My Pisces man is flirting online

have a previous post about my pisces man. I found out last night that he has been flirting with other women online. No physical contact was made “yet”. I am so heart broken right now. I never expected this from him. When i asked him about it. He said it was nothing and he was just feeling bored. He said he knows its wrong. And that he feels sssshhhttt about it. I think he has depression symptoms because he said he was feeling empty as a person. He also knows its his fault and that he has hurt me. He is asking me for another chance to make it work in our relationship. Right now i am so confused and i dont know what to do. I love him so much and i would want to make it work. But im still in the stage where im processing what happened. We are living together and i want to move out immediately. Ive been crying the whole night and day. I dont want to lose him but i dont want to keep hurting myself even more. What should i do? Should i just leave him? Can you help me? Please tell me your inputs. I want to know if theres still a chance or if i should just be brave and move on with my life. Im so lost.

Couldn’t be me but you have to live with your own decisions

Gave him one more chance, because maybe he still immature, did not know what kind of effect his act did on you, but now he understand/learn about it he will change, but if he still do it then its not immature but he just a cheater and a liar, find another one.

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Pisces here 🙋

how long have you two been together?

has he done this before?

Both maybe should go over this and lay some rules down

in order for the relationship to continue?

This does not have to be the end

Almost a year. This is the first time im learning about it. He deletes the messenger app everytime. They have been talking inconsistently since june. With months of breaks then talking again.

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Pisces here 🙋

how long have you two been together?

has he done this before?

Both maybe should go over this and lay some rules down

in order for the relationship to continue?

This does not have to be the end

Almost a year. This is the first time im learning about it. He deletes the messenger app everytime. They have been talking inconsistently since june. With months of breaks then talking again.

okay so for almost a year..

I would say that at this stage that

not only are you two still learning about

each other, which is never ending, but also still learning about what can be accepted

for this relationship to grow and continue. It's inevitable in my opinion at this stage for

*more* slip ups as you two are still in the dark on many levels about each other AND the relationship.

Yeah, flirting may seem like a no brainer thing not to do but many people especially those under the pisces sun (in general)

can be flirts by nature just to be nice; it isn't always some form of connection that shows they are into the person

romantically or even sexually. So, depending on the level of flirting and how long he knew this person can give

you an idea, a huge clue, as to what his mindset is. Is this an old friend that he knew before you or is this someone who he started talking to after you two started?

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Its just a randon girl online. He said he wasnt really thinking because to him its meaningless since they dont actually know each other. And everyone lies on cyberspace. I also found out that he did it to fulfill his foot fetish fantasies.

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Posted by Aju-

Pisces here 🙋

how long have you two been together?

has he done this before?

Both maybe should go over this and lay some rules down

in order for the relationship to continue?

This does not have to be the end

Almost a year. This is the first time im learning about it. He deletes the messenger app everytime. They have been talking inconsistently since june. With months of breaks then talking again.

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6 months— Red flag!!!

Leave, he needs to prove to you that he wants you. If you stay, he’ll think he’s got off lightly and just needs to be more cautious and he will. He also needs to understand that his actions should they continue will mean he loses you.

Posted by LuxePurr

If this is just a short term thing then give him a chance.

Personally I would walk away because I wouldn't want to be with someone whose solution for boredom is chatting up chicks online. What's next? Him suggesting an open relationship? Cheating? Meh. Not worth the stress and my time.

i broke things off with him, i need time to heal and clear my head. im really hurting and i cant accept what happen yet, he said he didnt want to break up but he knows why i had to. He asked if we can still be friends. But i dont think i can go on with just being friends, i really really love him too much

Don't believe people's words, watch their actions... it's as simple as that.... If your partners flirts with others it simply means he's not that into you, if he had that desire, he would be into you , showing that attention to you and flirt with you, not with other woman. Also if you're in relationship, you should have standards and behaviour your don't tolerate, set your boundaries. Don't say you need to do this, or that. Simply say Boyfriends who have girlfriends don't flirt with other women, and i won't tolerate that. You don't have to say what he has to do, just state your boundary and watch hi's actions, if he cares enough, he'll respect that, if not, you'll know what to do, if you didn't mention this boundary before he simply might not have thought about it, but at the same time, it's a clear sign he's not that into you

I am an Aries woman that has been with a Pisces man for 5 years. We were so in love and both of us happy. About 6 months in , I caught him cheating. I was devastated. Crushed. We broke up and got back together about 2 weeks later. He was good for another year, we had moved in together. I found out he had cheated again. He denied it, and the next year, I caught him cheating with the girl he first cheated on me with. And then he cheated with his ex wife. Now this fall I found disgusting text messages between him and his ex. I’m done. I should have been done 4 years ago the first time. All the times in between are great. He’s amazing. I think he needs attention and stroke his ego. He has also been talking to another woman for months. I ask him to stop because she is basically throwing her self at him. Shouldn’t have to ask him to quit entertaining other women!! You get what you accept and if you accept this behavior, it will show back up!

i had this pisces co-worker who'd go around flirting with every girl he thought was pretty

still lived with his ex-wife and their child together

only a sag girl gives him the time of day coz she likes the attention

don't trust men that any girl can get if she throws herself at him enough

(not that there aren't trustworthy pisces men, just that they're rare creatures lol)

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If this is just a short term thing then give him a chance.

Personally I would walk away because I wouldn't want to be with someone whose solution for boredom is chatting up chicks online. What's next? Him suggesting an open relationship? Cheating? Meh. Not worth the stress and my time.

i broke things off with him, i need time to heal and clear my head. im really hurting and i cant accept what happen yet, he said he didnt want to break up but he knows why i had to. He asked if we can still be friends. But i dont think i can go on with just being friends, i really really love him too much

If u love him, please don't leave him. Flirting isn't wrong, cheating is. If he cheated, then leave. If he just flirted, and giving you further assurance that he won't believe. If you don't trust him, he also will think things that he may be really an untrustable person

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I really love him so much. But i though to myself. If i didnt leave he will think its okay. That what he did was okay. I somehow regret leaving him because i also know that he is going thru a dark phase. I feel so guilty but he broke my heart. He was flirting and it means nothing because he doesnt even know who he was talking to (for now) they have been talking about meeting up a long time now. But never happened (yet). He said if he wanted to meet that woman he would have already a long time ago. It just hurts so much and i feel betrayed. He sent me a text last night.



I’m so sorry !!!! For everything! You are so good always. Always good to me , take car to me . I’m really appreciate it! You are good enough to me . But I’m just weird and freak, I feel shame and hate myself,I don’t know myself, I don’t know how to be love , I’m not deserve you love , I have lot questions myself too , I have a lot of pressure , I don’t know how to opening. I don’t know why I’m like that . I just want say sorry . Sorry again！ I hope you are well , hope you to be happy . You always right. You teaching me a lot ! I will miss you !

Blah.... that's a horrible text! He's not even trying to keep you and make it right, just turned it into his issues, his feelings and his inadequacies. Nothing weird or freakish about having a foot fetish, so what? It could have been fun for both of you.

Now he'll go cry to the other girl about how terrible he is so she can swoop in and comfort him.

The self depreciating, martyrdom of Pisces men is something only air signs can handle

Shit that’s a hard one because you want there to be trust in your relationship. Can you trust him not to meet anyone in person? I get that flirting at all with someone else doesn’t feel good, but some people are just flirts. If you can accept that about him and trust he won’t take it any further, you can continue with the relationship as long as it brings you joy. If it’s just fucking you up inside too much, best to let it go. You never know, he could care enough about you to figure it out with you. But love is compromise and it should never be one sided. If you’re both not giving it your all, why continue on? Idk, I tend to want to make things work but I also often get myself badly hurt that way. It’s all about your mindset. Can you be happy with him as he is? If the answer is no, why continue the pain? Moving on might give you some clarity. Nothing is permanent in life and you have to make decisions that bring you the most happiness in the one you get.

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I am an Aries woman that has been with a Pisces man for 5 years. We were so in love and both of us happy. About 6 months in , I caught him cheating. I was devastated. Crushed. We broke up and got back together about 2 weeks later. He was good for another year, we had moved in together. I found out he had cheated again. He denied it, and the next year, I caught him cheating with the girl he first cheated on me with. And then he cheated with his ex wife. Now this fall I found disgusting text messages between him and his ex. I’m done. I should have been done 4 years ago the first time. All the times in between are great. He’s amazing. I think he needs attention and stroke his ego. He has also been talking to another woman for months. I ask him to stop because she is basically throwing her self at him. Shouldn’t have to ask him to quit entertaining other women!! You get what you accept and if you accept this behavior, it will show back up!

This.

Cautionary Tale

The stress we choose we really don’t have to choose.

What if I told you that you don’t have to accept bad behavior?

You have another option...yourself

And yourself IS good enough

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I am an Aries woman that has been with a Pisces man for 5 years. We were so in love and both of us happy. About 6 months in , I caught him cheating. I was devastated. Crushed. We broke up and got back together about 2 weeks later. He was good for another year, we had moved in together. I found out he had cheated again. He denied it, and the next year, I caught him cheating with the girl he first cheated on me with. And then he cheated with his ex wife. Now this fall I found disgusting text messages between him and his ex. I’m done. I should have been done 4 years ago the first time. All the times in between are great. He’s amazing. I think he needs attention and stroke his ego. He has also been talking to another woman for months. I ask him to stop because she is basically throwing her self at him. Shouldn’t have to ask him to quit entertaining other women!! You get what you accept and if you accept this behavior, it will show back up!

Love is all about forgiving, if there is no forgiveness there is no love

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Love is all about respect.

If people respected each other there wouldn’t be a need to forgive

People would actually treat each other like front row Beyoncé tickets instead of a rag outta the dollar store

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Posted by LuxePurr

If this is just a short term thing then give him a chance.

Personally I would walk away because I wouldn't want to be with someone whose solution for boredom is chatting up chicks online. What's next? Him suggesting an open relationship? Cheating? Meh. Not worth the stress and my time.

i broke things off with him, i need time to heal and clear my head. im really hurting and i cant accept what happen yet, he said he didnt want to break up but he knows why i had to. He asked if we can still be friends. But i dont think i can go on with just being friends, i really really love him too much

If u love him, please don't leave him. Flirting isn't wrong, cheating is. If he cheated, then leave. If he just flirted, and giving you further assurance that he won't believe. If you don't trust him, he also will think things that he may be really an untrustable person

I really love him so much. But i though to myself. If i didnt leave he will think its okay. That what he did was okay. I somehow regret leaving him because i also know that he is going thru a dark phase. I feel so guilty but he broke my heart. He was flirting and it means nothing because he doesnt even know who he was talking to (for now) they have been talking about meeting up a long time now. But never happened (yet). He said if he wanted to meet that woman he would have already a long time ago. It just hurts so much and i feel betrayed. He sent me a text last night.



I’m so sorry !!!! For everything! You are so good always. Always good to me , take car to me . I’m really appreciate it! You are good enough to me . But I’m just weird and freak, I feel shame and hate myself,I don’t know myself, I don’t know how to be love , I’m not deserve you love , I have lot questions myself too , I have a lot of pressure , I don’t know how to opening. I don’t know why I’m like that . I just want say sorry . Sorry again！ I hope you are well , hope you to be happy . You always right. You teaching me a lot ! I will miss you !

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Oh Pisces... the martyr the victim

I’m shocked he didn’t use the crying emoji

He listed all the nice things YOU do for him.

Can’t raise a man

He needs to grow up and find himself

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I would leave him to punish him or would definitely cheat on him. This is not good advice, or advice at all...just saying what my nasty ass would do. Or hack his profile and harass the girl. This is what I did when my ex cheated in any form or way... Now I have this Gemini fling who is not nice to me in the same way I am to him, and he keeps sending me pics of him at parties with lots of women and he's a womaniser...I blocked him today for the 3rd and last time...I don't need that in my life

My girl.

Be blocked and be blessed

You are not a pinball machine and your name is not Nintendo

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Gave him one more chance, because maybe he still immature, did not know what kind of effect his act did on you, but now he understand/learn about it he will change, but if he still do it then its not immature but he just a cheater and a liar, find another one.

This is horrible advice. You are justifying cheating. Ask yourself, what would Jesus do?

And go pray about it, come back and post your answer. Pull it up from your a $ $ as usual 😉

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Im not justifying, it just that maybe he did that without knowing the effect of his action, thus maybe if she will it deserve a second chance.

Marker, im not the only one who gave him advice to gave him one more chance.

What is wrong with you.

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Pisces men need someone who will constantly molest them and take their shekels. As my ex pisces said to me one time, i love bitches! So... This doesn't apply to dreamy88 and prince_pisces, they are too awesome.

And Aju and Jukey, they’re good guys ...

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Pisces men need someone who will constantly molest them and take their shekels. As my ex pisces said to me one time, i love bitches! So... This doesn't apply to dreamy88 and prince_pisces, they are too awesome.

And Aju and Jukey, they’re good guys ...

Yeah ofc. Sorry.

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No prob 😀

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If this is just a short term thing then give him a chance.

Personally I would walk away because I wouldn't want to be with someone whose solution for boredom is chatting up chicks online. What's next? Him suggesting an open relationship? Cheating? Meh. Not worth the stress and my time.

i broke things off with him, i need time to heal and clear my head. im really hurting and i cant accept what happen yet, he said he didnt want to break up but he knows why i had to. He asked if we can still be friends. But i dont think i can go on with just being friends, i really really love him too much

If u love him, please don't leave him. Flirting isn't wrong, cheating is. If he cheated, then leave. If he just flirted, and giving you further assurance that he won't believe. If you don't trust him, he also will think things that he may be really an untrustable person

I really love him so much. But i though to myself. If i didnt leave he will think its okay. That what he did was okay. I somehow regret leaving him because i also know that he is going thru a dark phase. I feel so guilty but he broke my heart. He was flirting and it means nothing because he doesnt even know who he was talking to (for now) they have been talking about meeting up a long time now. But never happened (yet). He said if he wanted to meet that woman he would have already a long time ago. It just hurts so much and i feel betrayed. He sent me a text last night.



I’m so sorry !!!! For everything! You are so good always. Always good to me , take car to me . I’m really appreciate it! You are good enough to me . But I’m just weird and freak, I feel shame and hate myself,I don’t know myself, I don’t know how to be love , I’m not deserve you love , I have lot questions myself too , I have a lot of pressure , I don’t know how to opening. I don’t know why I’m like that . I just want say sorry . Sorry again！ I hope you are well , hope you to be happy . You always right. You teaching me a lot ! I will miss you !

Oh Pisces... the martyr the victim

I’m shocked he didn’t use the crying emoji

He listed all the nice things YOU do for him.

Can’t raise a man

He needs to grow up and find himself

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Is it bad that he listed the things i did for him? So now he is trying to be the victim? Why? What did i do to deserve this

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If this is just a short term thing then give him a chance.

Personally I would walk away because I wouldn't want to be with someone whose solution for boredom is chatting up chicks online. What's next? Him suggesting an open relationship? Cheating? Meh. Not worth the stress and my time.

i broke things off with him, i need time to heal and clear my head. im really hurting and i cant accept what happen yet, he said he didnt want to break up but he knows why i had to. He asked if we can still be friends. But i dont think i can go on with just being friends, i really really love him too much

If u love him, please don't leave him. Flirting isn't wrong, cheating is. If he cheated, then leave. If he just flirted, and giving you further assurance that he won't believe. If you don't trust him, he also will think things that he may be really an untrustable person

I really love him so much. But i though to myself. If i didnt leave he will think its okay. That what he did was okay. I somehow regret leaving him because i also know that he is going thru a dark phase. I feel so guilty but he broke my heart. He was flirting and it means nothing because he doesnt even know who he was talking to (for now) they have been talking about meeting up a long time now. But never happened (yet). He said if he wanted to meet that woman he would have already a long time ago. It just hurts so much and i feel betrayed. He sent me a text last night.



I’m so sorry !!!! For everything! You are so good always. Always good to me , take car to me . I’m really appreciate it! You are good enough to me . But I’m just weird and freak, I feel shame and hate myself,I don’t know myself, I don’t know how to be love , I’m not deserve you love , I have lot questions myself too , I have a lot of pressure , I don’t know how to opening. I don’t know why I’m like that . I just want say sorry . Sorry again！ I hope you are well , hope you to be happy . You always right. You teaching me a lot ! I will miss you !

Sometimes we need to give people a chance, if you like, take a break from each other. Tell him that you want to take a break from each other. For example, 3 months. Tell him that in these 3 months, without being in a relationship with you, he needs to be loyal, stop doing nonsense things which hurt you and tell him that he needs to change according to your conditions if he really love you. If he can do these, tell him that you will take him back. In this way, you will get a change in him, and you will not lose your relationship. Meanwhile during the break, you people stay as friends. I hope this works for u..

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What now? I wait for him to approach me? What if he doesnt? What if he was just pretending to love me all this time. What if he was just waiting for me to leave him?

Why are pisces men so cruel? I thought they were the most loyal sign. I really did my best to understand love take care and dream with him. Now im left with a big WHY on my head.

Say you forgive him and get back together. Act like you are sad and hurt for a while and be distant but loving.

(So it seems real )Secretly start searching for another partner. ( Tinder, bumble whatever ) starting dating them behind his back. If you act like he's your whole world he'll never believe your cable of that. Once things are secure with your new love, go on a wonderful date night with your pisces. Than at end of it tell him you hate him and your leaving him for someone who he can't even compete with on his best day. Enjoy your new life with your new love.

You have all the power in this situation. He thinks your a doormat. And that's your biggest strength. It's really good for people to underestimate you. You deserve pay back for someone who thinks they can mess with you.

You'll feel better sleeping at night. Best of luck

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Posted by LuxePurr

If this is just a short term thing then give him a chance.

Personally I would walk away because I wouldn't want to be with someone whose solution for boredom is chatting up chicks online. What's next? Him suggesting an open relationship? Cheating? Meh. Not worth the stress and my time.

i broke things off with him, i need time to heal and clear my head. im really hurting and i cant accept what happen yet, he said he didnt want to break up but he knows why i had to. He asked if we can still be friends. But i dont think i can go on with just being friends, i really really love him too much

If u love him, please don't leave him. Flirting isn't wrong, cheating is. If he cheated, then leave. If he just flirted, and giving you further assurance that he won't believe. If you don't trust him, he also will think things that he may be really an untrustable person

I really love him so much. But i though to myself. If i didnt leave he will think its okay. That what he did was okay. I somehow regret leaving him because i also know that he is going thru a dark phase. I feel so guilty but he broke my heart. He was flirting and it means nothing because he doesnt even know who he was talking to (for now) they have been talking about meeting up a long time now. But never happened (yet). He said if he wanted to meet that woman he would have already a long time ago. It just hurts so much and i feel betrayed. He sent me a text last night.



I’m so sorry !!!! For everything! You are so good always. Always good to me , take car to me . I’m really appreciate it! You are good enough to me . But I’m just weird and freak, I feel shame and hate myself,I don’t know myself, I don’t know how to be love , I’m not deserve you love , I have lot questions myself too , I have a lot of pressure , I don’t know how to opening. I don’t know why I’m like that . I just want say sorry . Sorry again！ I hope you are well , hope you to be happy . You always right. You teaching me a lot ! I will miss you !

Sometimes we need to give people a chance, if you like, take a break from each other. Tell him that you want to take a break from each other. For example, 3 months. Tell him that in these 3 months, without being in a relationship with you, he needs to be loyal, stop doing nonsense things which hurt you and tell him that he needs to change according to your conditions if he really love you. If he can do these, tell him that you will take him back. In this way, you will get a change in him, and you will not lose your relationship. Meanwhile during the break, you people stay as friends. I hope this works for u..

What now? I wait for him to approach me? What if he doesnt? What if he was just pretending to love me all this time. What if he was just waiting for me to leave him?

Why are pisces men so cruel? I thought they were the most loyal sign. I really did my best to understand love take care and dream with him. Now im left with a big WHY on my head.

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People fall in love while investing time, energy, resources, emotions and ultimately our soul into the relationship.

Not while having things done for us! Please understand this, and don’t be resentful. Easy comes, easy goes!

Make sure your next boyfriend puts the effort throughout the relationship. Just step aside from time to time and let him do things for you, come up with new ideas, take the lead, spoil you.

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If this is just a short term thing then give him a chance.

Personally I would walk away because I wouldn't want to be with someone whose solution for boredom is chatting up chicks online. What's next? Him suggesting an open relationship? Cheating? Meh. Not worth the stress and my time.

i broke things off with him, i need time to heal and clear my head. im really hurting and i cant accept what happen yet, he said he didnt want to break up but he knows why i had to. He asked if we can still be friends. But i dont think i can go on with just being friends, i really really love him too much

If u love him, please don't leave him. Flirting isn't wrong, cheating is. If he cheated, then leave. If he just flirted, and giving you further assurance that he won't believe. If you don't trust him, he also will think things that he may be really an untrustable person

I really love him so much. But i though to myself. If i didnt leave he will think its okay. That what he did was okay. I somehow regret leaving him because i also know that he is going thru a dark phase. I feel so guilty but he broke my heart. He was flirting and it means nothing because he doesnt even know who he was talking to (for now) they have been talking about meeting up a long time now. But never happened (yet). He said if he wanted to meet that woman he would have already a long time ago. It just hurts so much and i feel betrayed. He sent me a text last night.



I’m so sorry !!!! For everything! You are so good always. Always good to me , take car to me . I’m really appreciate it! You are good enough to me . But I’m just weird and freak, I feel shame and hate myself,I don’t know myself, I don’t know how to be love , I’m not deserve you love , I have lot questions myself too , I have a lot of pressure , I don’t know how to opening. I don’t know why I’m like that . I just want say sorry . Sorry again！ I hope you are well , hope you to be happy . You always right. You teaching me a lot ! I will miss you !

Sometimes we need to give people a chance, if you like, take a break from each other. Tell him that you want to take a break from each other. For example, 3 months. Tell him that in these 3 months, without being in a relationship with you, he needs to be loyal, stop doing nonsense things which hurt you and tell him that he needs to change according to your conditions if he really love you. If he can do these, tell him that you will take him back. In this way, you will get a change in him, and you will not lose your relationship. Meanwhile during the break, you people stay as friends. I hope this works for u..

What now? I wait for him to approach me? What if he doesnt? What if he was just pretending to love me all this time. What if he was just waiting for me to leave him?

Why are pisces men so cruel? I thought they were the most loyal sign. I really did my best to understand love take care and dream with him. Now im left with a big WHY on my head.

People fall in love while investing time, energy, resources, emotions and ultimately our soul into the relationship.

Not while having things done for us! Please understand this, and don’t be resentful. Easy comes, easy goes!

Make sure your next boyfriend puts the effort throughout the relationship. Just step aside from time to time and let him do things for you, come up with new ideas, take the lead, spoil you.

It's good to work out with the person she loves only, love means forgiving, and staying together making changes if they want but never leaving each other no matter how hard the situation is, only intimation with some other girl shouldn't be forgiven, which is absolutely cheating, everything else can be forgiven as long as there is a trust and hope that he is willing to change❤️

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Are you bipolar? True question. You don’t make much sense, and a quick look at your other threads strongly suggests someone in a manic phase. Better talk to your GP before you hurt yourself.

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If this is just a short term thing then give him a chance.

Personally I would walk away because I wouldn't want to be with someone whose solution for boredom is chatting up chicks online. What's next? Him suggesting an open relationship? Cheating? Meh. Not worth the stress and my time.

i broke things off with him, i need time to heal and clear my head. im really hurting and i cant accept what happen yet, he said he didnt want to break up but he knows why i had to. He asked if we can still be friends. But i dont think i can go on with just being friends, i really really love him too much

If u love him, please don't leave him. Flirting isn't wrong, cheating is. If he cheated, then leave. If he just flirted, and giving you further assurance that he won't believe. If you don't trust him, he also will think things that he may be really an untrustable person

I really love him so much. But i though to myself. If i didnt leave he will think its okay. That what he did was okay. I somehow regret leaving him because i also know that he is going thru a dark phase. I feel so guilty but he broke my heart. He was flirting and it means nothing because he doesnt even know who he was talking to (for now) they have been talking about meeting up a long time now. But never happened (yet). He said if he wanted to meet that woman he would have already a long time ago. It just hurts so much and i feel betrayed. He sent me a text last night.



I’m so sorry !!!! For everything! You are so good always. Always good to me , take car to me . I’m really appreciate it! You are good enough to me . But I’m just weird and freak, I feel shame and hate myself,I don’t know myself, I don’t know how to be love , I’m not deserve you love , I have lot questions myself too , I have a lot of pressure , I don’t know how to opening. I don’t know why I’m like that . I just want say sorry . Sorry again！ I hope you are well , hope you to be happy . You always right. You teaching me a lot ! I will miss you !

Sometimes we need to give people a chance, if you like, take a break from each other. Tell him that you want to take a break from each other. For example, 3 months. Tell him that in these 3 months, without being in a relationship with you, he needs to be loyal, stop doing nonsense things which hurt you and tell him that he needs to change according to your conditions if he really love you. If he can do these, tell him that you will take him back. In this way, you will get a change in him, and you will not lose your relationship. Meanwhile during the break, you people stay as friends. I hope this works for u..

What now? I wait for him to approach me? What if he doesnt? What if he was just pretending to love me all this time. What if he was just waiting for me to leave him?

Why are pisces men so cruel? I thought they were the most loyal sign. I really did my best to understand love take care and dream with him. Now im left with a big WHY on my head.

Meantime, during this break stay as friends, without completely being unavailable to him may result in disasters of he getting off with someone else

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Might be difficult to take a break and be unavailable to him seeing as they live together.

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If this is just a short term thing then give him a chance.

Personally I would walk away because I wouldn't want to be with someone whose solution for boredom is chatting up chicks online. What's next? Him suggesting an open relationship? Cheating? Meh. Not worth the stress and my time.

i broke things off with him, i need time to heal and clear my head. im really hurting and i cant accept what happen yet, he said he didnt want to break up but he knows why i had to. He asked if we can still be friends. But i dont think i can go on with just being friends, i really really love him too much

If u love him, please don't leave him. Flirting isn't wrong, cheating is. If he cheated, then leave. If he just flirted, and giving you further assurance that he won't believe. If you don't trust him, he also will think things that he may be really an untrustable person

I really love him so much. But i though to myself. If i didnt leave he will think its okay. That what he did was okay. I somehow regret leaving him because i also know that he is going thru a dark phase. I feel so guilty but he broke my heart. He was flirting and it means nothing because he doesnt even know who he was talking to (for now) they have been talking about meeting up a long time now. But never happened (yet). He said if he wanted to meet that woman he would have already a long time ago. It just hurts so much and i feel betrayed. He sent me a text last night.



I’m so sorry !!!! For everything! You are so good always. Always good to me , take car to me . I’m really appreciate it! You are good enough to me . But I’m just weird and freak, I feel shame and hate myself,I don’t know myself, I don’t know how to be love , I’m not deserve you love , I have lot questions myself too , I have a lot of pressure , I don’t know how to opening. I don’t know why I’m like that . I just want say sorry . Sorry again！ I hope you are well , hope you to be happy . You always right. You teaching me a lot ! I will miss you !

Sometimes we need to give people a chance, if you like, take a break from each other. Tell him that you want to take a break from each other. For example, 3 months. Tell him that in these 3 months, without being in a relationship with you, he needs to be loyal, stop doing nonsense things which hurt you and tell him that he needs to change according to your conditions if he really love you. If he can do these, tell him that you will take him back. In this way, you will get a change in him, and you will not lose your relationship. Meanwhile during the break, you people stay as friends. I hope this works for u..

What now? I wait for him to approach me? What if he doesnt? What if he was just pretending to love me all this time. What if he was just waiting for me to leave him?

Why are pisces men so cruel? I thought they were the most loyal sign. I really did my best to understand love take care and dream with him. Now im left with a big WHY on my head.

Meantime, during this break stay as friends, without completely being unavailable to him may result in disasters of he getting off with someone else

Might be difficult to take a break and be unavailable to him seeing as they live together.

Even if they live together, they can stay as friends for a particular period of time she decides like few weeks or months where he gets time to prove her his loyalty without being in relationship with her, and she can also build trust on him that she is seeking

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How does one maintain distance when sharing a small apartment during a pandemic? That seems really naïve of you to suggest. Have you ever lived with a SO? If you had its unlikely you would give this advice.

Is she supposed to build a pillow wall between them in bed to create separation?

Staying friends is unrealistic when they had a romantic connection, NOT a friendship.

I get wanting to work on the relationship and forgiveness and all that.

But really, what relationship?

They've been together for a year and for 6 months of that, 50% of the relationship, he's been cheating by flirting with other women AND actively hiding it from her. The relationship is built on a faulty foundation of disloyalty and deception.

He doesn't love her. If he did he would respect her, not step out of the relationship after only 6 months. And that is what SHE discovered. Who knows what else he has done behind her back that she is unaware of.

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If this is just a short term thing then give him a chance.

Personally I would walk away because I wouldn't want to be with someone whose solution for boredom is chatting up chicks online. What's next? Him suggesting an open relationship? Cheating? Meh. Not worth the stress and my time.

i broke things off with him, i need time to heal and clear my head. im really hurting and i cant accept what happen yet, he said he didnt want to break up but he knows why i had to. He asked if we can still be friends. But i dont think i can go on with just being friends, i really really love him too much

If u love him, please don't leave him. Flirting isn't wrong, cheating is. If he cheated, then leave. If he just flirted, and giving you further assurance that he won't believe. If you don't trust him, he also will think things that he may be really an untrustable person

I really love him so much. But i though to myself. If i didnt leave he will think its okay. That what he did was okay. I somehow regret leaving him because i also know that he is going thru a dark phase. I feel so guilty but he broke my heart. He was flirting and it means nothing because he doesnt even know who he was talking to (for now) they have been talking about meeting up a long time now. But never happened (yet). He said if he wanted to meet that woman he would have already a long time ago. It just hurts so much and i feel betrayed. He sent me a text last night.



I’m so sorry !!!! For everything! You are so good always. Always good to me , take car to me . I’m really appreciate it! You are good enough to me . But I’m just weird and freak, I feel shame and hate myself,I don’t know myself, I don’t know how to be love , I’m not deserve you love , I have lot questions myself too , I have a lot of pressure , I don’t know how to opening. I don’t know why I’m like that . I just want say sorry . Sorry again！ I hope you are well , hope you to be happy . You always right. You teaching me a lot ! I will miss you !

Oh Pisces... the martyr the victim

I’m shocked he didn’t use the crying emoji

He listed all the nice things YOU do for him.

Can’t raise a man

He needs to grow up and find himself

Is it bad that he listed the things i did for him? So now he is trying to be the victim? Why? What did i do to deserve this

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People who do wrong always bring up all the nice things to did for them hoping you’ll feel guilty and want to resume doing those nice things.

Like aww don’t you want to keep giving me back rubs— I miss your back rubs

They never think About all the nice things they could be doing to you cause they were too busy being disrespectful.

You really start to notice the imbalance in the relationship.

You did all those nice things for him and he still didn’t appreciate it

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@rufflestruffles You love him so much, don't listen to negative people, just because they said things from their perspective doesn't always mean that they're right. Do what your heart says, and do the right thing, even if it means that you still want to workout things with him❤️

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If this is just a short term thing then give him a chance.

Personally I would walk away because I wouldn't want to be with someone whose solution for boredom is chatting up chicks online. What's next? Him suggesting an open relationship? Cheating? Meh. Not worth the stress and my time.

i broke things off with him, i need time to heal and clear my head. im really hurting and i cant accept what happen yet, he said he didnt want to break up but he knows why i had to. He asked if we can still be friends. But i dont think i can go on with just being friends, i really really love him too much

If u love him, please don't leave him. Flirting isn't wrong, cheating is. If he cheated, then leave. If he just flirted, and giving you further assurance that he won't believe. If you don't trust him, he also will think things that he may be really an untrustable person

I really love him so much. But i though to myself. If i didnt leave he will think its okay. That what he did was okay. I somehow regret leaving him because i also know that he is going thru a dark phase. I feel so guilty but he broke my heart. He was flirting and it means nothing because he doesnt even know who he was talking to (for now) they have been talking about meeting up a long time now. But never happened (yet). He said if he wanted to meet that woman he would have already a long time ago. It just hurts so much and i feel betrayed. He sent me a text last night.



I’m so sorry !!!! For everything! You are so good always. Always good to me , take car to me . I’m really appreciate it! You are good enough to me . But I’m just weird and freak, I feel shame and hate myself,I don’t know myself, I don’t know how to be love , I’m not deserve you love , I have lot questions myself too , I have a lot of pressure , I don’t know how to opening. I don’t know why I’m like that . I just want say sorry . Sorry again！ I hope you are well , hope you to be happy . You always right. You teaching me a lot ! I will miss you !

Sometimes we need to give people a chance, if you like, take a break from each other. Tell him that you want to take a break from each other. For example, 3 months. Tell him that in these 3 months, without being in a relationship with you, he needs to be loyal, stop doing nonsense things which hurt you and tell him that he needs to change according to your conditions if he really love you. If he can do these, tell him that you will take him back. In this way, you will get a change in him, and you will not lose your relationship. Meanwhile during the break, you people stay as friends. I hope this works for u..

What now? I wait for him to approach me? What if he doesnt? What if he was just pretending to love me all this time. What if he was just waiting for me to leave him?

Why are pisces men so cruel? I thought they were the most loyal sign. I really did my best to understand love take care and dream with him. Now im left with a big WHY on my head.

Meantime, during this break stay as friends, without completely being unavailable to him may result in disasters of he getting off with someone else

Might be difficult to take a break and be unavailable to him seeing as they live together.

Even if they live together, they can stay as friends for a particular period of time she decides like few weeks or months where he gets time to prove her his loyalty without being in relationship with her, and she can also build trust on him that she is seeking

How does one maintain distance when sharing a small apartment during a pandemic? That seems really naïve of you to suggest. Have you ever lived with a SO? If you had its unlikely you would give this advice.

Is she supposed to build a pillow wall between them in bed to create separation?

Staying friends is unrealistic when they had a romantic connection, NOT a friendship.

I get wanting to work on the relationship and forgiveness and all that.

But really, what relationship?

They've been together for a year and for 6 months of that, 50% of the relationship, he's been cheating by flirting with other women AND actively hiding it from her. The relationship is built on a faulty foundation of disloyalty and deception.

He doesn't love her. If he did he would respect her, not step out of the relationship after only 6 months. And that is what SHE discovered. Who knows what else he has done behind her back that she is unaware of.

Assuming things always aren't always right, just because of assumptions I lost a person that loved me who thought in this same way. Flirting is a wrong thing, and he needs to change, and she needs to give him some time, if they're living together, I would suggest her not to indulge in any relationship activities and friends meaning that she should limit him to only as friend things until she gains some trust from him during the time they're off from their relationship and just naming it to be friend and friendly things. He will change in the meantime, and she gains the trust at least better than before, and things may get better and he might actually change and then they can be in relationship again. Why not give people a chance?❤️

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Assuming your situation applies to her situation is an emotionally clouded outlook. You regret not giving your guy another chance so your giving this advice to her to act in the way you wish you could if you could go back in time and redo things.

Not engaging in relationship activities but giving him her friendship is an oxymoron. Allowing him to continue to have his emotional needs met by her is a mistake.

Why would he have any motivation to change how he is? Because he loves her? If he loved her why would he seek out other women to flirt with romantically after 6 months of being in a relationship with her... he wouldn't.

Ergo he doesn't love her. And I doubt she really loves him.

If you read her other threads she was looking for an excuse to end things because he wasn't giving her enough attention, affection, etc. She's in love with the idea of love and hates to imagine this relationship ending in failure. But her needs have not been met and she was unsatisfied and unhappy long before she found out he spent half the relationship cheating.

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If this is just a short term thing then give him a chance.

Personally I would walk away because I wouldn't want to be with someone whose solution for boredom is chatting up chicks online. What's next? Him suggesting an open relationship? Cheating? Meh. Not worth the stress and my time.

i broke things off with him, i need time to heal and clear my head. im really hurting and i cant accept what happen yet, he said he didnt want to break up but he knows why i had to. He asked if we can still be friends. But i dont think i can go on with just being friends, i really really love him too much

If u love him, please don't leave him. Flirting isn't wrong, cheating is. If he cheated, then leave. If he just flirted, and giving you further assurance that he won't believe. If you don't trust him, he also will think things that he may be really an untrustable person

I really love him so much. But i though to myself. If i didnt leave he will think its okay. That what he did was okay. I somehow regret leaving him because i also know that he is going thru a dark phase. I feel so guilty but he broke my heart. He was flirting and it means nothing because he doesnt even know who he was talking to (for now) they have been talking about meeting up a long time now. But never happened (yet). He said if he wanted to meet that woman he would have already a long time ago. It just hurts so much and i feel betrayed. He sent me a text last night.



I’m so sorry !!!! For everything! You are so good always. Always good to me , take car to me . I’m really appreciate it! You are good enough to me . But I’m just weird and freak, I feel shame and hate myself,I don’t know myself, I don’t know how to be love , I’m not deserve you love , I have lot questions myself too , I have a lot of pressure , I don’t know how to opening. I don’t know why I’m like that . I just want say sorry . Sorry again！ I hope you are well , hope you to be happy . You always right. You teaching me a lot ! I will miss you !

Sometimes we need to give people a chance, if you like, take a break from each other. Tell him that you want to take a break from each other. For example, 3 months. Tell him that in these 3 months, without being in a relationship with you, he needs to be loyal, stop doing nonsense things which hurt you and tell him that he needs to change according to your conditions if he really love you. If he can do these, tell him that you will take him back. In this way, you will get a change in him, and you will not lose your relationship. Meanwhile during the break, you people stay as friends. I hope this works for u..

What now? I wait for him to approach me? What if he doesnt? What if he was just pretending to love me all this time. What if he was just waiting for me to leave him?

Why are pisces men so cruel? I thought they were the most loyal sign. I really did my best to understand love take care and dream with him. Now im left with a big WHY on my head.

Meantime, during this break stay as friends, without completely being unavailable to him may result in disasters of he getting off with someone else

Might be difficult to take a break and be unavailable to him seeing as they live together.

Even if they live together, they can stay as friends for a particular period of time she decides like few weeks or months where he gets time to prove her his loyalty without being in relationship with her, and she can also build trust on him that she is seeking

How does one maintain distance when sharing a small apartment during a pandemic? That seems really naïve of you to suggest. Have you ever lived with a SO? If you had its unlikely you would give this advice.

Is she supposed to build a pillow wall between them in bed to create separation?

Staying friends is unrealistic when they had a romantic connection, NOT a friendship.

I get wanting to work on the relationship and forgiveness and all that.

But really, what relationship?

They've been together for a year and for 6 months of that, 50% of the relationship, he's been cheating by flirting with other women AND actively hiding it from her. The relationship is built on a faulty foundation of disloyalty and deception.

He doesn't love her. If he did he would respect her, not step out of the relationship after only 6 months. And that is what SHE discovered. Who knows what else he has done behind her back that she is unaware of.

Assuming things always aren't always right, just because of assumptions I lost a person that loved me who thought in this same way. Flirting is a wrong thing, and he needs to change, and she needs to give him some time, if they're living together, I would suggest her not to indulge in any relationship activities and friends meaning that she should limit him to only as friend things until she gains some trust from him during the time they're off from their relationship and just naming it to be friend and friendly things. He will change in the meantime, and she gains the trust at least better than before, and things may get better and he might actually change and then they can be in relationship again. Why not give people a chance?❤️

Assuming your situation applies to her situation is an emotionally clouded outlook. You regret not giving your guy another chance so your giving this advice to her to act in the way you wish you could if you could go back in time and redo things.

Not engaging in relationship activities but giving him her friendship is an oxymoron. Allowing him to continue to have his emotional needs met by her is a mistake.

Why would he have any motivation to change how he is? Because he loves her? If he loved her why would he seek out other women to flirt with romantically after 6 months of being in a relationship with her... he wouldn't.

Ergo he doesn't love her. And I doubt she really loves him.

If you read her other threads she was looking for an excuse to end things because he wasn't giving her enough attention, affection, etc. She's in love with the idea of love and hates to imagine this relationship ending in failure. But her needs have not been met and she was unsatisfied and unhappy long before she found out he spent half the relationship cheating.

But I can guarantee that no one will ever give attention, affection, trueness, love compared to other zodiacs, because pisces are absolutely most loving zodiacs of all, and yes they are biggest flirts of all the zodiacs too, you can Google it, and yes I don't at all like this trait in them, but they mostly don't actually cheat which is intimation with other girls while being dedicated to their girl. He can change himself if he really wants her, which she can give him one more chance, through which he can mend his ways. Love is all about understanding, if he really understands her pain, he won't do further, and gradually stops doing it if he really cared about her

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Are you asking a Pisces to google how a Pisces behaves?!

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If this is just a short term thing then give him a chance.

Personally I would walk away because I wouldn't want to be with someone whose solution for boredom is chatting up chicks online. What's next? Him suggesting an open relationship? Cheating? Meh. Not worth the stress and my time.

i broke things off with him, i need time to heal and clear my head. im really hurting and i cant accept what happen yet, he said he didnt want to break up but he knows why i had to. He asked if we can still be friends. But i dont think i can go on with just being friends, i really really love him too much

If u love him, please don't leave him. Flirting isn't wrong, cheating is. If he cheated, then leave. If he just flirted, and giving you further assurance that he won't believe. If you don't trust him, he also will think things that he may be really an untrustable person

I really love him so much. But i though to myself. If i didnt leave he will think its okay. That what he did was okay. I somehow regret leaving him because i also know that he is going thru a dark phase. I feel so guilty but he broke my heart. He was flirting and it means nothing because he doesnt even know who he was talking to (for now) they have been talking about meeting up a long time now. But never happened (yet). He said if he wanted to meet that woman he would have already a long time ago. It just hurts so much and i feel betrayed. He sent me a text last night.



I’m so sorry !!!! For everything! You are so good always. Always good to me , take car to me . I’m really appreciate it! You are good enough to me . But I’m just weird and freak, I feel shame and hate myself,I don’t know myself, I don’t know how to be love , I’m not deserve you love , I have lot questions myself too , I have a lot of pressure , I don’t know how to opening. I don’t know why I’m like that . I just want say sorry . Sorry again！ I hope you are well , hope you to be happy . You always right. You teaching me a lot ! I will miss you !

Sometimes we need to give people a chance, if you like, take a break from each other. Tell him that you want to take a break from each other. For example, 3 months. Tell him that in these 3 months, without being in a relationship with you, he needs to be loyal, stop doing nonsense things which hurt you and tell him that he needs to change according to your conditions if he really love you. If he can do these, tell him that you will take him back. In this way, you will get a change in him, and you will not lose your relationship. Meanwhile during the break, you people stay as friends. I hope this works for u..

What now? I wait for him to approach me? What if he doesnt? What if he was just pretending to love me all this time. What if he was just waiting for me to leave him?

Why are pisces men so cruel? I thought they were the most loyal sign. I really did my best to understand love take care and dream with him. Now im left with a big WHY on my head.

Meantime, during this break stay as friends, without completely being unavailable to him may result in disasters of he getting off with someone else

Might be difficult to take a break and be unavailable to him seeing as they live together.

Even if they live together, they can stay as friends for a particular period of time she decides like few weeks or months where he gets time to prove her his loyalty without being in relationship with her, and she can also build trust on him that she is seeking

How does one maintain distance when sharing a small apartment during a pandemic? That seems really naïve of you to suggest. Have you ever lived with a SO? If you had its unlikely you would give this advice.

Is she supposed to build a pillow wall between them in bed to create separation?

Staying friends is unrealistic when they had a romantic connection, NOT a friendship.

I get wanting to work on the relationship and forgiveness and all that.

But really, what relationship?

They've been together for a year and for 6 months of that, 50% of the relationship, he's been cheating by flirting with other women AND actively hiding it from her. The relationship is built on a faulty foundation of disloyalty and deception.

He doesn't love her. If he did he would respect her, not step out of the relationship after only 6 months. And that is what SHE discovered. Who knows what else he has done behind her back that she is unaware of.

Assuming things always aren't always right, just because of assumptions I lost a person that loved me who thought in this same way. Flirting is a wrong thing, and he needs to change, and she needs to give him some time, if they're living together, I would suggest her not to indulge in any relationship activities and friends meaning that she should limit him to only as friend things until she gains some trust from him during the time they're off from their relationship and just naming it to be friend and friendly things. He will change in the meantime, and she gains the trust at least better than before, and things may get better and he might actually change and then they can be in relationship again. Why not give people a chance?❤️

Assuming your situation applies to her situation is an emotionally clouded outlook. You regret not giving your guy another chance so your giving this advice to her to act in the way you wish you could if you could go back in time and redo things.

Not engaging in relationship activities but giving him her friendship is an oxymoron. Allowing him to continue to have his emotional needs met by her is a mistake.

Why would he have any motivation to change how he is? Because he loves her? If he loved her why would he seek out other women to flirt with romantically after 6 months of being in a relationship with her... he wouldn't.

Ergo he doesn't love her. And I doubt she really loves him.

If you read her other threads she was looking for an excuse to end things because he wasn't giving her enough attention, affection, etc. She's in love with the idea of love and hates to imagine this relationship ending in failure. But her needs have not been met and she was unsatisfied and unhappy long before she found out he spent half the relationship cheating.

But I can guarantee that no one will ever give attention, affection, trueness, love compared to other zodiacs, because pisces are absolutely most loving zodiacs of all, and yes they are biggest flirts of all the zodiacs too, you can Google it, and yes I don't at all like this trait in them, but they mostly don't actually cheat which is intimation with other girls while being dedicated to their girl. He can change himself if he really wants her, which she can give him one more chance, through which he can mend his ways. Love is all about understanding, if he really understands her pain, he won't do further, and gradually stops doing it if he really cared about her

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I am a Pisces and have never flirted with the intention to cheat during my 6 year relationship. Stop making excuses for bad behavior based on sun sign/cat lady astrology.

There is nothing 'true' about seeking out other women behind your SO's back. There is nothing in his actions of actively lying and sneaking behind her back that says 'dedication'.

If you want to be a doormat and allow this kind of disrespect and behavior in your life that's on you. But understand why myself and others have the opposite opinion.

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If this is just a short term thing then give him a chance.

Personally I would walk away because I wouldn't want to be with someone whose solution for boredom is chatting up chicks online. What's next? Him suggesting an open relationship? Cheating? Meh. Not worth the stress and my time.

i broke things off with him, i need time to heal and clear my head. im really hurting and i cant accept what happen yet, he said he didnt want to break up but he knows why i had to. He asked if we can still be friends. But i dont think i can go on with just being friends, i really really love him too much

If u love him, please don't leave him. Flirting isn't wrong, cheating is. If he cheated, then leave. If he just flirted, and giving you further assurance that he won't believe. If you don't trust him, he also will think things that he may be really an untrustable person

I really love him so much. But i though to myself. If i didnt leave he will think its okay. That what he did was okay. I somehow regret leaving him because i also know that he is going thru a dark phase. I feel so guilty but he broke my heart. He was flirting and it means nothing because he doesnt even know who he was talking to (for now) they have been talking about meeting up a long time now. But never happened (yet). He said if he wanted to meet that woman he would have already a long time ago. It just hurts so much and i feel betrayed. He sent me a text last night.



I’m so sorry !!!! For everything! You are so good always. Always good to me , take car to me . I’m really appreciate it! You are good enough to me . But I’m just weird and freak, I feel shame and hate myself,I don’t know myself, I don’t know how to be love , I’m not deserve you love , I have lot questions myself too , I have a lot of pressure , I don’t know how to opening. I don’t know why I’m like that . I just want say sorry . Sorry again！ I hope you are well , hope you to be happy . You always right. You teaching me a lot ! I will miss you !

Sometimes we need to give people a chance, if you like, take a break from each other. Tell him that you want to take a break from each other. For example, 3 months. Tell him that in these 3 months, without being in a relationship with you, he needs to be loyal, stop doing nonsense things which hurt you and tell him that he needs to change according to your conditions if he really love you. If he can do these, tell him that you will take him back. In this way, you will get a change in him, and you will not lose your relationship. Meanwhile during the break, you people stay as friends. I hope this works for u..

What now? I wait for him to approach me? What if he doesnt? What if he was just pretending to love me all this time. What if he was just waiting for me to leave him?

Why are pisces men so cruel? I thought they were the most loyal sign. I really did my best to understand love take care and dream with him. Now im left with a big WHY on my head.

Meantime, during this break stay as friends, without completely being unavailable to him may result in disasters of he getting off with someone else

Might be difficult to take a break and be unavailable to him seeing as they live together.

Even if they live together, they can stay as friends for a particular period of time she decides like few weeks or months where he gets time to prove her his loyalty without being in relationship with her, and she can also build trust on him that she is seeking

How does one maintain distance when sharing a small apartment during a pandemic? That seems really naïve of you to suggest. Have you ever lived with a SO? If you had its unlikely you would give this advice.

Is she supposed to build a pillow wall between them in bed to create separation?

Staying friends is unrealistic when they had a romantic connection, NOT a friendship.

I get wanting to work on the relationship and forgiveness and all that.

But really, what relationship?

They've been together for a year and for 6 months of that, 50% of the relationship, he's been cheating by flirting with other women AND actively hiding it from her. The relationship is built on a faulty foundation of disloyalty and deception.

He doesn't love her. If he did he would respect her, not step out of the relationship after only 6 months. And that is what SHE discovered. Who knows what else he has done behind her back that she is unaware of.

Assuming things always aren't always right, just because of assumptions I lost a person that loved me who thought in this same way. Flirting is a wrong thing, and he needs to change, and she needs to give him some time, if they're living together, I would suggest her not to indulge in any relationship activities and friends meaning that she should limit him to only as friend things until she gains some trust from him during the time they're off from their relationship and just naming it to be friend and friendly things. He will change in the meantime, and she gains the trust at least better than before, and things may get better and he might actually change and then they can be in relationship again. Why not give people a chance?❤️

Assuming your situation applies to her situation is an emotionally clouded outlook. You regret not giving your guy another chance so your giving this advice to her to act in the way you wish you could if you could go back in time and redo things.

Not engaging in relationship activities but giving him her friendship is an oxymoron. Allowing him to continue to have his emotional needs met by her is a mistake.

Why would he have any motivation to change how he is? Because he loves her? If he loved her why would he seek out other women to flirt with romantically after 6 months of being in a relationship with her... he wouldn't.

Ergo he doesn't love her. And I doubt she really loves him.

If you read her other threads she was looking for an excuse to end things because he wasn't giving her enough attention, affection, etc. She's in love with the idea of love and hates to imagine this relationship ending in failure. But her needs have not been met and she was unsatisfied and unhappy long before she found out he spent half the relationship cheating.

But I can guarantee that no one will ever give attention, affection, trueness, love compared to other zodiacs, because pisces are absolutely most loving zodiacs of all, and yes they are biggest flirts of all the zodiacs too, you can Google it, and yes I don't at all like this trait in them, but they mostly don't actually cheat which is intimation with other girls while being dedicated to their girl. He can change himself if he really wants her, which she can give him one more chance, through which he can mend his ways. Love is all about understanding, if he really understands her pain, he won't do further, and gradually stops doing it if he really cared about her

Are you asking a Pisces to google how a Pisces behaves?!

Is she a Pisces too? Lol, Idk

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If this is just a short term thing then give him a chance.

Personally I would walk away because I wouldn't want to be with someone whose solution for boredom is chatting up chicks online. What's next? Him suggesting an open relationship? Cheating? Meh. Not worth the stress and my time.

i broke things off with him, i need time to heal and clear my head. im really hurting and i cant accept what happen yet, he said he didnt want to break up but he knows why i had to. He asked if we can still be friends. But i dont think i can go on with just being friends, i really really love him too much

If u love him, please don't leave him. Flirting isn't wrong, cheating is. If he cheated, then leave. If he just flirted, and giving you further assurance that he won't believe. If you don't trust him, he also will think things that he may be really an untrustable person

I really love him so much. But i though to myself. If i didnt leave he will think its okay. That what he did was okay. I somehow regret leaving him because i also know that he is going thru a dark phase. I feel so guilty but he broke my heart. He was flirting and it means nothing because he doesnt even know who he was talking to (for now) they have been talking about meeting up a long time now. But never happened (yet). He said if he wanted to meet that woman he would have already a long time ago. It just hurts so much and i feel betrayed. He sent me a text last night.



I’m so sorry !!!! For everything! You are so good always. Always good to me , take car to me . I’m really appreciate it! You are good enough to me . But I’m just weird and freak, I feel shame and hate myself,I don’t know myself, I don’t know how to be love , I’m not deserve you love , I have lot questions myself too , I have a lot of pressure , I don’t know how to opening. I don’t know why I’m like that . I just want say sorry . Sorry again！ I hope you are well , hope you to be happy . You always right. You teaching me a lot ! I will miss you !

Sometimes we need to give people a chance, if you like, take a break from each other. Tell him that you want to take a break from each other. For example, 3 months. Tell him that in these 3 months, without being in a relationship with you, he needs to be loyal, stop doing nonsense things which hurt you and tell him that he needs to change according to your conditions if he really love you. If he can do these, tell him that you will take him back. In this way, you will get a change in him, and you will not lose your relationship. Meanwhile during the break, you people stay as friends. I hope this works for u..

What now? I wait for him to approach me? What if he doesnt? What if he was just pretending to love me all this time. What if he was just waiting for me to leave him?

Why are pisces men so cruel? I thought they were the most loyal sign. I really did my best to understand love take care and dream with him. Now im left with a big WHY on my head.

Meantime, during this break stay as friends, without completely being unavailable to him may result in disasters of he getting off with someone else

Might be difficult to take a break and be unavailable to him seeing as they live together.

Even if they live together, they can stay as friends for a particular period of time she decides like few weeks or months where he gets time to prove her his loyalty without being in relationship with her, and she can also build trust on him that she is seeking

How does one maintain distance when sharing a small apartment during a pandemic? That seems really naïve of you to suggest. Have you ever lived with a SO? If you had its unlikely you would give this advice.

Is she supposed to build a pillow wall between them in bed to create separation?

Staying friends is unrealistic when they had a romantic connection, NOT a friendship.

I get wanting to work on the relationship and forgiveness and all that.

But really, what relationship?

They've been together for a year and for 6 months of that, 50% of the relationship, he's been cheating by flirting with other women AND actively hiding it from her. The relationship is built on a faulty foundation of disloyalty and deception.

He doesn't love her. If he did he would respect her, not step out of the relationship after only 6 months. And that is what SHE discovered. Who knows what else he has done behind her back that she is unaware of.

Assuming things always aren't always right, just because of assumptions I lost a person that loved me who thought in this same way. Flirting is a wrong thing, and he needs to change, and she needs to give him some time, if they're living together, I would suggest her not to indulge in any relationship activities and friends meaning that she should limit him to only as friend things until she gains some trust from him during the time they're off from their relationship and just naming it to be friend and friendly things. He will change in the meantime, and she gains the trust at least better than before, and things may get better and he might actually change and then they can be in relationship again. Why not give people a chance?❤️

Assuming your situation applies to her situation is an emotionally clouded outlook. You regret not giving your guy another chance so your giving this advice to her to act in the way you wish you could if you could go back in time and redo things.

Not engaging in relationship activities but giving him her friendship is an oxymoron. Allowing him to continue to have his emotional needs met by her is a mistake.

Why would he have any motivation to change how he is? Because he loves her? If he loved her why would he seek out other women to flirt with romantically after 6 months of being in a relationship with her... he wouldn't.

Ergo he doesn't love her. And I doubt she really loves him.

If you read her other threads she was looking for an excuse to end things because he wasn't giving her enough attention, affection, etc. She's in love with the idea of love and hates to imagine this relationship ending in failure. But her needs have not been met and she was unsatisfied and unhappy long before she found out he spent half the relationship cheating.

But I can guarantee that no one will ever give attention, affection, trueness, love compared to other zodiacs, because pisces are absolutely most loving zodiacs of all, and yes they are biggest flirts of all the zodiacs too, you can Google it, and yes I don't at all like this trait in them, but they mostly don't actually cheat which is intimation with other girls while being dedicated to their girl. He can change himself if he really wants her, which she can give him one more chance, through which he can mend his ways. Love is all about understanding, if he really understands her pain, he won't do further, and gradually stops doing it if he really cared about her

I am a Pisces and have never flirted with the intention to cheat during my 6 year relationship. Stop making excuses for bad behavior based on sun sign/cat lady astrology.

There is nothing 'true' about seeking out other women behind your SO's back. There is nothing in his actions of actively lying and sneaking behind her back that says 'dedication'.

If you want to be a doormat and allow this kind of disrespect and behavior in your life that's on you. But understand why myself and others have the opposite opinion.

I understood your opinion too, I'm just telling her to give him one more chance, because breaking relations these days became a fashion and an easy thing, which is related to two hearts. So if one heart leaves, the other heart cries, so one heart's decision affects other heart's. So maintaining a relation is important, and improving it is an absolute beautiful part people can do

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I'd agree with you if they had years upon years together or children or other ties and reasons to keep them together.

But the cold hard truth is they don't. They have 12 months invested and for 6 months of that time he was actively flirting and betraying her trust and love by being disloyal.

This relationship was not built on mutual respect and love.

Pouring more of her precious time into trying to salvage something that is broke and has been broke since its infancy is a waste of energy and time

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@LadyNeptune yes, I agree your perspective too, but giving him a chance when he is willing to change according to her wishes shows that he loves her and doesn't want to end things with her. Pisces is one of the best zodiac who never likes to breakup from their side. And maybe he learn from his past mistakes, and maybe he needs one more chance to change himself into the qualities of the person she is wishing for. If he loves her, he will. Love can change people. Even if they don't have children, she was in a relationship with him and they shared themselves with each other, so still they have a chance to work things up

Perhaps your right and she should lay down and allow him to walk all over her. After all, some lessons are meant to be learned the hard way.

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@LadyNeptune yes, I agree your perspective too, but giving him a chance when he is willing to change according to her wishes shows that he loves her and doesn't want to end things with her. Pisces is one of the best zodiac who never likes to breakup from their side. And maybe he learn from his past mistakes, and maybe he needs one more chance to change himself into the qualities of the person she is wishing for. If he loves her, he will. Love can change people. Even if they don't have children, she was in a relationship with him and they shared themselves with each other, so still they have a chance to work things up

Perhaps your right and she should lay down and allow him to walk all over her. After all, some lessons are meant to be learned the hard way.

I'm not telling her to get walked over. I'm telling her to give one more try, since he is trying to learn from his mistakes for being with her. If still he fails to do so, she can walk away from him. But as they once were already in a relationship, she trying again may not be a wrong thing, and maybe her relationship gets right this time. People change, they aren't always the same, and sometimes they need a little forgiveness to transform themselves into a better person with that chance and in this way she also doesn't get her heart heartbroken and doesn't lose the person she loves

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What about his actions say he is trying to learn from his mistakes to you? Genuinely curious.

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@LadyNeptune yes, I agree your perspective too, but giving him a chance when he is willing to change according to her wishes shows that he loves her and doesn't want to end things with her. Pisces is one of the best zodiac who never likes to breakup from their side. And maybe he learn from his past mistakes, and maybe he needs one more chance to change himself into the qualities of the person she is wishing for. If he loves her, he will. Love can change people. Even if they don't have children, she was in a relationship with him and they shared themselves with each other, so still they have a chance to work things up

Perhaps your right and she should lay down and allow him to walk all over her. After all, some lessons are meant to be learned the hard way.

I'm not telling her to get walked over. I'm telling her to give one more try, since he is trying to learn from his mistakes for being with her. If still he fails to do so, she can walk away from him. But as they once were already in a relationship, she trying again may not be a wrong thing, and maybe her relationship gets right this time. People change, they aren't always the same, and sometimes they need a little forgiveness to transform themselves into a better person with that chance and in this way she also doesn't get her heart heartbroken and doesn't lose the person she loves

What about his actions say he is trying to learn from his mistakes to you? Genuinely curious.

If he still wants her, it shows that he is willing to change for her

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This is the text he sent her...



I’m so sorry !!!! For everything! You are so good always. Always good to me , take car to me . I’m really appreciate it! You are good enough to me . But I’m just weird and freak, I feel shame and hate myself,I don’t know myself, I don’t know how to be love , I’m not deserve you love , I have lot questions myself too , I have a lot of pressure , I don’t know how to opening. I don’t know why I’m like that . I just want say sorry . Sorry again！ I hope you are well , hope you to be happy . You always right. You teaching me a lot ! I will miss you !



He is saying goodbye. He is saying he doesn't know how to love or be deserving of her love. He isn't fighting for her to stay.

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Pisces here 🙋

how long have you two been together?

has he done this before?

Both maybe should go over this and lay some rules down

in order for the relationship to continue?

This does not have to be the end

Almost a year. This is the first time im learning about it. He deletes the messenger app everytime. They have been talking inconsistently since june. With months of breaks then talking again.

okay so for almost a year..

I would say that at this stage that

not only are you two still learning about

each other, which is never ending, but also still learning about what can be accepted

for this relationship to grow and continue. It's inevitable in my opinion at this stage for

*more* slip ups as you two are still in the dark on many levels about each other AND the relationship.

Yeah, flirting may seem like a no brainer thing not to do but many people especially those under the pisces sun (in general)

can be flirts by nature just to be nice; it isn't always some form of connection that shows they are into the person

romantically or even sexually. So, depending on the level of flirting and how long he knew this person can give

you an idea, a huge clue, as to what his mindset is. Is this an old friend that he knew before you or is this someone who he started talking to after you two started?

Its just a randon girl online. He said he wasnt really thinking because to him its meaningless since they dont actually know each other. And everyone lies on cyberspace. I also found out that he did it to fulfill his foot fetish fantasies.

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Say you forgive him and get back together. Act like you are sad and hurt for a while and be distant but loving.

(So it seems real )Secretly start searching for another partner. ( Tinder, bumble whatever ) starting dating them behind his back. If you act like he's your whole world he'll never believe your cable of that. Once things are secure with your new love, go on a wonderful date night with your pisces. Than at end of it tell him you hate him and your leaving him for someone who he can't even compete with on his best day. Enjoy your new life with your new love.

You have all the power in this situation. He thinks your a doormat. And that's your biggest strength. It's really good for people to underestimate you. You deserve pay back for someone who thinks they can mess with you.

You'll feel better sleeping at night. Best of luck

This is an absolute wrong thing, she doesn't need to do out of her character things just to make him cry, she loves him, how he treats her is his karma, how she treats him is her karma. Let her be a good and loyal girl in the eyes of God until he absolutely cheats on her with other girl. Even that time, even if she leaves him to be with someone else, it will not be considered as a cheating, it will still be a rightful thing only. Just because he did silly things doesn't mean that she too should do the same

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have a previous post about my pisces man. I found out last night that he has been flirting with other women online. No physical contact was made “yet”. I am so heart broken right now. I never expected this from him. When i asked him about it. He said it was nothing and he was just feeling bored. He said he knows its wrong. And that he feels sssshhhttt about it. I think he has depression symptoms because he said he was feeling empty as a person. He also knows its his fault and that he has hurt me. He is asking me for another chance to make it work in our relationship. Right now i am so confused and i dont know what to do. I love him so much and i would want to make it work. But im still in the stage where im processing what happened. We are living together and i want to move out immediately. Ive been crying the whole night and day. I dont want to lose him but i dont want to keep hurting myself even more. What should i do? Should i just leave him? Can you help me? Please tell me your inputs. I want to know if theres still a chance or if i should just be brave and move on with my life. Im so lost.

You can't maintain a relationship with someone who doesn't want one

also 'sensitive' men usually means you'd have to perform extra emotional labor

ironic too how they act like the most selfish, insensitive, careless and callous

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Say you forgive him and get back together. Act like you are sad and hurt for a while and be distant but loving.

(So it seems real )Secretly start searching for another partner. ( Tinder, bumble whatever ) starting dating them behind his back. If you act like he's your whole world he'll never believe your cable of that. Once things are secure with your new love, go on a wonderful date night with your pisces. Than at end of it tell him you hate him and your leaving him for someone who he can't even compete with on his best day. Enjoy your new life with your new love.

You have all the power in this situation. He thinks your a doormat. And that's your biggest strength. It's really good for people to underestimate you. You deserve pay back for someone who thinks they can mess with you.

You'll feel better sleeping at night. Best of luck

This is an absolute wrong thing, she doesn't need to do out of her character things just to make him cry, she loves him, how he treats her is his karma, how she treats him is her karma. Let her be a good and loyal girl in the eyes of God until he absolutely cheats on her with other girl. Even that time, even if she leaves him to be with someone else, it will not be considered as a cheating, it will still be a rightful thing only. Just because he did silly things doesn't mean that she too should do the same

You’re an idiot! After reading your last thread, no one will be taking your advice seriously 😳

You all people prefer cheating right, you people are idiots, I didn't say anything wrong to her. I just want her to not lose the person whom she really loves. I don't need it explain it to you, because you are an idiot and don't know the value of a true love. If she understands my advices, that's enough. You don't need to

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@cancergirl9 dont mind the negative comments. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I genuinely appreciate yours and everyone else’s opinion to the subject.

I need to really think about it if its still worth it or not.

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@LadyNeptune yes, I agree your perspective too, but giving him a chance when he is willing to change according to her wishes shows that he loves her and doesn't want to end things with her. Pisces is one of the best zodiac who never likes to breakup from their side. And maybe he learn from his past mistakes, and maybe he needs one more chance to change himself into the qualities of the person she is wishing for. If he loves her, he will. Love can change people. Even if they don't have children, she was in a relationship with him and they shared themselves with each other, so still they have a chance to work things up

Perhaps your right and she should lay down and allow him to walk all over her. After all, some lessons are meant to be learned the hard way.

I'm not telling her to get walked over. I'm telling her to give one more try, since he is trying to learn from his mistakes for being with her. If still he fails to do so, she can walk away from him. But as they once were already in a relationship, she trying again may not be a wrong thing, and maybe her relationship gets right this time. People change, they aren't always the same, and sometimes they need a little forgiveness to transform themselves into a better person with that chance and in this way she also doesn't get her heart heartbroken and doesn't lose the person she loves

What about his actions say he is trying to learn from his mistakes to you? Genuinely curious.

If he still wants her, it shows that he is willing to change for her

This is the text he sent her...



I’m so sorry !!!! For everything! You are so good always. Always good to me , take car to me . I’m really appreciate it! You are good enough to me . But I’m just weird and freak, I feel shame and hate myself,I don’t know myself, I don’t know how to be love , I’m not deserve you love , I have lot questions myself too , I have a lot of pressure , I don’t know how to opening. I don’t know why I’m like that . I just want say sorry . Sorry again！ I hope you are well , hope you to be happy . You always right. You teaching me a lot ! I will miss you !



He is saying goodbye. He is saying he doesn't know how to love or be deserving of her love. He isn't fighting for her to stay.

This is the text the Pisces sent to ruffles??

If so, doesn't sound promising for her at all at this point

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Why do you think so? I need a pisces male opinion on this. I would really appreciate it.

Yeah, if you are in a relationship DO NOT entertain other people. If you wanna act single then don't be in a relationship TF