Angie2880
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My Leo Fucked & Dumped Me
So... my dad is born the same day 20 years before. He and my mom have been "separated" for 11 years. He loves my mom and would never leave her though. They both move on and get involved with other people but they stay close and when they want each other, they just dispose of whoever they're with and get back together. My dad has lived with women before and kicked them out when my mom decides she's his wife again. I've met some of them; young, sweet, gorgeous, (naive), in love and wanting to be close to my handsome and generous dad. None of them stand a chance to my middle aged tough mama. Their love is solidified.
It's weird and I understand why it would be confusing but don't question it. Don't get further involved. I don't think it will ever change. Try to recover and move on. It's not you. It's him.
Good luck and Merry Christmas ?
It's weird and I understand why it would be confusing but don't question it. Don't get further involved. I don't think it will ever change. Try to recover and move on. It's not you. It's him.
Good luck and Merry Christmas ?
Posted by Arielle83Oh, they really are.Posted by DiddybopIt's like they're meant for each other.
So... my dad is born the same day 20 years before. He and my mom have been "separated" for 11 years. He loves my mom and would never leave her though. They both move on and get involved with other people but they stay close and when they want each other, they just dispose of whoever they're with and get back together. My dad has lived with women before and kicked them out when my mom decides she's his wife again. I've met some of them; young, sweet, gorgeous, (naive), in love and wanting to be close to my handsome and generous dad. None of them stand a chance to my middle aged tough mama. Their love is solidified.
It's weird and I understand why it would be confusing but don't question it. Don't get further involved. I don't think it will ever change. Try to recover and move on. It's not you. It's him.
Good luck and Merry Christmas ?click to expand
And I've seen firsthand the mindfuck they can unknowingly (uncaringly?) do to the people outside of them tryna get in.
Go find a new job and then try to rekindle something.
Posted by Arielle83No. I think they enter relationships eager for companionship and their partners think it's for long term. I think my parents, especially my dad, think that they can do whatever they want because they were up front about being married even if they also acknowledge they're separated. So I think people who are aware or more mature can recognize that it's never going anywhere even if everything else says otherwise. My dad had another son - took the kid, left the woman; he has a wife.Posted by DiddybopDo u find ppl are drawn to them cuz it's a competition?Posted by Arielle83Oh, they really are.Posted by DiddybopIt's like they're meant for each other.
So... my dad is born the same day 20 years before. He and my mom have been "separated" for 11 years. He loves my mom and would never leave her though. They both move on and get involved with other people but they stay close and when they want each other, they just dispose of whoever they're with and get back together. My dad has lived with women before and kicked them out when my mom decides she's his wife again. I've met some of them; young, sweet, gorgeous, (naive), in love and wanting to be close to my handsome and generous dad. None of them stand a chance to my middle aged tough mama. Their love is solidified.
It's weird and I understand why it would be confusing but don't question it. Don't get further involved. I don't think it will ever change. Try to recover and move on. It's not you. It's him.
Good luck and Merry Christmas ?
And I've seen firsthand the mindfuck they can unknowingly (uncaringly?) do to the people outside of them tryna get in.
Like "ohh I'm fucking a married man" kinda thing.
These ppl must want what they can't have.
Do your parents ever feel hurt by each other or they know they will always have each other?click to expand
My dads last girlfriend went psycho and me and my brother had to deal with her because my dad just wouldn't and she had our information so we listened. My dad on the other hand was just confused as to why she would ever think he'd put her over his wife. Had a similar situation with my moms ex bf and she starts using the husband word heavy too.
They're perfect for each other. they go on vacation at least once a year together.
Life hack #1: never fuck the person who signs your checks.
Posted by Arielle83Yeah that's a good way to put it.Posted by DiddybopPosted by Arielle83No. I think they enter relationships eager for companionship and their partners think it's for long term. I think my parents, especially my dad, think that they can do whatever they want because they were up front about being married even if they also acknowledge they're separated. So I think people who are aware or more mature can recognize that it's never going anywhere even if everything else says otherwise. My dad had another son - took the kid, left the woman; he has a wife.Posted by DiddybopDo u find ppl are drawn to them cuz it's a competition?Posted by Arielle83Oh, they really are.Posted by DiddybopIt's like they're meant for each other.
So... my dad is born the same day 20 years before. He and my mom have been "separated" for 11 years. He loves my mom and would never leave her though. They both move on and get involved with other people but they stay close and when they want each other, they just dispose of whoever they're with and get back together. My dad has lived with women before and kicked them out when my mom decides she's his wife again. I've met some of them; young, sweet, gorgeous, (naive), in love and wanting to be close to my handsome and generous dad. None of them stand a chance to my middle aged tough mama. Their love is solidified.
It's weird and I understand why it would be confusing but don't question it. Don't get further involved. I don't think it will ever change. Try to recover and move on. It's not you. It's him.
Good luck and Merry Christmas ?
And I've seen firsthand the mindfuck they can unknowingly (uncaringly?) do to the people outside of them tryna get in.
Like "ohh I'm fucking a married man" kinda thing.
These ppl must want what they can't have.
Do your parents ever feel hurt by each other or they know they will always have each other?
My dads last girlfriend went psycho and me and my brother had to deal with her because my dad just wouldn't and she had our information so we listened. My dad on the other hand was just confused as to why she would ever think he'd put her over his wife. Had a similar situation with my moms ex bf and she starts using the husband word heavy too.
They're perfect for each other. they go on vacation at least once a year together.
Ya like they have a main relationship and then satellite with others.
I guess the problem is these other ppl always want to change them
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Trollingfalallalalala. Merry Christmas. What a way to end 2016.
I stopped reading after Married.
Sweet Jesus .. He's not the one cancer girl .. He's playing u like a fiddle. Should have stayed with the ex, at least that would have helped u to move past this jerk off boss
Hi guys,
I see some really negative harsh comments as well as some uplifting ones. However all inclines towards me being mess, completely retarded and he is definitely playing me like a fiddle. I would like to share with u guys that yesterday he returned, texted me a few times, and when my response was "Ok thank u boss" , he blocked me again. Today I called him and confronted regarding his immature block/unblock on whatsapp...All he said was because he did not get the response he expected out of me and was hoping I missed him and how it took alot for him to drop his ego and text me. After our conversation, he immediately unblocked me and is texting me up till now. My responses and short and simple. He said he wants to be my friend and not just my boss. Yup he has slept and had a 3yr relationship with another employee before me. Him being my first boss and someone so powerful with that ranking, who gave me special attention and guided me to be the top performer in the company...I guess I stupidly fell in love. I was too thankful and grateful I may have mistaken it for love. Especially when he was the one who approached me and claimed to love me initially and begged me to take him seriously. Anyhow I am going to take all of ur advise and keep a distance although he claims to want to be friends. He does treat me very badly and punishes me every time I do or say something not up to his expectation. Even in office he makes me say "Im sorry boss" loudly intentionally and he gets some sort of kick out of it and leaves with a winner smirk. He wants to show me he is in power all the time. Hmm anyways I thank u all and I have left the ex and him as well, decided to start 2017 single without all this baggage. Not ready for a rs anytime soon too. Thank u...
I see some really negative harsh comments as well as some uplifting ones. However all inclines towards me being mess, completely retarded and he is definitely playing me like a fiddle. I would like to share with u guys that yesterday he returned, texted me a few times, and when my response was "Ok thank u boss" , he blocked me again. Today I called him and confronted regarding his immature block/unblock on whatsapp...All he said was because he did not get the response he expected out of me and was hoping I missed him and how it took alot for him to drop his ego and text me. After our conversation, he immediately unblocked me and is texting me up till now. My responses and short and simple. He said he wants to be my friend and not just my boss. Yup he has slept and had a 3yr relationship with another employee before me. Him being my first boss and someone so powerful with that ranking, who gave me special attention and guided me to be the top performer in the company...I guess I stupidly fell in love. I was too thankful and grateful I may have mistaken it for love. Especially when he was the one who approached me and claimed to love me initially and begged me to take him seriously. Anyhow I am going to take all of ur advise and keep a distance although he claims to want to be friends. He does treat me very badly and punishes me every time I do or say something not up to his expectation. Even in office he makes me say "Im sorry boss" loudly intentionally and he gets some sort of kick out of it and leaves with a winner smirk. He wants to show me he is in power all the time. Hmm anyways I thank u all and I have left the ex and him as well, decided to start 2017 single without all this baggage. Not ready for a rs anytime soon too. Thank u...
Start looking for another job asap!
Do you have anyone else writing references for you? Maybe his boss?
I'm saying this because the last person I know to have got herself in something similar ended up unemployed for at least two years after that!
Do you have anyone else writing references for you? Maybe his boss?
I'm saying this because the last person I know to have got herself in something similar ended up unemployed for at least two years after that!
Posted by aquarius_beauty
#4 and #5 Seriously, you cried and begged? A Leo would not settle for anything less than his queen. You acted like a doormat. A concubine. He has no respect for you plus you offended him? Yeah.
Just count your blessings and hope he doesn't fire you.
I agree with you that OP should not give up her dignity for this or any man, but I don't think Leo deserves any credit here courtesy his sun sign. Leo's intentions with the OP were not honorable at all. Yes, OP should not act like a doormat, concubine, beg, cry etc. but for her own dignity and self respect not because a Leo expects a queen. He did not act like a gentleman anywhere.
Man I sorry @Op usually it's very bitter if you can't work it out as co-workers. And the boss can fire you at will, and even start rumors.
I hope you are in a different department or shift. Cause little things trigger. And it's not going to be easy. Good luck.
I hope you are in a different department or shift. Cause little things trigger. And it's not going to be easy. Good luck.
Posted by DiddybopPosted by Arielle83No. I think they enter relationships eager for companionship and their partners think it's for long term. I think my parents, especially my dad, think that they can do whatever they want because they were up front about being married even if they also acknowledge they're separated. So I think people who are aware or more mature can recognize that it's never going anywhere even if everything else says otherwise. My dad had another son - took the kid, left the woman; he has a wife.Posted by DiddybopDo u find ppl are drawn to them cuz it's a competition?Posted by Arielle83Oh, they really are.Posted by DiddybopIt's like they're meant for each other.
So... my dad is born the same day 20 years before. He and my mom have been "separated" for 11 years. He loves my mom and would never leave her though. They both move on and get involved with other people but they stay close and when they want each other, they just dispose of whoever they're with and get back together. My dad has lived with women before and kicked them out when my mom decides she's his wife again. I've met some of them; young, sweet, gorgeous, (naive), in love and wanting to be close to my handsome and generous dad. None of them stand a chance to my middle aged tough mama. Their love is solidified.
It's weird and I understand why it would be confusing but don't question it. Don't get further involved. I don't think it will ever change. Try to recover and move on. It's not you. It's him.
Good luck and Merry Christmas ?
And I've seen firsthand the mindfuck they can unknowingly (uncaringly?) do to the people outside of them tryna get in.
Like "ohh I'm fucking a married man" kinda thing.
These ppl must want what they can't have.
Do your parents ever feel hurt by each other or they know they will always have each other?
My dads last girlfriend went psycho and me and my brother had to deal with her because my dad just wouldn't and she had our information so we listened. My dad on the other hand was just confused as to why she would ever think he'd put her over his wife. Had a similar situation with my moms ex bf and she starts using the husband word heavy too.
They're perfect for each other. they go on vacation at least once a year together.
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I personally think this doesn't mean at all that they are meant for each other. If you want sb you are with him/her, not going back and forth to the same situation.
What you describe is a quite toxic relationship based on immature ppl who don't want to be with each other but don't want the other to find sb else. You can grow up and still be unevolved.
I think ppl should realize they can hurt another ppl in this process, or at least be honest about the pattern so that healthy ppl stay away
Posted by aquarius_beautyThat's what's up. You hit this square on the head girl
Is this a joke? Sorry if it isn't but I honestly can't believe what I'm reading.
First and foremost "pull yourself together". My God. When my Leo suggested to me that he was going to end things within a couple months, I did him the courtesy of ending it first and walked away. Why? Because I'm not going to allow a man to walk all over me no matter how much I love him. Guess what? He ended respecting me even more than before.
I honestly don't know where to even begin. But let's start with the basics.
#1 he's your fucken boss. Why the hell would you tarnish your professionalism that way? Do you have no pedigree? No scrouples? I get it. He was hot, charming, amazing. Well then why didn't you quit and work someplace else and that way you could continue a level of professionalism while 'dating' this man?
#2 he's bullshitting you. He doesn't want to divorce her and marry you. Sorry but 100 text messages? Wtf?! I'm surprised he didn't block your ass or fire you. I send my Leo one text. One! If he doesn't reply. I don't send another one. I wait until HE responds. If he doesnt. Then I wait a couple days until he does. It's called having a bit of dignity!
#3 you got what you deserved. You dumped your ex for this guy. Too bad.
#4 and #5 he treated you like a queen because he wanted sex and he wanted to milk that as long as hr could. Plus he didn't realize what a mess you were. Seriously, you cried and begged? A Leo would not settle for anything less than his queen. You acted like a doormat. A concubine. He has no respect for you plus you offended him? Yeah.
Just count your blessings and hope he doesn't fire you.
Hi guys,
So much of care qnd concern expressed here honestly made me tear up a little bit. If I had someone to talk to abt this they would have probably said all this to my face way sooner and I wouldn't have gone down so low. I needed to hear this...makes alot of sense. I believe I wasn't thinking straight. Frankly, I did not intentionally play my ex. My ex and I, a year into the relationship decided to get married. All planning done...2 years into the rs, engagement date set, guests invited, he hit me when drunk. Beat the crap out of me. So I left. For a good 3 months. That was when my boss approached me. During that gap. Because in the years I worked with him it was all professional till this break up I went through and started partying with my colleagues frequently. So I got exceptionally close with my boss and we discussed abt our personal life. How he is separated and his child is adopted etc. How I went through a bad break up. After a month or so he started chasing after me. I don't know if it was a Leo thing or just a male lusting after me seeing how vulnerable I was. We were honestly like best friends and spoke daily abt work and so on. On another note, I am more than a 100% certain he will not fire me off or talk of me that way. He protects me more than anything. He does it so openly and keeps tailing after me that my coworkers realized and are somewhat jealous. Them gossiping about us made him back off too. He was so upset and was always afraid this could ruin my career. He does everything and anything to protect me. That I have witnessed first hand. He feels that he built the person I am in my career today and he will never allow anything to destroy that. No matter what happened he always forces me and begs me to stay. He swears to me if anything happens he will leave the company and not allow anything to affect me. During one period months ago, he went very close to handing in his resignation for me. I doubt it was an act. He treats me like a kid most of the time and he thinks I am very playful it's why he needs to be stern. I was a complete dumb dumb when I started work and now he raised me to be this Top Level Award Winning Employee which he is extremely proud of. Just sharing how it really went down. Alot happened it between to push him away. He used to repeatedly say he loves me crazily all the time...now, he doesn't want to lead me on. He thinks that us getting together will ruin our name in this small industry we work in where everyone knows one another. When my ex returned he warned me that he had very bad experience with his ex gf cheating on him with her ex bf. Hence he stated he hated the fact I am keeping in touch with my ex. He pushed me to let go but I always kept msging and answering calls which made him furious all the more. Eventually he snapped too coz of me keeping him at the side
So much of care qnd concern expressed here honestly made me tear up a little bit. If I had someone to talk to abt this they would have probably said all this to my face way sooner and I wouldn't have gone down so low. I needed to hear this...makes alot of sense. I believe I wasn't thinking straight. Frankly, I did not intentionally play my ex. My ex and I, a year into the relationship decided to get married. All planning done...2 years into the rs, engagement date set, guests invited, he hit me when drunk. Beat the crap out of me. So I left. For a good 3 months. That was when my boss approached me. During that gap. Because in the years I worked with him it was all professional till this break up I went through and started partying with my colleagues frequently. So I got exceptionally close with my boss and we discussed abt our personal life. How he is separated and his child is adopted etc. How I went through a bad break up. After a month or so he started chasing after me. I don't know if it was a Leo thing or just a male lusting after me seeing how vulnerable I was. We were honestly like best friends and spoke daily abt work and so on. On another note, I am more than a 100% certain he will not fire me off or talk of me that way. He protects me more than anything. He does it so openly and keeps tailing after me that my coworkers realized and are somewhat jealous. Them gossiping about us made him back off too. He was so upset and was always afraid this could ruin my career. He does everything and anything to protect me. That I have witnessed first hand. He feels that he built the person I am in my career today and he will never allow anything to destroy that. No matter what happened he always forces me and begs me to stay. He swears to me if anything happens he will leave the company and not allow anything to affect me. During one period months ago, he went very close to handing in his resignation for me. I doubt it was an act. He treats me like a kid most of the time and he thinks I am very playful it's why he needs to be stern. I was a complete dumb dumb when I started work and now he raised me to be this Top Level Award Winning Employee which he is extremely proud of. Just sharing how it really went down. Alot happened it between to push him away. He used to repeatedly say he loves me crazily all the time...now, he doesn't want to lead me on. He thinks that us getting together will ruin our name in this small industry we work in where everyone knows one another. When my ex returned he warned me that he had very bad experience with his ex gf cheating on him with her ex bf. Hence he stated he hated the fact I am keeping in touch with my ex. He pushed me to let go but I always kept msging and answering calls which made him furious all the more. Eventually he snapped too coz of me keeping him at the side
Darn, this is a shitty time to be so down in the dumps.
Of course, dating your boss was never going to be easy. Especially one that is a successful worker and lives with his parents. In his shoes, I would feel so anxious about the direction of my life A LOT! Always worrying and cursing the stars for bringing me someone at such a time.
I don't think you did anything wrong. Your passion is you, and blowing his phone up 100 times is how you show you are worried. You are you, and that is not a bad thing.
Don't beat yourself up for how things have gone. They are already gone.
However, you have, also, to realize any man who treats you like a kid and claims to have raised you up in your career will never see you as an equal. Which is why he can just go silent without a heads up. He doesn't expect you to complain while he's busy working.
See?
The scales were tipped way from the beginning, and regretting what was now will only make it harder.
I say, wipe your tears, polish yourself and focus on having fun again.
No one came to this earth to live for someone else. Not even Mr. Successful Leo who can't afford to rent a house and stop living with his mama at 36 years old with a daughter.
Of course, dating your boss was never going to be easy. Especially one that is a successful worker and lives with his parents. In his shoes, I would feel so anxious about the direction of my life A LOT! Always worrying and cursing the stars for bringing me someone at such a time.
I don't think you did anything wrong. Your passion is you, and blowing his phone up 100 times is how you show you are worried. You are you, and that is not a bad thing.
Don't beat yourself up for how things have gone. They are already gone.
However, you have, also, to realize any man who treats you like a kid and claims to have raised you up in your career will never see you as an equal. Which is why he can just go silent without a heads up. He doesn't expect you to complain while he's busy working.
See?
The scales were tipped way from the beginning, and regretting what was now will only make it harder.
I say, wipe your tears, polish yourself and focus on having fun again.
No one came to this earth to live for someone else. Not even Mr. Successful Leo who can't afford to rent a house and stop living with his mama at 36 years old with a daughter.
You know what you have to do.
You'll be fine.
You'll be fine.
Posted by dolluxeRight?
Tl;dr
Stop fucking co-workers/bosses.
Problem solved.
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Leo
My male boss, worked with for over 2yrs
36yrs old
Married - lives wt parents, separated but not divorced from wife
Had an ex gf for 3 yrs - cheated on wife
Claimed wife cheated 1st & never took care of him
A 6yr old daughter - claimed adopted
Successful, leader, emotional, proud yet humble
D.O.B: 28July1980
Me
Cancerian female 28yrs old
D.O.B: 12July1988
Liked the attention from Leo boss
Slept with the boss
Going through bad break up early 2016, boss claimed to love me...after many dates and sex, he refused commitment stating unable to divorce due to daughter. I kept pestering.
My ex bf returned, I took him back, lied to my Leo, & was happily non committed. Ignored my Leo, he chased and never stopped. I fell in love finally, left my ex bf and my Leo boss now got sick of me? We just stayed in a hotel last week...After that he ignored me and treated like a friend or less. When questioned, stated busy and avoids responding to my texts. Every time after intimacy he reacts this way. This time I blew up, disrespected him, accussed of him being just like other men and using me for my body. He blocked my calls, avoided me and dumped me.
I called him and texted a 100 times. One answer and he scolded me, was furious, says he will never forgive my words and he will get back to being solely my boss and wants nothing with me coz I have a rude mouth and bad attitude. Its been a few days, he is gone completely.
I've begged I've cried, nothing moves him. Now I play by his rules, act silent and disappeared from his life. This man is the one, I just have a gut feeling. But it is not working out coz of his fear for commitment, marriage, divorce, etc. When he loved me in the beginning stage, if that was true, he treated me like a queen. I was on a pedestal 24/7. My every wish was granted pronto. I need this man seriously. Ideas?