Leo man/ cancer women

Hey everyone, would love some help and advice.

Basically, I meet my Leo man two months ago. I was working and he was going on holiday. I ended up giving him my number and since then we’ve been non stop texting everyday. He’s a little older than me, which I don’t mind. He owns his own businesses so he’s a very busy man. He doesn’t have much time for himself, let alone looks after himself as he so work focused. I’m cancer, I’m very laid back. Or I think I am anyways. I’m very all about self love and trying to “find me”. Any who, we’ve had a very strong desire for one another. Sexually. Nothings happened. But we’re both into it and other kinky things, that we’ve only conversed of. Which obviously has made things so exciting. But when we’re not talking about desires. The conversation still never stops but I just feel like I don’t really know him that well. For two people who don’t stop texting for two months you think you know someone quite well. So it’s been six weeks since meeting that we went on our first date. Went great, talked about another. Needed more time together as it was a late dinner. But I’ve noticed or I think he’s a little insecure about the way he looks. I think he hot as hell. But I noticed he never complemented me. Like I knew I looked hot it’s just nice to know if I looked good for him. He says he’s scared of saying stuff. But I’m like it’s me... But I felt like I was always making the effort, to see if our days off were free. When’s it happening etc. Now it’s been another 4 weeks after and nothing planned. Like I’m patient but it just a little long for me, I’d be fine it I just had a date sent. Just so I know. I tried to take a step back so he’s make some of the effort, leave the ball in his court. I’ve just got to a point where I’ve basically said. As much as we’ve spoke for so long and the date was great. I just basically wanna know where I stand with things as he doesn’t give much away. He was mind blowing by this and basically just replied with an emoji. I couldn’t reply to just am emoji. And now it’s been a couple days and I’ve not had another message. Have I shot myself in the foot for being honest and just wanting to know where I stand. We don’t have time to waste especially when I feel like I’m in limbo as he’s not so open. Do I wait for him to text me again? Or do I grow some balls and reply. But I think of someone wants to speak or see you they’ll make that effort.

Please help. I’m going bonkers haha

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WHY would you think that you'd know someone well just from texting 2 months?

"We don't have time to waste especially when I'm in limbo". Guess what? It appears that you do have time to waste 🤷 Question is, what steps are you going to take to change that? 🤔

@sweetpea2977 I’m a very deep person I guess. So I would normally feel like I’d know someone a little more. Obviously not every detail about then.

On my days off yes I do have a lot of free time compared to him. I’m not exactly comfortable with my own space right now. That’s something I need to change for myself.

As @sweatpea2977 stated, if you don't have time to waste, then you should cut down on the texting. No relationship can be built on texts alone. You can't truly get to know someone inside and out that way. So if things seem to be moving slowly it is because you two still don't really know each other yet.

Also texting typically doesn't have a strong impact on Leo males. We'll do it, but we won't necessarily put much effort or thought into it. If you want to get a Leo man's attention or connect with him on a deeper level, do not rely on texts. Phone calls and in person communication is much better.

Also if you're tired of the back and forth, then pull the trigger yourself and ask him out. It's 2019, waiting for a guy to make the move isn't always necessary. Also Leos respond best to confidence. So ask him out and if he doesn't set a date, let him know that you can't rely on just texting alone. Let him know that you understand if he's busy, so he should contact you when he's free and available to go out. Then leave it at that.

Just know Leos are generally busy people. You can't force/rush a Leo out of being busy. The Leo will have to make time for you if he is interested. The Leo may not know if you're good for him yet. If you can't do that, then this Leo man probably isn't for you.

No clue what anyone finds in leos, never been attracted to them, never will. So plain, like a cotton sack.

Edit: Didn't read the novel yet, I'll be getting back shortly 😉

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Posted by thaicancer

He says he’s scared of saying stuff. But I’m like it’s me... But I felt like I was always making the effort, to see if our days off were free.

... does he have virgo in his chart?

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Im not too sure? @dilettante

Posted by Chuckcem

As @sweatpea2977 stated, if you don't have time to waste, then you should cut down on the texting. No relationship can be built on texts alone. You can't truly get to know someone inside and out that way. So if things seem to be moving slowly it is because you two still don't really know each other yet.....

Hey @chuckcem when I say wasting time, I mean in general. I don’t want to invest weeks and months for nothing. Im very honest with what I want. Well im trying to get to know him, I guess im more the over the phone type. It weird you say that, as he’s always been a great texter. He’s just so busy, its hard to get a call in these days. He doesn’t have much time for himself.

I have already and that’s what got me on the first date. Just be nice for it not to be all me making the effort. I understand he’s busy, but I don’t want that as his excuse for poor communication etc. He’s not very verbal in what he’s thinking. Like if he likes me etc, im always just guessing.

Posted by Arielle83

So weird. Like you project fantasy.

Well a lot of our conversations have in a way been a lot of fantasy. We both enjoy some kink.

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Posted by Arielle83

So weird. Like you project fantasy.

Well a lot of our conversations have in a way been a lot of fantasy. We both enjoy some kink.

Ya on the phone, so it’s not like you’re doing anything kinky.

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no, just some very lustful conversations via text

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Posted by Arielle83

So weird. Like you project fantasy.

Well a lot of our conversations have in a way been a lot of fantasy. We both enjoy some kink.

Ya on the phone, so it’s not like you’re doing anything kinky.

no, just some very lustful conversations via text

Ya boring.

Nothing in real life.

You could be doing these lustful things with a real person, but you’d rather talk on a phone.

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Im not boring...

Im obviously trying to get somewhere with someone to be able to do that in real life haha...

Yeah you best move on with yourself tbh. Leave the ball in his court and carry on with yourself. If a Leo wants you, we know how to find you and touch you - trust me on this right now lol. If we like you, and we wants you, we will find you. So just hold off on that tbh to see if he reaches out to you.

I think you should try a more direct approach...let's meet up? A Leo really will come to you if they want you. Actions speak louder than words. Be careful there isn't someone else in the picture because he should be meeting with you by now.