Posted by confusedlibra78
I feel awkward with him, which isn't usually how I am. Maybe he wants someone more bold in bed. I am but only when I'm given the green light and know the guy is into me.
Posted by enfant_terribleYes, I agree with you. I am more of a submissive woman when it comes to sex BUT I like a little bit of feedback when I'm initiating. For example, the other day I was cuddling up to his back and touching his chest and kissing the back of his neck and then happened to move my hand down there and he was hard. Then I gave him a bj that made him shake. However, he gave me zero indication that he was turned on. In fact, he didn't move, he didn't make any noises, nothing. It's not fun to go in for sex and then be rejected, which is sort of what happened yesterday. I'm used to physical responses when I touch a guy.Posted by confusedlibra78
I feel awkward with him, which isn't usually how I am. Maybe he wants someone more bold in bed. I am but only when I'm given the green light and know the guy is into me.
Comes a time when you get tired of having to be the only one to initiate - like, is this chick even interested in sex? Is she just too shy to express herself?
Did you ever stop to think of it from a guy's perspective? An 21st century, whiny Crab moon guy but a guy nontheless. Because a woman rarely initiating sex will kind of raise a few questions. To me at least.
On a constructive note, he's probably mirroring your behaviour/insecurities. My advice would be start initiating more. He'll catch up in no time. You just need to start communicating more openly
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Posted by Se7enOK that makes sense I guess. You seem to be heavily influenced by your relationships. Nothing wrong with that at all it happens to all of us. I can see a lot of this rubbing off on you...when you realize it'll be too late. I'm sure you, like me, know how important a healthy sex life in order to cultivate a healthy relationship. You shouldn't be made to feel self conscious about your desires.Posted by confusedlibra78I doubt I'm the side chick, only because we spend almost all our free time together, he lets me stay at his place when he's not home, I've left my panties on the floor more than once and he never moves them, and quite frankly, he doesn't have the drive to deal with two women. All his friends and co-workers know about me. I'm not saying it's not possible, just not likely. I've been a side chick before, no I didn't know it at the time, but looking back I can see all the signs.
Stop doing that. What if you're the side chick?! Get out of that situation. Do not collect 200, do not pass go. Gtfo.
Posted by AriesLoveI'm not saying 5-10 times a day on average. That's what I could have. And my Scorp ex and I had sex 10 times in 10 hours and he came every single time and it was amazing and not quickies, so it's possible. And I disagree. The more I get, the more I want.
You are having 5-10 quickies and obviously someone isn't doing their job.
No one has to have sexy that much a day if you're doing it right the first time.
Posted by confusedlibra78Well, you've kind of sort of done your part.Posted by enfant_terribleYes, I agree with you. I am more of a submissive woman when it comes to sex BUT I like a little bit of feedback when I'm initiating. For example, the other day I was cuddling up to his back and touching his chest and kissing the back of his neck and then happened to move my hand down there and he was hard. Then I gave him a bj that made him shake. However, he gave me zero indication that he was turned on. In fact, he didn't move, he didn't make any noises, nothing. It's not fun to go in for sex and then be rejected, which is sort of what happened yesterday. I'm used to physical responses when I touch a guy.Posted by confusedlibra78
I feel awkward with him, which isn't usually how I am. Maybe he wants someone more bold in bed. I am but only when I'm given the green light and know the guy is into me.
Comes a time when you get tired of having to be the only one to initiate - like, is this chick even interested in sex? Is she just too shy to express herself?
Did you ever stop to think of it from a guy's perspective? An 21st century, whiny Crab moon guy but a guy nontheless. Because a woman rarely initiating sex will kind of raise a few questions. To me at least.
On a constructive note, he's probably mirroring your behaviour/insecurities. My advice would be start initiating more. He'll catch up in no time. You just need to start communicating more openly
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Posted by kissmygritsI completely agree, sex isn't everything. Part of what I like about him is he doesn't treat me like a total sex object and enjoys me for me. However, sex is important to some people. I don't want to have sex with lots of different people, I want to have lots of sex with one person that I'm loyal to. I'm not running around horny all the time ?? I'm horny for him when I'm with him. I want to bond on many levels (emotionally, physically, mentally) and sex is one of them. What's wrong with that?
I don't think sex drive has to do with placements. There are other factors harshing his mellow. Maybe he wants a better connection than just sex?
When the sex appeal fades what do you have? Exactly. If that's the only reason you're with him go ahead and do the break up and just Tinder all day if you're that horny.
I'm not trying to offend. I'm trying to offer options for your happiness. You're horny and unhappy. He thinks he's happy and trying to bond beyond sex. Better stop it before you mess his head up and he screws over a rebound and they come on here posting about it. 😄 On a serious note you should really be honest and break it then find someone who has the time and energy so you're matched better. 🙂
Posted by enfant_terribleHmmm, I actually resonate with that. I used to be more self conscious if I cared about them. If I didn't, I let the freak flag fly. Actually, maybe because I care some much about him, I'm holding back because I don't want to get hurt.Posted by confusedlibra78Well, you've kind of sort of done your part.Posted by enfant_terribleYes, I agree with you. I am more of a submissive woman when it comes to sex BUT I like a little bit of feedback when I'm initiating. For example, the other day I was cuddling up to his back and touching his chest and kissing the back of his neck and then happened to move my hand down there and he was hard. Then I gave him a bj that made him shake. However, he gave me zero indication that he was turned on. In fact, he didn't move, he didn't make any noises, nothing. It's not fun to go in for sex and then be rejected, which is sort of what happened yesterday. I'm used to physical responses when I touch a guy.Posted by confusedlibra78
I feel awkward with him, which isn't usually how I am. Maybe he wants someone more bold in bed. I am but only when I'm given the green light and know the guy is into me.
Comes a time when you get tired of having to be the only one to initiate - like, is this chick even interested in sex? Is she just too shy to express herself?
Did you ever stop to think of it from a guy's perspective? An 21st century, whiny Crab moon guy but a guy nontheless. Because a woman rarely initiating sex will kind of raise a few questions. To me at least.
On a constructive note, he's probably mirroring your behaviour/insecurities. My advice would be start initiating more. He'll catch up in no time. You just need to start communicating more openly
Maybe he has problem with being in a vulnerable position or something like that, hence holding back expressions.
Once upon a time in a galaxy far far away I had a far easier time expressing myself sexually with person or persons I barely knew, than with someone who is supposedly very close to me.click to expand
Posted by confusedlibra78Yeah get two individuals like that in a room and it spells disaster. You need someone less introspective who won't mirror your behaviour... it only becomes like a bad circlePosted by enfant_terribleHmmm, I actually resonate with that. I used to be more self conscious if I cared about them. If I didn't, I let the freak flag fly. Actually, maybe because I care some much about him, I'm holding back because I don't want to get hurt.Posted by confusedlibra78Well, you've kind of sort of done your part.Posted by enfant_terribleYes, I agree with you. I am more of a submissive woman when it comes to sex BUT I like a little bit of feedback when I'm initiating. For example, the other day I was cuddling up to his back and touching his chest and kissing the back of his neck and then happened to move my hand down there and he was hard. Then I gave him a bj that made him shake. However, he gave me zero indication that he was turned on. In fact, he didn't move, he didn't make any noises, nothing. It's not fun to go in for sex and then be rejected, which is sort of what happened yesterday. I'm used to physical responses when I touch a guy.Posted by confusedlibra78
I feel awkward with him, which isn't usually how I am. Maybe he wants someone more bold in bed. I am but only when I'm given the green light and know the guy is into me.
Comes a time when you get tired of having to be the only one to initiate - like, is this chick even interested in sex? Is she just too shy to express herself?
Did you ever stop to think of it from a guy's perspective? An 21st century, whiny Crab moon guy but a guy nontheless. Because a woman rarely initiating sex will kind of raise a few questions. To me at least.
On a constructive note, he's probably mirroring your behaviour/insecurities. My advice would be start initiating more. He'll catch up in no time. You just need to start communicating more openly
Maybe he has problem with being in a vulnerable position or something like that, hence holding back expressions.
Once upon a time in a galaxy far far away I had a far easier time expressing myself sexually with person or persons I barely knew, than with someone who is supposedly very close to me.
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Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by kissmygritsI completely agree, sex isn't everything. Part of what I like about him is he doesn't treat me like a total sex object and enjoys me for me. However, sex is important to some people. I don't want to have sex with lots of different people, I want to have lots of sex with one person that I'm loyal to. I'm not running around horny all the time ?? I'm horny for him when I'm with him. I want to bond on many levels (emotionally, physically, mentally) and sex is one of them. What's wrong with that?
I don't think sex drive has to do with placements. There are other factors harshing his mellow. Maybe he wants a better connection than just sex?
When the sex appeal fades what do you have? Exactly. If that's the only reason you're with him go ahead and do the break up and just Tinder all day if you're that horny.
I'm not trying to offend. I'm trying to offer options for your happiness. You're horny and unhappy. He thinks he's happy and trying to bond beyond sex. Better stop it before you mess his head up and he screws over a rebound and they come on here posting about it. 😄 On a serious note you should really be honest and break it then find someone who has the time and energy so you're matched better. 🙂
Haha!! Yeah, you won't want to hear him complaining about me. I don't want to hurt him. I care about him, moreso that anyone else I've dated in the last 3 years, but dammit, I have needs!click to expand
Posted by AriesLoveI've done that, too. Have been crippled after it and love itPosted by confusedlibra78Sex 10 times in 10 hours are quickies. Why not one good smash session for 4 or 5 hours?! SmhPosted by AriesLoveI'm not saying 5-10 times a day on average. That's what I could have. And my Scorp ex and I had sex 10 times in 10 hours and he came every single time and it was amazing and not quickies, so it's possible. And I disagree. The more I get, the more I want.
You are having 5-10 quickies and obviously someone isn't doing their job.
No one has to have sexy that much a day if you're doing it right the first time.
My preferred average is 3 times a day. I'm getting once a day, sometimes none.
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Posted by dewiklaessen1991Only 6 times?? How did you stand it?Posted by confusedlibra78
I've been with a Cancer man for almost 5 months. We see each other about 4 days and nights a week. Problem is my sex drive is WAY higher than his. I'm 5 years older and can go 5-10 times a day. I'm lucky if I get once a day with him. We actually haven't had sex the last 2 times we've been together. However, I was just with him and we spent 2 hours cuddling with him holding me very tight and giving me kisses. He was hard at various points but he didn't do anything about it.
Every other guy I've been with wouldn't stop trying to fuck me. It was almost annoying because I couldn't move without it being sexual but it was ok because my drive is high. My Cancer is very slow and doesn't just jump me and seems content to just cuddle at times but it's making me insecure. At least I know I'm not just a booty call ?? but I'm getting frustrated. Any advice?
run it's not gonna change because cancers don't take action i was with a cancer for 5 years in the 2,5 years we lived together we only had sex 6 times in those 2,5 years cancers are too damn moody if they mad they don't wanna have sex always something until we broke up he did everything he would never do before
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Posted by Se7enI know little to nothing about cancers so I don't know. I do know that they can be really judgemental. Maybe the enfant dude has a point. You might be coming off a bit hoe-ish to him. My advice is to stay true to yourself cause it looks like he already has a plan in place to change you.Posted by confusedlibra78Totally agree. I am a little more relationship influenced than some. My question is how do I talk to him about this since he's so damn sensitive.Posted by Se7enOK that makes sense I guess. You seem to be heavily influenced by your relationships. Nothing wrong with that at all it happens to all of us. I can see a lot of this rubbing off on you...when you realize it'll be too late. I'm sure you, like me, know how important a healthy sex life in order to cultivate a healthy relationship. You shouldn't be made to feel self conscious about your desires.Posted by confusedlibra78I doubt I'm the side chick, only because we spend almost all our free time together, he lets me stay at his place when he's not home, I've left my panties on the floor more than once and he never moves them, and quite frankly, he doesn't have the drive to deal with two women. All his friends and co-workers know about me. I'm not saying it's not possible, just not likely. I've been a side chick before, no I didn't know it at the time, but looking back I can see all the signs.
Stop doing that. What if you're the side chick?! Get out of that situation. Do not collect 200, do not pass go. Gtfo.
Posted by BuffaloBills28?? Thank you
Dude could be in the closet.. Who knows. You're hott.
Posted by kissmygritsHe's SUPER sensitive to criticism, so I don't know how I'd even start that conversation. It's funny because he put the moves on me super early and I figured he just wanted sex. Now it's tapered off. Maybe you're right and I've just been with guys who didn't really want me for anything else.Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by kissmygritsI completely agree, sex isn't everything. Part of what I like about him is he doesn't treat me like a total sex object and enjoys me for me. However, sex is important to some people. I don't want to have sex with lots of different people, I want to have lots of sex with one person that I'm loyal to. I'm not running around horny all the time ?? I'm horny for him when I'm with him. I want to bond on many levels (emotionally, physically, mentally) and sex is one of them. What's wrong with that?
I don't think sex drive has to do with placements. There are other factors harshing his mellow. Maybe he wants a better connection than just sex?
When the sex appeal fades what do you have? Exactly. If that's the only reason you're with him go ahead and do the break up and just Tinder all day if you're that horny.
I'm not trying to offend. I'm trying to offer options for your happiness. You're horny and unhappy. He thinks he's happy and trying to bond beyond sex. Better stop it before you mess his head up and he screws over a rebound and they come on here posting about it. 😄 On a serious note you should really be honest and break it then find someone who has the time and energy so you're matched better. 🙂
Haha!! Yeah, you won't want to hear him complaining about me. I don't want to hurt him. I care about him, moreso that anyone else I've dated in the last 3 years, but dammit, I have needs!
Awww I hear ya. Have you talked to him? Maybe he's trying to like you said not treat you like a piece of booty...
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Posted by LibrasettingPosted by confusedlibra78Maybe it's a Libra thing —Posted by LibrasettingLol of course?..if I were him we be fucking Porn stars cuz we wouldn't be able to hold on to a regular job lol jsPosted by confusedlibra78Posted by ReincarnationHmmm, I might just suggest that. He also smokes weed and drinks. Maybe that's killing the drive?Posted by confusedlibra78
I've been with a Cancer man for almost 5 months. We see each other about 4 days and nights a week. Problem is my sex drive is WAY higher than his. I'm 5 years older and can go 5-10 times a day. I'm lucky if I get once a day with him. We actually haven't had sex the last 2 times we've been together. However, I was just with him and we spent 2 hours cuddling with him holding me very tight and giving me kisses. He was hard at various points but he didn't do anything about it.
Every other guy I've been with wouldn't stop trying to fuck me. It was almost annoying because I couldn't move without it being sexual but it was ok because my drive is high. My Cancer is very slow and doesn't just jump me and seems content to just cuddle at times but it's making me insecure. At least I know I'm not just a booty call ?? but I'm getting frustrated. Any advice?
Have his testosterone and prolactin levels tested. It's a cheap test.
Lol no this dude's weird..
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Posted by heliumfiascoWhat's your cancers, moon, venus and mars? Curious..
I'm a Libra too, with a Cancer man. My Cancer wants to have sex a lot, usually 2-3 times during a visit, sometimes more. We spend about 4 times a week together. I've found him to be the most passionate sexually. It's like hes on another planet or on X haha. He also has gemini in his 8th house. Perhaps that's why?
Posted by confusedlibra78What is his moon, venus and mars?
I've been with a Cancer man for almost 5 months. We see each other about 4 days and nights a week. Problem is my sex drive is WAY higher than his. I'm 5 years older and can go 5-10 times a day. I'm lucky if I get once a day with him. We actually haven't had sex the last 2 times we've been together. However, I was just with him and we spent 2 hours cuddling with him holding me very tight and giving me kisses. He was hard at various points but he didn't do anything about it.
Every other guy I've been with wouldn't stop trying to fuck me. It was almost annoying because I couldn't move without it being sexual but it was ok because my drive is high. My Cancer is very slow and doesn't just jump me and seems content to just cuddle at times but it's making me insecure. At least I know I'm not just a booty call ?? but I'm getting frustrated. Any advice?
Posted by clippityclopHim -Posted by confusedlibra78What is his moon, venus and mars?
I've been with a Cancer man for almost 5 months. We see each other about 4 days and nights a week. Problem is my sex drive is WAY higher than his. I'm 5 years older and can go 5-10 times a day. I'm lucky if I get once a day with him. We actually haven't had sex the last 2 times we've been together. However, I was just with him and we spent 2 hours cuddling with him holding me very tight and giving me kisses. He was hard at various points but he didn't do anything about it.
Every other guy I've been with wouldn't stop trying to fuck me. It was almost annoying because I couldn't move without it being sexual but it was ok because my drive is high. My Cancer is very slow and doesn't just jump me and seems content to just cuddle at times but it's making me insecure. At least I know I'm not just a booty call ?? but I'm getting frustrated. Any advice?click to expand
Posted by MiZLeoI am happy to accept it's just not about sex, but I'd still like to have more sex. Also, I'd like for him to tell me what exactly he feels, because I have nothing to go on other than he wants to see me a lot. I need some verbal affirmation once in awhile.
It's not just about sex with you. Why can't you accept that?1
Posted by dewiklaessen1991I don't judge you for that. I can't imagine how hard it was for you. I find most people aren't willing to change until it's too latePosted by confusedlibra78I didn't i cheated on him after whining trying to fix things it was my first relationship i didn't know how to deal with it so i thought it may be better that way i told him honestly and he still wanted to stay with me all of a sudden wanted to change but it was too late i cried myself to sleep every night but he never listened plus so many things some people on dxp know and judge but believe me theirs a moment where you can get lostPosted by dewiklaessen1991Only 6 times?? How did you stand it?Posted by confusedlibra78
I've been with a Cancer man for almost 5 months. We see each other about 4 days and nights a week. Problem is my sex drive is WAY higher than his. I'm 5 years older and can go 5-10 times a day. I'm lucky if I get once a day with him. We actually haven't had sex the last 2 times we've been together. However, I was just with him and we spent 2 hours cuddling with him holding me very tight and giving me kisses. He was hard at various points but he didn't do anything about it.
Every other guy I've been with wouldn't stop trying to fuck me. It was almost annoying because I couldn't move without it being sexual but it was ok because my drive is high. My Cancer is very slow and doesn't just jump me and seems content to just cuddle at times but it's making me insecure. At least I know I'm not just a booty call ?? but I'm getting frustrated. Any advice?
run it's not gonna change because cancers don't take action i was with a cancer for 5 years in the 2,5 years we lived together we only had sex 6 times in those 2,5 years cancers are too damn moody if they mad they don't wanna have sex always something until we broke up he did everything he would never do before
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Posted by DivaCanLeoLol!! I like your directness.
just break up with him, this isn't going to work
Posted by julietteNo, I didn't every timePosted by confusedlibra78Posted by AriesLoveI'm not saying 5-10 times a day on average. That's what I could have. And my Scorp ex and I had sex 10 times in 10 hours and he came every single time and it was amazing and not quickies, so it's possible. And I disagree. The more I get, the more I want.
You are having 5-10 quickies and obviously someone isn't doing their job.
No one has to have sexy that much a day if you're doing it right the first time.
My preferred average is 3 times a day. I'm getting once a day, sometimes none.
He came every single time but what about you?
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Posted by confusedlibra78Based on your response, is it the lack of quality sex (quality = you having an orgasm/cumming) or just the quantity?Posted by julietteNo, I didn't every timePosted by confusedlibra78Posted by AriesLoveI'm not saying 5-10 times a day on average. That's what I could have. And my Scorp ex and I had sex 10 times in 10 hours and he came every single time and it was amazing and not quickies, so it's possible. And I disagree. The more I get, the more I want.
You are having 5-10 quickies and obviously someone isn't doing their job.
No one has to have sexy that much a day if you're doing it right the first time.
My preferred average is 3 times a day. I'm getting once a day, sometimes none.
He came every single time but what about you?
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Posted by LibrasettingPosted by confusedlibra78And my Mars is in Scorpio, lolPosted by LibrasettingPosted by confusedlibra78Maybe it's a Libra thing —Posted by LibrasettingLol of course?..if I were him we be fucking Porn stars cuz we wouldn't be able to hold on to a regular job lol jsPosted by confusedlibra78Posted by ReincarnationHmmm, I might just suggest that. He also smokes weed and drinks. Maybe that's killing the drive?Posted by confusedlibra78
I've been with a Cancer man for almost 5 months. We see each other about 4 days and nights a week. Problem is my sex drive is WAY higher than his. I'm 5 years older and can go 5-10 times a day. I'm lucky if I get once a day with him. We actually haven't had sex the last 2 times we've been together. However, I was just with him and we spent 2 hours cuddling with him holding me very tight and giving me kisses. He was hard at various points but he didn't do anything about it.
Every other guy I've been with wouldn't stop trying to fuck me. It was almost annoying because I couldn't move without it being sexual but it was ok because my drive is high. My Cancer is very slow and doesn't just jump me and seems content to just cuddle at times but it's making me insecure. At least I know I'm not just a booty call ?? but I'm getting frustrated. Any advice?
Have his testosterone and prolactin levels tested. It's a cheap test.
Lol no this dude's weird..
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? You get where I'm coming from, right?
Lol maybe, I do have my Mars in Sag also tho
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Posted by Se7enI have to be honest with you. I don't like this guyPosted by confusedlibra78Ahahaha!! I def do not want to come off that way. I'm actually super loyal, I've got a young kid, I act like a lady, etc. It's just behind closed doors that I want to get it on, lol. He can't change me. I may be a wishy washy Libra, but I am who I am and I change for no one unless I want to.Posted by Se7enI know little to nothing about cancers so I don't know. I do know that they can be really judgemental. Maybe the enfant dude has a point. You might be coming off a bit hoe-ish to him. My advice is to stay true to yourself cause it looks like he already has a plan in place to change you.Posted by confusedlibra78Totally agree. I am a little more relationship influenced than some. My question is how do I talk to him about this since he's so damn sensitive.Posted by Se7enOK that makes sense I guess. You seem to be heavily influenced by your relationships. Nothing wrong with that at all it happens to all of us. I can see a lot of this rubbing off on you...when you realize it'll be too late. I'm sure you, like me, know how important a healthy sex life in order to cultivate a healthy relationship. You shouldn't be made to feel self conscious about your desires.Posted by confusedlibra78I doubt I'm the side chick, only because we spend almost all our free time together, he lets me stay at his place when he's not home, I've left my panties on the floor more than once and he never moves them, and quite frankly, he doesn't have the drive to deal with two women. All his friends and co-workers know about me. I'm not saying it's not possible, just not likely. I've been a side chick before, no I didn't know it at the time, but looking back I can see all the signs.
Stop doing that. What if you're the side chick?! Get out of that situation. Do not collect 200, do not pass go. Gtfo.
Posted by julietteWhat's your sign? Have you talked to him about it?
My guy sounds like you, though he is a Gemini with big Taurus impact. I'm starting litteraly to feel sick cause I know he wants 24/7 and I have other plans. One awesome sesion is completely enough for me, orgasm couple of times with big finish and I'm dead after. He comes to my home with his dick already being hard! I just can't ?
Posted by DivaCanLeoI'm not saying it will work, but I like him enough that I'm willing to try
why doesn't the OP answer me, why isn't she breaking up with him?
this isn't going to work. we all know it
Posted by MiZLeoLol, he does talk a lot, but just about surface stuff. He also never asks about me. He will let a feeling slip every so often.
Cancer men are quiet. They don't verbalize like Libras or Leo's. Unless they are really comfortable with you, then they don't shut up. Lol. People thought my husband was a def mute for years 😆 But problem is since they keep things bottled up, it comes out in burst.
Why are you with him anyway? Your OP makes it sound like you don't even like him. He isn't great in bed. He isn't great looking. He doesn't talk to you. He doesn't have sex with you. You don't want to marry him. Why are you waisting your time and his?
Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by clippityclopHim -Posted by confusedlibra78What is his moon, venus and mars?
I've been with a Cancer man for almost 5 months. We see each other about 4 days and nights a week. Problem is my sex drive is WAY higher than his. I'm 5 years older and can go 5-10 times a day. I'm lucky if I get once a day with him. We actually haven't had sex the last 2 times we've been together. However, I was just with him and we spent 2 hours cuddling with him holding me very tight and giving me kisses. He was hard at various points but he didn't do anything about it.
Every other guy I've been with wouldn't stop trying to fuck me. It was almost annoying because I couldn't move without it being sexual but it was ok because my drive is high. My Cancer is very slow and doesn't just jump me and seems content to just cuddle at times but it's making me insecure. At least I know I'm not just a booty call ?? but I'm getting frustrated. Any advice?
Moon - Sag
Venus - Virgo
Mars - Cancer
Me -
Moon - Virgo
Venus - Scorp
Mars - Scorp
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Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by kissmygritsHe's SUPER sensitive to criticism, so I don't know how I'd even start that conversation. It's funny because he put the moves on me super early and I figured he just wanted sex. Now it's tapered off. Maybe you're right and I've just been with guys who didn't really want me for anything else.Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by kissmygritsI completely agree, sex isn't everything. Part of what I like about him is he doesn't treat me like a total sex object and enjoys me for me. However, sex is important to some people. I don't want to have sex with lots of different people, I want to have lots of sex with one person that I'm loyal to. I'm not running around horny all the time ?? I'm horny for him when I'm with him. I want to bond on many levels (emotionally, physically, mentally) and sex is one of them. What's wrong with that?
I don't think sex drive has to do with placements. There are other factors harshing his mellow. Maybe he wants a better connection than just sex?
When the sex appeal fades what do you have? Exactly. If that's the only reason you're with him go ahead and do the break up and just Tinder all day if you're that horny.
I'm not trying to offend. I'm trying to offer options for your happiness. You're horny and unhappy. He thinks he's happy and trying to bond beyond sex. Better stop it before you mess his head up and he screws over a rebound and they come on here posting about it. 😄 On a serious note you should really be honest and break it then find someone who has the time and energy so you're matched better. 🙂
Haha!! Yeah, you won't want to hear him complaining about me. I don't want to hurt him. I care about him, moreso that anyone else I've dated in the last 3 years, but dammit, I have needs!
Awww I hear ya. Have you talked to him? Maybe he's trying to like you said not treat you like a piece of booty...
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Posted by KoniuchaaHe's a really laid back guy when we're together. He works a lot and very late hours, so a lot of time together is just hanging out, sleeping and cuddling. He cooks for me, he bought my son a gift when he was in NY (he's never met my son, for the record), he will have the beer or wine I like on hand or will buy me something he thinks I'll like. It's all small and subtle.
I had a feeling he had Virgo Venus. Don't expect flirting and many compliments. If we care about you, we show with actions.
Posted by julietteMy gem has a Leo Mars, 5th house. I feel your pain.
My guy sounds like you, though he is a Gemini with big Taurus impact. I'm starting litteraly to feel sick cause I know he wants 24/7 and I have other plans. One awesome sesion is completely enough for me, orgasm couple of times with big finish and I'm dead after. He comes to my home with his dick already being hard! I just can't ?
Posted by Stihl46My life doesn't revolve around sex. I'm just used to men being able and wanting to do it more than once a day, but I've never dated a Cancer.
I'm a Cancer man no way in hell could I go anymore than once a day, I could go a week without, if I'm in the mood ya if not I'm not interested.
There is more to life than sex if your life revolved around sex you've got a problem.
Posted by irreconcilabledifferencesWe'd never leave the house. Actually, we would cause sex is great anywhere. Are you dating this Cancer or just friends?Posted by confusedlibra78
And my Mars is in Scorpio, lol
Lol can I trade in this cancer girl for you? Why do all us libras have cancers!..to me it literally feels like actual cancer only cuz I dated her back in highschool for a few weeks which was just sex mostly, her beauty freaking kills me inside lol
Posted by HighTideI definitely don't want to hurt him, but it might be inevitable
This is not going to end well for him as I can sense the Libra needing air even through this post. He isn't going to take this well just letting you know and he wants to keep you all all his and he thinks he has reached the point where you will just give into him on anything lol. Set boundaries though right now, make a list of likes and dislikes you both have with each other up to this point. I'll follow a list if someone gives it to me and i'll give them one myself. I want to know what im doing to piss you off, this is my problem with Virgo they wait till the worst possible to tell you whats bothering them.
Libras are really the only logical sign who know how to speak to us in that way without us taking it the wrong way based on what mood we are in. Bring out the Libra charm and both of you can move past this.
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