yes chocolate I learned that lesson early thankfully...I always trust my instincts. They may at times defy logic - but god has every right to defy logic if he so chooses.... at any rate the problem we seem to have here in this forum is that some people, when they are not listened to, attack others.....then there are those of us who can play nicely together even when we don't agree.
Lol@notso. Its true....Lord knows that I have gotten advice that I did not want to hear, whether it be correct or incorrect. But regardless, I had to respect the person's opinion, even if I did not agree with it. Respect is key. 🙂
Exactly Notso...Even on this site people have told me stuff that I didnt want to hear. Some of the advice was true..other parts not so much true. But I heard them and took it in. Some advice I followed, some I did not. But I respected their opinon non-the-less.
Hey ALL the regular ladies that I get texts from. Just text me. I will continue 2 give out good advice that is working 4 U ladies. But, I don't have time 2 lower my standards 2 women I don't know, or truthfully care nothing about. I am not miserable. And, I don't have time feeding it company. I have 2 men.
It just amazes me Krobe that you allow for LK to get under ur skin and for that other side to come forth. Why does she irriate you that u have to react in such a way? Which you always say that you avoid or hate Negativity, but u have allowed for the true Krobe to be seen. You allowed her to get to U. So the same way that you preach to these women about dont chase dont fall into the trap.......LK has trapped you and you took bait and she chased you and you chased her back. So now what—
Choco, U fail 2 realize, LK will NEVER get under my skin. I just treat her the way she wants 2 B treated and if that means that she thinks she gets under my skin. Then I treat her like that. Not because she makes me mad.
Again, I repeat life is full of choices. Sometimes U win some, sometimes U lose. Life is nothing but a RISK! If U risk the right way. U can have the both of BEST worlds, because it is not left up 2 a man 2 pick and choose U. U R SUPPOSED 2 B the one, picking and chosing the man. So, many women R ran by emotions, that men have turned the tables on us. So, someone will get hurt, hell it might B me. Both of my men know about each other. They OVERLOOK each other and act like the other does not exist. And they don't DARE say anything about the other. I guess when U know how 2 trigger into a man's heart. U can have a couple of them. I want 2 know who made the rule up that women cannot date as many men as they want. Esp. when U don't allow yourself 2 become 2 attached.
LS! No, believe it or not U have not been kicking up negativity. Women take my advice like a knife in the heart. They don't understand. BUt, OMG! I have been waiting 4 U 2 get back on. I want 2 send U something. U R going 2 DIE when U find this out.
this really was very funny to me...wish half the posts weren't hidden (ahem...krobe & tiki)
U know LS, we leave our posts up and then take them off. It was drama of course. I let the big time Leokitten lawyer think she got under my skin. SO, U know the lion roared at her 2 make her think she was doing something when all I know she is trying 2 do is get 2 me. But, NEVER, I treat shi-- like shit. And I don't owe no explanation 2 NO ONE 4 treating them they way they present themselves.
But, I have been waiting 4 U 2 post. I want 2 send U something. If U don't mind!
well choco, I thought we were cool atleast cool on a virtual PC level, so to insinuate that I am someone else well thats jus f*cked up, you knew me on here waaaay before krobe showed up, yes my methods have changed in how i approach relationships etc but I have never ever came at you like that. I have always given you respect and showed nothing but kindness towards you so i'm a little sore but you have your reasons and of course i will get over it. Your not one to hold your tongue so I would have thought you would have approached that differently, I have no problem with you at all but I see that its not the case with you ::shrugs:: oh well thats life..it is what it is.
not offended choco jus didn't think your claws would swipe at me but i see everyones fair game on this board lol but for the most part it seemed pretty messy that you would insinuate something like that, I was suprised by your statement but again, those are your feelings/statement and you said how you felt, I respect that...nuff said
Esp. when U don't allow yourself 2 become 2 attached.......So u telling me that ur not attached to the Cappie of 10 or 11yrs and that he's not attached to u, hun that's a decade. That seems and looks like attachment to me, i believe that ur emotional and physically attached.
Choco, U may just quit trying 2 find the need 2 figure out everything. I said what I said, I don't ALLOW myself 2 become 2 attached 2 NO human being. GOd put us on this earth 2 love, but not 2 worship. So, there it is.
Choc, I am like Tikki, U B acting like it is ALL good, but U R not a secret on the sly hater R U? Just wondering. U B trying 2 pick a lot, and Y, if U don't like my advice, simply don't read it. It works 4 me. And PLENTY of other women that have used my methods and get GOOD results.
What happened??