Posted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
Posted by heliumfiasco
I saw my ex cap just about everyday. He moved cross country with me within a month. haha. So, IDK!
Posted by AquaNextDoor
I saw mine on the weekend (lived 40km apart) but he picked me up on fridays to stay at his place. He made a surprise visit once on a wednesday, just because I wrote him that I miss him. 40 mins later he knocked on my door lol that was sweet
Posted by BiboroonPosted by AquaNextDoor
I saw mine on the weekend (lived 40km apart) but he picked me up on fridays to stay at his place. He made a surprise visit once on a wednesday, just because I wrote him that I miss him. 40 mins later he knocked on my door lol that was sweet
Did he surprise you with it or did you know he was coming?
Both caps I’ve been with “surprised” me by coming over to my place unannounced. I’m still convinced they did it mostly to see my reaction and if I was hiding something 🤷🏻♀️ I had nothing to hide but I was lowkey pissed, guess my scorpio dominant ass doesn’t really appreciate surprises like that.click to expand
Posted by ElvisStalinWoodsPosted by frenchiePosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
Thank you for your answer! Would you be on the fence if she wasn't getting upset?
He was so cute last time I saw him, kissing me and being affectionate which he isn't normally, and he said he'd see me soon and that he likes what we have going on. He said he's super busy, stressed and getting ill as well, but has been texting me daily with lenghty texts giving me advice etc, so I'm just letting him be as it seems like is what is best for him, but I do miss him.
I wouldn't be on the fence as much if she wasn't so impatient for meeting in such early stages. She got pissed and wanted to call everything off, because I refused to make the meeting date earlier. I don't appreciate someone thinking I'm going to alter my schedule for them, so early on.
He wouldn't bother to mention seeing you soon, if he didnt mean it (if im assuming he operates the way i do). So, what you're saying sounds promising imo. Been pretty much working myself ill as well, when I get to that point, I pretty much stop being in touch with anyone, but if I'm dating someone I'm interested in, I'll still make the effort to communicate with them a little.
It you're wondering, you could always tell him you miss him, there's no harm in that.click to expand
Posted by AquaNextDoorPosted by BiboroonPosted by AquaNextDoor
I saw mine on the weekend (lived 40km apart) but he picked me up on fridays to stay at his place. He made a surprise visit once on a wednesday, just because I wrote him that I miss him. 40 mins later he knocked on my door lol that was sweet
Did he surprise you with it or did you know he was coming?
Both caps I’ve been with “surprised” me by coming over to my place unannounced. I’m still convinced they did it mostly to see my reaction and if I was hiding something 🤷🏻♀️ I had nothing to hide but I was lowkey pissed, guess my scorpio dominant ass doesn’t really appreciate surprises like that.
No, I told him that I missed him and because it‘s only wednesday that it sucks that I have to wait another 2days to see him again. He wrote „yeh miss you too. going to take a bath now, will txt you later“
Well „later“ was 40 mins when he was at my door 😂 my man is just amazing. We are together almost 4 yrs this summer and married 3 yrs by then. He still brings me roses every month!click to expand
Posted by BiboroonPosted by AquaNextDoorPosted by BiboroonPosted by AquaNextDoor
I saw mine on the weekend (lived 40km apart) but he picked me up on fridays to stay at his place. He made a surprise visit once on a wednesday, just because I wrote him that I miss him. 40 mins later he knocked on my door lol that was sweet
Did he surprise you with it or did you know he was coming?
Both caps I’ve been with “surprised” me by coming over to my place unannounced. I’m still convinced they did it mostly to see my reaction and if I was hiding something 🤷🏻♀️ I had nothing to hide but I was lowkey pissed, guess my scorpio dominant ass doesn’t really appreciate surprises like that.
No, I told him that I missed him and because it‘s only wednesday that it sucks that I have to wait another 2days to see him again. He wrote „yeh miss you too. going to take a bath now, will txt you later“
Well „later“ was 40 mins when he was at my door 😂 my man is just amazing. We are together almost 4 yrs this summer and married 3 yrs by then. He still brings me roses every month!
Aww, so cute 😊click to expand
Posted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
Posted by GOATActionPosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
This is me too with Venus in Aquarius. I've got so many irons in the fire with my regular position and my side hustle, that it could be weeks before I have another date with a woman.click to expand
Posted by ElvisStalinWoodsPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by ElvisStalinWoodsPosted by frenchiePosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
Thank you for your answer! Would you be on the fence if she wasn't getting upset?
He was so cute last time I saw him, kissing me and being affectionate which he isn't normally, and he said he'd see me soon and that he likes what we have going on. He said he's super busy, stressed and getting ill as well, but has been texting me daily with lenghty texts giving me advice etc, so I'm just letting him be as it seems like is what is best for him, but I do miss him.
I wouldn't be on the fence as much if she wasn't so impatient for meeting in such early stages. She got pissed and wanted to call everything off, because I refused to make the meeting date earlier. I don't appreciate someone thinking I'm going to alter my schedule for them, so early on.
He wouldn't bother to mention seeing you soon, if he didnt mean it (if im assuming he operates the way i do). So, what you're saying sounds promising imo. Been pretty much working myself ill as well, when I get to that point, I pretty much stop being in touch with anyone, but if I'm dating someone I'm interested in, I'll still make the effort to communicate with them a little.
It you're wondering, you could always tell him you miss him, there's no harm in that.
Oooo another girl, how exciting !!! what’s her sign 🥳
Idk why I see u with a libra
Nope, Taurus.
Never been with a libra, as far as I can recall.
Made out often with one who had lots of cap placements but she was just a little too much in my bubble physically at all times (including at our job) so that was a big nope overall.click to expand
Posted by GOATActionPosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
This is me too with Venus in Aquarius. I've got so many irons in the fire with my regular position and my side hustle, that it could be weeks before I have another date with a woman.click to expand
Posted by TxOgalPosted by GOATActionPosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
This is me too with Venus in Aquarius. I've got so many irons in the fire with my regular position and my side hustle, that it could be weeks before I have another date with a woman.
when it is convenient for you .. how would she know if you're busy or not interested? .. That's pretty dismissiveclick to expand
Posted by GOATActionPosted by TxOgalPosted by GOATActionPosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
This is me too with Venus in Aquarius. I've got so many irons in the fire with my regular position and my side hustle, that it could be weeks before I have another date with a woman.
when it is convenient for you .. how would she know if you're busy or not interested? .. That's pretty dismissive
Because I'll say that I'm extremely busy and make it very clear I still have interest in her.click to expand
Posted by GOATActionPosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
This is me too with Venus in Aquarius. I've got so many irons in the fire with my regular position and my side hustle, that it could be weeks before I have another date with a woman.click to expand
Posted by ElvisStalinWoodsPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by ElvisStalinWoodsPosted by frenchiePosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
Thank you for your answer! Would you be on the fence if she wasn't getting upset?
He was so cute last time I saw him, kissing me and being affectionate which he isn't normally, and he said he'd see me soon and that he likes what we have going on. He said he's super busy, stressed and getting ill as well, but has been texting me daily with lenghty texts giving me advice etc, so I'm just letting him be as it seems like is what is best for him, but I do miss him.
I wouldn't be on the fence as much if she wasn't so impatient for meeting in such early stages. She got pissed and wanted to call everything off, because I refused to make the meeting date earlier. I don't appreciate someone thinking I'm going to alter my schedule for them, so early on.
He wouldn't bother to mention seeing you soon, if he didnt mean it (if im assuming he operates the way i do). So, what you're saying sounds promising imo. Been pretty much working myself ill as well, when I get to that point, I pretty much stop being in touch with anyone, but if I'm dating someone I'm interested in, I'll still make the effort to communicate with them a little.
It you're wondering, you could always tell him you miss him, there's no harm in that.
Oooo another girl, how exciting !!! what’s her sign 🥳
Idk why I see u with a libra
Nope, Taurus.
Never been with a libra, as far as I can recall.
Made out often with one who had lots of cap placements but she was just a little too much in my bubble physically at all times (including at our job) so that was a big nope overall.click to expand
Posted by ElvisStalinWoodsPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by ElvisStalinWoodsPosted by frenchiePosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
Thank you for your answer! Would you be on the fence if she wasn't getting upset?
He was so cute last time I saw him, kissing me and being affectionate which he isn't normally, and he said he'd see me soon and that he likes what we have going on. He said he's super busy, stressed and getting ill as well, but has been texting me daily with lenghty texts giving me advice etc, so I'm just letting him be as it seems like is what is best for him, but I do miss him.
I wouldn't be on the fence as much if she wasn't so impatient for meeting in such early stages. She got pissed and wanted to call everything off, because I refused to make the meeting date earlier. I don't appreciate someone thinking I'm going to alter my schedule for them, so early on.
He wouldn't bother to mention seeing you soon, if he didnt mean it (if im assuming he operates the way i do). So, what you're saying sounds promising imo. Been pretty much working myself ill as well, when I get to that point, I pretty much stop being in touch with anyone, but if I'm dating someone I'm interested in, I'll still make the effort to communicate with them a little.
It you're wondering, you could always tell him you miss him, there's no harm in that.
Oooo another girl, how exciting !!! what’s her sign 🥳
Idk why I see u with a libra
Nope, Taurus.
Never been with a libra, as far as I can recall.
Made out often with one who had lots of cap placements but she was just a little too much in my bubble physically at all times (including at our job) so that was a big nope overall.click to expand
Posted by frenchiePosted by GOATActionPosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
This is me too with Venus in Aquarius. I've got so many irons in the fire with my regular position and my side hustle, that it could be weeks before I have another date with a woman.
How long until you're ready to commit do you think? Last weekend he wanted space from the world. This weekend he asked to seeme on Sunday (today), assuming he'd be feeling better, but he texted this morning saying he couldn't sleep cuz of throat pain, and would rest and let me know later today. He didn't get back to me though, it's now 8:30 pm. I'm glad he wanted to see me today but I don't know if I should assume he's losing interest?click to expand
Posted by ElvisStalinWoodsPosted by frenchiePosted by ElvisStalinWoodsPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by ElvisStalinWoodsPosted by frenchiePosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
Thank you for your answer! Would you be on the fence if she wasn't getting upset?
He was so cute last time I saw him, kissing me and being affectionate which he isn't normally, and he said he'd see me soon and that he likes what we have going on. He said he's super busy, stressed and getting ill as well, but has been texting me daily with lenghty texts giving me advice etc, so I'm just letting him be as it seems like is what is best for him, but I do miss him.
I wouldn't be on the fence as much if she wasn't so impatient for meeting in such early stages. She got pissed and wanted to call everything off, because I refused to make the meeting date earlier. I don't appreciate someone thinking I'm going to alter my schedule for them, so early on.
He wouldn't bother to mention seeing you soon, if he didnt mean it (if im assuming he operates the way i do). So, what you're saying sounds promising imo. Been pretty much working myself ill as well, when I get to that point, I pretty much stop being in touch with anyone, but if I'm dating someone I'm interested in, I'll still make the effort to communicate with them a little.
It you're wondering, you could always tell him you miss him, there's no harm in that.
Oooo another girl, how exciting !!! what’s her sign 🥳
Idk why I see u with a libra
Nope, Taurus.
Never been with a libra, as far as I can recall.
Made out often with one who had lots of cap placements but she was just a little too much in my bubble physically at all times (including at our job) so that was a big nope overall.
Thank you, your insights are useful. He wanted to see me today but texted in the morning Spain he was still sick. So it has been two weekends that I haven't seen him, which for me is very long, but I suppose it is still early days considering its been a couple of months? I'm happy to take it slow, but want to know he has good intentions, do you think this pace is ok?
The pace is totally fine. Yeah it's 2 months, but weeks pass by in a blur when you're busy and it's easy for us to field three to four weeks and having it feel like it was boiled down to just last week, which makes months technically bite-sized on in our retrospective aspect. So, if he's see you as much as 3 times in the past 2mos, it seems normal to him.click to expand
Posted by GOATActionPosted by TxOgalPosted by GOATActionPosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
This is me too with Venus in Aquarius. I've got so many irons in the fire with my regular position and my side hustle, that it could be weeks before I have another date with a woman.
when it is convenient for you .. how would she know if you're busy or not interested? .. That's pretty dismissive
Because I'll say that I'm extremely busy and make it very clear I still have interest in her.click to expand
Posted by Capricorn91
Once every two weeks or so in the initial stages. It takes time to feel the emotions in the initial stages so it is not a priority for us. We focus on work and other things and see how things develop.
Posted by frenchiePosted by Capricorn91
Once every two weeks or so in the initial stages. It takes time to feel the emotions in the initial stages so it is not a priority for us. We focus on work and other things and see how things develop.
He told me today after cancelling our date last minute, that he is too busy focusing on other things to commit 😢 I guess he didn't like me enough, and maybe he also genuinely wants to focus on other things. We had such a good connection, but I guess that isn't enough.click to expand
Posted by frenchiePosted by GOATActionPosted by TxOgalPosted by GOATActionPosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
This is me too with Venus in Aquarius. I've got so many irons in the fire with my regular position and my side hustle, that it could be weeks before I have another date with a woman.
when it is convenient for you .. how would she know if you're busy or not interested? .. That's pretty dismissive
Because I'll say that I'm extremely busy and make it very clear I still have interest in her.
He essentially broke up with me today, after dating three months every week until the last three weeks. Quite a cold manner as well, robotic style text and didn't answer my last message :/click to expand
Posted by frenchiePosted by Capricorn91
Once every two weeks or so in the initial stages. It takes time to feel the emotions in the initial stages so it is not a priority for us. We focus on work and other things and see how things develop.
He told me today after cancelling our date last minute, that he is too busy focusing on other things to commit 😢 I guess he didn't like me enough, and maybe he also genuinely wants to focus on other things. We had such a good connection, but I guess that isn't enough.click to expand
Posted by frenchiePosted by GOATActionPosted by TxOgalPosted by GOATActionPosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
This is me too with Venus in Aquarius. I've got so many irons in the fire with my regular position and my side hustle, that it could be weeks before I have another date with a woman.
when it is convenient for you .. how would she know if you're busy or not interested? .. That's pretty dismissive
Because I'll say that I'm extremely busy and make it very clear I still have interest in her.
He essentially broke up with me today, after dating three months every week until the last three weeks. Quite a cold manner as well, robotic style text and didn't answer my last message :/click to expand
Posted by AgentP911Posted by frenchiePosted by GOATActionPosted by TxOgalPosted by GOATActionPosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
This is me too with Venus in Aquarius. I've got so many irons in the fire with my regular position and my side hustle, that it could be weeks before I have another date with a woman.
when it is convenient for you .. how would she know if you're busy or not interested? .. That's pretty dismissive
Because I'll say that I'm extremely busy and make it very clear I still have interest in her.
He essentially broke up with me today, after dating three months every week until the last three weeks. Quite a cold manner as well, robotic style text and didn't answer my last message :/
His ending this with you does not surprise me at all. I practically predicted it in this post below. There is vital back story in that which is missing from this current thread.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/dating-2-months-is-he-pulling-away--12431668/
You said you'd both just got out of a relationship and he told you he was seriously hurt by this and therefore he was not looking for anything committed. Rather than listen to what he said and take a step back you jumped right in and got attached to someone who told you he wasn't available and who didn't want to commit to you. Therefore, you ended up with someone who wasn't available and who didn't want to commit to you. I'm sure he liked you. He had some free sex. Now he's going to focus on the shit he needs to focus on. Let him go. He's not going to change his mind no matter how much of a great connection you perceived you had.click to expand
Posted by starlordPosted by AgentP911Posted by frenchiePosted by GOATActionPosted by TxOgalPosted by GOATActionPosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
This is me too with Venus in Aquarius. I've got so many irons in the fire with my regular position and my side hustle, that it could be weeks before I have another date with a woman.
when it is convenient for you .. how would she know if you're busy or not interested? .. That's pretty dismissive
Because I'll say that I'm extremely busy and make it very clear I still have interest in her.
He essentially broke up with me today, after dating three months every week until the last three weeks. Quite a cold manner as well, robotic style text and didn't answer my last message :/
His ending this with you does not surprise me at all. I practically predicted it in this post below. There is vital back story in that which is missing from this current thread.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/dating-2-months-is-he-pulling-away--12431668/
You said you'd both just got out of a relationship and he told you he was seriously hurt by this and therefore he was not looking for anything committed. Rather than listen to what he said and take a step back you jumped right in and got attached to someone who told you he wasn't available and who didn't want to commit to you. Therefore, you ended up with someone who wasn't available and who didn't want to commit to you. I'm sure he liked you. He had some free sex. Now he's going to focus on the shit he needs to focus on. Let him go. He's not going to change his mind no matter how much of a great connection you perceived you had.
What is this "free sex"!!!!!! Should he have paid? Should he give her things to have sex?
Pleae don't breath life into this about sex, and that she should regret having sex. She is not mentioning that here, so don't make it out to be that. Let's hope, the sex was good and they both enjoyed it and wanted it equally as much.click to expand
Posted by AgentP911Posted by starlordPosted by AgentP911Posted by frenchiePosted by GOATActionPosted by TxOgalPosted by GOATActionPosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
This is me too with Venus in Aquarius. I've got so many irons in the fire with my regular position and my side hustle, that it could be weeks before I have another date with a woman.
when it is convenient for you .. how would she know if you're busy or not interested? .. That's pretty dismissive
Because I'll say that I'm extremely busy and make it very clear I still have interest in her.
He essentially broke up with me today, after dating three months every week until the last three weeks. Quite a cold manner as well, robotic style text and didn't answer my last message :/
His ending this with you does not surprise me at all. I practically predicted it in this post below. There is vital back story in that which is missing from this current thread.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/dating-2-months-is-he-pulling-away--12431668/
You said you'd both just got out of a relationship and he told you he was seriously hurt by this and therefore he was not looking for anything committed. Rather than listen to what he said and take a step back you jumped right in and got attached to someone who told you he wasn't available and who didn't want to commit to you. Therefore, you ended up with someone who wasn't available and who didn't want to commit to you. I'm sure he liked you. He had some free sex. Now he's going to focus on the shit he needs to focus on. Let him go. He's not going to change his mind no matter how much of a great connection you perceived you had.
What is this "free sex"!!!!!! Should he have paid? Should he give her things to have sex?
Pleae don't breath life into this about sex, and that she should regret having sex. She is not mentioning that here, so don't make it out to be that. Let's hope, the sex was good and they both enjoyed it and wanted it equally as much.
Free sex as in sex outside of an exclusively committed relationship.
Where did I say she should regret having sex with this man? I never said that at all.
I'm afraid I can't vouch for if the sex was good though or if they both wanted it or enjoyed it.
I hope it was good and OP can chalk this up to dating, it was only two months, and move on.click to expand
Posted by starlordPosted by AgentP911Posted by starlordPosted by AgentP911Posted by frenchiePosted by GOATActionPosted by TxOgalPosted by GOATActionPosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
This is me too with Venus in Aquarius. I've got so many irons in the fire with my regular position and my side hustle, that it could be weeks before I have another date with a woman.
when it is convenient for you .. how would she know if you're busy or not interested? .. That's pretty dismissive
Because I'll say that I'm extremely busy and make it very clear I still have interest in her.
He essentially broke up with me today, after dating three months every week until the last three weeks. Quite a cold manner as well, robotic style text and didn't answer my last message :/
His ending this with you does not surprise me at all. I practically predicted it in this post below. There is vital back story in that which is missing from this current thread.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/dating-2-months-is-he-pulling-away--12431668/
You said you'd both just got out of a relationship and he told you he was seriously hurt by this and therefore he was not looking for anything committed. Rather than listen to what he said and take a step back you jumped right in and got attached to someone who told you he wasn't available and who didn't want to commit to you. Therefore, you ended up with someone who wasn't available and who didn't want to commit to you. I'm sure he liked you. He had some free sex. Now he's going to focus on the shit he needs to focus on. Let him go. He's not going to change his mind no matter how much of a great connection you perceived you had.
What is this "free sex"!!!!!! Should he have paid? Should he give her things to have sex?
Pleae don't breath life into this about sex, and that she should regret having sex. She is not mentioning that here, so don't make it out to be that. Let's hope, the sex was good and they both enjoyed it and wanted it equally as much.
Free sex as in sex outside of an exclusively committed relationship.
Where did I say she should regret having sex with this man? I never said that at all.
I'm afraid I can't vouch for if the sex was good though or if they both wanted it or enjoyed it.
I hope it was good and OP can chalk this up to dating, it was only two months, and move on.
It's just in the phrase "free sex", like she shouldn't have done it, because they are not in a relationship.
She didn't give him "free sex", she just had sex. Just plain old regular sex.
At least that's how it reads to me, but if you didn't mean it like that, no worries then 😊click to expand
Posted by AgentP911Posted by starlordPosted by AgentP911Posted by starlordPosted by AgentP911Posted by frenchiePosted by GOATActionPosted by TxOgalPosted by GOATActionPosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
This is me too with Venus in Aquarius. I've got so many irons in the fire with my regular position and my side hustle, that it could be weeks before I have another date with a woman.
when it is convenient for you .. how would she know if you're busy or not interested? .. That's pretty dismissive
Because I'll say that I'm extremely busy and make it very clear I still have interest in her.
He essentially broke up with me today, after dating three months every week until the last three weeks. Quite a cold manner as well, robotic style text and didn't answer my last message :/
His ending this with you does not surprise me at all. I practically predicted it in this post below. There is vital back story in that which is missing from this current thread.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/dating-2-months-is-he-pulling-away--12431668/
You said you'd both just got out of a relationship and he told you he was seriously hurt by this and therefore he was not looking for anything committed. Rather than listen to what he said and take a step back you jumped right in and got attached to someone who told you he wasn't available and who didn't want to commit to you. Therefore, you ended up with someone who wasn't available and who didn't want to commit to you. I'm sure he liked you. He had some free sex. Now he's going to focus on the shit he needs to focus on. Let him go. He's not going to change his mind no matter how much of a great connection you perceived you had.
What is this "free sex"!!!!!! Should he have paid? Should he give her things to have sex?
Pleae don't breath life into this about sex, and that she should regret having sex. She is not mentioning that here, so don't make it out to be that. Let's hope, the sex was good and they both enjoyed it and wanted it equally as much.
Free sex as in sex outside of an exclusively committed relationship.
Where did I say she should regret having sex with this man? I never said that at all.
I'm afraid I can't vouch for if the sex was good though or if they both wanted it or enjoyed it.
I hope it was good and OP can chalk this up to dating, it was only two months, and move on.
It's just in the phrase "free sex", like she shouldn't have done it, because they are not in a relationship.
She didn't give him "free sex", she just had sex. Just plain old regular sex.
At least that's how it reads to me, but if you didn't mean it like that, no worries then 😊
If that's what I'd have meant then I'd have said it. I don't mince my words.
Yes, they had sex. I don't know if it was plain sex or old sex or plain old sex but it was sex.
She can have sex with anyone she wants. Inside or outside of a relationship. That's her choice and she's free to make it. However, know what you're signing up for before you give yourself away because you might not deal so well with the consequences. I don't think this situation was 'just sex' and I don't think OP anticipated or was prepared for it to be short term.
I've said all I need to say on this thread and on OP's other threads regarding this situation. If you want to have context then read those.click to expand
Posted by starlordPosted by AgentP911Posted by starlordPosted by AgentP911Posted by starlordPosted by AgentP911Posted by frenchiePosted by GOATActionPosted by TxOgalPosted by GOATActionPosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Venus aquarius cap here.
Sometimes it's weeks before I'm in for seeing the person I'm dating again.
Recently started things with a new date and I'm sort of on the fence already because she's getting pissed that I'm setting our next date weeks away.
I'm working a lot and changing schedules at both jobs to train new people and take my new position. I've also taken into consideration that she's having her exams rn and I just want to set our next date for when she's done and at least gathered herself from it after a day or two.
She thinks I'm not interested because of this. I am, but imo, there's no sense meeting if we won't both be anywhere near full function mentally/energetically when we do. I do see the necessity of meeting on occasion, but it doesn't precede making sure the time spent is well spent. What sense does it make to meet, if in my head, I'm only going to be thinking of how soon I can get back to my bed.
I'm also not interested in spending extra energy when I'm in a high energy work period and I'm also not in as much of an open state of mind.
All to say, we can be interested and pretty much invested in gaining traction with the dating, but we do have priorities and an interest in making the time spent comfortable and quality. If that means we need to delay it 3 weeks and some days and only text every other day, it's no bother to us.
If you're going through something and need to talk, we'll make the time, if it's something serious, but otherwise, communication can be casual af until we gain hold of our normal, non-work brains again.
This is me too with Venus in Aquarius. I've got so many irons in the fire with my regular position and my side hustle, that it could be weeks before I have another date with a woman.
when it is convenient for you .. how would she know if you're busy or not interested? .. That's pretty dismissive
Because I'll say that I'm extremely busy and make it very clear I still have interest in her.
He essentially broke up with me today, after dating three months every week until the last three weeks. Quite a cold manner as well, robotic style text and didn't answer my last message :/
His ending this with you does not surprise me at all. I practically predicted it in this post below. There is vital back story in that which is missing from this current thread.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/dating-2-months-is-he-pulling-away--12431668/
You said you'd both just got out of a relationship and he told you he was seriously hurt by this and therefore he was not looking for anything committed. Rather than listen to what he said and take a step back you jumped right in and got attached to someone who told you he wasn't available and who didn't want to commit to you. Therefore, you ended up with someone who wasn't available and who didn't want to commit to you. I'm sure he liked you. He had some free sex. Now he's going to focus on the shit he needs to focus on. Let him go. He's not going to change his mind no matter how much of a great connection you perceived you had.
What is this "free sex"!!!!!! Should he have paid? Should he give her things to have sex?
Pleae don't breath life into this about sex, and that she should regret having sex. She is not mentioning that here, so don't make it out to be that. Let's hope, the sex was good and they both enjoyed it and wanted it equally as much.
Free sex as in sex outside of an exclusively committed relationship.
Where did I say she should regret having sex with this man? I never said that at all.
I'm afraid I can't vouch for if the sex was good though or if they both wanted it or enjoyed it.
I hope it was good and OP can chalk this up to dating, it was only two months, and move on.
It's just in the phrase "free sex", like she shouldn't have done it, because they are not in a relationship.
She didn't give him "free sex", she just had sex. Just plain old regular sex.
At least that's how it reads to me, but if you didn't mean it like that, no worries then 😊
If that's what I'd have meant then I'd have said it. I don't mince my words.
Yes, they had sex. I don't know if it was plain sex or old sex or plain old sex but it was sex.
She can have sex with anyone she wants. Inside or outside of a relationship. That's her choice and she's free to make it. However, know what you're signing up for before you give yourself away because you might not deal so well with the consequences. I don't think this situation was 'just sex' and I don't think OP anticipated or was prepared for it to be short term.
I've said all I need to say on this thread and on OP's other threads regarding this situation. If you want to have context then read those.
No but did she ever mention anything about the sex herself?
If someone wrote this to me, that I gave the guy free sex, I would feel like it was someone trying to indirectly tell me, that I got used and should have gotten something back in return for the sex (so it wasn't "free") The emphasis is on free.click to expand
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