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Pink Bird
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Would it be a bad idea for me to bake homemade cookies for my ex caps birthday? We haven't spoken for a couple weeks, however this is something I'd do for anyone in my life I care about. I just want it to be like happy birthday, here's your favorite cookies. Lol. Or do you think he'd get pissed off?
What kind of asshat would get made that some wonderful woman made him cookies for his b-day?!?! As long as there is no strings attached this should be well recieved.

Whish I could get cookies for my b-day 😄
I haven't talked to him because he just ignores me. Whatever. Still debating about doing this. I don't want anything to come of it. He just told me while we together that no one really celebrates his birthday since it's right after Christmas. I feel like it'd backfire, make him "hate" me even worse.
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Looks a bit desperate. Even stalkerish.

An ex randomly showed up at my parents house (where I was living at the time) and bought me a bottle of wine. It made me so uncomfortable! I never saw him again.

Edit! He bought my parents a bottle of wine. Not me.... that was the only time he ever bought them anything. What the heck? Don't do it.
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CelticMoonGoddess
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Would it be a bad idea for me to bake homemade cookies for my ex caps birthday? We haven't spoken for a couple weeks, however this is something I'd do for anyone in my life I care about. I just want it to be like happy birthday, here's your favorite cookies. Lol. Or do you think he'd get pissed off?
What kind of asshat would get made that some wonderful woman made him cookies for his b-day?!?! As long as there is no strings attached this should be well recieved.

Whish I could get cookies for my b-day 😄
I haven't talked to him because he just ignores me. Whatever. Still debating about doing this. I don't want anything to come of it. He just told me while we together that no one really celebrates his birthday since it's right after Christmas. I feel like it'd backfire, make him "hate" me even worse.
Looks a bit desperate. Even stalkerish.

An ex randomly showed up at my parents house (where I was living at the time) and bought me a bottle of wine. It made me so uncomfortable! I never saw him again.

Edit! He bought my parents a bottle of wine. Not me.... that was the only time he ever bought them anything. What the heck? Don't do it.

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It wouldn't be creepy stalker-like. I would put it on his desk when he isn't around. Lol. He'd never know it was from me unless I said something to him. Lol. Maybe it's a bit childish but I just wanted to do something nice for him.
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Pink Bird
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Posted by daron76
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Would it be a bad idea for me to bake homemade cookies for my ex caps birthday? We haven't spoken for a couple weeks, however this is something I'd do for anyone in my life I care about. I just want it to be like happy birthday, here's your favorite cookies. Lol. Or do you think he'd get pissed off?
What kind of asshat would get made that some wonderful woman made him cookies for his b-day?!?! As long as there is no strings attached this should be well recieved.

Whish I could get cookies for my b-day 😄
I haven't talked to him because he just ignores me. Whatever. Still debating about doing this. I don't want anything to come of it. He just told me while we together that no one really celebrates his birthday since it's right after Christmas. I feel like it'd backfire, make him "hate" me even worse.
Looks a bit desperate. Even stalkerish.

An ex randomly showed up at my parents house (where I was living at the time) and bought me a bottle of wine. It made me so uncomfortable! I never saw him again.

Edit! He bought my parents a bottle of wine. Not me.... that was the only time he ever bought them anything. What the heck? Don't do it.


It wouldn't be creepy stalker-like. I would put it on his desk when he isn't around. Lol. He'd never know it was from me unless I said something to him. Lol. Maybe it's a bit childish but I just wanted to do something nice for him.
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Oh it's at work? Don't go to his house ?
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CelticMoonGoddess
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Would it be a bad idea for me to bake homemade cookies for my ex caps birthday? We haven't spoken for a couple weeks, however this is something I'd do for anyone in my life I care about. I just want it to be like happy birthday, here's your favorite cookies. Lol. Or do you think he'd get pissed off?
What kind of asshat would get made that some wonderful woman made him cookies for his b-day?!?! As long as there is no strings attached this should be well recieved.

Whish I could get cookies for my b-day 😄
I haven't talked to him because he just ignores me. Whatever. Still debating about doing this. I don't want anything to come of it. He just told me while we together that no one really celebrates his birthday since it's right after Christmas. I feel like it'd backfire, make him "hate" me even worse.
Looks a bit desperate. Even stalkerish.

An ex randomly showed up at my parents house (where I was living at the time) and bought me a bottle of wine. It made me so uncomfortable! I never saw him again.

Edit! He bought my parents a bottle of wine. Not me.... that was the only time he ever bought them anything. What the heck? Don't do it.


It wouldn't be creepy stalker-like. I would put it on his desk when he isn't around. Lol. He'd never know it was from me unless I said something to him. Lol. Maybe it's a bit childish but I just wanted to do something nice for him.
Oh it's at work? Don't go to his house ?

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Yes, it'd be at work. We live in a small town but surprisingly, I don't remember where his house is. Lol
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daron76
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lol.....he is obsessed with his Christmas gift and it makes me squeel like a high school girl with her first crush. 😄

I gave him a hug before he left for work and heard something jingling in his pockets....he giggled..

Me - what's that?

Him - scents. I keep a few different ones in my pockets because I am experimenting what goes best together.

After sex last night...I could see his profile in the dark and when he stood up...I could see him smelling the top of his hand...I burst out laughing and he started giggling...

"What—?!!! I have been mixing different scents on the top of both of my hands all day and I wanted to know how it changed after sweating."

lmao

He is now searching for some more hard to find oils to use.

I love watching him. He bites his bottom lip when he is really concentrating. It's fucking adorable. 😄
😄 The joy shining through your post brought a big smile to my face. So happy for you two!
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Capsup
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Posted by TyliaB
Do cap men like emotional woman?
This sounds like a trick question.....
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Lol hey guys I'm new here so Dont mind my two cents.

I think I'd rather have a woman who is in touch with their emotions as opposed to having an emotional woman. Sometimes being emotional can come off as unstable.. While being in touch with your emotions you have learned to control them
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tcta
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Posted by -elle-
lol.....he is obsessed with his Christmas gift and it makes me squeel like a high school girl with her first crush. 😄

I gave him a hug before he left for work and heard something jingling in his pockets....he giggled..

Me - what's that?

Him - scents. I keep a few different ones in my pockets because I am experimenting what goes best together.

After sex last night...I could see his profile in the dark and when he stood up...I could see him smelling the top of his hand...I burst out laughing and he started giggling...

"What—?!!! I have been mixing different scents on the top of both of my hands all day and I wanted to know how it changed after sweating."

lmao

He is now searching for some more hard to find oils to use.

I love watching him. He bites his bottom lip when he is really concentrating. It's fucking adorable. 😄
you or he sound like a Taurus - we are very much into scents also ... natural or manmade lol ...
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Pink Bird
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Posted by daron76
Posted by TyliaB
Do cap men like emotional woman?
This sounds like a trick question.....
Lol hey guys I'm new here so Dont mind my two cents.

I think I'd rather have a woman who is in touch with their emotions as opposed to having an emotional woman. Sometimes being emotional can come off as unstable.. While being in touch with your emotions you have learned to control them
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Lovely, I'm doomed.
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daron76
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Posted by daron76
Posted by TyliaB
Do cap men like emotional woman?
This sounds like a trick question.....
Lol hey guys I'm new here so Dont mind my two cents.

I think I'd rather have a woman who is in touch with their emotions as opposed to having an emotional woman. Sometimes being emotional can come off as unstable.. While being in touch with your emotions you have learned to control them
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Welcome to the board man
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daron76
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Posted by WonderWoman14
Hi I have a question.

Would a capricorn guy who seriously sees a future with you change their mind if you told them you had a condition that doesn't affect you now but may do later on in life?
I don't feel comfortable attributing something like this to astrology (I know that's the basis for this forum). Also, I certainly don't want to apply judgment on anyone's decision on something like this as it is deeply personal. And this all needs to be said before I even know the nature of what it is we are discussing here (and you certainly don't need to reveal it).

Speaking for myself, however, I wouldn't leave someone for a condition such as you speak of. Once I am committed to you, I am with you come what may. So absent contracting a life threatening STD through infidelity, I would stay by her side.
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daron76
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Daron, how do I make a clear statement that I'm into the cap I'm hooking up with without scaring him away?
If we are already intimate, I am probably not going to be scared away. Although, it would probably helpful to create dynamic between you (if you don't have this already) where you both feel comfortable to say exactly what you want/ mean to say. Oh, and try not to be vague- it kills the sincerity of what your trying to say in this situation.
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krimsinandklover
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Longest relationship?
6 years... with an Aries. So thankful for that relationship, I learned and grew a lot.
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A couple questions about your relationship with the Aries.

1. What were some of the challenges in the relationship?

2. You said you learned a lot in the relationship. What were some of the things you learned?
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Longest relationship?
6 years... with an Aries. So thankful for that relationship, I learned and grew a lot.
A couple questions about your relationship with the Aries.

1. What were some of the challenges in the relationship?

2. You said you learned a lot in the relationship. What were some of the things you learned?

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1. What were some of the challenges in the relationship?

There were many. The biggest ones were my immaturity and lack of emotional awareness coupled with her insecurity (for a variety of legitimate reasons).

2. You said you learned a lot in the relationship. What were some of the things you learned?

I learned to pick my battles, how to not be ashamed of how I felt/ reacted to everything. How express anger in a healthy way. How to appreciate another person for who they are and instread of what they do for you. Basically, I grew up hahaa
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Pink Bird
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Do you mirror your significant other? If yes, why?

I think he mirrors me on a lot of my behaviors. No guy has ever done that with me.
Yes, although I try not to and when I catch myself I stop immediately. its not healthy.
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Why do you do it? Why do you think it's unhealthy? I was trying to read up on this topic and a few articles said it's good for lots of different types of relationships- romantic, personal, and business. It builds rapport.

But for me, I find it interesting in an odd way. Almost like he's always following my lead. Latest update. He told me I'm not being myself so I explained that I am not holding back anymore. I was scared and insecure because I liked him and now there's no pressure so there's no point to hold back. Now he's totally acting different. He's joking a lot, being a lot more expressive with his choices of words, talking in Korean, which I didn't know he spoke. It's like discovering a whole new person.

Is this normal for you caps? No offense, but I sometimes think you're from another planet. Lol jk! ?♥️
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daron76
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Yes, although I try not to and when I catch myself I stop immediately. its not healthy.
Why do you do it? Why do you think it's unhealthy? I was trying to read up on this topic and a few articles said it's good for lots of different types of relationships- romantic, personal, and business. It builds rapport.

But for me, I find it interesting in an odd way. Almost like he's always following my lead. Latest update. He told me I'm not being myself so I explained that I am not holding back anymore. I was scared and insecure because I liked him and now there's no pressure so there's no point to hold back. Now he's totally acting different. He's joking a lot, being a lot more expressive with his choices of words, talking in Korean, which I didn't know he spoke. It's like discovering a whole new person.

Is this normal for you caps? No offense, but I sometimes think you're from another planet. Lol jk! ?♥️
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It's not something I do consciously. So I can't really speak to why.

Why is it unhealthy? Well; 1) it is reactive, 2) particularly if the behavior being mirrored isn't constructive- now you have two people behaving badly, 3) this isn't what you are trying to express so you are masking your feelings and thus not being true to yourself our your partner.

Not sure what you mean about him acting different. He may just be in a good mood. Usually people don't stay doom and gloom all the time. Enjoy the sunshine while you can! 😄
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Yes, although I try not to and when I catch myself I stop immediately. its not healthy.
Why do you do it? Why do you think it's unhealthy? I was trying to read up on this topic and a few articles said it's good for lots of different types of relationships- romantic, personal, and business. It builds rapport.

But for me, I find it interesting in an odd way. Almost like he's always following my lead. Latest update. He told me I'm not being myself so I explained that I am not holding back anymore. I was scared and insecure because I liked him and now there's no pressure so there's no point to hold back. Now he's totally acting different. He's joking a lot, being a lot more expressive with his choices of words, talking in Korean, which I didn't know he spoke. It's like discovering a whole new person.

Is this normal for you caps? No offense, but I sometimes think you're from another planet. Lol jk! ?♥️
It's not something I do consciously. So I can't really speak to why.

Why is it unhealthy? Well; 1) it is reactive, 2) particularly if the behavior being mirrored isn't constructive- now you have two people behaving badly, 3) this isn't what you are trying to express so you are masking your feelings and thus not being true to yourself our your partner.

Not sure what you mean about him acting different. He may just be in a good mood. Usually people don't stay doom and gloom all the time. Enjoy the sunshine while you can! 😄
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lol this is true ☀️

Happy Sunday Funday! ?
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What it means if cap man is really sweet and caring when face to face, but the moment we are apart it's like I don't exist. If I will write to him or call, he will pick up and talk and be sweet but he never initiates it?

(since we are coworkers usually we interact at work). He shows me special treatment and so on, like he goes above and beyond of what you would do when you are just polite, but he never offers to meet up after work. Yet when some coworkers assume that we are couple he doesn't try to correct them...

I am very confused...
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daron76
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so who is capricorn favorite sign?
For me it goes like this; 1 Scorpio, 2 Cancer, 3 Taurus. I wish I had met a virgo to see what they are like ( I hear they are awesome) but it hasn't happened yet.


why scorpio thooo.. im dying to know because you guys make me feel like im loosing my mind .__.

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Everyone of them I been involved with there has been this intense connection. We also have gotten a long rather seamlessly
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What it means if cap man is really sweet and caring when face to face, but the moment we are apart it's like I don't exist. If I will write to him or call, he will pick up and talk and be sweet but he never initiates it?

(since we are coworkers usually we interact at work). He shows me special treatment and so on, like he goes above and beyond of what you would do when you are just polite, but he never offers to meet up after work. Yet when some coworkers assume that we are couple he doesn't try to correct them...

I am very confused...
First, I must say, it doesn't mean much imo. Sounds like you guys are... co-workers and maybe becoming friends.

Are you wanting to date him? Are you aware of the many issues with dating a co-worker?
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Posted by Roana
What it means if cap man is really sweet and caring when face to face, but the moment we are apart it's like I don't exist. If I will write to him or call, he will pick up and talk and be sweet but he never initiates it?

(since we are coworkers usually we interact at work). He shows me special treatment and so on, like he goes above and beyond of what you would do when you are just polite, but he never offers to meet up after work. Yet when some coworkers assume that we are couple he doesn't try to correct them...

I am very confused...
First, I must say, it doesn't mean much imo. Sounds like you guys are... co-workers and maybe becoming friends.

Are you wanting to date him? Are you aware of the many issues with dating a co-worker?
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I actually made whole new post in capricorn "forum" here 😄 because it's much more complicated than what I just wrote. But I just didnt wanted to copy paste whole thing. Now I kinda regret because than you would see where I am coming from 🙂 And I am 26 so am well aware about dating coworkers. We are in enough different fields that even if it wouldnt end up nice it wouldnt affect out work or life 🙂 also our job doesnt have policy against relationships.
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daron76
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Posted by Capri-sun
Daron and other cap males, please humor me...

-
-boxers or briefs?

briefs

- ice or fire?

fire

- beef or chicken?

beef

- red wine or white wine?

red

- sun or stars?

Stars are suns that are just further away. But, Sun.

- wet or dry?

Depends on what it is. But, given your naughty mind of late, wet... 😛

- silk or satin?

satin

- black or grey?

black

- hug or kiss?

both
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tcta
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Do you mirror your significant other? If yes, why?

I think he mirrors me on a lot of my behaviors. No guy has ever done that with me.
Yes, although I try not to and when I catch myself I stop immediately. its not healthy.
Why do you do it? Why do you think it's unhealthy? I was trying to read up on this topic and a few articles said it's good for lots of different types of relationships- romantic, personal, and business. It builds rapport.

But for me, I find it interesting in an odd way. Almost like he's always following my lead. Latest update. He told me I'm not being myself so I explained that I am not holding back anymore. I was scared and insecure because I liked him and now there's no pressure so there's no point to hold back. Now he's totally acting different. He's joking a lot, being a lot more expressive with his choices of words, talking in Korean, which I didn't know he spoke. It's like discovering a whole new person.

Is this normal for you caps? No offense, but I sometimes think you're from another planet. Lol jk! ?♥️
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I think it can be actually - for me, not sure where that came from but my last 2 relationships with Libra - who talk a lot about themselves - showed me that I don't and both said I don't say a lot about myself but rather I just am and over time my "capabilities" show themselves - is that what they say is "being modest" or not sure ... but I never tout I am this or that - I just am and I am just me ...

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Pink Bird
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Posted by pinkbird03
Do you mirror your significant other? If yes, why?

I think he mirrors me on a lot of my behaviors. No guy has ever done that with me.
Yes, although I try not to and when I catch myself I stop immediately. its not healthy.
Why do you do it? Why do you think it's unhealthy? I was trying to read up on this topic and a few articles said it's good for lots of different types of relationships- romantic, personal, and business. It builds rapport.

But for me, I find it interesting in an odd way. Almost like he's always following my lead. Latest update. He told me I'm not being myself so I explained that I am not holding back anymore. I was scared and insecure because I liked him and now there's no pressure so there's no point to hold back. Now he's totally acting different. He's joking a lot, being a lot more expressive with his choices of words, talking in Korean, which I didn't know he spoke. It's like discovering a whole new person.

Is this normal for you caps? No offense, but I sometimes think you're from another planet. Lol jk! ?♥️
I think it can be actually - for me, not sure where that came from but my last 2 relationships with Libra - who talk a lot about themselves - showed me that I don't and both said I don't say a lot about myself but rather I just am and over time my "capabilities" show themselves - is that what they say is "being modest" or not sure ... but I never tout I am this or that - I just am and I am just me ...

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I would say you never try to be someone you're not just to fit in or be liked.
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Pink Bird
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Do you have any bromances??

What's that like ?
What is a bromance?
A relationship that's loving and maybe affectionate between two straight males. Usually happens with your best friend
hmmmm... let me think about this....

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That's what I found ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Lol someone has a secret lol
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daron76
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Do you have any bromances??

What's that like ?
What is a bromance?
A relationship that's loving and maybe affectionate between two straight males. Usually happens with your best friend
hmmmm... let me think about this....

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That's what I found ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Lol someone has a secret lol
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lol no I just don't get he concept. Do I have male friends that I am close to? Yes. But bromance sounds as step above friendship- which seems new and ill-defined (and possibly ill-advised). So my thought process stops at friendship.
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Teabiscuit
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My cappy guy starts to criticize me a lot . I have been seeing him for 1 year and 4 months now. He is not like this before. I don't know if it is teasing or criticizing me coz some times I mispronounced the words and he will mimic me and I felt embarrassed. He do this only when the two of us are talking on the phone. Sometimes he would tell me, you will look more beautiful if you wear this and that..

Honestly, my feelings for him are getting lesser and lesser?.

Is this normal to a cappy guy or he too is starting too fade away?
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CapriWLady
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Hi, just need some advices on this Cap man I got to know just a month ago through Tinder app.

He seems to be looking for girls just for sexting. I refused to sext or send any pics yet he still continues to talk to me. He said that he is lonely and just wants response. He said that he doesnt find me boring as long as I respond.

We had been texting everyday, from morning to night since the day one. Almost everyday, he would say he is horny and share with me stories of his sexting stories with the girls as I requested (because I like to listen/know).

We met one day, just for a movie. He asked to look at my phone and he just clicked into my Tinder and look at my matches. He too, showed me his Tinder and Matches and how he swipe for the girls (he was just basically swiping right for almost all the girls, without really looking and thinking) and after that day, he never talked about being horny or almost anything about sex or sexting anymore. But we still text everyday from morning to night. We talked about almost anything, he would suddenly tell me he is hungry or rant about his work.

Obviously I know he is still on tinder, still looking for girls to sext, but he refuse to talk about it to me anymore. He would be like 'don't wanna talk about this' and 'I'm trying to control'. And when he mentioned like a girl wants to send him a naked photo and I told him to go enjoy the sexting, he would say 'nooo, okay I will stop talking about such things to you'.

He is acting really weird suddenly, as in, he doesnt share these sexting stories or about girls anymore.

I think I fell for him actually. hahah, Just not sure if he feels the same as he rarely ask for more details about me, just like what are you doing now and some brief stuff.

By the way, he said that he did not chase any girls before, not been in a relationship before and no sex before. He wants to have sex only after marriage.

How do you guys see such situation?

It has only been a month but it feels like half a year maybe because we text everyday.
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daron76
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Posted by WonderWoman14
Not me. If I "disappeared" then I couldn't care less about you or what you are up to.

This is what I love about Capricorn's you are so blunt ?




I mean, I actually find the whole disappearing thing disrespectful as fuck. So, if I feel comfortable blatantly disrespecting you like that, then your feelings matter very little to me.

That being sad, its a practice I've done my best to stop. No matter how bad someone else has treated you, you should try not to stoop to their level. You know, the whole trying to be a better person thing

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P O I S O N . I V Y
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1} Do caps make things "official", because they really like you? In that instance, do you prefer something long term?

2} Are dates important to you?

3} Why do you work so hard? To the point of overworking, never making time for "Life"?

4} What is the perfect day for a cap, you have a whole day to do what you want, what is the perfect past time?

5} When do you "know" you're "in-love"? How are you with your lady? What signs should a woman look for?

6} You are Aqua Venus like my man... I'm his first scorpion woman. After his long term relationship with his kids mom, he was single for 3 years but dated around.. & made thing "official" with me on the first date. I see often that you prefer Scorpion woman.. SO: What are the traits of a scorpion lady that you like? Any dislikes? Why did those connections end with you and those particular women?

7} Why do Aqua Venus Caps cheat. (Seems to be a consistent trait of you guys.) I haven't been cheated on yet. Or that I know of. 😛

*Sorry, I know it's a bit much to answer.. But.... You said whatever we wanna know.. Therefore: Answer away...
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Posted by poison_ivy
1} Do caps make things "official", because they really like you? In that instance, do you prefer something long term?

2} Are dates important to you?

3} Why do you work so hard? To the point of overworking, never making time for "Life"?

4} What is the perfect day for a cap, you have a whole day to do what you want, what is the perfect past time?

5} When do you "know" you're "in-love"? How are you with your lady? What signs should a woman look for?

6} You are Aqua Venus like my man... I'm his first scorpion woman. After his long term relationship with his kids mom, he was single for 3 years but dated around.. & made thing "official" with me on the first date. I see often that you prefer Scorpion woman.. SO: What are the traits of a scorpion lady that you like? Any dislikes? Why did those connections end with you and those particular women?

7} Why do Aqua Venus Caps cheat. (Seems to be a consistent trait of you guys.) I haven't been cheated on yet. Or that I know of. 😛

*Sorry, I know it's a bit much to answer.. But.... You said whatever we wanna know.. Therefore: Answer away...
?‍♂️Thank goodness I don't need to answer these ?
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LOOK EVOXXXX! LOL! Im gonna get you!! :"GET OUTTTTT of MY Caucasian HOUSE!" 😛
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Posted by poison_ivy
1} Do caps make things "official", because they really like you? In that instance, do you prefer something long term?

2} Are dates important to you?

3} Why do you work so hard? To the point of overworking, never making time for "Life"?

4} What is the perfect day for a cap, you have a whole day to do what you want, what is the perfect past time?

5} When do you "know" you're "in-love"? How are you with your lady? What signs should a woman look for?

6} You are Aqua Venus like my man... I'm his first scorpion woman. After his long term relationship with his kids mom, he was single for 3 years but dated around.. & made thing "official" with me on the first date. I see often that you prefer Scorpion woman.. SO: What are the traits of a scorpion lady that you like? Any dislikes? Why did those connections end with you and those particular women?

7} Why do Aqua Venus Caps cheat. (Seems to be a consistent trait of you guys.) I haven't been cheated on yet. Or that I know of. 😛

*Sorry, I know it's a bit much to answer.. But.... You said whatever we wanna know.. Therefore: Answer away...


Lawd!!!

1. Its very rare that I do that in the first place. The other fellas @sirxavier, @parisiancappy and the rest may view this differently. So, yeah, its not something I play around with. If I am the one declaring then you've got me until you fuck it up.

2. Dates are very important, not only just to figure you out but, to keep things interesting.

3. Because I have 3 main goals in life; 1) be a good father to my kid(s) (when/ if I have any), 2) be a good husband to my wife (when/ if I get married) and , 3) Be in a position to provide whatever help I can to my family. Working hard to be successful in my career carries with it the benefit being financially stable and thus is a good platform to build towards success on all three. Further, until I actually have a S/O to come home to every night, I see no point in slowing down at work.

4. Hmmmm start the day with a hike in the mountains. Then have a good lunch. Chill for a bit , reading, sleeping, fucking (no particular order). Head out later for dinner and a live music performance. Grab dessert/ drinks someplace then call it a night. My favorite pastime is reading, btw.

5. When do I know I am in love? When I clear out space for you in my closet and dresser so you can start leaving clothes at my place- without you ever asking me to do so.

6. A. What are the traits of a scorpion lady that you like?

Too many to list them all but I guess the first would be their bluntness with their opinion- they aren't scared to be wrong (at least they seem that way). I come from a family of very strong women, any woman I choose would need to be able to hold her own. Never have to worry about that with the Scorps I've met. Second would be how passionate they can be- the intensity is enthralling. Finally, I love the fact they don't need me, they want me-- huge turn on. I could go on but I am going to stop here.

B. Any dislikes?

Stubborn. I understand wanting your way but you have to compromise sometimes.

C. Scorp#1 She had kid, and how we met was kinda shady on her part but I ended up moving for a job before we really connected. Scorp#2 She was 8yrs younger and not looking to settle down-- had a lot of fun though. Scorp#3 She cheated.

7. Ain't this some bullshit?!?!? smh 😄

1) Its not a consistent trait, 2) We cheat for the same reason any else does-- cause we want to. Seriously, all this analysis of cheating usually misses that crucial point. Yeah there are circumstances, yeah there are things to consider, yeah people make mistakes. But, bottom line, no one forces you to cheat, its a choice you make- and you make it without your partners input-- so its all on the cheater and their choice.
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Posted by daron76
Posted by poison_ivy
1} Do caps make things "official", because they really like you? In that instance, do you prefer something long term?

2} Are dates important to you?

3} Why do you work so hard? To the point of overworking, never making time for "Life"?

4} What is the perfect day for a cap, you have a whole day to do what you want, what is the perfect past time?

5} When do you "know" you're "in-love"? How are you with your lady? What signs should a woman look for?

6} You are Aqua Venus like my man... I'm his first scorpion woman. After his long term relationship with his kids mom, he was single for 3 years but dated around.. & made thing "official" with me on the first date. I see often that you prefer Scorpion woman.. SO: What are the traits of a scorpion lady that you like? Any dislikes? Why did those connections end with you and those particular women?

7} Why do Aqua Venus Caps cheat. (Seems to be a consistent trait of you guys.) I haven't been cheated on yet. Or that I know of. 😛

*Sorry, I know it's a bit much to answer.. But.... You said whatever we wanna know.. Therefore: Answer away...


Lawd!!!

1. Its very rare that I do that in the first place. The other fellas @sirxavier, @parisiancappy and the rest may view this differently. So, yeah, its not something I play around with. If I am the one declaring then you've got me until you fuck it up.

2. Dates are very important, not only just to figure you out but, to keep things interesting.

3. Because I have 3 main goals in life; 1) be a good father to my kid(s) (when/ if I have any), 2) be a good husband to my wife (when/ if I get married) and , 3) Be in a position to provide whatever help I can to my family. Working hard to be successful in my career carries with it the benefit being financially stable and thus is a good platform to build towards success on all three. Further, until I actually have a S/O to come home to every night, I see no point in slowing down at work.

4. Hmmmm start the day with a hike in the mountains. Then have a good lunch. Chill for a bit , reading, sleeping, fucking (no particular order). Head out later for dinner and a live music performance. Grab dessert/ drinks someplace then call it a night. My favorite pastime is reading, btw.

5. When do I know I am in love? When I clear out space for you in my closet and dresser so you can start leaving clothes at my place- without you ever asking me to do so.

6. A. What are the traits of a scorpion lady that you like?

Too many to list them all but I guess the first would be their bluntness with their opinion- they aren't scared to be wrong (at least they seem that way). I come from a family of very strong women, any woman I choose would need to be able to hold her own. Never have to worry about that with the Scorps I've met. Second would be how passionate they can be- the intensity is enthralling. Finally, I love the fact they don't need me, they want me-- huge turn on. I could go on but I am going to stop here.

B. Any dislikes?

Stubborn. I understand wanting your way but you have to compromise sometimes.

C. Scorp#1 She had kid, and how we met was kinda shady on her part but I ended up moving for a job before we really connected. Scorp#2 She was 8yrs younger and not looking to settle down-- had a lot of fun though. Scorp#3 She cheated.

7. Ain't this some bullshit?!?!? smh 😄

1) Its not a consistent trait, 2) We cheat for the same reason any else does-- cause we want to. Seriously, all this analysis of cheating usually misses that crucial point. Yeah there are circumstances, yeah there are things to consider, yeah people make mistakes. But, bottom line, no one forces you to cheat, its a choice you make- and you make it without your partners input-- so its all on the cheater and their choice.
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?Maybe I'm with the wrong cap man! Haha I kid I kid! You sound intriguing!! I especially like your free day plans! (#4) sounds like an awesome day! & *high five* to the fucking part! Best part of your day.. ??I always wanted to do hiking with my man... Fun day Daron! ?

Uh I still have yet to get a nice date with my cap but he's a workaholic so your answers to why You guys are such work freaks explains that.. no biggie.. I can wait.

I'm def blunt but I like that a cap can handle my shit.. my slick mouth, my sacarstic humor.. temper.. handle me in all ways.. specially sexually.. mmm mm..??

Got me with the stubborn.. my cap just tells me to stop being a jerk and tells me to kiss him.. love a man that kisses me when we mad! ? Major turn on.. intense.. yes.. & you right I got my own, always say I don't need a man but when I want you, you're mine.. ?☺️?.. you could have kept going! Lol

Yea cheating is just pointless... tell the person you with you done & do you..

Thank you Mr. Daron for answering my questions!

But ummmm... One other question :

What's your thoughts of moving in with your s/o?? How soon is too soon.. my cap asked where "We" moving but since saying that hadn't took steps towards that.. is he serious Or nah... (I think it's soon but I would love seeing/having him around more) *LDR

Okay I lied.. 1 more.. ?

If you tell a woman you love her and she questions it. Does that hurt your pride & you sort of take it back?
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Posted by Capri-sun
If you aren't interested in someone, do you let them know straightforward if they approach you?

If you're dating someone and lose interest do you give explanation or just ghost them, slow fade?

Do you ever intentionally do things to get females to stop liking you?
1. Yes I tell them. I had to tell a friend that recently and it sucked. But, honesty works best for everyone in the end.

2. I tell them I'm done. If they ask why I'll tell them. Ghosting is wrong and weak, man up and own your choices. The slow fade requires to much effort- if I'm out, I'm out. No need to drag it on and waste my time and yours. It takes a lot for me to walk away (when we are serious), so if I'm there then its a wrap.

3. Nope. Again, waste of time.