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Thanks KROBE! I am trying my hardest! LOL.
Yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy Mai! Lovely girl, seems like things are going lovely despite the retro....you were so right about just forgetting it and letting life take its course
SF - Yes but like I said before, lets not start looking fo wedding dresses yet. LMAO! I'm sure his little crusty Cancer shell has some sort of lil' surprise for me. That dam shell!!! LMAO!
But yea, its going well. And I am just taking it one day at a time, like the show. LOL.
But yea, its going well. And I am just taking it one day at a time, like the show. LOL.
that's all you can do really. Good luck and many blessings.
ps even the stairway to heaven is taken step by step (according to the O'Jays), why shouldnt the stairway to love be the same 😉
"ps even the stairway to heaven is taken step by step (according to the O'Jays), why shouldnt the stairway to love be the same"
LMAO!!!! That was toooo funny!!!! TOOO FUNNY!!
LMAO!!!! That was toooo funny!!!! TOOO FUNNY!!
....that wasnt supposed to be funny it was supposed to be prolific....*walking away tossing lovies over my shoulder*
O ok!! My bad SF!!! Come back you are oh so wise!!! LOL!
lol you're still laughing! lol
Update update.....
Okay I have been kinda quiet b/c my week has been terrible, so far...with nothing that has to do with the Cancer just other things that have to do with me. I had not even spoken with him during this time.
Well, when we finally did speak yesterday he was all concerned where I was asking me all these questions...and then he was asking me what am I going to be doing while he is gone on his cruise, and that I am going to be CHEATING on him! Yes, ladies and gents he used the word "CHEATING". Now, last time I checked you cant cheat on someone unless you are in a relationsghip with them...this is the same man who was SOOOOOO insistant on NOT wanting to be in a relationship. Now, dont get me wrong I'm not saying that I have him...but I am defintely GETTING him. Men who are serious about not wanting to be in a realtinoship make SURE NOT to say things like "oh your going to be cheating on me" etc. Because they dont want to give the girl the wrong impression. They dont want to say ANYTHING that would make the girl possibly hound them for a relationship.
So anyway, he kept talking like that, and then was like well I want to see you before I leave on Friday morning. So, I guess we are supposed to see each other tonight. His freind is doing some type of performance. So, I guess he is going to ride up there with his friends, and wants me to meet him up there and then him and I go back to his house that night and I take him to his mom's house (where his family is meeting for the cruise) that morning before I go to work on Friday. So....he called last not to finalize the plans but I was knocked out and speaking Spanish, so he just said he would call me back today when he gets to work at 11am and we will finalize everything. So, as of now everything looks like it is going according to plan. LMAO!
Hopefully, we will have a wonderful time tonight...so he can have good thoughts of me while he is on his cruise. Because not only will we not be able to see with one another for almost 11 days we really wont be able to speak...b/c he said that he prob wont have a signal while on the cruise. So we can communicate via internet every now and then but thats about it. 😢
Anywho, just wanted to give an update. Im so silly. LOL.
Okay I have been kinda quiet b/c my week has been terrible, so far...with nothing that has to do with the Cancer just other things that have to do with me. I had not even spoken with him during this time.
Well, when we finally did speak yesterday he was all concerned where I was asking me all these questions...and then he was asking me what am I going to be doing while he is gone on his cruise, and that I am going to be CHEATING on him! Yes, ladies and gents he used the word "CHEATING". Now, last time I checked you cant cheat on someone unless you are in a relationsghip with them...this is the same man who was SOOOOOO insistant on NOT wanting to be in a relationship. Now, dont get me wrong I'm not saying that I have him...but I am defintely GETTING him. Men who are serious about not wanting to be in a realtinoship make SURE NOT to say things like "oh your going to be cheating on me" etc. Because they dont want to give the girl the wrong impression. They dont want to say ANYTHING that would make the girl possibly hound them for a relationship.
So anyway, he kept talking like that, and then was like well I want to see you before I leave on Friday morning. So, I guess we are supposed to see each other tonight. His freind is doing some type of performance. So, I guess he is going to ride up there with his friends, and wants me to meet him up there and then him and I go back to his house that night and I take him to his mom's house (where his family is meeting for the cruise) that morning before I go to work on Friday. So....he called last not to finalize the plans but I was knocked out and speaking Spanish, so he just said he would call me back today when he gets to work at 11am and we will finalize everything. So, as of now everything looks like it is going according to plan. LMAO!
Hopefully, we will have a wonderful time tonight...so he can have good thoughts of me while he is on his cruise. Because not only will we not be able to see with one another for almost 11 days we really wont be able to speak...b/c he said that he prob wont have a signal while on the cruise. So we can communicate via internet every now and then but thats about it. 😢
Anywho, just wanted to give an update. Im so silly. LOL.
Oh,, Mai, I hope you feel better soon.
You don't have the Cancer male going away blues do you? He will be fine while he is away and you will be OK too! Just take one day at a time and do things you enjoy doing for yourself! I know you will be sad but remember, you have the crew here to help you overcome your emotions. Just come here to vent, the ladies will help you out, you know everyone is here for you. I hope you feel better, so have BIG fun tonight. Forget the popcorn girl this is MAJOR!
You don't have the Cancer male going away blues do you? He will be fine while he is away and you will be OK too! Just take one day at a time and do things you enjoy doing for yourself! I know you will be sad but remember, you have the crew here to help you overcome your emotions. Just come here to vent, the ladies will help you out, you know everyone is here for you. I hope you feel better, so have BIG fun tonight. Forget the popcorn girl this is MAJOR!
Krobe - I am actually not that sad YET. I am sure tomorrow when we say goodbye I will be sad. But I know it will be fine. In fact, I feel reassured in the fact that he wants to see me again before he leaves and the way that he was talking yesterday, which completely caught me off gaurd. We will be fine, hopefully. And this may be good. He can go on the cruise and relax ....collect his thoughts...and thats definitely a good thing. So i havent gotten too bad yet.
Yes, this is major! I have to leave him with a super GOOD taste in his mouth,when it comes to me, before he leaves. LMAO. JK. Thanks!
Yes, this is major! I have to leave him with a super GOOD taste in his mouth,when it comes to me, before he leaves. LMAO. JK. Thanks!
Yes, this is major! I have to leave him with a super GOOD taste in his mouth,when it comes to me, before he leaves. LMAO. JK. Thanks!
Don't jk too much about the great taste! This is major! LOL!
Don't jk too much about the great taste! This is major! LOL!
lol Lovely Mai, I told you these classes would pay off! It reads like it is going excellently and I'm very excited for you. Do your thing girl and enjoy him while you can. My Cancer likes to enjoy me before he goes and after he comes back so dont be too surprised if he gets back and expects that you meet him with fanfare and balloons lol. *joyously tossing lovies*
where is LS things just arent the same without her?!
Update...
Spent last night with my Cancer. We had a pretty good time. We met up at this club where his friend was performing and we went back to his place for like 2 hrs, b/c he had to be at his mother's house so that they could go to the airport by 4am and we got to his house at like 2am. So we spent some time together and then I dropped him off at his mom's house.
He kept talking about how much he is going to be miss me, and what I am going to do while he is gone and me not forgetting him. I think he is kinda worried that I will stray while he is gone, but we all know that isnt the case. So anyways, we hugged and kissed and said see ya later. I went straight to work from there, and he told me to call him and let him know once I got to work. In tradition of taking a step back, I didnt call (even though I wanted to) I text messaged him and told him that I had arrived at work and for him to have a good time on his cruise and to be safe. Then he texted me back Thanks for everything I will try my best to contact you while I am away, if not I will call you as soon as I get back on the 13th. See you soon!.
Aww...I am kinda down. I dont know if it is the sleep deprevation or sadness or a combo of both. But I am going to miss him, that's one thing for sure and I am tired and sleepy as hell. But I do feel good that he is really starting to show me how much he cares....that makes me feel so good and makes the loss of sleep worth it. Of course, I acted like I wasnt tired and it was no big deal, b/c I didnt want him to kow that I would actually make myself this tired to see him. LOL.
Anyways...so that's that...the missing him begins.
Spent last night with my Cancer. We had a pretty good time. We met up at this club where his friend was performing and we went back to his place for like 2 hrs, b/c he had to be at his mother's house so that they could go to the airport by 4am and we got to his house at like 2am. So we spent some time together and then I dropped him off at his mom's house.
He kept talking about how much he is going to be miss me, and what I am going to do while he is gone and me not forgetting him. I think he is kinda worried that I will stray while he is gone, but we all know that isnt the case. So anyways, we hugged and kissed and said see ya later. I went straight to work from there, and he told me to call him and let him know once I got to work. In tradition of taking a step back, I didnt call (even though I wanted to) I text messaged him and told him that I had arrived at work and for him to have a good time on his cruise and to be safe. Then he texted me back Thanks for everything I will try my best to contact you while I am away, if not I will call you as soon as I get back on the 13th. See you soon!.
Aww...I am kinda down. I dont know if it is the sleep deprevation or sadness or a combo of both. But I am going to miss him, that's one thing for sure and I am tired and sleepy as hell. But I do feel good that he is really starting to show me how much he cares....that makes me feel so good and makes the loss of sleep worth it. Of course, I acted like I wasnt tired and it was no big deal, b/c I didnt want him to kow that I would actually make myself this tired to see him. LOL.
Anyways...so that's that...the missing him begins.
Mai my Cancer was the same way when he thought he was going to be out of town for a week. The day before he had to be assured I wouldnt drop him while he was gone. Then the day he thought he was leaving he talked to me for like 3 hours on the phone and made me promise no matter what we would always be friends then found out he didnt even have to go. I think they do worry about what's going on while they are away. They can be really sweet cant they? *lovies*
So missing him begins *huggs*. This is one major Slow Ya Roll lesson, but well worth it. And like Krobe said the crew will be here if you need us, but really I know you probably dont plan on sitting at home pining.
So missing him begins *huggs*. This is one major Slow Ya Roll lesson, but well worth it. And like Krobe said the crew will be here if you need us, but really I know you probably dont plan on sitting at home pining.
Hey Mai, we are here for you! Get some sleep girl! You have alot of shoulders to cry on if you get down and out from missing him.
NOW GET SOME SLEEP!
NOW GET SOME SLEEP!
I got some sleep!!! Yaaayy. Im better now..but was pretty sad yesterday. But Im over it. I still miss him, but its all good. He wil be back before I know it. Thanks guys for your support! Aw I can feel the love.
Dont tell me Ms.Mai is out living the free wild life while Mr.Cancer is away?
that or curled up in a ball in the corner....
that reminds me
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that reminds me
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lol LS I mean Angel....
just a little something to keep ya going ;0)
Sorry guys I have been MIA. I was ina car accident on Sunday. my neck is pretty f'ed up. But all is well other than that. Just havent felt like typingtoo much lately.
awww Mai, Im sorry to hear that. I hope you feel much better very soon.
Mai, I will pray for you sweetheart. That is terrible news and I hope you feel better. May God be with you and just get some rest! We will continue to support you and I wish you well.
SF and Krobe...thanks guys! I really appreciate it. 🙂
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