Here we go, the over analyzing of everything again.
I'm trying to communicate with a cancer guy about why i felt so uncertain about things..
If it doesnt feel right, its not. Move on.
Posted by vesperYou are over analyzing everything.Posted by nikkistari don't think so it's just things that could leave me baffled WHY
Here we go, the over analyzing of everything again.
what's wronged with that!? if you can't help then at least kindly do not go over the top.
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Look at your initial post. You are getting into detailed responses and freaking out over texting. You are causing your own anxiety trying to read into everything he says and does.
It makes you look crazy.
Posted by vesperThis is what I meant about you looking crazy. Quoting me twice in the matter of a few minutes, getting all freaked out over everything.Posted by nikkistarif not the what's you lessons what you going to taught me? senseless HARM?
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JFC
Posted by vesperIf this is how you act on a site, I can only imagine how you act in texting.Posted by nikkistarPosted by vesperYou are over analyzing everything.Posted by nikkistari don't think so it's just things that could leave me baffled WHY
Here we go, the over analyzing of everything again.
what's wronged with that!? if you can't help then at least kindly do not go over the top.
Look at your initial post. You are getting into detailed responses and freaking out over texting. You are causing your own anxiety trying to read into everything he says and does.
It makes you look crazy.
texting? hmmm, this is about wanting to communicate in person not texting.
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Let me break it down, you are getting detailed with you initial post, telling us every minute detail. This tells me you are analyzing EVERYTHING, because you need to put every single detail of what was happening and what was being said.
You come off as a jumbled mess that is over analyzing everything for that simple trait alone. That tells me, you are most likely in your own head causing most of the anxiety issues.
Posted by vesperNo, I said you are LOOKING crazy.Posted by nikkistarlol you crazy! if that's what you think woman. 😄Posted by vesperThis is what I meant about you looking crazy. Quoting me twice in the matter of a few minutes, getting all freaked out over everything.Posted by nikkistarif not the what's you lessons what you going to taught me? senseless HARM?
Here we go, the over analyzing of everything again.
JFCclick to expand
You need to calm the fuck down, is what I am saying. Stop and take a breather. Your anxiety is making yourself crazy.
Posted by vesperI can't even take you seriously right now with these dumb illogical questions.Posted by nikkistarso i need to relaxed when i know the fact something isn't right about spending time with a cancer guy. have you ever dated? did you come into terms feeling anxious when you spend time with someone?Posted by vesperIf this is how you act on a site, I can only imagine how you act in texting.Posted by nikkistarPosted by vesperYou are over analyzing everything.Posted by nikkistari don't think so it's just things that could leave me baffled WHY
Here we go, the over analyzing of everything again.
what's wronged with that!? if you can't help then at least kindly do not go over the top.
Look at your initial post. You are getting into detailed responses and freaking out over texting. You are causing your own anxiety trying to read into everything he says and does.
It makes you look crazy.
texting? hmmm, this is about wanting to communicate in person not texting.
Let me break it down, you are getting detailed with you initial post, telling up every minute detail. This tells me you are analyzing EVERYTHING, because you need to put every single detail of what was happening and what was being said.
You come off as a jumbled mess that is over analyzing everything for that simple trait alone. That tells me, you are most likely in your own head causing most of the anxiety issues.
did you ever feel that?
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Posted by nikkistarPosted by vesperI can't even take you seriously right now with these dumb illogical questions.Posted by nikkistarso i need to relaxed when i know the fact something isn't right about spending time with a cancer guy. have you ever dated? did you come into terms feeling anxious when you spend time with someone?Posted by vesperIf this is how you act on a site, I can only imagine how you act in texting.Posted by nikkistarPosted by vesperYou are over analyzing everything.Posted by nikkistari don't think so it's just things that could leave me baffled WHY
Here we go, the over analyzing of everything again.
what's wronged with that!? if you can't help then at least kindly do not go over the top.
Look at your initial post. You are getting into detailed responses and freaking out over texting. You are causing your own anxiety trying to read into everything he says and does.
It makes you look crazy.
texting? hmmm, this is about wanting to communicate in person not texting.
Let me break it down, you are getting detailed with you initial post, telling up every minute detail. This tells me you are analyzing EVERYTHING, because you need to put every single detail of what was happening and what was being said.
You come off as a jumbled mess that is over analyzing everything for that simple trait alone. That tells me, you are most likely in your own head causing most of the anxiety issues.
did you ever feel that?
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good foock off!! innit!
Posted by vesperJFC.Posted by nikkistarlol totally crazy! if you don't have nothing educated to help me. then i'm not here to pay attention to you. just particular someone here to help not you. i don't think so. talking to another crazy person won't help us both. bye booPosted by vesperNo, I said you are LOOKING crazy.Posted by nikkistarlol you crazy! if that's what you think woman. 😄Posted by vesperThis is what I meant about you looking crazy. Quoting me twice in the matter of a few minutes, getting all freaked out over everything.Posted by nikkistarif not the what's you lessons what you going to taught me? senseless HARM?
Here we go, the over analyzing of everything again.
JFC
You need to calm the fuck down, is what I am saying. Stop and take a breather. Your anxiety is making yourself crazy.
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@rockyroadicecream - I found another.
Posted by vesperIn about a week, I expect the "Cancer man left me, How do I get him back" thread.Posted by nikkistarPosted by vesperI can't even take you seriously right now with these dumb illogical questions.Posted by nikkistarso i need to relaxed when i know the fact something isn't right about spending time with a cancer guy. have you ever dated? did you come into terms feeling anxious when you spend time with someone?Posted by vesperIf this is how you act on a site, I can only imagine how you act in texting.Posted by nikkistarPosted by vesperYou are over analyzing everything.Posted by nikkistari don't think so it's just things that could leave me baffled WHY
Here we go, the over analyzing of everything again.
what's wronged with that!? if you can't help then at least kindly do not go over the top.
Look at your initial post. You are getting into detailed responses and freaking out over texting. You are causing your own anxiety trying to read into everything he says and does.
It makes you look crazy.
texting? hmmm, this is about wanting to communicate in person not texting.
Let me break it down, you are getting detailed with you initial post, telling up every minute detail. This tells me you are analyzing EVERYTHING, because you need to put every single detail of what was happening and what was being said.
You come off as a jumbled mess that is over analyzing everything for that simple trait alone. That tells me, you are most likely in your own head causing most of the anxiety issues.
did you ever feel that?
good foock off!! innit!
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In all fairness, I don't think Nikki was trying to insult you. I think she was trying to help.
But, if it doesn't feel right it isn't. Maybe you're over thinking is coming from something that needs to be healed within and its making you uneasy. Or perhaps you subconsciously know this isn't the person for you, so you're critiquing. Either way, just let it go.
Intuition does not lie.
But, if it doesn't feel right it isn't. Maybe you're over thinking is coming from something that needs to be healed within and its making you uneasy. Or perhaps you subconsciously know this isn't the person for you, so you're critiquing. Either way, just let it go.
Intuition does not lie.
Posted by nikkistarPosted by vesperIn about a week, I expect the "Cancer man left me, How do I get him back" thread.Posted by nikkistarPosted by vesperI can't even take you seriously right now with these dumb illogical questions.Posted by nikkistarso i need to relaxed when i know the fact something isn't right about spending time with a cancer guy. have you ever dated? did you come into terms feeling anxious when you spend time with someone?Posted by vesperIf this is how you act on a site, I can only imagine how you act in texting.Posted by nikkistarPosted by vesperYou are over analyzing everything.Posted by nikkistari don't think so it's just things that could leave me baffled WHY
Here we go, the over analyzing of everything again.
what's wronged with that!? if you can't help then at least kindly do not go over the top.
Look at your initial post. You are getting into detailed responses and freaking out over texting. You are causing your own anxiety trying to read into everything he says and does.
It makes you look crazy.
texting? hmmm, this is about wanting to communicate in person not texting.
Let me break it down, you are getting detailed with you initial post, telling up every minute detail. This tells me you are analyzing EVERYTHING, because you need to put every single detail of what was happening and what was being said.
You come off as a jumbled mess that is over analyzing everything for that simple trait alone. That tells me, you are most likely in your own head causing most of the anxiety issues.
did you ever feel that?
good foock off!! innit!
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I'm actually the one who wants to just go and let go of this but obviously he won't until we talked things through
your*
Posted by vesper...Posted by nikkistarPosted by vesperIn about a week, I expect the "Cancer man left me, How do I get him back" thread.Posted by nikkistarPosted by vesperI can't even take you seriously right now with these dumb illogical questions.Posted by nikkistarso i need to relaxed when i know the fact something isn't right about spending time with a cancer guy. have you ever dated? did you come into terms feeling anxious when you spend time with someone?Posted by vesperIf this is how you act on a site, I can only imagine how you act in texting.Posted by nikkistarPosted by vesperYou are over analyzing everything.Posted by nikkistari don't think so it's just things that could leave me baffled WHY
Here we go, the over analyzing of everything again.
what's wronged with that!? if you can't help then at least kindly do not go over the top.
Look at your initial post. You are getting into detailed responses and freaking out over texting. You are causing your own anxiety trying to read into everything he says and does.
It makes you look crazy.
texting? hmmm, this is about wanting to communicate in person not texting.
Let me break it down, you are getting detailed with you initial post, telling up every minute detail. This tells me you are analyzing EVERYTHING, because you need to put every single detail of what was happening and what was being said.
You come off as a jumbled mess that is over analyzing everything for that simple trait alone. That tells me, you are most likely in your own head causing most of the anxiety issues.
did you ever feel that?
good foock off!! innit!
I'm actually the one who wants to just go and let go of this but obviously he won't until we talked things throughclick to expand
LMAO
I just can't.
Posted by heliumfiascoI wasn't.
In all fairness, I don't think Nikki was trying to insult you. I think she was trying to help.
But, if it doesn't feel right it isn't. Maybe you're over thinking is coming from something that needs to be healed within and its making you uneasy. Or perhaps you subconsciously know this isn't the person for you, so you're critiquing. Either way, just let it go.
Intuition does not lie.
She can't correlate me trying to say that her anxiety is getting the better of her, and causing her to become erratic sounding.
My bestfriend does this stuff. ALL THE TIME.
But then she annoyed me with her lack of reading comprehension, and I did my thing.
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