@Narcissus
9 Years
Why is it so easy to bully you guys?
Understanding Why Some People Are More Vulnerable to Bullying
People may be more susceptible to bullying due to factors like social skills, confidence levels, or emotional resilience. Recognizing these traits can help address underlying issues and promote a healthier environment. Bullying often targets perceived vulnerabilities regardless of appearance or strength.
Because the testosterome levels have fallen dramatically since the 80s. Eatin sweets makes you sweet and that backfires on some males. A lot of these clowns walkin around with nut huggin skinny jeans on and tight ass clothes, if it aint that then they lookin like aliens with these stupid ass hair style s.
Why would anyone want to bully anyone?
That is the question!
Because we have a kind heart
Dxp is a weird mix, cause you got hs or college minded kids, people in their 20's and 30's, and older. And theres a sense of childish bickering going on some of the time, and people getting revenge for this childish bickering...so the best is to focus on the subject matter, study placements, aspects, transits, houses, and start a thread about it, and hope for te best. And try not to let people bicker you, and then forget everything, and start a new thread. Bring positivity, and try to ignore the neg until it's all gone ?
That's a misconception of the archetype most of you want to believe to avoid facing your own emotional problems as to why you try bullying others. You are welcome.
Cos were psychoanalysing you, did your mother not love you enough, did you not receive enough hugs. Are you invisible to society, do you feel worthless?
Why are you a broken human?
Secretly envious and just want to cuddle up to us haha —?
Posted by Isolde
Cos were psychoanalysing you, did your mother not love you enough, did you not receive enough hugs. Are you invisible to society, do you feel worthless?Why are you a broken human?
Secretly envious and just want to cuddle up to us haha —?
I love you guys, this is no ego thing. Y'all understand me the most , I need a hug
Posted by Isolde
Cos were psychoanalysing you, did your mother not love you enough, did you not receive enough hugs. Are you invisible to society, do you feel worthless?Why are you a broken human?
Secretly envious and just want to cuddle up to us haha —?
I love you guys, this is no ego thing. Y'all understand me the most , I need a hug
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Would they hug their bullies ?
Posted by Isolde
Cos were psychoanalysing you, did your mother not love you enough, did you not receive enough hugs. Are you invisible to society, do you feel worthless?Why are you a broken human?
Secretly envious and just want to cuddle up to us haha —?
I love you guys, this is no ego thing. Y'all understand me the most , I need a hug
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One bosom to hug coming right up 🤗
Posted by Isolde
Cos were psychoanalysing you, did your mother not love you enough, did you not receive enough hugs. Are you invisible to society, do you feel worthless?Why are you a broken human?
Secretly envious and just want to cuddle up to us haha —?
I love you guys, this is no ego thing. Y'all understand me the most , I need a hug
Would they hug their bullies ?
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Yea for sure... they're just looking for validation ?
Posted by GC02
Bipolar thread much?From mean bullying tone, then to I want to hug, I love cancers? Wtf is this!!!?
They must be an aqua lol sounds like us on the daily ?
Posted by Isolde
Cos were psychoanalysing you, did your mother not love you enough, did you not receive enough hugs. Are you invisible to society, do you feel worthless?Why are you a broken human?
Secretly envious and just want to cuddle up to us haha —?
I love you guys, this is no ego thing. Y'all understand me the most , I need a hug
Would they hug their bullies ?
Yea for sure... they're just looking for validation ?
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I think this narcissus is just another falange account ?
Posted by Isolde
Cos were psychoanalysing you, did your mother not love you enough, did you not receive enough hugs. Are you invisible to society, do you feel worthless?Why are you a broken human?
Secretly envious and just want to cuddle up to us haha —?
I love you guys, this is no ego thing. Y'all understand me the most , I need a hug
Would they hug their bullies ?
Yea for sure... they're just looking for validation ?
I think this narcissus is just another falange account ?
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What Sun sign are they?
Posted by Isolde
Cos were psychoanalysing you, did your mother not love you enough, did you not receive enough hugs. Are you invisible to society, do you feel worthless?Why are you a broken human?
Secretly envious and just want to cuddle up to us haha —?
I love you guys, this is no ego thing. Y'all understand me the most , I need a hug
Would they hug their bullies ?
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Yes they will lol
Posted by Isolde
Cos were psychoanalysing you, did your mother not love you enough, did you not receive enough hugs. Are you invisible to society, do you feel worthless?Why are you a broken human?
Secretly envious and just want to cuddle up to us haha —?
I love you guys, this is no ego thing. Y'all understand me the most , I need a hug
Would they hug their bullies ?
Yea for sure... they're just looking for validation ?
I think this narcissus is just another falange account ?
What Sun sign are they!
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Taurus sun, Sag moon, Aqua rising.
Posted by GC02
Bipolar thread much?From mean bullying tone, then to I want to hug, I love cancers? Wtf is this!!!?
Bullies aren't bullet proof
Posted by Isolde
Cos were psychoanalysing you, did your mother not love you enough, did you not receive enough hugs. Are you invisible to society, do you feel worthless?Why are you a broken human?
Secretly envious and just want to cuddle up to us haha —?
I love you guys, this is no ego thing. Y'all understand me the most , I need a hug
Would they hug their bullies ?
Yea for sure... they're just looking for validation ?
I think this narcissus is just another falange account ?
What Sun sign are they!
Taurus sun, Sag moon, Aqua rising.
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Taureans love us tho, like they've arrived
Home, the destination they've been searching their entire lives ?
Posted by GC02
Bipolar thread much?From mean bullying tone, then to I want to hug, I love cancers? Wtf is this!!!?
They must be an aqua lol sounds like us on the daily ?
Lol yeah I feel like we have had a situation like this before between us too?
But heyyyy don't compare yourself to this jerk! He is so not aqua.
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lol wut? I wasn't lololol
Bullying is childish.
Posted by SoulOfABird
Because it's the internet and you grow bolder on the internet bush probably wouldnt say any of this to our face in real life... and you probably are a sociopath if you enjoy making fun of others.
No I definitely dare bully you IRL but then I'd have to deal with that facial expression
lol!
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
I think you forget crabs deep understanding of humanity and depth of feelingYou may think you're bullying a crab but the crab is probably thinking wow what happened to this person to make them like this. We're they abused as a child.
*Were
Nah Crabs aren't that deep and profound or curious even. As long as you get your way you couldn't care less about what motivates or drives the ppl around you.
Good for cc... As sweet and understanding as ever
*pulls op close*
Your forgeting something about crabs... We will take your shit until we can't anymore then we rip your head off your shoulders and shit down your throat...
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
I think you forget crabs deep understanding of humanity and depth of feelingYou may think you're bullying a crab but the crab is probably thinking wow what happened to this person to make them like this. We're they abused as a child.
*Were
Nah Crabs aren't that deep and profound or curious even. As long as you get your way you couldn't care less about what motivates or drives the ppl around you.
Thanks for the correction.
Is that why crabs go into business, real estate, and become psychologist or teachers
All of those careers depend on understanding ppl
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Statistics or stfu
Furthermore, I can imagine a Crab getting into people's heads just to feel needed. That isn't an "interest in people" per se. It's about them (once again)
I've never been bullied honestly.. I happen to have a peaceful group of friends and live in a peaceful place.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
I think you forget crabs deep understanding of humanity and depth of feelingYou may think you're bullying a crab but the crab is probably thinking wow what happened to this person to make them like this. We're they abused as a child.
*Were
Nah Crabs aren't that deep and profound or curious even. As long as you get your way you couldn't care less about what motivates or drives the ppl around you.
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This is not true, I have been able to deconstruct every human I have ever encountered.
Doesn't even take that long people are such open books and choose to confide in us, half of the time it's unwarranted to disclose so much. When I'm asking vague abstract questions they usually can't connect the dots on why I'm asking random details. (Suspicious with the loop holes and narrative of the timeline but I'll let them continue to test them to see how much of a liar they are, won't correct them).
For that reason I don't really like being around other Cancers too much cos they can call out that bs from a mile alway, despite me being really difficult to figure out. Their indirectness really puts me on edge as I'm a really really a private person.
We're not a fixed sign so we don't become obsessive about details but may come back to the topic later on, it's been filed away but still in archive. We have amazing memories so it may appear on the surface we're done and dusted but we're cardinals so there's more pressing matters to attend to and start new ventures ?
And it's usually the Scorps/Pisces in my life that call me profound, maybe cos they understand depth! ———
The only time a Cancer have shit figured out is when they see in others what they recognize in themselves. Highly personal matters in other words, no general depth.
Aside from that I've never found any Cancer I've known to be particuraly profound. Sun is the ego anyway, right? So in this matter we'd really have to look at the moon sign.
And it's usually the Scorps/Pisces in my life that call me profound, maybe cos they understand depth! ———
Lol Scorpios can't figure out what that sound coming out of their butt is yet alone other ppl's drives and motives. They are too busy scheming their own... when not concerned with matters of emasculation and castration. No genuine depth, water signs are about projection. Most especially Cancer and Scorpio.
Moon is where it's at.
Posted by enfant_terrible
The only time a Cancer have shit figured out is when they see in others what they recognize in themselves. Highly personal matters in other words, no general depth.Aside from that I've never found any Cancer I've known to be particuraly profound. Sun is the ego anyway, right? So in this matter we'd really have to look at the moon sign.
And it's usually the Scorps/Pisces in my life that call me profound, maybe cos they understand depth! ———
Lol Scorpios can't figure out what that sound coming out of their butt is yet alone other ppl's drives and motives. They are too busy scheming their own... when not concerned with matters of emasculation and castration. No genuine depth, water signs are about projection. Most especially Cancer and Scorpio.
Moon is where it's at.
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Agree on the moon part especially on this site it's so visible that most of the Dxpers show the moon aspects more than the Sun I'm my observations.
Knowing minimum of 18 Cancers those are the traits I've witnessed and can only agree with you with the quarter of the crabs who are not very curious. The rest of the 3 quarters are quite similar to me. Too many to be a coincidence and I do relate a lot to my moon sign people too (aqua moon).
Cancers to deflect a lot like the moon as we mirror people, I only do this when someone is pissing me off or to teach them a lesson.
The other water signs are very deep too, I hear what you're saying about the Scorps but they really are very observational and retain a lot of data.
Are you even sure you know what traits or criteria you're looking for? After all you're a Leo... not often they come up on the radar for depth or inquisition in my experience at least not having a dig but from an observation point of view at least ??
I usually like Leo men but for the reasons that they are simple, complete opposite to my complexity
Does the Cancer board only get this trash thread topics?
Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
I think you forget crabs deep understanding of humanity and depth of feelingYou may think you're bullying a crab but the crab is probably thinking wow what happened to this person to make them like this. We're they abused as a child.
*Were
Nah Crabs aren't that deep and profound or curious even. As long as you get your way you couldn't care less about what motivates or drives the ppl around you.
This is not true, I have been able to deconstruct every human I have ever encountered.
Doesn't even take that long people are such open books and choose to confide in us, half of the time it's unwarranted to disclose so much. When I'm asking vague abstract questions they usually can't connect the dots on why I'm asking random details. (Suspicious with the loop holes and narrative of the timeline but I'll let them continue to test them to see how much of a liar they are, won't correct them).
For that reason I don't really like being around other Cancers too much cos they can call out that bs from a mile alway, despite me being really difficult to figure out. Their indirectness really puts me on edge as I'm a really really a private person.
We're not a fixed sign so we don't become obsessive about details but may come back to the topic later on, it's been filed away but still in archive. We have amazing memories so it may appear on the surface we're done and dusted but we're cardinals so there's more pressing matters to attend to and start new ventures ?
And it's usually the Scorps/Pisces in my life that call me profound, maybe cos they understand depth! ———
Lmao this is sooooo true. I can know the exact ins and outs of a persons brain, what makes them tick, as well as what there ne t move will be before they even know. This has served me VERY well for business deals.
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Yeah I try not to cos it really freaks them out, but people are too easy to read. I don't even observe them just intuition and what facts they have presented me with.
Posted by whateverthemoonsays
Does the Cancer board only get this trash thread topics?
It's good if others see us as weak, it plays to our favour when we pull out those aces up our sleeves. The unexpected (if anything it's actually another Cancer that I had to pull up that trump card, no other sign has ever undermined me).
Better than high expectations and up on that pedestal where you've got nowhere to go but down and fall or be a disappointment.
Posted by whateverthemoonsays
Does the Cancer board only get this trash thread topics?It's good if others see us as weak, it plays to our favour when we pull out those aces up our sleeves. The unexpected (if anything it's actually another Cancer that I had to pull up that trump card, no other sign has ever undermined me).
Better than high expectations and up on that pedestal where you've got nowhere to go but down and fall or be a disappointment.
Watch out if a Cancer has a combative nature... we don't fuck around when push comes to shove.
Luckily my Moon - Mars has a lot of strength and durability, but when i go.. you are no more.. say bye bye to quiet and nice looking Mr crabby, the fucking Earth splits in half like your skull when i smash it off the ground.
lol
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I'm usually not that aggressive I lack fire in my chart but I know I'm intimidating irl. So I use that in a good way I bully the bullies especially back in school but I knew nothing would happen to me they respected me too much.
Again in work places when management go overkill and drunk on power that's when I step in... when I see them picking on the alternative kid, or if they're gay or Muslim whatever, me secretly wishing they had the audacity to confront me but they never have the intellect! I have them reprimanded, don't want them sacked but to watch them in slow agony is fun when they are demoted. This has happened a lot by the way ?
I'm definitely the rebellion hahah
Posted by whateverthemoonsays
Does the Cancer board only get this trash thread topics?It's good if others see us as weak, it plays to our favour when we pull out those aces up our sleeves. The unexpected (if anything it's actually another Cancer that I had to pull up that trump card, no other sign has ever undermined me).
Better than high expectations and up on that pedestal where you've got nowhere to go but down and fall or be a disappointment.
Watch out if a Cancer has a combative nature... we don't fuck around when push comes to shove.
Luckily my Moon - Mars has a lot of strength and durability, but when i go.. you are no more.. say bye bye to quiet and nice looking Mr crabby, the fucking Earth splits in half like your skull when i smash it off the ground.
lol
I'm usually not that aggressive I lack fire in my chart but I know I'm intimidating irl. So I use that in a good way I bully the bullies especially back in school but I knew nothing would happen to me they respected me too much.
Again in work places when management go overkill and drunk on power that's when I step in... when I see them picking on the alternative kid, or if they're gay or Muslim whatever, me secretly wishing they had the audacity to confront me but they never have the intellect! I have them reprimanded, don't want them sacked but to watch them in slow agony is fun when they are demoted. This has happened a lot by the way ?
I'm definitely the rebellion hahah
I see you are quite Aqua.. i am too, I'm Cancer and Capricorn dominant followed by Leo then Aquarius, those 4 are very dominant in my chart.
I have Moon and Mars both trine Uranus and i definitely get you, my way is just more action orientated.
http://darkstarastrology.com/moon-sextile-trine-uranus/
Mars trine.
http://astromatrix.org/Horoscopes/Planet-Aspects/Mars-Trine-Uranus
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Yeah you're probably right when I mention to people I'm a Cancer they don't believe me. Like duh I know my birthday haha.
Always get confused for a Scorpio but I'm glad I'm not one don't want to be a fixed sign, I like the Cardinal cancer, my moon is way too visible but I try to keep all those ideas & quirks hidden (not ashamed but I like keeping those thoughts private) but it's always projected.
Posted by whateverthemoonsays
Does the Cancer board only get this trash thread topics?It's good if others see us as weak, it plays to our favour when we pull out those aces up our sleeves. The unexpected (if anything it's actually another Cancer that I had to pull up that trump card, no other sign has ever undermined me).
Better than high expectations and up on that pedestal where you've got nowhere to go but down and fall or be a disappointment.
Watch out if a Cancer has a combative nature... we don't fuck around when push comes to shove.
Luckily my Moon - Mars has a lot of strength and durability, but when i go.. you are no more.. say bye bye to quiet and nice looking Mr crabby, the fucking Earth splits in half like your skull when i smash it off the ground.
lol
I'm usually not that aggressive I lack fire in my chart but I know I'm intimidating irl. So I use that in a good way I bully the bullies especially back in school but I knew nothing would happen to me they respected me too much.
Again in work places when management go overkill and drunk on power that's when I step in... when I see them picking on the alternative kid, or if they're gay or Muslim whatever, me secretly wishing they had the audacity to confront me but they never have the intellect! I have them reprimanded, don't want them sacked but to watch them in slow agony is fun when they are demoted. This has happened a lot by the way ?
I'm definitely the rebellion hahah
I see you are quite Aqua.. i am too, I'm Cancer and Capricorn dominant followed by Leo then Aquarius, those 4 are very dominant in my chart.
I have Moon and Mars both trine Uranus and i definitely get you, my way is just more action orientated.
http://darkstarastrology.com/moon-sextile-trine-uranus/
Mars trine.
http://astromatrix.org/Horoscopes/Planet-Aspects/Mars-Trine-Uranus
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Funny thing I've never seen any aqua suns as ballsy as me, in fact one Aqua Sun manager I got him removed out of the department.
You got a point, some people are just exposed to that alternative life style s. Some of their relatives or associates might be apart of it and after being around something so long then you are more likely to begin to exhibit some of the same characteristics. We may never fully know the answer.
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