Because texting isn't our thing. We prefer more direct communication. If texting is your thing, that's fine. He'll more than likely appreciate your consistency. Just don't expect him to pick up the same texting habit.
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Posted by ChuckcemPosted by saweetz1988Because texting isn't our thing. We prefer more direct communication. If texting is your thing, that's fine. He'll more than likely appreciate your consistency. Just don't expect him to pick up the same texting habit.Posted by Chuckcembut do you give it ?Posted by saweetz1988Depends on the Leo, but in general yes we like consistency.
Are you guys consistent??
i mean like,
do u crave consistency coz u r a fixed sign
i'm talking about
morning messages good night messages.
does it matter much to you ?
mine went to sleep not saying goodnight and no good morning this morning ... lol
so maybe its not a big deal for himclick to expand
RIght I see / he was def a texter in the beginning. but Ofcoz grown out of it now that he’s got me lol. He says he was putting more efforts when he was chasing me hard but he’s back to his full self. U r right. He prefers face to face. Even that he’s quiet. So thank u. I also notice he does enjoy solitude a lot after a big day at work by watching tv drinking beer by himself etc. is that a Leo need for solitude? I tend to not message him so much when he’s working n at night too . I know he gets stressed but doesn’t express them properly. I talk a lot compared to him so I better tone that down lol
Posted by saweetz1988Not everything this guy does will be because of his zodiac sign. Every Leo is different, so you'll need to get to know him for who he is. Also as I've already said, Leos like consistency. Changing your communication style unnecessarily will only make you look inconsistent.Posted by ChuckcemPosted by saweetz1988Because texting isn't our thing. We prefer more direct communication. If texting is your thing, that's fine. He'll more than likely appreciate your consistency. Just don't expect him to pick up the same texting habit.Posted by Chuckcembut do you give it ?Posted by saweetz1988Depends on the Leo, but in general yes we like consistency.
Are you guys consistent??
i mean like,
do u crave consistency coz u r a fixed sign
i'm talking about
morning messages good night messages.
does it matter much to you ?
mine went to sleep not saying goodnight and no good morning this morning ... lol
so maybe its not a big deal for him
RIght I see / he was def a texter in the beginning. but Ofcoz grown out of it now that he’s got me lol. He says he was putting more efforts when he was chasing me hard but he’s back to his full self. U r right. He prefers face to face. Even that he’s quiet. So thank u. I also notice he does enjoy solitude a lot after a big day at work by watching tv drinking beer by himself etc. is that a Leo need for solitude? I tend to not message him so much when he’s working n at night too . I know he gets stressed but doesn’t express them properly. I talk a lot compared to him so I better tone that down lol
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Posted by oxSunQueenxoYeah that is pretty easy /) thank u for ur response . Etc. but why r Leo bad at texting? is it becoz u guys r so focused on the action and doing part rather than the talking part? I guess I am stimulated mentally but talking etc and that includes texting ... mmm...Posted by saweetz1988Generally, Leos are pretty terrible at texting... and yes, we like to be physically in the presence of people we are we have romantic relations with. And yes, if we're tired out, we need time and space to recharge... but I don't think that is a sign-related matter.Posted by ChuckcemPosted by saweetz1988Because texting isn't our thing. We prefer more direct communication. If texting is your thing, that's fine. He'll more than likely appreciate your consistency. Just don't expect him to pick up the same texting habit.Posted by Chuckcembut do you give it ?Posted by saweetz1988Depends on the Leo, but in general yes we like consistency.
Are you guys consistent??
i mean like,
do u crave consistency coz u r a fixed sign
i'm talking about
morning messages good night messages.
does it matter much to you ?
mine went to sleep not saying goodnight and no good morning this morning ... lol
so maybe its not a big deal for him
RIght I see / he was def a texter in the beginning. but Ofcoz grown out of it now that he’s got me lol. He says he was putting more efforts when he was chasing me hard but he’s back to his full self. U r right. He prefers face to face. Even that he’s quiet. So thank u. I also notice he does enjoy solitude a lot after a big day at work by watching tv drinking beer by himself etc. is that a Leo need for solitude? I tend to not message him so much when he’s working n at night too . I know he gets stressed but doesn’t express them properly. I talk a lot compared to him so I better tone that down lol
I really don't think locking in a Leo is that difficult... the key thing that keeps us from disappearing is consistency and honesty from you.click to expand
Posted by MiZLeoIMAO. After dating this guy for a few months, u sound like a Leo 😛. nah nah I get it but see soemtimes we r busy with our lives lolPosted by saweetz1988Constant texting gets annoying after a while. Like if you want to talk to me that much then make a plan to see me and stick to it.Posted by oxSunQueenxoYeah that is pretty easy /) thank u for ur response . Etc. but why r Leo bad at texting? is it becoz u guys r so focused on the action and doing part rather than the talking part? I guess I am stimulated mentally but talking etc and that includes texting ... mmm...Posted by saweetz1988Generally, Leos are pretty terrible at texting... and yes, we like to be physically in the presence of people we are we have romantic relations with. And yes, if we're tired out, we need time and space to recharge... but I don't think that is a sign-related matter.Posted by ChuckcemPosted by saweetz1988Because texting isn't our thing. We prefer more direct communication. If texting is your thing, that's fine. He'll more than likely appreciate your consistency. Just don't expect him to pick up the same texting habit.Posted by Chuckcembut do you give it ?Posted by saweetz1988Depends on the Leo, but in general yes we like consistency.
Are you guys consistent??
i mean like,
do u crave consistency coz u r a fixed sign
i'm talking about
morning messages good night messages.
does it matter much to you ?
mine went to sleep not saying goodnight and no good morning this morning ... lol
so maybe its not a big deal for him
RIght I see / he was def a texter in the beginning. but Ofcoz grown out of it now that he’s got me lol. He says he was putting more efforts when he was chasing me hard but he’s back to his full self. U r right. He prefers face to face. Even that he’s quiet. So thank u. I also notice he does enjoy solitude a lot after a big day at work by watching tv drinking beer by himself etc. is that a Leo need for solitude? I tend to not message him so much when he’s working n at night too . I know he gets stressed but doesn’t express them properly. I talk a lot compared to him so I better tone that down lol
I really don't think locking in a Leo is that difficult... the key thing that keeps us from disappearing is consistency and honesty from you.click to expand
Posted by oxSunQueenxoThank you so much for your precise response!! Yes it is very true. He has a lot on his plate and juggling a lot. He’s a manger of the engineers for once. Lots of stress at work etc but still fit in to see me after knowing that he has to get up early etc. now he’s fitting gym in a lot. I notice he’s more relaxed on weekends where there’s no work.. in getting to know him more and cna understand him a lot better. Thank u. I will just leave texting to the other air signs HAhahhaa females offozPosted by saweetz1988Texting isn't as meaningful/fulfilling as phone conversations/video chats/in-person hangouts. Personally, I've been super busy with stuff related to my career path, so I am more worried about taking care of that than answering people's messages which are often about trivial matters. If it is something urgent, then yes, of course I will text back (or call... whatever works at the moment)... but other than that, I care to get my prioritized matters done and out of the way first, which I have been doing since going to college... I would read a message and try to remember to respond, but oftentimes, I forget either because a) I'm busy or b) I don't care to talk to that person that much.Posted by oxSunQueenxoYeah that is pretty easy /) thank u for ur response . Etc. but why r Leo bad at texting? is it becoz u guys r so focused on the action and doing part rather than the talking part? I guess I am stimulated mentally but talking etc and that includes texting ... mmm...Posted by saweetz1988Generally, Leos are pretty terrible at texting... and yes, we like to be physically in the presence of people we are we have romantic relations with. And yes, if we're tired out, we need time and space to recharge... but I don't think that is a sign-related matter.Posted by ChuckcemPosted by saweetz1988Because texting isn't our thing. We prefer more direct communication. If texting is your thing, that's fine. He'll more than likely appreciate your consistency. Just don't expect him to pick up the same texting habit.Posted by Chuckcembut do you give it ?Posted by saweetz1988Depends on the Leo, but in general yes we like consistency.
Are you guys consistent??
i mean like,
do u crave consistency coz u r a fixed sign
i'm talking about
morning messages good night messages.
does it matter much to you ?
mine went to sleep not saying goodnight and no good morning this morning ... lol
so maybe its not a big deal for him
RIght I see / he was def a texter in the beginning. but Ofcoz grown out of it now that he’s got me lol. He says he was putting more efforts when he was chasing me hard but he’s back to his full self. U r right. He prefers face to face. Even that he’s quiet. So thank u. I also notice he does enjoy solitude a lot after a big day at work by watching tv drinking beer by himself etc. is that a Leo need for solitude? I tend to not message him so much when he’s working n at night too . I know he gets stressed but doesn’t express them properly. I talk a lot compared to him so I better tone that down lol
I really don't think locking in a Leo is that difficult... the key thing that keeps us from disappearing is consistency and honesty from you.
As for your Leo... I am pretty sure he is just juggling much in his life and trying to keep it all together. It is not a personal thing towards you.
A lot of times, people would text me, and then after like half an hour of no response, they would text again wondering what's up with me. I really just forget to text back... because I have things going on that are taking up my time and energy.click to expand
do Leo men like their space? or do they ignore you because they are not interested anymore?
Posted by ts9If a Leo is ignoring you, that's not a good sign. It either means we are detaching ourselves from you OR we are not interested.
do Leo men like their space? or do they ignore you because they are not interested anymore?
Posted by oxSunQueenxoI didn't put that in given the context of OP's other post, but you're right. I usually a find that Leo's don't flat out ignore people unless we are stressed. Otherwise we are simply slow to respond, which makes people think we're ignoring them.Posted by ChuckcemHm... I don't know if I agree with that. We can ignore people if we're busy.Posted by ts9If a Leo is ignoring you, that's not a good sign. It either means we are detaching ourselves from you OR we are not interested.
do Leo men like their space? or do they ignore you because they are not interested anymore?
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Posted by oxSunQueenxohttps://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/leo-fling--10185594/?checkpg=1Posted by ChuckcemOh, I didn't realize that OP had another post... Link?Posted by oxSunQueenxoI didn't put that in given the context of OP's other post, but you're right. I usually a find that Leo's don't flat out ignore people unless we are stressed. Otherwise we are simply slow to respond, which makes people think we're ignoring them.Posted by ChuckcemHm... I don't know if I agree with that. We can ignore people if we're busy.Posted by ts9If a Leo is ignoring you, that's not a good sign. It either means we are detaching ourselves from you OR we are not interested.
do Leo men like their space? or do they ignore you because they are not interested anymore?
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I don't think the Leo in this story is necessarily busy.
Posted by ChuckcemWhat if he/she is going through some tough times with life? can that be another reason?Posted by oxSunQueenxohttps://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/leo-fling--10185594/?checkpg=1Posted by ChuckcemOh, I didn't realize that OP had another post... Link?Posted by oxSunQueenxoI didn't put that in given the context of OP's other post, but you're right. I usually a find that Leo's don't flat out ignore people unless we are stressed. Otherwise we are simply slow to respond, which makes people think we're ignoring them.Posted by ChuckcemHm... I don't know if I agree with that. We can ignore people if we're busy.Posted by ts9If a Leo is ignoring you, that's not a good sign. It either means we are detaching ourselves from you OR we are not interested.
do Leo men like their space? or do they ignore you because they are not interested anymore?
I don't think the Leo in this story is necessarily busy.click to expand
Posted by ts9Yes if the situation is stressful enough, but don't expect to interact much with the Leo until those issues are firmly resolved.Posted by ChuckcemWhat if he/she is going through some tough times with life? can that be another reason?Posted by oxSunQueenxohttps://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/leo-fling--10185594/?checkpg=1Posted by ChuckcemOh, I didn't realize that OP had another post... Link?Posted by oxSunQueenxoI didn't put that in given the context of OP's other post, but you're right. I usually a find that Leo's don't flat out ignore people unless we are stressed. Otherwise we are simply slow to respond, which makes people think we're ignoring them.Posted by ChuckcemHm... I don't know if I agree with that. We can ignore people if we're busy.Posted by ts9If a Leo is ignoring you, that's not a good sign. It either means we are detaching ourselves from you OR we are not interested.
do Leo men like their space? or do they ignore you because they are not interested anymore?
I don't think the Leo in this story is necessarily busy.
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How to understand a hurt leo? I been dating this leo for some time. We both want a relationship but he been hur too many times,.so, he is distant. He is even distant with communication. I feel I shouldn't habe to initiate the convos all the time. When it didn't start off like that..
Posted by Lisa5305The only thing you can do is let him know that you care. Otherwise he'll need to work through his own issues.
How to understand a hurt leo? I been dating this leo for some time. We both want a relationship but he been hur too many times,.so, he is distant. He is even distant with communication. I feel I shouldn't habe to initiate the convos all the time. When it didn't start off like that..
Posted by Jayc3onI'm not sure about that one.
@Chuckcem how does chiron in Leo affect those with that placement?
Say you're a famous person, would you expect the person that you're dating to treat you like how your fans or other people treating you? Or you expect him/her to just treat you just like you're an ordinary normal non famous person despite how legend you are?
Posted by Mujer_latinaNone of them. That's not how Leo's operate. We are designed to be able to work with everyone (at least on some level). If we don't like a particular sign it is because of our own personal/individual experiences. A pattern I've noticed is that we can often have frustrations with Aquas, being our opposite, but we also tend to date them often. We can also clash with Scorpios, but will also make good friends and lovers with them. So there's no clear answer here.
a 45 page long thread. Now that's impressive
Anyway, what sign's Leo's nemesis?
Posted by aquaglassWe expect to be treated like a normal person and an equal with our partner. Leos typically choose a partner we feel understand us inside and out, someone who loves us deeply. A fan's love is too superficial because it's based on a facade. As a result a fan can never deeply love that which they admire.
Say you're a famous person, would you expect the person that you're dating to treat you like how your fans or other people treating you? Or you expect him/her to just treat you just like you're an ordinary normal non famous person despite how legend you are?
Additionally Leo's are looking for our queen/king. We want a partner who we knows how to walk with us, not behind us. We value loyalty, but we also value strength. Therefore our partner must have an inner confidence.
That all being said, we do want our partner's total attention in love. Contrary to popular believe we don't need our partner to grovel at our feet. We want to know that our partner is just as interested in us as we are into them. Someone who we cherish who can reciprocate our adoration.
So when a Leo says that they want a lover who is their "biggest fan", that's not in the literal sense. Basically as long as we know that we're equally loved, we're good.
Posted by ChuckcemI see, thanks for your insight. So this Leo guy approached me earlier.Posted by aquaglassWe expect to be treated like a normal person and an equal with our partner. Leos typically choose a partner we feel understand us inside and out, someone who loves us deeply. A fan's love is too superficial because it's based on a facade. As a result a fan can never deeply love that which they admire.
Say you're a famous person, would you expect the person that you're dating to treat you like how your fans or other people treating you? Or you expect him/her to just treat you just like you're an ordinary normal non famous person despite how legend you are?
Additionally Leo's are looking for our queen/king. We want a partner who we knows how to walk with us, not behind us. We value loyalty, but we also value strength. Therefore our partner must have an inner confidence.
That all being said, we do want our partner's total attention in love. Contrary to popular believe we don't need our partner to grovel at our feet. We want to know that our partner is just as interested in us as we are into them. Someone who we cherish who can reciprocate our adoration.
So when a Leo says that they want a lover who is their "biggest fan", that's not in the literal sense. Basically as long as we know that we're equally loved, we're good.click to expand
We both in the same field and a lil bit later i figured out that yes he is that very well known person in our field.
If you're in IT industry, you should've known this man. His news are out there.
I wasn't really sure that it's really him at first, he is very down to earth and really nice.
Now he's talking to me almost every day.
And now it makes me nervous.
I don't know if he is aware if i'm aware about him. Should i let him know about that?
Posted by aquaglassLet him know about what exactly?Posted by ChuckcemI see, thanks for your insight. So this Leo guy approached me earlier.Posted by aquaglassWe expect to be treated like a normal person and an equal with our partner. Leos typically choose a partner we feel understand us inside and out, someone who loves us deeply. A fan's love is too superficial because it's based on a facade. As a result a fan can never deeply love that which they admire.
Say you're a famous person, would you expect the person that you're dating to treat you like how your fans or other people treating you? Or you expect him/her to just treat you just like you're an ordinary normal non famous person despite how legend you are?
Additionally Leo's are looking for our queen/king. We want a partner who we knows how to walk with us, not behind us. We value loyalty, but we also value strength. Therefore our partner must have an inner confidence.
That all being said, we do want our partner's total attention in love. Contrary to popular believe we don't need our partner to grovel at our feet. We want to know that our partner is just as interested in us as we are into them. Someone who we cherish who can reciprocate our adoration.
So when a Leo says that they want a lover who is their "biggest fan", that's not in the literal sense. Basically as long as we know that we're equally loved, we're good.
We both in the same field and a lil bit later i figured out that yes he is that very well known person in our field.
If you're in IT industry, you should've known this man. His news are out there.
I wasn't really sure that it's really him at first, he is very down to earth and really nice.
Now he's talking to me almost every day.
And now it makes me nervous.
I don't know if he is aware if i'm aware about him. Should i let him know about that?
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Posted by ChuckcemThat i'm aware of how famous he isPosted by aquaglassLet him know about what exactly?Posted by ChuckcemI see, thanks for your insight. So this Leo guy approached me earlier.Posted by aquaglassWe expect to be treated like a normal person and an equal with our partner. Leos typically choose a partner we feel understand us inside and out, someone who loves us deeply. A fan's love is too superficial because it's based on a facade. As a result a fan can never deeply love that which they admire.
Say you're a famous person, would you expect the person that you're dating to treat you like how your fans or other people treating you? Or you expect him/her to just treat you just like you're an ordinary normal non famous person despite how legend you are?
Additionally Leo's are looking for our queen/king. We want a partner who we knows how to walk with us, not behind us. We value loyalty, but we also value strength. Therefore our partner must have an inner confidence.
That all being said, we do want our partner's total attention in love. Contrary to popular believe we don't need our partner to grovel at our feet. We want to know that our partner is just as interested in us as we are into them. Someone who we cherish who can reciprocate our adoration.
So when a Leo says that they want a lover who is their "biggest fan", that's not in the literal sense. Basically as long as we know that we're equally loved, we're good.
We both in the same field and a lil bit later i figured out that yes he is that very well known person in our field.
If you're in IT industry, you should've known this man. His news are out there.
I wasn't really sure that it's really him at first, he is very down to earth and really nice.
Now he's talking to me almost every day.
And now it makes me nervous.
I don't know if he is aware if i'm aware about him. Should i let him know about that?
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Posted by aquaglassNo, don't do that.Posted by ChuckcemThat i'm aware of how famous he isPosted by aquaglassLet him know about what exactly?Posted by ChuckcemI see, thanks for your insight. So this Leo guy approached me earlier.Posted by aquaglassWe expect to be treated like a normal person and an equal with our partner. Leos typically choose a partner we feel understand us inside and out, someone who loves us deeply. A fan's love is too superficial because it's based on a facade. As a result a fan can never deeply love that which they admire.
Say you're a famous person, would you expect the person that you're dating to treat you like how your fans or other people treating you? Or you expect him/her to just treat you just like you're an ordinary normal non famous person despite how legend you are?
Additionally Leo's are looking for our queen/king. We want a partner who we knows how to walk with us, not behind us. We value loyalty, but we also value strength. Therefore our partner must have an inner confidence.
That all being said, we do want our partner's total attention in love. Contrary to popular believe we don't need our partner to grovel at our feet. We want to know that our partner is just as interested in us as we are into them. Someone who we cherish who can reciprocate our adoration.
So when a Leo says that they want a lover who is their "biggest fan", that's not in the literal sense. Basically as long as we know that we're equally loved, we're good.
We both in the same field and a lil bit later i figured out that yes he is that very well known person in our field.
If you're in IT industry, you should've known this man. His news are out there.
I wasn't really sure that it's really him at first, he is very down to earth and really nice.
Now he's talking to me almost every day.
And now it makes me nervous.
I don't know if he is aware if i'm aware about him. Should i let him know about that?
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Posted by ChuckcemYes, that's what i thought too!Posted by aquaglassNo, don't do that.Posted by ChuckcemThat i'm aware of how famous he isPosted by aquaglassLet him know about what exactly?Posted by ChuckcemI see, thanks for your insight. So this Leo guy approached me earlier.Posted by aquaglassWe expect to be treated like a normal person and an equal with our partner. Leos typically choose a partner we feel understand us inside and out, someone who loves us deeply. A fan's love is too superficial because it's based on a facade. As a result a fan can never deeply love that which they admire.
Say you're a famous person, would you expect the person that you're dating to treat you like how your fans or other people treating you? Or you expect him/her to just treat you just like you're an ordinary normal non famous person despite how legend you are?
Additionally Leo's are looking for our queen/king. We want a partner who we knows how to walk with us, not behind us. We value loyalty, but we also value strength. Therefore our partner must have an inner confidence.
That all being said, we do want our partner's total attention in love. Contrary to popular believe we don't need our partner to grovel at our feet. We want to know that our partner is just as interested in us as we are into them. Someone who we cherish who can reciprocate our adoration.
So when a Leo says that they want a lover who is their "biggest fan", that's not in the literal sense. Basically as long as we know that we're equally loved, we're good.
We both in the same field and a lil bit later i figured out that yes he is that very well known person in our field.
If you're in IT industry, you should've known this man. His news are out there.
I wasn't really sure that it's really him at first, he is very down to earth and really nice.
Now he's talking to me almost every day.
And now it makes me nervous.
I don't know if he is aware if i'm aware about him. Should i let him know about that?
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Posted by ChuckcemI can relate to this question as mine is going through something tough at the moment. Should I give him space or would a Leo (man) require more support and love during this time?Posted by ts9Yes if the situation is stressful enough, but don't expect to interact much with the Leo until those issues are firmly resolved.Posted by ChuckcemWhat if he/she is going through some tough times with life? can that be another reason?Posted by oxSunQueenxohttps://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/leo-fling--10185594/?checkpg=1Posted by ChuckcemOh, I didn't realize that OP had another post... Link?Posted by oxSunQueenxoI didn't put that in given the context of OP's other post, but you're right. I usually a find that Leo's don't flat out ignore people unless we are stressed. Otherwise we are simply slow to respond, which makes people think we're ignoring them.Posted by ChuckcemHm... I don't know if I agree with that. We can ignore people if we're busy.Posted by ts9If a Leo is ignoring you, that's not a good sign. It either means we are detaching ourselves from you OR we are not interested.
do Leo men like their space? or do they ignore you because they are not interested anymore?
I don't think the Leo in this story is necessarily busy.
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Posted by saweetz1988Your situation is different from the other person. Your Leo will need love and support.Posted by ChuckcemI can relate to this question as mine is going through something tough at the moment. Should I give him space or would a Leo (man) require more support and love during this time?Posted by ts9Yes if the situation is stressful enough, but don't expect to interact much with the Leo until those issues are firmly resolved.Posted by ChuckcemWhat if he/she is going through some tough times with life? can that be another reason?Posted by oxSunQueenxohttps://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/leo-fling--10185594/?checkpg=1Posted by ChuckcemOh, I didn't realize that OP had another post... Link?Posted by oxSunQueenxoI didn't put that in given the context of OP's other post, but you're right. I usually a find that Leo's don't flat out ignore people unless we are stressed. Otherwise we are simply slow to respond, which makes people think we're ignoring them.Posted by ChuckcemHm... I don't know if I agree with that. We can ignore people if we're busy.Posted by ts9If a Leo is ignoring you, that's not a good sign. It either means we are detaching ourselves from you OR we are not interested.
do Leo men like their space? or do they ignore you because they are not interested anymore?
I don't think the Leo in this story is necessarily busy.
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Posted by ChuckcemI see...Posted by saweetz1988Your situation is different from the other person. Your Leo will need love and support.Posted by ChuckcemI can relate to this question as mine is going through something tough at the moment. Should I give him space or would a Leo (man) require more support and love during this time?Posted by ts9Yes if the situation is stressful enough, but don't expect to interact much with the Leo until those issues are firmly resolved.Posted by ChuckcemWhat if he/she is going through some tough times with life? can that be another reason?Posted by oxSunQueenxohttps://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/leo-fling--10185594/?checkpg=1Posted by ChuckcemOh, I didn't realize that OP had another post... Link?Posted by oxSunQueenxoI didn't put that in given the context of OP's other post, but you're right. I usually a find that Leo's don't flat out ignore people unless we are stressed. Otherwise we are simply slow to respond, which makes people think we're ignoring them.Posted by ChuckcemHm... I don't know if I agree with that. We can ignore people if we're busy.Posted by ts9If a Leo is ignoring you, that's not a good sign. It either means we are detaching ourselves from you OR we are not interested.
do Leo men like their space? or do they ignore you because they are not interested anymore?
I don't think the Leo in this story is necessarily busy.
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,, i just messaged him saying if he needs some space I'm happy to not message him the whole weekend..
i just feel like he needs that time to sort things out...
lets see how he takes it but thank u for ur input.
Posted by Jayc3onme personally would prefer a leo girlfriend than a scorpio girlfriend.
Are you guys better lovers than scorps? Only asking because I heard a scorpio woman say scorps are better lover than the mighty lions.
atlas they don't really play much mind game and say it as it is.
scorpio is very different in that sense.
I am a Libra woman. My male neighbor is a Leo.
I have known my neighbor for 2.5 years. On and off we have hung out at each others house, drank beer and wine while watching the game or a movie and a few times when he hurt himself being athletic he took his shirt off and I helped him by rubbing ointment on his back and gave him a massage. Nothing has EVER happened. No one... meaning HE has ever made a pass or any move to be romantic.
About 1.5 years into this we had a weird argument. It was so odd. It was regarding a TV personality that he liked and I mentioned that the guy was not my cup of tea because the person seemed very crass and had awful behavior towards women. Well for some reason he got really upset that I didn't care for this guy on TV.
I am so conflict avoidant and don't like to argue so I just said good bye and I left.
A year goes by and we had not spoken.
A few weeks ago we ran into each other at a cafe, I was with friends. I invited him to sit with us and we all got along great. After we all ate together, my friends said, 'That guy really likes you. He watched you whenever you got up and checked you out up and down."
I blew it off.
And he took me out to lunch on Valentine's Day in exchange for me helping him with some business stuff. And later that evening on Valentine's Day we had wine together at his house.
We have great conversation, but nothing has happened.
Is this guy attracted to me?
I have known my neighbor for 2.5 years. On and off we have hung out at each others house, drank beer and wine while watching the game or a movie and a few times when he hurt himself being athletic he took his shirt off and I helped him by rubbing ointment on his back and gave him a massage. Nothing has EVER happened. No one... meaning HE has ever made a pass or any move to be romantic.
About 1.5 years into this we had a weird argument. It was so odd. It was regarding a TV personality that he liked and I mentioned that the guy was not my cup of tea because the person seemed very crass and had awful behavior towards women. Well for some reason he got really upset that I didn't care for this guy on TV.
I am so conflict avoidant and don't like to argue so I just said good bye and I left.
A year goes by and we had not spoken.
A few weeks ago we ran into each other at a cafe, I was with friends. I invited him to sit with us and we all got along great. After we all ate together, my friends said, 'That guy really likes you. He watched you whenever you got up and checked you out up and down."
I blew it off.
And he took me out to lunch on Valentine's Day in exchange for me helping him with some business stuff. And later that evening on Valentine's Day we had wine together at his house.
We have great conversation, but nothing has happened.
Is this guy attracted to me?
I am a Libra woman. My male neighbor is a Leo.
I have known my neighbor for 2.5 years. On and off we have hung out at each others house, drank beer and wine while watching the game or a movie and a few times when he hurt himself being athletic he took his shirt off and I helped him by rubbing ointment on his back and gave him a massage. Nothing has EVER happened. No one... meaning HE has ever made a pass or any move to be romantic.
About 1.5 years into this we had a weird argument. It was so odd. It was regarding a TV personality that he liked and I mentioned that the guy was not my cup of tea because the person seemed very crass and had awful behavior towards women. Well for some reason he got really upset that I didn't care for this guy on TV.
I am so conflict avoidant and don't like to argue so I just said good bye and I left.
A year goes by and we had not spoken.
A few weeks ago we ran into each other at a cafe, I was with friends. I invited him to sit with us and we all got along great. After we all ate together, my friends said, 'That guy really likes you. He watched you whenever you got up and checked you out up and down."
I blew it off.
And he took me out to lunch on Valentine's Day in exchange for me helping him with some business stuff. And later that evening on Valentine's Day we had wine together at his house.
We have great conversation, but nothing has happened.
Is this guy attracted to me?
I have known my neighbor for 2.5 years. On and off we have hung out at each others house, drank beer and wine while watching the game or a movie and a few times when he hurt himself being athletic he took his shirt off and I helped him by rubbing ointment on his back and gave him a massage. Nothing has EVER happened. No one... meaning HE has ever made a pass or any move to be romantic.
About 1.5 years into this we had a weird argument. It was so odd. It was regarding a TV personality that he liked and I mentioned that the guy was not my cup of tea because the person seemed very crass and had awful behavior towards women. Well for some reason he got really upset that I didn't care for this guy on TV.
I am so conflict avoidant and don't like to argue so I just said good bye and I left.
A year goes by and we had not spoken.
A few weeks ago we ran into each other at a cafe, I was with friends. I invited him to sit with us and we all got along great. After we all ate together, my friends said, 'That guy really likes you. He watched you whenever you got up and checked you out up and down."
I blew it off.
And he took me out to lunch on Valentine's Day in exchange for me helping him with some business stuff. And later that evening on Valentine's Day we had wine together at his house.
We have great conversation, but nothing has happened.
Is this guy attracted to me?
Posted by Jayc3onHaving been with both, I'd say lovemaking with a Leo vs a Scorpio is different. Both are physical in nature, but one is more about fun/pleasure while the other is more about intensity. While Scorpio knows what they are doing in the bedroom generally and tends to be kinkier, Leo is all about reciprocity/generosity.
Are you guys better lovers than scorps? Only asking because I heard a scorpio woman say scorps are better lover than the mighty lions.
Posted by Jayc3onBoth love the same
Are you guys better lovers than scorps? Only asking because I heard a scorpio woman say scorps are better lover than the mighty lions.
Posted by Jayc3onPosted by saweetz1988Posted by Jayc3onme personally would prefer a leo girlfriend than a scorpio girlfriend.
Are you guys better lovers than scorps? Only asking because I heard a scorpio woman say scorps are better lover than the mighty lions.
atlas they don't really play much mind game and say it as it is.
scorpio is very different in that sense.
Aren't you a scorpio woman?
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No I’m a Taurus In 8th house. So I can have that tendency to wanna do deep and love mystery things like Scorpio. I do love the intensity but the mind game and the revengeful nesss of a Scorpio after a break up isn’t my cup of tea
Posted by ChuckcemCAn you explain reciprocity and generosity in the sexual sense ? hahaPosted by Jayc3onHaving been with both, I'd say lovemaking with a Leo vs a Scorpio is different. Both are physical in nature, but one is more about fun/pleasure while the other is more about intensity. While Scorpio knows what they are doing in the bedroom generally and tends to be kinkier, Leo is all about reciprocity/generosity.
Are you guys better lovers than scorps? Only asking because I heard a scorpio woman say scorps are better lover than the mighty lions.click to expand
Posted by saweetz1988Leos are known to want to give back when in love. Leos usually aren't stingy in bed.Posted by ChuckcemCAn you explain reciprocity and generosity in the sexual sense ? hahaPosted by Jayc3onHaving been with both, I'd say lovemaking with a Leo vs a Scorpio is different. Both are physical in nature, but one is more about fun/pleasure while the other is more about intensity. While Scorpio knows what they are doing in the bedroom generally and tends to be kinkier, Leo is all about reciprocity/generosity.
Are you guys better lovers than scorps? Only asking because I heard a scorpio woman say scorps are better lover than the mighty lions.click to expand
What type of guy could wear the pants in a relationship with a Leo woman?
I think he must "outalpha" her.
Do you think a taurus guy could do that?
Hello there Ask a Leo. I am in quite some need for advice dealing with my Leo male.
I will condense this as much as possible. Any insight would be greatly appreciated. I'm pretty hurt right now, so please don't be harsh.
When we started dating, for the first 4 months of our relationship it was long distance. We are ten years different in age (he is younger). I was his first "real" gf. I was the first girl he had ever brought home to meet the parents. When I first met his family- it was amazing. I felt a part of a family for the first time in my life. But, when I came back (I was overseas and moved to where he was for him), it was a different story. (I'll get back to this).
The first few months of me being in his native country was a very difficult transition for me. I fell into a depression and fought with him a lot. I was not myself- and I couldn't control my temper I think because of the lack of control being in a new environment.
We have always talked about marriage and kids. We had a life plan together. I wouldn't move across the world for something small.
We went to stay with his family for the holidays- in their home. This was very difficult for me as they are old school traditional and religious. We obv couldn't sleep in the same room- but it was more than that. We couldn't sit on the couch together, we got ZERO alone time and his mom controlled everything he did, ate, and wore. I feel it was damaging to our relationship bc we were no longer connecting and he seemed to revert back into a kid and his families religious beliefs, although he had projected to me to not follow their beliefs.
Another contributing factor to this is that his family, who were once so warm and inviting, became to outcast me. They refused to speak English to me for the entire two months I was in their home. We had to sit down to family dinner every single night, and I would try to be a part of the convo- but they would not speak English. So I didn't know what was going on around me, I felt excluded and became depressed again. He and I fought every other day bc I was upset/sad that his family wouldn't even speak a word of English to me, and he wouldn't talk to them about it. Not even once. (and just FYI they speak English VERY well).
I tried my hardest to be accepted and made many attempts to have conversations but after so many failed attempts, I gave up and just stayed in my head.
One day his mom came and woke me up, and asked me to go for a ride with her. On this ride, in PERFECT English she begins to tell me I'm not a part of the plan she has for her son. That she doesn't want him to be with me, that she liked me as a person but "I needed the Lord in my heart", and that his dad dated someone before her and it didn't work because he was meant to meet a proper woman like herself. As you can understand this was very hurtful and offensive to me, but I remained respectful and just sat there and took it.
When we got back to the family house, I spoke to him about it. I didn't tell him everything she said, bc I knew the kinda influence she has on him. We spoke for awhile- about how he needed me to be less combative and I needed him to communicate with me etc, but we ended the conversation with us talking about our plans for the future/marriage/building a life together. It was good. I woke up the next day and he was gone on a ride with his mom...he came back and then asked me to go for a ride with him...haha at this point I thought I was on a hidden camera show. I couldn't believe how they were treating someone.
He and I go for a ride, and he begins to break up with me. Tells me "his tank is empty, he has nothing left to give, the relationship isn't working, and he needs to call it". Says he doesn't feel the same way for me anymore. I'm obv blindsided considering the conversation we had the night before and the fact that everything was fine between us (or at least I thought). I am crying and begging for him not to do this, considering I moved across the world for him, etc etc. Look I am quite embarrassed about doing this- begging for a man is not in my nature. I am an Aries and independent. I was just heart broken and very very confused.
After awhile he agrees to stay with me and try to work on things. We go back to the house and it's very uncomfortable for me as the entire family (including extended family, like 9 people) knew what had just transpired. No one spoke to me. I had no private room to cope, I hid in the bathroom and cried, pretending to take a shower. It was awful.
We drove back to our city a few days later. When we got back he acted like everything was normal, he went back to normal, he was affectionate again, our sex life came back etc.
After a few weeks things are still going great but I have a weird gut feeling. So I get drunk on tequila, and went through his phone. Yes I know I shouldn't have and I am not proud of it. Please do not judge- I just wanted the truth and I was messed up. So of course I find shit. I wake him up and confront him, he tries to lie, I make it known that I know the truth and all the shit he was hiding, he got cold/mean/and angry like I've never seen before. He said a lot of below the belt messed up things- completely brutal and he left.
He came to get his stuff from my house a few days later, and we talked for a bit. When I asked if his mom had anything to do with our breakup because it came out of nowhere, just the day after she speaks to me, and he says no and that it's fucked up that I think that. But it's kinda obv to me. He says that all the arguments that we ever got in ate at him. That he started our relationship so happy, but now he feels drained from my few bad months transition into his culture bc he was always trying to make me happy. He said he still loves me and cares about me, but does not want to be in a relationship anymore. He said it just went away for him, and he didn't know if he would be able to get it back.
He left and I didn't hear from him for a few days. I was supposed to leave this city on a Monday, and Sunday he texted asking if he could come say bye to me and get the rest of his stuff and said he wanted to see me before I left. My dog got very sick and I was not able to leave and had to cancel my flight. I told him this and he just kinda stopped responding and we never saw each other. A few days later he texts me and BLOWS UP on me because some of his mates saw me on Tinder and he sent a flicking off emoji. Said some messed up hurtful things. I responded and asked why it even mattered since he broke up with me, I wasn't doing anything wrong and am trying to move on/distract myself from the pain I am in. He responded "leave me alone". Ha, even though he is the one that texted me.
A few days later I tried to send some messages to see if we can be friends. You see I am very alone here and don't know anyone, and I truly miss him as my friend. He said maybe in a few months we could try a coffee but would prefer we not speak, said he could be here as a friend for me but nothing more and he was going to be distant from me because "I would want more than just friends" and then said he would come get the rest of his stuff.
It's been two weeks and I haven't heard from him.
I'm sorry this is so long. I just wanted to give a context/background. I am very heartbroken and confused. He was the most loving, gentle, sensitive, supportive guy- and he's a totally different person, it's crazy. Cold, distant, mean as fuck. He deleted all pics of me on his instagram and said he did it to try to move on. We have 2 mutual friends that says he hasn't said a word about it, and is pretending nothing happened and like I never existed. I was a very loyal gf. I took care of him, cooked every day for him, did his laundry, etc. But I guess during my hard transition into a new culture- I was too negative for him.
I moved to a new continent for him, and we had plans for marriage. For something like that, you would think someone could stand with their person during their hard times. He said he couldn't deal with it and that it made him feel weak. I texted and asked him if he was happier now without me, and he said "I'm trying to be yeah, but I'm hurting". He said he still loves me, and will always love me, and that he still cared about me and that he "gives more fucks than I would like to know".
When Leo's are hurt or go through a break up is this how they handle it? With distance and completely deletion?
Do Leo's ever come back or how long does it take for them to make communication again?
I will condense this as much as possible. Any insight would be greatly appreciated. I'm pretty hurt right now, so please don't be harsh.
When we started dating, for the first 4 months of our relationship it was long distance. We are ten years different in age (he is younger). I was his first "real" gf. I was the first girl he had ever brought home to meet the parents. When I first met his family- it was amazing. I felt a part of a family for the first time in my life. But, when I came back (I was overseas and moved to where he was for him), it was a different story. (I'll get back to this).
The first few months of me being in his native country was a very difficult transition for me. I fell into a depression and fought with him a lot. I was not myself- and I couldn't control my temper I think because of the lack of control being in a new environment.
We have always talked about marriage and kids. We had a life plan together. I wouldn't move across the world for something small.
We went to stay with his family for the holidays- in their home. This was very difficult for me as they are old school traditional and religious. We obv couldn't sleep in the same room- but it was more than that. We couldn't sit on the couch together, we got ZERO alone time and his mom controlled everything he did, ate, and wore. I feel it was damaging to our relationship bc we were no longer connecting and he seemed to revert back into a kid and his families religious beliefs, although he had projected to me to not follow their beliefs.
Another contributing factor to this is that his family, who were once so warm and inviting, became to outcast me. They refused to speak English to me for the entire two months I was in their home. We had to sit down to family dinner every single night, and I would try to be a part of the convo- but they would not speak English. So I didn't know what was going on around me, I felt excluded and became depressed again. He and I fought every other day bc I was upset/sad that his family wouldn't even speak a word of English to me, and he wouldn't talk to them about it. Not even once. (and just FYI they speak English VERY well).
I tried my hardest to be accepted and made many attempts to have conversations but after so many failed attempts, I gave up and just stayed in my head.
One day his mom came and woke me up, and asked me to go for a ride with her. On this ride, in PERFECT English she begins to tell me I'm not a part of the plan she has for her son. That she doesn't want him to be with me, that she liked me as a person but "I needed the Lord in my heart", and that his dad dated someone before her and it didn't work because he was meant to meet a proper woman like herself. As you can understand this was very hurtful and offensive to me, but I remained respectful and just sat there and took it.
When we got back to the family house, I spoke to him about it. I didn't tell him everything she said, bc I knew the kinda influence she has on him. We spoke for awhile- about how he needed me to be less combative and I needed him to communicate with me etc, but we ended the conversation with us talking about our plans for the future/marriage/building a life together. It was good. I woke up the next day and he was gone on a ride with his mom...he came back and then asked me to go for a ride with him...haha at this point I thought I was on a hidden camera show. I couldn't believe how they were treating someone.
He and I go for a ride, and he begins to break up with me. Tells me "his tank is empty, he has nothing left to give, the relationship isn't working, and he needs to call it". Says he doesn't feel the same way for me anymore. I'm obv blindsided considering the conversation we had the night before and the fact that everything was fine between us (or at least I thought). I am crying and begging for him not to do this, considering I moved across the world for him, etc etc. Look I am quite embarrassed about doing this- begging for a man is not in my nature. I am an Aries and independent. I was just heart broken and very very confused.
After awhile he agrees to stay with me and try to work on things. We go back to the house and it's very uncomfortable for me as the entire family (including extended family, like 9 people) knew what had just transpired. No one spoke to me. I had no private room to cope, I hid in the bathroom and cried, pretending to take a shower. It was awful.
We drove back to our city a few days later. When we got back he acted like everything was normal, he went back to normal, he was affectionate again, our sex life came back etc.
After a few weeks things are still going great but I have a weird gut feeling. So I get drunk on tequila, and went through his phone. Yes I know I shouldn't have and I am not proud of it. Please do not judge- I just wanted the truth and I was messed up. So of course I find shit. I wake him up and confront him, he tries to lie, I make it known that I know the truth and all the shit he was hiding, he got cold/mean/and angry like I've never seen before. He said a lot of below the belt messed up things- completely brutal and he left.
He came to get his stuff from my house a few days later, and we talked for a bit. When I asked if his mom had anything to do with our breakup because it came out of nowhere, just the day after she speaks to me, and he says no and that it's fucked up that I think that. But it's kinda obv to me. He says that all the arguments that we ever got in ate at him. That he started our relationship so happy, but now he feels drained from my few bad months transition into his culture bc he was always trying to make me happy. He said he still loves me and cares about me, but does not want to be in a relationship anymore. He said it just went away for him, and he didn't know if he would be able to get it back.
He left and I didn't hear from him for a few days. I was supposed to leave this city on a Monday, and Sunday he texted asking if he could come say bye to me and get the rest of his stuff and said he wanted to see me before I left. My dog got very sick and I was not able to leave and had to cancel my flight. I told him this and he just kinda stopped responding and we never saw each other. A few days later he texts me and BLOWS UP on me because some of his mates saw me on Tinder and he sent a flicking off emoji. Said some messed up hurtful things. I responded and asked why it even mattered since he broke up with me, I wasn't doing anything wrong and am trying to move on/distract myself from the pain I am in. He responded "leave me alone". Ha, even though he is the one that texted me.
A few days later I tried to send some messages to see if we can be friends. You see I am very alone here and don't know anyone, and I truly miss him as my friend. He said maybe in a few months we could try a coffee but would prefer we not speak, said he could be here as a friend for me but nothing more and he was going to be distant from me because "I would want more than just friends" and then said he would come get the rest of his stuff.
It's been two weeks and I haven't heard from him.
I'm sorry this is so long. I just wanted to give a context/background. I am very heartbroken and confused. He was the most loving, gentle, sensitive, supportive guy- and he's a totally different person, it's crazy. Cold, distant, mean as fuck. He deleted all pics of me on his instagram and said he did it to try to move on. We have 2 mutual friends that says he hasn't said a word about it, and is pretending nothing happened and like I never existed. I was a very loyal gf. I took care of him, cooked every day for him, did his laundry, etc. But I guess during my hard transition into a new culture- I was too negative for him.
I moved to a new continent for him, and we had plans for marriage. For something like that, you would think someone could stand with their person during their hard times. He said he couldn't deal with it and that it made him feel weak. I texted and asked him if he was happier now without me, and he said "I'm trying to be yeah, but I'm hurting". He said he still loves me, and will always love me, and that he still cared about me and that he "gives more fucks than I would like to know".
When Leo's are hurt or go through a break up is this how they handle it? With distance and completely deletion?
Do Leo's ever come back or how long does it take for them to make communication again?
Posted by Jayc3onme?
How are you dealing with the Fish moon?
Posted by SFun150Possibly, he's at least flirting with you. If a guy doesn't like you he won't take off his shirt in front of you so that you can massage him. Also if a guy who doesn't like you, he won't bother hanging out with you on Valentine's day over a glass of wine.
I am a Libra woman. My male neighbor is a Leo.
I have known my neighbor for 2.5 years. On and off we have hung out at each others house, drank beer and wine while watching the game or a movie and a few times when he hurt himself being athletic he took his shirt off and I helped him by rubbing ointment on his back and gave him a massage. Nothing has EVER happened. No one... meaning HE has ever made a pass or any move to be romantic.
About 1.5 years into this we had a weird argument. It was so odd. It was regarding a TV personality that he liked and I mentioned that the guy was not my cup of tea because the person seemed very crass and had awful behavior towards women. Well for some reason he got really upset that I didn't care for this guy on TV.
I am so conflict avoidant and don't like to argue so I just said good bye and I left.
A year goes by and we had not spoken.
A few weeks ago we ran into each other at a cafe, I was with friends. I invited him to sit with us and we all got along great. After we all ate together, my friends said, 'That guy really likes you. He watched you whenever you got up and checked you out up and down."
I blew it off.
And he took me out to lunch on Valentine's Day in exchange for me helping him with some business stuff. And later that evening on Valentine's Day we had wine together at his house.
We have great conversation, but nothing has happened.
Is this guy attracted to me?
However Leos are also flirts just like Libras. The only way you'll know if a Leo actually likes you is if you ask. You'll need to stop being conflict avoidant if you want to attract a Leo. Leos admire and crave a strong partner. We are looking for our king/queen, so a person who is afraid of confrontation will have a hard time keeping our interest/respect.
Posted by Jayc3onTwo of my Leo friends are Pisces Moons. It works out fine for me, but I'm a Virgo Moon.Posted by saweetz1988Posted by Jayc3onme?
How are you dealing with the Fish moon?
Lol no it was directed towards the leos.
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Posted by ParkourlerIf your mindset is to "out-alpha" a woman, you're already coming at it from an odd angle. You should naturally be masculine man in your own right. It's not something you should have to think about with any woman.
What type of guy could wear the pants in a relationship with a Leo woman?
I think he must "outalpha" her.
Do you think a taurus guy could do that?
A Leo woman wants a man who is confident and internally strong. However you can't seek to control a Leo woman because it will easily backfire. She's not your possession and she won't completely fall for a guy who stifles her freedom.
Leos tend to be more socialize and spontaneous than Tauruses. So if you do wind up landing a Leo lady, be sure to keep things interesting. Don't expect her to do what you want at all times and definitely don't be boring.
Posted by ChuckcemOkay let me be more precise. I am observing a Taurus / Leo drama right now. He is very laid back and passive she is driven, fast paced and proactive. In other words she is a Type A personality and he is more Type B, if you know what I mean. He feels emasculated and rushed because she starts calling the shots, simply because she does more and pushes more, gets Information before he does. She takes him less serious and becomes bossier and pushier. She is proactive he is more receptive.Posted by ParkourlerIf your mindset is to "out-alpha" a woman, you're already coming at it from an odd angle. You should naturally be masculine man in your own right. It's not something you should have to think about with any woman.
What type of guy could wear the pants in a relationship with a Leo woman?
I think he must "outalpha" her.
Do you think a taurus guy could do that?
A Leo woman wants a man who is confident and internally strong. However you can't seek to control a Leo woman because it will easily backfire. She's not your possession and she won't completely fall for a guy who stifles her freedom.
Leos tend to be more socialize and spontaneous than Tauruses. So if you do wind up landing a Leo lady, be sure to keep things interesting. Don't expect her to do what you want at all times and definitely don't be boring.click to expand
The Question he asks himself now (i know he is very traditional) is, would he have to be more aggressive and proactive then she is, if he wants (which he definetly wants )her to be more the classical feminine role of being lead?
Posted by ChuckcemHave you dealt with Aqua moon?Posted by Jayc3onTwo of my Leo friends are Pisces Moons. It works out fine for me, but I'm a Virgo Moon.Posted by saweetz1988Posted by Jayc3onme?
How are you dealing with the Fish moon?
Lol no it was directed towards the leos.
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Posted by Parkourlermaybe justtttt a little....but not more to see if she is willing to let him lead. just telling her what he expects of how the 'roles' are. maybe she doesnt notice this and doesnt see how she takes his control awayPosted by ChuckcemOkay let me be more precise. I am observing a Taurus / Leo drama right now. He is very laid back and passive she is driven, fast paced and proactive. In other words she is a Type A personality and he is more Type B, if you know what I mean. He feels emasculated and rushed because she starts calling the shots, simply because she does more and pushes more, gets Information before he does. She takes him less serious and becomes bossier and pushier. She is proactive he is more receptive.Posted by ParkourlerIf your mindset is to "out-alpha" a woman, you're already coming at it from an odd angle. You should naturally be masculine man in your own right. It's not something you should have to think about with any woman.
What type of guy could wear the pants in a relationship with a Leo woman?
I think he must "outalpha" her.
Do you think a taurus guy could do that?
A Leo woman wants a man who is confident and internally strong. However you can't seek to control a Leo woman because it will easily backfire. She's not your possession and she won't completely fall for a guy who stifles her freedom.
Leos tend to be more socialize and spontaneous than Tauruses. So if you do wind up landing a Leo lady, be sure to keep things interesting. Don't expect her to do what you want at all times and definitely don't be boring.
The Question he asks himself now (i know he is very traditional) is, would he have to be more aggressive and proactive then she is, if he wants (which he definetly wants )her to be more the classical feminine role of being lead?
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if she doesnt take a step back even a little....then i think it would cause problems
im no leo woman but i do have leo placements and i can have the same traits at times
ive been told this actually recently by "my" taurus haha and it made me reflect
cause i actually love a man who leads...but i was being TOO affectionate which came of more pushy and overwhelming -_-
so.......i think communication ......clear....is still the best way
Posted by Chuckcemchuckcemmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. oh wise leo hahahaPosted by ParkourlerIf your mindset is to "out-alpha" a woman, you're already coming at it from an odd angle. You should naturally be masculine man in your own right. It's not something you should have to think about with any woman.
What type of guy could wear the pants in a relationship with a Leo woman?
I think he must "outalpha" her.
Do you think a taurus guy could do that?
A Leo woman wants a man who is confident and internally strong. However you can't seek to control a Leo woman because it will easily backfire. She's not your possession and she won't completely fall for a guy who stifles her freedom.
Leos tend to be more socialize and spontaneous than Tauruses. So if you do wind up landing a Leo lady, be sure to keep things interesting. Don't expect her to do what you want at all times and definitely don't be boring.click to expand
remember me -_-
the cancerian who felt more connected to leos lol
and kept wondering about that saggy? :p
taurussssss won me over..............phahahaha so much better
we sometimes have our moments but ohhhhhhhhh he is so finnnnnneeee and the best
but on this subject....
i think though that if you are yourself and she finds you boring......so you have to "entertain" someone....
its not love..............sorry hahaha but thats me
Posted by looneymoonmaidenIt's not about "entertaining" someone. I'm basically saying that Leos usually don't go for dull people. Yes we like to be comfortable, but not at the expense of having some excitement in our lives. Since we're generally goal oriented people, we typically want a partner who has that same spirit. That doesn't mean we're looking for a party animal, far from it. However a partner who can join us in activities or socialize with us can be a huge plus.Posted by Chuckcemchuckcemmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. oh wise leo hahahaPosted by ParkourlerIf your mindset is to "out-alpha" a woman, you're already coming at it from an odd angle. You should naturally be masculine man in your own right. It's not something you should have to think about with any woman.
What type of guy could wear the pants in a relationship with a Leo woman?
I think he must "outalpha" her.
Do you think a taurus guy could do that?
A Leo woman wants a man who is confident and internally strong. However you can't seek to control a Leo woman because it will easily backfire. She's not your possession and she won't completely fall for a guy who stifles her freedom.
Leos tend to be more socialize and spontaneous than Tauruses. So if you do wind up landing a Leo lady, be sure to keep things interesting. Don't expect her to do what you want at all times and definitely don't be boring.
remember me -_-
the cancerian who felt more connected to leos lol
and kept wondering about that saggy? :p
taurussssss won me over..............phahahaha so much better
we sometimes have our moments but ohhhhhhhhh he is so finnnnnneeee and the best
but on this subject....
i think though that if you are yourself and she finds you boring......so you have to "entertain" someone....
its not love..............sorry hahaha but thats meclick to expand
In this scenario, the Leo is pushing the Taurus around because he's being too receptive. If he doesn't stand up for himself at some point, she's going to get bored and leave altogether.
Posted by Chuckcemahhhhhhhhhh i see!!Posted by looneymoonmaidenIt's not about "entertaining" someone. I'm basically saying that Leos usually don't go for dull people. Yes we like to be comfortable, but not at the expense of having some excitement in our lives. Since we're generally goal oriented people, we typically want a partner who has that same spirit. That doesn't mean we're looking for a party animal, far from it. However a partner who can join us in activities or socialize with us can be a huge plus.Posted by Chuckcemchuckcemmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. oh wise leo hahahaPosted by ParkourlerIf your mindset is to "out-alpha" a woman, you're already coming at it from an odd angle. You should naturally be masculine man in your own right. It's not something you should have to think about with any woman.
What type of guy could wear the pants in a relationship with a Leo woman?
I think he must "outalpha" her.
Do you think a taurus guy could do that?
A Leo woman wants a man who is confident and internally strong. However you can't seek to control a Leo woman because it will easily backfire. She's not your possession and she won't completely fall for a guy who stifles her freedom.
Leos tend to be more socialize and spontaneous than Tauruses. So if you do wind up landing a Leo lady, be sure to keep things interesting. Don't expect her to do what you want at all times and definitely don't be boring.
remember me -_-
the cancerian who felt more connected to leos lol
and kept wondering about that saggy? :p
taurussssss won me over..............phahahaha so much better
we sometimes have our moments but ohhhhhhhhh he is so finnnnnneeee and the best
but on this subject....
i think though that if you are yourself and she finds you boring......so you have to "entertain" someone....
its not love..............sorry hahaha but thats me
In this scenario, the Leo is pushing the Taurus around because he's being too receptive. If he doesn't stand up for himself at some point, she's going to get bored and leave altogether.click to expand
i understand what you are saying......
and yes
thats very true!!
Do you guys know how smart you are? I know this sign doesn't get as much recognition as the other known cerebral oriented signs but yea.
Posted by saweetz1988Had/Have an Aqua friend with an Aqua moon. He disappeared and no one's heard from him. I don't think I could ever date an Aqua Moon given my placements.Posted by ChuckcemHave you dealt with Aqua moon?Posted by Jayc3onTwo of my Leo friends are Pisces Moons. It works out fine for me, but I'm a Virgo Moon.Posted by saweetz1988Posted by Jayc3onme?
How are you dealing with the Fish moon?
Lol no it was directed towards the leos.
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Posted by ParkourlerThe short answer is "Yes". The long answer is, he needs to be more internally sound than she is. The misconception is that being "alpha" is about being overly aggressive. In reality it is about being able to control his own situation and stand up for himself. Only he can emasculate himself in this scenario. If she starts calling all of the shots he needs to give some push back. He's a man, not a child. He can say "No" if he doesn't agree with something.Posted by ChuckcemOkay let me be more precise. I am observing a Taurus / Leo drama right now. He is very laid back and passive she is driven, fast paced and proactive. In other words she is a Type A personality and he is more Type B, if you know what I mean. He feels emasculated and rushed because she starts calling the shots, simply because she does more and pushes more, gets Information before he does. She takes him less serious and becomes bossier and pushier. She is proactive he is more receptive.Posted by ParkourlerIf your mindset is to "out-alpha" a woman, you're already coming at it from an odd angle. You should naturally be masculine man in your own right. It's not something you should have to think about with any woman.
What type of guy could wear the pants in a relationship with a Leo woman?
I think he must "outalpha" her.
Do you think a taurus guy could do that?
A Leo woman wants a man who is confident and internally strong. However you can't seek to control a Leo woman because it will easily backfire. She's not your possession and she won't completely fall for a guy who stifles her freedom.
Leos tend to be more socialize and spontaneous than Tauruses. So if you do wind up landing a Leo lady, be sure to keep things interesting. Don't expect her to do what you want at all times and definitely don't be boring.
The Question he asks himself now (i know he is very traditional) is, would he have to be more aggressive and proactive then she is, if he wants (which he definetly wants )her to be more the classical feminine role of being lead?
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The reason she doesn't respect him is because she can walk all over him. If he's always being receptive and never asserting himself, she feels that she's more masculine than him. The more pushy she becomes, the less the respects him, the bossier/pushier she will become. She's testing his boundaries to see if he is going to push back at any point (not in a violent way).
In order for her to become more feminine, he's going to portray more masculine traits. This would be my advice for any guy dealing with any woman. The more masculine a man is, the easier it will be to attract feminine women. Right now he's being more feminine, which is forcing her to be more masculine. She doesn't like this, so she's digging to see how much of a man he is.
Even if he's a more laid back guy, he needs to start making plans and setting up scenarios on his own. He needs to make it so that she feels he is man enough to control a situation. That way she can become more receptive and therefore more feminine. Women are designed to naturally test men's strength. If a man isn't up to the task, the women will only test harder. Let him know he needs to start being more proactive.
Posted by PlutonianWe do, we just don't harp on about it. Plenty of us will also play dumb to lower people's guards around us. People tend to show their true colors faster around people they think they can "outsmart". It's much easier to get to know a person's true character when their guards are down.
Do you guys know how smart you are? I know this sign doesn't get as much recognition as the other known cerebral oriented signs but yea.
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