SnowBunny726
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I can’t remember if we are on year 7 or 8. Whatevs
3-4xs per week, give or take. I am happy with that amount. Always good to have some recovery time in between. I would be cool with like 1-2xs per week cause I enjoy my alone time 😉
3-4xs per week, give or take. I am happy with that amount. Always good to have some recovery time in between. I would be cool with like 1-2xs per week cause I enjoy my alone time 😉
Posted by LadyNeptune
I can’t remember if we are on year 7 or 8. Whatevs
3-4xs per week, give or take. I am happy with that amount. Always good to have some recovery time in between. I would be cool with like 1-2xs per week cause I enjoy my alone time 😉
Lol do you have any Aquarius placements in your chart? I forget.
Posted by SnowBunny726Posted by LadyNeptune
I can’t remember if we are on year 7 or 8. Whatevs
3-4xs per week, give or take. I am happy with that amount. Always good to have some recovery time in between. I would be cool with like 1-2xs per week cause I enjoy my alone time 😉
Lol do you have any Aquarius placements in your chart? I forget.click to expand
None, I don’t think. Is Aquarius 7th house? Maybe I have a house placement but my chart is pretty devoid of air
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SnowBunny726Posted by LadyNeptune
I can’t remember if we are on year 7 or 8. Whatevs
3-4xs per week, give or take. I am happy with that amount. Always good to have some recovery time in between. I would be cool with like 1-2xs per week cause I enjoy my alone time 😉
Lol do you have any Aquarius placements in your chart? I forget.
None, I don’t think. Is Aquarius 7th house? Maybe I have a house placement but my chart is pretty devoid of airclick to expand
What's your Rising?
Posted by SnowBunny726Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SnowBunny726Posted by LadyNeptune
I can’t remember if we are on year 7 or 8. Whatevs
3-4xs per week, give or take. I am happy with that amount. Always good to have some recovery time in between. I would be cool with like 1-2xs per week cause I enjoy my alone time 😉
Lol do you have any Aquarius placements in your chart? I forget.
None, I don’t think. Is Aquarius 7th house? Maybe I have a house placement but my chart is pretty devoid of air
What's your Rising?click to expand
Capricorn 😈
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SnowBunny726Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SnowBunny726Posted by LadyNeptune
I can’t remember if we are on year 7 or 8. Whatevs
3-4xs per week, give or take. I am happy with that amount. Always good to have some recovery time in between. I would be cool with like 1-2xs per week cause I enjoy my alone time 😉
Lol do you have any Aquarius placements in your chart? I forget.
None, I don’t think. Is Aquarius 7th house? Maybe I have a house placement but my chart is pretty devoid of air
What's your Rising?
Capricorn 😈click to expand
Aqua is your 2nd house ruler then unless that sign is skipped over lol
1-2 times a week is fine, in any style of relationship- FWB thru Marriage. I don't like it daily.
1 "time" can be at night and in the morning of the same 24 hour period, It's just counted as once. But I like that happening about twice a week.
Scorpio Venus
Leo Mars
1 "time" can be at night and in the morning of the same 24 hour period, It's just counted as once. But I like that happening about twice a week.
Scorpio Venus
Leo Mars
Posted by SnowBunny726Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SnowBunny726Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SnowBunny726Posted by LadyNeptune
I can’t remember if we are on year 7 or 8. Whatevs
3-4xs per week, give or take. I am happy with that amount. Always good to have some recovery time in between. I would be cool with like 1-2xs per week cause I enjoy my alone time 😉
Lol do you have any Aquarius placements in your chart? I forget.
None, I don’t think. Is Aquarius 7th house? Maybe I have a house placement but my chart is pretty devoid of air
What's your Rising?
Capricorn 😈
Aqua is your 2nd house ruler then unless that sign is skipped over lolclick to expand
Oh ok, idk why I thought Virgo ruled second house
Posted by Eyeroll
I like to refer to myself as a sex camel. 2-3x a month I like an entire production lasting hours with outfit changes and intermissions to rehydrate. I store those sessions in my sex hump.
Damn what?! What's your Venus and Mars placements?
Posted by alexscaries
Disappointed by the lack of sex threads on here in winter, but don't want to get accused as being the only one starting them.
If I'm single rotate partners a few times a month. It's feast or famine and I will go toe to toe with anyone who thinks it's easier for a hetero man to have sex than a woman. In a relationship aim to be doing something sexual everytime we meet.
Variety is more important than sex, but either way it's like filling an impossible void.
Aries/Scorpio
Impossible void
I got déjà vu when i read that
That was the spring, summer, autumn and winter of my discontent 😬
Posted by alexscaries
Disappointed by the lack of sex threads on here in winter, but don't want to get accused as being the only one starting them.
If I'm single rotate partners a few times a month. It's feast or famine and I will go toe to toe with anyone who thinks it's easier for a hetero man to have sex than a woman. In a relationship aim to be doing something sexual everytime we meet.
Variety is more important than sex, but either way it's like filling an impossible void.
Aries/Scorpio
I don't think it's easy at all. Woman are constantly saying no to offers, while men are constantly asking.
So you might as well take what you can get if you're single and want/need sex.
You can’t be dating within your race asking this. Hahaha!
Posted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88Posted by alexscaries
Disappointed by the lack of sex threads on here in winter, but don't want to get accused as being the only one starting them.
If I'm single rotate partners a few times a month. It's feast or famine and I will go toe to toe with anyone who thinks it's easier for a hetero man to have sex than a woman. In a relationship aim to be doing something sexual everytime we meet.
Variety is more important than sex, but either way it's like filling an impossible void.
Aries/Scorpio
I don't think it's easy at all. Woman are constantly saying no to offers, while men are constantly asking.
So you might as well take what you can get if you're single and want/need sex.
I've been told it at work by women "where are all the good men?" Some albeit very few expect a miracle while sat at home.
I have turned down two threesomes this year. That stung, but I wasn't well enough. Turned down one cos another offer came through. Missed what I think would have been a cracker cos I missed the message. It does work both ways, but I'm hardly busy, busy just enthusiastic.click to expand
People get into relationships everyday. Women asking where are the good men should look at the guys they are choosing.
And yes, I understand it goes both ways. Most men and women have to deal with their person having sex with exes, while they are dating.
There wasn't such a magnifying glass on sexual relationships while dating in the past, I'm not sure why it's so prevalent now.
It can ruin the possibility of going forward, if the date is worried about what's happened in the past.
Posted by alexscaries
Disappointed by the lack of sex threads on here in winter, but don't want to get accused as being the only one starting them.
If I'm single rotate partners a few times a month. It's feast or famine and I will go toe to toe with anyone who thinks it's easier for a hetero man to have sex than a woman. In a relationship aim to be doing something sexual everytime we meet.
Variety is more important than sex, but either way it's like filling an impossible void.
Aries/Scorpio
Why you Brits overcompensate with sex talk? Ugly people need more sex or something?
Gave it up for a while
Was beginning to walk with bandy legs
🥴😂😲
Was beginning to walk with bandy legs
🥴😂😲
Posted by alexscaries
Disappointed by the lack of sex threads on here in winter, but don't want to get accused as being the only one starting them.
If I'm single rotate partners a few times a month. It's feast or famine and I will go toe to toe with anyone who thinks it's easier for a hetero man to have sex than a woman. In a relationship aim to be doing something sexual everytime we meet.
Variety is more important than sex, but either way it's like filling an impossible void.
Aries/Scorpio
My ex Aries used to say ‘I am not relationship type’ every time we had an argument.
And I had to remind him that HE was the one who said ‘I want to make it work’ and I agreed but I wasn’t thinking actually becoming a family and me being a mother figure to his son…and every time I was asking WHY TF you asked me to BE in rship - he said because I fell for you…
So for FOUR years he was explaining to me how he is not a relationship material while having me in there full time…and when I said let’s go back to dating he said NO I want you HERE!
So dear Alex…I don’t know what to make of it but seems like you Rams need some arrangement that will suit your vision of relationship that will be convenient for you but as smart you are - it seems you can’t figure it out! Is this because when you actually feel for a person - you want to be together OR…I don’t know…WTF I’d IT?
Posted by saggurl88Posted by alexscaries
Disappointed by the lack of sex threads on here in winter, but don't want to get accused as being the only one starting them.
If I'm single rotate partners a few times a month. It's feast or famine and I will go toe to toe with anyone who thinks it's easier for a hetero man to have sex than a woman. In a relationship aim to be doing something sexual everytime we meet.
Variety is more important than sex, but either way it's like filling an impossible void.
Aries/Scorpio
I don't think it's easy at all. Woman are constantly saying no to offers, while men are constantly asking.
So you might as well take what you can get if you're single and want/need sex.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by alexscaries
Disappointed by the lack of sex threads on here in winter, but don't want to get accused as being the only one starting them.
If I'm single rotate partners a few times a month. It's feast or famine and I will go toe to toe with anyone who thinks it's easier for a hetero man to have sex than a woman. In a relationship aim to be doing something sexual everytime we meet.
Variety is more important than sex, but either way it's like filling an impossible void.
Aries/Scorpio
I don't think it's easy at all. Woman are constantly saying no to offers, while men are constantly asking.
So you might as well take what you can get if you're single and want/need sex.click to expand
I disagree about this statement because there are millions of women complaining about not being asked because they don’t have men approaching them for anything…they questioning their attractiveness, intelligence, sex appeal etc. Even online…some choose from many and some have nobody to choose from…
I am wondering where is this ‘idea’ of women have to snap fingers to get laid came from?
Is this really a sex appeal?
Is this the same for men? I say yes. In my case it is the main factor before anything. Sex appeal can vanish if man becomes a stupid asshole but initially it is sex appeal.
Posted by GenerousBalancePosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by saggurl88
I don't think it's easy at all. Woman are constantly saying no to offers, while men are constantly asking.
But sex is still more easily available for women (whether the proposals are desired or not is immaterial). That's the point.
For women it's hard to find a man who stays after sex.click to expand
I never experienced that…
Posted by GenerousBalancePosted by alexscariesPosted by GenerousBalancePosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by GenerousBalancePosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by GenerousBalancePosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by saggurl88
I don't think it's easy at all. Woman are constantly saying no to offers, while men are constantly asking.
But sex is still more easily available for women (whether the proposals are desired or not is immaterial). That's the point.
For women it's hard to find a man who stays after sex.
Maybe it's because most of you constantly make the wrong choices and ignore red flags.
Maybe because that's why most women say NO to offers, cause they know men tend to hit and run.
No, most women enjoy making men jump through hoops. It's an ego exercise for many.
Where have all the good men gone? They were always there but you either ignored them or they didn't satisfy every superficial requirement on your extremely long checklist.
Well I honestly believe good women wouldn't put men through hoops but again are good women that popular with men?
And yes I agree some women's standards are just ridiculous but it doesn't mean men are all angels and good men are everywhere.
What's a good woman, what's a good man? My point has got lost, but I didn't say so at the time but the woman who said that to me was just talking hot air, it's meaningless and a sympathy attempt.
Could you explain your point again?click to expand
That’s sad you asking so many questions and you don’t understand simple explanations. Maybe you should quit asking and start finding out yourself by ACTUALLY getting out and meet real people and live real life outside dxpnet?
Posted by GenerousBalancePosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by saggurl88
I don't think it's easy at all. Woman are constantly saying no to offers, while men are constantly asking.
But sex is still more easily available for women (whether the proposals are desired or not is immaterial). That's the point.
For women it's hard to find a man who stays after sex.click to expand
THATS your problem right there!
I had never had a man who had NOT stayed after sex.
YOU are frustrated because you can’t keep a man! Are you selfish in sex? Are you giving? Are you engaging with drunk men who didn’t really chose you if they were sober?
Got to be honest with yourself. Don’t post. Just be honest WITH…YOURSELF!
Posted by alexscariesPosted by GenerousBalancePosted by alexscariesPosted by GenerousBalancePosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by GenerousBalancePosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by GenerousBalancePosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by saggurl88
I don't think it's easy at all. Woman are constantly saying no to offers, while men are constantly asking.
But sex is still more easily available for women (whether the proposals are desired or not is immaterial). That's the point.
For women it's hard to find a man who stays after sex.
Maybe it's because most of you constantly make the wrong choices and ignore red flags.
Maybe because that's why most women say NO to offers, cause they know men tend to hit and run.
No, most women enjoy making men jump through hoops. It's an ego exercise for many.
Where have all the good men gone? They were always there but you either ignored them or they didn't satisfy every superficial requirement on your extremely long checklist.
Well I honestly believe good women wouldn't put men through hoops but again are good women that popular with men?
And yes I agree some women's standards are just ridiculous but it doesn't mean men are all angels and good men are everywhere.
What's a good woman, what's a good man? My point has got lost, but I didn't say so at the time but the woman who said that to me was just talking hot air, it's meaningless and a sympathy attempt.
Could you explain your point again?
The women who said "where are all the good men?" Wanted a one person pity parade while not being proactive in finding a relationship.click to expand
Good point. I didn’t think you had to explain but you did so I will add.
I love men. Except my ex Cap who wasn’t bad nor good - I can say MAYBE…just MAYBE…I had never been in wrong with men because I am alsways open and honest with men? I am also don’t engage with men I don’t like hoping they will change or I can change them and THEN like them? Maybe because I believe more then anything in physical attraction and do not bullshit myself about looks of my partner as many women do - ‘just to have one’ - 🤮
Life is not that complicated. YOU making it awful if you are acting stupid. And you do. I read it…here…and in other places. Yep! Sad.
And nobody admitting.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by GemiMayPosted by alexscaries
Disappointed by the lack of sex threads on here in winter, but don't want to get accused as being the only one starting them.
If I'm single rotate partners a few times a month. It's feast or famine and I will go toe to toe with anyone who thinks it's easier for a hetero man to have sex than a woman. In a relationship aim to be doing something sexual everytime we meet.
Variety is more important than sex, but either way it's like filling an impossible void.
Aries/Scorpio
My ex Aries used to say ‘I am not relationship type’ every time we had an argument.
And I had to remind him that HE was the one who said ‘I want to make it work’ and I agreed but I wasn’t thinking actually becoming a family and me being a mother figure to his son…and every time I was asking WHY TF you asked me to BE in rship - he said because I fell for you…
So for FOUR years he was explaining to me how he is not a relationship material while having me in there full time…and when I said let’s go back to dating he said NO I want you HERE!
So dear Alex…I don’t know what to make of it but seems like you Rams need some arrangement that will suit your vision of relationship that will be convenient for you but as smart you are - it seems you can’t figure it out! Is this because when you actually feel for a person - you want to be together OR…I don’t know…WTF I’d IT?
I've entered into a relationship without actively seeking one. I think sometimes the threat of leaving makes people cling harder.click to expand
You are? Now? Or in past?
Idk. I never threatening to leave. I hate artificial feelings based on fear or obligations or whatever…
Are you saying she said she will leave or you said it? 🤔
Posted by GenerousBalancePosted by GemiMayPosted by GenerousBalancePosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by saggurl88
I don't think it's easy at all. Woman are constantly saying no to offers, while men are constantly asking.
But sex is still more easily available for women (whether the proposals are desired or not is immaterial). That's the point.
For women it's hard to find a man who stays after sex.
THATS your problem right there!
I had never had a man who had NOT stayed after sex.
YOU are frustrated because you can’t keep a man! Are you selfish in sex? Are you giving? Are you engaging with drunk men who didn’t really chose you if they were sober?
Got to be honest with yourself. Don’t post. Just be honest WITH…YOURSELF!
Yeah that's all I do sleeping around with addicts and drunks and married men and beg them to stay because I'm very frustrated and lonely how did you know?!!click to expand
I don’t know anything about you but if you were smart you would understand that everything has reason and conclusions are made according to info person is supplying.
Info that YOU are supplying gives wide spectrum of assumptions.
Mostly because men DO stay after good sex.
Trust me. They do. Stay. Even married men stay. Or call back begging for more. Guilty! I know…but it’s not about me.
What you thrown into a forum - and you spoken for other women as well - is bullshit!
YOU NEED TO STOP BULLSHITTING based on your only experience and GET OUT and meet people! Dxp is NOT the whole world.
In a marriage 2-3x a week is good. Relationships depend. Typically every time you meet, and that might vary with the amount of time between meetings. In the past, it could be everyday, 2-3 times a week, or months for a LDR.
Currently single. I don’t need sex when not in a relationship. It’s the closest/intimacy/connection that makes me desire sex. I don’t like sex without it going somewhere. Which really means being picky about who I have sex with.
Cap venus & mars.
Currently single. I don’t need sex when not in a relationship. It’s the closest/intimacy/connection that makes me desire sex. I don’t like sex without it going somewhere. Which really means being picky about who I have sex with.
Cap venus & mars.
Posted by GenerousBalancePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GenerousBalancePosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by saggurl88
I don't think it's easy at all. Woman are constantly saying no to offers, while men are constantly asking.
But sex is still more easily available for women (whether the proposals are desired or not is immaterial). That's the point.
For women it's hard to find a man who stays after sex.
I never experienced that…
That's all I experience most of the time 😅click to expand
Maybe you’re choosing the wrong types of guys. Are you having sex quickly after meeting them?
Posted by GenerousBalancePosted by alexscariesPosted by GenerousBalancePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GenerousBalancePosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by saggurl88
I don't think it's easy at all. Woman are constantly saying no to offers, while men are constantly asking.
But sex is still more easily available for women (whether the proposals are desired or not is immaterial). That's the point.
For women it's hard to find a man who stays after sex.
I never experienced that…
That's all I experience most of the time 😅
Be great at sex and be interesting. Easy. When people have come round to my drum for sex they can have dinner and leave when they want. I say take advantage of my hospitality.
It's not the sex per se it's the type of men I attract and I'm attracted to, I take all my time before I sleep with someone and usually once we have that they get cold then they get hot and ask for it again and so on, and they usually do whatever it takes to get what they want took me a while to realize that pattern, and understand I have commitment issues, I choose those guys cause it won't lead anywhere anyways and stay single which is the safest choice, for now that's what I believe and I need to break this cycle, I'd say I want a good man and you'd say they're everywhere for me with my patterns I just don't know how to recognize one.click to expand
Maybe the hot & cold behavior is due to mixed messages due to the commitment issues? As someone who has struggled after divorce, some relationships but really unavailable people.. whether that meant emotionally or otherwise. I have experienced some of what you’re talking about, but mostly I intimidate guys who really aren’t a match for a relationship. Forcing one just doesn’t work because there’s always some issue that causes this. I know spending time alone working on things for myself was important. Lonely & desperate people don’t make good matches. There’s a lot of that out there. So it’s better to wait for something that’s right. But still you need to be out there where you can meet those people, or how else would you ever meet someone right? The big huge wall around us that chooses unavailable types is just going keep it that way. Opening up & risking hurt is the key. Single is safer of course.. but well you are lacking love which gets old at times.
I never understood the several times a day every day. Either you are having 2min fucks or the skin is peeling off the genitals from all that friction lol not sustainable.
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by saggurl88
I don't think it's easy at all. Woman are constantly saying no to offers, while men are constantly asking.
But sex is still more easily available for women (whether the proposals are desired or not is immaterial). That's the point.click to expand
True dat! You men will stick your penis in anything if you're horny enough! 😛
Posted by GenerousBalancePosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by saggurl88
I don't think it's easy at all. Woman are constantly saying no to offers, while men are constantly asking.
But sex is still more easily available for women (whether the proposals are desired or not is immaterial). That's the point.
For women it's hard to find a man who stays after sex.click to expand
There are numerous reasons for this, some men just want a quick romp, some men don't like the style of how a women has sex ( Star fish/dead fish) and some men realize they don't even like you once they've had sex with you. That's why it's good to build some sort of rapport and at least get a long with a guy before you have sex.
Chemistry is gone when you've given up sex and he's lost interest.
As a demisexual I think in long term relationships 1-2 times a week minimum is good, practical maintenance but I’m a strong supporter in every couple having their unique schedules as long as it works for both.
As many are aware, sex to me comes off extremely overrated and just another human primal instinct that should be easily controlled like the others (food, safety, etc). Some like using food as an outlet of deriving pleasure from, some like sex. That’s great. But it’s sooo easy to get this day and age. For both guys and girls. More than before. I would think that would make it lose some appeal but it doesn’t seem to. I was just thinking about Justin Beaver the other day. How he’s around my age and how he rose to fame and money so fast that it started fucking him up hard. DUI in fancy cars. Thankfully he hadn’t killed anyone. He had/has an INSANE amount of fan girls. Sickeningly could get any chick he wanted. But he ended up getting tired of all the easy access and ultimately settled down at the age of 24. That’s extremely young in and outside of Hollywood standards in today’s society. Many like making fun of marriage as a death sentence. He took it as a challenge to potentially better himself. It will be interesting to see how it fares for him in the future given how my generation has grown up with him.
I do see a lot of articles on there being more lonely people than ever supposedly. Many of the younger generations are very big about not settling down easily like their parents’ generations as they focus on their careers and financial independence foremost. Of course that’s naturally causing a decline in long term relationships. Especially committed ones like marriage. How will the woke, future generations affect the hookup culture? Stay tuned.
As many are aware, sex to me comes off extremely overrated and just another human primal instinct that should be easily controlled like the others (food, safety, etc). Some like using food as an outlet of deriving pleasure from, some like sex. That’s great. But it’s sooo easy to get this day and age. For both guys and girls. More than before. I would think that would make it lose some appeal but it doesn’t seem to. I was just thinking about Justin Beaver the other day. How he’s around my age and how he rose to fame and money so fast that it started fucking him up hard. DUI in fancy cars. Thankfully he hadn’t killed anyone. He had/has an INSANE amount of fan girls. Sickeningly could get any chick he wanted. But he ended up getting tired of all the easy access and ultimately settled down at the age of 24. That’s extremely young in and outside of Hollywood standards in today’s society. Many like making fun of marriage as a death sentence. He took it as a challenge to potentially better himself. It will be interesting to see how it fares for him in the future given how my generation has grown up with him.
I do see a lot of articles on there being more lonely people than ever supposedly. Many of the younger generations are very big about not settling down easily like their parents’ generations as they focus on their careers and financial independence foremost. Of course that’s naturally causing a decline in long term relationships. Especially committed ones like marriage. How will the woke, future generations affect the hookup culture? Stay tuned.
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by saggurl88Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by saggurl88
I don't think it's easy at all. Woman are constantly saying no to offers, while men are constantly asking.
But sex is still more easily available for women (whether the proposals are desired or not is immaterial). That's the point.
True dat! You men will stick your penis in anything if you're horny enough! 😛
https://i.imgur.com/9OzofWo.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand
Posted by Eyeroll
I like to refer to myself as a sex camel. 2-3x a month I like an entire production lasting hours with outfit changes and intermissions to rehydrate. I store those sessions in my sex hump.
^^^ lmao this!
I call it eating.
Have yet to find someone who can do hours again. Which I don't I ever will.
I can go weeks with GREAT sex Intamacy passion chemistry etc.
Otherwise twice a week would make me happy.
Need every 3-6 months before I get frustrated and start getting predatory.
Posted by ATGRPosted by SnowBunny726Posted by Eyeroll
I like to refer to myself as a sex camel. 2-3x a month I like an entire production lasting hours with outfit changes and intermissions to rehydrate. I store those sessions in my sex hump.
Damn what?! What's your Venus and Mars placements?
What’s your answer though?click to expand
5-7 days a week, in the pussy or the ass. If we go twice in 24 hours, I can have a break for the next 24 hours lol.
Virgo Venus
Libra Mars
Posted by Eyeroll
I like to refer to myself as a sex camel. 2-3x a month I like an entire production lasting hours with outfit changes and intermissions to rehydrate. I store those sessions in my sex hump.
😃
Posted by alexscariesPosted by GenerousBalancePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GenerousBalancePosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by saggurl88
I don't think it's easy at all. Woman are constantly saying no to offers, while men are constantly asking.
But sex is still more easily available for women (whether the proposals are desired or not is immaterial). That's the point.
For women it's hard to find a man who stays after sex.
I never experienced that…
That's all I experience most of the time 😅
Be great at sex and be interesting. Easy. When people have come round to my drum for sex they can have dinner and leave when they want. I say take advantage of my hospitality.click to expand
You MUST know that women and men do not know they are bad in bed. Not sure about women but men…if they tell you how unlucky they’re rship and you ask - how is sex - it is ALWAYS - ‘sex is good!’
And as many times I was telling them it can’t be good if she doesn’t want it!
He will keep insisting that it’s good…
Same with OP!
She says men run afyer sex and refusing to give it a benefits of the doubt. Well…🤷♀️…what we can do?
Posted by alexscariesPosted by SassyKiwi
As a demisexual I think in long term relationships 1-2 times a week minimum is good, practical maintenance but I’m a strong supporter in every couple having their unique schedules as long as it works for both.
As many are aware, sex to me comes off extremely overrated and just another human primal instinct that should be easily controlled like the others (food, safety, etc). Some like using food as an outlet of deriving pleasure from, some like sex. That’s great. But it’s sooo easy to get this day and age. For both guys and girls. More than before. I would think that would make it lose some appeal but it doesn’t seem to. I was just thinking about Justin Beaver the other day. How he’s around my age and how he rose to fame and money so fast that it started fucking him up hard. DUI in fancy cars. Thankfully he hadn’t killed anyone. He had/has an INSANE amount of fan girls. Sickeningly could get any chick he wanted. But he ended up getting tired of all the easy access and ultimately settled down at the age of 24. That’s extremely young in and outside of Hollywood standards in today’s society. Many like making fun of marriage as a death sentence. He took it as a challenge to potentially better himself. It will be interesting to see how it fares for him in the future given how my generation has grown up with him.
I do see a lot of articles on there being more lonely people than ever supposedly. Many of the younger generations are very big about not settling down easily like their parents’ generations as they focus on their careers and financial independence foremost. Of course that’s naturally causing a decline in long term relationships. Especially committed ones like marriage. How will the woke, future generations affect the hookup culture? Stay tuned.
Some people would say Bieber has kill people. How many unwanted teenage abortions?click to expand
Bruuuhh. But also imagine him popping ‘em out like Musk and Cannon…. *shudders*
Posted by GenerousBalancePosted by GemiMayPosted by GenerousBalancePosted by GemiMayPosted by GenerousBalancePosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by saggurl88
I don't think it's easy at all. Woman are constantly saying no to offers, while men are constantly asking.
But sex is still more easily available for women (whether the proposals are desired or not is immaterial). That's the point.
For women it's hard to find a man who stays after sex.
THATS your problem right there!
I had never had a man who had NOT stayed after sex.
YOU are frustrated because you can’t keep a man! Are you selfish in sex? Are you giving? Are you engaging with drunk men who didn’t really chose you if they were sober?
Got to be honest with yourself. Don’t post. Just be honest WITH…YOURSELF!
Yeah that's all I do sleeping around with addicts and drunks and married men and beg them to stay because I'm very frustrated and lonely how did you know?!!
I don’t know anything about you but if you were smart you would understand that everything has reason and conclusions are made according to info person is supplying.
Info that YOU are supplying gives wide spectrum of assumptions.
Mostly because men DO stay after good sex.
Trust me. They do. Stay. Even married men stay. Or call back begging for more. Guilty! I know…but it’s not about me.
What you thrown into a forum - and you spoken for other women as well - is bullshit!
YOU NEED TO STOP BULLSHITTING based on your only experience and GET OUT and meet people! Dxp is NOT the whole world.
Yeah I also suck at sex I just lay there and do nth, they do all the work, I don't even know how to spread my own legs they do it for me, and DXP is the whole world for me rn cause I don't have a man IRL but I know someone does and they're still here.
Youclick to expand
Yep! I am here because my job permits me to use my phone.
YOU are here invested. I am fighting boredom.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by alexscariesPosted by SassyKiwi
As a demisexual I think in long term relationships 1-2 times a week minimum is good, practical maintenance but I’m a strong supporter in every couple having their unique schedules as long as it works for both.
As many are aware, sex to me comes off extremely overrated and just another human primal instinct that should be easily controlled like the others (food, safety, etc). Some like using food as an outlet of deriving pleasure from, some like sex. That’s great. But it’s sooo easy to get this day and age. For both guys and girls. More than before. I would think that would make it lose some appeal but it doesn’t seem to. I was just thinking about Justin Beaver the other day. How he’s around my age and how he rose to fame and money so fast that it started fucking him up hard. DUI in fancy cars. Thankfully he hadn’t killed anyone. He had/has an INSANE amount of fan girls. Sickeningly could get any chick he wanted. But he ended up getting tired of all the easy access and ultimately settled down at the age of 24. That’s extremely young in and outside of Hollywood standards in today’s society. Many like making fun of marriage as a death sentence. He took it as a challenge to potentially better himself. It will be interesting to see how it fares for him in the future given how my generation has grown up with him.
I do see a lot of articles on there being more lonely people than ever supposedly. Many of the younger generations are very big about not settling down easily like their parents’ generations as they focus on their careers and financial independence foremost. Of course that’s naturally causing a decline in long term relationships. Especially committed ones like marriage. How will the woke, future generations affect the hookup culture? Stay tuned.
Some people would say Bieber has kill people. How many unwanted teenage abortions?
Bruuuhh. But also imagine him popping ‘em out like Musk and Cannon…. *shudders*
It's true, paid them hush money.click to expand
So did Trump but people still voted him in to be one of the most powerful world leaders. Unfortunately our nation is built on that shit. I too wish for guys like Keanu Reeves to be our president but nice guys finish last? Lol 🙄
Posted by alexscariesPosted by SassyKiwi
As a demisexual I think in long term relationships 1-2 times a week minimum is good, practical maintenance but I’m a strong supporter in every couple having their unique schedules as long as it works for both.
As many are aware, sex to me comes off extremely overrated and just another human primal instinct that should be easily controlled like the others (food, safety, etc). Some like using food as an outlet of deriving pleasure from, some like sex. That’s great. But it’s sooo easy to get this day and age. For both guys and girls. More than before. I would think that would make it lose some appeal but it doesn’t seem to. I was just thinking about Justin Beaver the other day. How he’s around my age and how he rose to fame and money so fast that it started fucking him up hard. DUI in fancy cars. Thankfully he hadn’t killed anyone. He had/has an INSANE amount of fan girls. Sickeningly could get any chick he wanted. But he ended up getting tired of all the easy access and ultimately settled down at the age of 24. That’s extremely young in and outside of Hollywood standards in today’s society. Many like making fun of marriage as a death sentence. He took it as a challenge to potentially better himself. It will be interesting to see how it fares for him in the future given how my generation has grown up with him.
I do see a lot of articles on there being more lonely people than ever supposedly. Many of the younger generations are very big about not settling down easily like their parents’ generations as they focus on their careers and financial independence foremost. Of course that’s naturally causing a decline in long term relationships. Especially committed ones like marriage. How will the woke, future generations affect the hookup culture? Stay tuned.
The hookup culture has been around forever. It's just the style that changes there was swingers parties in the 70s and before that so-called free love with Hippies and loads of people dod drunken ONS before and after.
The real issue is how people interact. People work longer hours especially with travel some people do nearly 14 hour days. You could say hobbies are so immersive and arguably more solitarily than ever but I don't. With something like videogames you could argue the early 00s was the last era people played them together in a room. Or with films it became more of a group activity with rentals or cinema trips, now I think even families watch different things in different rooms.click to expand
I forget if you’re from the US or Europe lol. In the US the concept of work/life balance is like nonexistent. People are constantly encouraged to overwork. It’s disgusting. No other nation compares to ours. This is very openly represented in our nation’s lack of decent family leaves. It’s shocking and extremely eye opening how other countries can accommodate family leaves of 6 months or more! Whereas in the US you’re lucky if you even get offered 8 weeks… this stuff also has great social impact on the already isolated direction we’re all heading.
Not too long ago they locally shut down a sex robot business from opening but would it have helped decrease our city’s huge human trafficking issues?
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by GenerousBalancePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GenerousBalancePosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by saggurl88
I don't think it's easy at all. Woman are constantly saying no to offers, while men are constantly asking.
But sex is still more easily available for women (whether the proposals are desired or not is immaterial). That's the point.
For women it's hard to find a man who stays after sex.
I never experienced that…
That's all I experience most of the time 😅
Maybe you’re choosing the wrong types of guys. Are you having sex quickly after meeting them?click to expand
And it’s after she ACTUALLY SAID
It's not the sex per se it's the type of men I attract and I'm attracted to, I take all my time before I sleep with someone—
Do you READ or you are too good for that?
Posted by DragonSagPosted by GenerousBalancePosted by alexscariesPosted by GenerousBalancePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GenerousBalancePosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by saggurl88
I don't think it's easy at all. Woman are constantly saying no to offers, while men are constantly asking.
But sex is still more easily available for women (whether the proposals are desired or not is immaterial). That's the point.
For women it's hard to find a man who stays after sex.
I never experienced that…
That's all I experience most of the time 😅
Be great at sex and be interesting. Easy. When people have come round to my drum for sex they can have dinner and leave when they want. I say take advantage of my hospitality.
It's not the sex per se it's the type of men I attract and I'm attracted to, I take all my time before I sleep with someone and usually once we have that they get cold then they get hot and ask for it again and so on, and they usually do whatever it takes to get what they want took me a while to realize that pattern, and understand I have commitment issues, I choose those guys cause it won't lead anywhere anyways and stay single which is the safest choice, for now that's what I believe and I need to break this cycle, I'd say I want a good man and you'd say they're everywhere for me with my patterns I just don't know how to recognize one.
Please take this as no offense cause I really don't mesn it that way - when someone enjoys sex with someone, would they really leave and not call again? No. The answer is always no. Even if they don't want a rs with you, if sex was great, believe me, they WILL call you again and do whatever it takes to get it again. Men don't walk away from great sex, it's very simple concept. So you should analyze what goes wrong in your sexual encounters cause what you're describing has nothing to do with type of people you attract/are attracted to, that's just an excuse not to dig deeper, it has everything to do with sex as an act itself. As someone wrote before, women get easier access to sex in general, be it good or bad it's that way usually. So if men has great sex with someone there is no chance in the world that he will miss the opportunity of getting it again.click to expand
THANK YOU VERY MUCH!
I said that exactly thing and she dismissed it saying that she is great!
And I am sure people who aren’t good - do NOT know and do not accept criticism.
Posted by LadyNeptune
I never understood the several times a day every day. Either you are having 2min fucks or the skin is peeling off the genitals from all that friction lol not sustainable.
OMG! You are dry AF because you aren’t turned ON!!! I HAD to open this Pandora box! I can’t…I HAD TO!
Posted by GemiMayPosted by LadyNeptune
I never understood the several times a day every day. Either you are having 2min fucks or the skin is peeling off the genitals from all that friction lol not sustainable.
OMG! You are dry AF because you aren’t turned ON!!! I HAD to open this Pandora box! I can’t…I HAD TO!click to expand
Who said anything about dry? 🤔 Best to keep that self report to yourself
Posted by saggurl88Posted by GenerousBalancePosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by saggurl88
I don't think it's easy at all. Woman are constantly saying no to offers, while men are constantly asking.
But sex is still more easily available for women (whether the proposals are desired or not is immaterial). That's the point.
For women it's hard to find a man who stays after sex.
There are numerous reasons for this, some men just want a quick romp, some men don't like the style of how a women has sex ( Star fish/dead fish) and some men realize they don't even like you once they've had sex with you. That's why it's good to build some sort of rapport and at least get a long with a guy before you have sex.
Chemistry is gone when you've given up sex and he's lost interest.click to expand
I am SO happy you saying it because if I did - it would be a horror and fights and shit…
And I attest you are 100% right!
Men DO have their ways. They all are different despite what had been told about them.
They DO stick anywhere BUT it’s quicky or one night stand as @GeneralBalance is.
They don’t NEED chemistry for one time!
However when they DO enjoy sex they had - they will be back for more even if it’s just another one time and more often than we know - good sec is turning into rship because men also secretly get addicted to good sex…
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemiMayPosted by LadyNeptune
I never understood the several times a day every day. Either you are having 2min fucks or the skin is peeling off the genitals from all that friction lol not sustainable.
OMG! You are dry AF because you aren’t turned ON!!! I HAD to open this Pandora box! I can’t…I HAD TO!
Who said anything about dry? 🤔 Best to keep that self report to yourselfclick to expand
Because if you are not dry - have sex ALL DAY and skin won’t get harmed AT ALL!!!
Poor baby…now I am feeling bad for being mean to you…you just never satisfied. 🤦♀️🤷♀️🤔🙄
Posted by GemiMayPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemiMayPosted by LadyNeptune
I never understood the several times a day every day. Either you are having 2min fucks or the skin is peeling off the genitals from all that friction lol not sustainable.
OMG! You are dry AF because you aren’t turned ON!!! I HAD to open this Pandora box! I can’t…I HAD TO!
Who said anything about dry? 🤔 Best to keep that self report to yourself
Because if you are not dry - have sex ALL DAY and skin won’t get harmed AT ALL!!!
Poor baby…now I am feeling bad for being mean to you…you just never satisfied. 🤦♀️🤷♀️🤔🙄click to expand
Bruh speak for yourself. I can't fuck for 24 hrs and not feel sore. RIP gemithoti's pussy, like hotdogs down a hallway. Talk with your doctor asap cause that ain't normal.
Posted by GenerousBalancePosted by GemiMayPosted by DragonSagPosted by GenerousBalancePosted by alexscariesPosted by GenerousBalancePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GenerousBalancePosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by saggurl88
I don't think it's easy at all. Woman are constantly saying no to offers, while men are constantly asking.
But sex is still more easily available for women (whether the proposals are desired or not is immaterial). That's the point.
For women it's hard to find a man who stays after sex.
I never experienced that…
That's all I experience most of the time 😅
Be great at sex and be interesting. Easy. When people have come round to my drum for sex they can have dinner and leave when they want. I say take advantage of my hospitality.
It's not the sex per se it's the type of men I attract and I'm attracted to, I take all my time before I sleep with someone and usually once we have that they get cold then they get hot and ask for it again and so on, and they usually do whatever it takes to get what they want took me a while to realize that pattern, and understand I have commitment issues, I choose those guys cause it won't lead anywhere anyways and stay single which is the safest choice, for now that's what I believe and I need to break this cycle, I'd say I want a good man and you'd say they're everywhere for me with my patterns I just don't know how to recognize one.
Please take this as no offense cause I really don't mesn it that way - when someone enjoys sex with someone, would they really leave and not call again? No. The answer is always no. Even if they don't want a rs with you, if sex was great, believe me, they WILL call you again and do whatever it takes to get it again. Men don't walk away from great sex, it's very simple concept. So you should analyze what goes wrong in your sexual encounters cause what you're describing has nothing to do with type of people you attract/are attracted to, that's just an excuse not to dig deeper, it has everything to do with sex as an act itself. As someone wrote before, women get easier access to sex in general, be it good or bad it's that way usually. So if men has great sex with someone there is no chance in the world that he will miss the opportunity of getting it again.
THANK YOU VERY MUCH!
I said that exactly thing and she dismissed it saying that she is great!
And I am sure people who aren’t good - do NOT know and do not accept criticism.
I'M BAD AT SEX
do you feel better now about yourself? Why are you so obsessed with me?click to expand
Because if you realized that (and I am NOT the only one who said that to you) - you CAN become GOOD by asking men or watch porn or go to sex therapist - and you will become GOOD! And happy! 👍
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