
Do you miss and/or still have feelings for any of your exes?



Posted by Tahva13Without reading, if you write that much you are still stuck.
I'd have to say the answer would be No. Sometimes I will think about how it could have turned out, but I usually end up realizing thinking that way is a waste of time.
In my head I put it like this; "They had their chance, they don't get another."
This isn't to say that this rule always necessarily applies entirely, but I am not the type to stay hung up on something. Either you or with me or you or not, as soon as you decided that you are not you are pretty much written off in my mind. Now I will admit it is possible for an Ex to change and become better, and that there were times in the past especially right after the break up that I would miss my Ex a lot.
It is perfectly normal to miss your Ex within the first 4 months after the break up depending on how serious the relationship sometimes longer, however usually after you start dating another person and actually find something that is as or more fulfilling than your last relationship that fades and dies away.
A lot of the time a relationship doesn't work out for a reason, and wasting time thinking about if you did something wrong, or if maybe you just didn't work hard enough doesn't fix that. You made your decision. Stick with it.




Posted by AndalusiaMy bad. Just realized this is on a sign specific board, not a general one.
I definitely have positive memories of feelings for my exes.
As for actual feelings, no, probably not.. that requires proximity and energy exchange, imo, and I haven't been in touch with most of them for awhile.

Posted by sunkisses26Unfortunately... ๐ข
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do you?

Posted by AndalusiaAnyone is welcome to answer ๐Posted by AndalusiaMy bad. Just realized this is on a sign specific board, not a general one.
I definitely have positive memories of feelings for my exes.
As for actual feelings, no, probably not.. that requires proximity and energy exchange, imo, and I haven't been in touch with most of them for awhile.click to expand



Posted by rabidtalkerHaha, good point. I can't help wondering if he (Cancer ex) misses me and thinks about me...
I miss and think about all my exes. Though I know that we did not work and are ultimately incompatible, the good times and memories still made it worth it to try.
disclaimer: my exes may have a different answer to this... :p


Posted by MohiniWhat's your moon sign?
I hope someone can shed light to this. I have had .... 3 years with no resolve. P i t I f u l. Meh.



Posted by sunkisses26No worries there. I have a boyfriend who treats me SO much better!Posted by Keressigh same! don't give in though....you guys are ex's for a reason....Posted by sunkisses26Unfortunately... ๐ข
yyyyyyeeessss!!! ๐ข
do you?click to expand

Posted by CappuccinoI blocked him, so he can't contact me anymore. He hurt me so badly, and I had to move on, so I completely removed him from my life. I still can't help wondering, like I said, if I'm ever on his mind, but I won't give him the opportunity to ever hurt me again.Posted by KeresI've had 3 cancers reappear post breakup so it's possiblePosted by rabidtalkerHaha, good point. I can't help wondering if he (Cancer ex) misses me and thinks about me...
I miss and think about all my exes. Though I know that we did not work and are ultimately incompatible, the good times and memories still made it worth it to try.
disclaimer: my exes may have a different answer to this... :p
click to expand

Posted by capricornmoonso that's a "no" ? lol !
2 of them.
A Libra and an Aries. The Libra, I'm convinced is nuttier than a psych ward patient. The Aries is a man Hoe.


Posted by capricornmoondon't go there - we've all been there ... my son is 37 and I still have the hots for what his father and I had - dam Virgo!Posted by tctaLol. No, it isn't a no. They were hot messes and yet I still have feelings for them.Posted by capricornmoonso that's a "no" ? lol !
2 of them.
A Libra and an Aries. The Libra, I'm convinced is nuttier than a psych ward patient. The Aries is a man Hoe.
I'm pathetic, lol.click to expand

Posted by Illuminatiew
Most cancer men I know like to keep tap on their exes.



Posted by KeresCuriosity has peaked on this, when did the blocking take place?Posted by CappuccinoI blocked him, so he can't contact me anymore. He hurt me so badly, and I had to move on, so I completely removed him from my life. I still can't help wondering, like I said, if I'm ever on his mind, but I won't give him the opportunity to ever hurt me again.Posted by KeresI've had 3 cancers reappear post breakup so it's possiblePosted by rabidtalkerHaha, good point. I can't help wondering if he (Cancer ex) misses me and thinks about me...
I miss and think about all my exes. Though I know that we did not work and are ultimately incompatible, the good times and memories still made it worth it to try.
disclaimer: my exes may have a different answer to this... :p
click to expand


Posted by enfant_terribleLeeb moon 3rd housePosted by MohiniWhat's your moon sign?
I hope someone can shed light to this. I have had .... 3 years with no resolve. P i t I f u l. Meh.click to expand

Posted by Brandonb55Almost 2 months agoPosted by KeresCuriosity has peaked on this, when did the blocking take place?Posted by CappuccinoI blocked him, so he can't contact me anymore. He hurt me so badly, and I had to move on, so I completely removed him from my life. I still can't help wondering, like I said, if I'm ever on his mind, but I won't give him the opportunity to ever hurt me again.Posted by KeresI've had 3 cancers reappear post breakup so it's possiblePosted by rabidtalkerHaha, good point. I can't help wondering if he (Cancer ex) misses me and thinks about me...
I miss and think about all my exes. Though I know that we did not work and are ultimately incompatible, the good times and memories still made it worth it to try.
disclaimer: my exes may have a different answer to this... :p
click to expand

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