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@Soul
11 Years10,000+ Posts

So far 5 pounds down, and cut my alcohol consumption in half. I've also realized I need to stop feeling so odd and out of place in public. Like I'm finally starting to feel happy being around people again. I'm taking slow steps at everything, but exercising and adding healthy foods to my life is changing the way I view things. My entire life was nothing but an unorganized chaotic mess, and I'm finally standing up and organizing the clutter. Like it was to the point I literally couldn't even look at myself in the mirror, but then someone forced me. They showed me at my worst, with my picture attached forcing me to actually see myself. Its literally changed my life for the best. They weren't afraid to show me the actual me. I'm actually grateful, and getting my shit together. It's almost like a darkness was lifted off my spirit.

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@LostinmyMind11
15 Years10,000+ Posts

For someone who doesn't give a fuck...why do I have anxiety?! It's been really bad...twice almost full panic attacks. Blood pressure through the roof...doc clocked it at 191/102. I was finally feeling normal and then outta no where...it hits me again today at work. Like I already did this dance and beat it...tf man. I just wanna sleep til it's over. I'm tired 😭

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@Jumpin_Jupiter
7 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Soul
So far 5 pounds down, and cut my alcohol consumption in half. I've also realized I need to stop feeling so odd and out of place in public. Like I'm finally starting to feel happy being around people again. I'm taking slow steps at everything, but exercising and adding healthy foods to my life is changing the way I view things. My entire life was nothing but an unorganized chaotic mess, and I'm finally standing up and organizing the clutter. Like it was to the point I literally couldn't even look at myself in the mirror, but then someone forced me. They showed me at my worst, with my picture attached forcing me to actually see myself. Its literally changed my life for the best. They weren't afraid to show me the actual me. I'm actually grateful, and getting my shit together. It's almost like a darkness was lifted off my spirit.

Dude don't do this for people do this for yourself. The hell with people. You exercising to lose weight for people automatically puts you in that people's person category. And that's the kind of thing I strongly dislike in people. I would never change the way I look even if someone post my picture for all to see. I don't post my picture anyway, I wanna keep staying anonymous. Anybody care to see me just come to south Carolina. Now I don't have to hide my state.

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@xxAjuxx
5 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by LostinmyMind11
For someone who doesn't give a fuck...why do I have anxiety?! It's been really bad...twice almost full panic attacks. Blood pressure through the roof...doc clocked it at 191/102. I was finally feeling normal and then outta no where...it hits me again today at work. Like I already did this dance and beat it...tf man. I just wanna sleep til it's over. I'm tired 😭

I hope you're doing better now.

I deal with this too.

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@VenusAquarius
14 Years10,000+ Posts

I wanted to test the popular statement that you have to have cardio to lose tummy. I love cardio and wanted to test it out to see if I could lose tummy just working on core-centric exercises. So far, so good.

Also read this great article about lifting weights. Don't know if it's accurate or not but it's encouraging me to lift heavier weights. It says,

"You can use light weights to build muscle, but it will only work if you lift those weights to failure. You can also get stronger by lifting heavy weights. If you lift heavy weights, you don’t need to go as close to failure to get results.

Even if you do lift light weights to failure, you’ll need to lift more and more to continue making progress. Either way, you’ll eventually need to lift heavy weights."

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@SeaLion
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by SeaLion

Posted by MyStarsShine
Moving house today
How can one (Taurus moon) woman have so much stuff?
Aaahh yes that’d be Taurus 🌝

Try being a Leo. Never enough closet space!

😄

Mine isn’t clothes - it’s stuff, loads of it ….I’m now cursing Amazon 😂🥴

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Clothes aren't the only thing that goes in closets 😂😭

Amazon and the pandemic did not help the situation. I've brought stuff to the shelters and goodwill... never seems to make a dent.

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@hydorah
13 Years10,000+ PostsPisces

dey dun know nothing

I'm seeing you hoe ass goofs

wouldn't last hours in a jail fr fr

with nigg@s pointing their gun in yo face

too many mama ass boys on here

they told me the 33rd level secrets

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@LostinmyMind11
15 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Bumboklaat

Posted by LostinmyMind11
For someone who doesn't give a fuck...why do I have anxiety?! It's been really bad...twice almost full panic attacks. Blood pressure through the roof...doc clocked it at 191/102. I was finally feeling normal and then outta no where...it hits me again today at work. Like I already did this dance and beat it...tf man. I just wanna sleep til it's over. I'm tired 😭

I can't say for sure but I've noticed people who say they don't care are usually the ones that care the most, it's like the acknowledgement of care alone sets you up to care.

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I mean obviously I care about things but mostly overall no fucks given anymore.

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@LostinmyMind11
15 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by LostinmyMind11
For someone who doesn't give a fuck...why do I have anxiety?! It's been really bad...twice almost full panic attacks. Blood pressure through the roof...doc clocked it at 191/102. I was finally feeling normal and then outta no where...it hits me again today at work. Like I already did this dance and beat it...tf man. I just wanna sleep til it's over. I'm tired 😭

I hope you're doing better now.

I deal with this too.

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I feel a little better this morning but we shall see how the day goes. I'm sorry you deal with it as well 🫂🖤

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@MyStarsShine
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by SeaLion

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by SeaLion

Posted by MyStarsShine
Moving house today
How can one (Taurus moon) woman have so much stuff?
Aaahh yes that’d be Taurus 🌝

Try being a Leo. Never enough closet space!

😄

Mine isn’t clothes - it’s stuff, loads of it ….I’m now cursing Amazon 😂🥴
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Clothes aren't the only thing that goes in closets 😂😭

Amazon and the pandemic did not help the situation. I've brought stuff to the shelters and goodwill... never seems to make a dent.

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The exact words I used “never seems to make a dent”

It’s the only vice i have but it’s still not healthy. I read that people who lose people tend to gather too much stuff 🙋‍♀️

Therapy I think 😂

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@VenusAquarius
14 Years10,000+ Posts

So far, I can hold plank for two minutes.

I started videotaping myself to make sure I am using good form. So, that's what I'm doing today... a hold plank marathon... cause plank works a whole lot of muscle. I'm used to jumping around doing aerobics which is good for heart and lungs and I'll get back to it. Just want to focus on static abdominal poses to burn through that inner deep fat... see what it does for skin... see what it does for force. Focusing on abs has given me more power.

That's the one thing about not having a trainer, someone to check your form. But, videoing yourself you can rewind and see what you need to work on... especially with yoga. I check my T-stand and make sure it looks like a perfect T. Cause I want the side body trimmy, trim, trim too.

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@VenusAquarius
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by xyzabc
Nephew finally made his entrance this morning. 6 pounds and 11 ounces. 🩵

Sun Pisces 12°27'

Moon Scorpio 29°28'

Mercury Pisces 15°16'

Venus Aquarius 18°25'

Mars Aquarius 14°07'

Jupiter Taurus 11°35'

Saturn Pisces 10°06'

Uranus Taurus 19°38'

Neptune Pisces 26°50'

Pluto Aquarius 1°24'

Lilith Virgo 16°43'

N Node Aries 16°10'

Congratulations Auntie!

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@MyStarsShine
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by xyzabc
Nephew finally made his entrance this morning. 6 pounds and 11 ounces. 🩵

Sun Pisces 12°27'

Moon Scorpio 29°28'

Mercury Pisces 15°16'

Venus Aquarius 18°25'

Mars Aquarius 14°07'

Jupiter Taurus 11°35'

Saturn Pisces 10°06'

Uranus Taurus 19°38'

Neptune Pisces 26°50'

Pluto Aquarius 1°24'

Lilith Virgo 16°43'

N Node Aries 16°10'

Congrats to you and family ❤️ 🎉 👶

Interesting chart 🐟

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@MyStarsShine
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by xyzabc

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by xyzabc
Nephew finally made his entrance this morning. 6 pounds and 11 ounces. 🩵
Sun Pisces 12°27'
Moon Scorpio 29°28'
Mercury Pisces 15°16'
Venus Aquarius 18°25'
Mars Aquarius 14°07'
Jupiter Taurus 11°35'
Saturn Pisces 10°06'
Uranus Taurus 19°38'
Neptune Pisces 26°50'
Pluto Aquarius 1°24'
Lilith Virgo 16°43'
N Node Aries 16°10'

Congrats to you and family ❤️ 🎉 👶
Interesting chart 🐟
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Thank you! He has such beautiful blue eyes! 🩵

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Awwwww sweet 🩵

Any names yet?

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@borednbeautiful
4 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by MyStarsShine
Is the front page down again or is it just me? 🙃

I’d a Libra friend who was so desperate to be an “us” (at any price), it cost her the friendship with me. So desperate to be in a couple 😬🥴

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Yeah! It’s such a turn off!

Then they look down at the rest of us or constantly ask “sooo any news, any dates”

No thanks. I don’t even need a friendship from those types of people. I hope I never become one of them 🥴

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@MyStarsShine
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by xyzabc

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by xyzabc

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by xyzabc
Nephew finally made his entrance this morning. 6 pounds and 11 ounces. 🩵
Sun Pisces 12°27'
Moon Scorpio 29°28'
Mercury Pisces 15°16'
Venus Aquarius 18°25'
Mars Aquarius 14°07'
Jupiter Taurus 11°35'
Saturn Pisces 10°06'
Uranus Taurus 19°38'
Neptune Pisces 26°50'
Pluto Aquarius 1°24'
Lilith Virgo 16°43'
N Node Aries 16°10'

Congrats to you and family ❤️ 🎉 👶
Interesting chart 🐟
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Thank you! He has such beautiful blue eyes! 🩵

Awwwww sweet 🩵

Any names yet?
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Wyatt Noah 🩵🩵🩵

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😘

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@MyStarsShine
10 Years25,000+ Posts

I had to drive to the Airbnb tonight after spending the eve with son and dad. I have a fear of wind turbines and there’s a group of them next to the house. Seeing as it was dark i hoped I wouldn’t see them😩and then son says they grow at night, glow and walk 😂

So I drove down very dark country lanes and saw them, just faint red lights and they actually looked nice like fairy lights.

I have to stop making up stories that scare the shite out of me🤣

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@Soul
11 Years10,000+ Posts

I can only imagine why the comment section is broken.

I've been saying this for years, eventually specific members will ruin it for everyone. I'll admit, I've started a shit storm or two, but never post people's pictures or posts as a form of trolling. That's some weak ass bitch shit imo. For me its in the moment right here right now. At the same time I've never reported a single person that has used my picture, or cropped my own post. It's like I've posted my picture publicly already, and posted my post publicly already. Putting them together means nothing, and is some mental illness shit. I'll be honest, when I make a post where I'm boasting, prideful, or egotistical l, that is literally me pretending. It's like I'm playing a role. Soul, in most cases, is a different character then my actual self. When people take Soul seriously I find that shit funny as fuck, won't lie. When they think they actually matter to the real me, that is even funnier. Especially when they blow up the front page with photos of me cropped with posts I made. Like the shit is already public, and my RP of Soul doesn't care. If the real me cared, I wouldn't post in the first place.

I could be wrong, but I think they are updating the front page to make it work better, and make it harder for members that take things a little too seriously to show their 40 shades of mental illness.

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@RollergirlOrc
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Wow. I can't believe it . I mean, asked a question on Facebook about how to learn to accept being fat (my hair looks good anyway. and I have a skinny face) but like, this video is a godsend

I swear, I thought homegirl was going to stay brown though 😁

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@Rimzy
3 Years

It’s probably intentionally down because the level of fuckery in the comment section borderlines on a serious need for therapy - for a few users who use it as a podium to act out their fantasy scenarios.

Duncan prolly just wants you to have a nice weekend and go outside and feel air.

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@MyStarsShine
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Nightcap-

Posted by AquaClassy
I have this problem that I give and expect for return but doesn’t get it. I’m always thinking how to stop being disappointed. Any tips?

Keep your expectations low. Humans are 98.6% identical to chimpanzees 🐒

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True

My ex said to expect nothing from people and then if you do receive something, it’s a bonus

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