Posted by 7thHouse
Works better than Leo gal and Aqua man.
Posted by BasorexiaPosted by 7thHouse
Works better than Leo gal and Aqua man.
I agree.click to expand
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by 7thHouse
Works better than Leo gal and Aqua man.
Yeah, leos dont waste their time. First date and it feels like a relationship already even tho I told him I dont want to rush things. But how are Leo guys?click to expand
Posted by Aquaman2Posted by Onimusha01
Just started dating a Leo. uhmm! I kinda like him. Going on our 2nd date this week. And he got planned a date with fancy restaurants and drinks and he is like going all out. I have never dated a Leo before. So looking for some insight of how things work with you guys.!
Wow....
One question (out of the topic): would you date yourself ?? Like if having same placements ?click to expand
Posted by ChuckcemPosted by Onimusha01Posted by 7thHouse
Works better than Leo gal and Aqua man.
Yeah, leos dont waste their time. First date and it feels like a relationship already even tho I told him I dont want to rush things. But how are Leo guys?
I'm sure it can work with the right placements, nothing is set in stone. That being said, this is territory I personally won't venture into again anytime soon. There are just some critical ideological differences that can create real problems here. In fact my greatest "successes" with Aquarians have been when I kept my distance, which is basically against Leo nature.
If you are already concerned about the Leo smothering you or moving too fast, then a Leo may not be for you. Leo are upfront when there is a mutual attraction. We turn up the heat when we're interested and have no problem showing it. A Leo will see no point in being cold and guarded when we truly enjoy someone's company.click to expand
Posted by Aquaman2Posted by Onimusha01Posted by Aquaman2Posted by Onimusha01
Just started dating a Leo. uhmm! I kinda like him. Going on our 2nd date this week. And he got planned a date with fancy restaurants and drinks and he is like going all out. I have never dated a Leo before. So looking for some insight of how things work with you guys.!
Wow....
One question (out of the topic): would you date yourself ?? Like if having same placements ?
knowing my placements, I would date myself, Bc im completely open minded, not judgmental, I have fun anywhere, im Very understandable, veeeeeery understandable, Independent, Positive, If you get my trust, you can certainly believe heaven really exist. lol. Im fun, im crazy, im adventurous. Super Blunt, extremely ! a little bit stubborn at times, But knowing me, those are things other signs overlook. They always think we have a reason to do things, but we really dont. we just live ourselves. So if I find someone w my same placements, i guess i would . But I would take the time to get to know me better... hahahahaha. I might curve my self out before time. lmao!
Hahaha ....good to hear that....Actually I too pretty much similar placements like you, like sun aqua moon cancer rising gem...
I wouldn't date the similar one....maybe because there should be differences, so that we are made to accept them and so we love more.....also maybe she should fill the shortcomings of me.😉😄
Though having similar placements, our thoughts are very different..does astrology really works ??🤣🤣🤣click to expand
Posted by Aquaman2Posted by Onimusha01Posted by Aquaman2Posted by Onimusha01Posted by Aquaman2Posted by Onimusha01
Just started dating a Leo. uhmm! I kinda like him. Going on our 2nd date this week. And he got planned a date with fancy restaurants and drinks and he is like going all out. I have never dated a Leo before. So looking for some insight of how things work with you guys.!
Wow....
One question (out of the topic): would you date yourself ?? Like if having same placements ?
knowing my placements, I would date myself, Bc im completely open minded, not judgmental, I have fun anywhere, im Very understandable, veeeeeery understandable, Independent, Positive, If you get my trust, you can certainly believe heaven really exist. lol. Im fun, im crazy, im adventurous. Super Blunt, extremely ! a little bit stubborn at times, But knowing me, those are things other signs overlook. They always think we have a reason to do things, but we really dont. we just live ourselves. So if I find someone w my same placements, i guess i would . But I would take the time to get to know me better... hahahahaha. I might curve my self out before time. lmao!
Hahaha ....good to hear that....Actually I too pretty much similar placements like you, like sun aqua moon cancer rising gem...
I wouldn't date the similar one....maybe because there should be differences, so that we are made to accept them and so we love more.....also maybe she should fill the shortcomings of me.😉😄
Though having similar placements, our thoughts are very different..does astrology really works ??🤣🤣🤣
It probably works, but we cannot forget there are other things in life, like previous life experiences that even tho we have the same placements, can make each one of us a little bit different. I think dating another aqua w my same placements would be reallyyyyy Fun! lol.
Okayy...but still a bit is acceptable but not large deviation.
Do you feel that we do not belong here ??
Absolutely. I tell people Im an Alien, And im having a hard time trying to figure out what Im in this world. Cuz I believe Every place I go and Every person I meet its meant to be and to happen.
Like, people can't get us...we are too more complicated than them.?
I really cant understand how are we complicated, we are the most simple people ever, we say what we like, we do what we like, we like freedom and give freedom. We talk truth, WE kill you with kindness. We are happy by ourselves. We are just too much to handle.. lol
Also does people ask you why you use lol so many times ? (l too have the same habit) lol...
No, But i do it bc the way we talk we have to differentiate it from people so they dont get offended and they realized we are joking. lmao!
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Posted by Aquarelle
For me this combination is not the best. Yes they charm you with their sense of humor and sunny disposition.
But they want a lot if attention. If you are able to give that things will be ok. But once you cannot give them that, then the pettiness will start.
They are very good at hiding this side of themselves , but sooner or later it will surface. They wear masks. Leos are all about themselves and need a lot of attention. They are not the best at giving emotional support and if you call them out they will turn it around on you.
Maybe you are a good fit for this Leo, but its a good idea to take it slow so you can see all sides of his personality.
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by ChuckcemPosted by Onimusha01Posted by 7thHouse
Works better than Leo gal and Aqua man.
Yeah, leos dont waste their time. First date and it feels like a relationship already even tho I told him I dont want to rush things. But how are Leo guys?
I'm sure it can work with the right placements, nothing is set in stone. That being said, this is territory I personally won't venture into again anytime soon. There are just some critical ideological differences that can create real problems here. In fact my greatest "successes" with Aquarians have been when I kept my distance, which is basically against Leo nature.
If you are already concerned about the Leo smothering you or moving too fast, then a Leo may not be for you. Leo are upfront when there is a mutual attraction. We turn up the heat when we're interested and have no problem showing it. A Leo will see no point in being cold and guarded when we truly enjoy someone's company.
Im aquarius sun, Cancer Moon. I do like the fact that he smothers me and he seems legit (even if its a little bit too much, im really not use to compliments tho) . Im just concerned I might get tired of it ahead of time. I get scared when things are going to fast, We just seen each other 1 time and he acts like we are in a relationship already. And Im still uncertain cuz I need to see more of him before I make a decision. I think this is where other signs fail when dating an aqua. We dont get our feet wet until we sure that's 100% what we want. And that might take some time. lol .. I need to make sure he is able to deal with my aqua side. So far, he been doing good so far. but again.. too early to tell for me.click to expand
Posted by ChuckcemPosted by Onimusha01Posted by ChuckcemPosted by Onimusha01Posted by 7thHouse
Works better than Leo gal and Aqua man.
Yeah, leos dont waste their time. First date and it feels like a relationship already even tho I told him I dont want to rush things. But how are Leo guys?
I'm sure it can work with the right placements, nothing is set in stone. That being said, this is territory I personally won't venture into again anytime soon. There are just some critical ideological differences that can create real problems here. In fact my greatest "successes" with Aquarians have been when I kept my distance, which is basically against Leo nature.
If you are already concerned about the Leo smothering you or moving too fast, then a Leo may not be for you. Leo are upfront when there is a mutual attraction. We turn up the heat when we're interested and have no problem showing it. A Leo will see no point in being cold and guarded when we truly enjoy someone's company.
Im aquarius sun, Cancer Moon. I do like the fact that he smothers me and he seems legit (even if its a little bit too much, im really not use to compliments tho) . Im just concerned I might get tired of it ahead of time. I get scared when things are going to fast, We just seen each other 1 time and he acts like we are in a relationship already. And Im still uncertain cuz I need to see more of him before I make a decision. I think this is where other signs fail when dating an aqua. We dont get our feet wet until we sure that's 100% what we want. And that might take some time. lol .. I need to make sure he is able to deal with my aqua side. So far, he been doing good so far. but again.. too early to tell for me.
If you have a concern that things are moving too fast, then let him know, but don't be surprised if he becomes confused by this. With Leos it's best to strike when the iron is hot since we are looking for partners who match our energy (someone who can keep up with us). If we think someone is too afraid to be with us, we'll start to doubt the person. We are all or nothing. It could be that the Leo will understand your sentiment and is able to taper down his energy. However it's also possible that he'll feel rejected. So make sure that he understands that you're not trying to push him away.
Obviously you don't want to wind up with a guy who is clingy or controlling. A guy who moves too fast is usually a red flag waiting to happen. However know that Leos can move quickly when we want someone/something. We are able to feel through the moment. Holding back isn't something we do well since we jump quickly when it comes to matters of the heart (it's our main strength). More experienced Leos can temper this urge as we learn that most signs don't operate this way. Just remember we are sign of confidence (or arrogance) and find it difficult to act reserved when we are excited.
One of the big conflicts that exists between Aqua and Leo is the differences in our timetables. Aquas are prone to rationalizing their emotions, while Leos are prone to working with them. That tension between action and inaction can annoy both parties. I find that it's best in the beginning if the Leo has a little interest in the Aqua, but not too much. That gives the Aqua time to figure the Leo out. So again, be sure to let the Leo know that you are interested, but want to take things slowly.click to expand
Posted by 7thHousePosted by Aquarelle
For me this combination is not the best. Yes they charm you with their sense of humor and sunny disposition.
But they want a lot of attention. If you are able to give that things will be ok. But once you cannot give them that, then the pettiness will start.
They are very good at hiding this side of themselves , but sooner or later it will surface. They wear masks. Leos are all about themselves and need a lot of attention. They are not the best at giving emotional support and if you call them out they will turn it around on you.
Maybe you are a good fit for this Leo, but its a good idea to take it slow so you can see all sides of his personality.
Why is this not the first time I've heard of this? 😂 Honestly, I do think Leo's need the spotlight all the time. Aquas can't be bothered. And the more the Aquas avoid the limelight and not pay attention, the more Leo's push and it just ends up in a horrible breakup. I find that Leos are good but maybe not a match for an aqua in general. The clingyness is hard to manage. At least in my experience. Having my own space to deal with life and priorities is important. While Leo's like to do things for attention and needs to be given validation in most cases. At least in my experience. Not saying all. Just the ones I've dealt with.click to expand
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by ChuckcemPosted by Onimusha01Posted by ChuckcemPosted by Onimusha01Posted by 7thHouse
Works better than Leo gal and Aqua man.
Yeah, leos dont waste their time. First date and it feels like a relationship already even tho I told him I dont want to rush things. But how are Leo guys?
I'm sure it can work with the right placements, nothing is set in stone. That being said, this is territory I personally won't venture into again anytime soon. There are just some critical ideological differences that can create real problems here. In fact my greatest "successes" with Aquarians have been when I kept my distance, which is basically against Leo nature.
If you are already concerned about the Leo smothering you or moving too fast, then a Leo may not be for you. Leo are upfront when there is a mutual attraction. We turn up the heat when we're interested and have no problem showing it. A Leo will see no point in being cold and guarded when we truly enjoy someone's company.
Im aquarius sun, Cancer Moon. I do like the fact that he smothers me and he seems legit (even if its a little bit too much, im really not use to compliments tho) . Im just concerned I might get tired of it ahead of time. I get scared when things are going to fast, We just seen each other 1 time and he acts like we are in a relationship already. And Im still uncertain cuz I need to see more of him before I make a decision. I think this is where other signs fail when dating an aqua. We dont get our feet wet until we sure that's 100% what we want. And that might take some time. lol .. I need to make sure he is able to deal with my aqua side. So far, he been doing good so far. but again.. too early to tell for me.
If you have a concern that things are moving too fast, then let him know, but don't be surprised if he becomes confused by this. With Leos it's best to strike when the iron is hot since we are looking for partners who match our energy (someone who can keep up with us). If we think someone is too afraid to be with us, we'll start to doubt the person. We are all or nothing. It could be that the Leo will understand your sentiment and is able to taper down his energy. However it's also possible that he'll feel rejected. So make sure that he understands that you're not trying to push him away.
Obviously you don't want to wind up with a guy who is clingy or controlling. A guy who moves too fast is usually a red flag waiting to happen. However know that Leos can move quickly when we want someone/something. We are able to feel through the moment. Holding back isn't something we do well since we jump quickly when it comes to matters of the heart (it's our main strength). More experienced Leos can temper this urge as we learn that most signs don't operate this way. Just remember we are sign of confidence (or arrogance) and find it difficult to act reserved when we are excited.
One of the big conflicts that exists between Aqua and Leo is the differences in our timetables. Aquas are prone to rationalizing their emotions, while Leos are prone to working with them. That tension between action and inaction can annoy both parties. I find that it's best in the beginning if the Leo has a little interest in the Aqua, but not too much. That gives the Aqua time to figure the Leo out. So again, be sure to let the Leo know that you are interested, but want to take things slowly.
Yeah, thankfully I had the chance to say everything ahead of time, since we first started talking I made it clear i was in fact looking for a relationship, but I did not want to rush anything. And that means anything including sex. I have to admit that he been handling things exceptionally with me. He does needs alot of attention, he texts me the whole day, calls me every night and we talk for over 2 hours. He knows at some point we will run ouf of things to talk. haha. And he respects when I tell him im busy. or im doing something. And that's something i like, he gives me my time as long as I let him know.
He has been very understandable and I have also been very honest with him and he actually surprised me with his capacity of understanding. we haven't had any problem at all. He knows I have a lot of Male friends, I went on a trip to visit a male friend (this was planned before i met him) and I had another male friend picking and dropping me off at the airport, so he knew I was going to be spending time w 2 of my male friends.
He just asked me if I was interested or had any type of sexual interest in any of this 2 men, I said No. We were still communicating as usual. And he didn't bothered me at all with jealousy or anything.click to expand
Posted by ChuckcemPosted by Onimusha01Posted by ChuckcemPosted by Onimusha01Posted by ChuckcemPosted by Onimusha01Posted by 7thHouse
Works better than Leo gal and Aqua man.
Yeah, leos dont waste their time. First date and it feels like a relationship already even tho I told him I dont want to rush things. But how are Leo guys?
I'm sure it can work with the right placements, nothing is set in stone. That being said, this is territory I personally won't venture into again anytime soon. There are just some critical ideological differences that can create real problems here. In fact my greatest "successes" with Aquarians have been when I kept my distance, which is basically against Leo nature.
If you are already concerned about the Leo smothering you or moving too fast, then a Leo may not be for you. Leo are upfront when there is a mutual attraction. We turn up the heat when we're interested and have no problem showing it. A Leo will see no point in being cold and guarded when we truly enjoy someone's company.
Im aquarius sun, Cancer Moon. I do like the fact that he smothers me and he seems legit (even if its a little bit too much, im really not use to compliments tho) . Im just concerned I might get tired of it ahead of time. I get scared when things are going to fast, We just seen each other 1 time and he acts like we are in a relationship already. And Im still uncertain cuz I need to see more of him before I make a decision. I think this is where other signs fail when dating an aqua. We dont get our feet wet until we sure that's 100% what we want. And that might take some time. lol .. I need to make sure he is able to deal with my aqua side. So far, he been doing good so far. but again.. too early to tell for me.
If you have a concern that things are moving too fast, then let him know, but don't be surprised if he becomes confused by this. With Leos it's best to strike when the iron is hot since we are looking for partners who match our energy (someone who can keep up with us). If we think someone is too afraid to be with us, we'll start to doubt the person. We are all or nothing. It could be that the Leo will understand your sentiment and is able to taper down his energy. However it's also possible that he'll feel rejected. So make sure that he understands that you're not trying to push him away.
Obviously you don't want to wind up with a guy who is clingy or controlling. A guy who moves too fast is usually a red flag waiting to happen. However know that Leos can move quickly when we want someone/something. We are able to feel through the moment. Holding back isn't something we do well since we jump quickly when it comes to matters of the heart (it's our main strength). More experienced Leos can temper this urge as we learn that most signs don't operate this way. Just remember we are sign of confidence (or arrogance) and find it difficult to act reserved when we are excited.
One of the big conflicts that exists between Aqua and Leo is the differences in our timetables. Aquas are prone to rationalizing their emotions, while Leos are prone to working with them. That tension between action and inaction can annoy both parties. I find that it's best in the beginning if the Leo has a little interest in the Aqua, but not too much. That gives the Aqua time to figure the Leo out. So again, be sure to let the Leo know that you are interested, but want to take things slowly.
Yeah, thankfully I had the chance to say everything ahead of time, since we first started talking I made it clear i was in fact looking for a relationship, but I did not want to rush anything. And that means anything including sex. I have to admit that he been handling things exceptionally with me. He does needs alot of attention, he texts me the whole day, calls me every night and we talk for over 2 hours. He knows at some point we will run ouf of things to talk. haha. And he respects when I tell him im busy. or im doing something. And that's something i like, he gives me my time as long as I let him know.
He has been very understandable and I have also been very honest with him and he actually surprised me with his capacity of understanding. we haven't had any problem at all. He knows I have a lot of Male friends, I went on a trip to visit a male friend (this was planned before i met him) and I had another male friend picking and dropping me off at the airport, so he knew I was going to be spending time w 2 of my male friends.
He just asked me if I was interested or had any type of sexual interest in any of this 2 men, I said No. We were still communicating as usual. And he didn't bothered me at all with jealousy or anything.
Sounds like there isn't too much to worry about. In my opinion, he could throttle down the texting/calling and save that energy for your dates, but it sounds like everything else is fine.click to expand
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by ChuckcemPosted by Onimusha01Posted by ChuckcemPosted by Onimusha01Posted by ChuckcemPosted by Onimusha01Posted by 7thHouse
Works better than Leo gal and Aqua man.
Yeah, leos dont waste their time. First date and it feels like a relationship already even tho I told him I dont want to rush things. But how are Leo guys?
I'm sure it can work with the right placements, nothing is set in stone. That being said, this is territory I personally won't venture into again anytime soon. There are just some critical ideological differences that can create real problems here. In fact my greatest "successes" with Aquarians have been when I kept my distance, which is basically against Leo nature.
If you are already concerned about the Leo smothering you or moving too fast, then a Leo may not be for you. Leo are upfront when there is a mutual attraction. We turn up the heat when we're interested and have no problem showing it. A Leo will see no point in being cold and guarded when we truly enjoy someone's company.
Im aquarius sun, Cancer Moon. I do like the fact that he smothers me and he seems legit (even if its a little bit too much, im really not use to compliments tho) . Im just concerned I might get tired of it ahead of time. I get scared when things are going to fast, We just seen each other 1 time and he acts like we are in a relationship already. And Im still uncertain cuz I need to see more of him before I make a decision. I think this is where other signs fail when dating an aqua. We dont get our feet wet until we sure that's 100% what we want. And that might take some time. lol .. I need to make sure he is able to deal with my aqua side. So far, he been doing good so far. but again.. too early to tell for me.
If you have a concern that things are moving too fast, then let him know, but don't be surprised if he becomes confused by this. With Leos it's best to strike when the iron is hot since we are looking for partners who match our energy (someone who can keep up with us). If we think someone is too afraid to be with us, we'll start to doubt the person. We are all or nothing. It could be that the Leo will understand your sentiment and is able to taper down his energy. However it's also possible that he'll feel rejected. So make sure that he understands that you're not trying to push him away.
Obviously you don't want to wind up with a guy who is clingy or controlling. A guy who moves too fast is usually a red flag waiting to happen. However know that Leos can move quickly when we want someone/something. We are able to feel through the moment. Holding back isn't something we do well since we jump quickly when it comes to matters of the heart (it's our main strength). More experienced Leos can temper this urge as we learn that most signs don't operate this way. Just remember we are sign of confidence (or arrogance) and find it difficult to act reserved when we are excited.
One of the big conflicts that exists between Aqua and Leo is the differences in our timetables. Aquas are prone to rationalizing their emotions, while Leos are prone to working with them. That tension between action and inaction can annoy both parties. I find that it's best in the beginning if the Leo has a little interest in the Aqua, but not too much. That gives the Aqua time to figure the Leo out. So again, be sure to let the Leo know that you are interested, but want to take things slowly.
Yeah, thankfully I had the chance to say everything ahead of time, since we first started talking I made it clear i was in fact looking for a relationship, but I did not want to rush anything. And that means anything including sex. I have to admit that he been handling things exceptionally with me. He does needs alot of attention, he texts me the whole day, calls me every night and we talk for over 2 hours. He knows at some point we will run ouf of things to talk. haha. And he respects when I tell him im busy. or im doing something. And that's something i like, he gives me my time as long as I let him know.
He has been very understandable and I have also been very honest with him and he actually surprised me with his capacity of understanding. we haven't had any problem at all. He knows I have a lot of Male friends, I went on a trip to visit a male friend (this was planned before i met him) and I had another male friend picking and dropping me off at the airport, so he knew I was going to be spending time w 2 of my male friends.
He just asked me if I was interested or had any type of sexual interest in any of this 2 men, I said No. We were still communicating as usual. And he didn't bothered me at all with jealousy or anything.
Sounds like there isn't too much to worry about. In my opinion, he could throttle down the texting/calling and save that energy for your dates, but it sounds like everything else is fine.
Just one thing tho... I know I didnt want to rush anything (sex included ) but as a man I thought this was kind of an impossible request. Im not sure if he is respecting me a little bit too much. we were at his aparment, things got hot. we fooled around... we slept together... we spent the next day together... and Guess what... He didnt even try to take my clothes off. Do you think there could be any other reason but respect here. IDK. just wondering. Are Leos Astrologically respectable guys?click to expand
Posted by ChuckcemPosted by Onimusha01Posted by ChuckcemPosted by Onimusha01Posted by ChuckcemPosted by Onimusha01Posted by ChuckcemPosted by Onimusha01Posted by 7thHouse
Works better than Leo gal and Aqua man.
Yeah, leos dont waste their time. First date and it feels like a relationship already even tho I told him I dont want to rush things. But how are Leo guys?
I'm sure it can work with the right placements, nothing is set in stone. That being said, this is territory I personally won't venture into again anytime soon. There are just some critical ideological differences that can create real problems here. In fact my greatest "successes" with Aquarians have been when I kept my distance, which is basically against Leo nature.
If you are already concerned about the Leo smothering you or moving too fast, then a Leo may not be for you. Leo are upfront when there is a mutual attraction. We turn up the heat when we're interested and have no problem showing it. A Leo will see no point in being cold and guarded when we truly enjoy someone's company.
Im aquarius sun, Cancer Moon. I do like the fact that he smothers me and he seems legit (even if its a little bit too much, im really not use to compliments tho) . Im just concerned I might get tired of it ahead of time. I get scared when things are going to fast, We just seen each other 1 time and he acts like we are in a relationship already. And Im still uncertain cuz I need to see more of him before I make a decision. I think this is where other signs fail when dating an aqua. We dont get our feet wet until we sure that's 100% what we want. And that might take some time. lol .. I need to make sure he is able to deal with my aqua side. So far, he been doing good so far. but again.. too early to tell for me.
If you have a concern that things are moving too fast, then let him know, but don't be surprised if he becomes confused by this. With Leos it's best to strike when the iron is hot since we are looking for partners who match our energy (someone who can keep up with us). If we think someone is too afraid to be with us, we'll start to doubt the person. We are all or nothing. It could be that the Leo will understand your sentiment and is able to taper down his energy. However it's also possible that he'll feel rejected. So make sure that he understands that you're not trying to push him away.
Obviously you don't want to wind up with a guy who is clingy or controlling. A guy who moves too fast is usually a red flag waiting to happen. However know that Leos can move quickly when we want someone/something. We are able to feel through the moment. Holding back isn't something we do well since we jump quickly when it comes to matters of the heart (it's our main strength). More experienced Leos can temper this urge as we learn that most signs don't operate this way. Just remember we are sign of confidence (or arrogance) and find it difficult to act reserved when we are excited.
One of the big conflicts that exists between Aqua and Leo is the differences in our timetables. Aquas are prone to rationalizing their emotions, while Leos are prone to working with them. That tension between action and inaction can annoy both parties. I find that it's best in the beginning if the Leo has a little interest in the Aqua, but not too much. That gives the Aqua time to figure the Leo out. So again, be sure to let the Leo know that you are interested, but want to take things slowly.
Yeah, thankfully I had the chance to say everything ahead of time, since we first started talking I made it clear i was in fact looking for a relationship, but I did not want to rush anything. And that means anything including sex. I have to admit that he been handling things exceptionally with me. He does needs alot of attention, he texts me the whole day, calls me every night and we talk for over 2 hours. He knows at some point we will run ouf of things to talk. haha. And he respects when I tell him im busy. or im doing something. And that's something i like, he gives me my time as long as I let him know.
He has been very understandable and I have also been very honest with him and he actually surprised me with his capacity of understanding. we haven't had any problem at all. He knows I have a lot of Male friends, I went on a trip to visit a male friend (this was planned before i met him) and I had another male friend picking and dropping me off at the airport, so he knew I was going to be spending time w 2 of my male friends.
He just asked me if I was interested or had any type of sexual interest in any of this 2 men, I said No. We were still communicating as usual. And he didn't bothered me at all with jealousy or anything.
Sounds like there isn't too much to worry about. In my opinion, he could throttle down the texting/calling and save that energy for your dates, but it sounds like everything else is fine.
Just one thing tho... I know I didnt want to rush anything (sex included ) but as a man I thought this was kind of an impossible request. Im not sure if he is respecting me a little bit too much. we were at his aparment, things got hot. we fooled around... we slept together... we spent the next day together... and Guess what... He didnt even try to take my clothes off. Do you think there could be any other reason but respect here. IDK. just wondering. Are Leos Astrologically respectable guys?
Well, you told him that you didn't want to rush. You have to pick a lane and decide what you want. Do you want things to move slowly or not? Leos aren't big on being "tested". We don't necessarily respond to subtlety or mental gymnastics like other signs. With Leos, direct communication is King. Look at it this way, you want the Leo to act naturally in an unnatural situation. If you asked a Leo not to rush, then that's that. There should be no question as to why he's not rushing.
I go back to my original statement that there are some fundamental differences between Aqua and Leo that can become frustrating. Aquarius represents a rejection of the ego and as a result Aquas can often act in contradictory ways. This is in opposition to the Leo's love of self/ego. So know that if ever you contradict yourself, the Leo may not understand. Likewise Aquas prefer to observe a person over a period of time in different environments to get a "full picture of them". Leos learn/adapt as we go, not needing all of the information in the beginning. We understand that knowing everything in the beginning is truly impossible.
Right now you're seeing how the Leo handles a request, nothing more. If you ask him to move slowly, he'll move slowly. He does this because he likes you. The real question is, is that what you actually want? Many Aquas say that they want someone who will not rush, when in reality they want someone who will persistently break down their emotional barriers. This contradiction can both confuse and frustrate a Leo to the point of exhaustion and disinterest.
This is why many Aquas often go for Aries over Leo. Aries can be very single-minded in their pursuit, regardless of the obstacles and the outcome. This makes them seem more genuine and easy to understand for Aquas. Leos however are not looking to break through someone's barriers unless we understand the reason behind it. Leos are both proud and goal oriented people. If we are expected to run through the gauntlet for someone, we won't do it blindly. We need to know that our efforts will amount to something.
So again, if you feel a certain way about what the Leo is/isn't doing, it is best to just say it. Staying in your head with a Leo isn't a helpful if you want to see the genuine side of a Leo.click to expand
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