Aquarius can never understand Libra

They can only appreciate the nature of Libra. If they have a liking to Libra, that is.
The conundrum of the trined signs - Gem, Aqua and Libra; you'd think they understand each other perfectly.
Actually, being Libra, I find the most rapport with the fellow airs, but not so much understanding as mental connection.

Aquarius, unless with much Libra placements, will think Libra a sap and never understand their need for partnership.
Aquas are most likely, as with Leos, to stand for adoption without a mate. They prize their independence so, and hardly respects a clingy mate, aka Libra.

Being with an Aqua is like being with new technology - everything's new, exciting and thats what may keep Libra coming back. Libra also really admires Aqua's caring, humanitarian nature and that may be what keeps Libra coming back.

But Libra's partnership ideals cannot adequately be expressed with Aquarians; They are like different books altogether. I always find it strange when a Libra chooses to be with an Aquarian - they probably have so much rapport of friendship it is hard to leave.

My sister is Aquarius dating a Libra.
They were friends for years before the started dating. I've never seen two people have so much in common and get along so well. They were like seriously made for eachother.

* she does think he's a sap. But she says it's time for a "nice guy" after all the jerks she dated.

🙂

Very interesting.
Methinks the made for each other is her giving in to his romanticism - I doubt she cares very much for it.
AND the fact the aqua doesnt care much for romance in the first place makes him cater more to her.
Aquarius is vewy intriguing for Libras. Its a blend of friendship and sligth romance - I say slight because Aqua does understand it somewhat - but her real essence does not care too much about it at all.

Oh yeah, they can last very long and be a very happy couple - because of their friendship which gives good feeling all around.

I mean, I agree that Aquas & Libras have their differences, but I do believe all the talk about them being compatible though. Aquarians may not like a clingy partner, but we DO like a partner who loves love the way we do. We do like a partner who's standards are the same as ours (we both need mental chemistry with you before we see you for long-term use, for example) & I think that alot of times Aquas are attracted to anything that is willing to be sit, be patient & understand them, & Libra's are usually good at this.

Libras & Aquas do "tick" differently & deal with their inner emotions completely differently but what the 2 signs are both truly SEEKING & the level for which they are searching for those things are the same. And if you get to matured Libras & Aquarians together, it will be bliss b/c of the understanding they both have with eachother, without having to explain themselves. One partner will automatically "get it" & the same is true vice versa. I think Libra & Aquarian relationships last so long b/c of the understanding & admiration they both have of one another, in seeking the same things in life & love. It's no different than how 2 people can be so connected b/c they chose the same major in college. They might be 2 completely different people, but b/c they chose the same major or chose the same career, they'll naturally have alot in common, especially if the major they've picked is not common or is out of the norm. And Aqua is out of the norm & in some cases Libras are too. Oddballs normally work perfectly together

The trines are not meant to be a 100%

Krys,
I agree. I do think they make the best of friends. But it's more of a friendship/ companionship than romance.
Y'know, I think that Aqua and Gemini make the best couple. You're like in a league of your own.

"The trines are not meant to be a 100% "
Hey I read that again and I dont really mean 100% (perfect). But at a comfortable level of understanding beyond friendship.

Well, i'm libra and my partner is Aqua..we totally get each other (and equally can be at a total loss to understand each other)!! I??ve had cancerian and virgo long term boyfriends who have been more detached in love than this one has ever been. My bf likes alone time and to keep his own schedule, but other than that he's a devoted, affectionate and very loving/affectionate person. He's says i'm the one who??s detached so i guess it depends the individuals rather than entirely astrological perspectives.

p.s i hated the time with the virgo and cancerian..they didnt get me at ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Alright, I'm not trying to negate your relationship or anything. What I have mentioned is the Aqua female and Libra male.
I presume Aqua male and Libra female is slightly better; in this it's the other way around - he gives in more. But Aqua men remind me of lightning (Can anyone say Ashton Kutcher?).

what I know is that Aqua females really prefer children and familial ties to romantic ones. except maybe if she has libra moon or something.

I'm glad you found someone to be comfortable/happy with. I suppose it's more friendship? Which is a very important element, as well.

"If an Aqua woman is not giving in to romance its probably because her Libra man is not giving her security to make her mind
relax so that she can be seduced! "

You know that's not true, Aqualeo. Aquarians won't ever be convinced - security or whatnot. You're so fixed it's crazy. Libra doesn't understand you won't ever see romance the same way as them.

"To me it feels like sitting on clouds and EVENTUALLY you will hit the ground HARD to reality. I can't and won't have that!"

Oh geez, you hit the ground in a different way, whether you wanna admit it or not! 😛

(I feel like i am speaking to an aqua i know when i speak to you, LOLz!)

It does not apply to all.

I think they are BIG liars and stay sick (hypochondriacs) all the damn time. They stretch the truth or don't tell the whole truth. i know TLB just said that but it needed to be said again run run run. Some Aquays I know are very careless with money too, but you will have a good time with them.

I think Libran men shouldn't chase Aqua women, because Aquas will never appreciate the partnership qualities of the Libra. If anything, they play perpetual hard to get, because lightning, can never be caught, nor does it want to be tied down. I have seen a Libran head over heels for an Aquarius. She just gives in to him, but she could never understand the partnership side. She's taken him for a ride that he can never escape from. Just give him little promises of affection, but I know that it's not and never what she wants.

But she will hang on to him in friendship, just like he hangs on to her in romantic fervour, just because his friendship means so much to her, as does her promises of partnership to him. Hahaha..so they hang on to each other, but not truly in the same fashion.

Damn Spica that one hurt. That's so true of me and my Aries, that's exactly how we are. Eye opener, WOW!!

I had one that was playing hard to get just in the dating stage, I didn't have the energy. I deleted her number out of my phone, so play with someone else.

Why are you still there? How long do you plan to stay in it? Have you told her about your concerns? It really wouldn't matter because they are so nonchalant about things. Start packing tonigt ...

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Posted by spica
I think Libran men shouldn't chase Aqua women, because Aquas will never appreciate the partnership qualities of the Libra. If anything, they play perpetual hard to get, because lightning, can never be caught, nor does it want to be tied down. I have seen a Libran head over heels for an Aquarius. She just gives in to him, but she could never understand the partnership side. She's taken him for a ride that he can never escape from. Just give him little promises of affection, but I know that it's not and never what she wants.

Oh its so so true what you've said spica. She really does play a game of "perpetual hard to get." I don't even know why she already "has" me. Aquarius women will do nothing but break your heart. They are as reckless as can be with their S/O's feelings. I have never felt so out of control, vulnerable/exposed, needy, and paranoid in a relationship in my entire life.

Aquarius women are female hardball PLAYERS. Libra men should stay far far away from them, before its too late!

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I've watched it in action, Libranbalance. I feel so sorry for the Libra man, but I don't interfere ever in others' relationships. She does not love him. She loves the man who is HARDER to get than her. AKA Taurus!!!!!!
The key to understanding this is to know the truth, what is happening, then make the best decision from there.
Ask yourself: Do you love HER, or do you love it when she mindfucks you?

Please remember that Aquarius does not have the same couplehood mindset as Libra. I don't think she will EVER have it. Maybe in spurts that last like 10 secs and that's it. It will then be all about HER freedom, her friendships and everything else in between. Ya know Aquarius pride themselves on independence so much so they brush off romance like a stray feather. There you have it. Aquarius are IN LOVE with their friends. They experience break ups with their friends. Not their lovers. they have no time for sap.

Posted by JOJOJO
Damn Spica that one hurt. That's so true of me and my Aries, that's exactly how we are. Eye opener, WOW!!

Aries is like Aquarius?

"I don't mind hitting the ground as long as its not being "led" whatever leading a Libra does on skewed reality that's what I will not accept!

If you haven't convinced your Aquarian he or she is not into you so move on"



Skewed reality is true reality in Libra's eyes. So you just proved right here that Aqua doesn't understand Libra!
I'm not seeing an Aqua at the moment. They've always been friendz only.

No, I was saying that's situation between my Aries and I. She loves me for friendship and can't stay away, but I love her for a relationship and I can't stay away. But sometimes she will acted as though she wants us to get back together, when she feels I'm losing interest. Didn't mean to impose on the Aquays thread.

Youre not imposing, Jojo. Feel free to post. How do you know it's only friendship to her, though? tbh, I don't understand the Aries love decision thing.

I think aqua??s are capable and committed partners but with this type its a matter of age and experience. I would have hated to have known my bf only 5 years ago because he admits that he treated women like crap. Believe me, he tried to to get away with murder with me too..and there were lies and games and issues but i never seemed to be in too deep, and that's what saved us!! I never asked him for anything..only walked away and he came back and has been(almost perfect) ever since. They change or make decisions inside themselves, nothing ANYONE including the bf or gf says will influence them in any way. Once they decide something..that's basically it.

I would say the problem with libra and aqua couples is stubborness..both possess it and use it to the bitter end!! We are expecting a baby now, and that makes it easier to get over stupid fallouts, but before we could go on for days, neither backing down or apologising. We are basically bf with benefits, he isnt my world or me his, but its nice to have each other and there's a lot of love if you have patience.

Because she's always preaching she don't go back to people she previously dated. But now that I've learned that sometimes they speak before thinking. I think she wants me to forget she ever said it, plus Firegirl has given me some really good advice. So I think we have a chance. She sent me a ringtone one time by Franly Beverly and Maze. The words were: I really love you, you should know. I want to make sure I'm right, before I let go.

That was sweet coming from her because she has a really really hard time saying emotional things. But just as you, I still have a hard time understanding Aries love as well.

Well Aqua is definitely the leader in this union; the drill seargeant, or commander. Because they're a fixed sign and libra has to follow them . I think Aqua is the one sign that can go through life alone and not feel lonely. They have enough friends to keep them busy and happy.

"Its a team not a blinding mission and if this doesnt make you happy move on."

This means, your way or no way. Who set the rules of the team?

"I would say the problem with libra and aqua couples is stubborness..both possess it and use it to the bitter end!! We are expecting a baby now, and that makes it easier to get over stupid fallouts, but before we could go on for days, neither backing down or apologising. We are basically bf with benefits, he isnt my world or me his, but its nice to have each other and there's a lot of love if you have patience."

Congrats Sola on your baby!!
I would say the Aqua man is still much better than the Taurus man. You will tear out your hair with their bricklaying decisions!

Whoa there are a lot of broken libra hearts in this thread...


I feel as if your spewing astrological stereotypes spica as oppose to personal experience.

TLB your girl is messed up waaaaaay beyond sun signs and you know it has very little to do with her birth date.

I will say there were a few points that seemed fitting such as libra POV and romanticism, but I don't feel aqua doesn't understand they just could do without the cliche's libra likes to embrace within romance.
We can play a little hard to get, but from an aqua ladies perspective it has little to do with our mate and more so to do with internal struggle.

Just as you feel aqua doesn't understand you...you clearly don't understand aqua.

i don't like spats but lady_m....you are dead right!

cliches of romance is what i, an aqua lady, HATE! know why? because it seems very insincere...and if there's one thing i don't like, and for the most part
other aquarians detest as well, its something that isn't true or honest. yes we are "in love with our friends" and that is why to be with an aquarius you must be their friend FIRST. so i don't think its that we dont understand romance. we just have a different way of approaching it.

what do i mean by cliches? well i used to tell my libra (ex) husband to never buy me flowers, cards, or chocolates. he probably thought that i was so unfeminine for this and unromantic...but i also told him instead of those things become more inventive! instead of chocolates how about blah blah or instead of flowers get me seeds and help me plant a garden....i don't know these are just examples...
the point is the stereotypical romance is not for aquas. we want you to think out of the box and be a little more surprising. i don't want the same crao that EVERY guy gets their wife/girlfriend. to me, that is so unthoughtful.

so again, im just pointing out that communication between these two signs is like two people speaking two different languages to each other! they just can't get the other one to understand them.
yet there is such a mind baffling attraction.....hmmmmm

Oh, Oh — this thread might have been made for someone like me.

I'm an Aquarian Sun Sign

Moon in Libra / Uranus in Libra / Pluto in Libra

I totally get the need for partnerships and I'm happy being a couple or being single. However, considering my Venus placement, it's probably a 60/40 split favoring a partnership. I love being romantic and its hard to do that alone.

Romance is one of the best parts of being in a relationship and I understand where Libras are coming from. But damn, the indecision and the —keep everything to myself?? until I??ve made up my mind can ruin it at times.

A big part of romance is spontaneity and doing the unexpected. The moment tends to disappear when you have to wait an eternity for a response or someone takes an eternity to put their own plan into action.

Honey, I remembered how much you said you liked traveling by horse and carriage — so as a surprise I booked us one. Well yup, but that was 50 years ago, I favor traveling by car these days.

I'm extremely patient - but even my patience is tested by Libras at times.

I think that the main attractive quality between the two is how easily they can be "on the same wavelength" with each other, especially when it comes to communicating and using intillect. There are obvious differences but for the most part Libra and Aquarius have a mutual admiration for what makes each other tick.

Personally I think past the natural inclination towards mutual curiosity and even admiration at the surface, beyond other surface attractions like physical beauty and disposition there really isn't much to work with in love compatibility.

Libras can't help but want to or try to give advice to people they care about. Aquarius can't help but to constantly lecture the people they care about in right and wrong. Sometimes I just shake my head at aquas. They come across to me in being more concerned about having a strong, decisive stance on things than actually being right or taking the time to recoginize the difference between right in principle and right for the person they are talking too.

Sometimes they are like the intillectual version of Leo...but without the pomp and circumstance.

My mom is an Aquarius and there were huge power struggles between the two of us growing up. Aqua and Libra power struggles are weird. She has never been able to win with me. Maybe battles here and there but unfortunately at one point we had to come to an understanding which was even though she is my mom and I love her, her likelyhood of remaining in my life is directly proportionate to her ability to take me for who I am and support me even if she doesn't think it is the "right thing to do".

Now we have a pretty good relationship but I still have to put things in perspective (put her in her place and I don't mean that in a negative way)from time to time.

She both worries about my abstract go with the flow nature and admires it. I can appreciate her practical, selfish nature for what it is but I don't envy it in any way.

I completely agree, I found Taurus, Capricorns with Air placements are a much better match.

I hate Aquarius freedom disdain for intimate relationships. They require so much freedom it makes me think astrologers have it completely off regarding out compatibility. Outside of a friendship there is no absolutely no compatibility long term with Aquar.

However Taurus really meets many of Libra needs.

Posted by feby
Not sure if it's true for myself as I'm libra dominant and do prefer to be chased

Libra is a masculine sign, you have a masculine dominated sign chart and you prefer to be chased?

I am in love with an Aqua girl. I m not sure if I am happy or down as of today. Feel surprised to see many other Libras are having similar issues with their Aquas.

After all I've been through with my Aqua, as of today, I think the most important thing we must have is LOVE to stay in a relationship with an Aqua. Because when you truly love her, you will have patience as some posters did point out. Of course it's so painful most of the time because Aqua did not value the deep care by Libras as some posters defined as "clingy".

Let me ask Aquas or any other sign: how could you be clingy to a person if you have no interest in that particular person? It's all about Love! And Love is magic and you cant explain!

lol @ this old ass thread.

Spica was one of the ones that went off on the deep end and got really unhinged. She let astrology skew her view on people WAY too much.

I wouldn't go around getting all crazy about quoting such an individual. She had some valid points, but considering how much it fucked her up, I wouldn't be abiding by her statements.

lol @ some of these old usernames.