iVirgo
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Stay away from virgos. Haha. Anyways if you don't trust then it is going to get you in a high active participation in finding out why something is strange with another one's behavior. So probably the both have some issues and never talked about it, so now you must stalk to see your worse nightmare come true and when it does it doesn't feel great and you got to do what you have civilized and divorce.
@mrpepperidge No
she is aqua with a cap moon she has always been more cap then aqua to me.
she is aqua with a cap moon she has always been more cap then aqua to me.
I mean you an earth sign any shaky movement in the ground we are on top of. Any type of chaos because we are normally planted strong so for someone to unroot, unground, and cause shakiness will cause some earthquakes and some mudslides with the other elements. Because we're so kick back and chaos is destructive towards us. Hope it works out. I mean truth and honesty and trust has to be there regardless of.
I got no real answers from aqua form last and Virgo form just got me confused that I have up and just went with the bs everyone else was writing,
so this time I hope caps could give me real insight on a cap moon.
but lack of trust and insecurities has my head twisted up again.
so this time I hope caps could give me real insight on a cap moon.
but lack of trust and insecurities has my head twisted up again.
What are you looking to get out of this? If she is in fact doing anything, what will be your next step?
Nope
Only time she is on internet is to look up hair do's or some new recipes and eating healthy .
She barely goes on her face book, I introduced her dxpnet but she wasn't interested , she read a few and went back to doing what she liked which is fine with me.
Only time she is on internet is to look up hair do's or some new recipes and eating healthy .
She barely goes on her face book, I introduced her dxpnet but she wasn't interested , she read a few and went back to doing what she liked which is fine with me.
Except that I've learned she is more of a chameleon,from convos she had with friends and family and how she talks with me, so whom I'm seeing is not who I see. She has strong Pisces influence so I assumed she was just picking up on the emotions of others around her at that time, but something isn't right.
I know love isnt easy, but it isn't supposed to feel like this.
Posted by iVirgoThat sounds like me a few years ago. It’s not nice and it’s really ugly but that’s how I was back then and I’m not going to lie about it.
@mrpepperidge No
she is aqua with a cap moon she has always been more cap then aqua to me.
I’m also an aqua sun with cap moon.
If I cheat on you once, I’ll do it over and over again – because somewhere down the road I lost the purity and respect for this relationship.
The reasons because I cheated are many and none of them are legit, but I did it back then with my ex husband. It doesn’t really matter that he also cheated on me.
All I can say is: if a person cheats on you once then he/she’ll do it again.
What are her other placements?
disclaimer: I learned a lot since then and I'd never ever cheat on my soon to be husband because he always makes sure that I respect him and keeps our love pure and sacred.
Try to find the root cause as to why she was even interested in cheating. Then, fix it.
this again??
if you don't trust your woman why the fuck are you with her??
you both got NO TIME for games.
and capricorn got NO TIME for that shit.
if you don't trust your woman why the fuck are you with her??
you both got NO TIME for games.
and capricorn got NO TIME for that shit.
Posted by AquaNextDoorwhy don't you just leave??Posted by iVirgoThat sounds like me a few years ago. It’s not nice and it’s really ugly but that’s how I was back then and I’m not going to lie about it.
@mrpepperidge No
she is aqua with a cap moon she has always been more cap then aqua to me.
I’m also an aqua sun with cap moon.
If I cheat on you once, I’ll do it over and over again – because somewhere down the road I lost the purity and respect for this relationship.
The reasons because I cheated are many and none of them are legit, but I did it back then with my ex husband. It doesn’t really matter that he also cheated on me.
All I can say is: if a person cheats on you once then he/she’ll do it again.
What are her other placements?click to expand
if you can't stand the guy and disrespect him. just LEAVE.
cheating sounds like REVENGE in this case.
I'm gonna GET YOU back and make you suffer by hurting your emotions, motherfucker"
that's how i see it.
but this virgo is not DUMB. so i wonder what is his motive for slandering his wife.
DIVORCE her if you need to SLANDER her.
you are a disgusting human being!!! putting your wife down on a social media.
it's disgusting.
seriously!!
if someone on Facebook or twitter or any social media starts putting their husband or wife DOWN. and saying nasty ass shit about them.
I question the person who is saying that. because they have no RESPECT, and if they have NO RESPECT for their SO by slandering them on social media,
that would HURT ME BADLY if my man did that, and things will NEVER be the same. It would CUT DEEP.
of course my man and i are doing fine.
I'm just saying, that when putting myself in THEIR PLACE, it makes me see red and i feel bile and disgust!!
EDIT -- and if i SLANDERED my own man on social media, he would be HURT DEEPLY too.
just saying, if i were in their place.
Obviously we're not, but putting myself in their place, makes me sick to my stomach how disguting their marriage has turned out,
my man would NEVER slander me and I would NEVER slander him.
but this guy—
takes the cake.
no wonder you can't even keep a relationship.
if someone on Facebook or twitter or any social media starts putting their husband or wife DOWN. and saying nasty ass shit about them.
I question the person who is saying that. because they have no RESPECT, and if they have NO RESPECT for their SO by slandering them on social media,
that would HURT ME BADLY if my man did that, and things will NEVER be the same. It would CUT DEEP.
of course my man and i are doing fine.
I'm just saying, that when putting myself in THEIR PLACE, it makes me see red and i feel bile and disgust!!
EDIT -- and if i SLANDERED my own man on social media, he would be HURT DEEPLY too.
just saying, if i were in their place.
Obviously we're not, but putting myself in their place, makes me sick to my stomach how disguting their marriage has turned out,
my man would NEVER slander me and I would NEVER slander him.
but this guy—
takes the cake.
no wonder you can't even keep a relationship.
Posted by iVirgoyou are a controlling man, watching her every move, what recipes she does.
Nope
Only time she is on internet is to look up hair do's or some new recipes and eating healthy .
She barely goes on her face book, I introduced her dxpnet but she wasn't interested , she read a few and went back to doing what she liked which is fine with me.
you can't even trust a woman to go online.
why dont you marry someone and live in the WOODS with no social media, or people around.
Posted by exxtasyxlooking up recipes is cheating?
I don't understand what kind of advice you're looking for. She is obviously cheating on you. And the worst part about it is that if she isn't already having sex with this guy, it doesn't matter, because judging by the stuff she looks up she obviously has feelings for the guy she's seeing. Emotional cheating is way worst then physical cheating in my opinion.
where is she—
is she even here to DEFEND herself??
mother of god....
and it's close to the ascension of jesus.
EDIT --
the only way i will SLANDER my man is when we DIVORCE/break up
and then i will say all kinds of NASTY ass shit.
thats how i see it.
but i dont think so....
when a couple breaks up, it's EASY to slander and say nasty shit about eachother. but this guy is the cheater.
Posted by Reincarnationdid you read the other topic? he was cheating on her.Posted by lisabethur8Can you relax?Posted by AquaNextDoorwhy don't you just leave??Posted by iVirgoThat sounds like me a few years ago. It’s not nice and it’s really ugly but that’s how I was back then and I’m not going to lie about it.
@mrpepperidge No
she is aqua with a cap moon she has always been more cap then aqua to me.
I’m also an aqua sun with cap moon.
If I cheat on you once, I’ll do it over and over again – because somewhere down the road I lost the purity and respect for this relationship.
The reasons because I cheated are many and none of them are legit, but I did it back then with my ex husband. It doesn’t really matter that he also cheated on me.
All I can say is: if a person cheats on you once then he/she’ll do it again.
What are her other placements?
if you can't stand the guy and disrespect him. just LEAVE.
cheating sounds like REVENGE in this case.
I'm gonna GET YOU back and make you suffer by hurting your emotions, motherfucker"
that's how i see it.
but this virgo is not DUMB. so i wonder what is his motive for slandering his wife.
DIVORCE her if you need to SLANDER her.
you are a disgusting human being!!! putting your wife down on a social media.
it's disgusting.
The guy is going through a lot.click to expand
i've had my 2nd cup of coffee. lol
i get too passionate about stuff. 😄
i get too passionate about stuff. 😄
Posted by ReincarnationPosted by lisabethur8Oh - really?Posted by Reincarnationdid you read the other topic? he was cheating on her.Posted by lisabethur8Can you relax?Posted by AquaNextDoorwhy don't you just leave??Posted by iVirgoThat sounds like me a few years ago. It’s not nice and it’s really ugly but that’s how I was back then and I’m not going to lie about it.
@mrpepperidge No
she is aqua with a cap moon she has always been more cap then aqua to me.
I’m also an aqua sun with cap moon.
If I cheat on you once, I’ll do it over and over again – because somewhere down the road I lost the purity and respect for this relationship.
The reasons because I cheated are many and none of them are legit, but I did it back then with my ex husband. It doesn’t really matter that he also cheated on me.
All I can say is: if a person cheats on you once then he/she’ll do it again.
What are her other placements?
if you can't stand the guy and disrespect him. just LEAVE.
cheating sounds like REVENGE in this case.
I'm gonna GET YOU back and make you suffer by hurting your emotions, motherfucker"
that's how i see it.
but this virgo is not DUMB. so i wonder what is his motive for slandering his wife.
DIVORCE her if you need to SLANDER her.
you are a disgusting human being!!! putting your wife down on a social media.
it's disgusting.
The guy is going through a lot.click to expand
i read most of it on the virgo forum.
Posted by exxtasyxPosted by lisabethur8"Then I stumbled unto page she searched titled Affairs...OK...I go in it and she has been on this blog about secret affairs and even left a messagePosted by exxtasyxlooking up recipes is cheating?
I don't understand what kind of advice you're looking for. She is obviously cheating on you. And the worst part about it is that if she isn't already having sex with this guy, it doesn't matter, because judging by the stuff she looks up she obviously has feelings for the guy she's seeing. Emotional cheating is way worst then physical cheating in my opinion.
where is she—
is she even here to DEFEND herself??
mother of god....
and it's close to the ascension of jesus.
EDIT --
the only way i will SLANDER my man is when we DIVORCE/break up
and then i will say all kinds of NASTY ass shit.
thats how i see it.
but i dont think so....
when a couple breaks up, it's EASY to slander and say nasty shit about eachother. but this guy is the cheater.
" having a affair W/ married man, but in love with my husband."
And asking Questions like
"Will he leave his wife if I leave my husband"
"I love my husband I just dnt know who to choose"
If she's not already physically cheating, she is emotionally cheating and emotionally invested in this guy for her to be looking up things like that...
But if the OP cheated like you claim he did, then he deserves it.click to expand
no. two wrongs dont make a right.
They should create more ASHLEY MADISON sites.
EDIT-
this just passionately irks me because IF my man said nasty ass shit about me to his friends/buddies and/or social media,
it would HURT me sooooo bad. I would CRY and i would WONDER why he never confronted me that he has to tell the entire world about our problems—
i mean CONFRONT me, dont be COWARD.
i'm just putting myself in their place, and i find it cowardly.
EDIT-
this just passionately irks me because IF my man said nasty ass shit about me to his friends/buddies and/or social media,
it would HURT me sooooo bad. I would CRY and i would WONDER why he never confronted me that he has to tell the entire world about our problems—
i mean CONFRONT me, dont be COWARD.
i'm just putting myself in their place, and i find it cowardly.
anyway, there was one time my husband was jokng around with me, and said to his colleagues at work,
"my wife is a feeder" and they all lmao. and tell them that i make him his breakfast and lunch sanwiches. and they all go, "damn, my gf/wife doesn't do that"
so they go, 'can your wife make me some lunch too!" jokingly of course.
so when he told me at home what he says about me,
i ask him honestly, what else do you say about me??
and he says to reassure me, "nothing bad honey, you know that."
that makes me feel good.
EDIT - when you have a good relationshiip, you dont say nasty shit about eachother.
"my wife is a feeder" and they all lmao. and tell them that i make him his breakfast and lunch sanwiches. and they all go, "damn, my gf/wife doesn't do that"
so they go, 'can your wife make me some lunch too!" jokingly of course.
so when he told me at home what he says about me,
i ask him honestly, what else do you say about me??
and he says to reassure me, "nothing bad honey, you know that."
that makes me feel good.
EDIT - when you have a good relationshiip, you dont say nasty shit about eachother.
Posted by lisabethur8yeh u r right 100% I wasn't mature enough a few years ago and thought I wouldn't make it without him since my whole family lives in another country.Posted by AquaNextDoorwhy don't you just leave??Posted by iVirgoThat sounds like me a few years ago. It’s not nice and it’s really ugly but that’s how I was back then and I’m not going to lie about it.
@mrpepperidge No
she is aqua with a cap moon she has always been more cap then aqua to me.
I’m also an aqua sun with cap moon.
If I cheat on you once, I’ll do it over and over again – because somewhere down the road I lost the purity and respect for this relationship.
The reasons because I cheated are many and none of them are legit, but I did it back then with my ex husband. It doesn’t really matter that he also cheated on me.
All I can say is: if a person cheats on you once then he/she’ll do it again.
What are her other placements?
if you can't stand the guy and disrespect him. just LEAVE.
cheating sounds like REVENGE in this case.
I'm gonna GET YOU back and make you suffer by hurting your emotions, motherfucker"
that's how i see it.
but this virgo is not DUMB. so i wonder what is his motive for slandering his wife.
DIVORCE her if you need to SLANDER her.
you are a disgusting human being!!! putting your wife down on a social media.
it's disgusting.click to expand
I learned from it
Posted by AquaNextDoorPosted by lisabethur8yeh u r right 100% I wasn't mature enough a few years ago and thought I wouldn't make it without him since my whole family lives in another country.Posted by AquaNextDoorwhy don't you just leave??Posted by iVirgoThat sounds like me a few years ago. It’s not nice and it’s really ugly but that’s how I was back then and I’m not going to lie about it.
@mrpepperidge No
she is aqua with a cap moon she has always been more cap then aqua to me.
I’m also an aqua sun with cap moon.
If I cheat on you once, I’ll do it over and over again – because somewhere down the road I lost the purity and respect for this relationship.
The reasons because I cheated are many and none of them are legit, but I did it back then with my ex husband. It doesn’t really matter that he also cheated on me.
All I can say is: if a person cheats on you once then he/she’ll do it again.
What are her other placements?
if you can't stand the guy and disrespect him. just LEAVE.
cheating sounds like REVENGE in this case.
I'm gonna GET YOU back and make you suffer by hurting your emotions, motherfucker"
that's how i see it.
but this virgo is not DUMB. so i wonder what is his motive for slandering his wife.
DIVORCE her if you need to SLANDER her.
you are a disgusting human being!!! putting your wife down on a social media.
it's disgusting.
I learned from itclick to expand
i remember. you were dating some other guy with an aries mars, libra sun? and lived in switzerland?
you're doing better now. i just noticed that you like libra in personal planets. you must have 7th house or libra somewhere.
edit - i only mention that because you're with a libra moon. so obviously you like libra personal planets.
Yes it’s such a wonderful feeling to know that your husband braggs about you!!! I love it ïŠ
His co workers are so jelly ïŠ but in a good way
I’d never talk bad about my cap – I’m responsible for his reputation because I decide what I tell others and what I don’t. He only gives me reasons to brag too ïŠ so everythings fine and that’s how it should be. Don’t talk that bad about your partner on the internet.
But still.. I hope you get the advice on here you are looking for! Do what’s best for yourself because she isn’t in the same place anymore where she looked what was best for you!
His co workers are so jelly ïŠ but in a good way
I’d never talk bad about my cap – I’m responsible for his reputation because I decide what I tell others and what I don’t. He only gives me reasons to brag too ïŠ so everythings fine and that’s how it should be. Don’t talk that bad about your partner on the internet.
But still.. I hope you get the advice on here you are looking for! Do what’s best for yourself because she isn’t in the same place anymore where she looked what was best for you!
Posted by lisabethur8hm only placement I have is true lillith in libra in 3rd house.Posted by AquaNextDoorPosted by lisabethur8yeh u r right 100% I wasn't mature enough a few years ago and thought I wouldn't make it without him since my whole family lives in another country.Posted by AquaNextDoorwhy don't you just leave??Posted by iVirgoThat sounds like me a few years ago. It’s not nice and it’s really ugly but that’s how I was back then and I’m not going to lie about it.
@mrpepperidge No
she is aqua with a cap moon she has always been more cap then aqua to me.
I’m also an aqua sun with cap moon.
If I cheat on you once, I’ll do it over and over again – because somewhere down the road I lost the purity and respect for this relationship.
The reasons because I cheated are many and none of them are legit, but I did it back then with my ex husband. It doesn’t really matter that he also cheated on me.
All I can say is: if a person cheats on you once then he/she’ll do it again.
What are her other placements?
if you can't stand the guy and disrespect him. just LEAVE.
cheating sounds like REVENGE in this case.
I'm gonna GET YOU back and make you suffer by hurting your emotions, motherfucker"
that's how i see it.
but this virgo is not DUMB. so i wonder what is his motive for slandering his wife.
DIVORCE her if you need to SLANDER her.
you are a disgusting human being!!! putting your wife down on a social media.
it's disgusting.
I learned from it
i remember. you were dating some other guy with an aries mars, libra sun? and lived in switzerland?
you're doing better now. i just noticed that you like libra in personal planets. you must have 7th house or libra somewhere.
edit - i only mention that because you're with a libra moon. so obviously you like libra personal planets.click to expand
my 7th house is aqua
I have to admit that I have a hard time with libra sun people, I don't get along with them at all! I know a guy who is a cancer with libra asc - annoying as fuck. I dislike most of the libra people but the libra moon my cap has isn't as braggy and big mouthed, he is smart, witty but knows how to shut up at the right time.
Posted by AquaNextDoorthat's interesting about REPUTATION.
Yes it’s such a wonderful feeling to know that your husband braggs about you!!! I love it ïŠ
His co workers are so jelly ïŠ but in a good way
I’d never talk bad about my cap – I’m responsible for his reputation because I decide what I tell others and what I don’t. He only gives me reasons to brag too ïŠ so everythings fine and that’s how it should be. Don’t talk that bad about your partner on the internet.
But still.. I hope you get the advice on here you are looking for! Do what’s best for yourself because she isn’t in the same place anymore where she looked what was best for you!
it's the same with my man.
This is so sad bro. We know you're back with her but keep your eyes peeled
What you're doing is quite normal in response to being betrayed, not saying you should stalk your wife but it's a normal reaction. What I find strange is you didn't get all the details, if you just swept this under the rug nothing is going to change. She will go and do it again!! You two need to get to the root of the issues in your marriage and she needs to own up to everything and not make excuses.
You can't heal what you don't acknowledge.
You can't heal what you don't acknowledge.
Posted by WateryGemwhat is with you gemini suns? blackphase too, with gemini sun, siding with the man all the time, and not put BOTH on responsibilities.
What you're doing is quite normal in response to being betrayed, not saying you should stalk your wife but it's a normal reaction. What I find strange is you didn't get all the details, if you just swept this under the rug nothing is going to change. She will go and do it again!! You two need to get to the root of the issues in your marriage and she needs to own up to everything and not make excuses.
You can't heal what you don't acknowledge.
it's like you totally mislooked over the other topic where he said, he openly cheated.
EDIT - you can't put ONE person as the fault when it takes two to tango.
you were married before, i remember, and it didnt work out. you didnt do anythng but he did.
so why the side with the man??
Posted by blackphaseyou have no sense of what's right and wrong. black and white in a relationship.Posted by lisabethur8Where did you get that he slandered her? I don't see that anywhere.. He is not putting her down, he is asking for our opinion and is being very nice about it. Where do ya get off calling him a disgusting human being? It clearly seems like she is sneaking around behind his back.. I would't be surprised if he did put her down.. but he's not even.Posted by AquaNextDoorwhy don't you just leave??Posted by iVirgoThat sounds like me a few years ago. It’s not nice and it’s really ugly but that’s how I was back then and I’m not going to lie about it.
@mrpepperidge No
she is aqua with a cap moon she has always been more cap then aqua to me.
I’m also an aqua sun with cap moon.
If I cheat on you once, I’ll do it over and over again – because somewhere down the road I lost the purity and respect for this relationship.
The reasons because I cheated are many and none of them are legit, but I did it back then with my ex husband. It doesn’t really matter that he also cheated on me.
All I can say is: if a person cheats on you once then he/she’ll do it again.
What are her other placements?
if you can't stand the guy and disrespect him. just LEAVE.
cheating sounds like REVENGE in this case.
I'm gonna GET YOU back and make you suffer by hurting your emotions, motherfucker"
that's how i see it.
but this virgo is not DUMB. so i wonder what is his motive for slandering his wife.
DIVORCE her if you need to SLANDER her.
you are a disgusting human being!!! putting your wife down on a social media.
it's disgusting.click to expand
you put down your ex and look what happened. you both broke up. you disrespected him! on social media too.
i mean ...i kept quiet since you didnt make it a topic about yourself and him,
but you hated the fact that he was asking money from you for cigarrettes and he had no money of his own. so you slander him in public about his lack of funds and lack of everything.
and it was only maybe a year ago, when you put both your photos up and you both looked so cute together.
little do we know how much he irked you as a partner.
EDIT - and now because of the past months of how he IRKED you and annoyed you, you BROKE UP.
see—
that wasn't hard to see huh??
but you hated the fact that he was asking money from you for cigarrettes and he had no money of his own. so you slander him in public about his lack of funds and lack of everything.
and it was only maybe a year ago, when you put both your photos up and you both looked so cute together.
little do we know how much he irked you as a partner.
EDIT - and now because of the past months of how he IRKED you and annoyed you, you BROKE UP.
see—
that wasn't hard to see huh??
i mean honestly i saw that COMING.
you write down nasty stuff about your CURRENT partner on SOCIAL MEDIA....
and eventually, you will BREAK UP.
you write down nasty stuff about your CURRENT partner on SOCIAL MEDIA....
and eventually, you will BREAK UP.
What are you gonna do if she continues to cheat on you? Can you live with that?
If she doesn't and you have the strength to forgive, then forgive and forget.
If she doesn't and you have the strength to forgive, then forgive and forget.
The day before I followed her, we were both at the gym working out together. A normal day as usual for us, we worked out for 2hours, afterwards we spent the whole day together eating healthy drinking water, walking dogs, playing with our kids. I had no evidence on her she was cheating, I searched her browser history all I would find was work out routine, and eating healthy guides. Either she stopped cheating or she is just that d**n good at hiding lies. What got me to this point was her being so nice and caring and extra sweet, it was unlike her to be sooo lovey dovey, and being a Virgo I rather prefer her to show her love instead of just verbal expressing it.
So as I followed her, I borrowed my best friend car, when she assumed I was at work already. I watched as she drove to a different side of town , the lower south side, a bad side of town. I always managed to stay 8 cars behind her but still kept tracking her. I watched as she pulled into a donut shop parking lot, with shades on, her hat low like she was blocking the sun. She walked into the shop and sat down , she was just sitting there waiting IDK time kept going. So I text her,
"what's up baby just thinking about you, I love you I'm glad we mad our commitment to each other, you mean so much to me"
She looked down at her phone, and she walked to the rest room. She text back
"Me too, I love you baby.
At that point I dnt know what happened but she stormed out the shop, got in her car and left, she drove all the way back home.
-sh#t I think I spooked her,
but as I pulled onto our street I noticed a car in my drive way, the guy was at the door standing there, tall handsome black guy in-shape athletic. She greeted him, she was sooo excited to see him, she unlock the door and let him in.
I knew it- I knew it -I F---K--g knew it.
I gave it a extra five mins, then cut the car off, I ran to the door it wasn't even F---k--g locked . I walked right in and in the middle of my living room I seen it all play out. I was hurt, destroyed , I m lost, I'm confused, I'm devastated. My heart raced I couldn't believe it, not my wife, our commitments met nothing to her.
So as I followed her, I borrowed my best friend car, when she assumed I was at work already. I watched as she drove to a different side of town , the lower south side, a bad side of town. I always managed to stay 8 cars behind her but still kept tracking her. I watched as she pulled into a donut shop parking lot, with shades on, her hat low like she was blocking the sun. She walked into the shop and sat down , she was just sitting there waiting IDK time kept going. So I text her,
"what's up baby just thinking about you, I love you I'm glad we mad our commitment to each other, you mean so much to me"
She looked down at her phone, and she walked to the rest room. She text back
"Me too, I love you baby.
At that point I dnt know what happened but she stormed out the shop, got in her car and left, she drove all the way back home.
-sh#t I think I spooked her,
but as I pulled onto our street I noticed a car in my drive way, the guy was at the door standing there, tall handsome black guy in-shape athletic. She greeted him, she was sooo excited to see him, she unlock the door and let him in.
I knew it- I knew it -I F---K--g knew it.
I gave it a extra five mins, then cut the car off, I ran to the door it wasn't even F---k--g locked . I walked right in and in the middle of my living room I seen it all play out. I was hurt, destroyed , I m lost, I'm confused, I'm devastated. My heart raced I couldn't believe it, not my wife, our commitments met nothing to her.
Posted by blackphasethen why did you break up—Posted by lisabethur8Stop acting like you know anything about my life, cause you are wayy off the mark 😉
i mean honestly i saw that COMING.
you write down nasty stuff about your CURRENT partner on SOCIAL MEDIA....
and eventually, you will BREAK UP.
Not that it should effect you anyways.click to expand
no it doesn't. but it shows that you were UNHAPPY with his money situation.
Posted by blackphasewait.Posted by lisabethur8You're clearly in a bad way this morning and it's evident that you have zero recollection of my relationship that I am actually still in. This is totally irrelevant form the topic at hand, but if it makes you feel better.. Lol
i mean ...i kept quiet since you didnt make it a topic about yourself and him,
but you hated the fact that he was asking money from you for cigarrettes and he had no money of his own. so you slander him in public about his lack of funds and lack of everything.
and it was only maybe a year ago, when you put both your photos up and you both looked so cute together.
little do we know how much he irked you as a partner.
EDIT - and now because of the past months of how he IRKED you and annoyed you, you BROKE UP.
see—
that wasn't hard to see huh??
Both put photos up.. He is not and has never been on DXP.. No idea where "both" came from.. and long before that, most people here knew about my relationship issues.. you were the only one unaware apparently. And some people work through their issues instead of giving up when things are tough.. but it's clear that's not how you operate. Everyone faces issues in relationships ya twat.. Money is an easy one to overcome when both parties are actually working, which was not the case at the time. Like you wouldn't be irked if you were fully supporting someone else financially.. Ok
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you're STILL in a relationship??
i thought you called him a liar and said bad things about him.
of course i dont totally keep up with your relationship. I remember because you posted shit about him on one of my topics and i was very disconcerted that you were saying bad things about him because he had NO money.
and that he would complain about you asking him to do things for you and you ranted how you gave him money for his stuff and when it came down to wanting some favours he would COMPLAIN.
and lady that's YOUR CHOICE you chose a man you needed to support financially.
no one choice but yours.
no one choice but yours.
Posted by lisabethur8It's not the same thing. This is an anonymous social media site and he's here to discuss looking for guidance, opinions, to vent, to get insight, etc.
seriously!!
if someone on Facebook or twitter or any social media starts putting their husband or wife DOWN. and saying nasty ass shit about them.
I question the person who is saying that. because they have no RESPECT, and if they have NO RESPECT for their SO by slandering them on social media,
that would HURT ME BADLY if my man did that, and things will NEVER be the same. It would CUT DEEP.
of course my man and i are doing fine.
I'm just saying, that when putting myself in THEIR PLACE, it makes me see red and i feel bile and disgust!!
EDIT -- and if i SLANDERED my own man on social media, he would be HURT DEEPLY too.
just saying, if i were in their place.
Obviously we're not, but putting myself in their place, makes me sick to my stomach how disguting their marriage has turned out,
my man would NEVER slander me and I would NEVER slander him.
but this guy—
takes the cake.
no wonder you can't even keep a relationship.
Posted by blackphasewell i didn't know you got back together.Posted by lisabethur8We are still together.. Why should I explain anything to you only for you to ridicule me later about it?Posted by blackphasethen why did you break up—Posted by lisabethur8Stop acting like you know anything about my life, cause you are wayy off the mark 😉
i mean honestly i saw that COMING.
you write down nasty stuff about your CURRENT partner on SOCIAL MEDIA....
and eventually, you will BREAK UP.
Not that it should effect you anyways.
no it doesn't. but it shows that you were UNHAPPY with his money situation.
Of course I was unhappy.. there are always ups and downs, but we work through them when we truly care about a person. Money was just adding to things.. we never broke up about money. You're just making assumptions based on the few things you remember about posts I've made. We are doing much better now, I'd rather not have you try to dissect something that I've worked very hard to get on the right track.click to expand
and you were annoyed you had to financially support him.
and OK fine. you know exactly what you're getting INTO with this guy. financially too.
so .......... good luck.
She is a
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Posted by truecapPosted by lisabethur8It's not the same thing. This is an anonymous social media site and he's here to discuss looking for guidance, opinions, to vent, to get insight, etc.
seriously!!
if someone on Facebook or twitter or any social media starts putting their husband or wife DOWN. and saying nasty ass shit about them.
I question the person who is saying that. because they have no RESPECT, and if they have NO RESPECT for their SO by slandering them on social media,
that would HURT ME BADLY if my man did that, and things will NEVER be the same. It would CUT DEEP.
of course my man and i are doing fine.
I'm just saying, that when putting myself in THEIR PLACE, it makes me see red and i feel bile and disgust!!
EDIT -- and if i SLANDERED my own man on social media, he would be HURT DEEPLY too.
just saying, if i were in their place.
Obviously we're not, but putting myself in their place, makes me sick to my stomach how disguting their marriage has turned out,
my man would NEVER slander me and I would NEVER slander him.
but this guy—
takes the cake.
no wonder you can't even keep a relationship.click to expand
to me it's the same thing even if it's anonymous.
i dont know why. just vrey very bad vibes and bad feelings,
and i still stand by what i say, if he has NO BRAVERY to confront the issues and has to go behind her back, he is cowardly.
What happened then?
Posted by iVirgoYou caught them in the act?
The day before I followed her, we were both at the gym working out together. A normal day as usual for us, we worked out for 2hours, afterwards we spent the whole day together eating healthy drinking water, walking dogs, playing with our kids. I had no evidence on her she was cheating, I searched her browser history all I would find was work out routine, and eating healthy guides. Either she stopped cheating or she is just that d**n good at hiding lies. What got me to this point was her being so nice and caring and extra sweet, it was unlike her to be sooo lovey dovey, and being a Virgo I rather prefer her to show her love instead of just verbal expressing it.
So as I followed her, I borrowed my best friend car, when she assumed I was at work already. I watched as she drove to a different side of town , the lower south side, a bad side of town. I always managed to stay 8 cars behind her but still kept tracking her. I watched as she pulled into a donut shop parking lot, with shades on, her hat low like she was blocking the sun. She walked into the shop and sat down , she was just sitting there waiting IDK time kept going. So I text her,
"what's up baby just thinking about you, I love you I'm glad we mad our commitment to each other, you mean so much to me"
She looked down at her phone, and she walked to the rest room. She text back
"Me too, I love you baby.
At that point I dnt know what happened but she stormed out the shop, got in her car and left, she drove all the way back home.
-sh#t I think I spooked her,
but as I pulled onto our street I noticed a car in my drive way, the guy was at the door standing there, tall handsome black guy in-shape athletic. She greeted him, she was sooo excited to see him, she unlock the door and let him in.
I knew it- I knew it -I F---K--g knew it.
I gave it a extra five mins, then cut the car off, I ran to the door it wasn't even F---k--g locked . I walked right in and in the middle of my living room I seen it all play out. I was hurt, destroyed , I m lost, I'm confused, I'm devastated. My heart raced I couldn't believe it, not my wife, our commitments met nothing to her.
I'm outta there. Permanently, no looking back. But that's just me. My scorpio venus can't handle it and refuses to keep trying.
Lisabethur 8
Is this amusing to you dear god I pray it isn't
Is this amusing to you dear god I pray it isn't
Posted by iVirgoyou completely IGNORE what i mention on here. it's WASTED on you.
Lisabethur 8
Is this amusing to you dear god I pray it isn't
about being cowardly and my own relationship with my man and reptuation.
you just ignore it, and continue on with your own baloney.
such a waste.
Posted by Vegetta91As in if the story is true, then I would file for divorce. Immediately. No questions, no reconciliation, no ifs, ands or buts.Posted by truecapAs in you don't buy the story?Posted by iVirgoYou caught them in the act?
The day before I followed her, we were both at the gym working out together. A normal day as usual for us, we worked out for 2hours, afterwards we spent the whole day together eating healthy drinking water, walking dogs, playing with our kids. I had no evidence on her she was cheating, I searched her browser history all I would find was work out routine, and eating healthy guides. Either she stopped cheating or she is just that d**n good at hiding lies. What got me to this point was her being so nice and caring and extra sweet, it was unlike her to be sooo lovey dovey, and being a Virgo I rather prefer her to show her love instead of just verbal expressing it.
So as I followed her, I borrowed my best friend car, when she assumed I was at work already. I watched as she drove to a different side of town , the lower south side, a bad side of town. I always managed to stay 8 cars behind her but still kept tracking her. I watched as she pulled into a donut shop parking lot, with shades on, her hat low like she was blocking the sun. She walked into the shop and sat down , she was just sitting there waiting IDK time kept going. So I text her,
"what's up baby just thinking about you, I love you I'm glad we mad our commitment to each other, you mean so much to me"
She looked down at her phone, and she walked to the rest room. She text back
"Me too, I love you baby.
At that point I dnt know what happened but she stormed out the shop, got in her car and left, she drove all the way back home.
-sh#t I think I spooked her,
but as I pulled onto our street I noticed a car in my drive way, the guy was at the door standing there, tall handsome black guy in-shape athletic. She greeted him, she was sooo excited to see him, she unlock the door and let him in.
I knew it- I knew it -I F---K--g knew it.
I gave it a extra five mins, then cut the car off, I ran to the door it wasn't even F---k--g locked . I walked right in and in the middle of my living room I seen it all play out. I was hurt, destroyed , I m lost, I'm confused, I'm devastated. My heart raced I couldn't believe it, not my wife, our commitments met nothing to her.
I'm outta there. Permanently, no looking back. But that's just me. My scorpio venus can't handle it and refuses to keep trying.click to expand
Posted by Nevermoredon't forget this one.. from the Aqua boards.
In case what Lisabethur8 are talking about:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/wife-best-friend-coming-on-to-me-6004776/?p=79
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/do-aqua-girls-cheat-when-in-love-5984618/#6013757
IVirgo I feel sorry for you and your need for attention.
You kept changing your story, never giving straight answeres, then turn around and claim it's because we said it? Yea right.... LMAO
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