
Hello, my gem friend and I had a long conversation today. In the end, he asked me if I value our friendship. I am not sure if I asnwered his question. What do you think? Thanks.






Posted by NotSoInstantWe have been friends for over 2 years now. We are both graduate students. We share some similar struggles as graduate students, but we are in very different fields. We don't talk all the time, but when we do, it usually lasts for hours. We actually had a huge fight several days ago. He texted me today to let me know that certain things I said the other day really hurt his feelings.
Need a bit more history on the friendship to answer.

Posted by wagtailI am not sure cuz he said "never mind", which made me wonder if I didn't get it.
Sounds like a Friendzone boundary test to meh...
@_@
Do you feel like you answered his query? Give ush Mercury placements pleash

Posted by NotSoInstantI felt he was disapointed with my asnwer too. I felt I gave him the "wrong" answer... I don't know if he likes me more than a friend or not since he dates a lot and changes his mind a lot in general lolPosted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by NotSoInstantWe have been friends for over 2 years now. We are both graduate students. We share some similar struggles as graduate students, but we are in very different fields. We don't talk all the time, but when we do, it usually lasts for hours. We actually had a huge fight several days ago. He texted me today to let me know that certain things I said the other day really hurt his feelings.
Need a bit more history on the friendship to answer.
We talked it out and in the end he asked me the friendship question.
Over two years and you couldn't decide where he stands with you as a friend? Are you sure he doesn't like you more than a friend?
The last reply from him looks like he got disappointed with your answer. I have received the same type of reply from aqua guys. He is distancing himself from you.....
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Posted by NotSoInstantIs it common for Gems to develop feelings for their friends over time? 😕Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by wagtailI am not sure cuz he said "never mind", which made me wonder if I didn't get it.
Sounds like a Friendzone boundary test to meh...
@_@
Do you feel like you answered his query? Give ush Mercury placements pleash
Mercury in Cancer.
I'm pretty sure he kinda likes you. He wants to crawl out of that friendzone
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Posted by littlenanobyteThanks for the clarification. I will have to think about it then.
He meant are you invested in the friendship emotionally vs just for fun. Do you see the friendship on a deeper level

Posted by littlenanobyteThanks!!
No you dint answer it

Posted by whatisthisallaboutI wouldn't automatically assume this means he has deeper feelings toward you.Posted by NotSoInstantI felt he was disapointed with my asnwer too. I felt I gave him the "wrong" answer... I don't know if he likes me more than a friend or not since he dates a lot and changes his mind a lot in general lolPosted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by NotSoInstantWe have been friends for over 2 years now. We are both graduate students. We share some similar struggles as graduate students, but we are in very different fields. We don't talk all the time, but when we do, it usually lasts for hours. We actually had a huge fight several days ago. He texted me today to let me know that certain things I said the other day really hurt his feelings.
Need a bit more history on the friendship to answer.
We talked it out and in the end he asked me the friendship question.
Over two years and you couldn't decide where he stands with you as a friend? Are you sure he doesn't like you more than a friend?
The last reply from him looks like he got disappointed with your answer. I have received the same type of reply from aqua guys. He is distancing himself from you.....
What did aqua boys say to you? 😕click to expand

Posted by NotSoInstantWow, this is very helpful! Thank you!Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by NotSoInstantI felt he was disapointed with my asnwer too. I felt I gave him the "wrong" answer... I don't know if he likes me more than a friend or not since he dates a lot and changes his mind a lot in general lolPosted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by NotSoInstantWe have been friends for over 2 years now. We are both graduate students. We share some similar struggles as graduate students, but we are in very different fields. We don't talk all the time, but when we do, it usually lasts for hours. We actually had a huge fight several days ago. He texted me today to let me know that certain things I said the other day really hurt his feelings.
Need a bit more history on the friendship to answer.
We talked it out and in the end he asked me the friendship question.
Over two years and you couldn't decide where he stands with you as a friend? Are you sure he doesn't like you more than a friend?
The last reply from him looks like he got disappointed with your answer. I have received the same type of reply from aqua guys. He is distancing himself from you.....
What did aqua boys say to you? 😕
See there is no right nor a wrong answer Herr. Firstly, he may have expressed his feelings by addressing the issue(the fight you guys had) and since he reached out to you after the argument he could have felt he made his point clear to you that you are important to him. And his ego won't hinder him from reaching out despite a misunderstanding.
Most often Geminis don't reach out after an argument. If we do, it is because we like them either as friends or as a person.
So it all comes down to, where you able to assure him of his value to you?
He must have felt disappointed by your answer.
Oh the aqua guys? Let me get you the latest one.
"You would rather find appeasement in,"Oh wow! You look hot, meaning I want to fuck you and since I can't I will fap until I come 4 times to your photo, than a statement which merely stated an observation?
I know right?
I'm the asshole
Every
Single
Time
Goodbye
So yeah he blocked me right after that. Lmao
He contacted me a week ago to ask me for someone's phone number. That's it.
BTW he said I looked tired in a pic. Lol I said OK fine. For that he went berserk.
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Posted by NotSoInstantVenus in Gemini.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by NotSoInstantIs it common for Gems to develop feelings for their friends over time? 😕Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by wagtailI am not sure cuz he said "never mind", which made me wonder if I didn't get it.
Sounds like a Friendzone boundary test to meh...
@_@
Do you feel like you answered his query? Give ush Mercury placements pleash
Mercury in Cancer.
I'm pretty sure he kinda likes you. He wants to crawl out of that friendzone
I do notice he has been more emotional lately. Prob for about a month or 2 now.
IDK, I have never developed feelings for a friend. Friends remain friends.
Is he a Venus in Aries?
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Posted by LadyNeptuneI guess I should reach out to him more then (to show I care). He did tell me he was bothered by the fact that I often fell off the face of the earth when I got busy...Posted by whatisthisallaboutI wouldn't automatically assume this means he has deeper feelings from you.Posted by NotSoInstantI felt he was disapointed with my asnwer too. I felt I gave him the "wrong" answer... I don't know if he likes me more than a friend or not since he dates a lot and changes his mind a lot in general lolPosted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by NotSoInstantWe have been friends for over 2 years now. We are both graduate students. We share some similar struggles as graduate students, but we are in very different fields. We don't talk all the time, but when we do, it usually lasts for hours. We actually had a huge fight several days ago. He texted me today to let me know that certain things I said the other day really hurt his feelings.
Need a bit more history on the friendship to answer.
We talked it out and in the end he asked me the friendship question.
Over two years and you couldn't decide where he stands with you as a friend? Are you sure he doesn't like you more than a friend?
The last reply from him looks like he got disappointed with your answer. I have received the same type of reply from aqua guys. He is distancing himself from you.....
What did aqua boys say to you? 😕
It's far more likely he was more hurt from your fight then he's letting on. He's probing to see how much you value the friendship and was looking to get some confirmation from you before he starts to emotionally detach from the friendship.
At least that's my interpretation from what very little you've shared here.
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Posted by DickButtoh no!!
He's dying.

Posted by NotSoInstantHaha, I think it's because we didn't date, but thanks 😆Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by NotSoInstantVenus in Gemini.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by NotSoInstantIs it common for Gems to develop feelings for their friends over time? 😕Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by wagtailI am not sure cuz he said "never mind", which made me wonder if I didn't get it.
Sounds like a Friendzone boundary test to meh...
@_@
Do you feel like you answered his query? Give ush Mercury placements pleash
Mercury in Cancer.
I'm pretty sure he kinda likes you. He wants to crawl out of that friendzone
I do notice he has been more emotional lately. Prob for about a month or 2 now.
IDK, I have never developed feelings for a friend. Friends remain friends.
Is he a Venus in Aries?
That's good to know cuz I want us to stay friends.
He actually gone throgh 20+ girls over the past 2 years. I think he was very sentimental the other day talking about it's been 2 years since we've been friends blah blah (while the other girls he met were all gone after several weeks).
Oh he did? He must value your friendship then....
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Posted by PVandJelly1. I am not talking to the Aries anymore because I feel he was trying to stir things up.
An Aries, a Pisces, and a gem. Jinkies, how many men are you juggling Velma? Will the virgo or taurus board be next?

Posted by NotSoInstantI don't think he has hit on me. When we first became friends, he did ask me why I never flirted with him (maybe I was friendzoned right then 😆)Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by NotSoInstantHaha, I think it's because we didn't date, but thanks 😆Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by NotSoInstantVenus in Gemini.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by NotSoInstantIs it common for Gems to develop feelings for their friends over time? 😕Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by wagtailI am not sure cuz he said "never mind", which made me wonder if I didn't get it.
Sounds like a Friendzone boundary test to meh...
@_@
Do you feel like you answered his query? Give ush Mercury placements pleash
Mercury in Cancer.
I'm pretty sure he kinda likes you. He wants to crawl out of that friendzone
I do notice he has been more emotional lately. Prob for about a month or 2 now.
IDK, I have never developed feelings for a friend. Friends remain friends.
Is he a Venus in Aries?
That's good to know cuz I want us to stay friends.
He actually gone throgh 20+ girls over the past 2 years. I think he was very sentimental the other day talking about it's been 2 years since we've been friends blah blah (while the other girls he met were all gone after several weeks).
Oh he did? He must value your friendship then....
So did this gem ever hit on you?
I'm a gem girl and I would never hit on a friend.
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Posted by GC01Oh, I see. Thanks!
More interesting than important=More light hearted fun entertainment rather than deep and meaningful.

Posted by pisceanlovesI don't want him to think that our friendship means nothing to me... I want him to know I value having him in my life but I don't want him to misinterpret it, either...
Nope you haven't answered lol
If you really have no idea what he's talking about then that relationship means nothing to you, he has feelings for you and you don't get it. You either haven't noticed or playing blind&deaf

Posted by NotSoInstantThat sounds good. I will think of how to word it so he knows I value him but I am not hitting on him 🙂Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by NotSoInstantI don't think he has hit on me. When we first became friends, he did ask me why I never flirted with him (maybe I was friendzoned right then 😆)Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by NotSoInstantHaha, I think it's because we didn't date, but thanks 😆Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by NotSoInstantVenus in Gemini.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by NotSoInstantIs it common for Gems to develop feelings for their friends over time? 😕Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by wagtailI am not sure cuz he said "never mind", which made me wonder if I didn't get it.
Sounds like a Friendzone boundary test to meh...
@_@
Do you feel like you answered his query? Give ush Mercury placements pleash
Mercury in Cancer.
I'm pretty sure he kinda likes you. He wants to crawl out of that friendzone
I do notice he has been more emotional lately. Prob for about a month or 2 now.
IDK, I have never developed feelings for a friend. Friends remain friends.
Is he a Venus in Aries?
That's good to know cuz I want us to stay friends.
He actually gone throgh 20+ girls over the past 2 years. I think he was very sentimental the other day talking about it's been 2 years since we've been friends blah blah (while the other girls he met were all gone after several weeks).
Oh he did? He must value your friendship then....
So did this gem ever hit on you?
I'm a gem girl and I would never hit on a friend.
Yeah it is apparent he values your friendship but maybe the fight changed the dynamics a bit?
Not sure
Once you let him know what you feel about this friendship , notice his behaviour.
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Posted by NotSoInstantThis sounds good. I guess I was just thinking too much cuz I was wondering if I should tell him the times that I really appreciated him being there for me etc etc. I guess that'd become too much :pPosted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by pisceanlovesI don't want him to think that our friendship means nothing to me... I want him to know I value having him in my life but I don't want him to misinterpret it, either...
Nope you haven't answered lol
If you really have no idea what he's talking about then that relationship means nothing to you, he has feelings for you and you don't get it. You either haven't noticed or playing blind&deaf
Then tell him he is a good friend and you don't wanna lose his friendship.
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Posted by whatisthisallaboutHe asked for honesty girl, nothing else, you could have said the same to him instead writing poems herePosted by pisceanlovesI don't want him to think that our friendship means nothing to me... I want him to know I value having him in my life but I don't want him to misinterpret it, either...
Nope you haven't answered lol
If you really have no idea what he's talking about then that relationship means nothing to you, he has feelings for you and you don't get it. You either haven't noticed or playing blind&deafclick to expand


Posted by pisceanlovesI am not his cetner of attention though. we don't talk all the time. but yes, I appreciate that he cares.Posted by whatisthisallaboutHe asked for honesty girl, nothing else, you could have said the same to him instead writing poems herePosted by pisceanlovesI don't want him to think that our friendship means nothing to me... I want him to know I value having him in my life but I don't want him to misinterpret it, either...
Nope you haven't answered lol
If you really have no idea what he's talking about then that relationship means nothing to you, he has feelings for you and you don't get it. You either haven't noticed or playing blind&deaf
But let me tell you something, you like his attention and can't give away the truth. He holds on something, on your silence, confusion, he can't be straightforward and you know it you smile while he's struggling but you won't help him. It's really cool being the center of ones attention isn't it 🙂click to expand

Posted by DickButtLooks like you have too much time on your hand.
http://iphonefaketext.com
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Posted by whatisthisallaboutFucking mutables. We're all trash.
Hello, my gem friend and I had a long conversation today. In the end, he asked me if I value our friendship. I am not sure if I asnwered his question. What do you think? Thanks.![]()
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Posted by AndalusiaThis is probably true. I guess yesterday he was just in a certain mode. I texted him today telling him "I do value our friendship and I'm glad you are in my life, just so you know." I haven't heard back. Like you said, he probably forgot what it is about already LOLPosted by whatisthisallaboutFucking mutables. We're all trash.
Hello, my gem friend and I had a long conversation today. In the end, he asked me if I value our friendship. I am not sure if I asnwered his question. What do you think? Thanks.![]()
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Don't worry about whether or not you "answered" his question. Chances are he doesn't even remember what exactly he meant by asking it.click to expand

Posted by DickButtPosted by whatisthisallaboutdo itPosted by DickButtLooks like you have too much time on your hand.
http://iphonefaketext.com
http://www.ios7text.com![]()
Can you actually change the date then. If I take the screenshot again, it's gonna show it's from yesterday 😉
Also, does it show delivered/read, etc?click to expand


Posted by whatisthisallaboutAre you arietteheart? (SP?)Posted by AndalusiaThis is probably true. I guess yesterday he was just in a certain mode. I texted him today telling him "I do value our friendship and I'm glad you are in my life, just so you know." I haven't heard back. Like you said, he probably forgot what it is about already LOLPosted by whatisthisallaboutFucking mutables. We're all trash.
Hello, my gem friend and I had a long conversation today. In the end, he asked me if I value our friendship. I am not sure if I asnwered his question. What do you think? Thanks.![]()
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Don't worry about whether or not you "answered" his question. Chances are he doesn't even remember what exactly he meant by asking it.click to expand

Posted by PootyButtYou think so? Are you a gemini 😕
I don't get what most people in this thread are saying. He very clearly wanted to know if you like him more than a friend, and you made it pretty clear that you don't with your clueless answer.

Posted by Andalusiawhat is arietteheart—?Posted by whatisthisallaboutAre you arietteheart? (SP?)Posted by AndalusiaThis is probably true. I guess yesterday he was just in a certain mode. I texted him today telling him "I do value our friendship and I'm glad you are in my life, just so you know." I haven't heard back. Like you said, he probably forgot what it is about already LOLPosted by whatisthisallaboutFucking mutables. We're all trash.
Hello, my gem friend and I had a long conversation today. In the end, he asked me if I value our friendship. I am not sure if I asnwered his question. What do you think? Thanks.![]()
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Don't worry about whether or not you "answered" his question. Chances are he doesn't even remember what exactly he meant by asking it.click to expand

Posted by PootyButtHaha thanks. I think he's ok now. Just heard back from him. I think it's better we stay friends.Posted by whatisthisallaboutYes. If you don't want to date him, don't cloud the issue for him. Let him go lick his wounds and put his pride back together so he can be your friend again. Don't be surprised if he's a little cold after this.Posted by PootyButtYou think so? Are you a gemini 😕
I don't get what most people in this thread are saying. He very clearly wanted to know if you like him more than a friend, and you made it pretty clear that you don't with your clueless answer.
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Posted by SeraphlightThank you. I wrote that to him today.
The way I read it he is a friend who wishes to acknowledge that he has a friend back in you.
If it was more than that ..it went RIGHT over my head. I really thing the question is 'do you value this friendship?' Are you my friend back?
If you value him as a friend. Tell him back...I value you as a friend. It's clear. Either way..that what you enjoy about him is that he is a friend ..nothing more nothing less.

Posted by whatisthisallaboutNvm. I thought you were an old user.Posted by Andalusiawhat is arietteheart—?Posted by whatisthisallaboutAre you arietteheart? (SP?)Posted by AndalusiaThis is probably true. I guess yesterday he was just in a certain mode. I texted him today telling him "I do value our friendship and I'm glad you are in my life, just so you know." I haven't heard back. Like you said, he probably forgot what it is about already LOLPosted by whatisthisallaboutFucking mutables. We're all trash.
Hello, my gem friend and I had a long conversation today. In the end, he asked me if I value our friendship. I am not sure if I asnwered his question. What do you think? Thanks.![]()
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Don't worry about whether or not you "answered" his question. Chances are he doesn't even remember what exactly he meant by asking it.click to expand

Posted by AndalusiaHaha. I see. I hope she (or he?) is a nice person 😆Posted by whatisthisallaboutNvm. I thought you were an old user.Posted by Andalusiawhat is arietteheart—?Posted by whatisthisallaboutAre you arietteheart? (SP?)Posted by AndalusiaThis is probably true. I guess yesterday he was just in a certain mode. I texted him today telling him "I do value our friendship and I'm glad you are in my life, just so you know." I haven't heard back. Like you said, he probably forgot what it is about already LOLPosted by whatisthisallaboutFucking mutables. We're all trash.
Hello, my gem friend and I had a long conversation today. In the end, he asked me if I value our friendship. I am not sure if I asnwered his question. What do you think? Thanks.![]()
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Don't worry about whether or not you "answered" his question. Chances are he doesn't even remember what exactly he meant by asking it.click to expand

Posted by whatisthisallaboutShe, and yes 🙂Posted by AndalusiaHaha. I see. I hope she (or he?) is a nice person 😆Posted by whatisthisallaboutNvm. I thought you were an old user.Posted by Andalusiawhat is arietteheart—?Posted by whatisthisallaboutAre you arietteheart? (SP?)Posted by AndalusiaThis is probably true. I guess yesterday he was just in a certain mode. I texted him today telling him "I do value our friendship and I'm glad you are in my life, just so you know." I haven't heard back. Like you said, he probably forgot what it is about already LOLPosted by whatisthisallaboutFucking mutables. We're all trash.
Hello, my gem friend and I had a long conversation today. In the end, he asked me if I value our friendship. I am not sure if I asnwered his question. What do you think? Thanks.![]()
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Don't worry about whether or not you "answered" his question. Chances are he doesn't even remember what exactly he meant by asking it.click to expand

Posted by AndalusiaThanks! Good to know 🙂Posted by whatisthisallaboutShe, and yes 🙂Posted by AndalusiaHaha. I see. I hope she (or he?) is a nice person 😆Posted by whatisthisallaboutNvm. I thought you were an old user.Posted by Andalusiawhat is arietteheart—?Posted by whatisthisallaboutAre you arietteheart? (SP?)Posted by AndalusiaThis is probably true. I guess yesterday he was just in a certain mode. I texted him today telling him "I do value our friendship and I'm glad you are in my life, just so you know." I haven't heard back. Like you said, he probably forgot what it is about already LOLPosted by whatisthisallaboutFucking mutables. We're all trash.
Hello, my gem friend and I had a long conversation today. In the end, he asked me if I value our friendship. I am not sure if I asnwered his question. What do you think? Thanks.![]()
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Don't worry about whether or not you "answered" his question. Chances are he doesn't even remember what exactly he meant by asking it.click to expand

Posted by DickButtits screen shot from my mac. Don't you have i-messages, weirdo?Posted by whatisthisallabout.....you do know. The iOS interface is time and date encoded right? It doesn't display a text massage read 24hrs past as yesterday. It gives you a Read protocol with a time: PM/AM and post 24hrs Date print out. Nice try though. No read out of yesterday. That isn't in the code.Posted by DickButtPosted by whatisthisallaboutdo itPosted by DickButtLooks like you have too much time on your hand.
http://iphonefaketext.com
http://www.ios7text.com![]()
Can you actually change the date then. If I take the screenshot again, it's gonna show it's from yesterday 😉
Also, does it show delivered/read, etc?
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Posted by littlenanobyteit's i-message for mac.Posted by DickButtI don't know shit about iOS (yet) or iPhone. I have the 6S+ for a year now and I won't have another iPhone after this contract is up. But why would someone lie about that? Just seems weird. What's the motivation? Off the top of my head, it looked weird but I just figured it was a really old version of iOS? Lol ?Posted by whatisthisallabout.....you do know. The iOS interface is time and date encoded right? It doesn't display a text massage read 24hrs past as yesterday. It gives you a Read protocol with a time: PM/AM and post 24hrs Date print out. Nice try though. No read out of yesterday. That isn't in the code.Posted by DickButtPosted by whatisthisallaboutdo itPosted by DickButtLooks like you have too much time on your hand.
http://iphonefaketext.com
http://www.ios7text.com![]()
Can you actually change the date then. If I take the screenshot again, it's gonna show it's from yesterday 😉
Also, does it show delivered/read, etc?![]()
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Posted by DickButtyou seriously have too much time on your hand.Posted by whatisthisallabout.....you do know. The iOS interface is time and date encoded right? It doesn't display a text massage read 24hrs past as yesterday. It gives you a Read protocol with a time: PM/AM and post 24hrs Date print out. Nice try though. No read out of yesterday. That isn't in the code.Posted by DickButtPosted by whatisthisallaboutdo itPosted by DickButtLooks like you have too much time on your hand.
http://iphonefaketext.com
http://www.ios7text.com![]()
Can you actually change the date then. If I take the screenshot again, it's gonna show it's from yesterday 😉
Also, does it show delivered/read, etc?
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Posted by DickButtIf you really have this much time on you hand. Why don't you replicate my last screenshot from my MacBook then.Posted by littlenanobyteBored multiple account, wanting reactions.Posted by DickButtI don't know shit about iOS (yet) or iPhone. I have the 6S+ for a year now and I won't have another iPhone after this contract is up. But why would someone lie about that? Just seems weird. What's the motivation? Off the top of my head, it looked weird but I just figured it was a really old version of iOS? Lol ?Posted by whatisthisallabout.....you do know. The iOS interface is time and date encoded right? It doesn't display a text massage read 24hrs past as yesterday. It gives you a Read protocol with a time: PM/AM and post 24hrs Date print out. Nice try though. No read out of yesterday. That isn't in the code.Posted by DickButtPosted by whatisthisallaboutdo itPosted by DickButtLooks like you have too much time on your hand.
http://iphonefaketext.com
http://www.ios7text.com![]()
Can you actually change the date then. If I take the screenshot again, it's gonna show it's from yesterday 😉
Also, does it show delivered/read, etc?![]()
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Posted by DickButtobviously you don't have a mac. that's not my problem. carry on.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by DickButtits screen shot from my mac. Don't you have i-messages, weirdo?Posted by whatisthisallabout.....you do know. The iOS interface is time and date encoded right? It doesn't display a text massage read 24hrs past as yesterday. It gives you a Read protocol with a time: PM/AM and post 24hrs Date print out. Nice try though. No read out of yesterday. That isn't in the code.Posted by DickButtPosted by whatisthisallaboutdo itPosted by DickButtLooks like you have too much time on your hand.
http://iphonefaketext.com
http://www.ios7text.com![]()
Can you actually change the date then. If I take the screenshot again, it's gonna show it's from yesterday 😉
Also, does it show delivered/read, etc?![]()
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A relay app built to receive infrastructure settings from a device. Nice try though.
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