ImmatureAries
@ImmatureAries
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Posted by miriyahhhLol.. that didn’t help one bit. He’s not talking to me. You didn’t answer any of my questions. Will he ever speak to me again? Did he ever like me? Is he serious? What do I do? I’m going crazy over here 🤒
Marry him
Aries x Capricorn foreverrrrer
Posted by DeadInsideWow... you suck!!! Help me. Any advice
idk
Posted by WolfInRamsClothingSmh
Eeww kindergarten stuff.
Posted by xoxflutePosted by SpaceBirdPosted by xoxfluteYou are really annoying ....and talking buttere ... click to expandPosted by SpaceBird
Posted by xoxflutePosted by SpaceBirdPosted by xoxflutePosted by SpaceBirdPosted by xoxflutePosted by SpaceBirdPosted by ImmatureAries
Okay, here it goes.
I met the cap man on snapchat we chatted back and forth occasionally for a good 4-6 months. Random comments on each other post. Nothing serious. Then he began commenting a little more often and we started getting to know each other. One day he asked that we meet up when he gets in town (he’s a truck driver). I agreed. This was in February and our schedules didn’t allow us to meet up. Before leaving to go back on the road he invited me to a party that his friend was throwing but I couldn’t go cause I was at work. He went back on the road and the random messages started again but a little often some times everyday. He said he would really like to see me when he comes back. Long story short we ended up telling each other we liked each other. We exchanged numbers and started calling each other babe. I was unsure if this met we were dating but I just went with the flow. We talked basically everyday and when we didn’t he always apologized and said he was in an area with no signal. I began liking him a lot. We exchanged pics and was getting to know each other. We talked to each other like boyfriend and girlfriend. Babe, how was you night. Babe, I miss you. He called me one day and we kissed before we got off the phone. Lol. One day I asked him the “what are we” question cause I could take not knowing especially because I was liking him more and more. He said “ you’re my future wife”... fast forward my birthday was approaching and I mentioned it more than once in the past. The day of, I didn’t hear from him and a few days later he texted me saying he didn’t have signal but didn’t say happy birthday. I texted him saying I was disappointed that he didn’t remember my birthday and that meant that I really wasn’t important to him. He apologized and said he would make it up to me. I went on and on about him not caring enough to remember and how he really doesn’t take me serious (my insecurities talking). I said “ you don’t give af” and “youre just talk no action” He apologized several times. I told him to give up. His response was that he sees I’m upset and he will talk to me when I’m in a better mood. I ignored him. The next day he texted “hi”. I ignored that as well. The following day he blocked me. I was crushed! I wanted him to try harder I guess. I had no intentions on not talking to him again I just wanted to prove a point. I’ve sent several text messages from different numbers and snapped him apologizing for overrating. He has completely disappeared. I miss him so much. Being an Aries it’s hsrder because I need closure. Not knowing how he feels is killing me and the guilt is as well. Will he ever come back? Did he ever like me? Does this mean he really didn’t care? Help!!!!!!
You were played. click to expand
How so? click to expand
She fell for his lies. Lies he was aware were lies when he told them. click to expand
What did he lie about? He probably did like her before the whole birthday thing happened. click to expand
I don't believe the signal thing either. No card no gift? BS op you were played. Guys who say *you are my FUTURE WIFE * Lol ..have that butter planned for weeks.
No signal?? lol
No he definitely was lying. click to expand
That's not enough to prove that he was lying, particularly when he said he was going to make it up to her. click to expand
Of course it is. How can you not see that are you dumb? click to expand
Insults doesn't prove your point either.
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Please don't resort to insults because you can't refute what I said. click to
So what I gathered from all of the comments are I’m a moron. He played me from the start and he’s not ever reaching out to me so I should move on. Is that correct?
Honestly I’m fine with not hearing from him again. I just want the feel less guilty. Knowing that he wasn’t genuine makes me feel a little better. After reading about Capicorns they said that they aren’t the sign to play mind games so I figured maybe he really did mean what he said and that’s what has been killing me. I feel horrible that o pushed someone that “potentially” was a good guy. I’m still confused. Any male Capicorns
Posted by xoxflutePosted by ImmatureAries
So what I gathered from all of the comments are I’m a moron. He played me from the start and he’s not ever reaching out to me so I should move on. Is that correct?
Honestly I’m fine with not hearing from him again. I just want the feel less guilty. Knowing that he wasn’t genuine makes me feel a little better. After reading about Capicorns they said that they aren’t the sign to play mind games so I figured maybe he really did mean what he said and that’s what has been killing me. I feel horrible that o pushed someone that “potentially” was a good guy. I’m still confused. Any male Capicorns click to expandclick to expand
I didn't say anything about whether he is a player or not because I can't be certain from what was given. But it did sound like he was genuine.
I was mostly commenting on the doing opposite of what you really wanted in hopes of achieving or proving a point backfires, because I pushed away a Sag/Cap cusper before. And even if he was a player, you might push away good people this way.
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I believe in guy feelings and I don’t feel like he was being dishonest. My insecurities lead me to those actions. But honestly you never know. That short period of time I started to really like him. That scared me. So I found the easiest way to push him away. I felt like I would receive some validation if he “fought” for me a lil harder.
I had it all wrong. A capicorn won’t do that. They will feel more hurt then you and disappear. After researching it’s unsure whether he will
Come back or not. Or then again there’s a possiblity that he was lying straight through his teeth and he used this situation to say “I’m done now” “it was fun while
It lasted” 🤷🏾♀️
Posted by xoxflutePosted by ImmatureAriesPosted by xoxflute
@ImmatureAries
Sorry for the derail.
Are you a capicorn male? click to expand
I said from the get go, "fellow Aries". But neither is SpaceBird.
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Posted by crazysiouxOne day I asked him the “what are we” question cause I could take not knowing especially because I was liking him more and more. He said “ you’re my future wife”...
Any serious Capricorn would've said, "You're my future EX wife," to see if they could extract a cackle or grump out of you ...
Dry wit uber alles is the Way of The Capricorn. Too bad jumping the gun is the Way of the Aries. Bettah ruck next time, glasshoppa!
The day of, I didn’t hear from him and a few days later he texted me saying he didn’t have signal but didn’t say happy birthday. I texted him saying I was disappointed that he didn’t remember my birthday and that meant that I really wasn’t important to him. He apologized and said he would make it up to me. I went on and on about him not caring enough to remember and how he really doesn’t take me serious (my insecurities talking). I said “you don’t give af” and “youre just talk no action” He apologized several times. I told him to give up.
Telling a Cap "you don't give a treetrunk" + "you're talk = no walk" + "give up" = 3 STRIKES!
... Yoooouuuu're Out!!
His response was that he sees I’m upset and he will talk to me when I’m in a better mood. I ignored him. The next day he texted “hi”. I ignored that as well. The following day he blocked me. I was crushed! I wanted him to try harder I guess. I had no intentions on not talking to him again I just wanted to prove a point.
And you did: you're an overreacting, manipulating, emotionally abusive, gaslighting thirst trap on two legs. And, after being an under-reacting piece of butter in regards to not wishing you a happy birthday, he otherwise responded admirably ...
Posted by SpaceBird
Anyway take it from me cappies can take a little tantrum ..or a big one if they like you ....they're men.
Next time you feel the next to speak up for men (let alone Capricorn men), do us a big favor: grow a dick and balls first. Because you have no treetrunking business telling people to "take it from me" when you're not a man, never was a man, and never will be a man, and if a real man were to come along and challenge your sorry ass, you'll just serve the "Man Up/Grow Up" card and move the goal posts anyway because you believe and worship fantasies and delusions instead of the real McCoy. Nice try, but no. Oh, and if you're unwilling or unable to grow a dick and balls, then by all means next time you wanna serve up misandry butter sandwiches, you best look the sterotypical part: barefoot, pregnant, and in the treetrunking kitchen. Just don't be dragging any of us on DXP onto the set of Steve Harvey or Maury Povich or don't be dropping any litigation on poor innocent turkey baster manufacturers, and the galaxy will keep running relatively smoothly, mmmkay?!? click to expandclick to expand
This is great a Cappy in the room... I take full accountability. I was wrong.. how do I fix it? Will he reach out? It’s been 2 weeks now. Should I reach out? Should I say I miss him? Help

Posted by Aries18
Girl!! omg oof - once i saw this post i read what you were saying and i felt like we are the same situation
I am dealing with a Cappy male too he is also my best friend. He missed my birthday too, he did feel bad about, and insisted on getting me a gift - this is an online friendship - we're both gamers so he got me a game.
Unfortunately, we are only best friends as he is seeing someone new now. I have just told him i love him..so yeah it was an interesting Convo we had that one night. Anywho.. um at the end of your post I felt similar with him as well when we wouldn't talk. I like to know what he is think sometimes i just move past it but its always on my mind.
Aries x Capricorn i love them im telling you
Posted by starlordThrough mutual friends... don’t make it seem like that’s a foreign thing. People meet and date from social media all the time you moron...
How do you meet somebody through snapchat though🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
Posted by UnicornSag
Honestly-I highly doubt he's ever coming back. You did way too much over the line things for a Cap to take. You've been too much about something that irrelevant. So learn from this experience for future. Just don't be too much. Don't explode. Don't overdo things...just control yourself. And yeah I'm aware you're Aries and it's hard but trust me I know! I'm and Aries Moon and it's incredibly hard to control it but you have to!
I'll just say similar situation-I was hurt cause Cap didn't congratulate me on my birthday cause I thought it's simply impossible to forget considering it's literally 5 days before his birthday! But yet he forgot. Or didn't want to congratulate. Either way I wasn't going to cookiemonster about it, still congratulated his birthday on time. Later when we talk I mentioned among the lines that my birthday was few days ago and he then congratulated and said sorry he missed it and that was pretty much it. So see what I did there? I was hurt just like you. But I didn't let it out. Cause I know it's reasonable that people may forget about it so in the end you overreacted and ruined thing for such a tiny reason like that.
But I'm not sure how much fo things you actually ruined cause from your initial post I didn't catch up if you actually met in person at all? If not then honestly I'd never consider it a real thing but it can still hurt and if anyone knows how much I know it... so take this experience as a lesson for future and work on controlling your impulses
Posted by starlordPosted by ImmatureAriesPosted by starlord
How do you meet somebody through snapchat though🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
Through mutual friends... don’t make it seem like that’s a foreign thing. People meet and date from social media all the time you moron... click to expand
I can see why he fell for you❤ click to expandclick to expand

Posted by LadyNeptune
Because the way you treat your “future wife” is to leave her in dating/chatting limbo and forget her bday. Riiiiiggggghhhtttttt.
Next time don’t be so naive. Words are cheap af. In fact, they cost a person nothing. Actions is where it’s at.
Also snap chat is what serial cheaters use to communicate with the side ho/s cause there is no trail left that wifey (real wifey) can read. If you never got his phone digits that’s a huge red flag imo
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I met the cap man on snapchat we chatted back and forth occasionally for a good 4-6 months. Random comments on each other post. Nothing serious. Then he began commenting a little more often and we started getting to know each other. One day he asked that we meet up when he gets in town (he’s a truck driver). I agreed. This was in February and our schedules didn’t allow us to meet up. Before leaving to go back on the road he invited me to a party that his friend was throwing but I couldn’t go cause I was at work. He went back on the road and the random messages started again but a little often some times everyday. He said he would really like to see me when he comes back. Long story short we ended up telling each other we liked each other. We exchanged numbers and started calling each other babe. I was unsure if this met we were dating but I just went with the flow. We talked basically everyday and when we didn’t he always apologized and said he was in an area with no signal. I began liking him a lot. We exchanged pics and was getting to know each other. We talked to each other like boyfriend and girlfriend. Babe, how was you night. Babe, I miss you. He called me one day and we kissed before we got off the phone. Lol. One day I asked him the “what are we” question cause I could take not knowing especially because I was liking him more and more. He said “ you’re my future wife”... fast forward my birthday was approaching and I mentioned it more than once in the past. The day of, I didn’t hear from him and a few days later he texted me saying he didn’t have signal but didn’t say happy birthday. I texted him saying I was disappointed that he didn’t remember my birthday and that meant that I really wasn’t important to him. He apologized and said he would make it up to me. I went on and on about him not caring enough to remember and how he really doesn’t take me serious (my insecurities talking). I said “ you don’t give af” and “youre just talk no action” He apologized several times. I told him to give up. His response was that he sees I’m upset and he will talk to me when I’m in a better mood. I ignored him. The next day he texted “hi”. I ignored that as well. The following day he blocked me. I was crushed! I wanted him to try harder I guess. I had no intentions on not talking to him again I just wanted to prove a point. I’ve sent several text messages from different numbers and snapped him apologizing for overrating. He has completely disappeared. I miss him so much. Being an Aries it’s hsrder because I need closure. Not knowing how he feels is killing me and the guilt is as well. Will he ever come back? Did he ever like me? Does this mean he really didn’t care? Help!!!!!!