
Pink Bird
@pinkbird03
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Posted by pinkbird03It wouldn't be creepy stalker-like. I would put it on his desk when he isn't around. Lol. He'd never know it was from me unless I said something to him. Lol. Maybe it's a bit childish but I just wanted to do something nice for him.Posted by Celticmoongoddess89Looks a bit desperate. Even stalkerish.Posted by daron76I haven't talked to him because he just ignores me. Whatever. Still debating about doing this. I don't want anything to come of it. He just told me while we together that no one really celebrates his birthday since it's right after Christmas. I feel like it'd backfire, make him "hate" me even worse.Posted by Celticmoongoddess89What kind of asshat would get made that some wonderful woman made him cookies for his b-day?!?! As long as there is no strings attached this should be well recieved.
Would it be a bad idea for me to bake homemade cookies for my ex caps birthday? We haven't spoken for a couple weeks, however this is something I'd do for anyone in my life I care about. I just want it to be like happy birthday, here's your favorite cookies. Lol. Or do you think he'd get pissed off?
Whish I could get cookies for my b-day 😄
An ex randomly showed up at my parents house (where I was living at the time) and bought me a bottle of wine. It made me so uncomfortable! I never saw him again.
Edit! He bought my parents a bottle of wine. Not me.... that was the only time he ever bought them anything. What the heck? Don't do it.
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Posted by Celticmoongoddess89Oh it's at work? Don't go to his house ?Posted by pinkbird03It wouldn't be creepy stalker-like. I would put it on his desk when he isn't around. Lol. He'd never know it was from me unless I said something to him. Lol. Maybe it's a bit childish but I just wanted to do something nice for him.Posted by Celticmoongoddess89Looks a bit desperate. Even stalkerish.Posted by daron76I haven't talked to him because he just ignores me. Whatever. Still debating about doing this. I don't want anything to come of it. He just told me while we together that no one really celebrates his birthday since it's right after Christmas. I feel like it'd backfire, make him "hate" me even worse.Posted by Celticmoongoddess89What kind of asshat would get made that some wonderful woman made him cookies for his b-day?!?! As long as there is no strings attached this should be well recieved.
Would it be a bad idea for me to bake homemade cookies for my ex caps birthday? We haven't spoken for a couple weeks, however this is something I'd do for anyone in my life I care about. I just want it to be like happy birthday, here's your favorite cookies. Lol. Or do you think he'd get pissed off?
Whish I could get cookies for my b-day 😄
An ex randomly showed up at my parents house (where I was living at the time) and bought me a bottle of wine. It made me so uncomfortable! I never saw him again.
Edit! He bought my parents a bottle of wine. Not me.... that was the only time he ever bought them anything. What the heck? Don't do it.
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Posted by pinkbird03Yes, it'd be at work. We live in a small town but surprisingly, I don't remember where his house is. LolPosted by Celticmoongoddess89Oh it's at work? Don't go to his house ?Posted by pinkbird03It wouldn't be creepy stalker-like. I would put it on his desk when he isn't around. Lol. He'd never know it was from me unless I said something to him. Lol. Maybe it's a bit childish but I just wanted to do something nice for him.Posted by Celticmoongoddess89Looks a bit desperate. Even stalkerish.Posted by daron76I haven't talked to him because he just ignores me. Whatever. Still debating about doing this. I don't want anything to come of it. He just told me while we together that no one really celebrates his birthday since it's right after Christmas. I feel like it'd backfire, make him "hate" me even worse.Posted by Celticmoongoddess89What kind of asshat would get made that some wonderful woman made him cookies for his b-day?!?! As long as there is no strings attached this should be well recieved.
Would it be a bad idea for me to bake homemade cookies for my ex caps birthday? We haven't spoken for a couple weeks, however this is something I'd do for anyone in my life I care about. I just want it to be like happy birthday, here's your favorite cookies. Lol. Or do you think he'd get pissed off?
Whish I could get cookies for my b-day 😄
An ex randomly showed up at my parents house (where I was living at the time) and bought me a bottle of wine. It made me so uncomfortable! I never saw him again.
Edit! He bought my parents a bottle of wine. Not me.... that was the only time he ever bought them anything. What the heck? Don't do it.
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Posted by TyliaBThis sounds like a trick question.....
Do cap men like emotional woman?

Posted by -elle-😄 The joy shining through your post brought a big smile to my face. So happy for you two!
lol.....he is obsessed with his Christmas gift and it makes me squeel like a high school girl with her first crush. 😄
I gave him a hug before he left for work and heard something jingling in his pockets....he giggled..
Me - what's that?
Him - scents. I keep a few different ones in my pockets because I am experimenting what goes best together.
After sex last night...I could see his profile in the dark and when he stood up...I could see him smelling the top of his hand...I burst out laughing and he started giggling...
"What—?!!! I have been mixing different scents on the top of both of my hands all day and I wanted to know how it changed after sweating."
lmao
He is now searching for some more hard to find oils to use.
I love watching him. He bites his bottom lip when he is really concentrating. It's fucking adorable. 😄

Posted by daron76Lol hey guys I'm new here so Dont mind my two cents.Posted by TyliaBThis sounds like a trick question.....
Do cap men like emotional woman?click to expand

Posted by -elle-you or he sound like a Taurus - we are very much into scents also ... natural or manmade lol ...
lol.....he is obsessed with his Christmas gift and it makes me squeel like a high school girl with her first crush. 😄
I gave him a hug before he left for work and heard something jingling in his pockets....he giggled..
Me - what's that?
Him - scents. I keep a few different ones in my pockets because I am experimenting what goes best together.
After sex last night...I could see his profile in the dark and when he stood up...I could see him smelling the top of his hand...I burst out laughing and he started giggling...
"What—?!!! I have been mixing different scents on the top of both of my hands all day and I wanted to know how it changed after sweating."
lmao
He is now searching for some more hard to find oils to use.
I love watching him. He bites his bottom lip when he is really concentrating. It's fucking adorable. 😄

Posted by sirXavierLovely, I'm doomed.Posted by daron76Lol hey guys I'm new here so Dont mind my two cents.Posted by TyliaBThis sounds like a trick question.....
Do cap men like emotional woman?
I think I'd rather have a woman who is in touch with their emotions as opposed to having an emotional woman. Sometimes being emotional can come off as unstable.. While being in touch with your emotions you have learned to control themclick to expand

Posted by sirXavierPosted by daron76Lol hey guys I'm new here so Dont mind my two cents.Posted by TyliaBThis sounds like a trick question.....
Do cap men like emotional woman?
I think I'd rather have a woman who is in touch with their emotions as opposed to having an emotional woman. Sometimes being emotional can come off as unstable.. While being in touch with your emotions you have learned to control themclick to expand

Posted by WonderWoman14I don't feel comfortable attributing something like this to astrology (I know that's the basis for this forum). Also, I certainly don't want to apply judgment on anyone's decision on something like this as it is deeply personal. And this all needs to be said before I even know the nature of what it is we are discussing here (and you certainly don't need to reveal it).
Hi I have a question.
Would a capricorn guy who seriously sees a future with you change their mind if you told them you had a condition that doesn't affect you now but may do later on in life?


Posted by LoisLaneIf we are already intimate, I am probably not going to be scared away. Although, it would probably helpful to create dynamic between you (if you don't have this already) where you both feel comfortable to say exactly what you want/ mean to say. Oh, and try not to be vague- it kills the sincerity of what your trying to say in this situation.
Daron, how do I make a clear statement that I'm into the cap I'm hooking up with without scaring him away?


Posted by daron76A couple questions about your relationship with the Aries.Posted by Capri-sun6 years... with an Aries. So thankful for that relationship, I learned and grew a lot.
Longest relationship?click to expand


Posted by krimsinandklover1. What were some of the challenges in the relationship?Posted by daron76A couple questions about your relationship with the Aries.Posted by Capri-sun6 years... with an Aries. So thankful for that relationship, I learned and grew a lot.
Longest relationship?
1. What were some of the challenges in the relationship?
2. You said you learned a lot in the relationship. What were some of the things you learned?
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Posted by pinkbird03Yes, although I try not to and when I catch myself I stop immediately. its not healthy.
Do you mirror your significant other? If yes, why?
I think he mirrors me on a lot of my behaviors. No guy has ever done that with me.

Posted by daron76Why do you do it? Why do you think it's unhealthy? I was trying to read up on this topic and a few articles said it's good for lots of different types of relationships- romantic, personal, and business. It builds rapport.Posted by pinkbird03Yes, although I try not to and when I catch myself I stop immediately. its not healthy.
Do you mirror your significant other? If yes, why?
I think he mirrors me on a lot of my behaviors. No guy has ever done that with me.click to expand

Posted by pinkbird03It's not something I do consciously. So I can't really speak to why.Posted by daron76Why do you do it? Why do you think it's unhealthy? I was trying to read up on this topic and a few articles said it's good for lots of different types of relationships- romantic, personal, and business. It builds rapport.Posted by pinkbird03Yes, although I try not to and when I catch myself I stop immediately. its not healthy.
But for me, I find it interesting in an odd way. Almost like he's always following my lead. Latest update. He told me I'm not being myself so I explained that I am not holding back anymore. I was scared and insecure because I liked him and now there's no pressure so there's no point to hold back. Now he's totally acting different. He's joking a lot, being a lot more expressive with his choices of words, talking in Korean, which I didn't know he spoke. It's like discovering a whole new person.
Is this normal for you caps? No offense, but I sometimes think you're from another planet. Lol jk! ?♥️click to expand

Posted by daron76lol this is true ☀️Posted by pinkbird03It's not something I do consciously. So I can't really speak to why.Posted by daron76Why do you do it? Why do you think it's unhealthy? I was trying to read up on this topic and a few articles said it's good for lots of different types of relationships- romantic, personal, and business. It builds rapport.Posted by pinkbird03Yes, although I try not to and when I catch myself I stop immediately. its not healthy.
But for me, I find it interesting in an odd way. Almost like he's always following my lead. Latest update. He told me I'm not being myself so I explained that I am not holding back anymore. I was scared and insecure because I liked him and now there's no pressure so there's no point to hold back. Now he's totally acting different. He's joking a lot, being a lot more expressive with his choices of words, talking in Korean, which I didn't know he spoke. It's like discovering a whole new person.
Is this normal for you caps? No offense, but I sometimes think you're from another planet. Lol jk! ?♥️
Why is it unhealthy? Well; 1) it is reactive, 2) particularly if the behavior being mirrored isn't constructive- now you have two people behaving badly, 3) this isn't what you are trying to express so you are masking your feelings and thus not being true to yourself our your partner.
Not sure what you mean about him acting different. He may just be in a good mood. Usually people don't stay doom and gloom all the time. Enjoy the sunshine while you can! 😄click to expand


Posted by candy_frostEveryone of them I been involved with there has been this intense connection. We also have gotten a long rather seamlesslyPosted by daron76Posted by Cancan26For me it goes like this; 1 Scorpio, 2 Cancer, 3 Taurus. I wish I had met a virgo to see what they are like ( I hear they are awesome) but it hasn't happened yet.
so who is capricorn favorite sign?
why scorpio thooo.. im dying to know because you guys make me feel like im loosing my mind .__.
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Posted by RoanaFirst, I must say, it doesn't mean much imo. Sounds like you guys are... co-workers and maybe becoming friends.
What it means if cap man is really sweet and caring when face to face, but the moment we are apart it's like I don't exist. If I will write to him or call, he will pick up and talk and be sweet but he never initiates it?
(since we are coworkers usually we interact at work). He shows me special treatment and so on, like he goes above and beyond of what you would do when you are just polite, but he never offers to meet up after work. Yet when some coworkers assume that we are couple he doesn't try to correct them...
I am very confused...

Posted by daron76Posted by RoanaFirst, I must say, it doesn't mean much imo. Sounds like you guys are... co-workers and maybe becoming friends.
What it means if cap man is really sweet and caring when face to face, but the moment we are apart it's like I don't exist. If I will write to him or call, he will pick up and talk and be sweet but he never initiates it?
(since we are coworkers usually we interact at work). He shows me special treatment and so on, like he goes above and beyond of what you would do when you are just polite, but he never offers to meet up after work. Yet when some coworkers assume that we are couple he doesn't try to correct them...
I am very confused...
Are you wanting to date him? Are you aware of the many issues with dating a co-worker?click to expand


Posted by Capri-sun-boxers or briefs?
Daron and other cap males, please humor me...
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Posted by pinkbird03What is a bromance?
Do you have any bromances??
What's that like ?

Posted by daron76A relationship that's loving and maybe affectionate between two straight males. Usually happens with your best friendPosted by pinkbird03What is a bromance?
Do you have any bromances??
What's that like ?click to expand

Posted by pinkbird03I think it can be actually - for me, not sure where that came from but my last 2 relationships with Libra - who talk a lot about themselves - showed me that I don't and both said I don't say a lot about myself but rather I just am and over time my "capabilities" show themselves - is that what they say is "being modest" or not sure ... but I never tout I am this or that - I just am and I am just me ...Posted by daron76Why do you do it? Why do you think it's unhealthy? I was trying to read up on this topic and a few articles said it's good for lots of different types of relationships- romantic, personal, and business. It builds rapport.Posted by pinkbird03Yes, although I try not to and when I catch myself I stop immediately. its not healthy.
Do you mirror your significant other? If yes, why?
I think he mirrors me on a lot of my behaviors. No guy has ever done that with me.
But for me, I find it interesting in an odd way. Almost like he's always following my lead. Latest update. He told me I'm not being myself so I explained that I am not holding back anymore. I was scared and insecure because I liked him and now there's no pressure so there's no point to hold back. Now he's totally acting different. He's joking a lot, being a lot more expressive with his choices of words, talking in Korean, which I didn't know he spoke. It's like discovering a whole new person.
Is this normal for you caps? No offense, but I sometimes think you're from another planet. Lol jk! ?♥️click to expand

Posted by tctaI would say you never try to be someone you're not just to fit in or be liked.Posted by pinkbird03I think it can be actually - for me, not sure where that came from but my last 2 relationships with Libra - who talk a lot about themselves - showed me that I don't and both said I don't say a lot about myself but rather I just am and over time my "capabilities" show themselves - is that what they say is "being modest" or not sure ... but I never tout I am this or that - I just am and I am just me ...Posted by daron76Why do you do it? Why do you think it's unhealthy? I was trying to read up on this topic and a few articles said it's good for lots of different types of relationships- romantic, personal, and business. It builds rapport.Posted by pinkbird03Yes, although I try not to and when I catch myself I stop immediately. its not healthy.
Do you mirror your significant other? If yes, why?
I think he mirrors me on a lot of my behaviors. No guy has ever done that with me.
But for me, I find it interesting in an odd way. Almost like he's always following my lead. Latest update. He told me I'm not being myself so I explained that I am not holding back anymore. I was scared and insecure because I liked him and now there's no pressure so there's no point to hold back. Now he's totally acting different. He's joking a lot, being a lot more expressive with his choices of words, talking in Korean, which I didn't know he spoke. It's like discovering a whole new person.
Is this normal for you caps? No offense, but I sometimes think you're from another planet. Lol jk! ?♥️
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Posted by pinkbird03hmmmm... let me think about this....Posted by daron76A relationship that's loving and maybe affectionate between two straight males. Usually happens with your best friendPosted by pinkbird03What is a bromance?
Do you have any bromances??
What's that like ?click to expand

Posted by daron76Lol someone has a secret lolPosted by pinkbird03hmmmm... let me think about this....Posted by daron76A relationship that's loving and maybe affectionate between two straight males. Usually happens with your best friendPosted by pinkbird03What is a bromance?
Do you have any bromances??
What's that like ?![]()
That's what I found ¯\_(ツ)_/¯click to expand

Posted by pinkbird03lol no I just don't get he concept. Do I have male friends that I am close to? Yes. But bromance sounds as step above friendship- which seems new and ill-defined (and possibly ill-advised). So my thought process stops at friendship.Posted by daron76Lol someone has a secret lolPosted by pinkbird03hmmmm... let me think about this....Posted by daron76A relationship that's loving and maybe affectionate between two straight males. Usually happens with your best friendPosted by pinkbird03What is a bromance?
Do you have any bromances??
What's that like ?![]()
That's what I found ¯\_(ツ)_/¯click to expand



Posted by CapriWLadyI see this as two children, one of whom needs to stop taking this seriously and focus on school and having fun.
How do you guys see such situation?
It has only been a month but it feels like half a year maybe because we text everyday.

Posted by WonderWoman14Not me. If I "disappeared" then I couldn't care less about you or what you are up to.
Do male caps secretly keep tabs on you when they disappear for a while? Will they watch you on social media or see if you're online on whatsapp? Or just not bothered because they have other things to focus on


Posted by WonderWoman14
Not me. If I "disappeared" then I couldn't care less about you or what you are up to.
This is what I love about Capricorn's you are so blunt ?


Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLOOK EVOXXXX! LOL! Im gonna get you!! :"GET OUTTTTT of MY Caucasian HOUSE!" 😛Posted by poison_ivy?♂️Thank goodness I don't need to answer these ?
1} Do caps make things "official", because they really like you? In that instance, do you prefer something long term?
2} Are dates important to you?
3} Why do you work so hard? To the point of overworking, never making time for "Life"?
4} What is the perfect day for a cap, you have a whole day to do what you want, what is the perfect past time?
5} When do you "know" you're "in-love"? How are you with your lady? What signs should a woman look for?
6} You are Aqua Venus like my man... I'm his first scorpion woman. After his long term relationship with his kids mom, he was single for 3 years but dated around.. & made thing "official" with me on the first date. I see often that you prefer Scorpion woman.. SO: What are the traits of a scorpion lady that you like? Any dislikes? Why did those connections end with you and those particular women?
7} Why do Aqua Venus Caps cheat. (Seems to be a consistent trait of you guys.) I haven't been cheated on yet. Or that I know of. 😛
*Sorry, I know it's a bit much to answer.. But.... You said whatever we wanna know.. Therefore: Answer away...click to expand


Posted by poison_ivy
1} Do caps make things "official", because they really like you? In that instance, do you prefer something long term?
2} Are dates important to you?
3} Why do you work so hard? To the point of overworking, never making time for "Life"?
4} What is the perfect day for a cap, you have a whole day to do what you want, what is the perfect past time?
5} When do you "know" you're "in-love"? How are you with your lady? What signs should a woman look for?
6} You are Aqua Venus like my man... I'm his first scorpion woman. After his long term relationship with his kids mom, he was single for 3 years but dated around.. & made thing "official" with me on the first date. I see often that you prefer Scorpion woman.. SO: What are the traits of a scorpion lady that you like? Any dislikes? Why did those connections end with you and those particular women?
7} Why do Aqua Venus Caps cheat. (Seems to be a consistent trait of you guys.) I haven't been cheated on yet. Or that I know of. 😛
*Sorry, I know it's a bit much to answer.. But.... You said whatever we wanna know.. Therefore: Answer away...

Posted by daron76?Maybe I'm with the wrong cap man! Haha I kid I kid! You sound intriguing!! I especially like your free day plans! (#4) sounds like an awesome day! & *high five* to the fucking part! Best part of your day.. ??I always wanted to do hiking with my man... Fun day Daron! ?Posted by poison_ivy
1} Do caps make things "official", because they really like you? In that instance, do you prefer something long term?
2} Are dates important to you?
3} Why do you work so hard? To the point of overworking, never making time for "Life"?
4} What is the perfect day for a cap, you have a whole day to do what you want, what is the perfect past time?
5} When do you "know" you're "in-love"? How are you with your lady? What signs should a woman look for?
6} You are Aqua Venus like my man... I'm his first scorpion woman. After his long term relationship with his kids mom, he was single for 3 years but dated around.. & made thing "official" with me on the first date. I see often that you prefer Scorpion woman.. SO: What are the traits of a scorpion lady that you like? Any dislikes? Why did those connections end with you and those particular women?
7} Why do Aqua Venus Caps cheat. (Seems to be a consistent trait of you guys.) I haven't been cheated on yet. Or that I know of. 😛
*Sorry, I know it's a bit much to answer.. But.... You said whatever we wanna know.. Therefore: Answer away...
Lawd!!!
1. Its very rare that I do that in the first place. The other fellas @sirxavier, @parisiancappy and the rest may view this differently. So, yeah, its not something I play around with. If I am the one declaring then you've got me until you fuck it up.
2. Dates are very important, not only just to figure you out but, to keep things interesting.
3. Because I have 3 main goals in life; 1) be a good father to my kid(s) (when/ if I have any), 2) be a good husband to my wife (when/ if I get married) and , 3) Be in a position to provide whatever help I can to my family. Working hard to be successful in my career carries with it the benefit being financially stable and thus is a good platform to build towards success on all three. Further, until I actually have a S/O to come home to every night, I see no point in slowing down at work.
4. Hmmmm start the day with a hike in the mountains. Then have a good lunch. Chill for a bit , reading, sleeping, fucking (no particular order). Head out later for dinner and a live music performance. Grab dessert/ drinks someplace then call it a night. My favorite pastime is reading, btw.
5. When do I know I am in love? When I clear out space for you in my closet and dresser so you can start leaving clothes at my place- without you ever asking me to do so.
6. A. What are the traits of a scorpion lady that you like?
Too many to list them all but I guess the first would be their bluntness with their opinion- they aren't scared to be wrong (at least they seem that way). I come from a family of very strong women, any woman I choose would need to be able to hold her own. Never have to worry about that with the Scorps I've met. Second would be how passionate they can be- the intensity is enthralling. Finally, I love the fact they don't need me, they want me-- huge turn on. I could go on but I am going to stop here.
B. Any dislikes?
Stubborn. I understand wanting your way but you have to compromise sometimes.
C. Scorp#1 She had kid, and how we met was kinda shady on her part but I ended up moving for a job before we really connected. Scorp#2 She was 8yrs younger and not looking to settle down-- had a lot of fun though. Scorp#3 She cheated.
7. Ain't this some bullshit?!?!? smh 😄
1) Its not a consistent trait, 2) We cheat for the same reason any else does-- cause we want to. Seriously, all this analysis of cheating usually misses that crucial point. Yeah there are circumstances, yeah there are things to consider, yeah people make mistakes. But, bottom line, no one forces you to cheat, its a choice you make- and you make it without your partners input-- so its all on the cheater and their choice.click to expand

Posted by Capri-sun1. Yes I tell them. I had to tell a friend that recently and it sucked. But, honesty works best for everyone in the end.
If you aren't interested in someone, do you let them know straightforward if they approach you?
If you're dating someone and lose interest do you give explanation or just ghost them, slow fade?
Do you ever intentionally do things to get females to stop liking you?
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An ex randomly showed up at my parents house (where I was living at the time) and bought me a bottle of wine. It made me so uncomfortable! I never saw him again.
Edit! He bought my parents a bottle of wine. Not me.... that was the only time he ever bought them anything. What the heck? Don't do it.