunt because she prefers to date men who are successful with money/career. And I pointed out that being selective with who one dates is a personal preference while fucking a person who is in a relationship is morally wrong. Your comparing the two is just laughable. THEY ARE NOT THE SAME THING.



Choosing to date specific people with specific attributes isn't "abandoning someone who loves you for someone else". That's a fuck boi mentality. A "nice guys finish last" mentality. Just cause someone loves you doesn't in-debt you to them, unless of course you have made promises of fidelity to them...i.e. you are in a committed monogamous relationship. SEE THEY ARE STILL NOT THE SAME THING.





So we circle back again to the original point of this discussion (not argument)...







....you trippin.

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Why would you want that?


Humor.

Yeah but out of spite. I don't want you to be spiteful towards me.

I only insult when I do cause I seriously genuinely think the person is being stupid and they need to know it.
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I'm not spiteful normally. I usually only go full bitch on people I think have zero moral compass, or condone people that lack morality. Hence why the other two moronic imbeciles get the worst of it from me.