In limbo with leo

If there is any Leo with

Venus cancer

Moon Taurus

Lend me your ears!. I have been in a relationship with this Leo female for 4.5 yrs we have had our ups and downs but this time feels different I feel different. Some hurtful things were said, and from then I have had a tightness in my throat that won't subside. We had a long talk after a series of blow-ups and just weird tension that either of us can handle.

We spoke on this weekend which was my birthday Jan 19th woot. She told me that the spark not their anymore and she been feeling like this for awhile, and she needs to work on herself and she just tired of the relationship, and she doesn't want to keep doing this to me. I was relieved at her speaking her mind seeing I'm constantly telling her to talk instead of blowing up cause it doesn't always need to be an arguement ( yes, I mess up too) she was pulled a back that I wasn't mad. I told her how I felt that I still feel the spark for me and yes, I want to through in the towel many times but when I stare at her I don't know there is nowhere else I rather am ( i just need space at times). There were tears as our families have come to care for us both. After that talk, I was surprisingly sad and happy at the same time for the relief that we talked.

After we went to a bonfire cuddle fell asleep, spent the following day together and came to work together.

I do still have this tension in my thought as if I cant breathe but I feel that an accumulation of not talking. I do want us to spend more time apart have other hobbies she spends time on her etc. But i wonder can i suggest that after what she said should I call it quits and if she wants to not be here why is she still here.

Hence my limbo.. any advice or views is greatly appreciated

Seriously tho if a Leo says those things you should never ever feel relieved.

Posted by solo87
Seriously tho if a Leo says those things you should never ever feel relieved.

im relieved that she got it off her chest not necessary what was said it wasn't easy, but sometimes things needs to be said at the end of the day I'm still alive

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Idk. If she says she needs out... especially with a Taurian moon... I think she's out. Taurus thinks stuff through before they set the wheels in motion, and while Leo women can get caught up in the drama of a fight, those are pretty big phrases to be throwing around :/

Give her some time and space, leo's are the type to miss something once it's gone. Once she realizes what she's missing she'll want you back.

Leo's like to chase more than to be chased, she'll come back once she's ready.