
BlueVelvet
@BlueVelvet
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Posted by Black-Mamba
I have way Moore disgusting observation of cancers than this
I thought this thread was going to be a hate fest
This corny

Posted by Black-MambaPosted by Ariqua
“I can’t do my times tables”
🤣 wut
She means we're smart enough to delegate things we give two sheets aboutclick to expand


Posted by DefineTruthPosted by BlueVelvet
I’ve noticed Cancers judge people based on social status. My theory is that they are kind of unable to form their own opinions on people initially.. perhaps they are easily misled and burned so they don’t trust themselves.
This makes sense when you think of the zodiac in terms of the lifespan. Aries is the newborn, Taurus is the baby becoming a toddler - all about the senses and material world, Gemini represents our development of language and mind, and then comes Cancer. This is when the child begins forming an identity.
Who the fuck am I? Says cancer. You are still learning who you are, so it is hard to separate self from other. How does one initially achieve this sense of self? It’s along the lines of how people differentiate members of a boy band - he’s the smart one, he’s the funny one, he’s the asshole.
Of all the water signs, Cancer is the puddle. It would be nice if I was proven wrong but this seems to be the case more often than not. Not trusting in themselves so they have to go with the status quo. Trusting authority over their own thoughts.
Oh boy, you just opened Pandora's box, good luck!click to expand

Posted by Black-MambaPosted by DefineTruthPosted by BlueVelvet
I’ve noticed Cancers judge people based on social status. My theory is that they are kind of unable to form their own opinions on people initially.. perhaps they are easily misled and burned so they don’t trust themselves.
This makes sense when you think of the zodiac in terms of the lifespan. Aries is the newborn, Taurus is the baby becoming a toddler - all about the senses and material world, Gemini represents our development of language and mind, and then comes Cancer. This is when the child begins forming an identity.
Who the fuck am I? Says cancer. You are still learning who you are, so it is hard to separate self from other. How does one initially achieve this sense of self? It’s along the lines of how people differentiate members of a boy band - he’s the smart one, he’s the funny one, he’s the asshole.
Of all the water signs, Cancer is the puddle. It would be nice if I was proven wrong but this seems to be the case more often than not. Not trusting in themselves so they have to go with the status quo. Trusting authority over their own thoughts.
Oh boy, you just opened Pandora's box, good luck!
explain
i am so confused
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Posted by Black-MambaPosted by nikkistarPosted by Black-MambaPosted by DefineTruthPosted by BlueVelvet
I’ve noticed Cancers judge people based on social status. My theory is that they are kind of unable to form their own opinions on people initially.. perhaps they are easily misled and burned so they don’t trust themselves.
This makes sense when you think of the zodiac in terms of the lifespan. Aries is the newborn, Taurus is the baby becoming a toddler - all about the senses and material world, Gemini represents our development of language and mind, and then comes Cancer. This is when the child begins forming an identity.
Who the fuck am I? Says cancer. You are still learning who you are, so it is hard to separate self from other. How does one initially achieve this sense of self? It’s along the lines of how people differentiate members of a boy band - he’s the smart one, he’s the funny one, he’s the asshole.
Of all the water signs, Cancer is the puddle. It would be nice if I was proven wrong but this seems to be the case more often than not. Not trusting in themselves so they have to go with the status quo. Trusting authority over their own thoughts.
Oh boy, you just opened Pandora's box, good luck!
explain
i am so confused
She is calling you guys shallow, materialistic, and unable to form opinions of people based on their own thoughts, but follow the opinion of someone else; i.e. followers.
Cardinal signs aren't followers though.
im still confused
where is the EVIDENCESSclick to expand

Posted by Black-MambaPosted by nikkistarPosted by Black-MambaPosted by nikkistarPosted by Black-MambaPosted by DefineTruthPosted by BlueVelvet
I’ve noticed Cancers judge people based on social status. My theory is that they are kind of unable to form their own opinions on people initially.. perhaps they are easily misled and burned so they don’t trust themselves.
This makes sense when you think of the zodiac in terms of the lifespan. Aries is the newborn, Taurus is the baby becoming a toddler - all about the senses and material world, Gemini represents our development of language and mind, and then comes Cancer. This is when the child begins forming an identity.
Who the fuck am I? Says cancer. You are still learning who you are, so it is hard to separate self from other. How does one initially achieve this sense of self? It’s along the lines of how people differentiate members of a boy band - he’s the smart one, he’s the funny one, he’s the asshole.
Of all the water signs, Cancer is the puddle. It would be nice if I was proven wrong but this seems to be the case more often than not. Not trusting in themselves so they have to go with the status quo. Trusting authority over their own thoughts.
Oh boy, you just opened Pandora's box, good luck!
explain
i am so confused
She is calling you guys shallow, materialistic, and unable to form opinions of people based on their own thoughts, but follow the opinion of someone else; i.e. followers.
Cardinal signs aren't followers though.
im still confused
where is the EVIDENCESS
There isn't any. But her OP is an entire shit talk about Cancers being intellectually inferior people.
That's cool. I dig that.
Does she know she doesn't have to associate with Crabs.
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Posted by AntiochusPosted by Black-MambaPosted by Antiochus
It certainly can look that way if you want it to be because they are rather simple beings. Not stupid in any way.
Just simple in the best sense.
dude just because we're not mentally incapacitated doesn't entail we're simple
We deduct, we reason, we throw the sh!t out that doesn't fit.
we do seek simple lives because in the end we know that's where happiness lies
Which is exactly what Isaid.click to expand

Posted by Emhendo
Us Cancers here is NOT studying shit you talking about... AHAHAHA!!!
I know I'm coming on brash, but what you are talking about regarding the lifespan - is literally NOT a bad thing.
You are applying it to real life Sun signs, when it's merely just a METAPHOR on human evolution a very wise person came up with..
And when it does relate to Sun sign, it only applies in very low vibrational settings. Like Taurus and tasting, smelling, feeling.. It doesn't take much to do these things.
A Taurus will happily smell they own shit and fart, but then spray Gucci Guilty on themselves. Just because one is an expensive smell, doesn't mean mean it's then - high vibrational.
Either a Taurus will eat to live, or eat to gluttony. Both things are easy to do..
Using Taurus as another example;
they also rule the senses and neck, throat, nose.. Human evolution.
What they are saying is... All infants and babies are Aries, all toddlers are Taurus, all toddlers and children are Geminis. All teenagers are Cancers - emotional, hormonal, breaking from a shell or even building one.
You have holes in your information.
Even then, the info you gave on Aries, Taurus, Gemini, and Cancer lifespan is just reciprocated second-hand information.
I would hear you out if you had more to say...
Especially when it came to Cancer, it honestly didn't make much sense to me. I'm not just saying that because I'm a Cancer, I'm sure everyone here is thinking that as well, and that's why the response is bland and we're like "meh".
A lot of Cancers have their own ideas, identity, beliefs and morals - that's why they impact history... Nikola Tesla, Julius Cesar, Alexander the Great, George Washington Carver, etc.
Like as a Cancer, it was easy for me to have my own idea about everything you said here...
In the end, it is Cardinal energy.

Posted by BlueVelvetPosted by Emhendo
Us Cancers here is NOT studying shit you talking about... AHAHAHA!!!
I know I'm coming on brash, but what you are talking about regarding the lifespan - is literally NOT a bad thing.
You are applying it to real life Sun signs, when it's merely just a METAPHOR on human evolution a very wise person came up with..
And when it does relate to Sun sign, it only applies in very low vibrational settings. Like Taurus and tasting, smelling, feeling.. It doesn't take much to do these things.
A Taurus will happily smell they own shit and fart, but then spray Gucci Guilty on themselves. Just because one is an expensive smell, doesn't mean mean it's then - high vibrational.
Either a Taurus will eat to live, or eat to gluttony. Both things are easy to do..
Using Taurus as another example;
they also rule the senses and neck, throat, nose.. Human evolution.
What they are saying is... All infants and babies are Aries, all toddlers are Taurus, all toddlers and children are Geminis. All teenagers are Cancers - emotional, hormonal, breaking from a shell or even building one.
You have holes in your information.
Even then, the info you gave on Aries, Taurus, Gemini, and Cancer lifespan is just reciprocated second-hand information.
I would hear you out if you had more to say...
Especially when it came to Cancer, it honestly didn't make much sense to me. I'm not just saying that because I'm a Cancer, I'm sure everyone here is thinking that as well, and that's why the response is bland and we're like "meh".
A lot of Cancers have their own ideas, identity, beliefs and morals - that's why they impact history... Nikola Tesla, Julius Cesar, Alexander the Great, George Washington Carver, etc.
Like as a Cancer, it was easy for me to have my own idea about everything you said here...
In the end, it is Cardinal energy.
I never said it was a bad thing. And I am thinking of it symbolically as well. Yeah yeah yeah, no one is just their sun sign, and every Aries is not a baby, blah blah. I am speaking symbolically to describe why I believe cancers are superficial. It’s not the materialistic superficiality that some other signs have. Obviously there are brilliant cancers. I don’t know why talking about tendencies is such a bad thing.
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Posted by EmhendoPosted by BlueVelvetPosted by Emhendo
Us Cancers here is NOT studying shit you talking about... AHAHAHA!!!
I know I'm coming on brash, but what you are talking about regarding the lifespan - is literally NOT a bad thing.
You are applying it to real life Sun signs, when it's merely just a METAPHOR on human evolution a very wise person came up with..
And when it does relate to Sun sign, it only applies in very low vibrational settings. Like Taurus and tasting, smelling, feeling.. It doesn't take much to do these things.
A Taurus will happily smell they own shit and fart, but then spray Gucci Guilty on themselves. Just because one is an expensive smell, doesn't mean mean it's then - high vibrational.
Either a Taurus will eat to live, or eat to gluttony. Both things are easy to do..
Using Taurus as another example;
they also rule the senses and neck, throat, nose.. Human evolution.
What they are saying is... All infants and babies are Aries, all toddlers are Taurus, all toddlers and children are Geminis. All teenagers are Cancers - emotional, hormonal, breaking from a shell or even building one.
You have holes in your information.
Even then, the info you gave on Aries, Taurus, Gemini, and Cancer lifespan is just reciprocated second-hand information.
I would hear you out if you had more to say...
Especially when it came to Cancer, it honestly didn't make much sense to me. I'm not just saying that because I'm a Cancer, I'm sure everyone here is thinking that as well, and that's why the response is bland and we're like "meh".
A lot of Cancers have their own ideas, identity, beliefs and morals - that's why they impact history... Nikola Tesla, Julius Cesar, Alexander the Great, George Washington Carver, etc.
Like as a Cancer, it was easy for me to have my own idea about everything you said here...
In the end, it is Cardinal energy.
I never said it was a bad thing. And I am thinking of it symbolically as well. Yeah yeah yeah, no one is just their sun sign, and every Aries is not a baby, blah blah. I am speaking symbolically to describe why I believe cancers are superficial. It’s not the materialistic superficiality that some other signs have. Obviously there are brilliant cancers. I don’t know why talking about tendencies is such a bad thing.
"Yeah yeah yeah, no one is just their sun sign, and every Aries is not a baby, blah blah"
Instead of skimming what I said, just read..
Because I never said that.
I said ALL BABIES ARE ARIES. I didn't say "not all Aries are babies".
How am I supposed to accept what you are presenting me, when I read everything you said, but you can't read what I said thoroughly?click to expand

Posted by BlueVelvetPosted by EmhendoPosted by BlueVelvetPosted by Emhendo
Us Cancers here is NOT studying shit you talking about... AHAHAHA!!!
I know I'm coming on brash, but what you are talking about regarding the lifespan - is literally NOT a bad thing.
You are applying it to real life Sun signs, when it's merely just a METAPHOR on human evolution a very wise person came up with..
And when it does relate to Sun sign, it only applies in very low vibrational settings. Like Taurus and tasting, smelling, feeling.. It doesn't take much to do these things.
A Taurus will happily smell they own shit and fart, but then spray Gucci Guilty on themselves. Just because one is an expensive smell, doesn't mean mean it's then - high vibrational.
Either a Taurus will eat to live, or eat to gluttony. Both things are easy to do..
Using Taurus as another example;
they also rule the senses and neck, throat, nose.. Human evolution.
What they are saying is... All infants and babies are Aries, all toddlers are Taurus, all toddlers and children are Geminis. All teenagers are Cancers - emotional, hormonal, breaking from a shell or even building one.
You have holes in your information.
Even then, the info you gave on Aries, Taurus, Gemini, and Cancer lifespan is just reciprocated second-hand information.
I would hear you out if you had more to say...
Especially when it came to Cancer, it honestly didn't make much sense to me. I'm not just saying that because I'm a Cancer, I'm sure everyone here is thinking that as well, and that's why the response is bland and we're like "meh".
A lot of Cancers have their own ideas, identity, beliefs and morals - that's why they impact history... Nikola Tesla, Julius Cesar, Alexander the Great, George Washington Carver, etc.
Like as a Cancer, it was easy for me to have my own idea about everything you said here...
In the end, it is Cardinal energy.
I never said it was a bad thing. And I am thinking of it symbolically as well. Yeah yeah yeah, no one is just their sun sign, and every Aries is not a baby, blah blah. I am speaking symbolically to describe why I believe cancers are superficial. It’s not the materialistic superficiality that some other signs have. Obviously there are brilliant cancers. I don’t know why talking about tendencies is such a bad thing.
"Yeah yeah yeah, no one is just their sun sign, and every Aries is not a baby, blah blah"
Instead of skimming what I said, just read..
Because I never said that.
I said ALL BABIES ARE ARIES. I didn't say "not all Aries are babies".
How am I supposed to accept what you are presenting me, when I read everything you said, but you can't read what I said thoroughly?
I thought you were being sarcastic. So what the fuck are we disagreeing about? I’m not here to explain everything. I ain’t writing a book for all these pseudo astrologers. I’m just providing some tidbits of info so they can delve further with their own research if it sparks anything.click to expand


Posted by EmhendoPosted by BlueVelvetPosted by EmhendoPosted by BlueVelvetPosted by Emhendo
Us Cancers here is NOT studying shit you talking about... AHAHAHA!!!
I know I'm coming on brash, but what you are talking about regarding the lifespan - is literally NOT a bad thing.
You are applying it to real life Sun signs, when it's merely just a METAPHOR on human evolution a very wise person came up with..
And when it does relate to Sun sign, it only applies in very low vibrational settings. Like Taurus and tasting, smelling, feeling.. It doesn't take much to do these things.
A Taurus will happily smell they own shit and fart, but then spray Gucci Guilty on themselves. Just because one is an expensive smell, doesn't mean mean it's then - high vibrational.
Either a Taurus will eat to live, or eat to gluttony. Both things are easy to do..
Using Taurus as another example;
they also rule the senses and neck, throat, nose.. Human evolution.
What they are saying is... All infants and babies are Aries, all toddlers are Taurus, all toddlers and children are Geminis. All teenagers are Cancers - emotional, hormonal, breaking from a shell or even building one.
You have holes in your information.
Even then, the info you gave on Aries, Taurus, Gemini, and Cancer lifespan is just reciprocated second-hand information.
I would hear you out if you had more to say...
Especially when it came to Cancer, it honestly didn't make much sense to me. I'm not just saying that because I'm a Cancer, I'm sure everyone here is thinking that as well, and that's why the response is bland and we're like "meh".
A lot of Cancers have their own ideas, identity, beliefs and morals - that's why they impact history... Nikola Tesla, Julius Cesar, Alexander the Great, George Washington Carver, etc.
Like as a Cancer, it was easy for me to have my own idea about everything you said here...
In the end, it is Cardinal energy.
I never said it was a bad thing. And I am thinking of it symbolically as well. Yeah yeah yeah, no one is just their sun sign, and every Aries is not a baby, blah blah. I am speaking symbolically to describe why I believe cancers are superficial. It’s not the materialistic superficiality that some other signs have. Obviously there are brilliant cancers. I don’t know why talking about tendencies is such a bad thing.
"Yeah yeah yeah, no one is just their sun sign, and every Aries is not a baby, blah blah"
Instead of skimming what I said, just read..
Because I never said that.
I said ALL BABIES ARE ARIES. I didn't say "not all Aries are babies".
How am I supposed to accept what you are presenting me, when I read everything you said, but you can't read what I said thoroughly?
I thought you were being sarcastic. So what the fuck are we disagreeing about? I’m not here to explain everything. I ain’t writing a book for all these pseudo astrologers. I’m just providing some tidbits of info so they can delve further with their own research if it sparks anything.
It takes one person to have a disagreement, so "we" is not disagreeing on anything.
I'm disagreeing about the superficial thing, and just stating that everything you said about the lifespan really means... Because you made it literal.
"I’m just providing some tidbits of info so they can delve further with their own research if it sparks anything."
Well, I did just that - and you got the biggest attitude about it AHAAAAA...
I think you expected everyone to agree with you, possibly bash a little.. Have a ring around the rosey, ashes, ashes..
Good talk. Good thread.click to expand

Posted by BlueVelvetPosted by EmhendoPosted by BlueVelvetPosted by EmhendoPosted by BlueVelvetPosted by Emhendo
Us Cancers here is NOT studying shit you talking about... AHAHAHA!!!
I know I'm coming on brash, but what you are talking about regarding the lifespan - is literally NOT a bad thing.
You are applying it to real life Sun signs, when it's merely just a METAPHOR on human evolution a very wise person came up with..
And when it does relate to Sun sign, it only applies in very low vibrational settings. Like Taurus and tasting, smelling, feeling.. It doesn't take much to do these things.
A Taurus will happily smell they own shit and fart, but then spray Gucci Guilty on themselves. Just because one is an expensive smell, doesn't mean mean it's then - high vibrational.
Either a Taurus will eat to live, or eat to gluttony. Both things are easy to do..
Using Taurus as another example;
they also rule the senses and neck, throat, nose.. Human evolution.
What they are saying is... All infants and babies are Aries, all toddlers are Taurus, all toddlers and children are Geminis. All teenagers are Cancers - emotional, hormonal, breaking from a shell or even building one.
You have holes in your information.
Even then, the info you gave on Aries, Taurus, Gemini, and Cancer lifespan is just reciprocated second-hand information.
I would hear you out if you had more to say...
Especially when it came to Cancer, it honestly didn't make much sense to me. I'm not just saying that because I'm a Cancer, I'm sure everyone here is thinking that as well, and that's why the response is bland and we're like "meh".
A lot of Cancers have their own ideas, identity, beliefs and morals - that's why they impact history... Nikola Tesla, Julius Cesar, Alexander the Great, George Washington Carver, etc.
Like as a Cancer, it was easy for me to have my own idea about everything you said here...
In the end, it is Cardinal energy.
I never said it was a bad thing. And I am thinking of it symbolically as well. Yeah yeah yeah, no one is just their sun sign, and every Aries is not a baby, blah blah. I am speaking symbolically to describe why I believe cancers are superficial. It’s not the materialistic superficiality that some other signs have. Obviously there are brilliant cancers. I don’t know why talking about tendencies is such a bad thing.
"Yeah yeah yeah, no one is just their sun sign, and every Aries is not a baby, blah blah"
Instead of skimming what I said, just read..
Because I never said that.
I said ALL BABIES ARE ARIES. I didn't say "not all Aries are babies".
How am I supposed to accept what you are presenting me, when I read everything you said, but you can't read what I said thoroughly?
I thought you were being sarcastic. So what the fuck are we disagreeing about? I’m not here to explain everything. I ain’t writing a book for all these pseudo astrologers. I’m just providing some tidbits of info so they can delve further with their own research if it sparks anything.
It takes one person to have a disagreement, so "we" is not disagreeing on anything.
I'm disagreeing about the superficial thing, and just stating that everything you said about the lifespan really means... Because you made it literal.
"I’m just providing some tidbits of info so they can delve further with their own research if it sparks anything."
Well, I did just that - and you got the biggest attitude about it AHAAAAA...
I think you expected everyone to agree with you, possibly bash a little.. Have a ring around the rosey, ashes, ashes..
Good talk. Good thread.
I feel like I would need to know you in person to understand your tone. I just don’t get it. Hmm. I expected people to get what I was talking about and some people clicked “like”so they did. Mainly people who know more about astrology. I’m not taking this forum all that seriously but maybe next time I post I’ll come in with some diagrams and a PowerPoint presentation. But i don’t need people to agree with me. I ain’t no fixed sign.click to expand

Posted by TheRabbitPosted by LadyNeptune
I mean....doesn't everyone judge on social status? Thats why social status is even a thing.
Unless your trying to date transient population your just as bad as the rest of us. Welcome to the club.
We meet on 3rd sunday every month. Donuts and coffee provided.
There is a social hierarchy even among bums.click to expand


Posted by Black-MambaPosted by BlueVelvet
Do they get butthurt tho?
who stop projecting your shame on to us please.
crabs don't care
i am only here cause im boredclick to expand


Posted by Black-MambaPosted by BlueVelvet
It doesn’t help that you iz throwing in random statements about Virgos. You derailer, you.
are you joking me, don't you see how virgos hijack conversations on every thread and make it about them
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Posted by nanobotPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by TheRabbitPosted by LadyNeptune
I mean....doesn't everyone judge on social status? Thats why social status is even a thing.
Unless your trying to date transient population your just as bad as the rest of us. Welcome to the club.
We meet on 3rd sunday every month. Donuts and coffee provided.
There is a social hierarchy even among bums.
I will low key judge you more harshly for dating a bearded hipster than if you were dating an unshaven bum. Js.
What about bearded lumberjacks types? They are kind of hipsters, no?click to expand

Posted by Black-MambaPosted by nikkistarPosted by Black-MambaPosted by DefineTruthPosted by BlueVelvet
I’ve noticed Cancers judge people based on social status. My theory is that they are kind of unable to form their own opinions on people initially.. perhaps they are easily misled and burned so they don’t trust themselves.
This makes sense when you think of the zodiac in terms of the lifespan. Aries is the newborn, Taurus is the baby becoming a toddler - all about the senses and material world, Gemini represents our development of language and mind, and then comes Cancer. This is when the child begins forming an identity.
Who the fuck am I? Says cancer. You are still learning who you are, so it is hard to separate self from other. How does one initially achieve this sense of self? It’s along the lines of how people differentiate members of a boy band - he’s the smart one, he’s the funny one, he’s the asshole.
Of all the water signs, Cancer is the puddle. It would be nice if I was proven wrong but this seems to be the case more often than not. Not trusting in themselves so they have to go with the status quo. Trusting authority over their own thoughts.
Oh boy, you just opened Pandora's box, good luck!
explain
i am so confused
She is calling you guys shallow, materialistic, and unable to form opinions of people based on their own thoughts, but follow the opinion of someone else; i.e. followers.
Cardinal signs aren't followers though.
im still confused
where is the EVIDENCESSclick to expand

Posted by nanobotPosted by hydorahPosted by nanobotPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by TheRabbitPosted by LadyNeptune
I mean....doesn't everyone judge on social status? Thats why social status is even a thing.
Unless your trying to date transient population your just as bad as the rest of us. Welcome to the club.
We meet on 3rd sunday every month. Donuts and coffee provided.
There is a social hierarchy even among bums.
I will low key judge you more harshly for dating a bearded hipster than if you were dating an unshaven bum. Js.
What about bearded lumberjacks types? They are kind of hipsters, no?
I think that's what she means by 'bearded hipster'
Bearded lumberjacks are hawt tho, why are they lower on the hierarchy unshaven bumzclick to expand

Posted by hydorah
it's true that cancers juge only on social status and social success.
Most famous example : DJ

Posted by aquarius09Posted by hydorah
it's true that cancers juge only on social status and social success.
Most famous example : DJ
If that were the case he would marry a top shelf executive but he married an underage virgin.click to expand


Posted by Arielle83Posted by aquarius09Posted by hydorah
it's true that cancers juge only on social status and social success.
Most famous example : DJ
If that were the case he would marry a top shelf executive but he married an underage virgin.
Her kitty status was primeclick to expand

Posted by Black-MambaPosted by BlueVelvet
It doesn’t help that you iz throwing in random statements about Virgos. You derailer, you.
are you joking me, don't you see how virgos hijack conversations on every thread and make it about them
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Posted by aquarius09Posted by hydorah
it's true that cancers juge only on social status and social success.
Most famous example : DJ
If that were the case he would marry a top shelf executive but he married an underage virgin.click to expand



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This makes sense when you think of the zodiac in terms of the lifespan. Aries is the newborn, Taurus is the baby becoming a toddler - all about the senses and material world, Gemini represents our development of language and mind, and then comes Cancer. This is when the child begins forming an identity.
Who the fuck am I? Says cancer. You are still learning who you are, so it is hard to separate self from other. How does one initially achieve this sense of self? It’s along the lines of how people differentiate members of a boy band - he’s the smart one, he’s the funny one, he’s the asshole.
Of all the water signs, Cancer is the puddle. It would be nice if I was proven wrong but this seems to be the case more often than not. Not trusting in themselves so they have to go with the status quo. Trusting authority over their own thoughts.