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Posted by JumpingpancakeI'm thinking it might be an excuse. He's basically saying he wants to sleep with someone else and not you. Go with your gut.
My cap man broke up with me again too because he said he couldn't be monogamous with me. What in the heck? That's the first I've heard this about a Cappy but I guess all men are capable of it. So, at what point does cappy men look for sex outside of a relationship? I thought we were doing really good then he said he isn't "a monogamous animal." I'm trying so hard to be mad at him but i'm not. He just got divorced, I get that he wants to sleep around, to have fun and party. Whatever, maybe it's just me he doesn't want to be with and that's fine. I'm just a little shocked by it.

Posted by JumpingpancakeIs it possible he was talking to someone else and that's why he took awhile to figure it out? Just throwing ideas out there. Daron will answer soonPosted by pinkbird03Posted by JumpingpancakeI'm thinking it might be an excuse. He's basically saying he wants to sleep with someone else and not you. Go with your gut.
My cap man broke up with me again too because he said he couldn't be monogamous with me. What in the heck? That's the first I've heard this about a Cappy but I guess all men are capable of it. So, at what point does cappy men look for sex outside of a relationship? I thought we were doing really good then he said he isn't "a monogamous animal." I'm trying so hard to be mad at him but i'm not. He just got divorced, I get that he wants to sleep around, to have fun and party. Whatever, maybe it's just me he doesn't want to be with and that's fine. I'm just a little shocked by it.
Oh I am. I'm just more so sad that he didn't figure this out before he got back together with me.
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Posted by JumpingpancakeIt's hard to find a good guy! Believe me, I know it too well.Posted by pinkbird03No, i'm not sure that he was but anything is possible. I guess I just seek astrology for all my answers but in reality he's just being a tool.Posted by JumpingpancakeIs it possible he was talking to someone else and that's why he took awhile to figure it out? Just throwing ideas out there. Daron will answer soonPosted by pinkbird03Posted by JumpingpancakeI'm thinking it might be an excuse. He's basically saying he wants to sleep with someone else and not you. Go with your gut.
My cap man broke up with me again too because he said he couldn't be monogamous with me. What in the heck? That's the first I've heard this about a Cappy but I guess all men are capable of it. So, at what point does cappy men look for sex outside of a relationship? I thought we were doing really good then he said he isn't "a monogamous animal." I'm trying so hard to be mad at him but i'm not. He just got divorced, I get that he wants to sleep around, to have fun and party. Whatever, maybe it's just me he doesn't want to be with and that's fine. I'm just a little shocked by it.
Oh I am. I'm just more so sad that he didn't figure this out before he got back together with me.
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Posted by JumpingpancakePosted by pinkbird03It's true. He was talking about all these beautiful future plans with me then all of sudden he's like I don't want a relationship because I can't be monogamous. I got blindsided by it and I'm hurt. I'm just want to know why he sought out someone else. I don't think I did anything to him as far as pushing him away or being rude to him etc. We were good before that happened. I'm just a little lost and now he's being cold so I can't ask him anything. He said he wants to be my friend which if that's his way of leaving the door for open for the future, he's dead wrong. He'd have to change a lot of things before I'd give him another chance not that he really deserves one.Posted by JumpingpancakeIt's hard to find a good guy! Believe me, I know it too well.Posted by pinkbird03No, i'm not sure that he was but anything is possible. I guess I just seek astrology for all my answers but in reality he's just being a tool.Posted by JumpingpancakeIs it possible he was talking to someone else and that's why he took awhile to figure it out? Just throwing ideas out there. Daron will answer soonPosted by pinkbird03Posted by JumpingpancakeI'm thinking it might be an excuse. He's basically saying he wants to sleep with someone else and not you. Go with your gut.
My cap man broke up with me again too because he said he couldn't be monogamous with me. What in the heck? That's the first I've heard this about a Cappy but I guess all men are capable of it. So, at what point does cappy men look for sex outside of a relationship? I thought we were doing really good then he said he isn't "a monogamous animal." I'm trying so hard to be mad at him but i'm not. He just got divorced, I get that he wants to sleep around, to have fun and party. Whatever, maybe it's just me he doesn't want to be with and that's fine. I'm just a little shocked by it.
Oh I am. I'm just more so sad that he didn't figure this out before he got back together with me.
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Posted by VirgieneUmmmmmmm... yes I bite lol. No, not with every woman. Why do it? We are freaks in bed, biting is the tame stuff lol!
do capricorn guys love to bite as in bite when making love?
Do they do that to every woman they bed?
Why they do it?

Posted by Capri-sunYes we do. But it depends on what I am looking for.
Do cap men casual date, or only if you see the long term potential you mentioned earlier?

Posted by pinkbird03He just isn't ready to be restricted. I've been there. You want to met people and have fun but have zero responsibility to them. Problem is that sex usually makes this.... complicated. So the minute they confirm that they want more, you bail. Easier to do it before anyone gets attached.Posted by JumpingpancakeIs it possible he was talking to someone else and that's why he took awhile to figure it out? Just throwing ideas out there. Daron will answer soonPosted by pinkbird03Posted by JumpingpancakeI'm thinking it might be an excuse. He's basically saying he wants to sleep with someone else and not you. Go with your gut.
My cap man broke up with me again too because he said he couldn't be monogamous with me. What in the heck? That's the first I've heard this about a Cappy but I guess all men are capable of it. So, at what point does cappy men look for sex outside of a relationship? I thought we were doing really good then he said he isn't "a monogamous animal." I'm trying so hard to be mad at him but i'm not. He just got divorced, I get that he wants to sleep around, to have fun and party. Whatever, maybe it's just me he doesn't want to be with and that's fine. I'm just a little shocked by it.
Oh I am. I'm just more so sad that he didn't figure this out before he got back together with me.
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Posted by VirgieneIt has nothing to with love. If we have a passionate connection in bed, your gonna git bit. And yes, I love it if she bites back
So does it mean you bite only women you love or who do you bite??
Do you expect your woman to bite you too?

Posted by pinkbird03Posted by daron76Is there an approximate time frame for each phase. I.e 1-3 months 3-6 monthsPosted by pinkbird031. The chase
Hi caps! In another thread someone mentioned the phases of a relationship. What are they to you?
2. Dating
3. The learning stage/ taking off the rose colored glasses
4. The comfort stage
5. The decision phase
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Posted by LoisLaneUmmm that's a hard to say because every girl (in a romantic sense) starts off from the point of "like" and then later becomes someone we deeply care about. Generally, the more we care the more we will do for you (as in things that aren't necessary but extremely helpful and out of our way).
How do you act with a girl you like vs one you deeply care about? Any little ways you act differently? Does it mean anything when you kiss a girl on the forehead a lot?
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Posted by daron76He's also a cap male with an water moon. What would advice be to me? I'm assuming this phase will last a while. Be okay being his friend? I tend to always wait and see with any man, it's hard for me not to. That's just me being me.Posted by pinkbird03He just isn't ready to be restricted. I've been there. You want to met people and have fun but have zero responsibility to them. Problem is that sex usually makes this.... complicated. So the minute they confirm that they want more, you bail. Easier to do it before anyone gets attached.Posted by JumpingpancakeIs it possible he was talking to someone else and that's why he took awhile to figure it out? Just throwing ideas out there. Daron will answer soonPosted by pinkbird03Posted by JumpingpancakeI'm thinking it might be an excuse. He's basically saying he wants to sleep with someone else and not you. Go with your gut.
My cap man broke up with me again too because he said he couldn't be monogamous with me. What in the heck? That's the first I've heard this about a Cappy but I guess all men are capable of it. So, at what point does cappy men look for sex outside of a relationship? I thought we were doing really good then he said he isn't "a monogamous animal." I'm trying so hard to be mad at him but i'm not. He just got divorced, I get that he wants to sleep around, to have fun and party. Whatever, maybe it's just me he doesn't want to be with and that's fine. I'm just a little shocked by it.
Oh I am. I'm just more so sad that he didn't figure this out before he got back together with me.
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Posted by Celticmoongoddess89Be patient, rushing him will definitely fuck this up.Posted by daron76He's also a cap male with an water moon. What would advice be to me? I'm assuming this phase will last a while. Be okay being his friend? I tend to always wait and see with any man, it's hard for me not to. That's just me being me.Posted by pinkbird03He just isn't ready to be restricted. I've been there. You want to met people and have fun but have zero responsibility to them. Problem is that sex usually makes this.... complicated. So the minute they confirm that they want more, you bail. Easier to do it before anyone gets attached.Posted by JumpingpancakeIs it possible he was talking to someone else and that's why he took awhile to figure it out? Just throwing ideas out there. Daron will answer soonPosted by pinkbird03Posted by JumpingpancakeI'm thinking it might be an excuse. He's basically saying he wants to sleep with someone else and not you. Go with your gut.
My cap man broke up with me again too because he said he couldn't be monogamous with me. What in the heck? That's the first I've heard this about a Cappy but I guess all men are capable of it. So, at what point does cappy men look for sex outside of a relationship? I thought we were doing really good then he said he isn't "a monogamous animal." I'm trying so hard to be mad at him but i'm not. He just got divorced, I get that he wants to sleep around, to have fun and party. Whatever, maybe it's just me he doesn't want to be with and that's fine. I'm just a little shocked by it.
Oh I am. I'm just more so sad that he didn't figure this out before he got back together with me.
PS had to make a new account this is jumpingpancake. 🙂
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Posted by LoisLaneBoth, depends on the chemistry we have.
Oh one more - do you like to persue or be persued by a girl?

Posted by Mike79Well, crazy has levels sooo
How do you feel about "crazy" ?

Posted by daron76Isn't every girl a little crazy? ?Posted by Mike79Well, crazy has levels sooo
How do you feel about "crazy" ?
Drama- crazy= tolerable for short period IF the sex is amazing.
Schizo- crazy= nope. nope. NOPE
Bi-polar crazy= Fuck no
Paranoid-crazy= can work with you but if it doesn't get better then bail
Violent crazy= restraining order
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Posted by daron76Why do you think Cap males and Taurus females are not such a good combination? My best relationships were with Cappies. I do have Ceres in Cap and it's my midheaven as well. So what about Taurus ladies with Cappie pleacements? Have you ever been with one?Posted by DiddybopAs you pointed out, you dated a boy. Only thing I can suggest is that you do try to stay away from the children lol.
I've heard that Capricorns are so ambitious and hard working but the men I've met have missed the memo. I'm a Taurus and I keep hearing that cap is my perfect mate. How do I weed out a good one? Personally I was with one for 3 years before I realized he was a little boy in search of someone to take care of him. He lost his dream job because "his boss didn't like him" and lost three jobs after that for similar reasons. Made decent money (way more than me) but wanted to split our expenses evenly or 100% me (i.e. Splitting was the compromise). Liked to be "little spooned" too often (not a turn on for me) and generally just depended on me too much for direction. Is he the "other cap" or are the men so much diff than the woman? (I'm not dating by signs but I want a little direction)
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Posted by TrueFantasyCancers. When its good with them it is amazing- you will feel cared for like no other. When it goes bad, and it can easily, shit gets all kinds of fucked up. Still love them though.
This probably has been asked before but what signs did you get along well the least?

Posted by SeasonSo for me, which is a VERY small sample size, the issues have been that; 1) they can be really stubborn- even when they are dead wrong, 2) they are so independent, driven and accomplished professionally but then turn out to be lazy in their personal affairs (don't get me wrong, I would say its a pretty good trade off in most cases) and, finally, 3) I just haven't felt any sparks with them-- yeah they are attractive but I haven't been drawn, in a passionate way, to them. So that last point could all just be on me and to not having met the right bull yet.Posted by daron76Why do you think Cap males and Taurus females are not such a good combination? My best relationships were with Cappies. I do have Ceres in Cap and it's my midheaven as well. So what about Taurus ladies with Cappie pleacements? Have you ever been with one?Posted by DiddybopAs you pointed out, you dated a boy. Only thing I can suggest is that you do try to stay away from the children lol.
I've heard that Capricorns are so ambitious and hard working but the men I've met have missed the memo. I'm a Taurus and I keep hearing that cap is my perfect mate. How do I weed out a good one? Personally I was with one for 3 years before I realized he was a little boy in search of someone to take care of him. He lost his dream job because "his boss didn't like him" and lost three jobs after that for similar reasons. Made decent money (way more than me) but wanted to split our expenses evenly or 100% me (i.e. Splitting was the compromise). Liked to be "little spooned" too often (not a turn on for me) and generally just depended on me too much for direction. Is he the "other cap" or are the men so much diff than the woman? (I'm not dating by signs but I want a little direction)
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Posted by VirgieneUmm how long we have been together is a factor that is considered, i.e. "we have been together for a while- maybe a focus should be but on figuring out why and what the value of that is". It is not the sole reason I would "stick around". Usually, that comes from love and the fact that I have no problem working through issues if the end goal is making it work with the woman I love.
Do you stay in a " relationship" because you have put too much effort to it already or just waiting for the right ONE to come along?
Why some cappy guys stays in a " relationship" even though he is not into her that much?
I have read from Linda Goodman articles that SOME capricorns stays with you until you served your purpose to them. THat is why capricorns motto is..."I USED"
Please notice the word SOME.. I don't mean all capricorn people.

Posted by BratikiWhat trend? 😄
Is this trend still going?:🙂

Posted by daron76Posted by VirgieneUmm how long we have been together is a factor that is considered, i.e. "we have been together for a while- maybe a focus should be but on figuring out why and what the value of that is". It is not the sole reason I would "stick around". Usually, that comes from love and the fact that I have no problem working through issues if the end goal is making it work with the woman I love.
Do you stay in a " relationship" because you have put too much effort to it already or just waiting for the right ONE to come along?
Why some cappy guys stays in a " relationship" even though he is not into her that much?
I have read from Linda Goodman articles that SOME capricorns stays with you until you served your purpose to them. THat is why capricorns motto is..."I USED"
Please notice the word SOME.. I don't mean all capricorn people.
That second point is really something that depends on perspective. If it takes time to figure out that it isn't going to work with a person, then that person could perceive that I "used" them until I got all I wanted. While, on the other side, I simply could be unsure-- I saw the potential, and tried to give it a fair amount of time to see if it could work. So, yes, I am sure some have and do things like you describe. The problem with looking at it under the guise of "some" is that it negates the point of you asking the question-- SOME of us do this and, as logic would suggest, that means that SOME of us do not. Keep in mind, assholes have never needed a "reason" to be an asshole-- sometimes they just are.
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Posted by LoisLaneYes!!! I feel it internally and my Mom is applying HEAVY pressure externally. I just can't find a woman I want to settle down with who also wants to settle down with me. *shrugs*
Question - do you feel obligated to settle down and get married/kids as per tradition? At some point?

Posted by Capri-sunAgreed. It makes me feel so much better reading your comments. Always good to know its "not just you"Posted by NostalgicCappyI feel the same! Very similar thoughts with truecap, cheeky, you, daron...ParisianCappy is cut throat so I just wouldn't word things as bluntly as he does lol. My libra moon tries to keep my sag mercury in check 🙂Posted by daron76Posted by VirgieneUmm how long we have been together is a factor that is considered, i.e. "we have been together for a while- maybe a focus should be but on figuring out why and what the value of that is". It is not the sole reason I would "stick around". Usually, that comes from love and the fact that I have no problem working through issues if the end goal is making it work with the woman I love.
Do you stay in a " relationship" because you have put too much effort to it already or just waiting for the right ONE to come along?
Why some cappy guys stays in a " relationship" even though he is not into her that much?
I have read from Linda Goodman articles that SOME capricorns stays with you until you served your purpose to them. THat is why capricorns motto is..."I USED"
Please notice the word SOME.. I don't mean all capricorn people.
That second point is really something that depends on perspective. If it takes time to figure out that it isn't going to work with a person, then that person could perceive that I "used" them until I got all I wanted. While, on the other side, I simply could be unsure-- I saw the potential, and tried to give it a fair amount of time to see if it could work. So, yes, I am sure some have and do things like you describe. The problem with looking at it under the guise of "some" is that it negates the point of you asking the question-- SOME of us do this and, as logic would suggest, that means that SOME of us do not. Keep in mind, assholes have never needed a "reason" to be an asshole-- sometimes they just are.
It honestly blows my mind, when I read responses from you, Capri Sun, Parisian, Cheeky, and other Caps on here. I feel like I'm reading the exact same thing I would say and what I'm thinking when I read the questions.
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Posted by LillyPetalLol is it? never heard that before. But, yes, I have 2. One huge, and one a bit smaller
Do you have dimples? I'm trying to see if it's a cap thing.

Posted by daron76It's a new research. I just started it when I asked you. I will add your response to my database: That makes two Capricorn males with dimples that I know of so far! It's looking promising. 😄Posted by LillyPetalLol is it? never heard that before. But, yes, I have 2. One huge, and one a bit smaller
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Posted by LillyPetalPosted by daron76It's a new research. I just started it when I asked you. I will add your response to my database: That makes two Capricorn males with dimples that I know of so far! It's looking promising. 😄Posted by LillyPetalLol is it? never heard that before. But, yes, I have 2. One huge, and one a bit smaller
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Posted by ladylibra21My 2 cap exes have dimples as well. Crazy!Posted by LillyPetalPosted by daron76It's a new research. I just started it when I asked you. I will add your response to my database: That makes two Capricorn males with dimples that I know of so far! It's looking promising. 😄Posted by LillyPetalLol is it? never heard that before. But, yes, I have 2. One huge, and one a bit smaller
Do you have dimples? I'm trying to see if it's a cap thing.
Omg I know I was 3 more with dimples! Supposedly this is a Libra trait Or have read it a couple times I have half temples they're not full dimples it is bizarre LOL
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Posted by LoisLaneHmmm physically, dark features (eyes, hair) with curves.
Woah come to think of it, I know many caps with dimples.
Question: what type of girls are you attracted to physically and emotionally? Do you like or dislike a lot of make up, do you like them to be outgoing vs reserved, etc..

Posted by Capri-sunAs soon as I figure out how to post one, I will 😄Posted by daron76Posted by LillyPetalLol is it? never heard that before. But, yes, I have 2. One huge, and one a bit smaller
Do you have dimples? I'm trying to see if it's a cap thing.
Pictures or it didn't happen 😛
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Posted by PheonixBluezNot sure. Are you sure you want him to? He sounds like a dick....
I have been talking to a Capricorn guy for six months now. We have had some disagreements where twice we would go for two to three weeks without speaking. But he would always call me back. Other than that we get along just fine. He's highly intelligent, funny as shit, and we can talk for hours about anything. He's sweet in his own way. Like the third time we hung out he cooked dinner at my house after I asked him several times. Even though he probably did for his stomach. ?..Anyways, we are not boyfriend and girlfriend but we have sex whenever we can. The problem is now I'm wondering if he even cares. I just had something major happened to me which sort of changed the course of my life. I'm a Virgo so I'm worried constantly. When I talk to him I'm venting yes. But his response Lately is why am I telling him all this sad shit. Yeah that shot hurt my feelings. I thought we were friends. We talk about everything so all of a sudden it's a problem. So five days ago I called and told just wanted to hear his voice before I go to bed. We were talking as usual and told him about my health issue (hypertension) and how I wasn't feeling well. Then he says I'm always calling him with sad shut again. I got pissed and told him I won't call you anymore and don't call me back either. I'm not sure if he was upset because he kept trying to make plans with me to come see me and I told him I had other plans. Plus there were questions about who is taking me and what other friends. But what are the chances of him calling me again after telling him don't call back?

Posted by Celticmoongoddess89Cause ya'll don't work as a couple but the sex is good enough to be worth it. What other reason is there?
What is it with Capricorn men and wanting only FWB-ships? My ex just basically asked me if we could do that and i'm not about to tear my heart in pieces just to give him what he wants. Like, do you like us but you just can't be emotionally invested in us because you have too much going on? or is it purely just sex?
Posted by daron76Posted by Celticmoongoddess89Cause ya'll don't work as a couple but the sex is good enough to be worth it. What other reason is there?
What is it with Capricorn men and wanting only FWB-ships? My ex just basically asked me if we could do that and i'm not about to tear my heart in pieces just to give him what he wants. Like, do you like us but you just can't be emotionally invested in us because you have too much going on? or is it purely just sex?
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Posted by ParisianCappyPosted by Celticmoongoddess89whats up celticmoongodess
What is it with Capricorn men and wanting only FWB-ships? My ex just basically asked me if we could do that and i'm not about to tear my heart in pieces just to give him what he wants. Like, do you like us but you just can't be emotionally invested in us because you have too much going on? or is it purely just sex?
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Posted by Celticmoongoddess89we are easy 😄Posted by ParisianCappyPosted by Celticmoongoddess89whats up celticmoongodess
What is it with Capricorn men and wanting only FWB-ships? My ex just basically asked me if we could do that and i'm not about to tear my heart in pieces just to give him what he wants. Like, do you like us but you just can't be emotionally invested in us because you have too much going on? or is it purely just sex?
Not much. Just trying to figure out the puzzle that is Capricorn males. Lol.click to expand
Posted by daron76Is that so? Maybe i'm not that good at puzzles, like I thought I was. Lol.Posted by Celticmoongoddess89we are easy 😄Posted by ParisianCappyPosted by Celticmoongoddess89whats up celticmoongodess
What is it with Capricorn men and wanting only FWB-ships? My ex just basically asked me if we could do that and i'm not about to tear my heart in pieces just to give him what he wants. Like, do you like us but you just can't be emotionally invested in us because you have too much going on? or is it purely just sex?
Not much. Just trying to figure out the puzzle that is Capricorn males. Lol.click to expand
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