Maianm's Breakdown #2 (Page 2)

Damn Mai,

girl ur getting results huh

LS - You are BAD!!!! LMAO! Bad to the bone!
Do you guys think this Venus retrograde is really goin f things up the way it says it is?

Mai,

You know I don't hate. I am full of happiness girl for you or anyone else who is getting results. I never hate on anyone on the boards. I will continue to say to you and everyone else. To each's own. You have asked me for a great deal of advice, and I am glad it is working for you!

Krobe and all others,

Girrllll!!!! LOL. I dont know what drama has been going on while I was away frolicking with my chicken and waffles. But Lord Jesus! Even Cap brough me in it. DAYUM! I digress...

But I will say this...YOU have given me advice that has been benefitial to me. OTHER PEOPLE have also given me advice that has been good, and I hope that I have helped someone with something that I have said. Thats what WE are on here for - to HELP each other out. I GREATLY APPRECIATE everyone for reading my annoying posts and threads about my silly cancer and his crusty butt shell and my crazy questions and thoughts. LOL. What happened to the Cancer men sisterhood, ladies!?!?!

Can't we all just get along!!??!?!

Today, I will play the peace maker! Just call me Martina Luther King Jr.. Dr. King if your nasty! LMAO.

It's all good ladies!!! It's ALL GOOD! Life is too short. 🙂

Mai, good thing u have someone to bring positivity into your life...

what would u do without that? hmph...probably be miserable like me

I just want some pinkberry....will one of you just bring me some daggone PINKBERRY!!!! PLEASE!!

"What happened to the Cancer men sisterhood, ladies!?!?! "

it still exists...just trying to kick a few bad apples out of it

I can show you love to. You miserable cookiemonster. I bet you stink just like that stinking looking cat, you represent.

The true Cancer sisterhood. Yes it is called texts cookiemonster have texted me and stated that because you are on the boards. They don't or won't post anymore. You are not an orginal.

You like that pain. Oh, and I got one more hit for you! Now go to the board I made for you!

Hey, I am making you happy causing you pain. I want 18,0000 pages from you haters.

lmao@ look at this nut

what is she talking about?

Dayum.

ouch!

lol Mai, the woman is a loon

Im trying to be the doggone peace maker around this piece.....but it seems not to be working!

it won't work Mai, there's too many miserable women around here. we're full of negativity

i won't knock down your lovies Moon..this is Mai's thread

MAI, MOONEYES,

MAI, I appreciate your wanting peace. You know I have respect for you. I have to admit. You have your head on right. Again, if you ever need my support. You have it. I am not referring to you, just like I was not referring to the Sweetest yesterday. You ladies give good advice. I truly enjoy reading your posts.

"Dr. King if your nasty! LMAO. "

*puts on "nasty" mask*

how's it going Dr. King?

Angel - its going good. just trying to keep up

Mai I know Im feeling the results of the retrograde, let me guess it started Tuesday or Wednesday.

I want a blue pill, one light blue and one dark blue...please.

BREAKING NEWS!

UPDATE UPDATE....not that any of you give a rat's anus after all this drama...but Cancer man HAS NOT I repeat he HAS NOT called since I spoke with him last night...

But dont worry...I figured with the retrograde it would slow up a bit. I will remain calm, cool and collected. I WILL NOT call and wait for him to call me.

Stay Tuned.

PS. Where are SRG and Cansir...lord I hope they havent ran away. I miss them! 😢

PS. Where are SRG and Cansir...lord I hope they havent ran away. I miss them!

Cansir, is OK! He is doing wonderful. I can speak for Cansir.

SF - Why did you hide it....I cant see it anymore. 😢

Well dam....Cansir cant speak to me anymore....jk. LMAO! I miss them.

lol Mai it was slowness, dont worry. Im glad to see you're handling the retro better than me, let me copy off your paper

Mai,

Cansir sent me a msgs today. That is the reason why I said, he is Ok. I am not possessive. He is free to speak! I wanted to let you know he is doing wonderful. I don't know why he won't post on the boards.

krobe,

Oh I didnt take that as you being possessive....no worries. LOL. I was really just being silly and wondering were the two lads were.

SF- Talk to me sista! What's bothering you?

nothing just some retrograde. I know its not serious but its irkin me that the more I think about it the more confused I get. And it's so hard for me to accept that I can't figure it out. This is where that initial patience we were talking about comes in. I guess I just need more reassurance from my stank butt Cancer that my giving and patience and support isnt in vain. And he hasnt done anything to make me feel it is, just that things have picked up with his business so they seems to be slowing with us and like the Taurus I am I just need some reassurance that efforts are noticed and appreciated. We're mentally and emotionally getting closer (with phone convo) but physically (no not even sex)...we've been too busy to have a meeting.

old impatient me wants to be like "if he really wanted to see you he would MAKE time", but the new sensible me is saying "just be patient and wait, the man is establishing his empire, let him handle his business and he will be comin home to you soon enough"...Im trying to find a balance so that I can tell him what I want without seeming either too demanding and not understanding or too passive like it isnt important to me to see him.

Hmm...when is the last time you have seen and/or talked to your Cancer?

I talked to him earlier today. I havent seen him in close to 3 weeks. We usually talk everyday but no less than every other day. I havent seen him in weeks tho. He works 2 jobs, one is with a club security company and the other is his own dog breeding business.

Well listen.....if i were you this is what I would do...I would live my life. I know it hurts...trust me I know exactly how you feel. But you have to keep it moving for you. Forget about all this retrograde and cancer crap. If it is in God's will for you two to be together it will, and if its not you wont be. And there is nothing that you can do about that. So go out have fun...enjoy life....and take each day at a time. Prayer for strength and disernment. Let go...and see what happens. Keep your self busy and let him come back to you..

cansir is on vacation - literally.

LOL - look at you maia....sounding all wise....now that you got your man out of his "crusty but shell" ;0)

I feel what you're saying, but its not like our relationship has fallen off it's just like its turning into a long distance relationship. I knew he was very busy and his scheduel is sporadic to say the least (you cant imagine how much trouble dogs can get into or cause) from the beginning...I could tell him to holla at me when he isnt as busy, but I think that's being inflexible and uncompromising, like I said I have no problem with the LD (as long as the communication is flowing like it is now), but I just want to know that this is a seasonal thing and not a year round scheduel. If I wanted a man who I couldnt see on a regular basis I would have gotten with a GI a long time ago. And I know part of his requirement is that you have to be able to stay loyal and dedicated when he's near and far but...I guess I really just want some assurance that this isnt a nor, its seasonal or something or if it is th norm I want to know that too so I can move on now.

lol Angel

SF - Have you had a conversation with him about this?

damn.....why's everyone always laughing at me ?..........

*stands on her head and makes baloon animals*

I mean really, I just don't get it.....

yeah in the past but not so much recently because Im trying to find that balance between letting him know this is what I really want but not making it so absolute that he feels like its nonnegotiable. Its like if he can do it I want him to do it but if he can't now but he will be able to in the future I want him to tell me that and if he wont ever change his schedueling then I want him to say that too. And he has said he was going to start switching his scheduel up but then I had some conflicts so we couldnt meet because I was busy during his free time. I guess we have conflicting scheduels to some degree right now but I feel like he could give a little more time. I think I just have to be patient and deal with it, but I want to know that when he does have time he will make time. Maybe I dont trust that he doesnt have time now....

so I guess this is really a trust issue...thanks for all the help lol

maybe you're just too much goddess for him to handle?

lol naw, he can definitely handle me (in certain situations). He's told me before that things might move slow right now and that we would get to the deeper stuff, he's asked me to be patient and that he doesnt want me to drop him. I guess what I need to be doing is sitting back weighing whether or not I can trust him instead of trying to figure out how Im going to get my way now.

SF- how old is he?

27

the crab I want just turned 28....I guess he's a little behind the other crabs in the figuring out what he wants department......

He might be Angel but that isnt necessarily a bad thing. Its just a difference of experience and personality in how well you learn from experiences and apply that knowledge to new ones.

Update! He called while I was at work. He talked my ear for like 45 minutes. Im not complaining. LOL. I finally got him off the phone so I could work

he was very sweet...and I continued to play it cool but was very nice and welcoming. Thats it for me.

yay maia !!

LOL!