Leo ladies like to chase or be chased?

Hello leo divas, I just happened to come across a new crush who happens to be a Leo. We met at a mutual friends party. Our first date was awesome dinner & drinks then met up with friends and danced the night away. I have to say I am really into this one ? I'm trying to figure out if she is as into me. On Saturday she stopped by my place for a bit I had a little party going on, she was dressed to kill! We had a steamy make out session in my room for a bit before she had to leave. I couldn't get her off my mind all weekend. We have plans to go out this Friday. Do you girls like the attention? Should I text her often? She doesn't text me unless I text first. I want to text her more to get to know her but not sure if I'm being annoying bc she doesn't text me on her own. How do you girls treat a crush? How should I play this one out?

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You're welcome.

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divas like to be chased hehe

Posted by nysag86
Hello leo divas, I just happened to come across a new crush who happens to be a Leo. We met at a mutual friends party. Our first date was awesome dinner & drinks then met up with friends and danced the night away. I have to say I am really into this one ? I'm trying to figure out if she is as into me. On Saturday she stopped by my place for a bit I had a little party going on, she was dressed to kill! We had a steamy make out session in my room for a bit before she had to leave. I couldn't get her off my mind all weekend. We have plans to go out this Friday. Do you girls like the attention? Should I text her often? She doesn't text me unless I text first. I want to text her more to get to know her but not sure if I'm being annoying bc she doesn't text me on her own. How do you girls treat a crush? How should I play this one out?

Every Leo's different, but Leos in general tend to not be big texters. If a Leo woman texts you, she is more than likely going to invite you out. It's less likely she'll text you long enough to chit-chat (at least not in the early stages).

Here's the thing though, if you like this woman (or ANY woman), don't sit there trying to get to know her via text. That's the passive/weak position and you'll risk getting yourself put in the "you're such a nice guy, let's be friends" part of her brain. Plenty of guys make the mistake of trying to get to know a woman via text. It may work for a bit, but eventually she'll find your friendly interactions quaint instead of intriguing.

Instead if you're going to text her, invite her out (preferably on a date). Likewise if you're going to text, then take the stronger option and actually CALL her. So many people rely on the impersonal nature of texts, that it will set yourself apart in her brain. If you show that you are confident enough to get her on the phone and ask her out directly, you'll keep her intrigued. Leos respond best to direct strength (as do women in general).

Once you ask her out, then wait to talk to her again when you see her. There's no point in chit chatting on the phone and deflating the growing anticipation she'll have to see you. Right now you're intriguing to her, possible even a bit of a mystery. This is exciting to her, so don't ruin the excitement by becoming texting buddies.

Lastly, I always say to never chase a woman. Initiate contact and set dates, yes, but never chase. The more you chase, the less intriguing you'll be. Women will often blow off guys who become too interested or clingy. Then they themselves will then pursue guys who prove to be more mysterious. So put yourself in the strongest position. Initiate contact, show interest, set dates, then be patient and wait to interact with her during those dates.

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Posted by nysag86
Hello leo divas, I just happened to come across a new crush who happens to be a Leo. We met at a mutual friends party. Our first date was awesome dinner & drinks then met up with friends and danced the night away. I have to say I am really into this one ? I'm trying to figure out if she is as into me. On Saturday she stopped by my place for a bit I had a little party going on, she was dressed to kill! We had a steamy make out session in my room for a bit before she had to leave. I couldn't get her off my mind all weekend. We have plans to go out this Friday. Do you girls like the attention? Should I text her often? She doesn't text me unless I text first. I want to text her more to get to know her but not sure if I'm being annoying bc she doesn't text me on her own. How do you girls treat a crush? How should I play this one out?

Every Leo's different, but Leos in general tend to not be big texters. If a Leo woman texts you, she is more than likely going to invite you out. It's less likely she'll text you long enough to chit-chat (at least not in the early stages).

Here's the thing though, if you like this woman (or ANY woman), don't sit there trying to get to know her via text. That's the passive/weak position and you'll risk getting yourself put in the "you're such a nice guy, let's be friends" part of her brain. Plenty of guys make the mistake of trying to get to know a woman via text. It may work for a bit, but eventually she'll find your friendly interactions quaint instead of intriguing.

Instead if you're going to text her, invite her out (preferably on a date). Likewise if you're going to text, then take the stronger option and actually CALL her. So many people rely on the impersonal nature of texts, that it will set yourself apart in her brain. If you show that you are confident enough to get her on the phone and ask her out directly, you'll keep her intrigued. Leos respond best to direct strength (as do women in general).

Once you ask her out, then wait to talk to her again when you see her. There's no point in chit chatting on the phone and deflating the growing anticipation she'll have to see you. Right now you're intriguing to her, possible even a bit of a mystery. This is exciting to her, so don't ruin the excitement by becoming texting buddies.

Lastly, I always say to never chase a woman. Initiate contact and set dates, yes, but never chase. The more you chase, the less intriguing you'll be. Women will often blow off guys who become too interested or clingy. Then they themselves will then pursue guys who prove to be more mysterious. So put yourself in the strongest position. Initiate contact, show interest, set dates, then be patient and wait to interact with her during those dates.

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Thanks, you're right this was really helpful. I only texted her how her day was today but I'm gonna hold off until I see her. Thanks again for the advice!

I love to be chased. Probably a pride thing. I just think in the back of my mind if he doesnt want me, bye! Lol simple

I'm just not into games.

You gotta be balanced. Always text first... But don't text everyday if she's not initiating at all. That's too clingy. If she's giving you one or two word responses and not engaging in conversation then that means its too much. Don't give too much too soon...don't let her think she's got u just like that. We like a challenge.

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Posted by nysag86
Hello leo divas, I just happened to come across a new crush who happens to be a Leo. We met at a mutual friends party. Our first date was awesome dinner & drinks then met up with friends and danced the night away. I have to say I am really into this one ? I'm trying to figure out if she is as into me. On Saturday she stopped by my place for a bit I had a little party going on, she was dressed to kill! We had a steamy make out session in my room for a bit before she had to leave. I couldn't get her off my mind all weekend. We have plans to go out this Friday. Do you girls like the attention? Should I text her often? She doesn't text me unless I text first. I want to text her more to get to know her but not sure if I'm being annoying bc she doesn't text me on her own. How do you girls treat a crush? How should I play this one out?

Every Leo's different, but Leos in general tend to not be big texters. If a Leo woman texts you, she is more than likely going to invite you out. It's less likely she'll text you long enough to chit-chat (at least not in the early stages).

Here's the thing though, if you like this woman (or ANY woman), don't sit there trying to get to know her via text. That's the passive/weak position and you'll risk getting yourself put in the "you're such a nice guy, let's be friends" part of her brain. Plenty of guys make the mistake of trying to get to know a woman via text. It may work for a bit, but eventually she'll find your friendly interactions quaint instead of intriguing.

Instead if you're going to text her, invite her out (preferably on a date). Likewise if you're going to text, then take the stronger option and actually CALL her. So many people rely on the impersonal nature of texts, that it will set yourself apart in her brain. If you show that you are confident enough to get her on the phone and ask her out directly, you'll keep her intrigued. Leos respond best to direct strength (as do women in general).

Once you ask her out, then wait to talk to her again when you see her. There's no point in chit chatting on the phone and deflating the growing anticipation she'll have to see you. Right now you're intriguing to her, possible even a bit of a mystery. This is exciting to her, so don't ruin the excitement by becoming texting buddies.

Lastly, I always say to never chase a woman. Initiate contact and set dates, yes, but never chase. The more you chase, the less intriguing you'll be. Women will often blow off guys who become too interested or clingy. Then they themselves will then pursue guys who prove to be more mysterious. So put yourself in the strongest position. Initiate contact, show interest, set dates, then be patient and wait to interact with her during those dates.

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I feel like the movie hitch was based off of you lol.

Op every woman wants to be wooed and courted. Step up.

I can't speak for women or all Leo's, but most Leo's in general love to be chased. They enjoy knowing someone is into them and want to see how far they will go to get a hold of them. In some situations Leo suns will chase someone, and if that's the case be ready for an intense presuit. When they want something it's hard for them to take no for an answer, and they Will start pulling out every trick in the book. Eventually they will likely obtain what they want, because they can adapt to anything and do what ever it takes to be number 1 in your eyes.

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Posted by nysag86
Hello leo divas, I just happened to come across a new crush who happens to be a Leo. We met at a mutual friends party. Our first date was awesome dinner & drinks then met up with friends and danced the night away. I have to say I am really into this one ? I'm trying to figure out if she is as into me. On Saturday she stopped by my place for a bit I had a little party going on, she was dressed to kill! We had a steamy make out session in my room for a bit before she had to leave. I couldn't get her off my mind all weekend. We have plans to go out this Friday. Do you girls like the attention? Should I text her often? She doesn't text me unless I text first. I want to text her more to get to know her but not sure if I'm being annoying bc she doesn't text me on her own. How do you girls treat a crush? How should I play this one out?

Every Leo's different, but Leos in general tend to not be big texters. If a Leo woman texts you, she is more than likely going to invite you out. It's less likely she'll text you long enough to chit-chat (at least not in the early stages).

Here's the thing though, if you like this woman (or ANY woman), don't sit there trying to get to know her via text. That's the passive/weak position and you'll risk getting yourself put in the "you're such a nice guy, let's be friends" part of her brain. Plenty of guys make the mistake of trying to get to know a woman via text. It may work for a bit, but eventually she'll find your friendly interactions quaint instead of intriguing.

Instead if you're going to text her, invite her out (preferably on a date). Likewise if you're going to text, then take the stronger option and actually CALL her. So many people rely on the impersonal nature of texts, that it will set yourself apart in her brain. If you show that you are confident enough to get her on the phone and ask her out directly, you'll keep her intrigued. Leos respond best to direct strength (as do women in general).

Once you ask her out, then wait to talk to her again when you see her. There's no point in chit chatting on the phone and deflating the growing anticipation she'll have to see you. Right now you're intriguing to her, possible even a bit of a mystery. This is exciting to her, so don't ruin the excitement by becoming texting buddies.

Lastly, I always say to never chase a woman. Initiate contact and set dates, yes, but never chase. The more you chase, the less intriguing you'll be. Women will often blow off guys who become too interested or clingy. Then they themselves will then pursue guys who prove to be more mysterious. So put yourself in the strongest position. Initiate contact, show interest, set dates, then be patient and wait to interact with her during those dates.

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It depends. LEO is a sign of ACTION. If she really likes you, she'll chase or mix it up(chase, pull back, chase, pull back)

During her pull backs, if you don't initiate the chase, be prepared to be mauled.

If she doesn't like you, then *crickets*. Don't hold your breath. She wouldn't chase you even with money/gifts as bait.

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I can't speak for women or all Leo's, but most Leo's in general love to be chased. They enjoy knowing someone is into them and want to see how far they will go to get a hold of them. In some situations Leo suns will chase someone, and if that's the case be ready for an intense presuit. When they want something it's hard for them to take no for an answer, and they Will start pulling out every trick in the book. Eventually they will likely obtain what they want, because they can adapt to anything and do what ever it takes to be number 1 in your eyes.

Cosigning this.

I like to be chased, but if someone I want starts to act aloof or hot/cold and I want them, watch out.

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Hello leo divas, I just happened to come across a new crush who happens to be a Leo. We met at a mutual friends party. Our first date was awesome dinner & drinks then met up with friends and danced the night away. I have to say I am really into this one ? I'm trying to figure out if she is as into me. On Saturday she stopped by my place for a bit I had a little party going on, she was dressed to kill! We had a steamy make out session in my room for a bit before she had to leave. I couldn't get her off my mind all weekend. We have plans to go out this Friday. Do you girls like the attention? Should I text her often? She doesn't text me unless I text first. I want to text her more to get to know her but not sure if I'm being annoying bc she doesn't text me on her own. How do you girls treat a crush? How should I play this one out?

Every Leo's different, but Leos in general tend to not be big texters. If a Leo woman texts you, she is more than likely going to invite you out. It's less likely she'll text you long enough to chit-chat (at least not in the early stages).

Here's the thing though, if you like this woman (or ANY woman), don't sit there trying to get to know her via text. That's the passive/weak position and you'll risk getting yourself put in the "you're such a nice guy, let's be friends" part of her brain. Plenty of guys make the mistake of trying to get to know a woman via text. It may work for a bit, but eventually she'll find your friendly interactions quaint instead of intriguing.

Instead if you're going to text her, invite her out (preferably on a date). Likewise if you're going to text, then take the stronger option and actually CALL her. So many people rely on the impersonal nature of texts, that it will set yourself apart in her brain. If you show that you are confident enough to get her on the phone and ask her out directly, you'll keep her intrigued. Leos respond best to direct strength (as do women in general).

Once you ask her out, then wait to talk to her again when you see her. There's no point in chit chatting on the phone and deflating the growing anticipation she'll have to see you. Right now you're intriguing to her, possible even a bit of a mystery. This is exciting to her, so don't ruin the excitement by becoming texting buddies.

Lastly, I always say to never chase a woman. Initiate contact and set dates, yes, but never chase. The more you chase, the less intriguing you'll be. Women will often blow off guys who become too interested or clingy. Then they themselves will then pursue guys who prove to be more mysterious. So put yourself in the strongest position. Initiate contact, show interest, set dates, then be patient and wait to interact with her during those dates.

I feel like the movie hitch was based off of you lol.

Op every woman wants to be wooed and courted. Step up.

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Hahah, I wish. I didn't know half of what I know now when I saw that movie.

I like to chase and be chased. I will take action and initiate if I can, but I appreciate someone who does it before I do.

Just don't chase too hard, or she might think you're a desperate puppy rather than a wolf on the hunt

We don't play the hard to get game....if we want you, you will know! We love to be chased by men we like..... Not so much by those we don't have any interest in. If we kiss.... You're in there buddy lol

Hi there. From my perspective I think that to make leos feel seriously about you you need to chase them. but honestly I like to be chased but I don't like when the chaser is too approachable. I like to hunt a little bit. Don't forget that we are kittens 🙂

Both. I want to know I am worthy, but I do not want you up my ass either. I hate being constantly around someone yet I cannot stand them never around too.

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Posted by nysag86
Hello leo divas, I just happened to come across a new crush who happens to be a Leo. We met at a mutual friends party. Our first date was awesome dinner & drinks then met up with friends and danced the night away. I have to say I am really into this one ? I'm trying to figure out if she is as into me. On Saturday she stopped by my place for a bit I had a little party going on, she was dressed to kill! We had a steamy make out session in my room for a bit before she had to leave. I couldn't get her off my mind all weekend. We have plans to go out this Friday. Do you girls like the attention? Should I text her often? She doesn't text me unless I text first. I want to text her more to get to know her but not sure if I'm being annoying bc she doesn't text me on her own. How do you girls treat a crush? How should I play this one out?

Every Leo's different, but Leos in general tend to not be big texters. If a Leo woman texts you, she is more than likely going to invite you out. It's less likely she'll text you long enough to chit-chat (at least not in the early stages).

Here's the thing though, if you like this woman (or ANY woman), don't sit there trying to get to know her via text. That's the passive/weak position and you'll risk getting yourself put in the "you're such a nice guy, let's be friends" part of her brain. Plenty of guys make the mistake of trying to get to know a woman via text. It may work for a bit, but eventually she'll find your friendly interactions quaint instead of intriguing.

Instead if you're going to text her, invite her out (preferably on a date). Likewise if you're going to text, then take the stronger option and actually CALL her. So many people rely on the impersonal nature of texts, that it will set yourself apart in her brain. If you show that you are confident enough to get her on the phone and ask her out directly, you'll keep her intrigued. Leos respond best to direct strength (as do women in general).

Once you ask her out, then wait to talk to her again when you see her. There's no point in chit chatting on the phone and deflating the growing anticipation she'll have to see you. Right now you're intriguing to her, possible even a bit of a mystery. This is exciting to her, so don't ruin the excitement by becoming texting buddies.

Lastly, I always say to never chase a woman. Initiate contact and set dates, yes, but never chase. The more you chase, the less intriguing you'll be. Women will often blow off guys who become too interested or clingy. Then they themselves will then pursue guys who prove to be more mysterious. So put yourself in the strongest position. Initiate contact, show interest, set dates, then be patient and wait to interact with her during those dates.

This is so true with my Leo.

He calls me and face times me every day amd always has. He has never been a texter. Whenever we text its never to have a convo. Its just funny jokes or comments or a pic.

When we first got in contact (LDR) he texted me all of 2 minutes before he was like k im calling you instead. I want to hear your voice.

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Texting is just inefficient for lenthy conversations. At that point we'd rather just call.