Ask a Cap Male (Page 9)

Posted by poison_ivy

Posted by daron76

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But ummmm... One other question :

What's your thoughts of moving in with your s/o?? How soon is too soon.. my cap asked where "We" moving but since saying that hadn't took steps towards that.. is he serious Or nah... (I think it's soon but I would love seeing/having him around more) *LDR

Okay I lied.. 1 more.. ?

If you tell a woman you love her and she questions it. Does that hurt your pride & you sort of take it back?

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1. For me, it depends on the connection. But if I am feeling you like that, the yes, I want you to move in ASAP. Why?- I want to fall asleep and wake up next to you everyday. That means the world to me- I used to watch my ex-sleep all the time (mostly because she ALWAYS feel asleep before me lol). Is he serious, I don't know for sure but I would say probably- well if you want him to take steps don't be so skeptical of his ideas. If you're interested in that, let him know- and if your not- same thing and tell him why.



2. I don't say that unless I mean it. So it doesn't matter if you believe it or not-- that's your choice. How I feel is how I feel. It would be helpful to know you're not there yet (which is fine) so we can be on the same page but that isn't going to change how I feel about you.

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Posted by poison_ivy
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But ummmm... One other question :

What's your thoughts of moving in with your s/o?? How soon is too soon.. my cap asked where "We" moving but since saying that hadn't took steps towards that.. is he serious Or nah... (I think it's soon but I would love seeing/having him around more) *LDR

Okay I lied.. 1 more.. ?

If you tell a woman you love her and she questions it. Does that hurt your pride & you sort of take it back?

1. For me, it depends on the connection. But if I am feeling you like that, the yes, I want you to move in ASAP. Why?- I want to fall asleep and wake up next to you everyday. That means the world to me- I used to watch my ex-sleep all the time (mostly because she ALWAYS feel asleep before me lol). Is he serious, I don't know for sure but I would say probably- well if you want him to take steps don't be so skeptical of his ideas. If you're interested in that, let him know- and if your not- same thing and tell him why.



2. I don't say that unless I mean it. So it doesn't matter if you believe it or not-- that's your choice. How I feel is how I feel. It would be helpful to know you're not there yet (which is fine) so we can be on the same page but that isn't going to change how I feel about you.

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Thank you for your answers... I think I'll go have that talk with him.... & if he isn't serious yet, he'll know where I stand. 🙂 & we'll cross that bridge when the time comes.

Wanting to pick your amazing Cappy guys brains ? Ill keep it brief. I'm in a LDR relationship with cap guy, been 3 years and after a somewhat steamy sexy day together he has been responding but briefly and further apart in time. He snap chatted me with a gorgeous selfie (topless) with text including kisses and saying he will be quiet for awhile and to chill. He has had a lot going on at work and is looking around, I've felt he has been quiet stressed. Now this is the tough part...do I spasmodically text back like I have been saying I'm there for him? Which he has been sending kisses only back or does this come across as insecure, clingy etc Do I just fall back and give him absolute space and see if he picks up the slack? I don't want him to feel I'm angry or going silent because he needs his recharge time. Any help would be super ?

Posted by Miscorpion
Wanting to pick your amazing Cappy guys brains ? Ill keep it brief. I'm in a LDR relationship with cap guy, been 3 years and after a somewhat steamy sexy day together he has been responding but briefly and further apart in time. He snap chatted me with a gorgeous selfie (topless) with text including kisses and saying he will be quiet for awhile and to chill. He has had a lot going on at work and is looking around, I've felt he has been quiet stressed. Now this is the tough part...do I spasmodically text back like I have been saying I'm there for him? Which he has been sending kisses only back or does this come across as insecure, clingy etc Do I just fall back and give him absolute space and see if he picks up the slack? I don't want him to feel I'm angry or going silent because he needs his recharge time. Any help would be super ?

Well I'm not a cap male I have experience of one. My advice for what it's worth is to just throw in a casual text, not necessarily a question just so they know you are thinking of them ?

Thank you...I actually just asked him to phone me! He did to keep things clear and not assume if he does want me to back off...I don't want to hurt him, yet I want him to know I'm so there and it's ok to do what's right for him. I got back a honest and direct answer (no beating round with these guys, which I love) he said he will be pulling back from me ? His feelings haven't changed he just needs to focus on his current situation. We constantly text morning and night and he calls me everyday and now he wants to drop it to one call every so many days etc and he also warned me he may not answer for hours or if he does it could be brief with kisses or whatever. Now I have my answer the problem now is I know my Scorpio traits and going from frequent to minimal contact I fear my walls will eventually build not by choice but by protecting my big heart, its ingrained and a coping mechanism. I love him and I know if he does pull for a long duration I will shut down completely....big sigh!!!!

Posted by Miscorpion
....something in me says to fight for this and cause I'm stubborn, I feel he is falling deeper for me and what gives me this conclusion...him opening doors for me, holding my hand, kissing me every chance, feeding me (hehe) fixes my hair, helps me with simple duties that I nervously fumble with in his presence, the electric intimacy...his actions scream it, plus when I look in his beautiful eyes they tell me what he doesn't. Every time we spend mushy moments he disappears and is vague for days afterwards spirally me into self doubt. This time we got together it was the best yet, in fact every time tops the next and I thought it couldn't get better but this time post our time is different though he is looking for work as he is not happy...He is so distant and pushing me away. I want to just hold him and let him know I'm not going to hurt him and I'm right there.

Have you told him what you wrote here? That last sentence would be all I wanted/ needed to hear.

Indeed I have many times of late. He is an amazing guy that has knocked down all my guards and I've never felt this way towards anyone. Ill keep being patient as he is worth it and I think I need to ease back on the emotion flood gates...it's daunting him or perceived as insecure or clingy. When we first hooked up I didn't think twice, analyse or stress like I do now, i think that's the key. Ease up and just show him through gestures my feelings not pump out novels in my feelings when things feel off keel ☺️

Posted by Miscorpion
Thank you...I actually just asked him to phone me! He did to keep things clear and not assume if he does want me to back off...I don't want to hurt him, yet I want him to know I'm so there and it's ok to do what's right for him. I got back a honest and direct answer (no beating round with these guys, which I love) he said he will be pulling back from me ? His feelings haven't changed he just needs to focus on his current situation. We constantly text morning and night and he calls me everyday and now he wants to drop it to one call every so many days etc and he also warned me he may not answer for hours or if he does it could be brief with kisses or whatever. Now I have my answer the problem now is I know my Scorpio traits and going from frequent to minimal contact I fear my walls will eventually build not by choice but by protecting my big heart, its ingrained and a coping mechanism. I love him and I know if he does pull for a long duration I will shut down completely....big sigh!!!!

Omg you sound like you're telling my story and I behave in the exact same way as you.

Posted by Miscorpion
Indeed I have many times of late. He is an amazing guy that has knocked down all my guards and I've never felt this way towards anyone. Ill keep being patient as he is worth it and I think I need to ease back on the emotion flood gates...it's daunting him or perceived as insecure or clingy. When we first hooked up I didn't think twice, analyse or stress like I do now, i think that's the key. Ease up and just show him through gestures my feelings not pump out novels in my feelings when things feel off keel ☺️

This is me too. I never realised how patient I could be before now. I keep reminding myself of that quote "the best things are worth waiting for" .

Posted by WonderWoman14

Posted by Miscorpion
Indeed I have many times of late. He is an amazing guy that has knocked down all my guards and I've never felt this way towards anyone. Ill keep being patient as he is worth it and I think I need to ease back on the emotion flood gates...it's daunting him or perceived as insecure or clingy. When we first hooked up I didn't think twice, analyse or stress like I do now, i think that's the key. Ease up and just show him through gestures my feelings not pump out novels in my feelings when things feel off keel ☺️

This is me too. I never realised how patient I could be before now. I keep reminding myself of that quote "the best things are worth waiting for" .

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Waiting to find the right guy is definitely worth it. But how long can you/should you wait on one guy to find out if that's true. If a guy is into you, regardless of their sign, they absolutely show it in multiple ways. Its never a good sign if you have to question it for too long. You might be wasting your time on disappointment if that's the case.

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Posted by Miscorpion
Indeed I have many times of late. He is an amazing guy that has knocked down all my guards and I've never felt this way towards anyone. Ill keep being patient as he is worth it and I think I need to ease back on the emotion flood gates...it's daunting him or perceived as insecure or clingy. When we first hooked up I didn't think twice, analyse or stress like I do now, i think that's the key. Ease up and just show him through gestures my feelings not pump out novels in my feelings when things feel off keel ☺️

This is me too. I never realised how patient I could be before now. I keep reminding myself of that quote "the best things are worth waiting for" .

Waiting to find the right guy is definitely worth it. But how long can you/should you wait on one guy to find out if that's true. If a guy is into you, regardless of their sign, they absolutely show it in multiple ways. Its never a good sign if you have to question it for too long. You might be wasting your time on disappointment if that's the case.

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Yes I agree with what you're saying but sometimes there are circumstances going on in life that means the timing isn't fat and other things have to take priority right now. If you are both on the same page and are open and honest with each other it can work but you're right it is a question of how long are you willing to wait. You could be waiting for something that may never happen.

This is where I've noticed the difference with Capricorn's (quote me if I'm wrong) they tend to need to focus on one thing at a time where as I can have things to deal with that are going on in my life that might not be pleasant but I can keep that separate in my head/emotions and allow other things to still develop at the same time. Not sure if I've explained that very well.

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Posted by Miscorpion
Indeed I have many times of late. He is an amazing guy that has knocked down all my guards and I've never felt this way towards anyone. Ill keep being patient as he is worth it and I think I need to ease back on the emotion flood gates...it's daunting him or perceived as insecure or clingy. When we first hooked up I didn't think twice, analyse or stress like I do now, i think that's the key. Ease up and just show him through gestures my feelings not pump out novels in my feelings when things feel off keel ☺️

This is me too. I never realised how patient I could be before now. I keep reminding myself of that quote "the best things are worth waiting for" .

Waiting to find the right guy is definitely worth it. But how long can you/should you wait on one guy to find out if that's true. If a guy is into you, regardless of their sign, they absolutely show it in multiple ways. Its never a good sign if you have to question it for too long. You might be wasting your time on disappointment if that's the case.

Yes I agree with what you're saying but sometimes there are circumstances going on in life that means the timing isn't fat and other things have to take priority right now. If you are both on the same page and are open and honest with each other it can work but you're right it is a question of how long are you willing to wait. You could be waiting for something that may never happen.

This is where I've noticed the difference with Capricorn's (quote me if I'm wrong) they tend to need to focus on one thing at a time where as I can have things to deal with that are going on in my life that might not be pleasant but I can keep that separate in my head/emotions and allow other things to still develop at the same time. Not sure if I've explained that very well.

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Sure, I've been there too. Waited on a cap for several months. He confused me with his cold distant behavior, yet talked to me everyday and said things that made me feel like he was still into me. You can wait as long as you like, but please don't let your feelings for him cloud your judgement. Do what's best for you, just like he is.

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Sure, I've been there too. Waited on a cap for several months. He confused me with his cold distant behavior, yet talked to me everyday and said things that made me feel like he was still into me. You can wait as long as you like, but please don't let your feelings for him cloud your judgement. Do what's best for you, just like he is.



Correct me if I'm wrong as I may have you confused with someone else but off memory didn't your cap make it clear that he wasn't ready for a relationship and just wanted to be friends ? In my situation, not sure about the OP we clearly want the same things it's the timing that's the problem and it does come down to are you willing to take it slow, wait in the shadows a bit while he deals with his issues or not.



Yep, but my situation was the exact same before I broke up with him and those were the same reasons why I did that. Him wanting to stay friends after that is what ultimately confused me the most.

But like even daron and other caps say, when they are really into you, they definitely show it and not play games. I wish I listened to them sooner!

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Seems like it might be a rough patch for awhile. You must be a strong woman.



Do you mind hiding that last post because it's quoted.

Yes I think it is but right now I'm willing to wait. I've never felt a connection like this before. I'm definitely strong, I've not had the easiest ride in life. I don't need anyone. I'll walk away from anything/anyone that doesn't serve me well. If I want to be with someone it's for them and no other reason. I'm definitely not a flakey Pisces lol



Good luck!! I hope it works out!

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Good luck!! I hope it works out!



Well I guess only time will tell?! I hope so but like anything in life, nothing's guaranteed.

I know you had a rough time so I hope you find someone that truly appreciates who you are. One thing I've learnt in life is that you shouldn't have to prove your worth to anyone and you can't make anyone love you.



Thank you! It's all good. I'm not really thinking about that guy much anymore. I'm onto the next one ? Jayz - that's kind of my theme song that I relate to boys I've dated lol life's too short though. Good vibes only

Posted by Miscorpion
Last development....I've handed the reins over. I can't guess his feelings! I've question every angle to get an inkling or more precise answer if he still loves me and have been told recently to "breath and back back" or "I'll push him away"!!! I've reassured him, supported him, loved him and be ill there. I just want to cuddle him so much, it feels so amazing the feeling between us...we interlock our hands, kiss so deeply and hold each other so close and loving! When we part he ghosts and I feel I'm the one in the wrong by following my passionate heart ? Miss my baby...he pulls away more and more as I reach harder and harder. I don't believe in pulling back but I have no option now it hurts too much and I'll find out In the long run whether my cappy is in for the haul or not!

3 years is a long time for a LDR. I think you've done the right thing. He knows how you feel and the ball is in his court now. I think you should do as he asks and give him his space that is what he's asking for after all. Caps are known to be honest in what they say so if he's saying his feelings haven't changed and that he still cares you need to trust that. If you can't do that or your intuition is telling you somethings not right then leave it and move on with your life.

That's just my opinion.

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Posted by daron76
You have questions, we'll try to have answers. No question is too strange or taboo. 🙂

Woohoo. I'll go with the most common one. 😛

Why do Cap male go silent or disappear?

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Sounds like you got a bad one love



😢

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Posted by Diddybop
I've heard that Capricorns are so ambitious and hard working but the men I've met have missed the memo. I'm a Taurus and I keep hearing that cap is my perfect mate. How do I weed out a good one? Personally I was with one for 3 years before I realized he was a little boy in search of someone to take care of him. He lost his dream job because "his boss didn't like him" and lost three jobs after that for similar reasons. Made decent money (way more than me) but wanted to split our expenses evenly or 100% me (i.e. Splitting was the compromise). Liked to be "little spooned" too often (not a turn on for me) and generally just depended on me too much for direction. Is he the "other cap" or are the men so much diff than the woman? (I'm not dating by signs but I want a little direction)

As you pointed out, you dated a boy. Only thing I can suggest is that you do try to stay away from the children lol.

In all seriousness though, typically we get better with age (IF we have worked on our personal issues). So shoot for Cappy's that are a little older than you. Also, I'm not convinced Cap and Taurus is actually a good match imho.

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I have noticed the Cap and Taurus issues too. My mother is Taurus, sister is a cap. They are always bickering 😄

......listening to my cap, like actually listening to his conversations without having answers does wonders, he doesn't want fixed only listened too!....in the past I have always replied from my point of view, my feelings and emotions...me me me to actually stop and listen and take in what is actually going on in his world whoa! Taking our connection from just my point of view or how I think it should be with expectations so I felt better and secure was pushing him away, not him pulling away. He still is reaching out to me through his hectic career, and being driven myself I utterly respect his drive, ambition and dedication. I'm so there for him like he has been for me it's the least I can do ☺️

@Capri-sun or @daron76 Hi! I've been lurking around here for ages. I'm dealing with a capricorn man I really like and it's come to a point where I feel like if I make a wrong move I could ruin it all for myself. So I need some help/insight on the situation. Can I send you a private message explaining it all? Our placements:

His:

Sun: Capricorn (he's actually a sag/cap cusp)

Venus: Scorpio

Moon: Virgo

Mars: Libra

Mine

Sun: Libra

Venus: Virgo

Moon: Capricorn

Mars: Libra

Posted by Strawberry15
@Capri-sun or @daron76 Hi! I've been lurking around here for ages. I'm dealing with a capricorn man I really like and it's come to a point where I feel like if I make a wrong move I could ruin it all for myself. So I need some help/insight on the situation. Can I send you a private message explaining it all? Our placements:

His:

Sun: Capricorn (he's actually a sag/cap cusp)

Venus: Scorpio

Moon: Virgo

Mars: Libra

Mine

Sun: Libra

Venus: Virgo

Moon: Capricorn

Mars: Libra

Sure

Are cap suns and cap moons similar?

Hi can you please take a look st our chart?

Also if you have time would you please take a look st my question on other post? Thanks!

Him sun cap, moon Taurus, mercury sag, Venus and mars scorpion

Sun Virgo, moon aqau, mercury Virgo, Venus and mars Leo

Why are y'all grumpy eggs

Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Why are y'all grumpy eggs

Cause we work with virgos....

Posted by StrawberryJam
Hi can you please take a look st our chart?

Also if you have time would you please take a look st my question on other post? Thanks!

Him sun cap, moon Taurus, mercury sag, Venus and mars scorpion

Sun Virgo, moon aqau, mercury Virgo, Venus and mars Leo

Damn his birthday isn't December 22 is it?

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Posted by StrawberryJam
Hi can you please take a look st our chart?

Also if you have time would you please take a look st my question on other post? Thanks!

Him sun cap, moon Taurus, mercury sag, Venus and mars scorpion

Sun Virgo, moon aqau, mercury Virgo, Venus and mars Leo

Damn his birthday isn't December 22 is it?

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No his birthday is early Jan. Any thoughts on our chart?

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Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Why are y'all grumpy eggs

Cause we work with virgos....

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Good answer

Posted by Celticmoongoddess89
I swear my ex is avoiding me, but the question is why? I've done nothing to him and in fact I avoid him like the Black Plague too but we still manage to run into each other every now and then at work (small hospital). He just puts his head down and walks a little faster I noticed. Probably just reading too much into this though. Lol.

Soo, let me get this straight; you are ACTIVELY avoiding him yet, confused as to why he is now he is avoiding you?!?!? smh

To quote the great Austin Powers;

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Posted by Celticmoongoddess89
I swear my ex is avoiding me, but the question is why? I've done nothing to him and in fact I avoid him like the Black Plague too but we still manage to run into each other every now and then at work (small hospital). He just puts his head down and walks a little faster I noticed. Probably just reading too much into this though. Lol.

Soo, let me get this straight; you are ACTIVELY avoiding him yet, confused as to why he is now he is avoiding you?!?!? smh

To quote the great Austin Powers;

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I know I'm being an idiot, thanks for putting me back in check. ?

Just want to say shout-out to @daron76 for this thread! Maybe someday I won't be so stubborn around a Capricorn and have the balls to be upfront with a cap male and not be so scared or shy.

this is out of the topic.. Is cancer sun and cap moon same with cap sun and cancer moon?

What can you tell me about a Cap with an Aries moon?

Posted by Cappyciel
this is out of the topic.. Is cancer sun and cap moon same with cap sun and cancer moon?

Probably not, our instincts would be very different.

Posted by Virgorean
What can you tell me about a Cap with an Aries moon?

Nope, but there may be one lurking the Cap board.

Why do cap keep in contact with an ex , even tho they make it clear there won't be any second chances to the relationship ?

Do they mean their I love you when they say ( the first time they say it ) ?

Why are they so stuck into their ego , and by this I mean they could want something soo bad but they just don't go for it cause their ego get in the way

What your thought on Virgo women ?

Calling in the re-reinforcements, my apologies to anyone I forgot

@capslock, @Gob_Shite, @ParisianCappy, @Capricorn91, @sirXavier, @DividedWeCapricorn,

@DannyMC

Posted by Gob_Shite
If anyone wants me to answer to their questions, they'll have to smear honey on my nipples and suck 'em hard...

You should demand the honey be organic... cause you're concerned for their health of course

Posted by coconutoilbath
Why do cap keep in contact with an ex , even tho they make it clear there won't be any second chances to the relationship ?

Do they mean their I love you when they say ( the first time they say it ) ?

Why are they so stuck into their ego , and by this I mean they could want something soo bad but they just don't go for it cause their ego get in the way

What your thought on Virgo women ?

1) Maybe they aren't sure? Maybe he is having trouble letting go?

2) Yes.

3) That seems rather illogical to me. If I want something my ego would drive me to go get it.

4) Never had one, they seem cool though.

Posted by coconutoilbath
Why do cap keep in contact with an ex , even tho they make it clear there won't be any second chances to the relationship ?

Do they mean their I love you when they say ( the first time they say it ) ?

Why are they so stuck into their ego , and by this I mean they could want something soo bad but they just don't go for it cause their ego get in the way

What your thought on Virgo women ?

We stay in touch as we are very fond of you, if things have ended amicably though. If bad breakups then we might think of you somedays but we are not contacting you again.

Hmm depends on when we say it. If it is too soon then there is a high chance we ourselves don't know but if it is after considerable time( maybe 7-8 months or maybe even years) we mean every word of it. It is like writing in stone.

If you are talking romantic pursuits then it is not our ego but pride. And we are very proud creatures. We don't go for something unless we feel it is right. Ego is a sign of immaturity.

We go great with Virgo women. We are able to understand their thoughts, actions, emotions their follies, we can see through them. But we still have our certain standards which they must meet to be considered for future correspondences.

Hope I was of some help in answering your queries.

Why are you so frugal?

Are you ok with splitting checks dutch?

Are boastful in sporting your woman around while dating?

Posted by coconutoilbath
Why do cap keep in contact with an ex , even tho they make it clear there won't be any second chances to the relationship ?

Do they mean their I love you when they say ( the first time they say it ) ?

Why are they so stuck into their ego , and by this I mean they could want something soo bad but they just don't go for it cause their ego get in the way

What your thought on Virgo women ?

I still keep on contact with my Aries ex..she's mad fun to talk to and its always an adventure when we go out. But I'd never be with her Romantically. Sometimes and emotional bond isn't worth letting go especially if you can get over whatever it was you guys had differences over.

Can you give an example of the ego situation?

Posted by Gob_Shite
If anyone wants me to answer to their questions, they'll have to smear honey on my nipples and suck 'em hard...

—?

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Posted by DividedWeCapricorn
Caps show love through action, not words...

A very crucial thing to understand, when dating a Cap. But does anyone listen? You just have to refer to the threads on the Cap board to realise that the answer is often 'no'.

The fact is, most people want their partner to adhere to whatever fantasy is in their minds. More often than not, there's greater importance placed on what is said than what is done. To those with their heads screwed on, that's completely retarded.

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy helping others but not in situations where I end up feeling like a broken record (and this thread is one of them)...

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I don’t understand the confusion with women not understanding Cap males or their disappearance acts. I have not experienced one by far. The Cap I am dating informs me when he will be busy for a certain period even when I do not ask; he cares enough to not send the wrong impression that I am being ignored. He’s even joked around that if I do not hear from him and he goes disappearing that I’ll need to call the cops. I have a best friend who is also a Cap and we may not talk for many months, but the moment I contact him about anything minor he will respond immediately when he is available. When they say they will call-they call. If they are not able to make it to an event they will let you know at that moment. They mirror flakiness when they sense it themselves. They are very straightforward people. The problem is that many are consumed with instant gratification for reassurance. They’re too focused on words when they should be focused on actions. That’s why most don’t have the patience to deal with Earth signs-we are very relaxed and do not mind for a sense of urgency. If you make your intentions known in the beginning, they will respond accordingly.

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Posted by starwars
why do u guys suck?

I dunno, why do you guys swallow?

Jk jk don't point your pitchforks at me

damn this is why i secretly like cappies

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You should hunt one down. They're pure of awesome 😉

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Posted by DividedWeCapricorn

Posted by starwars
why do u guys suck?

I dunno, why do you guys swallow?

Jk jk don't point your pitchforks at me

damn this is why i secretly like cappies

You should hunt one down. They're pure of awesome 😉

got myself one semi cap-sane aqua ?

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Atta girl!

Cusp?

Posted by ParisianCappy
FALLEN ON EARTH, FOR MAKE YOU OBEY TO THEIR VISION

How old are you?

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Posted by DividedWeCapricorn
Caps show love through action, not words...

A very crucial thing to understand, when dating a Cap. But does anyone listen? You just have to refer to the threads on the Cap board to realise that the answer is often 'no'.

The fact is, most people want their partner to adhere to whatever fantasy is in their minds. More often than not, there's greater importance placed on what is said than what is done. To those with their heads screwed on, that's completely retarded.

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy helping others but not in situations where I end up feeling like a broken record (and this thread is one of them)...

I don’t understand the confusion with women not understanding Cap males or their disappearance acts. I have not experienced one by far. The Cap I am dating informs me when he will be busy for a certain period even when I do not ask; he cares enough to not send the wrong impression that I am being ignored. He’s even joked around that if I do not hear from him and he goes disappearing that I’ll need to call the cops. I have a best friend who is also a Cap and we may not talk for many months, but the moment I contact him about anything minor he will respond immediately when he is available. When they say they will call-they call. If they are not able to make it to an event they will let you know at that moment. They mirror flakiness when they sense it themselves. They are very straightforward people. The problem is that many are consumed with instant gratification for reassurance. They’re too focused on words when they should be focused on actions. That’s why most don’t have the patience to deal with Earth signs-we are very relaxed and do not mind for a sense of urgency. If you make your intentions known in the beginning, they will respond accordingly.

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Virgos for the win!

Posted by ParisianCappy

Posted by Capricorn91

Posted by ParisianCappy
FALLEN ON EARTH, FOR MAKE YOU OBEY TO THEIR VISION

How old are you?

25 and u

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