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I thought Leo liked to lead....?
They DO like to lead. Mine leads me alright, all the way down to that damn place with the weird smells.
Virgo Merc shouldn't make him THAT much of a pushover. I think a wire's loose. Pick him up and shake him a little bit. Then drop him. See if that helps.
Virgo Merc shouldn't make him THAT much of a pushover. I think a wire's loose. Pick him up and shake him a little bit. Then drop him. See if that helps.
He doesn't seem like a pushover, he very much carries himself with dignity. He just isnt like any of the other Leo's ive dated.... which is weird, because his chart is VERY Leo. The ego is there, though. hahaha
Posted by -7hzPosted by heliumfiasco
He doesn't seem like a pushover, he very much carries himself with dignity. He just isnt like any of the other Leo's ive dated.... which is weird, because his chart is VERY Leo. The ego is there, though. hahaha
How long have you been together?click to expand
We've been talking for a year. Still very early in dating... like 8 dates only. So, this might change I take it.
Mars in a feminine sign
North Node same as True Node? Its in Cancer. I'm not familiar with Nodes.
He is wonderful! I am in no way complaining about him. I just was expecting something much different when I pulled his chart originally.
He is wonderful! I am in no way complaining about him. I just was expecting something much different when I pulled his chart originally.
Posted by -7hzPosted by heliumfiasco
North Node same as True Node? Its in Cancer. I'm not familiar with Nodes.
He is wonderful! I am in no way complaining about him. I just was expecting something much different when I pulled his chart originally.
Take note of Scorpio Mars & North Node in Cancer, his Mars trines NN, he is most definitely going to be some way into the NN.click to expand
You mean taking on the characteristics of Cancer?
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by heliumfiascoPosted by Black-Mamba
Do you want to hear the absolute TRUTH?
Can you handle it?
Yes and yes!
Forget the astrology and think about a LION
A lion wants to be fawned over, wants to be treated like royalty
Is he less of a leader? No
But his tests are does this person really want me....if so they'll work for it...they'll work for me...
Its an Exchange of Energy
Personally if I am attracted to someone, it doesn't mean i have to exchange my energy with them, especially if I notice they don't treat me right or talk to me the way I want or approach me how i want.
that's the leadership...then comes the cut which is swift and complete.
By you leading the relationship he observes you - he see's you care enough - that makes him feel good -powerful - satisfied
a lion likes to be satisfied...thats our completeness
Check that video you tagged me in, that explains everything.click to expand
I can see that completely.
I called him out on testing me. He will say stuff that I KNOW, he knows the answer to, just to listen to my reply. It was so obvious! haha I let him do it for a few dates, then called him out. He sent me a text later apologizing. It was nothing serious... just for sure testing me! haha
Posted by -7hzPosted by heliumfiascoPosted by -7hzPosted by heliumfiasco
North Node same as True Node? Its in Cancer. I'm not familiar with Nodes.
He is wonderful! I am in no way complaining about him. I just was expecting something much different when I pulled his chart originally.
Take note of Scorpio Mars & North Node in Cancer, his Mars trines NN, he is most definitely going to be some way into the NN.
You mean taking on the characteristics of Cancer?
In some ways, but the Node is about karmic debts, he is becoming less whatever he was in his previous life, so Capricorn is his South Node, most likely a powerful person who took charge, over used his power, did wrong things.
Now returning to humble roots.
It's more so reconnecting with the soul.click to expand
Oh, that is so interesting! Mine is in Taurus. I'm going to delve into Nodes now!
Sounds similar to the last Leo I had a relationship with but, he got very fustrated when I wouldn't lead. I am lazy in romance so when I couldn't, wouldn't make plans... lion's roar, literally. He was all fixed: Leo Sun, Scorpio Moon, Mars Taurus, Leo Venus... all I can recall at this moment. I think he musta thought he was being cute or that I was being cute. I am almost all air so getting me to make plans, just lol. Sometimes, I thought his behavior was just as lazy lion as my indecisive, non-commital airy ways. At the end, he adjusted to the fact the he was gonna have to lead. Even when it came to intimacy, I do not and have never made the first move in anyway. This Leo liked to explode on himself waiting on me. Once, he got to know me, that you will have to lead...he ate me alive out of sheer fustration, lol.
Leo's can be armchair rulers. They pick and choose what they will be firm about. Sometimes, it's a set-up, let you do all the things that don't necessarily matter to them one way or another so that when they do take a stand, the case will be made about the fact that they let you have your way.
Leo's can be armchair rulers. They pick and choose what they will be firm about. Sometimes, it's a set-up, let you do all the things that don't necessarily matter to them one way or another so that when they do take a stand, the case will be made about the fact that they let you have your way.
Scorpio is a feminine sign .... in Mars it isn't combative.....sexual yes, but not outgoing. Scopio energy is internal
Not trying to bash Leos by saying this but if there is something that overrides any fixed-sign tendencies (wanting to be in control, etc) is their absolute and sure laziness. Think of the Lion; what is it that he does most of the time even though it's considered King of the Jungle? Right, he just sits on it's ass.
Posted by VenusAquarius
Sounds similar to the last Leo I had a relationship with but, he got very fustrated when I wouldn't lead. I am lazy in romance so when I couldn't, wouldn't make plans... lion's roar, literally. He was all fixed: Leo Sun, Scorpio Moon, Mars Taurus, Leo Venus... all I can recall at this moment. I think he musta thought he was being cute or that I was being cute. I am almost all air so getting me to make plans, just lol. Sometimes, I thought his behavior was just as lazy lion as my indecisive, non-commital airy ways. At the end, he adjusted to the fact the he was gonna have to lead. Even when it came to intimacy, I do not and have never made the first move in anyway. This Leo liked to explode on himself waiting on me. Once, he got to know me, that you will have to lead...he ate me alive out of sheer fustration, lol.
Leo's can be armchair rulers. They pick and choose what they will be firm about. Sometimes, it's a set-up, let you do all the things that don't necessarily matter to them one way or another so that when they do take a stand, the case will be made about the fact that they let you have your way.
OMG! Same! I am waiting for him to make a move physically. He seems so timid... but I KNOW he isnt. You can sense his sexuality smoldering underneath the surface. He just doesnt.... and I'm not going to either! I'm Virgo Venus/ Mars I dont make first moves in that area.
Also, that last part about the set-up.... that is smart. I can appreciate the game. haha
What are the aspects to his Leo Sun?
Posted by HearttofTopazz
I think it’s as simple as he likes you a lot, and enjoys your company.. Doesn’t matter what y’all are doing, he’s content either way. I’ve dated a lot of men like this, they were very easy going.
If it bothers you then just tell him you’re out of ideas and ask him to make the plans next time.
It doesnt bother me at all. I actually feel most comfortable when I'm more in control, probably due to my over-analytical nature. I guess I was just thinking Leo Fire would be a lot more like Aries. When I pulled that chart I was like "here we goooo".
He is charming and lovely.
Posted by Icy_monsoon
What are the aspects to his Leo Sun?
Sun Sextile Saturn 6°11
Sun Square Uranus 6°06
Sun Trine Neptune 0°08
Sun Sextile Pluto 0°09
Sun Square Ascendant 6°21
Moon Conjunction Venus 1°57
Moon Square Mars 2°27
Moon Square Jupiter 1°55
Moon Trine Uranus 5°22
Moon Trine Ascendant 5°07
Venus Square Mars 4°24
Venus Square Jupiter 0°01
Venus Trine Uranus 3°25
Venus Trine Ascendant 3°10
Mars Conjunction Jupiter 4°22
Uranus Conjunction Ascendant 0°15
Neptune Sextile Pluto
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by MyStarsShine
Scorpio is a feminine sign .... in Mars it isn't combative.....sexual yes, but not outgoing. Scopio energy is internal
it just wants anal.click to expand
Really? 😐
Posted by heliumfiascoPosted by Icy_monsoon
What are the aspects to his Leo Sun?
Sun Sextile Saturn 6°11
Sun Square Uranus 6°06
Sun Trine Neptune 0°08
Sun Sextile Pluto 0°09
Sun Square Ascendant 6°21
Moon Conjunction Venus 1°57
Moon Square Mars 2°27
Moon Square Jupiter 1°55
Moon Trine Uranus 5°22
Moon Trine Ascendant 5°07
Venus Square Mars 4°24
Venus Square Jupiter 0°01
Venus Trine Uranus 3°25
Venus Trine Ascendant 3°10
Mars Conjunction Jupiter 4°22
Uranus Conjunction Ascendant 0°15
Neptune Sextile Plutoclick to expand
I can't say what would make him the sub
Posted by heliumfiascoPosted by VenusAquarius
Sounds similar to the last Leo I had a relationship with but, he got very fustrated when I wouldn't lead. I am lazy in romance so when I couldn't, wouldn't make plans... lion's roar, literally. He was all fixed: Leo Sun, Scorpio Moon, Mars Taurus, Leo Venus... all I can recall at this moment. I think he musta thought he was being cute or that I was being cute. I am almost all air so getting me to make plans, just lol. Sometimes, I thought his behavior was just as lazy lion as my indecisive, non-commital airy ways. At the end, he adjusted to the fact the he was gonna have to lead. Even when it came to intimacy, I do not and have never made the first move in anyway. This Leo liked to explode on himself waiting on me. Once, he got to know me, that you will have to lead...he ate me alive out of sheer fustration, lol.
Leo's can be armchair rulers. They pick and choose what they will be firm about. Sometimes, it's a set-up, let you do all the things that don't necessarily matter to them one way or another so that when they do take a stand, the case will be made about the fact that they let you have your way.
OMG! Same! I am waiting for him to make a move physically. He seems so timid... but I KNOW he isnt. You can sense his sexuality smoldering underneath the surface. He just doesnt.... and I'm not going to either! I'm Virgo Venus/ Mars I dont make first moves in that area.
Also, that last part about the set-up.... that is smart. I can appreciate the game. hahaclick to expand
But see, you kissed him. I wouldn't have even done that. I'm a natural coquette. I discovered this about myself in hindsight and with the observations of others. I break them down with my passivity. Before, I knew this about myself, I was always shocked and offended when men would be simmering with me.
But now, I know myself and revel in my coquettish ways. It makes them explode at the end of it all and they are quite thankful that I got them there.
Strength recognizes strength.
Mars dominant men don't want a pushover
Mars dominant men don't want a pushover
This is still SO new. He might just be being chivalrous and sitting back, then a month from now- BAM! hahaha. But he does describe himself as the sub in relationships.
I was expecting he'd be like this Leo I work with. OVER THE TOP. Not at all.
Either way, I like him. Just not what I envisioned his chart to show.
I was expecting he'd be like this Leo I work with. OVER THE TOP. Not at all.
Either way, I like him. Just not what I envisioned his chart to show.
Posted by heliumfiascoPosted by Icy_monsoon
What are the aspects to his Leo Sun?
Sun Sextile Saturn 6°11
Sun Square Uranus 6°06
Sun Trine Neptune 0°08
Sun Sextile Pluto 0°09
Sun Square Ascendant 6°21
Moon Conjunction Venus 1°57
Moon Square Mars 2°27
Moon Square Jupiter 1°55
Moon Trine Uranus 5°22
Moon Trine Ascendant 5°07
Venus Square Mars 4°24
Venus Square Jupiter 0°01
Venus Trine Uranus 3°25
Venus Trine Ascendant 3°10
Mars Conjunction Jupiter 4°22
Uranus Conjunction Ascendant 0°15
Neptune Sextile Plutoclick to expand
Really good synastry there. The best I've seen posted in a while.
Ah the lazy leo who pretends to be king.
Posted by r_mactavishPosted by MyStarsShine
Scorpio is a feminine sign .... in Mars it isn't combative.....sexual yes, but not outgoing. Scopio energy is internal
Yes. People think Scorpios are like Hulk "Smash Smash Smash!" but no that's more like Aries.click to expand
Yes Mars is far more out there than Pluto, I've Aries rising so am more assertive than say my Scorp friends who have Cancer or Scorpio rising
Posted by heliumfiasco
This is still SO new. He might just be being chivalrous and sitting back, then a month from now- BAM! hahaha. But he does describe himself as the sub in relationships.
I was expecting he'd be like this Leo I work with. OVER THE TOP. Not at all.
Either way, I like him. Just not what I envisioned his chart to show.
This is a BDSM reference... "describing himself as a sub?" Well, you know who has the power in that relationship, right?
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by heliumfiasco
This is still SO new. He might just be being chivalrous and sitting back, then a month from now- BAM! hahaha. But he does describe himself as the sub in relationships.
I was expecting he'd be like this Leo I work with. OVER THE TOP. Not at all.
Either way, I like him. Just not what I envisioned his chart to show.
This is a BDSM reference... "describing himself as a sub?" Well, you know who has the power in that relationship, right?click to expand
Topping from the bottom, the leo way lol
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Not trying to bash Leos by saying this but if there is something that overrides any fixed-sign tendencies (wanting to be in control, etc) is their absolute and sure laziness. Think of the Lion; what is it that he does most of the time even though it's considered King of the Jungle? Right, he just sits on it's ass.
lol exactly and lets the females do the hunting but then he gets to eat first - basically they like to eat first and fuck so there !
the scorpio mars and virgo mercury I had in my libra sniff - loved the mars not the mercury necessarily
Posted by r_mactavishPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Black-MambaPosted by MyStarsShine
Scorpio is a feminine sign .... in Mars it isn't combative.....sexual yes, but not outgoing. Scopio energy is internal
it just wants anal.
Really? 😐
Get used to these type of remarks as a Scorpio. I'm not even a Scorpio but still get so much triggered when people say 'Scorpios = sex' lol they're so much more than that.click to expand
Haha....I don't get triggered, I just think the stereotypes are funny, but do hold some truth too
your leo seems to be malfuntioning, have you tried turning it off and on again?
but hey if that doesnt work, every pack can use a beta male 😛
but hey if that doesnt work, every pack can use a beta male 😛
A few things:
Yes we like to lead, but we also like partners who can lead as well. Leos don't always run straight at you. A lot of Leos also like to observe, sometimes quietly. A wise Leo will look before they leap into a situation, so it's best to sometimes appear a bit more passive while everyone else reveals their cards.
It's possible he's just more docile, or doesn't know how to be dominant. It happens, not all Leos are built the same. If he hasn't had much luck in relationships, he may not want to create too many issues. So he may resort to keeping things calm.
Also his Scorpio Mars means the he won't be terribly obvious in his pursuit. His approach to life may seems a bit more covert. Scorpio energy isn't know to be "in your face", so the Leo may resort to having a more standoffish approach to get what he wants in life.
Also every 3rd decan Leo I've known can be old fashioned, but also more passive in romance. Not to say they won't pursue (they definitely will), but the ones I've known were attracted to strong/take charge personalities in women. This is because 3rd decan Leos have Leo-Aries energy. A woman who tells them what to do at times can be attractive to them.
Yes we like to lead, but we also like partners who can lead as well. Leos don't always run straight at you. A lot of Leos also like to observe, sometimes quietly. A wise Leo will look before they leap into a situation, so it's best to sometimes appear a bit more passive while everyone else reveals their cards.
It's possible he's just more docile, or doesn't know how to be dominant. It happens, not all Leos are built the same. If he hasn't had much luck in relationships, he may not want to create too many issues. So he may resort to keeping things calm.
Also his Scorpio Mars means the he won't be terribly obvious in his pursuit. His approach to life may seems a bit more covert. Scorpio energy isn't know to be "in your face", so the Leo may resort to having a more standoffish approach to get what he wants in life.
Also every 3rd decan Leo I've known can be old fashioned, but also more passive in romance. Not to say they won't pursue (they definitely will), but the ones I've known were attracted to strong/take charge personalities in women. This is because 3rd decan Leos have Leo-Aries energy. A woman who tells them what to do at times can be attractive to them.
I stopped reading at "his mother and i share the same birthday".
Verdict: doomed to failure
PS: you might want to explore the possibility that he is letting you take the lead because....well he just isnt used to lead your energy, because mom was leading, not him.
Verdict: doomed to failure
PS: you might want to explore the possibility that he is letting you take the lead because....well he just isnt used to lead your energy, because mom was leading, not him.
They lead but it's a more subtle way they go about it imo ...like others have mentioned, think about an actual Lion...let's the women do all the work, let's them think they have the lead but in the end he'll have the final say (just try getting one to do something he doesn't want to do lol)...it's not always gonna be right in your face noticable (especially with the plutonic influences). The rest of the time...he doesn't really want to be bothered because it will cut into his time....why should he have to worry about the mundane when he has his "people" to do all that. Plus it keeps the peace, keeps the good times rolling for them...they don't want anything to shit on their parade so to speak then heaven forbid they have to actually do something lol.
How is he in public with you? Does he lead then or is he still submissive? I noticed the Leo I dealt with let it be known in public that he was the man...he was in charge (go get us that table over there, what do you want to drink, go get me another drink etc...like barking orders...and of course I followed suit 🙄. In private...he was more docile but still had his moments of being the leader/bossy. Just recently...I bought a new TV and a sound bar...I didn't hook up the sound bar yet as the TV was pretty loud on it's own...he comes over and he's like...why didn't you hook that up? Then grabbed the box and was like you need to hook this up, opens the box (cuts his hand...I play doctor while he's like no I'm good while sticking out his hand so I can put a band-aid on the cut lol), I just don't understand why you haven't hooked this up yet 😂, takes it out of the box, hands it to me and says well go hook it up now but then helps me do it even though I told him I was going to take it back to the store. Lol
Imo their downfall in relationships is the whole give and take aspect...they usually realize this a little too late. They think paying for dates, presents etc is really putting in an effort and giving so much...that's great and all but what about the things that actually matter...what are you gonna do then?! Just don't let him get used to you doing everything...that will be the expectation and eventually you'll get sick of it.
It's great when men respect their mothers but I find it disturbing when they are super close to them... you'll always have to compete and the mom is gonna play a major role in the relationship. I'm extra cautious in those cases...of course I could be way off on all of this lol.
Let me add to my book I've written lol...the sensitivity on these mf when their pride and ego are hurt ...my God, they are worse then cancer men!
How is he in public with you? Does he lead then or is he still submissive? I noticed the Leo I dealt with let it be known in public that he was the man...he was in charge (go get us that table over there, what do you want to drink, go get me another drink etc...like barking orders...and of course I followed suit 🙄. In private...he was more docile but still had his moments of being the leader/bossy. Just recently...I bought a new TV and a sound bar...I didn't hook up the sound bar yet as the TV was pretty loud on it's own...he comes over and he's like...why didn't you hook that up? Then grabbed the box and was like you need to hook this up, opens the box (cuts his hand...I play doctor while he's like no I'm good while sticking out his hand so I can put a band-aid on the cut lol), I just don't understand why you haven't hooked this up yet 😂, takes it out of the box, hands it to me and says well go hook it up now but then helps me do it even though I told him I was going to take it back to the store. Lol
Imo their downfall in relationships is the whole give and take aspect...they usually realize this a little too late. They think paying for dates, presents etc is really putting in an effort and giving so much...that's great and all but what about the things that actually matter...what are you gonna do then?! Just don't let him get used to you doing everything...that will be the expectation and eventually you'll get sick of it.
It's great when men respect their mothers but I find it disturbing when they are super close to them... you'll always have to compete and the mom is gonna play a major role in the relationship. I'm extra cautious in those cases...of course I could be way off on all of this lol.
Let me add to my book I've written lol...the sensitivity on these mf when their pride and ego are hurt ...my God, they are worse then cancer men!
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Is this normal? Im not complaining by any means. Just curious.
Sun Leo in house 9
Moon Leo in house 8
Mercury Virgo house 9
Venus Leo in house 8
Mars Scorpio in house 11