maria1995
@maria1995
9 Years
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Why leos keep coming and then leave without saying anything? they do it for all their ex?
I know what happened. Since you indicated the sex wasn't that good; he knows it wasn't good (on his behalf; nothing you did wrong). Leo men tend to have their ego hurt and he was embarrassed to have also felt the sex wasn't good; so he's licking his paws and ignoring you; out of embarrassment, and again, NOTHING you did.
They say Leo men have plan B, C, D, E, etc., you were his Plan A since he came to you first. He's going to Plan B (another woman).
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
They say Leo men have plan B, C, D, E, etc., you were his Plan A since he came to you first. He's going to Plan B (another woman).
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
oh yeah maybe ... but it's not the first time.. this keeps happening over a year.
ohh AND HE JUST SENT ME A MSG like nothing happened after 1 week..
i cant understand this man..oh god..
ohh AND HE JUST SENT ME A MSG like nothing happened after 1 week..
i cant understand this man..oh god..
He got what he wanted and got bored....again. This has less to do with him being a Leo and more to do with the fact that he simply was immature about the situation.
So initially you were a challenge to him. He was hot/cold, then you decided to move away and cut him off entirely. That made him panic and start chasing you. No one ever likes to lose (especially not Leo men). The easiest way to get someone's attention is to simply remove yours. Once he realized he no longer had you on the hook, he worried about the prospect of actually losing you. That's not to say that he truly cared about you in the first place. He liked having you as an option, but didn't want the responsibility of treating you correctly.
You did the right thing by backing away and holding him at bay. The problem was, when you eventually gave in and had sex with him, he became bored. The sex wasn't good because both of you were not invested the same way you were before. You were probably still skeptical and not able to fully trust him. He wasn't fully invested because he was using sex to boost his ego, not because he cared about you.
So after that he basically went cold again. When he realized he had you again, he got bored with you. It's like the kid who stops playing with a toy, then gets upset when they see another kid playing with it. All of a sudden the toy becomes valuable again, but only for a short time. Soon the kid is bored with the toy again.
So initially you were a challenge to him. He was hot/cold, then you decided to move away and cut him off entirely. That made him panic and start chasing you. No one ever likes to lose (especially not Leo men). The easiest way to get someone's attention is to simply remove yours. Once he realized he no longer had you on the hook, he worried about the prospect of actually losing you. That's not to say that he truly cared about you in the first place. He liked having you as an option, but didn't want the responsibility of treating you correctly.
You did the right thing by backing away and holding him at bay. The problem was, when you eventually gave in and had sex with him, he became bored. The sex wasn't good because both of you were not invested the same way you were before. You were probably still skeptical and not able to fully trust him. He wasn't fully invested because he was using sex to boost his ego, not because he cared about you.
So after that he basically went cold again. When he realized he had you again, he got bored with you. It's like the kid who stops playing with a toy, then gets upset when they see another kid playing with it. All of a sudden the toy becomes valuable again, but only for a short time. Soon the kid is bored with the toy again.
@chuckcem
yes that's what i Believe... but why he sent me again yesterday? This willnever stop? He took what he wanted even if i Postponed it for 3 weeks, he ignored me.. and now what? he decided that I am a challenge again?
yes that's what i Believe... but why he sent me again yesterday? This willnever stop? He took what he wanted even if i Postponed it for 3 weeks, he ignored me.. and now what? he decided that I am a challenge again?
I will tell you something two of my male Leo friends both said in the past. I love the cat and mouse game especially when the woman plays for a long time. Once I get the prize I find someone else to chase.
Posted by maria1995Because he knows he can. You are familiar territory at this point. This however is not simply a Leo trait, but a human trait. If someone knows they can have you, they'll keep coming back whenever you leave. It's the loss of attention (which granted we Leos can pick up on fairly quickly).
@chuckcem
yes that's what i Believe... but why he sent me again yesterday? This willnever stop? He took what he wanted even if i Postponed it for 3 weeks, he ignored me.. and now what? he decided that I am a challenge again?
To be honest this guy simply isn't entirely interested in you, but he doesn't like the thought of you being completely gone either. You are simply an option to him. He hasn't figured out what/who he really wants, so you're on the back burner at the moment.
Move on with your life and cut him loose. He'll be back saying that you're the love of his life. If you decide to entertain the idea, make him work for it. In my opinion though he already ruined the second chance you gave him already. He's simple not a worthy candidate for you.
Posted by imbatgirl14Eh other signs do this too, they're just less blunt/direct about it (Gemini, Libra, Sag, Capricorn, Aquarius, and Pisces have been known to pull this as well). This is more of a sign of immaturity than anything else.Posted by maria1995Welcome to the Leo world. He wants to know he has you on the back burner, as an option, just in case if it doesn't work out with all the 1,994,588,124 other females he has on the sidelines.
@chuckcem
yes that's what i Believe... but why he sent me again yesterday? This willnever stop? He took what he wanted even if i Postponed it for 3 weeks, he ignored me.. and now what? he decided that I am a challenge again?click to expand
What about the girls? Even though it's hurting me I want this Leo girl to leave me alone. I don't wanna play no games. I ignored her and when I think its done she msgs me or talks to me. All I think about is her and this is a crucial time in life and I need get her out my mind but she keeps reminding me she's there.
oh yes. had a leo coming in and out of my life for years...
and every time when I blocked his email, he made a new account...
Mine just wanted to know if he still had power over me, and he did.
One time he sent me this song and said it's us. I cried.
One time he sent me this song and said it's us. I cried.
Posted by imbatgirl14that's my leo. he always has multiple women at a time.Posted by maria1995Welcome to the Leo world. He wants to know he has you on the back burner, as an option, just in case if it doesn't work out with all the 1,994,588,124 other females he has on the sidelines.
@chuckcem
yes that's what i Believe... but why he sent me again yesterday? This willnever stop? He took what he wanted even if i Postponed it for 3 weeks, he ignored me.. and now what? he decided that I am a challenge again?click to expand
it took me at least 5 years to get rid of mine. just ignore and keep him blocked on everything if you don't want to be stuck for llife.
Posted by imbatgirl14Well another thing to know is that Leos don't always know what we want. That's another big misconception. We SAY we know because we don't want to look silly or are too proud to admit we have a flaw in our logic. Leos protect our hearts adamantly, refusing to let anyone see our weaker side. We want to see someone "fight" for our attention so that we can understand the other person's intentions. If someone is willing to fight for us, then they must truly love us.Posted by ChuckcemTrue. But it's all the way how you go about it. Immature Leos tell you straight forward because they want you to 'fight' for their attention, even though they know damn well that you aren't the one he wants.Posted by imbatgirl14Eh other signs do this too, they're just less blunt/direct about it (Gemini, Libra, Sag, Capricorn, Aquarius, and Pisces have been known to pull this as well). This is more of a sign of immaturity than anything else.Posted by maria1995Welcome to the Leo world. He wants to know he has you on the back burner, as an option, just in case if it doesn't work out with all the 1,994,588,124 other females he has on the sidelines.
@chuckcem
yes that's what i Believe... but why he sent me again yesterday? This willnever stop? He took what he wanted even if i Postponed it for 3 weeks, he ignored me.. and now what? he decided that I am a challenge again?click to expand
That being said, some Leos are just attention seeking (again this trait occurs in other signs too). We Leos put our egos into our success and our failings. No Leo likes to lose. The idea of loss though for an immature Leo can resolved with the idea of "How many people do I have at my disposal" as opposed to a wiser notion of "What's the quality of relationships with the people around me."
A Leo (or anyone really) who plays hot/cold and keeps you around as an option, is simply insecure and unsure of their options.
Posted by uchihaYou'll need to start dating other women to lessen her effect on you. What you're not realizing is that your absence is the reason she's pursuing you right now. What games is she playing though?
What about the girls? Even though it's hurting me I want this Leo girl to leave me alone. I don't wanna play no games. I ignored her and when I think its done she msgs me or talks to me. All I think about is her and this is a crucial time in life and I need get her out my mind but she keeps reminding me she's there.
Posted by whatisthisallaboutSounds like that Leo was a stalker.
it took me at least 5 years to get rid of mine. just ignore and keep him blocked on everything if you don't want to be stuck for llife.
Posted by ChuckcemThe hot and cold game *sighs*.........Posted by uchihaYou'll need to start dating other women to lessen her effect on you. What you're not realizing is that your absence is the reason she's pursuing you right now. What games is she playing though?
What about the girls? Even though it's hurting me I want this Leo girl to leave me alone. I don't wanna play no games. I ignored her and when I think its done she msgs me or talks to me. All I think about is her and this is a crucial time in life and I need get her out my mind but she keeps reminding me she's there.click to expand
Posted by uchihaEasy, keep ignoring her EXCEPT, when she reaches out, ask her out. Keep the conversation brief and get right to the point (pretend as if someone is daring you to ask her out if you're nervous). Then when she gets wishy-washy or says "Maybe, No, etc." Tell her "Cool let me know if you change your mind." Then end the conversation and ignore her again. Then when she reaches out again, repeat this.Posted by ChuckcemThe hot and cold game *sighs*.........Posted by uchihaYou'll need to start dating other women to lessen her effect on you. What you're not realizing is that your absence is the reason she's pursuing you right now. What games is she playing though?
What about the girls? Even though it's hurting me I want this Leo girl to leave me alone. I don't wanna play no games. I ignored her and when I think its done she msgs me or talks to me. All I think about is her and this is a crucial time in life and I need get her out my mind but she keeps reminding me she's there.click to expand
If I had to guess the girl likes your attention and is using you for that purpose. She doing this because she perceives you as weak. Ask her out twice. If she says no both times, stop asking. Be cordial, keep the conversation short and tell her "Hey, it's great speaking with you, but I have to go, call me later!'" Basically start blowing her off the way she's been blowing you off. By keeping the conversation short you won't give her the attention she craves. Eventually she'll tire of this or ask you out herself.
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What about the girls? Even though it's hurting me I want this Leo girl to leave me alone. I don't wanna play no games. I ignored her and when I think its done she msgs me or talks to me. All I think about is her and this is a crucial time in life and I need get her out my mind but she keeps reminding me she's there.
Honestly you have to block all avenues of communication with her. They don't stop once they start to fixate on someone.
Posted by ChuckcemOhhhhhh shittttt!!!!!..........Posted by uchihaEasy, keep ignoring her EXCEPT, when she reaches out, ask her out. Keep the conversation brief and get right to the point (pretend as if someone is daring you to ask her out if you're nervous). Then when she gets wishy-washy or says "Maybe, No, etc." Tell her "Cool let me know if you change your mind." Then end the conversation and ignore her again. Then when she reaches out again, repeat this.Posted by ChuckcemThe hot and cold game *sighs*.........Posted by uchihaYou'll need to start dating other women to lessen her effect on you. What you're not realizing is that your absence is the reason she's pursuing you right now. What games is she playing though?
What about the girls? Even though it's hurting me I want this Leo girl to leave me alone. I don't wanna play no games. I ignored her and when I think its done she msgs me or talks to me. All I think about is her and this is a crucial time in life and I need get her out my mind but she keeps reminding me she's there.
If I had to guess the girl likes your attention and is using you for that purpose. She doing this because she perceives you as weak. Ask her out twice. If she says no both times, stop asking. Be cordial, keep the conversation short and tell her "Hey, it's great speaking with you, but I have to go, call me later!'" Basically start blowing her off the way she's been blowing you off. By keeping the conversation short you won't give her the attention she craves. Eventually she'll tire of this or ask you out herself.click to expand
Posted by uchihaYeeeeep. That will change her tune.Posted by ChuckcemOhhhhhh shittttt!!!!!..........Posted by uchihaEasy, keep ignoring her EXCEPT, when she reaches out, ask her out. Keep the conversation brief and get right to the point (pretend as if someone is daring you to ask her out if you're nervous). Then when she gets wishy-washy or says "Maybe, No, etc." Tell her "Cool let me know if you change your mind." Then end the conversation and ignore her again. Then when she reaches out again, repeat this.Posted by ChuckcemThe hot and cold game *sighs*.........Posted by uchihaYou'll need to start dating other women to lessen her effect on you. What you're not realizing is that your absence is the reason she's pursuing you right now. What games is she playing though?
What about the girls? Even though it's hurting me I want this Leo girl to leave me alone. I don't wanna play no games. I ignored her and when I think its done she msgs me or talks to me. All I think about is her and this is a crucial time in life and I need get her out my mind but she keeps reminding me she's there.
If I had to guess the girl likes your attention and is using you for that purpose. She doing this because she perceives you as weak. Ask her out twice. If she says no both times, stop asking. Be cordial, keep the conversation short and tell her "Hey, it's great speaking with you, but I have to go, call me later!'" Basically start blowing her off the way she's been blowing you off. By keeping the conversation short you won't give her the attention she craves. Eventually she'll tire of this or ask you out herself.
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Posted by EveryOunceIll switch my phone 😉Posted by uchiha
What about the girls? Even though it's hurting me I want this Leo girl to leave me alone. I don't wanna play no games. I ignored her and when I think its done she msgs me or talks to me. All I think about is her and this is a crucial time in life and I need get her out my mind but she keeps reminding me she's there.
Honestly you have to block all avenues of communication with her. They don't stop once they start to fixate on someone.click to expand
Posted by ChuckcemIts better she asks me out cuz i can't tell if its realPosted by uchihaYeeeeep. That will change her tune.Posted by ChuckcemOhhhhhh shittttt!!!!!..........Posted by uchihaEasy, keep ignoring her EXCEPT, when she reaches out, ask her out. Keep the conversation brief and get right to the point (pretend as if someone is daring you to ask her out if you're nervous). Then when she gets wishy-washy or says "Maybe, No, etc." Tell her "Cool let me know if you change your mind." Then end the conversation and ignore her again. Then when she reaches out again, repeat this.Posted by ChuckcemThe hot and cold game *sighs*.........Posted by uchihaYou'll need to start dating other women to lessen her effect on you. What you're not realizing is that your absence is the reason she's pursuing you right now. What games is she playing though?
What about the girls? Even though it's hurting me I want this Leo girl to leave me alone. I don't wanna play no games. I ignored her and when I think its done she msgs me or talks to me. All I think about is her and this is a crucial time in life and I need get her out my mind but she keeps reminding me she's there.
If I had to guess the girl likes your attention and is using you for that purpose. She doing this because she perceives you as weak. Ask her out twice. If she says no both times, stop asking. Be cordial, keep the conversation short and tell her "Hey, it's great speaking with you, but I have to go, call me later!'" Basically start blowing her off the way she's been blowing you off. By keeping the conversation short you won't give her the attention she craves. Eventually she'll tire of this or ask you out herself.
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Posted by uchihaThat's not how it works unfortunately. In order to kick off the process you need to put yourself out there first. It could be that she's playing games, it could be she's simply unsure about you. Leo women respond to direct strength.Posted by ChuckcemIts better she asks me out cuz i can't tell if its realPosted by uchihaYeeeeep. That will change her tune.Posted by ChuckcemOhhhhhh shittttt!!!!!..........Posted by uchihaEasy, keep ignoring her EXCEPT, when she reaches out, ask her out. Keep the conversation brief and get right to the point (pretend as if someone is daring you to ask her out if you're nervous). Then when she gets wishy-washy or says "Maybe, No, etc." Tell her "Cool let me know if you change your mind." Then end the conversation and ignore her again. Then when she reaches out again, repeat this.Posted by ChuckcemThe hot and cold game *sighs*.........Posted by uchihaYou'll need to start dating other women to lessen her effect on you. What you're not realizing is that your absence is the reason she's pursuing you right now. What games is she playing though?
What about the girls? Even though it's hurting me I want this Leo girl to leave me alone. I don't wanna play no games. I ignored her and when I think its done she msgs me or talks to me. All I think about is her and this is a crucial time in life and I need get her out my mind but she keeps reminding me she's there.
If I had to guess the girl likes your attention and is using you for that purpose. She doing this because she perceives you as weak. Ask her out twice. If she says no both times, stop asking. Be cordial, keep the conversation short and tell her "Hey, it's great speaking with you, but I have to go, call me later!'" Basically start blowing her off the way she's been blowing you off. By keeping the conversation short you won't give her the attention she craves. Eventually she'll tire of this or ask you out herself.
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Posted by ChuckcemIf she's unsure then she needs to leave me alone. I don't have grey matter to waste on trying to figure what is going on in her mind. Just don't lead me on if you're not really down. I just want to know how to get rid of her. The thing is i already told her i was single and that's the mistake. Well she asked me and i should have known then she liked me and i should have said yes thats my gf in that pic...so advice on how to get rid of her?Posted by uchihaThat's not how it works unfortunately. In order to kick off the process you need to put yourself out there first. It could be that she's playing games, it could be she's simply unsure about you. Leo women respond to direct strength.Posted by ChuckcemIts better she asks me out cuz i can't tell if its realPosted by uchihaYeeeeep. That will change her tune.Posted by ChuckcemOhhhhhh shittttt!!!!!..........Posted by uchihaEasy, keep ignoring her EXCEPT, when she reaches out, ask her out. Keep the conversation brief and get right to the point (pretend as if someone is daring you to ask her out if you're nervous). Then when she gets wishy-washy or says "Maybe, No, etc." Tell her "Cool let me know if you change your mind." Then end the conversation and ignore her again. Then when she reaches out again, repeat this.Posted by ChuckcemThe hot and cold game *sighs*.........Posted by uchihaYou'll need to start dating other women to lessen her effect on you. What you're not realizing is that your absence is the reason she's pursuing you right now. What games is she playing though?
What about the girls? Even though it's hurting me I want this Leo girl to leave me alone. I don't wanna play no games. I ignored her and when I think its done she msgs me or talks to me. All I think about is her and this is a crucial time in life and I need get her out my mind but she keeps reminding me she's there.
If I had to guess the girl likes your attention and is using you for that purpose. She doing this because she perceives you as weak. Ask her out twice. If she says no both times, stop asking. Be cordial, keep the conversation short and tell her "Hey, it's great speaking with you, but I have to go, call me later!'" Basically start blowing her off the way she's been blowing you off. By keeping the conversation short you won't give her the attention she craves. Eventually she'll tire of this or ask you out herself.
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Posted by uchihaYep, if you really have no interest in her, then just straight up tell her that then ignore or block her.Posted by ChuckcemIf she's unsure then she needs to leave me alone. I don't have grey matter to waste on trying to figure what is going on in her mind. Just don't lead me on if you're not really down. I just want to know how to get rid of her. The thing is i already told her i was single and that's the mistake. Well she asked me and i should have known then she liked me and i should have said yes thats my gf in that pic...so advice on how to get rid of her?Posted by uchihaThat's not how it works unfortunately. In order to kick off the process you need to put yourself out there first. It could be that she's playing games, it could be she's simply unsure about you. Leo women respond to direct strength.Posted by ChuckcemIts better she asks me out cuz i can't tell if its realPosted by uchihaYeeeeep. That will change her tune.Posted by ChuckcemOhhhhhh shittttt!!!!!..........Posted by uchihaEasy, keep ignoring her EXCEPT, when she reaches out, ask her out. Keep the conversation brief and get right to the point (pretend as if someone is daring you to ask her out if you're nervous). Then when she gets wishy-washy or says "Maybe, No, etc." Tell her "Cool let me know if you change your mind." Then end the conversation and ignore her again. Then when she reaches out again, repeat this.Posted by ChuckcemThe hot and cold game *sighs*.........Posted by uchihaYou'll need to start dating other women to lessen her effect on you. What you're not realizing is that your absence is the reason she's pursuing you right now. What games is she playing though?
What about the girls? Even though it's hurting me I want this Leo girl to leave me alone. I don't wanna play no games. I ignored her and when I think its done she msgs me or talks to me. All I think about is her and this is a crucial time in life and I need get her out my mind but she keeps reminding me she's there.
If I had to guess the girl likes your attention and is using you for that purpose. She doing this because she perceives you as weak. Ask her out twice. If she says no both times, stop asking. Be cordial, keep the conversation short and tell her "Hey, it's great speaking with you, but I have to go, call me later!'" Basically start blowing her off the way she's been blowing you off. By keeping the conversation short you won't give her the attention she craves. Eventually she'll tire of this or ask you out herself.
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Posted by ChuckcemI never told her I liked her...But I kinda do...But my actions should have shown her I have no interest...Remember I told you she had cried and I didnt do anything...So she understand on her own...I just dont know why she's messaging me all of a sudden after being so cold...Posted by uchihaYep, if you really have no interest in her, then just straight up tell her that then ignore or block her.Posted by ChuckcemIf she's unsure then she needs to leave me alone. I don't have grey matter to waste on trying to figure what is going on in her mind. Just don't lead me on if you're not really down. I just want to know how to get rid of her. The thing is i already told her i was single and that's the mistake. Well she asked me and i should have known then she liked me and i should have said yes thats my gf in that pic...so advice on how to get rid of her?Posted by uchihaThat's not how it works unfortunately. In order to kick off the process you need to put yourself out there first. It could be that she's playing games, it could be she's simply unsure about you. Leo women respond to direct strength.Posted by ChuckcemIts better she asks me out cuz i can't tell if its realPosted by uchihaYeeeeep. That will change her tune.Posted by ChuckcemOhhhhhh shittttt!!!!!..........Posted by uchihaEasy, keep ignoring her EXCEPT, when she reaches out, ask her out. Keep the conversation brief and get right to the point (pretend as if someone is daring you to ask her out if you're nervous). Then when she gets wishy-washy or says "Maybe, No, etc." Tell her "Cool let me know if you change your mind." Then end the conversation and ignore her again. Then when she reaches out again, repeat this.Posted by ChuckcemThe hot and cold game *sighs*.........Posted by uchihaYou'll need to start dating other women to lessen her effect on you. What you're not realizing is that your absence is the reason she's pursuing you right now. What games is she playing though?
What about the girls? Even though it's hurting me I want this Leo girl to leave me alone. I don't wanna play no games. I ignored her and when I think its done she msgs me or talks to me. All I think about is her and this is a crucial time in life and I need get her out my mind but she keeps reminding me she's there.
If I had to guess the girl likes your attention and is using you for that purpose. She doing this because she perceives you as weak. Ask her out twice. If she says no both times, stop asking. Be cordial, keep the conversation short and tell her "Hey, it's great speaking with you, but I have to go, call me later!'" Basically start blowing her off the way she's been blowing you off. By keeping the conversation short you won't give her the attention she craves. Eventually she'll tire of this or ask you out herself.
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Posted by uchihaOk so astrology aside, women are VERY intuitive. It sounds like she picked up on your feelings for her and she's pressing you. Women challenge person's emotions and internal strength, it's just what they do. Since you're not giving in to her, she's mirroring you and being hot/cold.Posted by ChuckcemI never told her I liked her...But I kinda do...But my actions should have shown her I have no interest...Remember I told you she had cried and I didnt do anything...So she understand on her own...I just dont know why she's messaging me all of a sudden after being so cold...Posted by uchihaYep, if you really have no interest in her, then just straight up tell her that then ignore or block her.Posted by ChuckcemIf she's unsure then she needs to leave me alone. I don't have grey matter to waste on trying to figure what is going on in her mind. Just don't lead me on if you're not really down. I just want to know how to get rid of her. The thing is i already told her i was single and that's the mistake. Well she asked me and i should have known then she liked me and i should have said yes thats my gf in that pic...so advice on how to get rid of her?Posted by uchihaThat's not how it works unfortunately. In order to kick off the process you need to put yourself out there first. It could be that she's playing games, it could be she's simply unsure about you. Leo women respond to direct strength.Posted by ChuckcemIts better she asks me out cuz i can't tell if its realPosted by uchihaYeeeeep. That will change her tune.Posted by ChuckcemOhhhhhh shittttt!!!!!..........Posted by uchihaEasy, keep ignoring her EXCEPT, when she reaches out, ask her out. Keep the conversation brief and get right to the point (pretend as if someone is daring you to ask her out if you're nervous). Then when she gets wishy-washy or says "Maybe, No, etc." Tell her "Cool let me know if you change your mind." Then end the conversation and ignore her again. Then when she reaches out again, repeat this.Posted by ChuckcemThe hot and cold game *sighs*.........Posted by uchihaYou'll need to start dating other women to lessen her effect on you. What you're not realizing is that your absence is the reason she's pursuing you right now. What games is she playing though?
What about the girls? Even though it's hurting me I want this Leo girl to leave me alone. I don't wanna play no games. I ignored her and when I think its done she msgs me or talks to me. All I think about is her and this is a crucial time in life and I need get her out my mind but she keeps reminding me she's there.
If I had to guess the girl likes your attention and is using you for that purpose. She doing this because she perceives you as weak. Ask her out twice. If she says no both times, stop asking. Be cordial, keep the conversation short and tell her "Hey, it's great speaking with you, but I have to go, call me later!'" Basically start blowing her off the way she's been blowing you off. By keeping the conversation short you won't give her the attention she craves. Eventually she'll tire of this or ask you out herself.
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If you kinda like this girl, why not just tell her? Women don't rely on actions alone. You need to TELL her what you want.
Posted by ChuckcemShe has a bf...but she still likes me...all the more reason why i need to block herPosted by uchihaOk so astrology aside, women are VERY intuitive. It sounds like she picked up on your feelings for her and she's pressing you. Women challenge person's emotions and internal strength, it's just what they do. Since you're not giving in to her, she's mirroring you and being hot/cold.Posted by ChuckcemI never told her I liked her...But I kinda do...But my actions should have shown her I have no interest...Remember I told you she had cried and I didnt do anything...So she understand on her own...I just dont know why she's messaging me all of a sudden after being so cold...Posted by uchihaYep, if you really have no interest in her, then just straight up tell her that then ignore or block her.Posted by ChuckcemIf she's unsure then she needs to leave me alone. I don't have grey matter to waste on trying to figure what is going on in her mind. Just don't lead me on if you're not really down. I just want to know how to get rid of her. The thing is i already told her i was single and that's the mistake. Well she asked me and i should have known then she liked me and i should have said yes thats my gf in that pic...so advice on how to get rid of her?Posted by uchihaThat's not how it works unfortunately. In order to kick off the process you need to put yourself out there first. It could be that she's playing games, it could be she's simply unsure about you. Leo women respond to direct strength.Posted by ChuckcemIts better she asks me out cuz i can't tell if its realPosted by uchihaYeeeeep. That will change her tune.Posted by ChuckcemOhhhhhh shittttt!!!!!..........Posted by uchihaEasy, keep ignoring her EXCEPT, when she reaches out, ask her out. Keep the conversation brief and get right to the point (pretend as if someone is daring you to ask her out if you're nervous). Then when she gets wishy-washy or says "Maybe, No, etc." Tell her "Cool let me know if you change your mind." Then end the conversation and ignore her again. Then when she reaches out again, repeat this.Posted by ChuckcemThe hot and cold game *sighs*.........Posted by uchihaYou'll need to start dating other women to lessen her effect on you. What you're not realizing is that your absence is the reason she's pursuing you right now. What games is she playing though?
What about the girls? Even though it's hurting me I want this Leo girl to leave me alone. I don't wanna play no games. I ignored her and when I think its done she msgs me or talks to me. All I think about is her and this is a crucial time in life and I need get her out my mind but she keeps reminding me she's there.
If I had to guess the girl likes your attention and is using you for that purpose. She doing this because she perceives you as weak. Ask her out twice. If she says no both times, stop asking. Be cordial, keep the conversation short and tell her "Hey, it's great speaking with you, but I have to go, call me later!'" Basically start blowing her off the way she's been blowing you off. By keeping the conversation short you won't give her the attention she craves. Eventually she'll tire of this or ask you out herself.
If you kinda like this girl, why not just tell her? Women don't rely on actions alone. You need to TELL her what you want.click to expand
Posted by uchihaAh, then just tell her outright, "Hey you're cool, but you have a boyfriend and I'm not looking to get into a love triangle. I want a girl who is honest and loyal (that'll sting her btw). Hit me up if you're ever available to date and not in a relationship," OR just ignore her.Posted by ChuckcemShe has a bf...but she still likes me...all the more reason why i need to block herPosted by uchihaOk so astrology aside, women are VERY intuitive. It sounds like she picked up on your feelings for her and she's pressing you. Women challenge person's emotions and internal strength, it's just what they do. Since you're not giving in to her, she's mirroring you and being hot/cold.Posted by ChuckcemI never told her I liked her...But I kinda do...But my actions should have shown her I have no interest...Remember I told you she had cried and I didnt do anything...So she understand on her own...I just dont know why she's messaging me all of a sudden after being so cold...Posted by uchihaYep, if you really have no interest in her, then just straight up tell her that then ignore or block her.Posted by ChuckcemIf she's unsure then she needs to leave me alone. I don't have grey matter to waste on trying to figure what is going on in her mind. Just don't lead me on if you're not really down. I just want to know how to get rid of her. The thing is i already told her i was single and that's the mistake. Well she asked me and i should have known then she liked me and i should have said yes thats my gf in that pic...so advice on how to get rid of her?Posted by uchihaThat's not how it works unfortunately. In order to kick off the process you need to put yourself out there first. It could be that she's playing games, it could be she's simply unsure about you. Leo women respond to direct strength.Posted by ChuckcemIts better she asks me out cuz i can't tell if its realPosted by uchihaYeeeeep. That will change her tune.Posted by ChuckcemOhhhhhh shittttt!!!!!..........Posted by uchihaEasy, keep ignoring her EXCEPT, when she reaches out, ask her out. Keep the conversation brief and get right to the point (pretend as if someone is daring you to ask her out if you're nervous). Then when she gets wishy-washy or says "Maybe, No, etc." Tell her "Cool let me know if you change your mind." Then end the conversation and ignore her again. Then when she reaches out again, repeat this.Posted by ChuckcemThe hot and cold game *sighs*.........Posted by uchihaYou'll need to start dating other women to lessen her effect on you. What you're not realizing is that your absence is the reason she's pursuing you right now. What games is she playing though?
What about the girls? Even though it's hurting me I want this Leo girl to leave me alone. I don't wanna play no games. I ignored her and when I think its done she msgs me or talks to me. All I think about is her and this is a crucial time in life and I need get her out my mind but she keeps reminding me she's there.
If I had to guess the girl likes your attention and is using you for that purpose. She doing this because she perceives you as weak. Ask her out twice. If she says no both times, stop asking. Be cordial, keep the conversation short and tell her "Hey, it's great speaking with you, but I have to go, call me later!'" Basically start blowing her off the way she's been blowing you off. By keeping the conversation short you won't give her the attention she craves. Eventually she'll tire of this or ask you out herself.
If you kinda like this girl, why not just tell her? Women don't rely on actions alone. You need to TELL her what you want.click to expand
Posted by ChuckcemThe ignoring isn't working. But you're right, she needs to be single.Posted by uchihaAh, then just tell her outright, "Hey you're cool, but you have a boyfriend and I'm not looking to get into a love triangle. I want a girl who is honest and loyal (that'll sting her btw). Hit me up if you're ever available to date and not in a relationship," OR just ignore her.Posted by ChuckcemShe has a bf...but she still likes me...all the more reason why i need to block herPosted by uchihaOk so astrology aside, women are VERY intuitive. It sounds like she picked up on your feelings for her and she's pressing you. Women challenge person's emotions and internal strength, it's just what they do. Since you're not giving in to her, she's mirroring you and being hot/cold.Posted by ChuckcemI never told her I liked her...But I kinda do...But my actions should have shown her I have no interest...Remember I told you she had cried and I didnt do anything...So she understand on her own...I just dont know why she's messaging me all of a sudden after being so cold...Posted by uchihaYep, if you really have no interest in her, then just straight up tell her that then ignore or block her.Posted by ChuckcemIf she's unsure then she needs to leave me alone. I don't have grey matter to waste on trying to figure what is going on in her mind. Just don't lead me on if you're not really down. I just want to know how to get rid of her. The thing is i already told her i was single and that's the mistake. Well she asked me and i should have known then she liked me and i should have said yes thats my gf in that pic...so advice on how to get rid of her?Posted by uchihaThat's not how it works unfortunately. In order to kick off the process you need to put yourself out there first. It could be that she's playing games, it could be she's simply unsure about you. Leo women respond to direct strength.Posted by ChuckcemIts better she asks me out cuz i can't tell if its realPosted by uchihaYeeeeep. That will change her tune.Posted by ChuckcemOhhhhhh shittttt!!!!!..........Posted by uchihaEasy, keep ignoring her EXCEPT, when she reaches out, ask her out. Keep the conversation brief and get right to the point (pretend as if someone is daring you to ask her out if you're nervous). Then when she gets wishy-washy or says "Maybe, No, etc." Tell her "Cool let me know if you change your mind." Then end the conversation and ignore her again. Then when she reaches out again, repeat this.Posted by ChuckcemThe hot and cold game *sighs*.........Posted by uchihaYou'll need to start dating other women to lessen her effect on you. What you're not realizing is that your absence is the reason she's pursuing you right now. What games is she playing though?
What about the girls? Even though it's hurting me I want this Leo girl to leave me alone. I don't wanna play no games. I ignored her and when I think its done she msgs me or talks to me. All I think about is her and this is a crucial time in life and I need get her out my mind but she keeps reminding me she's there.
If I had to guess the girl likes your attention and is using you for that purpose. She doing this because she perceives you as weak. Ask her out twice. If she says no both times, stop asking. Be cordial, keep the conversation short and tell her "Hey, it's great speaking with you, but I have to go, call me later!'" Basically start blowing her off the way she's been blowing you off. By keeping the conversation short you won't give her the attention she craves. Eventually she'll tire of this or ask you out herself.
If you kinda like this girl, why not just tell her? Women don't rely on actions alone. You need to TELL her what you want.click to expand
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