Do you miss and/or still have feelings for any of your exes?

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Mohini
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Posted by Tahva13
I'd have to say the answer would be No. Sometimes I will think about how it could have turned out, but I usually end up realizing thinking that way is a waste of time.
In my head I put it like this; "They had their chance, they don't get another."
This isn't to say that this rule always necessarily applies entirely, but I am not the type to stay hung up on something. Either you or with me or you or not, as soon as you decided that you are not you are pretty much written off in my mind. Now I will admit it is possible for an Ex to change and become better, and that there were times in the past especially right after the break up that I would miss my Ex a lot.
It is perfectly normal to miss your Ex within the first 4 months after the break up depending on how serious the relationship sometimes longer, however usually after you start dating another person and actually find something that is as or more fulfilling than your last relationship that fades and dies away.
A lot of the time a relationship doesn't work out for a reason, and wasting time thinking about if you did something wrong, or if maybe you just didn't work hard enough doesn't fix that. You made your decision. Stick with it.
Without reading, if you write that much you are still stuck.
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Mermaiddreams
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Yes I'm currently going through pains of missing a guy I used to talk to. He was a Sagg....and the times we shared were amazing from going to the beach at midnight gazing upon the stars to slow dancing drunk at 2 am to oldies with each other. He drove me crazy, but I was on fire for him. Sometimes I wish he could feel how much I cared for him, telepathically (lol) and show up at my doorstep.
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Keres
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I miss and think about all my exes. Though I know that we did not work and are ultimately incompatible, the good times and memories still made it worth it to try.




disclaimer: my exes may have a different answer to this... :p
Haha, good point. I can't help wondering if he (Cancer ex) misses me and thinks about me...
I've had 3 cancers reappear post breakup so it's possible
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I blocked him, so he can't contact me anymore. He hurt me so badly, and I had to move on, so I completely removed him from my life. I still can't help wondering, like I said, if I'm ever on his mind, but I won't give him the opportunity to ever hurt me again.
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2 of them.

A Libra and an Aries. The Libra, I'm convinced is nuttier than a psych ward patient. The Aries is a man Hoe.
so that's a "no" ? lol !
Lol. No, it isn't a no. They were hot messes and yet I still have feelings for them.

I'm pathetic, lol.
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don't go there - we've all been there ... my son is 37 and I still have the hots for what his father and I had - dam Virgo!
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Posted by Keres
Posted by Cappuccino
Posted by Keres
Posted by rabidtalker
I miss and think about all my exes. Though I know that we did not work and are ultimately incompatible, the good times and memories still made it worth it to try.




disclaimer: my exes may have a different answer to this... :p
Haha, good point. I can't help wondering if he (Cancer ex) misses me and thinks about me...
I've had 3 cancers reappear post breakup so it's possible
I blocked him, so he can't contact me anymore. He hurt me so badly, and I had to move on, so I completely removed him from my life. I still can't help wondering, like I said, if I'm ever on his mind, but I won't give him the opportunity to ever hurt me again.
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Curiosity has peaked on this, when did the blocking take place?
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Keres
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Posted by Brandonb55
Posted by Keres
Posted by Cappuccino
Posted by Keres
Posted by rabidtalker
I miss and think about all my exes. Though I know that we did not work and are ultimately incompatible, the good times and memories still made it worth it to try.




disclaimer: my exes may have a different answer to this... :p
Haha, good point. I can't help wondering if he (Cancer ex) misses me and thinks about me...
I've had 3 cancers reappear post breakup so it's possible
I blocked him, so he can't contact me anymore. He hurt me so badly, and I had to move on, so I completely removed him from my life. I still can't help wondering, like I said, if I'm ever on his mind, but I won't give him the opportunity to ever hurt me again.
Curiosity has peaked on this, when did the blocking take place?
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Almost 2 months ago