Trying to understand a Leo

Hi everyone!! Can you guy please help me understand what when wrong. First of all I'm a libra woman. I met this Leo man on a dating site. This guy is a cardiologist .This guy is 31 years old. Im 29 years old. The first time I was going to met him I was late 1 hours late why typically libra love to doll up and look my best. He left and block me from everything according to him he have to go somewhere else then he unblocked me. After he apologized and we met 3 days after he was attracted to me and started kiss and very charming very nice person I told he I don't kiss like that specially I want something serious so he agrees to start being in a relationship. Well every thing was going perfect texting all day suddenly after 1 week of being in a relationship he text me saying sorry i think is better to stop talking I started dating my ex again . I send him a text saying how lucky she is to have a great man and I told him that I always respect he work schedule and I know he work long hours and I trust him and while I was trusting him thinking he working he was dating he ex. And that too back us relationship didn't last . He blocked me again. I keep going with my life. Then 2 months after out of nowhere when I alteast expect he send me a happy birthday acting like he send it to a friend of work then we start talking again.sorry guys I know this is a long story. After that we talk and text for 2 months then he told me he was going to travel to New York because he need to do a month of rotation there I didn't believe him. I told he my best friend she live in newyork and I would love to go to then 1 week after he out of nowhere told me he which I was there to cuddle with me and that he miss me . And asks me when I was going to visit my friend I told he I don't is going to be long weekend price are going up so I didn't think so he text me saying you can stay at my place. I can't wait to kiss you and hug you. Ok I got the ticket flight for veteran day I when all beautiful happy thinking he was going to get happy which he know I was going . Then he started acting like he my friend when I got there. Nothing sweet. At night we would sleep in the sofa after having sex with me I ask him why he sleep in the sofa he was like the bed is to hard . In the morning I would lay with he and watch a movie he would seat here texting since 6 am I felt bad and told him how I felt he was like this is not working out between me and you. I ask he why? He just ignore me. I told him you know what I know you have other woman they can have you I'm not stupid I don't chase man I look like everything you broke with your ex you look for me and when you go back with who ever you texting you ignore me. After that I just take note how he treat me . Thank god I was in New York for 2 day for Friday- Sunday night then I act nice. When I was in the airport on my way to Florida he text me saying have a nice flight I reply thanks I appreciate everything you did for me 👌. I didn't contact he after that he either . I didn't text him when I came back to Florida and I know this week he back to Florida. I saw he again this week in the dating site I just ignore him or we both ingore each other.

My question for you guys .., is you think Him regret the way treat me there . Playing mind games. . I know you guy are going to tell me move on . But I would like to know was he was thinking. I know i did the thing I was just smile after the argument we had and saying to my mind I can't wait to go back to Florida and make you regret how you treat me . I try my best and gave my best. I didn't contact him before coming home he send me that text have a nice saft flight I reply thanks for everything I appreciate everything you did to me . I didn't argument . I tried like the saying action speak louder than words I did not contact him but in my head I ask myself if he regret how he treat me . Did he forget about me. Are Leo are moody person— Of course I didn't want he back . But I asks myself was he was thinking. Does he think I was going to chase him.. I have a lot of dignity and pride to let any man treat me like that .. Would he ever contact me ,,, for I can tell him nooooo I don't want you back if my life .. I want to have the pride for he to contact me and told him what I think about him or see him regret

Can someone please help

I have a lot of dignity and pride to let any man treat me like that .. Would he ever contact me ,,,

Sorry but it’s a bathroom run! Good I am here already or I wouldn’t make it...🤣🤣😂💦🤣

He’s using you for sex and occasionally attention when he wants it. You should move on.

Posted by Sweetlibra88
My question for you guys .., is you think Him regret the way treat me there . Playing mind games. . I know you guy are going to tell me move on . But I would like to know was he was thinking. I know i did the thing I was just smile after the argument we had and saying to my mind I can't wait to go back to Florida and make you regret how you treat me . I try my best and gave my best. I didn't contact him before coming home he send me that text have a nice saft flight I reply thanks for everything I appreciate everything you did to me . I didn't argument . I tried like the saying action speak louder than words I did not contact him but in my head I ask myself if he regret how he treat me . Did he forget about me. Are Leo are moody person— Of course I didn't want he back . But I asks myself was he was thinking. Does he think I was going to chase him.. I have a lot of dignity and pride to let any man treat me like that .. Would he ever contact me ,,, for I can tell him nooooo I don't want you back if my life .. I want to have the pride for he to contact me and told him what I think about him or see him regret

Why would he regret how he treated you?? He never made any promises to you. He only had to say he wanted to cuddle you and that was enough for you to deliever your pussy to him.

Even though at the beginning you told him no kissing without relationship you proved yourself a liar when you fucked him. After he ditched you and admits to going back to his ex...you award him with sex. Bit hypocritical of you, no?

Honestly what kind of impression does it give to sleep with a dude who is in a relationship? If you don't respect yourself how can you expect others to?!

Ladyneptune, for your information he was not in a relationship... When I first knew him in the dating stage I remember asking him why are you single him reply was I work long hour of shift and when I get off work I don't have time to met any one.. I asked him how long have you been single him told I have been single for 4 months .. And when he dumped when everything was going great which I thought we didn't even have sex if you want me to go details by details out of nowhere he was like sorry but I can't continue with you I just started dating my ex again . Then i just wish him good luck then 2 months after he look for me which he was single., we started dating for 3 months .. When him came back to me after 2 months i have him a chance you know why because something it could happen maybe him knew her better and was confused and wanted to give it a try again ..

Ladyneptune, if you don't have any nice to say don't say anything... First of all I didn't sleep with a man who have a relationship... I do have self respect.., because I have never chase that man...

Edgelord and you should mind your own business if you just going to criticism

Edgelord I'm going to block I'm not here to be criticized

Pinkbird.. Thanks so you saying him just want attention and use me ... Thanks I really appreciate it

Posted by Sweetlibra88
Ladyneptune, if you don't have any nice to say don't say anything... First of all I didn't sleep with a man who have a relationship... I do have self respect.., because I have never chase that man...

You didn't sleep with him at first, that's true. But then AFTER you knew he chose his ex over you...then you drove/flew to where he was and fucked him. That's a lack of self-respect in my book.

I was in a similar situation where the dude I was dating for a few months decided he wanted to try again with his ex. I told him good luck and goodbye. You walk away from me we are done. When he reached out a few months later because (surprise surprise) they called it quits again, my response was 'nope you had your chance'. I didn't drive to his house and gift him my pussy.

Your actions smart of desperation, not self respect.















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Ladyneptune, if you don't have any nice to say don't say anything... First of all I didn't sleep with a man who have a relationship... I do have self respect.., because I have never chase that man...

You didn't sleep with him at first, that's true. But then AFTER you knew he chose his ex over you...then you drove/flew to where he was and fucked him. That's a lack of self-respect in my book.

I was in a similar situation where the dude I was dating for a few months decided he wanted to try again with his ex. I told him good luck and goodbye. You walk away from me we are done. When he reached out a few months later because (surprise surprise) they called it quits again, my response was 'nope you had your chance'. I didn't drive to his house and gift him my pussy.

Your actions smart of desperation, not self respect.















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Maybe you right I should have more respect for myself .. To be honest with you I don't regret going over there why? Every thing happens for a reason. I learn my lesson .. And know how he not mature enough.. He playing mind game. When I went there I thought he was going to treat me good and that I alteast going to enjoy the moment.. I was thinking something else good alteast what I don't understand why he didn't show any interest in me like before that in what all into me? Why didn't alteast his alteast try to treat me nice those 2 days I was there . All I least show me the city and have plans with me while I was there. A smart guy would alteast play round till that person go back . I'm not stupid I'm attractive , smart, I doing a master in psychology I'm well educated, classy . Maybe I thought something else when I went and visit him. In my understand his single.. But act like a cancer man. At this stage of my like I don't want a boy I need a man . Like I told you yes and no I don't regret going over there because he been playing stupid game since April . But I ready know what kind of man his is . And when I was there I felt unwanted , lonely and I just took notes that if that how he treated me there how his going to treat me later in like . But I felt proud of myself how I handle the situation I didn't argue with him I told his thanks for everything you did to me and smiles and never contact his again if I was younger I would have probably cry in front of him.. So I know his not worth my time. I guess his don't want anything serious with anyone . I'm happy because now I move on .. Do I regret? No. Why? Because if not his would have been playing mind games with me. And I would be stock there not moving forward with my life.

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Ladyneptune, if you don't have any nice to say don't say anything... First of all I didn't sleep with a man who have a relationship... I do have self respect.., because I have never chase that man...

You didn't sleep with him at first, that's true. But then AFTER you knew he chose his ex over you...then you drove/flew to where he was and fucked him. That's a lack of self-respect in my book.

I was in a similar situation where the dude I was dating for a few months decided he wanted to try again with his ex. I told him good luck and goodbye. You walk away from me we are done. When he reached out a few months later because (surprise surprise) they called it quits again, my response was 'nope you had your chance'. I didn't drive to his house and gift him my pussy.

Your actions smart of desperation, not self respect.















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Maybe you right I should have more respect for myself .. To be honest with you I don't regret going over there why? Every thing happens for a reason. I learn my lesson .. And know how he not mature enough.. He playing mind game. When I went there I thought he was going to treat me good and that I alteast going to enjoy the moment.. I was thinking something else good alteast what I don't understand why he didn't show any interest in me like before that in what all into me? Why didn't alteast his alteast try to treat me nice those 2 days I was there . All I least show me the city and have plans with me while I was there. A smart guy would alteast play round till that person go back . I'm not stupid I'm attractive , smart, I doing a master in psychology I'm well educated, classy . Maybe I thought something else when I went and visit him. In my understand his single.. But act like a cancer man. At this stage of my like I don't want a boy I need a man . Like I told you yes and no I don't regret going over there because he been playing stupid game since April . But I ready know what kind of man his is . And when I was there I felt unwanted , lonely and I just took notes that if that how he treated me there how his going to treat me later in like . But I felt proud of myself how I handle the situation I didn't argue with him I told his thanks for everything you did to me and smiles and never contact his again if I was younger I would have probably cry in front of him.. So I know his not worth my time. I guess his don't want anything serious with anyone . I'm happy because now I move on .. Do I regret? No. Why? Because if not his would have been playing mind games with me. And I would be stock there not moving forward with my life.

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It was stupid of you to expect him to do a 180 after how he had treated you. But it's not stupid to be open to love. Live and learn from this. Just please don't waste anymore energy even thinking about this dude.

Keep putting yourself out there.

I feel as if you've posted this story before in the past. Regardless, the issue is that you've acted like a doormat. Granted being an hour late to a date was an amateur move on your part, but apparently not the worst part. Your first mistake was entertaining the attention of a guy who blocked you. The second mistake was pursuing him after he started pursing his ex. The third mistake was having sex with him in light of all of this. The last mistake was convincing yourself that you werent chasing him, when indeed you were.

While I'd like to believe you were just being a nice person in this story, I can't help but think that the only reason you pursued this guy was because he's a cardiologist. I only say that because you made a point to mention it (instead of just saying he's a doctor or a busy professional). It seemed like an important detail for you to add. Maybe I'm being cynical, but it seems to me that you both used each other.

Based on his acitons, this Leo guy clearly wanted you for a physical relationship. It's best that you move on if you're looking for something serious.

Chuckcem, thanks I really appreciate your help ,you are very good at analysis situations.. I know I move on. But why would he made go over there and not even try like to make me feel like every woman would love to feel alteast predect those 2 days. Not even have any plan with me like taking me to a nice dinner show me the city.. I heard that Leo man are very straight forward what you see is what you get. Why would he tell me come here and sound exciting and then when I got there acting like a friend. I have no contacts him And it been 2 weeks already. As your self is a Leo what you think is thinking right now. Good that she move on or he thought I was going to keep chasing him.

I know I did already all those mistakes. But can you please do me a Leo point of view . For example does Leo man act with out thinking. They plans things like he plan to treat me like ignore before I get there for me to finally understand. Or he change once I got there. Tell me more how Leo man are. Or you think he just wanted to stay there at he place as a friend or he was playing game.

Hi i am a cancer woman and leo was my first love,5 years ago we were teens and it was really special. but he started acting out of the blue, insulting, he made me go through a really hard time. We broke up and since he just keeps on trying to get me back for 5 years!

Its like he doesn’t care if i am in a relationship, even if he is in a relationship.

We met 2 or 3 times had a coffee and I tried to make him understand that it’s all in the past( even that secretly I still kinda have feelings).

We both did things that hurt each other a lot.

Posted by Sweetlibra88
Chuckcem, thanks I really appreciate your help ,you are very good at analysis situations.. I know I move on. But why would he made go over there and not even try like to make me feel like every woman would love to feel alteast predect those 2 days. Not even have any plan with me like taking me to a nice dinner show me the city.. I heard that Leo man are very straight forward what you see is what you get. Why would he tell me come here and sound exciting and then when I got there acting like a friend. I have no contacts him And it been 2 weeks already. As your self is a Leo what you think is thinking right now. Good that she move on or he thought I was going to keep chasing him.

The reason why he's not treating you in a loving way is because he's not serious about you. He barely knows you after all, so he has no true emotional investment. He probably doesn't think you're serious about him either since you showed up to your first date an hour late . Also I mentioned earlier, you seem to be more fixated on what he is and is not doing for you. It's almost as if you're interested in this Leo because of the stereotypes about Leo men.

Yes we are generous and yes we put in a LOT of effort when we care. However we are also VERY guarded when it comes to our hearts. We are looking for people who are genuinely interested in us. Most Leos know what it's like to be taken for granted or mistreated, so we keep a keen eye out for someone who is fake or superficial. I myself will ghost when I realize someone is being fake with me.

Leos are simple in that we are straightforward in our thoughts and actions. If a Leo likes you, you'll see us. If we dont, you won't. As a Libra you're probably more intrigued by the fact that he goes hot/cold on you. It makes him more mysterious in your mind. From what you've said though, he simply seems only interested in sex with you. He's probably still looking for a woman who he can also have an emotional connection with as well.

It's best that you move on and find someone new.

Thanks chuckcem, yes to be honesty with you i wanted to be with him because he a cardiologist plus he is physical attracted. The funny part is that a week later after I came back I went to the dating site and I saw him I ingore him he write in he profile looking for a meaningful relationship . And as a summary he describes he self that he like he love to dance, that he charming and always having a great smile on he face.that he love to walk . Who ever does not know him he fall at he trap. Why he look good, dress classy, look old school, look charming and have a beautiful smile. Look mature enough plus a professional. I didn't login after why because I don't want he to think I'm looking for a man or I'm deseperate to get a man which I'm a woman and I know I was easily with him. Also I he can pass all day at whatsapp since 6 am to 11pm login every second I don't how he studies or work . My friend told that went I came back to Florida to block he from every thing I didn't why ? For what? I know I'm not going back with him . What I do is just I don't login at whatsapp for a long time to look instering and keep myself busy. And yes as a libra I'm more intrigued by the fact he went hot/cold . And also how can a man be smart in a career and act like an ass hole playing stupid game. Also having a cancer attitude moody like a little boy

Posted by tiziani
It's probably a lot to do with your approach, if you talk with him the same way you write here.



"i think being with you is hot. I like that you're a cardiologist."

^ok, maybe don't really get where she's coming from and it could be taken as superficial, but at the very least she knows what she wants without shame. It could lead to some real talk over something more.



"I know you're a cardiologist but that means nothing to me, if other women want you for that they can have you. I chase no man, I'm not desperate..... et cetera et cetera"

^ big speech that just instinctively make you want to react like an asshole or, if you're a more mature man, then ignore it.

Disclaimer: I have never been a cardiologist nor a mature man. Total guess.

Hello Tiziani, you made me laugh so much .. Jajajaja to be honesty with you I never make he feel special or make he bigger than me because he a cardiologist lol I never asked him about he work. I treat him like a normal person. I know probably want me to treat me like he all that because he would sometime he would say in the stage he was into me like comment like let plan to see each other but tonight I don't think so because I get home at 10:00pm and I have to prepare somethings for patients tomorrow. Or he would also saying comment like for example it be like how's are you doing? He would reply I'm doing good post call today. Or tomorrow you can visit me in the hospital I will be on call . But I always texted sweet text to him like mr. Perfect I hope you having a fabulous day. One time that I text him good afternoon doctor------ hope you having a great afternoon. Miss you .. That was the stage he was into me.. When I was in New York I told him you look good in your uniform.. The first day we went to a coffee place we went a for a walk he went we him uniform the green scrub and I looking all beautiful and everyone looking at me but I have no holding hand nothing I don't know if he got offended as Leo that I treat him nice but not like he all that like I should treat him like a king while he was walking with me to the coffee shop or because he asked me if I wanted to drink the coffee there or go home if I make the mistake or not drink the coffee in the shop and feel like a having the king next to me as Leo man are . That was the only day we went out in New York. Jajajajaja.

Jajajajaja if him ever come back which I pretty should he would not. I would like to have the pride of myself to tell him " I know you're a cardiologist but that means nothing to me, if other woman want you for that they can have you. I chase no man. I'm not desperate... Yes and no I would like to tell him that but not sure about saying the ' I know you're a cardiologist but that means nothing to me. Why I don't want him to fell like he a king beside of that he a little arrogant. Or I say that to him? I got a better a idea I would asks you Tiziani and chuckcem to help me reply to him because you guy have more experience in Leo and I love the ways you guys help me with out criticism me. I admire you guys the ways you help people understand different points of view. I would asks you guys help I don't want to be a typical libra or girl that if a guy send you a text like him after 1 months which normally always all guy do because they always curious how you doing . I don't want to forget everything and go act with my heart and not with my mind like go emotional..

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Posted by tiziani
It's probably a lot to do with your approach, if you talk with him the same way you write here.



"i think being with you is hot. I like that you're a cardiologist."

^ok, maybe don't really get where she's coming from and it could be taken as superficial, but at the very least she knows what she wants without shame. It could lead to some real talk over something more.



"I know you're a cardiologist but that means nothing to me, if other women want you for that they can have you. I chase no man, I'm not desperate..... et cetera et cetera"

^ big speech that just instinctively make you want to react like an asshole or, if you're a more mature man, then ignore it.

Disclaimer: I have never been a cardiologist nor a mature man. Total guess.

Hello Tiziani, you made me laugh so much .. Jajajaja to be honesty with you I never make he feel special or make he bigger than me because he a cardiologist lol I never asked him about he work. I treat him like a normal person. I know probably want me to treat me like he all that because he would sometime he would say in the stage he was into me like comment like let plan to see each other but tonight I don't think so because I get home at 10:00pm and I have to prepare somethings for patients tomorrow. Or he would also saying comment like for example it be like how's are you doing? He would reply I'm doing good post call today. Or tomorrow you can visit me in the hospital I will be on call . But I always texted sweet text to him like mr. Perfect I hope you having a fabulous day. One time that I text him good afternoon doctor------ hope you having a great afternoon. Miss you .. That was the stage he was into me.. When I was in New York I told him you look good in your uniform.. The first day we went to a coffee place we went a for a walk he went we him uniform the green scrub and I looking all beautiful and everyone looking at me but I have no holding hand nothing I don't know if he got offended as Leo that I treat him nice but not like he all that like I should treat him like a king while he was walking with me to the coffee shop or because he asked me if I wanted to drink the coffee there or go home if I make the mistake or not drink the coffee in the shop and feel like a having the king next to me as Leo man are . That was the only day we went out in New York. Jajajajaja.

"Good afternoon doctor" is sweet.

And "I like you in your uniform" that's nice too. If he didn't react it's probably because he wasn't that interested as others have said. Anyway no hard feelings.

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Tiziani mmmmm you right the first stage we he was into me he was like come visit me in the hospital. The second round in he stage in this stage he acted more like a Leo like he love the sweet text and I think I make more longer and come back to me after 2 months and this stage I was more texting sms for 2 months because he like the sweet text I was more like a texting buddy the second time in till one day I tell him I was getting tired of the texting that I felt like I'm talking to a robot That I don't know if he was a human he laughs but back a little from me but it was because he love attention and I treat him really nice . Then when I went to New York this was round 3 I ask him how was work today ? You look tire he replied with a arrogant good but with a attitude like dooooo attitude he was like the work is not hard is the long hours. Jajajajaja may be he got mad I treat him like a normal person and don't ask him anything about he job why because he very arrogant

2 moon can you please leave me alone thank you . For your information I'm from Puerto Rico.,, bye

You sounds so stupid 2 moon ...

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Posted by Sweetlibra88
2 moon can you please leave me alone thank you . For your information I'm from Puerto Rico.,, bye

Makes sense.

One of those poor country where they are still 50 years behind everyone

Where women are still under the control of men.

Makes sense to marry a rich guy with a status, career and power.

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2 moon, you sounds so stupid.... You must being bored and think I'm going to be your dawn clown. What give you the right to come and offend me with out knowing me. I don't have to respond to you because as my major is psychology I know there are a lot people that don't have they common sense . First of all I'm a elementary teacher and I'm doing another career . Second of all I'm not offending anyone because what they do for living . Third of all , I'm 29 years old if I was 20 I would care if I get with a guy who work in a McDonald's I don't have anything against but If a guy at this age have not think of better him future that say a lot about you specially when anyone can finish a career or technical career which there are a lot of technical school you can finish in 18 months that say a lot about you. Of course I would like to have a doctor as a partner why maybe him more mature , smart , also prestigious but something life doesn't like you want to want . I'm not materialize woman I'm ok being in a relationship with a cop, a teacher a long as that person have a financial stable life I'm okay .. Maybe you get offended because you are probably 40 years old and work in a Wendy's .. Because here no one got offended just you. Everyone got my point of view. Now I hope no one come here got mad at me in another way and start with the topic now if you don't know one life situations and bla bla and you sound materials or you a gold digger and bla bla because people lot to criticism everything or get the idea in their own way.. And everyone opinion is different

The funny part is when I was in New York he was always texting even if I was watching tv next to he. But for thanksgiving day on he Facebook he put this quote as he cover in the page "wanted by many, taken by no one, looking at some , waiting for one. " Very moody person or maybe very picky.