TruScorp
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you think he wasn’t feeling it or I said something that insulted him?
So leave it as is , don’t reach out and walk away.
Sigh.... really felt a connection.
Posted by ItsSupes2Posted by TruScorp
So leave it as is , don’t reach out and walk away.
He will contact you if he has a change of heartclick to expand
Thank you
How does one ever pin down a Leo...
So I have heard, not trying to pin just wanted to enjoy it longer...sigh
You ruined the "vibe" by joking that the vibe was off. You cock blocked yourself with that comment. You might as well of punched him in the nuts.
Posted by SeaLion
You ruined the "vibe" by joking that the vibe was off. You cock blocked yourself with that comment. You might as well of punched him in the nuts.
Fml, didn’t mean any harm. It was banter
More opinions, reach out or walk away?
Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by TruScorpPosted by SeaLion
You ruined the "vibe" by joking that the vibe was off. You cock blocked yourself with that comment. You might as well of punched him in the nuts.
Fml, didn’t mean any harm. It was banter
More opinions, reach out or walk away?
If I really liked him, I'd reach out again. I'm not a Leo, but I do have Leo Mars. Do you really like him? Why did you make that vibe comment? Was the vibe off?click to expand
I’m super picky but this guy, the vibe between us if anything was “different” in the best way. I would be definitely interested in getting to know him better.
Posted by TruScorp
I may have hurt his feelings. I was completely joking, literally banter.
Should I completely back off, wait and see if he comes back around. It’s almost a complete surprise. Or should I ask him about it.
you're a scorp? ah yes, the beautiful square egos clash, you can always count on a scorpio to ruin a night, and a aqua, specially an aqua.
if you want to try a gain, dont back off, most leo I know dont like it around the bush, but we dont hold grudges as scorpios does, is better to forget about it and talk like normal, more upbeat too, so dont ask about it, or just ask if he want to try again, that probably will be more interesting, and his answer will be more than enough to know if he likes you or what.
Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by TruScorpPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by TruScorpPosted by SeaLion
You ruined the "vibe" by joking that the vibe was off. You cock blocked yourself with that comment. You might as well of punched him in the nuts.
Fml, didn’t mean any harm. It was banter
More opinions, reach out or walk away?
If I really liked him, I'd reach out again. I'm not a Leo, but I do have Leo Mars. Do you really like him? Why did you make that vibe comment? Was the vibe off?
I’m super picky but this guy, the vibe between us if anything was “different” in the best way. I would be definitely interested in getting to know him better.
I think what he heard was "this isn't feeling fun and easy like last time." He may be also thinking that he had sex with you, and you weren't very impressed. What did you hope to communicate when you said that? Or did you say it without thinking?click to expand
No sex involved 100%
He vaped in front of me and I teasingly told him it changed the vibe. I was totally teasing him. 100% playful no harm meant
Posted by TruScorpPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by TruScorpPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by TruScorpPosted by SeaLion
You ruined the "vibe" by joking that the vibe was off. You cock blocked yourself with that comment. You might as well of punched him in the nuts.
Fml, didn’t mean any harm. It was banter
More opinions, reach out or walk away?
If I really liked him, I'd reach out again. I'm not a Leo, but I do have Leo Mars. Do you really like him? Why did you make that vibe comment? Was the vibe off?
I’m super picky but this guy, the vibe between us if anything was “different” in the best way. I would be definitely interested in getting to know him better.
I think what he heard was "this isn't feeling fun and easy like last time." He may be also thinking that he had sex with you, and you weren't very impressed. What did you hope to communicate when you said that? Or did you say it without thinking?
No sex involved 100%
He vaped in front of me and I teasingly told him it changed the vibe. I was totally teasing him. 100% playful no harm meantclick to expand
He definitely feels judged and like he cant be himself around you and you probably hurt his ego.
I don't have much experience with leo guys, but what you could try is text him and ask him out (something specific) and when the vide is still a bit off and he doesn't seem really comfortable, you could mention how you're sorry if you said something wrong the last time and you were nervous and just blurted something out.
If the vaping honestly bothered you, you should just call it quits.
How is vaping a vibe changer? That's weird asf..
That’s the thing! Lol The vaping didn’t bother me at all! I smoke sometimes! It was banter, back and forth banter everything prior to that was perfect. I have nothing invested here aside from having a great time & just totally clicking from the very beginning. I’m confused......lol hot, hot cold? I’m gonna let it be and see if he decides to reach out to me. Kind of feeling rejected... I’m shooketh lmao
But really, hanging out was so easy. It came natural and all we did was laugh.... I felt like I knew him for forever and that doesn’t happen too often.
But really, hanging out was so easy. It came natural and all we did was laugh.... I felt like I knew him for forever and that doesn’t happen too often.
The attraction and chemistry definitely there
He kept apologizing for not keeping his hands off and I’m the type of girl who needs to know you to allow that but it all just flowed ...fkn stumped lol
He kept apologizing for not keeping his hands off and I’m the type of girl who needs to know you to allow that but it all just flowed ...fkn stumped lol
Posted by TruScorp
That’s the thing! Lol The vaping didn’t bother me at all! I smoke sometimes! It was banter, back and forth banter everything prior to that was perfect. I have nothing invested here aside from having a great time & just totally clicking from the very beginning. I’m confused......lol hot, hot cold? I’m gonna let it be and see if he decides to reach out to me. Kind of feeling rejected... I’m shooketh lmao
But really, hanging out was so easy. It came natural and all we did was laugh.... I felt like I knew him for forever and that doesn’t happen too often.
I get it. Here's the thing. It's not that serious. This is all just a big misunderstanding. Scorpio and Leo can get along very well as long as you each understand the other's communication style . Scorpio's likes to poke, while Leos don't really like being poked. Leos will also poke back in retaliation, but Scorpio's also don't like being poked. See how that works?
Basically you made a joke that he didn't get. He instead went on the defense and doubled down saying, "yeah at least we tried" and backed off. Why? Well he's stepping back just in case you're no longer interested. Likewise he's seeing if you meant what you said. Leos can have a great sense of humor, but with our pride, we're not always the best at being teased. We can take ourselves far too seriously, which no Leo would ever admit.
If you're still interested, your best course of action is to reach out to the Leo. We Leos do need to feel wanted, otherwise we'll cut our losses and shift our attention elsewhere. We also like direct people, so there's no point beating around the bush.
just communicate
why do people not just talk idgi
why do people not just talk idgi
If he didn't get your jokes sounds like you two don't really have great chemistry
To pin a Leo you need to be unphased AF by nearly everything, beautiful, and living your best life completely independent of them. They like attention and affection, yes..... but only when in physical contact. They seem to dislike texting or long winded conversations about anyone's feelings.
No matter how much they like you, telling them what you don't like about them, makes them question things completely. You have to guide a change of behavior by only allowing and entertaining what is acceptable to you (which is what we should be doing anyways). If they care about you, they will make the change, but they will not be told to do so.
They are completely turned off by insecurities. And take communications VERY literally. If you said the vibe was off he believed you, and reiterated that. He doesnt have time to decipher things you say, and wont. He will be dramatic and give back to you what you gave, and watch your reaction. Keep you senses about you.
I would simply state- "I assumed by the great time that we had, that you knew my comment was a joke, but I do understand that nothing should be assumed." And leave it at that. If he likes you, he'll reach out.
Queen energy! Queen Energy! Queen Energy!
A queen doesn't ask someone how to treat her, she commands it through her actions. They really, really like powerful women.
No matter how much they like you, telling them what you don't like about them, makes them question things completely. You have to guide a change of behavior by only allowing and entertaining what is acceptable to you (which is what we should be doing anyways). If they care about you, they will make the change, but they will not be told to do so.
They are completely turned off by insecurities. And take communications VERY literally. If you said the vibe was off he believed you, and reiterated that. He doesnt have time to decipher things you say, and wont. He will be dramatic and give back to you what you gave, and watch your reaction. Keep you senses about you.
I would simply state- "I assumed by the great time that we had, that you knew my comment was a joke, but I do understand that nothing should be assumed." And leave it at that. If he likes you, he'll reach out.
Queen energy! Queen Energy! Queen Energy!
A queen doesn't ask someone how to treat her, she commands it through her actions. They really, really like powerful women.
Sweety don't get scared,its nothing, I read what you wrote, and I'm Leo,we leos play too much too, do call him and apologise if whatever you said could have hurt him and fix a new date,you can get him a teddy bear, and this time be clear and playful but not in an abusive way,trust you guys ll work out
Sweety don't get scared,its nothing, I read what you wrote, and I'm Leo,we leos play too much too, do call him and apologise if whatever you said could have hurt him and fix a new date,you can get him a teddy bear, and this time be clear and playful but not in an abusive way,trust you guys ll work out
Plus be careful,we are dealing seriously with insecurities
Posted by TruScorp
So I have heard, not trying to pin just wanted to enjoy it longer...sigh
It will never feel long enough
Posted by ItsSupes2Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by TruScorpPosted by SeaLion
You ruined the "vibe" by joking that the vibe was off. You cock blocked yourself with that comment. You might as well of punched him in the nuts.
Fml, didn’t mean any harm. It was banter
More opinions, reach out or walk away?
If I really liked him, I'd reach out again. I'm not a Leo, but I do have Leo Mars. Do you really like him? Why did you make that vibe comment? Was the vibe off?
Probably not but you know Scorps gotta throw a wrench in the salad bowl just to keep things from being too happyclick to expand
😂🤣😂
Posted by TruScorp
I had a first date with a Leo man that lasted 18hrs...
We had a blast! Best first date ever! Great chemistry, laughter, overall great vibe. Forward a week later 2nd date was going well, I’m very playful
I may have hurt his feelings. Drops me off and when he gets home texts me Good night then said “I think you were right about the vibe being off tonight” I was completely joking, literally banter. He said “At least we tried.” I’m so confused
Should I completely back off, wait and see if he comes back around. It’s almost a complete surprise. Or should I ask him about it. I could leave it alone as there’s not much investment but something just feels off.... thoughts leo’s.....
It was only second date so I think he doesn't know you were kidding, you better tell him because it sounds like he's worth it. If his ego is wounded than he wont come back so I would tell him and be honest. Just be like "When I said that, I was kidding"
I say, reach out and gain understanding and clarity. Seems like he's sensitive and/or doesn't get your sense of humor just yet. Don't be afraid. Be yourself. Reach out, be yourself and see how the 3rd date goes 🙃
Posted by heliumfiasco
To pin a Leo you need to be unphased AF by nearly everything, beautiful, and living your best life completely independent of them. They like attention and affection, yes..... but only when in physical contact. They seem to dislike texting or long winded conversations about anyone's feelings.
No matter how much they like you, telling them what you don't like about them, makes them question things completely. You have to guide a change of behavior by only allowing and entertaining what is acceptable to you (which is what we should be doing anyways). If they care about you, they will make the change, but they will not be told to do so.
They are completely turned off by insecurities. And take communications VERY literally. If you said the vibe was off he believed you, and reiterated that. He doesnt have time to decipher things you say, and wont. He will be dramatic and give back to you what you gave, and watch your reaction. Keep you senses about you.
I would simply state- "I assumed by the great time that we had, that you knew my comment was a joke, but I do understand that nothing should be assumed." And leave it at that. If he likes you, he'll reach out.
Queen energy! Queen Energy! Queen Energy!
A queen doesn't ask someone how to treat her, she commands it through her actions. They really, really like powerful women.
This.
Posted by dilettante
scorpio sarcasm digs it’s own grave once again.
but also... how do u know he wasnt just bantering back?
everyone was so quick to say his ego was hurt but when i read it, it came off as playful banter to me?
but i dunno 🤷🏻♀️
I think you're right. I think both awkwardly made a comment at each other that neither were prepared to receive. Typical Leo/Scorpio dynamic.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
How is vaping a vibe changer? That's weird asf..
...unless she meant ‘faping’...😚
Posted by TruScorp
I had a first date with a Leo man that lasted 18hrs...
We had a blast! Best first date ever! Great chemistry, laughter, overall great vibe. Forward a week later 2nd date was going well, I’m very playful
I may have hurt his feelings. Drops me off and when he gets home texts me Good night then said “I think you were right about the vibe being off tonight” I was completely joking, literally banter. He said “At least we tried.” I’m so confused
Should I completely back off, wait and see if he comes back around. It’s almost a complete surprise. Or should I ask him about it. I could leave it alone as there’s not much investment but something just feels off.... thoughts leo’s.....
i say call him! us Leos are suckers for a good apology.
another thing: leos and scorps can be powerhouses together!!! IF they can play by the rules. they're both strong leaders in different ways. So teasing totally allowed, but banter opens the door to competition and none will back up from it.
i was married to a scorp for many years, and when we were good, we were THE BEST, but during times when we fought, all hell broke loose, quite literally. some scorps like to banter and poke the leo as an upper hand kinda thing. leo can be playful enough to take it, once twice.....three times already too much!
there's a fine line between teasing and banter, banter is a whole new territory for these two
i made lots of good friends scorps, but i had to learn their language. and it depends on each one and their level of emotional maturity. but i would take a mature scorpio over anybody any day! they know what the freak they want and they stick with it.
but most of all, if i learned anything is to be my freakin self!!!
if i want to call i will, if i don't then i won't
if he cannot handle who you really are at your core, then what you gonna do for the rest of it?!?! try to guess what he wants!?
ask him sytraight up: did i offend you? didn't mean to!! and then bring up the stuff you like about him, all the stuff you said here about your date with him!!
all the best 🙂
Don’t understand why you would say that if it wasn’t true. It’s not funny really. It would turn me off too tbh
Posted by RisingPosted by TruScorp
I had a first date with a Leo man that lasted 18hrs...
We had a blast! Best first date ever! Great chemistry, laughter, overall great vibe. Forward a week later 2nd date was going well, I’m very playful
I may have hurt his feelings. Drops me off and when he gets home texts me Good night then said “I think you were right about the vibe being off tonight” I was completely joking, literally banter. He said “At least we tried.” I’m so confused
Should I completely back off, wait and see if he comes back around. It’s almost a complete surprise. Or should I ask him about it. I could leave it alone as there’s not much investment but something just feels off.... thoughts leo’s.....
i say call him! us Leos are suckers for a good apology.
another thing: leos and scorps can be powerhouses together!!! IF they can play by the rules. they're both strong leaders in different ways. So teasing totally allowed, but banter opens the door to competition and none will back up from it.
i was married to a scorp for many years, and when we were good, we were THE BEST, but during times when we fought, all hell broke loose, quite literally. some scorps like to banter and poke the leo as an upper hand kinda thing. leo can be playful enough to take it, once twice.....three times already too much!
there's a fine line between teasing and banter, banter is a whole new territory for these two
i made lots of good friends scorps, but i had to learn their language. and it depends on each one and their level of emotional maturity. but i would take a mature scorpio over anybody any day! they know what the freak they want and they stick with it.
but most of all, if i learned anything is to be my freakin self!!!
if i want to call i will, if i don't then i won't
if he cannot handle who you really are at your core, then what you gonna do for the rest of it?!?! try to guess what he wants!?
ask him sytraight up: did i offend you? didn't mean to!! and then bring up the stuff you like about him, all the stuff you said here about your date with him!!
all the best 🙂click to expand
100% appreciated what you had to say 100% ...Ty. Update, I fixed it by telling him the truth, I was totally joking and didn’t mean anything by it. We started talking again.... I am 100% interested in this guy....doesn’t happen often. I managed to piss him off again. I left him an apology and sent 1 text. I think this is it...Sigh
Are Leo’s forgiving twice in a row? I’m so disappointed
Posted by BrittniePosted by TruScorp
I had a first date with a Leo man that lasted 18hrs...
We had a blast! Best first date ever! Great chemistry, laughter, overall great vibe. Forward a week later 2nd date was going well, I’m very playful
I may have hurt his feelings. Drops me off and when he gets home texts me Good night then said “I think you were right about the vibe being off tonight” I was completely joking, literally banter. He said “At least we tried.” I’m so confused
Should I completely back off, wait and see if he comes back around. It’s almost a complete surprise. Or should I ask him about it. I could leave it alone as there’s not much investment but something just feels off.... thoughts leo’s.....
It was only second date so I think he doesn't know you were kidding, you better tell him because it sounds like he's worth it. If his ego is wounded than he wont come back so I would tell him and be honest. Just be like "When I said that, I was kidding"click to expand
Ty....=) I mended it and screwed It up all over again
Posted by dilettante
scorpio sarcasm digs it’s own grave once again.
but also... how do u know he wasnt just bantering back?
everyone was so quick to say his ego was hurt but when i read it, it came off as playful banter to me?
but i dunno 🤷🏻♀️
It was 100% playful banter....
Posted by ChuckcemPosted by heliumfiasco
To pin a Leo you need to be unphased AF by nearly everything, beautiful, and living your best life completely independent of them. They like attention and affection, yes..... but only when in physical contact. They seem to dislike texting or long winded conversations about anyone's feelings.
No matter how much they like you, telling them what you don't like about them, makes them question things completely. You have to guide a change of behavior by only allowing and entertaining what is acceptable to you (which is what we should be doing anyways). If they care about you, they will make the change, but they will not be told to do so.
They are completely turned off by insecurities. And take communications VERY literally. If you said the vibe was off he believed you, and reiterated that. He doesnt have time to decipher things you say, and wont. He will be dramatic and give back to you what you gave, and watch your reaction. Keep you senses about you.
I would simply state- "I assumed by the great time that we had, that you knew my comment was a joke, but I do understand that nothing should be assumed." And leave it at that. If he likes you, he'll reach out.
Queen energy! Queen Energy! Queen Energy!
A queen doesn't ask someone how to treat her, she commands it through her actions. They really, really like powerful women.
This.click to expand
100% you understand completely...Ty. I managed to explain that to him and we were back on track....I pissed him off again. Do I still have a chance?! I feel like a total a $ $
I screwed it up again guys....
So bummed, Do I even stand a chance.... yet AGAIN?! Suggestions
I feel like a total Jerk
So bummed, Do I even stand a chance.... yet AGAIN?! Suggestions
I feel like a total Jerk
I left a msg with an apology and sent 1 text msg. I think he blocked me. At this point is it best just to walk away....
Posted by TruScorpPosted by BrittniePosted by TruScorp
I had a first date with a Leo man that lasted 18hrs...
We had a blast! Best first date ever! Great chemistry, laughter, overall great vibe. Forward a week later 2nd date was going well, I’m very playful
I may have hurt his feelings. Drops me off and when he gets home texts me Good night then said “I think you were right about the vibe being off tonight” I was completely joking, literally banter. He said “At least we tried.” I’m so confused
Should I completely back off, wait and see if he comes back around. It’s almost a complete surprise. Or should I ask him about it. I could leave it alone as there’s not much investment but something just feels off.... thoughts leo’s.....
It was only second date so I think he doesn't know you were kidding, you better tell him because it sounds like he's worth it. If his ego is wounded than he wont come back so I would tell him and be honest. Just be like "When I said that, I was kidding"
Ty....=) I mended it and screwed It up all over againclick to expand
What?? LOL! HOW?!!!! 🙂
Posted by TruScorpPosted by ChuckcemPosted by heliumfiasco
To pin a Leo you need to be unphased AF by nearly everything, beautiful, and living your best life completely independent of them. They like attention and affection, yes..... but only when in physical contact. They seem to dislike texting or long winded conversations about anyone's feelings.
No matter how much they like you, telling them what you don't like about them, makes them question things completely. You have to guide a change of behavior by only allowing and entertaining what is acceptable to you (which is what we should be doing anyways). If they care about you, they will make the change, but they will not be told to do so.
They are completely turned off by insecurities. And take communications VERY literally. If you said the vibe was off he believed you, and reiterated that. He doesnt have time to decipher things you say, and wont. He will be dramatic and give back to you what you gave, and watch your reaction. Keep you senses about you.
I would simply state- "I assumed by the great time that we had, that you knew my comment was a joke, but I do understand that nothing should be assumed." And leave it at that. If he likes you, he'll reach out.
Queen energy! Queen Energy! Queen Energy!
A queen doesn't ask someone how to treat her, she commands it through her actions. They really, really like powerful women.
This.
100% you understand completely...Ty. I managed to explain that to him and we were back on track....I pissed him off again. Do I still have a chance?! I feel like a total a $ $click to expand
How did you anger him again?
Posted by TruScorp
I left a msg with an apology and sent 1 text msg. I think he blocked me. At this point is it best just to walk away....
If he blocked you......yes
I may have left a small detail out about our first date. Originally we had a dinner date. I was pretty clear that I didn’t want to drink on our first date. I was so nervous I cancelled our first date. Thus the Misfits concert, extreme... I know! He was not happy when I canceled (5hrs ahead of time) same day. I reached out to him the next day and he apologized for jumping to conclusions and said “wanna make it up” Misfits concert! The vibe was so chill, relaxed, natural and the chemistry definitely there. We ended up drinking throughout the date but not one of us was drunk. We were chill, lovable, playing and joking. Our Uber dropped us off in a downtown area with plenty of bars. We went into one and all of a sudden his alcohol must have kicked in because he started telling me if you like that guy why don’t you just go with him... I was completely 100% in my date, that’s not my style and I didn’t even know what guy he was talking about. I felt disrespected and confused so I left him there. Both of our cars there and I live two blocks away. He called me like 30 minutes later, apologized and said “ im hungry, let’s go eat!” I was too! He was two blocks away ended up grabbing breakfast and just talking for hours. We completely hit if off. He sent me a text a few hours after our date ended how he appreciated our conversation, how I keep it 100% and it was refreshing. So he had one strike out but I enjoyed his company, chalked it up to the alcohol and it was like it never happened. Forward to after we mended our little misunderstanding. I let him know I was kidding, I was nervous and we were back on. I opened up to him like really honest stuff and he appreciated that but I was buzzed while doing so and he didn’t know it. I’m maid of honor in a wedding quickly approaching so lots of planning, girl time and wine time. I’m buzzed and call him and tell him I had the balls to tell him my feelings the night before because I was buzzed and he basically tells me he’s done. I called him back like wth... so basically he had his little moment that I chose to get over but he’s holding mine against me kind of deal. Now that you guys know the back story
Should I just leave it alone? Yesterday was the first day in a month We didn’t speak
I think he blocked me? Cannot tell with Verizon...
Should I just leave it alone? Yesterday was the first day in a month We didn’t speak
I think he blocked me? Cannot tell with Verizon...
Posted by TruScorpPosted by RisingPosted by TruScorp
I had a first date with a Leo man that lasted 18hrs...
We had a blast! Best first date ever! Great chemistry, laughter, overall great vibe. Forward a week later 2nd date was going well, I’m very playful
I may have hurt his feelings. Drops me off and when he gets home texts me Good night then said “I think you were right about the vibe being off tonight” I was completely joking, literally banter. He said “At least we tried.” I’m so confused
Should I completely back off, wait and see if he comes back around. It’s almost a complete surprise. Or should I ask him about it. I could leave it alone as there’s not much investment but something just feels off.... thoughts leo’s.....
i say call him! us Leos are suckers for a good apology.
another thing: leos and scorps can be powerhouses together!!! IF they can play by the rules. they're both strong leaders in different ways. So teasing totally allowed, but banter opens the door to competition and none will back up from it.
i was married to a scorp for many years, and when we were good, we were THE BEST, but during times when we fought, all hell broke loose, quite literally. some scorps like to banter and poke the leo as an upper hand kinda thing. leo can be playful enough to take it, once twice.....three times already too much!
there's a fine line between teasing and banter, banter is a whole new territory for these two
i made lots of good friends scorps, but i had to learn their language. and it depends on each one and their level of emotional maturity. but i would take a mature scorpio over anybody any day! they know what the freak they want and they stick with it.
but most of all, if i learned anything is to be my freakin self!!!
if i want to call i will, if i don't then i won't
if he cannot handle who you really are at your core, then what you gonna do for the rest of it?!?! try to guess what he wants!?
ask him sytraight up: did i offend you? didn't mean to!! and then bring up the stuff you like about him, all the stuff you said here about your date with him!!
all the best 🙂
100% appreciated what you had to say 100% ...Ty. Update, I fixed it by telling him the truth, I was totally joking and didn’t mean anything by it. We started talking again.... I am 100% interested in this guy....doesn’t happen often. I managed to piss him off again. I left him an apology and sent 1 text. I think this is it...Sigh
Are Leo’s forgiving twice in a row? I’m so disappointedclick to expand
😄 yeah they can be forgiving, more than twice
a hurt Leo man can be a sorry sight sometimes: he wants to feel like the King for the jungle with you!! and in your heart he is! but here's the catch, you're conveying it in a language he doesn't understand. Big lion, wants/needs to purr like a kitten in your presence. needs to feel needed and appreciated and use direct simple comments/compliments for that. at least in the beginning.
Scorps are witty, masters of the intellectual seduction, Leo men - not so much ! lol
As a leo woman (cancer rising, cancer moon, venus virgo, mars leo) I get the scorp's wittiness and sarcasm and can hold my own.
a leo man, depending on his chart as well, is a bit more sensitive. as much as possible keep things simple in the beginning. As a rule, unless we've known the person for a long time and everything is established between us, teasing can a bit unsettling for leo's vain heart. your leo man wants adoration not teasing hahaha
and since you are totally into him talk to him and find his language! we looooove cards on the table!
so meet up, best in person, look into his eyes, and say: "you're one of the best people to walk into my life and i really want to get to know you. sometimes i have "foot in the mouth" syndrome. don't mean it. what are your likes/dislikes in communication—"
i personally tend to be a bit innner critical of my men, so i made it a habit to seek their qualities every time i noticed smtg i may not like, and i express those qualities to them.
talk to him and don't be afraid to be a bit pushy and say you will not let go of him, if he acts shy or withdrawing.
Posted by TruScorp
I may have left a small detail out about our first date. Originally we had a dinner date. I was pretty clear that I didn’t want to drink on our first date. I was so nervous I cancelled our first date. Thus the Misfits concert, extreme... I know! He was not happy when I canceled (5hrs ahead of time) same day. I reached out to him the next day and he apologized for jumping to conclusions and said “wanna make it up” Misfits concert! The vibe was so chill, relaxed, natural and the chemistry definitely there. We ended up drinking throughout the date but not one of us was drunk. We were chill, lovable, playing and joking. Our Uber dropped us off in a downtown area with plenty of bars. We went into one and all of a sudden his alcohol must have kicked in because he started telling me if you like that guy why don’t you just go with him... I was completely 100% in my date, that’s not my style and I didn’t even know what guy he was talking about. I felt disrespected and confused so I left him there. Both of our cars there and I live two blocks away. He called me like 30 minutes later, apologized and said “ im hungry, let’s go eat!” I was too! He was two blocks away ended up grabbing breakfast and just talking for hours. We completely hit if off. He sent me a text a few hours after our date ended how he appreciated our conversation, how I keep it 100% and it was refreshing. So he had one strike out but I enjoyed his company, chalked it up to the alcohol and it was like it never happened. Forward to after we mended our little misunderstanding. I let him know I was kidding, I was nervous and we were back on. I opened up to him like really honest stuff and he appreciated that but I was buzzed while doing so and he didn’t know it. I’m maid of honor in a wedding quickly approaching so lots of planning, girl time and wine time. I’m buzzed and call him and tell him I had the balls to tell him my feelings the night before because I was buzzed and he basically tells me he’s done. I called him back like wth... so basically he had his little moment that I chose to get over but he’s holding mine against me kind of deal. Now that you guys know the back story
Should I just leave it alone? Yesterday was the first day in a month We didn’t speak
I think he blocked me? Cannot tell with Verizon...
IF he blocked you, he will unblock you.
you seem to be great together but have different languages.
i think he may also have some prev baggage, he sounds insecure and some things you say/do, may trigger stuff for him. really not your problem, he needs to get over whatever history and baggage he has.
leo men can be high maintenance, meaning they need appreciation put in words, many times, especially this guy, as he strikes me he's got insecurity issues.
i mean, every sign out there, and every chart possible will have their own set of issues!!! i'm a firm believer in communicating, as much as they want it too.
Posted by RisingPosted by TruScorpPosted by RisingPosted by TruScorp
I had a first date with a Leo man that lasted 18hrs...
We had a blast! Best first date ever! Great chemistry, laughter, overall great vibe. Forward a week later 2nd date was going well, I’m very playful
I may have hurt his feelings. Drops me off and when he gets home texts me Good night then said “I think you were right about the vibe being off tonight” I was completely joking, literally banter. He said “At least we tried.” I’m so confused
Should I completely back off, wait and see if he comes back around. It’s almost a complete surprise. Or should I ask him about it. I could leave it alone as there’s not much investment but something just feels off.... thoughts leo’s.....
i say call him! us Leos are suckers for a good apology.
another thing: leos and scorps can be powerhouses together!!! IF they can play by the rules. they're both strong leaders in different ways. So teasing totally allowed, but banter opens the door to competition and none will back up from it.
i was married to a scorp for many years, and when we were good, we were THE BEST, but during times when we fought, all hell broke loose, quite literally. some scorps like to banter and poke the leo as an upper hand kinda thing. leo can be playful enough to take it, once twice.....three times already too much!
there's a fine line between teasing and banter, banter is a whole new territory for these two
i made lots of good friends scorps, but i had to learn their language. and it depends on each one and their level of emotional maturity. but i would take a mature scorpio over anybody any day! they know what the freak they want and they stick with it.
but most of all, if i learned anything is to be my freakin self!!!
if i want to call i will, if i don't then i won't
if he cannot handle who you really are at your core, then what you gonna do for the rest of it?!?! try to guess what he wants!?
ask him sytraight up: did i offend you? didn't mean to!! and then bring up the stuff you like about him, all the stuff you said here about your date with him!!
all the best 🙂
100% appreciated what you had to say 100% ...Ty. Update, I fixed it by telling him the truth, I was totally joking and didn’t mean anything by it. We started talking again.... I am 100% interested in this guy....doesn’t happen often. I managed to piss him off again. I left him an apology and sent 1 text. I think this is it...Sigh
Are Leo’s forgiving twice in a row? I’m so disappointed
😄 yeah they can be forgiving, more than twice
a hurt Leo man can be a sorry sight sometimes: he wants to feel like the King for the jungle with you!! and in your heart he is! but here's the catch, you're conveying it in a language he doesn't understand. Big lion, wants/needs to purr like a kitten in your presence. needs to feel needed and appreciated and use direct simple comments/compliments for that. at least in the beginning.
Scorps are witty, masters of the intellectual seduction, Leo men - not so much ! lol
As a leo woman (cancer rising, cancer moon, venus virgo, mars leo) I get the scorp's wittiness and sarcasm and can hold my own.
a leo man, depending on his chart as well, is a bit more sensitive. as much as possible keep things simple in the beginning. As a rule, unless we've known the person for a long time and everything is established between us, teasing can a bit unsettling for leo's vain heart. your leo man wants adoration not teasing hahaha
and since you are totally into him talk to him and find his language! we looooove cards on the table!
so meet up, best in person, look into his eyes, and say: "you're one of the best people to walk into my life and i really want to get to know you. sometimes i have "foot in the mouth" syndrome. don't mean it. what are your likes/dislikes in communication—"
i personally tend to be a bit innner critical of my men, so i made it a habit to seek their qualities every time i noticed smtg i may not like, and i express those qualities to them.
talk to him and don't be afraid to be a bit pushy and say you will not let go of him, if he acts shy or withdrawing.click to expand
Ty so much for your feedback. I left him an apology msg yesterday and one short text. With Verizon
Phones it says”please listen to this music while your party is reached” classical music cuts off into voicemail. Not sure if he blocked me? I’m kind of feeling like I should just wait it out now and see if he reaches out to me. I apologized sincerely, I really want the opportunity to get to know him better but what else can I do but give him space and time and see what happens? Fingers crossed lol
Posted by RisingPosted by TruScorp
I may have left a small detail out about our first date. Originally we had a dinner date. I was pretty clear that I didn’t want to drink on our first date. I was so nervous I cancelled our first date. Thus the Misfits concert, extreme... I know! He was not happy when I canceled (5hrs ahead of time) same day. I reached out to him the next day and he apologized for jumping to conclusions and said “wanna make it up” Misfits concert! The vibe was so chill, relaxed, natural and the chemistry definitely there. We ended up drinking throughout the date but not one of us was drunk. We were chill, lovable, playing and joking. Our Uber dropped us off in a downtown area with plenty of bars. We went into one and all of a sudden his alcohol must have kicked in because he started telling me if you like that guy why don’t you just go with him... I was completely 100% in my date, that’s not my style and I didn’t even know what guy he was talking about. I felt disrespected and confused so I left him there. Both of our cars there and I live two blocks away. He called me like 30 minutes later, apologized and said “ im hungry, let’s go eat!” I was too! He was two blocks away ended up grabbing breakfast and just talking for hours. We completely hit if off. He sent me a text a few hours after our date ended how he appreciated our conversation, how I keep it 100% and it was refreshing. So he had one strike out but I enjoyed his company, chalked it up to the alcohol and it was like it never happened. Forward to after we mended our little misunderstanding. I let him know I was kidding, I was nervous and we were back on. I opened up to him like really honest stuff and he appreciated that but I was buzzed while doing so and he didn’t know it. I’m maid of honor in a wedding quickly approaching so lots of planning, girl time and wine time. I’m buzzed and call him and tell him I had the balls to tell him my feelings the night before because I was buzzed and he basically tells me he’s done. I called him back like wth... so basically he had his little moment that I chose to get over but he’s holding mine against me kind of deal. Now that you guys know the back story
Should I just leave it alone? Yesterday was the first day in a month We didn’t speak
I think he blocked me? Cannot tell with Verizon...
IF he blocked you, he will unblock you.
you seem to be great together but have different languages.
i think he may also have some prev baggage, he sounds insecure and some things you say/do, may trigger stuff for him. really not your problem, he needs to get over whatever history and baggage he has.
leo men can be high maintenance, meaning they need appreciation put in words, many times, especially this guy, as he strikes me he's got insecurity issues.
i mean, every sign out there, and every chart possible will have their own set of issues!!! i'm a firm believer in communicating, as much as they want it too.click to expand
Thank you! I too got the same feeling after but then I do too sometimes so it was bypassed. I am authentically just trying to keep him around so I can get to know him better. His BIrthday in 3 weeks
I think I will wait until his bday to wish him a Happy Birthday. If he was feeling the vibe too he should come around..... yes? So disappointed
Posted by TruScorpPosted by RisingPosted by TruScorp
I may have left a small detail out about our first date. Originally we had a dinner date. I was pretty clear that I didn’t want to drink on our first date. I was so nervous I cancelled our first date. Thus the Misfits concert, extreme... I know! He was not happy when I canceled (5hrs ahead of time) same day. I reached out to him the next day and he apologized for jumping to conclusions and said “wanna make it up” Misfits concert! The vibe was so chill, relaxed, natural and the chemistry definitely there. We ended up drinking throughout the date but not one of us was drunk. We were chill, lovable, playing and joking. Our Uber dropped us off in a downtown area with plenty of bars. We went into one and all of a sudden his alcohol must have kicked in because he started telling me if you like that guy why don’t you just go with him... I was completely 100% in my date, that’s not my style and I didn’t even know what guy he was talking about. I felt disrespected and confused so I left him there. Both of our cars there and I live two blocks away. He called me like 30 minutes later, apologized and said “ im hungry, let’s go eat!” I was too! He was two blocks away ended up grabbing breakfast and just talking for hours. We completely hit if off. He sent me a text a few hours after our date ended how he appreciated our conversation, how I keep it 100% and it was refreshing. So he had one strike out but I enjoyed his company, chalked it up to the alcohol and it was like it never happened. Forward to after we mended our little misunderstanding. I let him know I was kidding, I was nervous and we were back on. I opened up to him like really honest stuff and he appreciated that but I was buzzed while doing so and he didn’t know it. I’m maid of honor in a wedding quickly approaching so lots of planning, girl time and wine time. I’m buzzed and call him and tell him I had the balls to tell him my feelings the night before because I was buzzed and he basically tells me he’s done. I called him back like wth... so basically he had his little moment that I chose to get over but he’s holding mine against me kind of deal. Now that you guys know the back story
Should I just leave it alone? Yesterday was the first day in a month We didn’t speak
I think he blocked me? Cannot tell with Verizon...
IF he blocked you, he will unblock you.
you seem to be great together but have different languages.
i think he may also have some prev baggage, he sounds insecure and some things you say/do, may trigger stuff for him. really not your problem, he needs to get over whatever history and baggage he has.
leo men can be high maintenance, meaning they need appreciation put in words, many times, especially this guy, as he strikes me he's got insecurity issues.
i mean, every sign out there, and every chart possible will have their own set of issues!!! i'm a firm believer in communicating, as much as they want it too.
Thank you! I too got the same feeling after but then I do too sometimes so it was bypassed. I am authentically just trying to keep him around so I can get to know him better. His BIrthday in 3 weeks
I think I will wait until his bday to wish him a Happy Birthday. If he was feeling the vibe too he should come around..... yes? So disappointedclick to expand
IF you get to talk to him at all any time soon, I would mention his bday coming up, like: "cmon, i was looking forward to celebrating your bday!!!" or any other remark you wish to make
it is a vanity thing, we like ppl acknowledging our bday beforehand. can't help it hehe 😄
he will like and appreciate that you thought of his bday.
Posted by RisingPosted by TruScorpPosted by RisingPosted by TruScorp
I may have left a small detail out about our first date. Originally we had a dinner date. I was pretty clear that I didn’t want to drink on our first date. I was so nervous I cancelled our first date. Thus the Misfits concert, extreme... I know! He was not happy when I canceled (5hrs ahead of time) same day. I reached out to him the next day and he apologized for jumping to conclusions and said “wanna make it up” Misfits concert! The vibe was so chill, relaxed, natural and the chemistry definitely there. We ended up drinking throughout the date but not one of us was drunk. We were chill, lovable, playing and joking. Our Uber dropped us off in a downtown area with plenty of bars. We went into one and all of a sudden his alcohol must have kicked in because he started telling me if you like that guy why don’t you just go with him... I was completely 100% in my date, that’s not my style and I didn’t even know what guy he was talking about. I felt disrespected and confused so I left him there. Both of our cars there and I live two blocks away. He called me like 30 minutes later, apologized and said “ im hungry, let’s go eat!” I was too! He was two blocks away ended up grabbing breakfast and just talking for hours. We completely hit if off. He sent me a text a few hours after our date ended how he appreciated our conversation, how I keep it 100% and it was refreshing. So he had one strike out but I enjoyed his company, chalked it up to the alcohol and it was like it never happened. Forward to after we mended our little misunderstanding. I let him know I was kidding, I was nervous and we were back on. I opened up to him like really honest stuff and he appreciated that but I was buzzed while doing so and he didn’t know it. I’m maid of honor in a wedding quickly approaching so lots of planning, girl time and wine time. I’m buzzed and call him and tell him I had the balls to tell him my feelings the night before because I was buzzed and he basically tells me he’s done. I called him back like wth... so basically he had his little moment that I chose to get over but he’s holding mine against me kind of deal. Now that you guys know the back story
Should I just leave it alone? Yesterday was the first day in a month We didn’t speak
I think he blocked me? Cannot tell with Verizon...
IF he blocked you, he will unblock you.
you seem to be great together but have different languages.
i think he may also have some prev baggage, he sounds insecure and some things you say/do, may trigger stuff for him. really not your problem, he needs to get over whatever history and baggage he has.
leo men can be high maintenance, meaning they need appreciation put in words, many times, especially this guy, as he strikes me he's got insecurity issues.
i mean, every sign out there, and every chart possible will have their own set of issues!!! i'm a firm believer in communicating, as much as they want it too.
Thank you! I too got the same feeling after but then I do too sometimes so it was bypassed. I am authentically just trying to keep him around so I can get to know him better. His BIrthday in 3 weeks
I think I will wait until his bday to wish him a Happy Birthday. If he was feeling the vibe too he should come around..... yes? So disappointed
IF you get to talk to him at all any time soon, I would mention his bday coming up, like: "cmon, i was looking forward to celebrating your bday!!!" or any other remark you wish to make
it is a vanity thing, we like ppl acknowledging our bday beforehand. can't help it hehe 😄
he will like and appreciate that you thought of his bday.click to expand
I will be out of town for a wedding that weekend and he actually sounded disappointed when I told him for being so early on. He said ....are you sure it’s that weekend? Sigh
I will 200% acknowledge his bday
It’s a special day and I want him to know he’s still on my mind. I never like anyone romantically so I know 100% withya doubt, he still will be..... on my mind
It’s a special day and I want him to know he’s still on my mind. I never like anyone romantically so I know 100% withya doubt, he still will be..... on my mind
Posted by TruScorpPosted by RisingPosted by TruScorpPosted by RisingPosted by TruScorp
I may have left a small detail out about our first date. Originally we had a dinner date. I was pretty clear that I didn’t want to drink on our first date. I was so nervous I cancelled our first date. Thus the Misfits concert, extreme... I know! He was not happy when I canceled (5hrs ahead of time) same day. I reached out to him the next day and he apologized for jumping to conclusions and said “wanna make it up” Misfits concert! The vibe was so chill, relaxed, natural and the chemistry definitely there. We ended up drinking throughout the date but not one of us was drunk. We were chill, lovable, playing and joking. Our Uber dropped us off in a downtown area with plenty of bars. We went into one and all of a sudden his alcohol must have kicked in because he started telling me if you like that guy why don’t you just go with him... I was completely 100% in my date, that’s not my style and I didn’t even know what guy he was talking about. I felt disrespected and confused so I left him there. Both of our cars there and I live two blocks away. He called me like 30 minutes later, apologized and said “ im hungry, let’s go eat!” I was too! He was two blocks away ended up grabbing breakfast and just talking for hours. We completely hit if off. He sent me a text a few hours after our date ended how he appreciated our conversation, how I keep it 100% and it was refreshing. So he had one strike out but I enjoyed his company, chalked it up to the alcohol and it was like it never happened. Forward to after we mended our little misunderstanding. I let him know I was kidding, I was nervous and we were back on. I opened up to him like really honest stuff and he appreciated that but I was buzzed while doing so and he didn’t know it. I’m maid of honor in a wedding quickly approaching so lots of planning, girl time and wine time. I’m buzzed and call him and tell him I had the balls to tell him my feelings the night before because I was buzzed and he basically tells me he’s done. I called him back like wth... so basically he had his little moment that I chose to get over but he’s holding mine against me kind of deal. Now that you guys know the back story
Should I just leave it alone? Yesterday was the first day in a month We didn’t speak
I think he blocked me? Cannot tell with Verizon...
IF he blocked you, he will unblock you.
you seem to be great together but have different languages.
i think he may also have some prev baggage, he sounds insecure and some things you say/do, may trigger stuff for him. really not your problem, he needs to get over whatever history and baggage he has.
leo men can be high maintenance, meaning they need appreciation put in words, many times, especially this guy, as he strikes me he's got insecurity issues.
i mean, every sign out there, and every chart possible will have their own set of issues!!! i'm a firm believer in communicating, as much as they want it too.
Thank you! I too got the same feeling after but then I do too sometimes so it was bypassed. I am authentically just trying to keep him around so I can get to know him better. His BIrthday in 3 weeks
I think I will wait until his bday to wish him a Happy Birthday. If he was feeling the vibe too he should come around..... yes? So disappointed
IF you get to talk to him at all any time soon, I would mention his bday coming up, like: "cmon, i was looking forward to celebrating your bday!!!" or any other remark you wish to make
it is a vanity thing, we like ppl acknowledging our bday beforehand. can't help it hehe 😄
he will like and appreciate that you thought of his bday.
I will be out of town for a wedding that weekend and he actually sounded disappointed when I told him for being so early on. He said ....are you sure it’s that weekend? Sighclick to expand
then call for an early celebration!! 😛
or multiple small celebrations...because you're missing the big day!!!! (sense the sarcasm lol)
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