Parkourler
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Any of you Capricorn women deal with weak men, being too masculine,intimidating for them?
I'm very mild mannered, and even considered timid by many, but a lot of times that's me trying to restrain my dominance or abrasiveness. I've grown to learn that there's something within me that seems to rub people the wrong way, so I try to tame whatever that is as best as I can, which makes me come off as fake I'm sure.
I struggled with finding or knowing what my type was. Just maybe two weeks ago I talked with my mom and asked her what my type seemed to be, since I couldn't figure it out. There was no particular look or personality type to me, but she noticed that the guys I really liked were all extremely smart, well liked and known, maybe even a bit goofy looking/acting, but with a hint of an edge.
That's not the description of a super masculine guy. If anything, I LOVE to laugh, and like a guy that can get me in my feelings some how, because otherwise I won't feel anything. Not taking us serious is truly key! I don't like guys that have an idea of how I am...as in fall for the idea of me, almost as if I'm a fantasy. I find myself crushing their image purposely, besides...that's not how you get to know a person. Just be yourself and I'll grow comfortable enough to do the same lol.
I struggled with finding or knowing what my type was. Just maybe two weeks ago I talked with my mom and asked her what my type seemed to be, since I couldn't figure it out. There was no particular look or personality type to me, but she noticed that the guys I really liked were all extremely smart, well liked and known, maybe even a bit goofy looking/acting, but with a hint of an edge.
That's not the description of a super masculine guy. If anything, I LOVE to laugh, and like a guy that can get me in my feelings some how, because otherwise I won't feel anything. Not taking us serious is truly key! I don't like guys that have an idea of how I am...as in fall for the idea of me, almost as if I'm a fantasy. I find myself crushing their image purposely, besides...that's not how you get to know a person. Just be yourself and I'll grow comfortable enough to do the same lol.
Posted by lnana04
I'm very mild mannered, and even considered timid by many, but a lot of times that's me trying to restrain my dominance or abrasiveness. I've grown to learn that there's something within me that seems to rub people the wrong way, so I try to tame whatever that is as best as I can, which makes me come off as fake I'm sure.
I struggled with finding or knowing what my type was. Just maybe two weeks ago I talked with my mom and asked her what my type seemed to be, since I couldn't figure it out. There was no particular look or personality type to me, but she noticed that the guys I really liked were all extremely smart, well liked and known, maybe even a bit goofy looking/acting, but with a hint of an edge.
That's not the description of a super masculine guy. If anything, I LOVE to laugh, and like a guy that can get me in my feelings some how, because otherwise I won't feel anything. Not taking us serious is truly key! I don't like guys that have an idea of how I am...as in fall for the idea of me, almost as if I'm a fantasy. I find myself crushing their image purposely, besides...that's not how you get to know a person. Just be yourself and I'll grow comfortable enough to do the same lol.
I guess it`s a polarity thing. You are masculine so you are drawn to the guys who exhibit the traits which are typically associated with girly women, such as being lighthearted, funny, and childish.
Posted by LuckyLibra979Absolutely. Amen to that Brother. That`s what many especially women get wrong. If you behave in a very aggressive, bossy, bullishways, people are put off and think you are a rude unapproachable Prick. If you watch Interviewswith UFC Fighters, you`ll see very laid back likeable people. And those guys and gals are legimitate Badasses you definetely don`t want to fuck with. The most Badass Guys I came across where the most nice ones and never showed off.
Being strong and being a bitch are two different things and often bitches confuse theyre controlling attitude for strength
Posted by ParkourlerLoL.Posted by lnana04
I'm very mild mannered, and even considered timid by many, but a lot of times that's me trying to restrain my dominance or abrasiveness. I've grown to learn that there's something within me that seems to rub people the wrong way, so I try to tame whatever that is as best as I can, which makes me come off as fake I'm sure.
I struggled with finding or knowing what my type was. Just maybe two weeks ago I talked with my mom and asked her what my type seemed to be, since I couldn't figure it out. There was no particular look or personality type to me, but she noticed that the guys I really liked were all extremely smart, well liked and known, maybe even a bit goofy looking/acting, but with a hint of an edge.
That's not the description of a super masculine guy. If anything, I LOVE to laugh, and like a guy that can get me in my feelings some how, because otherwise I won't feel anything. Not taking us serious is truly key! I don't like guys that have an idea of how I am...as in fall for the idea of me, almost as if I'm a fantasy. I find myself crushing their image purposely, besides...that's not how you get to know a person. Just be yourself and I'll grow comfortable enough to do the same lol.
I guess it`s a polarity thing. You are masculine so you are drawn to the guys who exhibit the traits which are typically associated with girly women, such as being lighthearted, funny, and childish.click to expand
I like extremely masculine men, its just hard to come by a man that is dominant the way I'd like. I'd prefer a guy that is internally solid...like not much of anything can shake his core. A true leader in every sense of the word, that knows what he wants and will take complete charge. Believes in family and being a provider(I'm not with the 50/50 thing). That will not even think about straying because he's too busy building and creating a path for his family and their future. Can hunt, build, fix a car, change a tire, fight...isnt afraid to get his hands dirty...yet can also put on a suit and move with the best of them. I like them well rounded.
You know how hard that is to find? You realize how submissive I'd be to a man like that? More than anything, its hard to find a guy that will go after what he wants and claim it.
I find guys that are more observant than anything. I've fallen for that type, but I'm not a leader, which makes the situations fall apart. I may look like a leader, and step up if I have to, but its not a role I prefer and I find guys that mirror me because of how I come across. That doesn't work in the long run.
Posted by lnana04Posted by ParkourlerLoL.Posted by lnana04
I'm very mild mannered, and even considered timid by many, but a lot of times that's me trying to restrain my dominance or abrasiveness. I've grown to learn that there's something within me that seems to rub people the wrong way, so I try to tame whatever that is as best as I can, which makes me come off as fake I'm sure.
I struggled with finding or knowing what my type was. Just maybe two weeks ago I talked with my mom and asked her what my type seemed to be, since I couldn't figure it out. There was no particular look or personality type to me, but she noticed that the guys I really liked were all extremely smart, well liked and known, maybe even a bit goofy looking/acting, but with a hint of an edge.
That's not the description of a super masculine guy. If anything, I LOVE to laugh, and like a guy that can get me in my feelings some how, because otherwise I won't feel anything. Not taking us serious is truly key! I don't like guys that have an idea of how I am...as in fall for the idea of me, almost as if I'm a fantasy. I find myself crushing their image purposely, besides...that's not how you get to know a person. Just be yourself and I'll grow comfortable enough to do the same lol.
I guess it`s a polarity thing. You are masculine so you are drawn to the guys who exhibit the traits which are typically associated with girly women, such as being lighthearted, funny, and childish.
I like extremely masculine men, its just hard to come by a man that is dominant the way I'd like. I'd prefer a guy that is internally solid...like not much of anything can shake his core. A true leader in every sense of the word, that knows what he wants and will take complete charge. Believes in family and being a provider(I'm not with the 50/50 thing). That will not even think about straying because he's too busy building and creating a path for his family and their future. Can hunt, build, fix a car, change a tire, fight...isnt afraid to get his hands dirty...yet can also put on a suit and move with the best of them. I like them well rounded.
You know how hard that is to find? You realize how submissive I'd be to a man like that? More than anything, its hard to find a guy that will go after what he wants and claim it.
I find guys that are more observant than anything. I've fallen for that type, but I'm not a leader, which makes the situations fall apart. I may look like a leader, and step up if I have to, but its not a role I prefer and I find guys that mirror me because of how I come across. That doesn't work in the long run.
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Emasculating weak mean?
Lol....even a double Pisces like me has such "issues" nowadays!
I keep telling myself that is the pill and the HRT polluting the environment and cutting their balls, not me 😄
Lol....even a double Pisces like me has such "issues" nowadays!
I keep telling myself that is the pill and the HRT polluting the environment and cutting their balls, not me 😄
Posted by ParkourlerDo you know how hard it is to be a guy like that these days? Many masculin aspects are politically incorrectPosted by lnana04Posted by ParkourlerLoL.Posted by lnana04
I'm very mild mannered, and even considered timid by many, but a lot of times that's me trying to restrain my dominance or abrasiveness. I've grown to learn that there's something within me that seems to rub people the wrong way, so I try to tame whatever that is as best as I can, which makes me come off as fake I'm sure.
I struggled with finding or knowing what my type was. Just maybe two weeks ago I talked with my mom and asked her what my type seemed to be, since I couldn't figure it out. There was no particular look or personality type to me, but she noticed that the guys I really liked were all extremely smart, well liked and known, maybe even a bit goofy looking/acting, but with a hint of an edge.
That's not the description of a super masculine guy. If anything, I LOVE to laugh, and like a guy that can get me in my feelings some how, because otherwise I won't feel anything. Not taking us serious is truly key! I don't like guys that have an idea of how I am...as in fall for the idea of me, almost as if I'm a fantasy. I find myself crushing their image purposely, besides...that's not how you get to know a person. Just be yourself and I'll grow comfortable enough to do the same lol.
I guess it`s a polarity thing. You are masculine so you are drawn to the guys who exhibit the traits which are typically associated with girly women, such as being lighthearted, funny, and childish.
I like extremely masculine men, its just hard to come by a man that is dominant the way I'd like. I'd prefer a guy that is internally solid...like not much of anything can shake his core. A true leader in every sense of the word, that knows what he wants and will take complete charge. Believes in family and being a provider(I'm not with the 50/50 thing). That will not even think about straying because he's too busy building and creating a path for his family and their future. Can hunt, build, fix a car, change a tire, fight...isnt afraid to get his hands dirty...yet can also put on a suit and move with the best of them. I like them well rounded.
You know how hard that is to find? You realize how submissive I'd be to a man like that? More than anything, its hard to find a guy that will go after what he wants and claim it.
I find guys that are more observant than anything. I've fallen for that type, but I'm not a leader, which makes the situations fall apart. I may look like a leader, and step up if I have to, but its not a role I prefer and I find guys that mirror me because of how I come across. That doesn't work in the long run.
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in Europe at least. The truth is many masculin attitudes are labelled sexist although they are right in my
opinion. Such as: Women are usually emotional and act out of the moment, so what they say shouldnt be taken too serious. Ignore what they say and judge them by the actions. If you do that, you will realize immediately when you are about to be friendzoned.It is not a bad thing to be attracted to breasts and give them a slight stare. It is not shallow and bad to hit on a women, because you want to plain fuck them not because you are attracted to their personality. Women should not be the most important thing for the men. We must have a purpose and an awesome life first. If our Life is a cake the women are just the icing, not more.
Many cliches are true to a big extent. Thats why there are more male technicians and entrepreneurs then females.
Nobody teaches us to be a man anymore. I wish I joined the military. We are condemned for being oppressors. If you watch hollywood movies, the guy usually puts the women on a pedestal, does anything for her and gives himself up by doing so. That`s why there is the nice guy syndrome. And they are not nice at all,
they are just sneaky because they want the same thing. The macho is more hones when he says: I like
your ass, I want to have sex with you.
Thats why I like movies from the 50s t0 70s. Clark Gable is my favourite role model. That`s why I hate and love
Scrubs/Big Bang Theory at the same time. It is funny but the way Turk/Leonard is pussywhipped by Carla/Penny hurts me so much. I cringe and laugh at the same time, when I watch the shows.
Many things are indeed wrong just like the wage gap, that women have less chances in the business world etc, but that doesnt mean masculinity is a bad thing. Don`t get me
started on that topic, I could vent for hours. Many young bucks like me feel abandoned, we long for strong rolemodels. I got so much crap when I said I don`t my future wife to get fat and have big breasts.. And then you hear all the progressive Women whine: "Where are all the real men", without being able to define what a real men is. Jesus Christ, I need to punch somebody in the face.
Posted by Undine
Emasculating weak mean?
Lol....even a double Pisces like me has such "issues" nowadays!
I keep telling myself that is the pill and the HRT polluting the environment and cutting their balls, not me 😄
You don`t mean Hostage Rescue Team right? 🙂
Parkourler, I actually agree with a few of your views.
One of the most peculiar things is seeing an attractive shapely woman walk by and a man not look, or look but not approach her. Both are just so odd to me...
I think a lot of guys could use a strong role model. I live near a lot of older people, and the men still carry themselves really well and their conversations amongst each other are so interesting. So many young guys could benefit from learning a thing a thing or two from them.
One of the most peculiar things is seeing an attractive shapely woman walk by and a man not look, or look but not approach her. Both are just so odd to me...
I think a lot of guys could use a strong role model. I live near a lot of older people, and the men still carry themselves really well and their conversations amongst each other are so interesting. So many young guys could benefit from learning a thing a thing or two from them.
Inana, you seem to be sceptic. Which views do you not agree with?
Posted by ParkourlerI meant hormone replacement therapy. But hey if you like.... many of those men are hostages in their own marriages and homes 😄Posted by Undine
Emasculating weak mean?
Lol....even a double Pisces like me has such "issues" nowadays!
I keep telling myself that is the pill and the HRT polluting the environment and cutting their balls, not me 😄
You don`t mean Hostage Rescue Team right? 🙂click to expand
Posted by NappTuneSounds about right. We can definitely be hard to please and never satisfied. What was her husbands sign?
My auntie is very pretty and hard working cap woman who had a good husband. He left her because he she was hard to please. They both have a sag daughter together my sag cousin says the something about her she's never satisfied. She pushed him away.
In my world hard to please is code for selfish,demanding and ungrateful. Gotta appreciate the effort and praise here and there instead of criticizing all the time and do some stuff yourself for your partner.
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargePosted by SimsimiI agree with this. Im a cap rising, saturn dominant and it's hard to find guys who aren't little bitches
Im not a cap sun but cap venus, rising and the lot. A man simply needs to be more masculine. Masculine enough to put me back in my feminine, because i will test the life out of him to see how much of a wuss he would be, if he falls bait i know i can push him around and i wouldnt like it.
" The best way seems to be not take you serious, be chickeny.."
lol don't be chickeny. Be confident that you can get the girl while showing us that you have other things to focus on not just wasting time on us.
Just be more masculine. Put us in our place. Be direct.click to expand
Seriously..
Posted by GlaringTruthlolPosted by DonJohnlol. This is true.
strong men don't like masculine women.
it's the beta cucks that do (weak men).click to expand
it's like my golddigger topic.
there's alot of men who HATE on women..
gross.
we've addressed alot on it though.
it's like leave them be...
although i dont know if beta vs. alpha is relevant.
Posted by Parkourleryup.
Hi,
I have a few capricorn women in my social circle they are all single, they scare off men and seem to
be too mentally strong and masculine for them. How do you deal with this kind of issues? And do you
have tipps for who wants to improve himself? Do men have to be exhibit more of the typical masculine
traits than you, such as resilience, courage, dominance? What is the best way to approach if you
give off that aloof vibe? Must we be fearless? The best way seems to be not take you serious, be cocky,
then they start giggling. Another issue is that men always started complaining, that they werent supportive
emotionally. I guess its a polarity thing, two masculine parts in a relationship who are non emotional might
not be able to balance each other out.
Thank you for your input,
Parkourler
my strong capricorn mother in law, and other capricorn moon ladies i know,
stayed SINGLE for decades.
no man was ever good enough for them.
they are all happy serving other people like family and close friends.
edit --- she and other auntys who are single have an AWESOME life..
they have everything and gained it through hard work though the years.
no man will EVER be good enough.
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Parkourleryup.
Hi,
I have a few capricorn women in my social circle they are all single, they scare off men and seem to
be too mentally strong and masculine for them. How do you deal with this kind of issues? And do you
have tipps for who wants to improve himself? Do men have to be exhibit more of the typical masculine
traits than you, such as resilience, courage, dominance? What is the best way to approach if you
give off that aloof vibe? Must we be fearless? The best way seems to be not take you serious, be cocky,
then they start giggling. Another issue is that men always started complaining, that they werent supportive
emotionally. I guess its a polarity thing, two masculine parts in a relationship who are non emotional might
not be able to balance each other out.
Thank you for your input,
Parkourler
my strong capricorn mother in law, and other capricorn moon ladies i know,
stayed SINGLE for decades.
no man was ever good enough for them.
they are all happy serving other people like family and close friends.
edit --- she and other auntys who are single have an AWESOME life..
they have everything and gained it through hard work though the years.
no man will EVER be good enough.click to expand
The right man, will be better than good enough.
Posted by lisabethur8The single Cap women I know that don't mind being single, wear it well.Posted by Parkourleryup.
Hi,
I have a few capricorn women in my social circle they are all single, they scare off men and seem to
be too mentally strong and masculine for them. How do you deal with this kind of issues? And do you
have tipps for who wants to improve himself? Do men have to be exhibit more of the typical masculine
traits than you, such as resilience, courage, dominance? What is the best way to approach if you
give off that aloof vibe? Must we be fearless? The best way seems to be not take you serious, be cocky,
then they start giggling. Another issue is that men always started complaining, that they werent supportive
emotionally. I guess its a polarity thing, two masculine parts in a relationship who are non emotional might
not be able to balance each other out.
Thank you for your input,
Parkourler
my strong capricorn mother in law, and other capricorn moon ladies i know,
stayed SINGLE for decades.
no man was ever good enough for them.
they are all happy serving other people like family and close friends.
edit --- she and other auntys who are single have an AWESOME life..
they have everything and gained it through hard work though the years.
no man will EVER be good enough.click to expand
Its like they are at their best without a man. I think I may be like that. My Cappie grandmother is.
Posted by Chance_12you got that right - except for the water partner part - for me anyway lol - my ex was was way too wishy-washy and I could not take that - although I try not to be partial ...Posted by bumboklatt
I had an interest in a cap girl years ago, and in my experience they are not more masculine, they are as feminine as cancers, it's just that they're so tough. They care too much and it's the tough sort of love.
It takes longer to get to know them than other signs..nor do they deliberately try to draw attention to themselves..so in a world of instant gratification, some don't delve far enough beneath the surface. A good cap girl is gold. That's why water is a good match. They can tell certain things right off.
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cap women do need a strong man who has it together - says what he means and means what he says - confident and knows himself - a man of substance - my ex-libra said I think like a man but in the kitchen and bedroom I'm all woman - I think the years of taking care of myself is where he was getting that I think like a man - geez, you have to these days ...
I have a cappie friend... And at our first meeting she did come of stand offish...
But the more we got to know each other
I figured out how sensitive and delicate she could be...
And she figured out how strong and even cold I could be when necessary...
But the more we got to know each other
I figured out how sensitive and delicate she could be...
And she figured out how strong and even cold I could be when necessary...
i don't usually have that problem when i first meet men because i often look and talk like an airhead until it matters to me then i'd run them over if they stand in my way lol
i didn't attract weak men though
i didn't attract weak men though
Posted by LuckyLibra979The problem is for many people, a strong women is read as bitch behavior.
Being strong and being a bitch are two different things and often bitches confuse theyre controlling attitude for strength
Agreed. But many women need to learn that being bossy and pushy, in summary be overly aggressive
only leads to resentments and fuel the prejudices of sexists. I am talking about behavior
like giving orders to coworkers they don`t outrank, a very condecending tone etc.
my husband loves his grandma and mother,both have cappy energy,
loves that capricorn energy. it's dark and pretty.
loves that capricorn energy. it's dark and pretty.
I was just minding my own business and browsing this topic until I ran into some disturbing comments from some and had to be like, "wait, wth! Are we still in the 21st century?"
Some of you have very weird definitions of masculine and feminine where you think a female being dependent on a male signifies his masculinity. Also, even more disturbing comments like, paraphrasing here, "I want my ideal guy to put me in my place."
I'll just skip the jibber jabber on masculinity and femininity ... just because.
However, the second type of comments of putting a woman in her place in the context of a relationship is so ludicrous and misogynistic. It's even more disturbing that women themselves word that they want to be treated this way. Just merely looking at the words "put in place" it describes a stance of authority and DISCIPLINE!
So as a woman you will only give respect to someone after they "put you in your place"? By this definition then it means that to begin with you are acting in a way that requires reprimanding. Maybe you act like an ill-mannered child or an untrained pet?
So if you're talking as an ill-mannered child then yes perhaps an authority who will "put you in your place" will be pleasing as a partner but for any grown and confident woman with dignity and respect for herself, her partner should join the discussion of rights and wrongs as an equal partner to find solutions that work for both of them as adults.
Just ew to this thread.
Some of you have very weird definitions of masculine and feminine where you think a female being dependent on a male signifies his masculinity. Also, even more disturbing comments like, paraphrasing here, "I want my ideal guy to put me in my place."
I'll just skip the jibber jabber on masculinity and femininity ... just because.
However, the second type of comments of putting a woman in her place in the context of a relationship is so ludicrous and misogynistic. It's even more disturbing that women themselves word that they want to be treated this way. Just merely looking at the words "put in place" it describes a stance of authority and DISCIPLINE!
So as a woman you will only give respect to someone after they "put you in your place"? By this definition then it means that to begin with you are acting in a way that requires reprimanding. Maybe you act like an ill-mannered child or an untrained pet?
So if you're talking as an ill-mannered child then yes perhaps an authority who will "put you in your place" will be pleasing as a partner but for any grown and confident woman with dignity and respect for herself, her partner should join the discussion of rights and wrongs as an equal partner to find solutions that work for both of them as adults.
Just ew to this thread.
Posted by stillstillwaterI think you got a little too emotionally involved with this thread.
I was just minding my own business and browsing this topic until I ran into some disturbing comments from some and had to be like, "wait, wth! Are we still in the 21st century?"
Some of you have very weird definitions of masculine and feminine where you think a female being dependent on a male signifies his masculinity. Also, even more disturbing comments like, paraphrasing here, "I want my ideal guy to put me in my place."
I'll just skip the jibber jabber on masculinity and femininity ... just because.
However, the second type of comments of putting a woman in her place in the context of a relationship is so ludicrous and misogynistic. It's even more disturbing that women themselves word that they want to be treated this way. Just merely looking at the words "put in place" it describes a stance of authority and DISCIPLINE!
So as a woman you will only give respect to someone after they "put you in your place"? By this definition then it means that to begin with you are acting in a way that requires reprimanding. Maybe you act like an ill-mannered child or an untrained pet?
So if you're talking as an ill-mannered child then yes perhaps an authority who will "put you in your place" will be pleasing as a partner but for any grown and confident woman with dignity and respect for herself, her partner should join the discussion of rights and wrongs as an equal partner to find solutions that work for both of them as adults.
Just ew to this thread.
Do yourself a favor, and get off that high horse of yours.. snooze
Also, are you a Capricorn?
Posted by HeartSighWell you read it so must not have been that much of a snooze, right?Posted by stillstillwaterI think you got a little too emotionally involved with this thread.
I was just minding my own business and browsing this topic until I ran into some disturbing comments from some and had to be like, "wait, wth! Are we still in the 21st century?"
Some of you have very weird definitions of masculine and feminine where you think a female being dependent on a male signifies his masculinity. Also, even more disturbing comments like, paraphrasing here, "I want my ideal guy to put me in my place."
I'll just skip the jibber jabber on masculinity and femininity ... just because.
However, the second type of comments of putting a woman in her place in the context of a relationship is so ludicrous and misogynistic. It's even more disturbing that women themselves word that they want to be treated this way. Just merely looking at the words "put in place" it describes a stance of authority and DISCIPLINE!
So as a woman you will only give respect to someone after they "put you in your place"? By this definition then it means that to begin with you are acting in a way that requires reprimanding. Maybe you act like an ill-mannered child or an untrained pet?
So if you're talking as an ill-mannered child then yes perhaps an authority who will "put you in your place" will be pleasing as a partner but for any grown and confident woman with dignity and respect for herself, her partner should join the discussion of rights and wrongs as an equal partner to find solutions that work for both of them as adults.
Just ew to this thread.
Do yourself a favor, and get off that high horse of yours.. snooze
Also, are you a Capricorn?
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Not really emotional just not afraid of being abrasive at some points. Sometimes you have to say things like that to get some reactions and shake things up.
There is truth to what I was saying. I mean if... a woman's definition of a respectable and worthy man is his ability to discipline her then she must be acting in a childish manner and thinks she needs authority to keep her behaving like a decent person of some sort. That's not really an attitude of a grown woman. I mean if I was a confident man, I would not be attracted to that type of drama tbh; I would want an equal counterpart.
Also, trying to find what sign I am does not go well with your other speculations .
Posted by Saggi212Must be nice... I think because of my moon I'm always looking for companionship and it doesn't alway have to be romantic but it's usually in romantic relationships that deeper sharing of thoughts,feelings,experiences take place. I really enjoy that and to a certain extent feel like I always need that.
I speak as a cap rising and stellium
I have a lot of masculine qualities and i am single most of the time
I could describe me though more independent , and really dont like to appear needy....i like affection but not neediness
And yes i can do a lot of stuff on my own
I'm a Cap with Cap stellium (Sun, Merc, Jupiter, Neptune).
I rarely meet masculine men, maybe because of my age, although men usually are intimidated by me.
My definition of 'masculine':
being confident;
being able to compromise after considering mine as well as his needs;
being able to 'put me in my place' - if I'm being irrational/paranoid/not thinking clear - he tells me so and points out why may I be like that so I can work on this issue;
being faithful to his values and a man of his words.
I'd say I'm looking for one though laid back and able to make me laugh at the same time.
I rarely meet masculine men, maybe because of my age, although men usually are intimidated by me.
My definition of 'masculine':
being confident;
being able to compromise after considering mine as well as his needs;
being able to 'put me in my place' - if I'm being irrational/paranoid/not thinking clear - he tells me so and points out why may I be like that so I can work on this issue;
being faithful to his values and a man of his words.
I'd say I'm looking for one though laid back and able to make me laugh at the same time.
Posted by Saggi212you seem SOOO sweet to be a cap stellium. lol
I speak as a cap rising and stellium
I have a lot of masculine qualities and i am single most of the time
I could describe me though more independent , and really dont like to appear needy....i like affection but not neediness
And yes i can do a lot of stuff on my own
no bitchiness.
i think these are great characteristics personalities on capricorn feminine qualities.
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She tries her best to not bother anyone, and if someone is bothered by her, then she is not likely to take it well. While the Capricorn woman is confident in herself, her self-confidence can be broken down when someone doesn’t approve of her. This is why she tries so hard to be perfect in every way that she knows how.
Capricorn Woman Love Personality Characteristics
The Capricorn woman characteristics show she thinks highly of herself, and she will want a romantic partner who can respect her as she respects him. A Capricorn female will want a partner who makes her feel secure and safe. She will want an honest and trustworthy partner who she can rely on if she has to.
The Capricorn woman personality will want to have more control over the important aspects of the relationship. However, if her partner is as equally smart and responsible as she is then she will be willing to share the decision-making with her partner.
http://www.sunsigns.org/capricorn-woman-personality-traits-characteristics/
she sounds very much like virgo, trying to be perfect or perfect herself....climbing that mountain,making herself BETTER.
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She tries her best to not bother anyone, and if someone is bothered by her, then she is not likely to take it well. While the Capricorn woman is confident in herself, her self-confidence can be broken down when someone doesn’t approve of her. This is why she tries so hard to be perfect in every way that she knows how.
Capricorn Woman Love Personality Characteristics
The Capricorn woman characteristics show she thinks highly of herself, and she will want a romantic partner who can respect her as she respects him. A Capricorn female will want a partner who makes her feel secure and safe. She will want an honest and trustworthy partner who she can rely on if she has to.
The Capricorn woman personality will want to have more control over the important aspects of the relationship. However, if her partner is as equally smart and responsible as she is then she will be willing to share the decision-making with her partner.
http://www.sunsigns.org/capricorn-woman-personality-traits-characteristics/
she sounds very much like virgo, trying to be perfect or perfect herself....climbing that mountain,making herself BETTER.
Posted by Saggi212you sure you're not an aries rising? lolPosted by lisabethur8Haha thanks 🙂Posted by Saggi212you seem SOOO sweet to be a cap stellium. lol
I speak as a cap rising and stellium
I have a lot of masculine qualities and i am single most of the time
I could describe me though more independent , and really dont like to appear needy....i like affection but not neediness
And yes i can do a lot of stuff on my own
no bitchiness.
Well i have a sag sun and a lot of pisces in my chart
Cancer in 7th tooclick to expand
alyssa sharpe says that aries risings are likeable EVEN if you have cap stellium 😆
that aries will be sweet to others. kind of like libra rising.
Posted by Saggi212Posted by lisabethur8Haha thanks 🙂Posted by Saggi212you seem SOOO sweet to be a cap stellium. lol
I speak as a cap rising and stellium
I have a lot of masculine qualities and i am single most of the time
I could describe me though more independent , and really dont like to appear needy....i like affection but not neediness
And yes i can do a lot of stuff on my own
no bitchiness.
Well i have a sag sun and a lot of pisces in my chart
Cancer in 7th tooclick to expand
cancer 7th gives off sweetness to the world? that must be nice.
Posted by lisabethur8Lisa, this is really good and on point!
Capricorn Woman Love Personality Characteristics
The Capricorn woman characteristics show she thinks highly of herself, and she will want a romantic partner who can respect her as she respects him. A Capricorn female will want a partner who makes her feel secure and safe. She will want an honest and trustworthy partner who she can rely on if she has to.
The Capricorn woman personality will want to have more control over the important aspects of the relationship. However, if her partner is as equally smart and responsible as she is then she will be willing to share the decision-making with her partner.
http://www.sunsigns.org/capricorn-woman-personality-traits-characteristics/
I'm a Capricorn, and I run into this issue a lot, I don't have too many issues in the finding of a partner, but in the end I usually feel like a mother or a man. When I get to the point where I feel like the guy I'm with will literally let me wipe his ass I call it quits....lol For me I don't need a pushy, loud, or aggressive man, I just need an honest, strong, humble, and wise man. The kind that has no problem saying no, the kind that isn't peer pressured easily, or pushed around. You don't need to be loud to be brave, some men don't get it.....And I like my opinion and discernment to be respected, aside from that, he can watch cartoons, play video games, eat cookies for dinner if he chooses, or not, cause I can do those things while paying bills and protecting those I love.
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